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| 12 | Humiliation | Namedoesntmatter89 | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/16 05:01 AM |
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| -2 | Help! I dated a feminist and she reported meI'd write 3000$ I'm canadian | /r/MensRights | 02/12/23 12:32 AM |
| 3 | How to cope with the amount of rejection you get as a man?There are many tips that can be given, but most of them really depend on your unique circumstances and what women you are interested in. This makes me hesitant to give any advice because what is the point when I'll probably be wrong. | /r/MensRights | 22/10/23 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Wow, some western women live in a fantasy.To be honest, collectively, you are pulling 95 hours per week while raising kids and trying to maintain a hobby farm and house upkeep. Maybe the issue here is that you are both overworked and might benefit from reducing your workload generally? | /r/MensRights | 24/09/23 07:05 PM |
| 7 | Wait, isn't that exactly what they tell us when we ask about our own reproductive freedom?You might be able to get away with some of these things, but youd probably get a ton of backlash from women. A lot of guys would fold to that pressure. | /r/MensRights | 10/05/23 11:06 PM |
| 2 | Bit of a ventYah u could look at it that way | /r/MensRights | 24/03/23 12:02 AM |
| 10 | Bit of a ventSome people are just ready for a fight. You have nothing to prove to those people. Just be a good person. However, it really does help you as a person to learn, talk, listen, but please dont ever take the anger you experience here personally. This isn't about you, and this simply isn't your fault. This is about their own baggage and what they've gone through (as men). Divorce for example, is very traumatizing. Some people decide to hate the opposite sex forever, and theyll rip me to shreds for a… | /r/MensRights | 23/03/23 09:10 PM |
| 24 | “Happy Marriage” The only people I know who are happily married drink alcohol every night. They avoid any type of meaningful conversations and just want to escape. Am I just around the wrong people or is this the only way to sustain a long term relationship?I have been married before and it wasnt happy. I am now with another woman and we have a daughter together. I think we are happy. First marriage: Her family was rich, i was not. Lol. Her and i werent a good match. I dont think i was really viewed as an equal. I worked a job i hated and started moving towards a career better suited for me ( and she didnt support this) We didnt last... 2nd marriage Poor family. Good match. And our values match up well. We share our $ freely. We dont compete with e… | /r/MensRights | 18/03/23 02:45 AM |
| 5 | Women Are Much More Selective And Find 80% Of Men Unattractive On Dating Apps, Per Recent ResearchI second dating foreign girls. There are pros and cons to it, but if they have an innate desire to be domestic and value family, thats a good starting place. Ive dated a few. My current partner is filipina and is perfect. Shes a great person. Western women are just... tiresome sadly. I hope my kids dont feel that way. | /r/MensRights | 22/02/23 02:51 AM |
| -1 | “We can still be friends”Im frustrated in general with this sub lately. It's getting way too echo chambery in here. I dont see any accountability lately. To be frank, i see too many men blaming all women and not enough men looking at how they can do better, then all the while ignoring the 10% of men who are absolute loser / creeps and make the rest of us suffer for it. And I apologize, but i got the impression everyone was trying to excuse the fact that the dude might actually be daft as shit and trying to reinforce the… | /r/MensRights | 20/02/23 01:53 AM |
| -1 | “We can still be friends”nah, we agree. Im almost ready to leave this sub. I can really hear the echo in this chamber far too often. | /r/MensRights | 20/02/23 01:40 AM |
| -1 | “We can still be friends”If the point isnt about what the women were doing, why do you even ask what the other women were doing? Stand up and be better then. Dont drag judging whores into the mix. It's not really your job to police them. lol | /r/MensRights | 20/02/23 01:38 AM |
| 3 | “We can still be friends”There will always be men out there who will target married women. It is admirable that you dont want to be one of them. However, dont confuse yourself. Many married people have relationships with loose boundaries and are very okay with it. Many married men AND women do things that would upset their partners, or their partners know, and tolerate it... There are many explanations for what you experienced. Men and Women, even married ones, still sometimes miss the feeling of being flirted with and … | /r/MensRights | 20/02/23 12:59 AM |
