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| 1 | [deleted by user]🤣 | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 04:13 PM |
| 7 | This is a video of me approaching my gym crush. I would always see her but was really afraid to approach her because I scared of rejection. Today I was like fuck it. I went up to her made my approach and got her number. You never know until you try guys.Creeper | /r/seduction | 18/12/19 12:25 AM |
| – | Essentials of Seduction & Pickup: Boyfriend Vibe vs. The Player VibeCorey Wayne's material helped me get to a new level of being a man and a more fun, confident guy. Then I liked "Atomic Attraction" and Bruce Bryans' What Women Want. Doc Love too. | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 07:12 AM |
| – | Essentials of Seduction & Pickup: Boyfriend Vibe vs. The Player VibeI do want to touch on this "player vibe" thing. You have to understand that some women who see you as a player from the start will be turned off because they have been played before. Food for thought. I do think this is a bigger problem with immature and low-intelligence women. | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 07:04 AM |
| 106 | Essentials of Seduction & Pickup: Boyfriend Vibe vs. The Player VibeIn my experience, her talking about herself more than you about you, particularly in beginning, is critical for three vital reasons. A) She won't get done with date 1 and reflect back to thinking of how you talked all about yourself like an egomaniac. B) You will maintain some mysteriousness which builds wonder in her mind. C) People love talking about themselves, and so getting her talking about herself more facilitates her having a better time. | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 06:59 AM |
| – | If one girl isnt working out, just move on to the next girl.Not true. It happened to me long ago. If you display weakness enough times, they lose attraction. You gotta learn to be a MAN in order to keep it right. | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 06:45 AM |
| 1 | If one girl isnt working out, just move on to the next girl.Granted that it is harder in a small town, I agree. A man must keep hunting. Always. Until he's secured the woman he wants. | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Secrets of seduction : written by an actual woman.Indeed, a lot comes down to being a badass and a classy gentleman at the same time. | /r/seduction | 10/12/19 02:18 AM |
| 2 | That’s it. I’m going out tomorrow nightI agree here. You do have to go chat with people. You HAVE to. Smile. Say hey. A lot ou f people figure you're a happy drunk anyway. Get the most out of it. Last time I did this was 3 weeks ago and I ended up connecting with a hot redhead. As it goes, "You never know until you go." | /r/seduction | 08/12/19 04:50 AM |
| 2 | That’s it. I’m going out tomorrow nightHell yeah. This may influence me to get off my ass tonight, though I've been up since 4:30 a.m. | /r/seduction | 08/12/19 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Getting Laid Will Not Solve Your ProblemsI've gone from big to small twice. Grew up in a metropolis. Dating has always taken a hit. But we just deal with that because it's not top priority. | /r/seduction | 04/11/19 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Getting Laid Will Not Solve Your ProblemsWe are similar with respect to moving, but I haven't had people move away from me- I've generally been the one to go. Yes, I mostly agree with you. For example when I was in a bigger city I was in an exercise group. It was great meeting up with everyone once a week. And sometimes outside of the group some of us would hang out. A couple people I'm even still in touch with from that. But I think we all need to keep in mind that some people are out in BFE where what you propose may be much more cha… | /r/seduction | 04/11/19 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Getting Laid Will Not Solve Your ProblemsYeah- he had friends though. I'm simply saying a large pool ain't necessary for some, in my opinion. | /r/seduction | 04/11/19 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Getting Laid Will Not Solve Your ProblemsJames Bond was never much of a social butterfly. Some of us don't need as large a social circle as others, in order to be happy, to cultivate relationships, etc. But it's important to have friends, whether they're near or far. I will vouch for that. | /r/seduction | 04/11/19 12:11 AM |
