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Women change, men don't. Whether a guy's in his 20s or his 50s, he's always gonna find the 20-year old babe attractive. A woman usually starts off prioritizing looks, and then for whatever reason she's willing to settle as she hits her 30s, whether it's baby rabies, worrying about hitting the wall, not being able to stand being single when her friends are getting married, whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 06:00 AM
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Go to r/virgin and read all the stories about the girls suddenly bailing out of the bed after the guys disclose their virginity. https://www.reddit.com/r/virgin/comments/ttrbqt/told_a_girl_i_was_dating_32_f_that_i_was_still_a/ https://www.reddit.com/r/virgin/comments/vnl5zb/21_virgin_got_friendzoned_for_being_a_virgin/ https://www.reddit.com/r/virgin/comments/vazh7g/i\_hate\_how\_my\_virginity\_and\_lack\_of\_dating/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 05:55 AM
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Physical, if we're talking long term. What matters most in a relationship is loyalty. Whether you're the closest of friends with your partner, or whether you're in a rocky relationship and drifting, people usually cheat because of finding someone else that's hotter. You'll hear plenty of stories of people that regret cheating because of losing someone they were emotionally close to and all that, but if someone's in a relationship with someone really physically attractive, there's not enough ince…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 05:44 AM
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It's feminist enough that there's an outcry over it lol. https://www.nytimes.com/2022/01/01/world/asia/south-korea-men-anti-feminists.html https://www.reuters.com/world/asia-pacific/when-is-sausage-just-sausage-controversial-ads-fuel-skoreas-sexism-debate-2021-05-28/ https://foreignpolicy.com/2021/06/23/young-south-korean-men-hate-liberals-feminists/ https://www.cnn.com/2019/09/21/asia/korea-angry-young-men-intl-hnk/index.html Not to mention that it's home to rad fem communities like these: http…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:34 PM
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But you still lock your door, right? You have a reason for not leaving the doors unlocked and the windows rolled down. Yeah, if someone took advantage of an open car and took what they wanted, they'd be a bad person, but you know that those bad people exist regardless so you take the proper measures to try to protect yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 05:54 AM
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It's cope. Those guys are the guys who wanted a traditional virgin and all that, realize how few of those women there actually are, and so since they think that they can't get their dream relationship, settle for fucking sluts instead while "enjoying the decline" and all that. Basically making up for quality with quantity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 10:04 PM
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For me, people say I'm flirty because I constantly tease and make fun of people or make dirty jokes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 08:52 PM
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On top of that, I don’t want kids and this redpill advice seems even more inappropriate for CF women than for women who want kids. Note: I do want a LTR and possibly marriage at some point, however. I think for you in particular, I actually do have to recommend to make dating a priority right now, because when you try to date in your 30s, you will find that most men looking to settle down at that point want to do so because they think they're ready for kids. You should probably try to look for a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 01:31 PM
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What I'm saying is that the older men going for a younger woman is the equal partnership, because both would have roughly the same amount of relationship experience. I'm 28. When it comes to a couple of guys my own age, both have had 1 girlfriend throughout their lives, with the first guy having had a girlfriend for only a couple years in college, and the other's "relationship" was only for a week in high school. When I think of a couple of girls my own age, one of them's on her 4th long term re…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 01:06 PM
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But you just said he's not able to. Not only that, but why would he put himself in a position of a "lower power dynamic" that you seem to be worried about for the young girl, but not for the unsuccessful man? If a guy in his late 20s has little to no dating experience, and he goes out with women in their late 20s that have tons of dating experience, that leaves him vulnerable to manipulative and predatory women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 12:50 PM
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It signals that he is not able to find a woman his own age --> he is immature when it comes to relationships So what should he do? Just not ever get into a relationship in his life? If he's immature in relationships, why shouldn't he go for someone else on a similar level of experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 12:40 PM
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The family thing is huge, because it gives an indicator of how she was raised and what her values are, and hopefully that gets applied to raising the kids. I wouldn't necessarily dismiss a girl from a toxic family, as long as again, she applies her experience and has a drive to not repeat that when starting a family together, but a guy's gotta consider how much of a headache the in-laws and family drama will be to deal with too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 02:24 AM
