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LogisticsNaiveAd6090/r/seduction19/07/25 05:14 AM
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No it in fact is true. Google it
/r/seduction07/05/26 09:26 AM
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This 100% there actually a whole book on this. Competence breeds confidence. And you only get competence from trial and error. It’s not just be confident and succeed it’s try, try again and confidence builds over time.
/r/seduction06/05/26 09:22 PM
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Dude just go to therapy. There’s been a lot of dudes using Chat GPT as their therapist that wind up killing themselves
/r/seduction06/05/26 09:10 PM
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This guy says it perfectly https://www.facebook.com/share/v/1NqbukATR4/?mibextid=wwXIfr
/r/seduction23/04/26 07:55 PM
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Look I’m gonna be honest if your dates and app interactions went that badly the problem is not with the playbook but how you’re playing. And I’m pretty sure the “join a club” idea is geared toward joining something you’re actually interested in and building a community there, not just going to a tomato thing because you think chicks will be there. It’s easy to say “none of this stuff works!” A lot harder to admit the flaw is in your execution.
/r/seduction18/03/26 12:25 AM
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I lost my virginity in hs to a girl who I didn’t know had a bf. We made out at a party—she kissed me first after I shotgunned her some weed then she came into my room that morning and we fucked. I knew she used to date my friends older brother but I assumed they broke up since she kissed me first. After talking a few weeks and both getting attached I finally asked her about him and she said they were still together BUT her parents forced her to date him cuz they thought they were perfect and the…
/r/seduction07/02/26 12:41 AM
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Ask her what her interests are, who she be with, things that make her smile, what number to dial, is she gonna be here for a while?
/r/seduction04/02/26 11:05 PM
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Being upfront and open about your communication style is a good first step in any relationship
/r/seduction02/02/26 02:14 PM
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I would just be honest. You’re overthinking it. If you’re being inauthentic to get a girl you’re already losing because you’re trying to conform to what you think she wants instead of just being true to yourself which will always gain you respect even if it is a dealbreaker and if something that small is a deal breaker you’re dodging g a bullet tbh
/r/seduction02/02/26 06:32 AM
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Just cut through the bs and make your intentions clear. Ask her on a date and set it up so you go back to your place for a movie after
/r/seduction29/01/26 09:29 PM
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I see what you mean with trying too hard. There was a recent post of a guy with a failed date and he had this whole analysis like I did X and this point and Y at this point and Z at this point and it sounded like he was micro managing all these tiny interactions to find where/how he went wrong when the problem was that he was looking at it in that way in the first place, focusing so hard on the result thinking sex will come if he just takes these specific steps and makes these specific moves but…
/r/seduction29/01/26 06:37 PM
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Just let it toot while you fuck her she will never know. Works every time
/r/seduction09/01/26 12:40 AM
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😂😭
/r/seduction05/01/26 04:14 AM
1

You don’t want to lose a good thing! Just cheat bro she will never know
/r/seduction05/01/26 03:19 AM
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It’s become easier for me as I’ve gotten older because I have confidence, self esteem, goals and motivation, lifestyle, money, experience, wisdom, practice interacting with women, social skills, and etc. etc. that I just didn’t have when I was in my early twenties. In terms of mentality if I was at where I’m at now when I was in my twenties I would have been absolutely killing it. Because now, despite all that I do have, I work so much and don’t have as much access to social life as I did back t…
/r/seduction18/12/25 06:02 AM
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Unless you’re explicitly inviting her over for sex, which she definitely does not ish d ready for yet, its best to do another date and try to get her to come back afterwards for a movie or a drink, to meet your dog, or however you want to spin it and then just feel it out from there
/r/seduction18/12/25 05:54 AM
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All that sex with all those women and you never figured out how to pick a half decent one or develop a healthy relationship ? Pitiful.