| 0 | Friend used me for sex to rebound. Caught feelings but she got back with her ex. Any advice to get over her.Downvote from me, Truth man! Reminds me of a high school bully wanting to make himself feel better by picking on others. | /r/seduction | 26/10/19 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Friend used me for sex to rebound. Caught feelings but she got back with her ex. Any advice to get over her.So you got some feelings for her- it's a war out here. Keep dating. Stick to the mission while she does her on-again, off-again nonsense. Don't accept her if she comes back either. Find something new and exciting. | /r/seduction | 26/10/19 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Thinking of going out Every Saturday to game and here’s my plan to get rid of Anxiety. What do you think? I’m not allowed to return home until i complete them.Don't taper the talking to girls. If you ask less for directions, compliment more when talking about directions. Keep the # total the same each day, in my opinion. | /r/seduction | 19/10/19 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Guys I fucked up so hard todayYou are learning, young grasshopper. You can stop being so hard on yourself now. Go out there and ask women out. Do it despite your hesitations, your heart racing, you doubting yourself. You will get to a whole new level that all too many men won't ever even touch. | /r/seduction | 17/10/19 01:14 AM |
| 7 | When A Woman FLAKES: Golden Opportunity To Build ATTRACTIONI agree. You gotta show humanness with these types of reasons as to why she can't hang. | /r/seduction | 14/10/19 05:54 AM |
| 1 | If you find it “weird” or “creepy” to approach women, READ THIS! If you want to successfully approach women, you must normalize the fact that approaching others is entirely normal. This first step starts with YOU.I love approaching women, striking something up, or just asking them out right away if it's a hurried situation. More guys should since so many chicks want to find love off of the internet. Each rejection is just abother step toward what I'm looking for. | /r/seduction | 09/10/19 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Casually Explained: Is She Into You?What is this? | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Can we get an F in the chat for the guy who was randomly given my number instead of the girl he was talking to last night😂😂😂 | /r/seduction | 30/09/19 04:08 AM |
| 3 | Anyone else find alternative/artsy girls more receptive and easier to talk to?I think a lot of that may be in your mind. I've gotten numbers from both types. But you may be more compatible with the hipsters, which could have a tremendous amount to do with your ease with them. Keep it up and still don't shy away from breaking out of the comfort zone that is hippy women approaching when you see a hottie who looks otherwise! | /r/seduction | 26/09/19 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Ladies and gentlemen, I fucked up.I personally would've went on kissing her saying in a smooth and humorous way, "Friends can kiss and be intimate though." Then if she resisted, I would've kicked her out then most likely. Ultimately, however, you kicking her out may very well have you running through her head right now. You weren't some nice guy who would do anything to have her in your bed. Be proud of that! | /r/seduction | 25/09/19 01:10 AM |
| 1 | I met a PUA in real life and his advice was: Approach, Isolate, KissYou'll be a better man if you get over that. Approach beautiful women enough times at grocery stores, coffee shops, book stores with your heart racing so you get used to that pressure and get on a whole new level. | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 09:44 PM |
| 6 | Saw a girl whoes exactly my type and did the approachYes, this is wise. I have had women say they didn't date or were kind of seeing someone that's been on and off, in which case I threw out this line: "Well how bout I give you my number and you think about it some." Nothing converted, but still. Made the effort. Of course it takes judgement to be able to sense how serious they are with what they're saying. Either way though, action is key. Nice job again. | /r/seduction | 19/09/19 06:51 AM |
| 1 | Saw a girl whoes exactly my type and did the approachTrue, well written words sir. To have that hunger to not let yourself down--it's more rare than people think. I knew I had gotten far beyond my fears once I was striking up something with women in coffee shops who are sitting down while I'm standing up. They're all crowded too by people on each side of them. These are fun. You just strike something up and let the nosey bystanders listen to true game. | /r/seduction | 19/09/19 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Any advice for a 21 year old virgin?If I were your coach, I'd say read Atomic Attraction and report back to us afterward. | /r/seduction | 02/09/19 09:03 PM |