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I have never asked for dating info of previous relationships and my husband is 10 years my senior. It doesn’t matter what he did before me, I was not around. You just asked if women got to have the same concern, and women do. You personally didn't, and maybe a bunch of women won't, but you're totally free to care about this. Bottom line is, many men care about their partner's sexual past, and this is inherent to how they think. It's subconscious, probably even biological due to paternity issues.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 01:38 AM
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women should not make wait for sex. Women should not have a high body count. The ideal would be that women would make everyone wait for sex. Focusing so much on how long the woman waited with a previous partner is also bizarre. You were not around, does the woman get to have the same concern? If you found out that a guy spent thousands on his previous relationships, taking girls out to fancy restaurants, taking them on trips, a yacht, whatever, but his idea of "treating you" is maybe a walk in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:31 AM
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god made a serious flaw in human form Enough heresy, if you want to see the consequences of sexual immorality without any Christian bias, just look at that n count/divorce rate chart that gets posted all the time here, or how men suffer on OLD from the 80/20 rule, or whatever other growing societal problems we have like lower marriage rates, more single-motherhood, male sexlessness, female depression, male suicide, etc. That's where hookup culture and online dating took us.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:49 AM
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This is coming from a Christian. Press X to doubt. I literally gave you the verse that explains why it's considered so terrible to God: 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body. Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies. In…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:38 AM
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Cause I know basically all religions say “thou shalt not judge” and “be kind to others.” So that’s not an excuse. That is NOT what those mean. The full quote for the former is: "Judge not, that ye be not judged. For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again. And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother's eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye? Or how wilt thou say to thy brother, Let me pull out…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:15 AM
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Look up the Lolly dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 01:13 AM
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Any scenario you're talking about is illegal for a man to do. A man could take your purse or punch you out, but he's not "privileged" to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:02 PM
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They make a Reddit post asking "how do I get over my girlfriend not being a virgin?"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 02:58 PM
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This is anecdotal, but to be honest, most girls I know pick up their boyfriend's hobbies/interests even without age gaps, like picking up a show or game that the boyfriend's into. I noticed this especially with music taste among girls I knew when they got to college.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 03:13 AM
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I'm sure plenty of guys have been groped and stuff at school dances, concerts, clubs, and the like, but most just don't care. Having read stories on the internet though, most sexual assault from women towards men I've read about happen from relationships, where the men get their boundaries ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 03:45 AM
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The first guy gets with women that are fair status-wise (so like customer service workers like waitresses or retail), but they're at least thin/healthy enough, and normal when it comes to personality. I have no idea about the dating history of the current guy, but my assumption is that he's an introvert that probably never asked a girl out and just took what he could get. Still, I think it was self-sabotage on his part, as in he was a self-perceived incel without actually being one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 03:24 AM
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First guy's a retail worker at a collectible shop, but uses that knowledge for his side-hustles. Has his own apartment, and while I do think he's below average in looks, he has no trouble getting girlfriends. Don't know much about the second guy besides him being a casino dealer. Last guy is a construction worker. In terms of looks he's pretty average, it's more of his nerdy personality and low self esteem that I think drags him down. His parents are rich though, so he has a house with her. Tota…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 03:03 AM
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When it comes to dating, women still have it infinitely better than men. I mean, I know a woman who was so obese that no one noticed any difference whenever she got pregnant is blind in one eye is missing teeth (from fetal alcohol syndrome, not poor care) was a net negative financially (used to work at a job that was like one shift a week, then when she lost that, she was so lazy that her boyfriend practically had to sign her up for government support himself) doesn't have much of a personality,…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 02:51 AM
