Nadathug Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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12	A Rational Survey. I think we’re past the tipping point. A woman who’s played the field, which is a lot of modern women over 30, isn’t trustworthy. It’s like if you tried all 31 flavors at Baskin Robins. If your favorite flavor is Rocky Road, and you commit to that, you’re always going to think about that time you had Chocolate Chip Cookie Dough. It’s understandable, but doesn’t make for a good person to build something with. Modern men have 2 options. If you want to be a family man and really care about having ki…	/r/TheRedPill	19/06/25 12:25 AM
7	After all, what is for you, the most condensed and hard hitting distilled essence of the red pill? If you had to put it into a tldr? Fk bitches, get money (The bitches will come)	/r/TheRedPill	24/11/24 06:56 AM
150	Why is 4B celebrated as girl power and MGTOW condemned as misogyny? No one cares about us, brother. Accept it, focus on self improvement, and go live your best life. It’s the only way. Edit for context: women have been “the weaker sex that needs to be protected” for so long, that men are just expected to “man up”, while women can always gain society’s sympathy, despite the changes in the culture over the last few decades. It sucks, but as men we’re just expected to deal with it. Use it as fuel to get in the gym and get your money up. Good luck.	/r/TheRedPill	16/11/24 05:52 AM
17	Was marriage worth it? If you’re looking for a woman to take care of your “emotional needs”, you couldn’t have a worse reason. Women don’t care about a man’s emotions. They act like they do to get men to do things for them, but in all honesty, if you share your emotions with a woman, she will see you as weak, and eventually leave you for someone she sees as stronger. Women in general don’t help men achieve their goals in life. Sure, there’s couples who work together to raise a family, or even run a business. But at yo…	/r/Divorce_Men	22/08/24 05:39 AM
4	Is there a good way to make my wife hate me enough to want to expedite the divorce process Get a girlfriend. Even if you’re just getting a friend to act like they’re your girlfriend. Post pics of the two of you on social media. Tell her fetishes make you sick and you want a normal relationship.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/08/24 04:29 PM
2	Now I know how Linus from Charlie Brown feels It’s going to be hard, and it’s going to take a long time. But ultimately you’ll be stronger on your own. The ring gave you a false sense of security that you never had in the first place. Let it go. I still have mine, but it’s buried somewhere in one of my storage crates and I never think about it (I suspect if I throw it away, I’ll regret it many years from now when I’ve moved on.) It’s like buckling your seat belt every time you drive, until one day you realize your seat belt wasn’t attached …	/r/Divorce_Men	16/07/24 08:57 PM
12	Dating after divorce Maybe it’s just me discovering what makes me happiest in life, but I prefer my solitude and peace more than being in a relationship. After my divorce I realized I was co-dependent and gave so much of myself in my marriage that I lost my identity. My ex wife also provided a valuable example of the lies and games that most women play. I have friends and family that I spend time with that make my life fulfilled. I have hobbies and goals that give me purpose. And I have women in my life that I like …	/r/Divorce_Men	16/07/24 08:34 PM
1	Did you ex change her name back and if so did that bother you? Because it did for me. My ex kept my last name, which, when I initiated the divorce, I actually encouraged her to do. She hated her Dad (I know, first red flag), so she wanted to keep mine instead of changing hers back. Made me feel less guilty about leaving, because I gave her something that I thought gave her a fresh start. Later I found out that bitch stole about 3k from me. Ran up my credit cards and lied to me about bills going up, because she was mad I was leaving her. I’m pissed she still has my last name; she …	/r/Divorce_Men	06/07/24 08:11 AM
9	How do you reconcile the lying? I’m dealing with this now. Been almost 2 years and I just can’t get over it. I no longer talk to her, I’ve moved on in almost every other aspect, but I keep ruminating over all the times I should have known she was up to something. I ignored so much. Doing her hair different. Doing her makeup different. Buying a whole bunch of slutty clothes all of a sudden despite being too fat to dress like that. Getting really into Spanish music all of a sudden even though she doesn’t speak Spanish. Suggestin…	/r/Divorce_Men	10/06/24 03:59 PM
6	Would you have gotten married and had kids if you knew how the sex "turns off" with your wife? I would but people would probably say it was too extreme and not realistic Can’t make this shit up 🤣 Thanks!	/r/Divorce_Men	09/06/24 10:35 PM
13	Would you have gotten married and had kids if you knew how the sex "turns off" with your wife? My ex wife and I had a great sex life when we were dating, then I actually started losing interest because she would actually find things to fight about DURING SEX. I was just trying to avoid fights with her, because NOT having sex was less soul-crushing than fighting during sex. Then she started complaining that we weren’t having sex enough, like it was my fault. I used to believe all that “happy wife, happy life” bs, and we were already living together, so what did my dumb ass decide to do?? P…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/06/24 08:52 PM
1	Men’s in the 30s or older that are trying to date, How do you pick up girls and like where do you start? Exactly. Get in shape and let your looks do the hard work. Getting women interested in you physically makes the rest way easier. Yes this won’t work on all women, but you don’t even have to put yourself out there like that if your looks are killer. Dress well, smile, and you’ll see women trying to talk to you at the supermarket or Starbucks, wherever.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/06/24 11:02 PM