| 1 | What is an attractive way to act with women who have rejected you, or you've tried unsuccessfully with?A number of women are at the gym who ive asked out. Just stand tall. If yall make eye contact, grin and nod, and even ask hows it goin? Have a smooth swagger figured out in your walk too, so you dont look awkward. | /r/seduction | 23/08/19 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Is this a weird first date?Just do it bro. Have fun with it, hang out, and hook up if it's flowin' like that | /r/seduction | 22/08/19 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Everybody sucks before doing 100 approaches. Don't complain, approach.Yessir. Just like performing on stage, if you want the benefits of having the types of cojones to walk up to ANY woman, you gotta earn your stripes. | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Finally! I've done it ! I approach 2 girls today at lunchIt's imperative that you throw in, "Well it was good chatting, but I gotta go. What's your number and we'll do it again sometime." Of course variations exist, but ypu going on the limb and risking rejection is what this game is all about. Single women will often recognize the confidence, which will have them giving the number with ease. Just keep doing it and see what I mean. | /r/seduction | 09/08/19 12:15 AM |
| 2 | Self Fulfilling MindsetThe better respinse wouldve been, you need to reverse that mode of thinking | /r/seduction | 06/07/19 09:02 PM |
| 6 | What To Say After "Hey": A Beginner's Guide to Flirting (SATIC Principal)Quit trippin. If shes attracted, its gonna happen with minimal texting. In other words, just chat as you would in person, never double-tap, and if yall get to the date, the rest can be history | /r/seduction | 05/07/19 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Help me! What should I reply?Def forget it w her unless she shows greater interest | /r/seduction | 04/07/19 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls say they don't like gym pictures on Tinder, when that seems not to be the case in the majority of girls?Im not sure how accurate the statement is. Really, a gym girl will post pics of her in gym, and she may be attracted to guy-in-gym pics | /r/seduction | 30/06/19 01:00 AM |
| 1 | This is what happened when I posed as a semi-attractive girl on tinder for a little over 8 hours, I give up on life lolIf you let the online go and start goin the old-fashioned way, you'll have a major advantage over the competition. | /r/seduction | 27/06/19 09:54 PM |
| 5 | My Relationship Killed my Game and Then my RelationshipYou gotta keep the attraction up, and if you don't know how, you gotta start readin how because youre not a natural. Corey Wayne, Doc Love are both faves of mine. Best of luck | /r/seduction | 25/06/19 09:38 PM |
| 15 | Why didn't she do X?This is the mindset: If she doesn't reciprocate, move on. Unlimited women are out here. I know it's easy to want to dwell on the woman who went silent. Been there. But it's wasyed energy after a point. Spend that energy on new prospects. | /r/seduction | 08/06/19 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Forever Alone XDThe "slaying" probably has nothing to do with your buddy's question. I see a lot of success as well, and I don't ask more personal questions until after a couple dates. Answers such as "My bf died, so..." etc. are too heavy for my liking up front. | /r/seduction | 27/05/19 09:32 PM |
| -1 | Forever Alone XDI respecfully disagree. The key is starting some enjoyable convo via exchange of a handful of messages, then converting to meeting up. | /r/seduction | 27/05/19 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Forever Alone XDWhy you on Tinder? Bad question, imo. | /r/seduction | 27/05/19 08:30 PM |
| 1 | If you're ever worried about your success rate just remember every day you don't approach your rate is 0%Not always true. Statistically many hot women are taken. Especially in smaller towns. | /r/seduction | 29/04/19 05:25 AM |
| 1 | If you're ever worried about your success rate just remember every day you don't approach your rate is 0%You mean your conversion rate is 0%. Keep going. I've had no luck with probably 15 women in the past few weeks, but I refuse to let up. Edit: I got one number out of them, I meant. Hashtag keep pounding bro. | /r/seduction | 29/04/19 05:24 AM |