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belle falls in love and surprise he's a rich prince ...And for 99% of the rest of the movie he's a beast. It's probably the biggest "looks don't matter" example, and it even dunked on Gaston to show that "good girls" like Belle don't care for bad boys. what did i miss where boys were told "just be a normal dude and there will be a perfect woman waiting for you"? Look at the movies with the male protagonists (which appeal most to boys). Aladdin, the Lion King, and Tarzan were all about them charm…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 11:59 AM
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And literally none of you are ever even in shape too. You're talking to the girl that keeps herself at 16% body fat. If all your into is looks in a woman get a sex doll. You're talking to the girl that got her man a sex doll. Women are human beings if you haven’t noticed If you only knew who you were talking to 😂. Go check out r/pickmes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 06:35 AM
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Men also seek out women who are shorter than they are. I haven't read studies on this, but anecdotally I've only seen this happen because short guys automatically assume they'll be nuclearly rejected by girls that they're not taller than.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 11:59 PM
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You're overlooking personality. I don't mean like "he makes me laugh tee hee :)", but having confidence, or exerting power and dominance, which would be common traits among successful men. In the bedroom, those kinds of men would probably have low inhibition and give it rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:18 PM
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According to the research, all a guy needs to pleasure a woman is a thick...wallet. https://www.nydailynews.com/news/money/rich-men-better-lovers-women-orgasms-better-sex-wealthy-men-article-1.389269 https://www.usnews.com/news/articles/2014/01/16/the-rich-have-it-all-including-better-sex
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:03 PM
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Dating a traditional woman, sure. My daughter? Probably not. I'd rather teach her to pursue love than a lifestyle. You know, for richer or poorer and all that. But either way it'll be up to her with what kind of arrangement she wants in her relationship. That being said, I don't plan on prioritizing getting my kids to college, I'm gonna try to teach them entrepreneurship so that they can have it all. By their teens I'll get them started on video editing so they can make one of those spammy autom…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:27 PM
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It'll be interesting if Lolly or similar services take off, since that does better to address the "show a personality" issue. It's a dating app that's focused on making videos, like TikTok.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:09 PM
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What's wrong with being a career woman? Nothing. I even said in that comment there's nothing wrong with being a career woman. She asked about the manosphere's complaints, and completely misrepresented them. The manosphere does not complain about career women "not wanting to be a burden to their man" like OP wants to be, the manosphere complains about career women who want an even more successful man to take care of her, and not wanting to take up the provider role like men used to. The manospher…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:29 AM
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Yeah, men do naturally have more muscle, but most women appreciate it when a guy works out and builds up a 6-pack. People will get more attracted the more extremely you highlight your attractive points.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:38 AM
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Guys shave their pubic hair too nowadays. No one wants to go down on a jungle. Glad to know men find child like qualities attractive And this is exactly kind of thing I'm talking about. "NOOOOO you can't like women shaving their pubes! That's so gross!". Just quit trying to shame men's tastes for once.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:58 AM
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Do you get bullied whenever you don't wear makeup? I've never heard or seen anything like that. Maybe it's a girl thing. I've definitely seen girls get more attention whenever they try out makeup, but not bullied into using it. As for the hair thing, a guy would get bullied over shaving/waxing his legs too (which actually happened at my school). I dunno, I just don't see it as that big of a deal. Whenever my girlfriend didn't feel like shaving her legs she'd just wear jeans or pants to cover 'em…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:45 AM
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I’m just genuinely confused how you think a woman’s sexiness keeps changing with time. Beauty standards for men and women change all the time. Just think about the "thicc" or "dad bod" memes. Not even 15 years ago, this used to be considered a "huge" ass: https://www.amazon.com/Guerra-Signed-Magazine-Beckett-Autograph/dp/B072JWXHBG And now it's not even notable. I partake in these rituals but still don’t quite see why men like women to be hairless like little girls. Seems a little pervy to me. E…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:33 AM
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And like I said, suck it up, because it's a better deal than men being treated as disposable laborious bodies to do stuff like lay bricks because they have the "strong" bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:09 AM
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it’s not exactly natural Neither is clipping your nails. If you saw her previous post, she had this rant about how she hated how women had to wear make-up, shave, and all that stuff. If she doesn't want to partake in that herself, I have no issue, but what her overall point was that she didn't want men as a whole to see the female body as sexy, and have women able to exchange that sex appeal for attention. Basically, her post wasn't in a vacuum, about wanting to be independent and using that for…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:05 AM