1	Men’s in the 30s or older that are trying to date, How do you pick up girls and like where do you start? Just make it a priority brother. That’s your answer	/r/Divorce_Men	04/06/24 10:17 AM
5	Men’s in the 30s or older that are trying to date, How do you pick up girls and like where do you start? Just go bro. Get a trainer. Eat lean. Get in such good shape bitches just approach you.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/06/24 10:09 AM
20	Men’s in the 30s or older that are trying to date, How do you pick up girls and like where do you start? Get in the gym. Get crazy ripped. Don’t care about bitches or catering to their interests. Focus on your own life, improving yourself, enjoying your own hobbies. If a woman wants to come into your world, cool. Invite her to a restaurant or event you’re already going to regardless. Regardless of her answer, you’re going anyway. Do not care. Do not cater or make concessions to women in any way shape or form. Live your own life, and if you are confident enough and spend enough time focusing on your…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/06/24 09:57 AM
3	Ring Take it.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/06/24 05:46 AM
7	Are feelings normal to discuss in marriage? Never share your emotions with your woman. They can’t help because they have no clue how men struggle. They live life on easy mode, they’re used to men doing things for them. Women desire men who they view as protectors, so if you show your vulnerability, you’ll be perceived as weak. Yes, that’s fucked up and guys can be vulnerable and still be a man. However your woman will literally be less attracted to you if you show her that side of you. Your girl is not your therapist. Women just don’t car…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/05/24 04:45 AM
10	For men who filed, when did you know it was time? We were visiting my mom’s house during the pandemic. My mom showed us a news story she recorded about professional cuddlers, mostly women who were paid by the hour to spoon lonely guys. It had become popular due to the lack of human contact during covid. My mom’s reaction was “Isn’t that gross? Who would want to do that, it’s basically prostitution”. As soon as we got to the car, my wife said “omg, I already found 3 websites for that cuddle thing that I could make BANK with. The girls on there a…	/r/Divorce_Men	20/05/24 04:07 PM
3	Why learning Spanish will improve your game and open you up to more possibilities. OP is spot on, but in addition to being able to talk to Spanish speaking women, it will just make you a more worldly person. After learning Spanish, you can communicate with literally millions more people than you could before. It’s good for business, networking, and opens you up for so many opportunities. Plus, you can somewhat communicate with people who speak French, Italian, and even Portuguese, as there are a lot of similarities (I know there’s limitations on that, but you’ll still communic…	/r/TheRedPill	12/05/24 04:55 PM
2	Forever alone I’d like to try living in another country too, price of everything keeps skyrocketing here and the culture keeps devolving into toxic feminism. I wouldn’t recommend isolating though, the freedom of being single means you can do whatever, whenever. Travel, explore, learn about other cultures. (By fucking their women) 🤣	/r/Divorce_Men	12/05/24 06:20 AM
4	Forever alone I will never get married again. Divorced for a year, 40s, no kids. I used to want them, but I was always unsure of how parenting with my ex wife would be. Dodged a bullet, would have been stuck dealing with her for life. Recently decided I don’t want little kids in my 50s and teens in my 60s, so I guess the ship has sailed. The risk of having to put my faith in a spouse just to have a family, who could then ruin it for a fleeting feeling, is too big a risk with the years I have left. No thanks. …	/r/Divorce_Men	11/05/24 11:22 PM
6	When did 6ft tall become the barrier for entry to dating? Not sure on the origin, but online dating has exacerbated this problem. It’s not so much that women are swiping left on guys under 6ft, it’s that they set their match preferences as “6ft +” so they never even SEE the profiles of guys only slightly shorter. If they met a guy in person that they were attracted to who was 5’9”, it probably wouldn’t even be an issue. But online you’re just a series of stats to be nitpicked by delusional fat 5’s, who think they’re 10’s because thirsty guys slide in t…	/r/Divorce_Men	11/05/24 04:05 PM
2	I wish I could completely forget it all You’re already headed in the right direction, because you see her for what she is. A good rule of thumb is that what she’s accusing you of is really what she knows she’s guilty of. If she won’t shut up about how she’s “worth fighting for”, it’s probably because she knows YOU were the prize, and she fucked up and lost you. I’m sorry you still have to interact with her for the kids, but just keep it all business. Smile when you have to speak with her and don’t engage. No one gets married thinking …	/r/Divorce_Men	25/04/24 07:12 AM
8	I wish I could completely forget it all I was only married 5 years but I can relate. We were together 10, lived together the whole time. No kids thankfully, and I initiated the divorce. She didn’t fight me on it, and we didn’t fight over assets because we pretty much kept our finances separate. I thought that meant I got out easy, and I’d get over it quick. I was so sick of who she’d become that I knew there wasn’t any risk of wanting her back. I wasn’t ready. My divorce was in August 2022. It’s been a year and a half, and I’m barely …	/r/Divorce_Men	25/04/24 03:33 AM
1	Best strategy to date after 40? Fresh and Fit Podcast on YouTube. Watch the episodes where they talk to a panel of women to see how they think, but mainly focus on their other episodes where they tell men how to focus on self improvement, which results in women pursuing you instead.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/03/24 07:09 PM