/r/seduction12/12/25 03:02 AM
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This is why you don’t go approaching every girl you see dude. That’s creepy and gives desperate. Just live your life and talk to women when there are opportunities and make it an extension of yourself like at a bar you like or a music scene you’re a part of. Don’t be that wierd guy who posts up on the corner and tries to talk to every hot girl he sees. Seems like you’ve already given yourself a bad face for acting like this. Approaching/talking to women is a passive skill you develop over time a…
/r/seduction25/11/25 06:00 AM
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Unless you live in a big city or an area with a lot of them Online is the easiest place to find them just flirt them up they’re begging to be hit on by younger men and not all but a good portion of them are open to being smooth talked and wooed into a hook up because they want to be wanted
/r/seduction25/11/25 05:37 AM
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You my friend need to find a moderately attractive woman 40-60 years old who will show you the way and help you gain confidence with women. They’re fairly easy to find and convince to hook up on apps like hinge or fb dating. They’re in a peak hormonal phase nearing and post menopause that makes them horny all the time. They’re usually begging for attention and want to be wanted by a younger man because they haven’t been wanted in a while. They are very open and I’m sure honesty would get you ver…
/r/seduction24/11/25 07:26 PM
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Dudes who don’t eat pussy are probably gay and don’t actually like pussy. Sounds like you’re one of them
/r/seduction14/10/25 09:40 PM
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Honestly just use your hands and start rubbing him lightly, work your way to his thighs, etc. also try wearing something sexy like super tight shorts or lingerie. Go for a kiss and make it very slow and sensual Push your ass into him when cuddling idk just act like you want it. Have you tried asking him what turns him on?
/r/seduction11/10/25 01:59 AM
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Yep this. You’re using chat got to overthink and your texts are reading as looking for approval rather than just confidently going for it. Would be better to have said “I’m taking you to that rooftop bar downtown it’s my favorite spot” or “let’s go to that rooftop bar downtown” something direct rather than beating around the bush and waiting for her to give you affirmation. She showed a bit of interest. She said that could be fun so she’s already thinking about it so just act like it’s already a…
/r/seduction09/10/25 05:40 PM
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The less hot slightly fat women 38-60 are usually very easy to flirt with and convince to meet for casual sex. Women 45-55 are typically going through menopause which makes them horny all the time and you just have to access it. They also are more willing to do casual sex because they feel empowered knowing they want it and are over the younger fear of being used for their body. They are happy someone’s still wants to use them for their body. The hot ones take a bit more tact and effort but it’s…
/r/seduction02/10/25 06:27 PM
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You should come over 😏 usually does the trick if she’s into you and down
/r/seduction30/09/25 04:38 PM
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Also that’s pretty misogynistic it might be your view on women that damages your chances. Just a thought.
/r/seduction24/09/25 05:07 PM
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So again I’ll ask, why are you on a seduction page if you’re so jaded you’re unwilling to improve yourself or try?
/r/seduction24/09/25 05:07 PM
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Why are you here then?