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Is the point really so obscure? I don't care about how you take care of yourself personally. I did see your previous version of this post that got deleted though, complaining about the female body being seen as sexual, and you don't want it to be. That you don't like how women use sex as their leverage to attract men, and that's what I have a problem with, that you don't like what men want in a women. And I'm sick of hearing stuff like that, like "men should want ____ in a woman", or "men should…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:54 AM
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Completely missing the point. If you want to not shave and stay single, go for it. Just don't date someone and be like "sorry babe, you're gonna have to sleep next to hairy pits every night" and whine if he leaves, or worse, try to make a "movement" for men as a whole to accept women not shaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:29 AM
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The issue is not being independent. If you want to live on your own, go ahead. The criticisms come from women wanting to become career women, and trying to use that as their bargaining power in a relationship, and worse, expecting men to be even above and beyond in terms of financial success to be worthy of her. If you wanna be a hairy woman to remove yourself from the dating pool, go for it, just don't try to live that kind of life and make men change their wants and standards to suit you, as t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:20 AM
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It’s a double standard; men’s bodies aren’t seen as first and foremost means of sexual gratification, and I believe the significantly lower numbers of male sex workers/consumers of male sex work accounts for this. You don't wanna go there, because the equivalent is that "male bodies are for hard labor" like carrying heavy boxes, laying bricks, and the like, so unless you wanna start having your body treated as something to be worn down and expendable "like men", suck it up. No one's stopping you…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:51 AM
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Yeah, because a man's emotional and physical affection is worthless I guess. The only reason a girl needs a relationship is for him to buxx her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:14 PM
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These men don't put in the same effort and tend to just go along for the ride. I've seen friends who have to take the reigns on everything, even proposing, after asking a man out. I'm just gonna weigh in from my own (in)experience that this isn't necessarily a case of a guy not caring about the girl, just that he's content with where the relationship is. I'm the one who asked her out, but my first love is probably the girl I treated the "worst", since I rarely ever took her out on dates or gave …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:08 PM
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Being betabux means she still likes you No, it means she's using you to get a certain lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:26 AM
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Before you say "Women should approach".... That's a bad strategy—if a guy didn't like you enough to risk rejection by asking you out, what are the chances he'll treat you well in a relationship? Does this really make any sense to you? Would you intentionally treat a guy you like badly if he asked you out? Would he treat him poorly for offering to pay for a date? For giving you attention, gifts, or affection? Or would you see value in a guy who shows that he cares about you, and thus try to treat…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 12:22 AM
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Women mostly vent to stabilize their emotions though This is the big disconnect between how men and women communicate. Men don't do this, so when they hear women speak about their problems, men's natural response is to: offer a solution, or share their own problems in return The latter scenario also makes men hope for some understanding or comfort due to years of hearing how "women are so empathetic".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 10:43 PM
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Welcome to the males' dual mating strategy. When guys are horny, they go to the internet. When they're looking for a wife, they check out their school or church or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 07:11 PM
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This would say the men *are not* above her level to me. And that's exactly how women who think like you become Alpha Widows.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 08:00 PM
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Also is sex really so crucial to men that they'd kill themselves if they didn't get it? Why? Testosterone. For men, the drive for sex is probably right under the drive to eat and sleep everyday. Rebecca Lynn Pope talked about how she was prescribed it to increase her libido, and said she felt like a different person sexually whenever she was around her husband, and even the amount she had was something like 20x less than what the average man has.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 11:45 AM
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Source on second story? One of my friends who's a software dev left her company a couple of months ago, with that being one of her main complaints lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 02:01 PM
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Some careers you'd think would attract selfless people but don't. This was me with doctors/med school people. Majority of the ones I met were narcissists that wanted the status of being above other people, so that "no one could talk down to them" and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 04:13 AM