| 2 | Took your advice, first time out and girls approach me?!It's very easy when alcohol is involved particularly. Tonight I went to meet a chick downtown and a dude had a cool hat on. "Cool hat, man. You probably been hearin' that all night, huh?" "Not really." He had had a few by this point. Etc. We exchanged info by the end of our conversation. I'm probably more lone wolf than the OP, but it was odd to read this tonight after being new to the town I'm in too. Can't go wrong with living free and having confidence day to day. | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 06:32 AM |
| 3 | Took your advice, first time out and girls approach me?!Yes, need us not sit around and think we need to be 8's, 9's, 10's to get the women. Looks count to get the top-echelon women out there, but they count less than men seem to think. But certain truths are real, such as obesity tends to repel. Morbidly obese men will never get a woman who's conventionally smokin' hot (like Maxim-model hot), except in extreme circumstances that I honestly can't imagine. Us men must live our purposes in the world by taking good care of ourselves in the process, whic… | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 06:10 AM |
| 3 | [FR] I have approached 15 girls this week on campus.Let us not quibble about semantics. If you want to start approaching women, go to places where many are known to go. Maybe statistically you'll find a "quality" woman at Whole Foods more often that at WalMart. But the many billions in revenue that WalMart sees annually is not coming just from the pockets of "trashy" people. Try this: The next time you're talking to a bombshell, ask her if she's ever been to WalMart. | /r/seduction | 13/04/19 01:00 AM |
| 1 | [FR] I have approached 15 girls this week on campus.Plenty of beautiful, quality women go to Walmart. You probably need to live some more life and see for yourself. | /r/seduction | 12/04/19 10:32 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I have approached 15 girls this week on campus.Grocery store, Walmart, any store. Marshall's, malls, Ross, TJMax etc. | /r/seduction | 12/04/19 04:57 AM |
| 2 | [FR] I have approached 15 girls this week on campus.There you go man. You can do it. You gotta not be lazy more often than not, and then you can do many amazing things that'll bring you to new heights you never thought possible. | /r/seduction | 12/04/19 04:55 AM |
| 6 | [FR] I have approached 15 girls this week on campus.A lighter way is, "You caught my eye, and so I wanted to say hey." | /r/seduction | 12/04/19 04:53 AM |
| 1 | [FR] I have approached 15 girls this week on campus.I'm on the other side that says keep your distance and have some mysteriousness. Don't let a woman think you have all this time for her. You are pursuing your purpose first and foremost | /r/seduction | 12/04/19 04:47 AM |
| 3 | [FR] I have approached 15 girls this week on campus.If you have some hint of physical fitness, don't use your "rating" or anything else as an excuse to avoid approaching women who take your breath away | /r/seduction | 12/04/19 04:43 AM |
| 3 | [FR] I have approached 15 girls this week on campus.Right. You need to thoroughly investigate them with an official background check to make sure they're not lying to you. Lol. Who cares if they're lying? Next! | /r/seduction | 12/04/19 04:37 AM |
| 1 | [FR] I have approached 15 girls this week on campus.If you want to be like the sheep, then why aren't you in the middle of the herd where we can't get you? We'll make you one of us otherwise. | /r/seduction | 12/04/19 04:33 AM |
| 1 | [FR] I have approached 15 girls this week on campus.Good job, young grasshopper. | /r/seduction | 12/04/19 04:30 AM |
| 3 | Asked a beautiful girl out at my gymNot bad, but the Facebook/social media thing seems the antithesis of mysteriousness. I'd go for the number always. | /r/seduction | 08/04/19 05:56 AM |
| 7 | Asked a beautiful girl out at my gymNot always true. A little chit-chat and in a few good dates two people are likely to be in bed together. | /r/seduction | 08/04/19 05:48 AM |
| 5 | Asked a beautiful girl out at my gymNice job going in for it. Just stay completely natural and learn more about attraction. Don't hesitate to give her a little grin the next time y'all make eye contact. Say hey if you're near. Don't show any awkwardness and she'll have a lot of respect for you. If and when her guy starts showing weaknesses, you may be the first on her mind. I just read Atomic Attraction. I highly recommend it. Either way, keep up the ballsy work. | /r/seduction | 08/04/19 05:42 AM |