/r/seduction24/09/25 02:10 AM
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You’ll never get it if you don’t try. You won’t try if you’re constantly killing your motivation and cultivating insecurity within yourself
/r/seduction23/09/25 09:36 PM
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Part of the problem is after you ejaculate you release prolactin which is something that drives you to connect and cuddle but without another person to create oxytocin it leads to feelings of emptiness and loneliness multiply it by 10 if you do it multiple times a day and are addicted. Over time it will make you feel small and insecure and kill your motivation because you’re watching other (perceived as better) men doing what you want to do to got women
/r/seduction23/09/25 04:46 PM
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Remember communication is key. If you’re going to be busy say you’re going to be busy. Use phrases like “I want to hear all about this but I’ve got xyz big project let’s chat about this more on our date” or “I’m going to be busy with xyz but let’s talk more soon!” This shows interest but creates boundaries and leaves her waiting without having too much wondering that she thinks you’re playing games or aren’t interested and it establishes a mature and dominant communication pattern and leave you …
/r/seduction22/09/25 07:26 PM
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What helped me was having an interactive date. For example a bookstore scavenger hunt with the bonus item being a kiss, allows you to have fun and game it a bit and then if she’s into it keep it going with a movie back at ur place. Something fun and active beyond just dinner or coffee or a hike. Although often (not always) if you can get her making out with you before or when you walk her to her car and she’s really into it you can get her to agree to come back with you
/r/seduction19/09/25 10:19 PM
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Usually 0-1 you either go for a hook up specifically and sometimes it happens without a date or you smash first date. If you don’t get a kiss first date it’s most likely donezo and it might be different for other guys but I’ve never gotten laid after second date onward because that usually just means energy isn’t there or they’re just looking for something serious. The first date bangs often turn into super regular hook ups and or a relationship and the pre first date bangs either just a one tim…
/r/seduction19/09/25 07:50 PM
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Online game really isn’t that hard as an average dude. That’s where most of my lays come from. The women are more average but now and then you get an 8 or 9. Not a lot of other options when all your friends live in different states and you work so much you barely have time to go out
/r/seduction19/09/25 01:03 AM
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Pretty cringe. Over analyzing kills connection and I’d never go on a date with someone again if I found out they recorded it. Idk man maybe just focus more on the person and connecting with them than how you’re doing
/r/seduction10/09/25 10:29 PM
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Ask her to come over and watch a movie (sometimes only works after a date or two) if you can’t figure it out from there I can’t help you
/r/seduction08/09/25 09:52 PM
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Sounds like you’re pulling your self worth solely from women and dating which will always leave you feeling empty and like shit. Take a break and work on getting good with yourself and not needing a woman to validate you, they can sense that and it’s unattractive. Take a break and find worth within yourself. Passions, hobbies, career and other interests. It gets way easier when you’re happy with your life regardless of what else is or isn’t working out in your dating life. Sounds like women isn’…
/r/seduction08/09/25 09:12 PM
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Can confirm met a chick at a frat party and we were making out within 5 minutes and fucking in the back room two minutes later, round two in the shower I didn’t even do nothing she was just like take me, take me
/r/seduction02/09/25 01:19 AM
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I would recommend saying something much more smooth playful and simple than the I just can’t help feeling like this or you’re like a magnet lines. They’re both very verbose and read as trying to convince her you don’t want something when you do want something. The goal isn’t to act like you don’t want something but to be confident enough to own what you want while not caring if you get it. “I know what I like/I know beauty when I see it.” Tailor it to the specific conversation but make it witty …
/r/seduction22/08/25 04:21 AM
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Not sure what could be the issue then tbh I haven’t really had a lot of trouble with that most of my recent hook ups have been 19-26 and I’m 30. Some of the younger ones can be a bit dryer texting but still super responsive might be less disinterest and more just nerves or not knowing what to say/how to act but we can usually manage to laugh and have fun when we hang out in person
/r/seduction17/08/25 09:00 PM
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Stop trying to relate and try to connect. Maybe try to get to know them and focus on the dynamic and what makes it fun, when you do that age difference doesn’t matter as much as you think it does because it’s more about the vibe between you than the life experience similarity. Hooking up is great but see if you two can have fun outside the bedroom that’s how you’ll know
/r/seduction17/08/25 08:52 PM
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Strongly agree
/r/seduction30/07/25 09:15 PM
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I don’t think this is spot on. I think people over inflate “value” in different subjective ways and get too caught up on it. Just because one person may have slightly stronger feelings (which is always the case in any relationship) doesn’t mean the other person is any more or less valuable. She might not be settling as much as it was just her talking longer to realize she liked him whereas maybe his feelings were clearer earlier on. I’ve also found myself in situations where I have “hotter” opti…
/r/seduction29/07/25 10:30 PM
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I think you make some good and interesting points here. I’m not sure I agree with everything but I’m not here to be that guy that says YOU’RE WRONG! Too many guys here just want to ego clash and have a deep seated need to be right. Thing is, women are people and different people respond to different things. There’s no one size fit all even if there are many things that can work on a lot of women. I think the dialogue and mixing different perspectives is super important. Most women, at least heal…
/r/seduction29/07/25 10:12 PM
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Women tend to have rebounds more often than men. I couldn’t say with any certainty what that period might be but you’re better off not getting into a relationship with someone who just got out. After a few months or so after they’ve seen some other people it might be better but they probably aren’t into a rush to get into something new just want to avoid loneliness. Whatever you do your best bet is to not get too attached and just keep it casual while you see other people. Down the road if somet…
/r/seduction23/07/25 05:53 PM
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You don’t want to be the guy after. You want to be the guy after the guy after.
