NaiveClub3147 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
21	Annoyed	Story time ☕	NaiveClub3147	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/07/21 04:52 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Doctors are performing pelvic exams on anaesthetised women without consent. If you’re going into surgery you need to explicitly state you don’t want one. Stay safe out there. Consider pelvic floor therapy with a physiotherapist. I’ve personally noticed incredible changes in a year and what you’re describing was exactly the same for me! And also, you can get a Pap smear done with a pediatric speculum. Hang in there- there’s light at the end of the tunnel. Sorry you’re going through this.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/07/21 07:19 PM
3	Annoyed So sorry that happened to you :( You are deserving of something healthy and reliable. It’s really messed up that these people do what they do.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/07/21 05:38 PM
4	Annoyed Interestingly enough, in my mind throughout the 5 months, I had thought that him trying to help me lower my guard and feel more comfortable with him (I had just gotten out of something very emotionally tormenting with someone else), was him being high value. OBVIOUSLY it wasn’t. But I romanticized his pursuit. I guess a pursuit can be romanticized to a degree if there are no other red flags. Like in his case of him being so wishy washy in what he wanted, he should have never been given a chance …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/07/21 05:32 PM
10	Annoyed I appreciate you all. I’m being conditioned to think he’s being “self sacrificial” when it isn’t. It was selfish and cruel.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/07/21 05:17 PM
4	Annoyed Thank you. I appreciate you. This puts it all in perspective. Along with all of these other comments.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/07/21 05:12 PM
7	Annoyed Interestingly enough, he didn’t really take me up on lowering my boundaries. He kind of worked to keep them up, i.e., I’m going to hurt you emotionally if we fool around without any expectations and I know that isn’t want you want. I think this makes me have a soft spot for him but it obviously may not even be that. But this self doubt and seeming respect leads me to wonder if I’m overreacting or being unreasonable when he may just be looking out for me. Talk some sense into me please. My alarms…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/07/21 05:07 PM
7	WTF does this kinda text mean? Seeing this guy about a month. He’s all in to me, then this? Had the sameeeee thing happen to me. As many have mentioned, it’s a terrible cycle of love bombing and then the narcissist’s disposal. The guy I had been saying told me he “loved spending time with me”. “Couldn’t want to see me again.” “Things felt different with me, he felt comfortable with me.” And then dropped me very suddenly, also following a good morning text. Like almost word for word all of the stuff your guy has mentioned here came up with the guy I was seeing when he was looking for an…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/01/21 03:07 PM