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Whatever man these girls are so weird. I mean what you gonna do if you took the comment more seriously anyways? I know it kinda hurts but just move on and don't think about it
/r/seduction22/06/26 03:18 AM
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How old is she? Probably young. So many of these girls are cooked bro. Probably got sucked into her phone remembered the fake reality of online and distorted her views, standards and optionally. ORRR She just has a bf. Orrr it got stale and the mystery disappeared after sitting together for so long. I feel when you first meet someone ideally it's like a 15-30 minute interaction so you maintain mystery and can let the idea of you grow in her mind like a seed. I could also be completely wrong thou…
/r/seduction22/06/26 03:12 AM
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Means you probably could of slept with her second date if you wanted to. Be more flirty and sexual and push the pace. Stop being a punanni
/r/seduction18/06/26 02:47 PM
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I just had a girl come back to my place yesterday. I litterally just said wanna come back to my place and drive my racing sim. We were just having alotnof fun and she was horned up and laughing alot so it was an easy pull. Lots of chemistry. It's like when you have a male friend and you guys are just having alotnof fun. Just mix in some romance and sexual tension and it's hard to go wrong at that point
/r/seduction08/06/26 11:24 PM
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I sleep with one or two girls a week if I'm putting effort into dating apps. Honestly man, I find it more convenient to just jerk it in my room, all peaceful with no risk of an STD. Don't have to spend money and have mediocre sex with a average looking girl with probably a stanky pussy. Mostly cause I'd rather save time and money. But if she's hot than it's worth it. Scoring a hot girl is more infrequent though.
/r/seduction03/04/26 04:48 PM
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As normal a bunch of horrible advice
/r/seduction30/03/26 04:41 PM
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I pretty much have the exact same issue with same exact experience. I think out of those 30 girls, 90% are probably below your standards but you only realise till it's in person. With these modern phones and filters people gain a 30% attraction boost lol. I remember when I was single before my ex, much less of this went on. I went on way less dates but a way higher percentage of the type of women I would actually want to see. Also there's hoeflation
/r/seduction09/01/26 12:05 AM
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Yeah bro I did the exact same shit. I think it comes from subconsciously wanting to pick up where you left off with an ex. You feel you can just open up completely and show them the real you to connect with them on a deeper level. My rule now is I let her escalate. First few dates I always keep everything surface level and fun. After a while when she is deeply curious about a certain aspect then open up about that one thing only. Over the months and years she will slowly uncover things about you…
/r/seduction24/10/25 05:19 AM
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You have to create a dynamic where she is the one chasing. Maybe you're opening up too much and not allowing some mystery. A girl will subconsciously think she has figured you out and lose interest in you. I think the idea is to let the allure and mystery gradually fade thoughout the early stages of dating. More like after 10-15 dates, instead of 2-3. Unfortunately you have to keep your guard up for longer than you think. Also always stay playful, bold and unpredictable. The looks get you in the…
/r/seduction24/10/25 04:41 AM
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Girls are going to take advantage of receiving resources (dinner, attention, etc) when they can get it. Same way men will take advantage of sex when they can get it. It's just how you play the game. Don't show all your cards.
/r/seduction17/10/25 02:48 AM
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Bruh you're a ret@rd 😂 No girl wants to come over immediately before getting to know you. Go out on an inexpensive date. If she insists on some high end classy shit, pass. Very obvious she just doing this for the perks and not you. Ghost her ass, she's looking to get another expensive date out of you. Don't do this shit again. Jesus man.
/r/seduction07/10/25 11:11 PM
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So true. With a girl that isn't as attractive, I'm not even nervous and can talk all day. If they're hot, I think the canned lines would be a godsend to at least open the conversation up more. I got stuck on one thread about fucking coffee mugs 🤦
/r/seduction03/10/25 07:46 PM
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Online dating. And I knowwww. Lesson learned. I went into it thinking way too highly of her
/r/seduction03/10/25 07:41 PM
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Who cares bruh just go to the party. Be excited towards the idea with her. Her friends get priority over you and that's okay. If this was 6 months then hold frame and your ground. But 2 weeks? Come on man. Go have fun. A great opportunity for you to connect and win her friends over more as well.
/r/seduction24/09/25 03:27 AM
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Night game? Usually something observational or something crazy that happened to me recently. But I'll frame it like it just happened. Honestly you can think of openers before you go out and use them. Mystery method has a few good ones. Like the one about a fight or something.
/r/seduction12/09/25 11:19 PM
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There you go. I'd say 95% of the girls I approach didn't give me eye contact or any sort of indicator of interest. I recommend you go into a set not full blown hitting on them. Approach them as a friend so you can't really even be blown out. After that calibrate and escalate as you get IOI's.