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Housewife eventually, but settled for software engineer who works from home. Ever since I was a kid I wanted both of us to not be tied to work, or at the very least have the same profession/workplace so that we could spend more time together.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 06:56 AM
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art and literature, athleticism Great pursuits, feel even better when you have a partner that's proud of you for your accomplishments in those travel Tons of fun, even more fun to go with people close to you science, or just collecting fucktons of wealth A lot of men get into science for high-paying careers, or otherwise try to get wealthy, for the sake of providing for a lover/family Anything you can accomplish, only feels better when you have a supportive family or family you want to support. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 06:12 AM
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it’s not the women who make more that have the problem. https://www.11alive.com/video/features/women-struggle-find-men-who-make-more-money/85-ebde71da-aa25-4d57-84b4-9ed9ffce5591 Women totally do have this problem, what with hypergamy and all that. At best, looking at both sides of the coin just shows that both men and women have a shared problem in this regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 03:55 AM
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If I recall the science behind this, it's more common for women to get attached to their first partner, because they have more oxytocin (instant attachment when they have sex for the first time with someone), whereas men are more affected by vasopressin (attachment builds up from repeated sex with someone). At least, I remember that being mentioned as a reason for why women divorce more when they have higher n-counts, because they get less attached to their later partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 02:33 AM
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This always sounds like a cope to me. Not saying that it definitely is, but I just never get the logic when guys say this. Like, why would you need other guys to teach her about sex? Wouldn't it be better to just have your girl learn to suit your personal tastes?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 02:15 AM
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I'm sure she meant it to sound encouraging, as if being "better" in bed is supposed to make up for it, but yeah, I was shocked at the lack of empathy when she said it. Anyways, it does seem that most women prefer their partners to be circumcised (for similar reasons I mentioned), which I can see leading them to wanting their own children circumcised. https://www.gentlecircumcision.com/blog/circumcision-what-do-women-prefer https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6523040/ It's a sad issue to…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 01:16 AM
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First of all, most women have the opposite standard themselves. Just watch any Youtube street interview about this and you'll see that most women prefer guys to have experience, as opposed to most guys wanting virgins. Emphasis on most before some special snowflake goes "well ackshually I'm a girl and I love virgin guys ;)" As for the guys, a lot of them end up that way because they start off wanting low/no n-count women, but as they get older they just give up hope and start fucking around with…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 01:01 AM
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I don't know about "most women", but I've heard the reasons from non-religious women that are pro-circumcision to basically be "it'll be easier for me to clean when he's a baby" and "why would it be a bad thing? He'll be better off for not cumming as fast", with one woman I know saying the latter to a guy who told her that he regretted living as a circumcised guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 06:18 PM
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So given all that, it seems weird there wouldn’t be stigma against men having children when they are old for health reasons like there is for women. You're comparing men with just having health issues at 45 vs. women who start to have a combination of fertility and health decline starting from 30 and being much worse at 45. These are not the same odds, and for women in particular you're just pointing out that the odds get more extreme later, but why wouldn't people still want to make use of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 04:32 AM
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Time itself isn't equal between men and women. 30 is when fertility starts to decline. It doesn't drop off as hard as it does when a woman reaches 40 like in your other reply, but it does start to drop off regardless, which is why it's the time that women are seen as on the clock. Men aren't on that same clock, so there are more guys in their 30s that are still "having fun" like men and women in their 20s. It's basically a warning for women that their dating options will start to be much worse c…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 04:15 AM
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These are the odds of the child getting Downs syndrome at different age ranges https://www.acog.org/womens-health/faqs/having-a-baby-after-age-35-how-aging-affects-fertility-and-pregnancy 1 in 1,480 at age 20 1 in 940 at age 30 1 in 353 at age 35 1 in 85 at age 40 Take into account that it's not like couples will decide to get married right away, and that they might want to build intimacy without kids for a bit even after marriage, on top of maybe financial or other similar issues coming up, mee…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 04:05 AM