| 4 | “We can still be friends”upvote for being normal. | /r/MensRights | 20/02/23 12:52 AM |
| -1 | “We can still be friends”If youre 20 and you posted this, I get it, but as we age, most of us do learn boundaries lol. | /r/MensRights | 20/02/23 12:50 AM |
| 1 | “We can still be friends”Additional feelings dont even have to ruin a friendship. People can work through that and move on with their lives lol. And that goes for both men and women. I dont blame anyone for noping out of that shit though. I've seen both men and women get scary possessed. | /r/MensRights | 20/02/23 12:46 AM |
| -1 | “We can still be friends”Maybe she wanted some dick? Maybe she didnt. Maybe her husband doesnt give a shit. Maybe she is a cheater? I'm not gonna validate the idea that most women are cheating whores though. Maybe that one is? Maybe OP is dense and misread the first two. Maybe they really were flirting, but had 0 intention of doing anything. Why does this matter so much even? I see more questions than answers here. | /r/MensRights | 20/02/23 12:43 AM |
| -4 | How concerned are you that primarily men will be expected to fight in the next World War?Does your previous sperm recepticle have any children? | /r/MensRights | 20/02/23 12:15 AM |
| -38 | How concerned are you that primarily men will be expected to fight in the next World War?If you had children, do you think youd feel differently? | /r/MensRights | 19/02/23 08:22 PM |
| 1 | How concerned are you that primarily men will be expected to fight in the next World War?Uhmm, i hope they do. I do not want my countrys safety resting on a giant social experiment. Sorry boys. | /r/MensRights | 19/02/23 08:21 PM |
| 0 | Helping you understand positive masculinity and toxic masculinityIm not sure i agree with your line of thought. I think people need to be careful about defining things or assuming that definition is the correct and or widely used one. Toxic masculinity and femininity arent necessarily "scientifically valid" even if gender is. That being said, i know what you are intending when you say toxic masculinity (or femininity) more or less. One thing to note that i recall is that between men and women, aggression was actually very equal, but men tended to use physical… | /r/MensRights | 18/02/23 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Helping you understand positive masculinity and toxic masculinityThey use the same methodology used to o measure constructs like IQ. So if you want to split hairs here, i will agree with something like: The construct of gender exists within the field of psychology. Evidence exists to support these constructs as valid within the field of psychology using scientific methods. The methods are not as easily reproduced because of the nature of the topic. Saying there is 0 evidence is wrong. 100% and factually wrong. Even case studies, if you know anything about the… | /r/MensRights | 18/02/23 12:53 AM |
| -6 | Helping you understand positive masculinity and toxic masculinityPsychology, not the commenter above does this. These are commonly used constructs in the field of psychology. You can call it absurd, but scientifically speaking, it actually does exist. It isnt even as simple as woke people being woke. It's actually real. I think it needs further examination and further flushing out though. Whether you agree with it or not is another question. And if toxic masculinity is real, there is no way toxic femininity is not real. Theyre conceptulizations of different c… | /r/MensRights | 17/02/23 02:47 PM |
| 0 | Helping you understand positive masculinity and toxic masculinitymasculinity and feminity are actually expressions of gender lol. You can even "measure" them in all people, men and women can all have measures of femininity and masculinity. In reality, there is toxic masculinity and toxic feminity. But the labels toxic are a bit silly. Does it matter? I dunno. Regardless, the actual behaviours of individuals are the issue. Blanket labelling a bunch of issues isnt necessarily helpful. | /r/MensRights | 17/02/23 02:43 PM |
| 1 | I'm going to take my ex wife on. Can I win this?Look. My parents divorced young. Ive watched divorces as an adult and been through one myself. If you leave your exwife in an ugly financial situation, one day, it might not be you picking up the pieces, it might be your daughter. My mom has no pension. As her son, am i supposed to just let her suffer broke and almost homeless? And yes, i 100% resent my dad for his coldness toward her through the process. Im asking you to think about the long term consequences rather than being stuck on how this… | /r/MensRights | 12/02/23 04:44 PM |
