NYCuws77 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	I got ghosted after the second date at my place and I would like feedback. agreed.. the Ick is the point of no return	/r/TheRedPill	10/07/23 04:43 PM
1	I got ghosted after the second date at my place and I would like feedback. this sums it up. Excellent advice.	/r/TheRedPill	10/07/23 09:36 AM
1	I got ghosted after the second date at my place and I would like feedback. this could be it .. boring or just 'off' aka .. panicked/awkward .. I think the backpack on her lap and the 'rush for the door' ---was the latter. Putting on really great music and challenging her to push ups or somethingelse that doesn't require 'lectures' --- just fun and competition which can be playful etc.	/r/TheRedPill	10/07/23 09:34 AM
4	I got ghosted after the second date at my place and I would like feedback. agree with last paragraph -- also if she has body issues or not fully comfortable in her body.. she probably felt way too much attention to her 'muscle' groups' and felt over-analyzed. Better to take focus off of her and work out in tandem with some good music.. kept it fun. Better yet -- skip the work out, its too much of a private thing for some people.	/r/TheRedPill	10/07/23 09:32 AM
3	I got ghosted after the second date at my place and I would like feedback. respectfully disagree, bumble (at least where i am) is full of relationship seeking women. I think she just got the panic/nervous vibes from him and thought he was off. OP will learn from his mistakes and do better.	/r/TheRedPill	10/07/23 09:30 AM
3	I got ghosted after the second date at my place and I would like feedback. totally.. and look, if you sense her panicking and rushing for door.. never try to physically make a move then. Im sure you've learned this though. I did chuckle at "do or die" -- i legit think she thought she was the one going to die in that apartment. Just work on relaxing and laughing and keeping it chill.. gotta calm those nerves as it leads to panic and panic is contagious -- she put her backpack on her lap because she felt your panic/nerves and sensed something was off.	/r/TheRedPill	10/07/23 09:29 AM
5	I got ghosted after the second date at my place and I would like feedback. thats ok' .. you are willing to learn and posting here for honest feedback was good move. You'll get better.	/r/TheRedPill	10/07/23 09:25 AM
2	I got ghosted after the second date at my place and I would like feedback. after the date.. culminating with the awkward panicked.. 'grab and kiss' on way out .. it wouldn't have mattered if he'd invited her to dinner with the King of England.. she was going to ghost him. So many things... but the "i'd hit it" referring to transgender (even speaking like that) is already going to turn off a woman. Just say "im completely open minded, i proritize a connection first.. " -- and then change the subject.. no need to devulge anymore.	/r/TheRedPill	10/07/23 09:23 AM
2	What escorts taught me. there's a lot of grey area in there...im sure the vast majority see it as 'work' and simply perform in order to get repeat business. If they 'enjoyed' it that much.. they wouldn't be charging you:). Its a job, like most people dont love or hate their job, its just 'meh' and there to pay the bills.	/r/TheRedPill	03/05/23 06:30 PM
3	What escorts taught me. More 'love' into your lovemaking with your FWB? :)	/r/TheRedPill	03/05/23 09:25 AM
20	What escorts taught me. i think the point is a regular girl is there because of ATTRACTION/desire of you .. (your point about caring about you if you 'lose your job etc is implying some sort of relationship) -- we're talking about sex. If shes there without pay shes assumably attracted and into you -- at least your body in that moment.. If shes being paid, shes probably lying there counting down the minutes til she can get the hell out of there.	/r/TheRedPill	03/05/23 09:21 AM