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Do they mean dating someone with explicit intentions of marrying them? Because most people regardless of their gender aren’t dating with the sole intention of getting married when they are young, so I fail to see how this is a women only thing It's this, specifically directed at women that plan on having kids, because waiting longer is disadvantageous for women biologically, which in turn means that single men in the 30+ age range aren't typically gonna look for 30+ aged women, they're still gon…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 03:53 AM
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A wrongdoing that goes unreported is still wrong. It's like saying that getting away with shoplifting or committing a hit-and-run is "justified" when any witnesses just didn't bother to report you. There's always a better high ground to take, and in your scenario the right thing to do would be for the couple to have a conversation beforehand.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 02:57 AM
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Is this the case for all sex or just casual sex? https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-017-0939-z Compared to women who orgasmed less frequently, women who orgasmed more frequently were more likely to: receive more oral sex, have longer duration of last sex, be more satisfied with their relationship, ask for what they want in bed, praise their partner for something they did in bed, call/email to tease about doing something sexual, wear sexy lingerie, try new sexual positions, anal sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 02:34 AM
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Cheating's never justified, and I do think it is one of the worst things you can do to another person psychologically. People can get suicidal over getting cheated on, and even if they don't get pushed that far, it can leave them with lifelong trauma and trust issues, ruining whatever future relationships they build. Just read the SurvivingMyInfidelity or SurvivingInfidelity subreddits if you want a bad time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 02:14 AM
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I think many women out there dont know their body enough to know how to get off is part of this gap. Yeah, I think this is a big part of it. This is anecdotal, but I had a conversation where one girl was pissed about how she only ever got off from fingering once in her life from a one night stand, but she didn't know how he did it, so she couldn't tell her future partners how to get that same feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 02:07 AM
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Most people don’t earn six figures because they work jobs/think that college educations are the best way to earn money. They’re not. This. I don't regret going to college or anything, but the best thing I got out of it was the social experience. What woke me up to how big of a scam the "build a career" lifestyle was seeing my how my older friends were doing. It was depressing. They would complain about work, maybe even be going back to school for more education even after graduation, and when th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 10:22 PM
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As an entrepreneur, I honestly do think anyone can become wealthy. However, I don't think many will, especially with how many fall for the "safe" route of "go through college and then get a career". I'm not too familiar with Fresh & Fit's content, but iirc they do have a focus on the members/guests being people that started their own businesses and the like, so if the viewers follow that example, then they have a much better chance of being financially successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 05:23 PM
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>"About to" I live in a city, and it's a huge issue already. The only couple I know that lives in a house had rich parents on both sides to support them in the purchase, and they even have buyer's remorse over it. Another guy I know is among the top positions in his company, but because he's a sole earner in his relationship, even he had to settle for a condo to raise his kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 04:11 PM
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We swing This alone just makes your whole comment not worth replying to, because what you value for a relationship is the antithesis of what a person who cares about n-count wants. Like saying stuff like "Oh, sex with virgins is so terrible, it's way better to have a woman with experience" is meaningless, because normal people in a relationship care about exclusivity. What does it matter if a girl sucks in bed the first night, it doesn't mean that she can't learn to get better over time. You eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 04:04 PM
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"Would you put a bumper sticker on a Bentley?" Personally I just don't like tattoos in general, and roast even my guy friends for getting them. Most of the ones I've seen aren't "meaningful" or anything (stuff like a triforce symbol on a forearm, or random flames on a leg, or an owl across a chest just because they like owls), so to me tattoos usually signal a lack of care towards the owner's body, treating it as a plaything. I coincidentally also came across this video that discusses the topic …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 02:09 AM
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If I am done with a guy, i always block because i don't want them back in my life. if you aren't blocking, isn't that a way to still keep the door open? I've never hated an ex or anything, and wouldn't have minded to stay friends with any of them if they wanted to. I just think it's sad to be so close to someone and then be able to cut them out of my life in the next moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 10:49 PM