| 0 | I'm going to take my ex wife on. Can I win this?But your daughter doesnt deserve this kind of malice. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/23 04:15 PM |
| 1 | I'm going to take my ex wife on. Can I win this?You need to remember one thing. Your daughter is what matters most. Not your replaceable ex-wife. You do NOT want your daughter Living in some shithole half the time. This means, make sure her mom isnt in a terrible situation. I dont know your laws, but you should determine how to do this with minimal cost and with safety for yourself. Dont think so much about what your exwife is doing to you. Position yourself for the Public relations game with your daughter. That means, every step of the way, … | /r/MensRights | 12/02/23 03:55 PM |
| 8 | Gender Inequality deters men from becoming teachers or nurses, study findsWow im surprised. As a former male RN i mever felt supported in nursing at all. | /r/MensRights | 24/12/22 12:50 AM |
| 13 | Young mom heavily criticised after admitting she feeds her baby son 'like he's a chicken' by throwing snacks on the ground for him to eatOkay, im a man and i also sometimes do this simply b/c my daughter throws her food on the ground anyways. I mean, i generally try to put it on a plate, but she is often happy to come to the plate, leave, come back, and before long, the food is everywhere anyways. Sometimes she flips out when i put her in the highchair. Kids are dirty. I've caught my daughter licking the floor. She puts toys on floor then her mouth... I mean, this is just reality when you have kids lol. | /r/MensRights | 11/12/22 09:52 PM |
| 1 | How can I get my partner to realize men don't have it all good just because they're men ?Would you date a very overzealous christian? Why or why not? She might want your child to go to church every week and you might not be okay with that. The opposite could be true as well, where youre very christian and she is not. This isn't really that different. If she ever had your child, just imagine the crap she'd want to teach your child. Anyways, you really should be treating this like a religious difference, b/c aside from having a structure like a church, it's not that different. Using r… | /r/MensRights | 27/11/22 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Protests in Iran: Men make 80% of arrested and 75% of deaths along the "feminist " protests.Men and women have both been opressed by nature. Since forever. Our default is suffering. Youre not alone. True peak human is recognizing that and just trying to be better, regardless of gender. Hope youre doing well. | /r/MensRights | 22/11/22 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Protests in Iran: Men make 80% of arrested and 75% of deaths along the "feminist " protests.Remember, this is a support group as much as it is a place for people to discuss ideas. You will get downvoted into oblivion for trying to point out common cause, and for some reason, these people dont recognize how important it is for society at large, and especially, for our children, for all of us to seek for common ground, rather than divisiveness. These reactionaries, in my opinion, take away from the ability to fight for actual male rights b/c they make everyone here look like selfish lose… | /r/MensRights | 20/11/22 02:13 AM |
| 0 | Women Initiate Most Divorces But Why?the cynical part is to go into a relationship expecting to be left at the end. There are things you can do to reduce the chance it happens. | /r/MensRights | 19/11/22 11:44 PM |
| 1 | I asked in AskFeminist how do feminist feel about the Till movie. I stated that the movie illuminates the inmate privilege white women have, and since white women are the primary people who push and belong to the movement, I wanted to hear some thoughts.where is the answer? | /r/MensRights | 15/11/22 10:12 PM |
| 3 | How to be a men's allyFirst things first, the feminist sphere has all sorts of loaded terminology (like "ally") and these terms are often either derogatory or self-congratulatory. I really don't like political language that serves only to advance a political agenda. When I hear someone say they are an ally to the LGBTQ community, I feel very suspicious of their motives. I have gay friends, and we roast each other constantly, but if someone did something to them, i'd be there in a heartbeat if i felt it was deserved. … | /r/MensRights | 13/11/22 06:21 PM |