/r/seduction12/09/25 06:24 PM
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Bruh that means you're doing something wrong you're unaware of. Assuming you're dressed well, smiling and not approaching sets that are smoke shows. You should do decent. Meaning not every set you open are going to be receptive but it'll be a decent 30-40% positive reception. Your approach is probably not good. You could be lingering around the group building courage rather than just approaching right away. Women see this and it greatly lowers your value. Maybe you're not smiling, bad posture, b…
/r/seduction12/09/25 05:46 PM
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People blaming the girl but I see that as you haven't built enough comfort and she's unsure about the whole thing. Simply have more conversation with her and make her feel more comfortable. At least that's what I would of done. The best move would to just be call her and chat for 15 or 20 minutes. That's assuming she picks up. But if she does she's definitely not flaking after that.
/r/seduction12/09/25 05:39 PM
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Bare black man's crushing in Toronto. Try going to better venues with r&b and hiphop. Maybe your approach needs work. There's alot of factors I can't see that I'm sure you can improve on.
/r/seduction10/09/25 03:39 PM
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Damn bro. I'm 6'2 Arab that's white appearing. I was in constant relationships through my 20's. Been single now for about a year and I can confidently tell you dating in general has gotten way worse. Girls are soooo flakey and weird. Dating apps or in person. Dating apps though are absolutely useless unless you are finding bottom of the barrel, sea monsters. Honestly if you dress well and take care of yourself, being a 6'4 black dude, you should be good. My black friends are crushing but they go…
/r/seduction10/09/25 03:20 PM
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Start talking to her in a friendly way and escalate slow based on her indicators of interest. Since she's your boss play the long game and be patient
/r/seduction09/09/25 03:28 AM
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Yeah so true. But also when my dating profile sucked. I would try soooo hard on the very infrequent, decent looking girl I matched with. Now that my profile improved, I just don't care nearly as much if I match with an attractive girl because it happens way more often. Therefore put way less effort. I can imagine for a girl it's like this but 100x
/r/seduction08/09/25 10:52 PM
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Honestly bro, I've wondered the same thing. After being on dating apps for a while and getting alot of matches. I kind of just lose energy and get too lazy. Even if the girls kinda hot and the convos whatever, I just stop feeling like replying. It's weird but probably some form of burnout. The longer I'm on dating apps, the shorter my patience.
/r/seduction08/09/25 07:40 PM
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Bro has never been with a girl. Why would you ever ask what she's looking for 😂
/r/seduction03/09/25 07:25 PM
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Dawg next time she's texting you be like hey can't text now, let's talk in person. What you're going through must be tough blah blah. Either meet at your place, if that's too direct meet up at a place very close to your home. If you meet up near your home. Make sure to be super touchy feely during the date but make sure you are reading the signs, don't be creepy or do too much. Anyways, at one point of the date mention how during your breakup this one movie really made you feel better. Or any ot…
/r/seduction03/09/25 07:24 PM
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Send the screenshots
/r/seduction28/08/25 11:44 PM
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You can know all the tactics but it's how and when they're implemented. Every convo has a different vibe so it's not cookie cutter. You're probably doing worse now cause you're using a new tool box and haven't figured out yet how to implement it correctly. Just keep trying soldier and the important part is to learn from your mistakes. Also keep in mind, expect flakeyness no matter what. It's a numbers game.
/r/seduction28/08/25 07:58 PM
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Too direct too soon, saying you want to go on a car ride is a strange suggestion. Build comfort, keep building comfort till you get a IOI or two, THAN initiate a meet up suggestion. Like coffee or drinks. Maybe a solid 20 minutes of hitting multiple topics than suggest a meet up.
/r/seduction28/08/25 07:47 PM
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When I stopped taking Cialis and after that month I was laying pipe like a porn star
/r/seduction26/08/25 02:10 PM
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So he's probably not interested anymore
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/25 01:34 AM
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In his eyes he probably thinks he's invested enough into you to get something more in return. I don't know if he tried to escalate things intimately but if it hasn't and you two have been talking for that long, he would most likely of gotten bored and frustrated. Potentially moved on to someone else.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/25 04:43 AM
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Nice bro. Day game closes always going to be higher quality IMO. So ROI is better. If you miss the chaos of the nightlife maybe take a girl you got from your day game and go out with her and her friends. Or find some friends that are down to go out at night. Personally going out solo becomes more trying to chop girls instead of having fun although of course you can have fun soloing. But ya overall you probably not missing out on alot, just FOMO.
/r/seduction25/08/25 04:39 AM
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Yes 100%. When I first started dating my ex I had ED. I started taking a very small dose of Cialis before I saw her. Subsequently after that, I took less and less of a dosage for about a month before I saw her. After a month of no porn and some help from Cialis I was at 100%. You can do it without Cialis but that may be a rough month while you're body is readjusting.