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Play the numbers game and hold off sex until marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:50 AM
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Those kinds of men got snatched up in high school/first-year college, because they prioritized marriage/long-term relationships. You're in the fuckboy age range now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:45 AM
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I disagree with justifying cheating, but I checked out one of his recent vids, and I recall he talked with a caller who got divorced because she was cheated on in her previous marriage. Then he asked something along the lines of "what if the guy was richer than Jeff Bezos?", and she kinda conceded that that would've been different. So, I don't agree with him on a moral level, nor do I agree on the view that most men are willing to cheat like he thinks, but I understand why he has his view, since…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 07:29 PM
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It's free, and there's a summary, so might as well check it out yourself. I read the summary, and the main points it covered were Sex is mainly psychological/emotional, so focus on exciting your partner's emotions Be dominant. Use action over words when possible. Basically don't be too hesitant and always ask to do stuff, since it kills the mood. Focus on your instincts instead of thinking of sex as some puzzle to solve with technical tips/tricks. General tips on how to be versatile and keep eac…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 03:11 PM
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You don't need multiple partners to practice, and with each new partner some "progress" is reset, like having to learn new preferences or quirks. I also think there's more bonding when people start at the same level and develop their experiences together. Not talking about just sex, but any activity, like when you join a sports team with a friend, or if you were to learn an instrument.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 03:00 PM
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Simps will be loveless all on their own. It's when they get self-respect, and learn how to actually attract women without being doormats that they'll be successful with love. Maybe there's another way to go about it than shaming, but right now I see the attempt as a method of "bullying works". Women are the ones that hold the keys to sex. If what they want to do is secure long-term relationships, they need to deny those men looking for sex within the first few dates. The problem is that some wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 08:38 AM
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As a woman, I know that ultimately we want a provider. I’m sure there has to be a biological evolutionary component to this. I don’t know exactly how this lines up with what men ultimately want because sex is important but what about long term goals like having a life partner and companionship? Isn’t that what everyone wants? Men do want companionship, they just don't think the quality of companionship is fair nowadays. In previous generations, men got to have a loving, loyal, virgin wife in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 08:25 AM
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I think the comparison to simps is good. In a way, you could see it as advice. People hate on simps, and simps are unsuccessful in dating, and so the backlash against simping will potentially lead to better men in the dating pool. In a similar way, high N-count women are undesirable, so if a backlash is known towards that kind of behaviour, then hopefully future generations will have lower promiscuity since there's more awareness of how it can hurt the chances of building an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 08:06 AM
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Is there like a mental checklist that guys have of what traits make a woman feminine? I don't think this is something most guys consciously check for, like how stereotypically woman have an "ideal man" in mind and weigh out what matches and what doesn't. From what I can tell, most guys I know kinda take the approach in the opposite way, in that they're not looking for what ticks the boxes, but instead they're on guard for red flags and dealbreakers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 04:36 AM
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There are men here bothered by the number of partners, but I’ve not had that issue with men in real life. None of my boyfriends have ever even asked. Most guys don't ask for the sake of not ruining the relationship, not because they don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 03:51 AM
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If it was a relationship that started off sexual and then the hypothetical disease or whatever kicked in after developing a bond, then I would stay. But if there was no sex to begin with, then I wouldn't have entered the relationship. I've said this before, but the difference to me between someone being a "close friend" and a "lover" is the intimacy and sex. I can open up or support people emotionally with many people, girls and guys, but the physical relationship is exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 04:27 PM
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From what I've seen, it's mainly about keeping up a reputation. If you make everyone wait for sex, then guys will think, "fair enough, hope I get to be the guy that's worthy of your approval". But if you're someone that slept around or used to be more easygoing in relationships, and now you change your tune for your latest guy, then he's gonna have a problem waiting if other people didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 01:35 AM
