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You broke that down well.
/r/seduction31/07/24 07:26 PM
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You broke it down well. I feel like I can do this, especially after getting into a groove and becoming desensitized to the rejection. + I actually own a copy of models but I heard it’s more for those who have all of their other sh*t in order. Just a follow up. So let’s say things go well, meaning at the very least she’s nice and her energy is receptive towards mine. How would you personally close the deal and get her phone number?
/r/seduction31/07/24 07:24 PM
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So how do I cold approach?
/r/seduction31/07/24 07:02 PM
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I would like to cold approach like my life depended on it I hear your message loud and clear. But be honest. Are you conventionally attractive in the face? And skinny is literally in season right now. Fat will never be. 5’7 skinny will always be better than 5’7 obese.
/r/seduction31/07/24 06:54 PM
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Absolutely I know. Work on myself/ self improvement. Is the only way. But what I’m saying is in this: in this culture where where cold approaching women is frowned upon, plus they’ll probably be with a friend in the first place where I can’t even get the opportunity to talk to them. If I accidentally lock eyes with a women 100% of the time they’ll look away and avoid looking in my direction. So in that context what am I to do if I want intimacy while I’m working on myself? And if I happen to app…
/r/seduction31/07/24 06:27 PM
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Making a nice group of friends is easier said than done after college. I’m feeling like I’ve literally ruined my life and it’s over.
/r/seduction14/04/24 02:39 PM
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How
/r/seduction14/04/24 02:37 PM
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I’m always in my head
/r/seduction14/04/24 01:32 PM
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And idk how to make a change
/r/seduction14/04/24 01:32 PM
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Exactly. My personality currently does not exude any type of sexual attraction.
/r/seduction14/04/24 01:31 PM
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Well damn. I’m anti-social with everyone else as well. Even more so with women
/r/seduction14/04/24 01:30 PM
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This is a good comment. Needed to hear that. **Long story short is that I was very, very, very, very wrong to assume that. I allowed my physical appearance to take precidence over the frankly insane accomplishments and experiences my life has included that made up the rest of me as a person. Attraction matters for sex. Just as BBW is a porn category, some women don't mind a fat bloke. Especially if he's a fat bloke who makes them feel good and valued and respected and when appropriate - sexy. Th…
/r/seduction14/04/24 01:29 PM
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I’m in the process! I’m just trying to build something while I’m still in my first form
/r/seduction14/04/24 01:19 PM
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Yes I’m definitely working on myself. I’m in therapy, in the gym working on getting my career in motion etc. but I’m 28 and never been on a date. I believe at this point I gotta put myself out there and get over my anxiety and fears And face them until they become less scary. And we’re humans, we still have needs.
/r/seduction14/04/24 04:31 AM
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Thanks for the advice. I’m super paranoid with how I move because I’d hurt somebody if I caught something from them. Even with an LTR, I’d want to tell her that we both get tested together because I don’t play that.
/r/newTRP27/07/22 02:03 AM
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