| 2 | "'Trad wives' are using social media to romanticize a return to 'traditional values' as more and more women face post-COVID work/life balance burnout"men and women are collectively less important than children. Would you rather have a stay at home parent in retrospect versus being a latchkey kid? I mean, I would. If that means My wife and I both have to take risks and live a less financially lucrative life, I'd pick that any day over a fight over money. I dont feel like property in this regard. I feel like what I am doing is whats best for my child. | /r/MensRights | 10/11/22 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Why are books so lowkey sexist against men?if you want the opposite end of that, a lot of science fiction is extremely male dominated especially traditionally. You get paper thin female characters with a lesser focus on relationships. Personally, I'm fine with that. I'd way rather read about politics, rules, and how things work. Anyways, you will get way less of what youre describing if there is something technical about the field or its related to something technical. I.e. science fiction. I mean growing up, I remember boys being obsess… | /r/MensRights | 07/11/22 05:04 PM |
| 3 | i wonder why American men are still getting married with the legal system heavily leaning against them.Can you really point to a great police department though? | /r/MensRights | 31/10/22 02:06 AM |
| 2 | i wonder why American men are still getting married with the legal system heavily leaning against them.wow. Yeah, doesnt surprise me at all. | /r/MensRights | 30/10/22 10:31 PM |
| 3 | i wonder why American men are still getting married with the legal system heavily leaning against them.Yeah suing the city about the police is a case many lawyers probably wouldnt want. Youd have to lawyer shop i imagine and honestly, it might be too much for you from the sounds of it. | /r/MensRights | 30/10/22 08:04 PM |
| 5 | i wonder why American men are still getting married with the legal system heavily leaning against them.Are you sure the cop and health professional werent friends? A lot of nurses and cops get along famously for example. I used to see cops warning our nurses about road blocks and stuff. For example ( i am a former nurse and male fyi) Id say there is a good chance this was plain old corruption and potentially worth considering a lawsuit over lol | /r/MensRights | 30/10/22 07:31 PM |
| 4 | i wonder why American men are still getting married with the legal system heavily leaning against them.Can you elaborate on this. Im not really a fan of police, but this sounds outlandish | /r/MensRights | 30/10/22 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Cancelling the MGTOW movement is the same as grooming men. No one is entitled to a marriageYeah sounds sad honestly. I have a cousin who had made that choice. He in particular sits in his room and drinks. Last time i went in there, there was about 30 empty cans littered amongst his shit. What is he 40?? Living with his grandparents and his room is disgusting. Dude flat out needs help. Help he refuses. And it breaks my heart. Im honestly surprised he hasnt committed suicide as he is admittedly miserable and doesnt have anything he cares about at all. It makes me very sad because, my co… | /r/MensRights | 24/10/22 06:25 PM |
| 10 | Harrasment in the workplace by female colleague and HR doing nothing to helpmake sure you also email HR with the complaint. CC your own private email. at least then they cant deny you ever came. | /r/MensRights | 23/10/22 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Cancelling the MGTOW movement is the same as grooming men. No one is entitled to a marriageOh no. Its not the woman. I could care less about the woman if she wasnt necessary for the family part. Its the act of having a family that seems a lot more important here. But i dont see a lot of me n here talking about feling fulfilled. The impression i get is more of one of giving up an important aspect of life because it doesnt feel safe. That doesnt at all feel like something worth protecting. It feels wrong and sad. Whether its because many women today are a mess or something to do with th… | /r/MensRights | 23/10/22 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Cancelling the MGTOW movement is the same as grooming men. No one is entitled to a marriageSure. I dont think they should be shamed, i feel pity more than anything. Theyre not doing anything that is outright wrong. But it feels like a very empty life. And the responses i get from this type of person are very much like responses id get from man hating women. Defensive and protective (on the plus side nobody is