Naive-Berry Archive

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4	Age gaps in seduction Henry Cavill is taken for a reason, with someone his age I might add, the kind of 40yo men that would approach me in my early 20s were not it	/r/seduction	25/07/25 09:03 PM
7	go raw + pull out in hookup with IUD? IUD’s are 99% effective at preventing pregnancy (source: planned parenthood), so you’re fairly safe on that front as it sounds like you trust her and she’s being truthful about having one. In terms of STI’s/STD’s, are you sleeping with anybody else or is there a chance you will while seeing her? Is she? Is that something you think she would hide from you if she was sleeping with other people? Or are you exclusive? Reminder, the most common symptom of an STD is no symptom, so get tested! If you w…	/r/seduction	25/06/25 12:52 AM
-3	Approaching women who aren’t approachable People this is good advice 😭 as a woman I would be so charmed if someone did this for me. Even just buying the one shot and writing your number on the napkin. If it’s that or not approaching at all, maybe it’s worth it. Maybe try it and see how it goes!	/r/seduction	04/06/25 12:54 AM
2	3 dates in 3 days with the same girl, where do I go from here? What do you want out of this? Short term fun or do you have more serious feelings for her?	/r/seduction	03/06/25 03:27 AM
5	It's not a woman's job to tell you when and where to go on a date 🤦🏻‍♀️ what is this post. Ok, as a woman, the reason why I want the guy to take the lead planning a date is because of decision fatigue. I don’t want to always be making every single decision in a relationship. It’s exhausting and I see this straining a lot of my friends relationships. Planning a date shows that you’re an adult and responsible and are capable of organizing something. That it wouldn’t be my responsibility to plan every single thing in our shared future life if the date goes well. …	/r/seduction	26/05/25 07:18 PM
104	men who have no female friends feel unsafe to be around ”if you only talk to women you’re attracted to, we notice”* real	/r/seduction	26/05/25 01:04 AM
13	What’s the sexiest move a guy made that totally blew your mind? We were cuddling and talking in bed after hooking up for the first time. Slowly we stop talking and I start to fall asleep. He starts tracing my arm with his hands in a way no other man has. Then he starts gracefully and gently stroking my back. It turned me on so much we did another two rounds. I’ve had other guys try to stroke or trace my body with their hands but it always fell flat. They didn’t do it will any real care or intention of their movements, or their hands were shaky, they just did…	/r/seduction	26/05/25 12:59 AM
2	I genuinely dk why TF this keeps happening. Serious question, do you have any friends who are women? I feel like just being around them in that way helps you understand how to talk to engage with women both platonically and romantically. And they probably can actually help you unravel why that one girl ghosted you, why that date didn’t go well, etc. Also it’s fun and good to have mixed set of friends	/r/seduction	08/05/25 05:01 AM
3	4 hard truths you need to accept when it comes to dating As a woman - number 4 isn’t spot on. Please ask a woman questions. Please ask questions!!!! Too many times have I been asking a date questions and he answers and doesn’t ask me anything back. That’s when it ends up being the guy speaking the whole time, and it’s frustrating. I want to speak about myself, but not unprompted. If you ask us questions you automatically will be speaking less and in part, being more mysterious. Be genuinely interested in getting to know your date!! People are interest…	/r/seduction	08/05/25 03:23 AM
41	What women actually swipe on (the truth from 1,000+ matches) Ok as a woman currently doing a lot of swiping — please do photos where we can actually see what you look like, don’t waste a photo posting a meme or one of you that’s blurry or you’re hiding behind someone else! Please make your first photo a solo shot. And please have at least one photo with a friend so we know you are socially normal. We will judge if your friend looks normal and nice as well. Gym selfies are so tough and do really give the ick sometimes. so one pic that stands out to me from…	/r/seduction	06/05/25 04:55 PM
1	A conversation trick that instantly makes you more attractive Ok but as a woman you’d be surprised how groundbreaking this advice is for men we interact with….the past few men I went on dates with did not reciprocate the same question I asked them (ex. Yes I like dogs, Do YOU like dogs?) and did not ask any follow up questions, just answered the questions I was asking! I was like do you actually want to get to know me??	/r/seduction	23/04/25 12:31 AM