/r/seduction23/07/25 05:26 PM
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It’s not good to talk about yourself like that my guy
/r/seduction22/07/25 04:09 AM
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Maybe you think some of thier things matter more than they do. Don’t look at what you lack look at what you have
/r/seduction21/07/25 05:25 AM
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If that’s what you believe. 90% of it is your mindset which you can change any time you want
/r/seduction21/07/25 05:23 AM
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No over thinking at all. Just be clear about who you are don’t curate a fake image. That simple. You’re the one going all out here my guy chill
/r/seduction21/07/25 01:56 AM
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You’re the one who brought up the car pic lmfao
/r/seduction21/07/25 01:55 AM
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You’re comparing apples to oranges. Nothing wrong with a pic by the Eiffel Tower. If you post a pic next to Mcclaren that’s not yours people are going to assume it’s yours and you’re posing. Creating a fake image of yourself. It’s immature af. Like those rappers that rent a Ferrari for a video to try and stunt like they got it. Grow up bro. Own your life. If that doesn’t get you women level up. Don’t fake
/r/seduction21/07/25 01:49 AM
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Yours is the weirdest
/r/seduction21/07/25 01:44 AM
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Exactly
/r/seduction21/07/25 01:43 AM
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Women are often very excited to meet my dog
/r/seduction21/07/25 01:42 AM
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It is that deep it sets a bad tone in general it’s overkill illusion creating even if you state it isn’t yours
/r/seduction21/07/25 12:59 AM
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This post is giving sleezy. If you don’t have a dog why lie and fake it? Either get your own dog or just showcase who you actually are in your pics. Deception is never the move and is the worst way to start any relationship be it a fling or something long term
/r/seduction20/07/25 10:53 PM
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Thanks! I 100% agree with you
/r/seduction20/07/25 03:33 PM
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If you only care about looks I’d say you’re shallow. I don’t have to go into “treat her right.” And you’re taking the point past the mark just don’t be an ass and use deception or manipulation. Simple that’s abusive. Confidence is way easier than a million buck. Sorry you’ll never have either it seems. Hope you heal from whatever hurt you bud. Seems I really pissed in your cheerios here. If it all triggered you maybe you should spend more time bettering yourself and wondering why instead of comi…
/r/seduction20/07/25 11:06 AM
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That’s a sentiment I can agree with. Not sure I love the metaphor though because some of the guys misusing PUA tactics are probably guys I would hope don’t own a gun. For the record I don’t think it’s inherently a bad thing. I was more so calling out the more manipulative side of things. There is plenty of useful information being shared that isn’t about manipulation and deception and that’s mainly what this post was about. Some people just got really triggered because they see “be confident” as…
/r/seduction20/07/25 06:48 AM
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I’m not selling anything. I came here to give away my insight freely. Some of them may feel generic but to save space on the post I kept it short and sweet I could dive 10x deeper into each point I made. Thanks for sharing the poem
/r/seduction20/07/25 06:43 AM