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Not wanting to be compared or seen as inadequate compared to previous partners =/= not caring about their partner's enjoyment. I don't think it's irrational for a guy to fear getting settled for sexually. It's not healthy to dwell on things like that, but it's still understandable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 01:31 AM
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I'll wait to hear how a woman that's specifically a virgin is going to give these guys pornstar sex. It's not anchored in the reality at all. I've never heard of this expectation. From what I can tell, the desire for virginity is just so that both partners can share the experience and learn about each together on equal footing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 01:28 AM
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I'm not an expert on TRP, but basically if you want marriage, what I've seen work out best among my friend group is to find someone as a high school sweetheart or late teens/very early twenties and eventually get married without any other relationship experience (or at least minimal outside experience). My takeaway is that without a ton of experience with other people, you just have stronger commitment because you're not really searching the market for "what's missing", and instead the two partn…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 01:03 AM
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I wasted my 20-ies on being a good boyfriend for hoes like the mentioned ex, then I fell for another hoe that cheated with her sugar daddy. Of course I sound angry. around a third of my lays were with girls in LTRs (two of them also married). I am sorry if it sounds like double standard, but men and women are not the same The issue isn't the double standard here, it's that you contributed to the exact problem that made you so jaded in the first place. What kind of hypocrisy is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 10:40 AM
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Closer to guy 2. To me, an ideal relationship history would be just one person, where you meet the right person on the first try, and then live the rest of your life with them. The only real conflict there is that guy 2 didn't really bag someone early while he was younger, but a relationship history of a couple people is pretty close to fresh start.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 07:59 AM
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One, that seems to be what most TRP men actually call for women to do: settle. So I'm not buying that. Not that I've dug deep into TRP, but from what I know it doesn't tell women to do anything, it just tells men about what to expect from women and to adjust accordingly. Two, wanting casual sex with someone doesn't mean they're the hottest guy I've ever dated. I normally pick someone for casual sex because I either have no interest in a relationship at all, or because the guy is as physically at…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 06:27 AM
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Men want to be the best partner in ALL aspects. That means that they want their lover to love them the most, AND for their lover to consider them the most sexually attractive man that their lover's been with. If the woman doesn't see the man in this way, then that means that the woman was settling down in one aspect, which would be crushing to know for the guy. I mean, even with the genders swapped, I don't think a girl would appreciate it if a guy told them "hey, I love you, but you definitely …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 05:55 AM
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Society has trained us that we can't sleep with a man right away if we want to keep him. What women have to realize is that this is only true IF you don't sleep around ever. If you're a virgin or only had sex with people that you sincerely cared for, then a potential partner can respect that, and sees that you truly value your sexuality, and the guy will think that he has to shape up to be worthy of it. However, if you do have a history of casual sex/one-night stands, then the guy's not gonna wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 10:43 PM
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Because guys' compliments are diverse. You can be complimented from being blonde or brunette, busty or petite, whereas a woman's cliche for what they want is a singular mold of "tall, dark, and handsome". Some girls might find such compliments unwarranted, but at the very least they're not exclusionary or demotivating like when a guy hears that his height doesn't measure up. The closest comparison is that guys might say that they don't want someone who's overweight, but that's something that act…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 12:12 AM
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putting even more pressure on females virgins and singling them out. can be just as embarrassed and insecure about that concept as men A woman being a virgin is a highly sought out virtue in the dating world. Let's ignore the "shame" that someone might get from peers of the same gender for a moment. Women call men virgins/incels as direct insults to destroy guys' egos, while for men, finding a virgin woman to start a relationship with is like hitting the jackpot. You know, the whole "unicorn" th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 03:52 AM
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I've seen a lot of women say stuff like this, and it is so backwards. Guys can get companionship from other guys just fine. The dividing line between a close friend and a lover is the sex. That doesn't mean that a relationship should only have sex, but for a long-term relationship, a guy's gonna want a girl he likes to hang out with, and one that he can have sex with. If you withhold sex, it just makes him feel insecure, that you don't want to be intimate with him because you find him unattracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 11:35 PM
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