/r/seduction25/08/25 02:26 AM
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Absolutely not. There is about a month adjustment period. After 2 months of no porn you slinging dick like a pornstar. I know what you're saying though, logically you'd think it should make you last longer. But actually you're just training yourself to nut fast whether you realise or not. Personally I find jerking it to my imagination and absolutely no porn the best combo.
/r/seduction01/08/25 12:45 AM
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Stop watching porn
/r/seduction31/07/25 03:33 PM
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Anal
/r/seduction19/06/25 10:17 PM
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100%. I don't smoke but I'll chill outside a club or bar and that's when I make the most connections. People are talking about cancer as if they ain't drinking or inhaling second hand smoke either way lol You right
/r/seduction15/06/25 10:09 PM
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I dunno dude. What mg were you getting. Just cut it in half and next time you go get a smaller dosage. Point is wean yourself off
/r/seduction11/06/25 02:31 PM
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Next time you have sex take half a Cialis. Time after that a quarter. Then again a quarter. If your boners are strong, take a 1/8th then. Eventually get to a tiny nibble. If you're still good then don't take anything at all.
/r/seduction11/06/25 02:28 PM
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Hahaha nah, can't. Her name's under the tickets and she's already paid.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/22 10:29 PM
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I did litterally break up with her once for doing it. And then she begged and cried to get back together. I think she thinks she's slick but she's not.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/22 10:28 PM
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Trust me I know but we had a trip booked from months ago.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/22 10:26 PM
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Haha I know. Some life events made it very difficult but I will do it after her birthday
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/22 10:20 PM
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Thanks for the input. I don't understand why someone would do that to someone they care about..
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/22 10:20 PM
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If he has a new job he may be understandably irrationally minded towards it at first. When someone gets a new job there's a reason why they are extremely on point with everything. Because deep down they don't want to lose it and make good first impressions. Maybe deep down there is a 1% chance he feels like giving you his work phone number may cause you to use it one day and get him in trouble. He probably wants everything in his control when it comes to his new job. I would say just respect his…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/22 01:05 PM
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Next time there's some semi formal event of any type. Tell him to come shopping and have him try something on and just buy it for him commence original plan
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/22 11:16 PM
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Next time you go shopping with him pick out some clothes you want him to try on. When he does compliment him alot and he will buy them. After that be like baby you look so good in form fitting clothes you need to wear that more often!! And build from there
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/22 11:11 PM
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Omg I got down voted to hell lol. Anyways, just be like, "hey you left your YouTube open and I see you're into lingerie (or whatever that girl was wearing). I caughtcha" wink wink.. just keep it light and make it seem like you don't really care. If he demands how you saw just say it came up on his recommendations. Now that it's brought up you can talk about it either then and there or down the line. But KEEP it light don't take it personally. Like I said all guys are perves some just do a better…
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/22 10:59 PM
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It's fine, your man's a perv just like every other man on the planet. If you really want to, bring it up in a joking way but becareful if he gets defensive, not something to have an argument over. Just having him know you know might actually help you put those feelings you're having at ease. But believe me, coming from a guy, it's really not a big deal.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/22 11:16 AM
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Haha good one bruh
/r/seduction16/06/19 07:20 PM
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Wow, I am EXACTLY the same way. Same exact mentality. Its the mature route im my opinion to reply when you can and not pretend you're busy. It takes 5 seconds to pull my phone out of my pocket unlock it and read a message. Unfortunately, this is the game and not replying immediately is one of its main rules. I know man it's stupid as hell and as much as it seems that a girls cool and likes you. You need to continue playing that bs game. I've fucked up way too many times in the past for not playi…
/r/seduction26/03/19 04:28 AM
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Hey man, i was exactly the same. This is what it is. Jerking off while high to porn elevates the experience so high having a regular girl infront of you while sober won't get your rocks off anymore. Solution: STOP watching porn. You need like 1 -3 months to resensitize your brain. Weed is also a testosterone suppressent. So stop that for a bit too. Jerking off isn't bad just don't do it to porn. Jerkoff once a week in the shower just with your imagination. You need to still jerk off so you don't…
/r/seduction20/02/19 05:30 PM
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If everythings going well and she is feeling you. Flirt with her by talking and let you hands linger on her thighs. Keep talking to her though so its smooth. Use ur finger nails too and be gentle and firm.
/r/seduction15/08/18 01:05 PM
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My social skills are actually good but when it comes to sexually escalating I second guess myself and don't want to go too direct. Building rapport and comfort isn't the issue, its making the first move without it being akward. I want to establish this sort of frame with the girl that it's sort of a under the table thing, because I just want to fool around in the moment.
/r/seduction03/06/16 06:24 PM
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Ya this is the sort of thing I'm looking for. Just nice techniques that can smoothly transition to making a move.
/r/seduction03/06/16 06:17 PM
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