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I don’t believe I said anything about not feeling fear. Fear is natural and everyone experiences it but that doesn’t mean you should let it control you or use tactics that act from a space of fear. You clearly missed everything I said. Courage is action in the face of fear. You should feel all your emotions deeply, learn to sit with and move through them and handle them appropriately so you don’t react negatively to unfavorable situations. Sure rejection can be painful sometimes but you sit with…
/r/seduction20/07/25 06:40 AM
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See what I’ve realized is some guys tend to think “just attract” means be so aloof you never do anything or talk to a women or make any effort, ask her out, etc. it’s important to initiate but not chase by continually pushing. There has to be a push and pull. An initial “chase” then pull back and attract while you continue to build rapport, flirt, and engage other women. You have to set the stage. There’s still been plenty of times when I’ve gotten a woman without doing anything. Just make a con…
/r/seduction20/07/25 03:29 AM
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I knew it would ruffle some feathers. I could have been more clear about some things for sure. It’s not that none of the PUA advice works and that a lot of these guys don’t say valuable things about understanding interactions, getting good with yourself and etc. I mostly meant to focus on the ones that lean more manipulative with their approaches. Inauthentic shit like Bobby Rio’s “the scrambler” or that guy on Tik tok who says “send her a text saying we broke the bed last night” then when she t…
/r/seduction20/07/25 03:24 AM
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Genuine interest is approaching because you actually think she’s your type. Maybe she’s wearing a band t shirt of a band you like or etc. being intentional about it rather than talking to every woman you see, being that guy that does 50-100 approaches a day or stunting for tik tok with a hidden camera. Only ask for a number if you actually want it after chatting, not just to prove to yourself you can get a number. That’s what I mean by genuine interest. Didn’t intend for that to read as patroniz…
/r/seduction20/07/25 03:13 AM
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Don’t fake being anything you’re not or lie about what you’re looking for. Just be firm in what you want and go for it. Make a move early on instead of waiting and wondering. Be assertive but not pushy. Learn how to flirt. Learn how to get comfortable talking to everyone and realize women are just other people. Don’t feel like you need to get a woman because you’re centered in your own life and happy with or without one—that’s attractive. Confidence is a mindset you can tap into but it’s also so…
/r/seduction20/07/25 03:02 AM
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Truer words have never been spoken. At the end of the day you’re always going to get further being honest about what you want rather than scheming or manipulating. Ask anyone who is poly
/r/seduction20/07/25 02:55 AM
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I have actually I have failed a whole hell of a lot but I’ve also been successful and this post is about what I’ve learned through that journey. Don’t act like you know. Don’t make excuses either. Every situation is different. No one can give you infinitive answers you have to learn for yourself what works through repeated effort
/r/seduction20/07/25 02:50 AM
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You’ll learn once you have more experience my guy ❤️✌🏻
/r/seduction19/07/25 07:53 AM
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Not all women are in it just for money. You’re displaying the misogyny I was talking about in another comment. Women are people too. Maybe try to understand them and what they deal with and go through and maybe you’ll be less judgmental.
/r/seduction19/07/25 07:50 AM
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What experiences do you have to share?
/r/seduction19/07/25 07:48 AM
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I typed this. What is gpt?