| 4 | How To Make Her Notice You: a guide to gaming girls at the gym, work or collegeYou have to see them between sets. I walked up to two attractive women as they were chatting between sets and said something like, "I wanted to say hey to y'all because I see y'all all the time in here. My name is..." etc. Nothing happened between either if them and me, but we waved at each other or briefly chatted each time in the gym afterward. We had talked about a group of us going out, but I was tied up with other women at the time, so I passed on the opportunity. Then the hotter of the two… | /r/seduction | 06/04/19 12:22 AM |
| 5 | How To Make Her Notice You: a guide to gaming girls at the gym, work or collegeI disagree with some of this. For example, social media. Granted I'm in my 30's, some men prefer a more private, mysterious life, and many women find such men captivating. Secondly, the loud 'n proud suggestion I don't buy. Plenty of beautiful women are with quieter, James Bond-like men. Confidence and social skills seem the ultimate key. The rest falls into place. | /r/seduction | 06/04/19 12:11 AM |
| 1 | When a Girl says she has a boyfriend...Intriguing. I'm not sure about this, but it depends, I suppose. I don't like to linger after approaching, but I may still need to get my groceries, coffee, etc. I remember a barista at a coffee place. She has to be in the top 1% of hottest women I've ever seen, and I asked her maybe after a few visits to that location if she was seeing anyone. This was before I learned it's better to just ask her out. She said she was, and while I was still waiting on my coffee, I caught her with a look on her f… | /r/seduction | 05/04/19 04:31 AM |
| 6 | How do you guys deal with a girl rudely telling you “fuck off” or “walk away?” Do you just awkwardly retreat? Seems it puts you in a weird predicament either wayShe doesn't want to be messed with, and she's bitchy about it. Not my type of woman. I'd turn and walk away with a smile on my face. | /r/seduction | 31/03/19 06:17 AM |
| 6 | Texting AdviceThis is nonsense. The human population would quickly plummet if your claim were true. Women are looking for a diamond in a rough. And the guys who blow their phones up are a dime a dozen. The busy guys who can be cool at the same time are what they want most. Early on, a man will do best by focusing on keeping communications limited to setting up a date. Of course that doesn't mean he can't be funny and cool while doing so, but if the woman needs a comedian who's got to keep her entertained via … | /r/seduction | 31/03/19 06:09 AM |
| 3 | First Cold Approach!Malls can be amazing places for this. I was in one in a major city, and I asked out 10 in a couple hours. All shot me down, but it was fun. I was using the rushed approach of something like, "Hey I'm in a hurry right now, but you caight my eye and so I wanted to say hey and that we should grab a drink sometime if your situation allows." It was something like that. Either way, just capitalize on your momentum and let it all hang out. I asked a chick out at the bank the other day because she kept … | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Movement in Any Direction is Better Than Standing StillNice observation. I personally have grown to love the excitement of chatting up a beautiful woman I'm intrigued by. More guys would do well to just go for it. Get a brief convo going, and then, "Well nice chattin' with you. Depending on your situation, we should exchange numbers and hang out sometime." If it's a rushed situation, "I couldn't help but notice you from across the way, and I wanted to say that we should hang out sometime if your situation allows." | /r/seduction | 27/03/19 12:15 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]If you let the lows knock you out of the game, you won't get to experience the highs waiting for you up ahead. Pretty sure you stole that one from Warren Buffet ;) Good job on the personal development. Admirable observations. | /r/seduction | 18/03/19 01:02 AM |
| 2 | You eating at a diner, and you see a girl sitting next to you, eating alone. It's Friday night. She doesn't have a bf. Do you go talk to her? Or hope she gives you signs of interest first?Hey man, you did good by considering it. Your confidence is waiting for you to let it out. Many guys wouldn't even consider it. So as another said, don't beat yourself up. Now you learn how to take action. If she shows signs of interest or not doesn't matter. I've walked up to many women at random to talk to them. If you are thinking about it, then just go for it. Ask something. One relationship began in the cleaning aisle of a market with the question, "Hey, have you ever used organic cleaner?"… | /r/seduction | 15/03/19 11:24 PM |
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