/r/seduction19/07/25 07:48 AM
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Thank you my friend. Someone who understands. As someone who has been through all the highs and lows this is what I’ve come to learn. Not trying to be an egomaniac or better than anyone. Just wanted to share some light
/r/seduction19/07/25 07:42 AM
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Thanks for making my point for me. Although you focused on one small aspect of the bigger picture. People can be weirder out by you if you’re awkward sure. But no one can reject you unless you reject yourself. It’s how you let it effect you or not
/r/seduction19/07/25 07:41 AM
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It’s not that physical attraction isn’t a factor but it doesn’t matter as much as you think. Theres loads of toad faced guys with hot chicks. You’re falling into a narrow minded view that lends itself to a limiting belief that discourages a lot of men who get stuck on that one aspect of attraction
/r/seduction19/07/25 07:39 AM
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You’re just triggered by truth you don’t understand lmfao. You can attract women’s naturally you just don’t believe that and you think studying other people’s lives will make your own better. It’s kinda sad really. If you had a brain you could see I just spoon fed some of the best advice you might get here
/r/seduction19/07/25 07:37 AM
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More than half the guys looking for advice just want love and relationships but these “gurus” give advice about scheming to get laid. Getting laid is so much better when it’s natural and mutual opposed to having to manipulate someone into wanting you. To hell with that. Most of the time it’s not yourself that’s the issue but the way you approach or handle things. Most comes down to mindset. You have to understand how women work and also have to understand how you are as a person to go for what w…
/r/seduction19/07/25 07:31 AM
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Why would I save your feelings when you spit at me like an asshole? Do better for your own life or fuck off that’s kinda it. All you did above was make excuses. No one needs that
/r/seduction19/07/25 07:27 AM
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That’s not at all what I’m doing but it’s sad that you see it that way. Tbh no one should have to teach you those things. That all came naturally to me in hs. I never portrayed myself as a seduction guru. I’m telling you to stay away from those loons that tell you to fake and lie your way. Those things you mentioned are all important but are also things you should feel out naturally by just going for what you want instead of over thinking things. You seem to have missed the point of my post enti…
/r/seduction19/07/25 07:24 AM
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That’s the thing. It’s not that some of their stuff doesn’t work just that it goes about things the wrong way for the wrong results. You attract the energy you put out so if you use fear based tactics to lure someone in you get someone in a bad space and a bad relationship. If you come at someone from a space of self love you will attract someone who also is in that space and it won’t work on someone who is in a fear based space with their life. It’s easier for PUA tactics to work on people who …
/r/seduction19/07/25 07:13 AM
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Thanks. Pretty short compared to a lot of word dumps on here though and broken up in small chunks so it’s easy to digest. Seems like it triggered a lot of fools
/r/seduction19/07/25 07:09 AM
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It’s actually the best advice you’ll find on here. Not “buzz words” just facts that if you have a brain you can apply quite easily
/r/seduction19/07/25 07:08 AM
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The reason you were a virgin into your twenties probably had a lot more to do with you as a person than what you weee doing “wrong”
/r/seduction19/07/25 07:07 AM
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Your mindset is yours to fix. Sorry but you’re dead wrong here. Doesn’t take coming from a good family to be a decent person or have social skills my parents were trash
/r/seduction19/07/25 07:06 AM
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Physical hotness has very little to do with it it’s mostly personality
/r/seduction19/07/25 07:04 AM
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Not a damn thing. That’s great. Me too. I’ve hooked up within 5 mins of meeting a chick. All that is beside my points here though
/r/seduction19/07/25 05:47 AM
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Any time I’ve made out with a random girl in public, say outside of a bar or at a college party it was her who initiated it
/r/seduction16/07/25 05:15 AM
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There’s nothing wrong with being friends with a woman as others have implied. But it seems you might have her on too much of a pedestal. If you can detach you should keep her around while you date other women and don’t be afraid to make a move on her if the moment is right. Either it will grow organically or you’ll stay friends which can be positive and as others have mentioned can help your aura with other women. Key thing is she needs to not be your main focus and you need to pursue other opti…
/r/seduction14/07/25 04:06 PM
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Facts. Also there’s a huge difference between initiating and chasing. It’s actually better to initiate and be authentic but it it’s not received you don’t chase simple. Most women aren’t going to make that first move with you even if they are interested it’s just how it is. Some guys seem to think talking to women at all is chasing
/r/seduction05/07/25 04:24 PM
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Sounds to me like she didn’t reject you but just plain wasn’t interested in being talked to which is perfectly okay and has nothing to do with you as a person. Unless she’s plain rude or blatantly mean it’s not rejection she’s just not interested. It’s only rejection when you internalize negative feelings due to the scenario. It’s not like she called you wierd or told you to fuck off you just internalized it that way. So in a sense you rejected yourself by allowing it to affect your self worth, …
/r/seduction19/06/25 04:46 PM
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