outright insulting me here). It just seems to me like a very emotional reaction rather than anything logically thought out. Its sad. Sorry, but thats all i see. Do you need to fe… | /r/MensRights | 23/10/22 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Cancelling the MGTOW movement is the same as grooming men. No one is entitled to a marriageYes but this isnt even true for everyone. Not all people are predisposed to the same set of conditions. The average white girl in north america or europe? Sure. But seriously, the # of women ive met from southeast asia who want a partner and literally die single because theyre broke as shit over there and cant find someone is equally heart breaking. Those women rarely leave their partners too. Not like what we experience in the west. Our issues are cultural and economic. And stay away from women… | /r/MensRights | 22/10/22 05:47 PM |
| -1 | Cancelling the MGTOW movement is the same as grooming men. No one is entitled to a marriageFyi. I really am not the type of person to believe that good things happen to good people. I know its common. Anyways. You ignored huge parts of what i just said. Theres a reason a ton of men go to southeast asia. But the dark side of that is that we hear countless stories of women being abandoned by their men there. Im just saying, if in the west men dont have the fairest deal, you should consider how unfair it would be if women had zero protections. We cant really help what set of conditions w… | /r/MensRights | 22/10/22 03:57 PM |
| -3 | Cancelling the MGTOW movement is the same as grooming men. No one is entitled to a marriageWhich individual? | /r/MensRights | 22/10/22 03:49 PM |
| -34 | Cancelling the MGTOW movement is the same as grooming men. No one is entitled to a marriageThis just seems sad to me. I have a good partner and a daughter. Ita absolutely fulfilling to have that. You know, my partner is filipina. You should go there and see how unfair it is for women. Single moms there often end up as prostitutes. It sucks being on the unfair side of things, but whne you meet a person that is trustworthy, itd be sad to throw that away. Just seems like a sad mentality. | /r/MensRights | 22/10/22 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to marry without the potential to lose half of everything in divorce? If so, how?Ya i aint a fan. | /r/MensRights | 18/10/22 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to marry without the potential to lose half of everything in divorce? If so, how?Nukes are useless. Apparently, china's navy isn barely open ocean capable. So i dunno. | /r/MensRights | 18/10/22 05:27 PM |
| 5 | Is it possible to marry without the potential to lose half of everything in divorce? If so, how?For now. But its partly because they had good demographics. Now.they dont lol | /r/MensRights | 18/10/22 09:19 AM |
| 6 | Is it possible to marry without the potential to lose half of everything in divorce? If so, how?yeah, but look at how corruption has absolutely made it impossible for russia to maintain its military. You really think china is not corrupt? Something tells me they're a paper tiger militarily too. | /r/MensRights | 18/10/22 08:12 AM |
| 11 | Is it possible to marry without the potential to lose half of everything in divorce? If so, how?Thanks for letting me know! | /r/MensRights | 18/10/22 08:10 AM |
| 23 | Is it possible to marry without the potential to lose half of everything in divorce? If so, how?So realistically, you will choose a partner who isnt batshit crazy. If this is important, and it should be to a certain degree, research the laws of your specific location. In USA (and Canada) those laws will be specific to the state (or province) you live in. Another thing, if you enter a marriage already owning stuff, there are things you can do to basically give them your wealth. I.e. putting their name on a home you already own. So yeah, do research on YOUR location. Generalities only go so … | /r/MensRights | 18/10/22 07:44 AM |
| 20 | Is it possible to marry without the potential to lose half of everything in divorce? If so, how?China is not going to take over. They are literally going to see their population cut in half in the next 30 - 50 years. And on top of that, they favour male children, so combine that with 1 child policy, you have way more men than women... and each person has more parents than siblings. once you have to take care of them as they age, good luck society. Not to mention, USA just nuked their superconductor capabilities. China's done man. | /r/MensRights | 18/10/22 07:29 AM |
| 0 | Around 70% of divorces are initiated by women, what are some of your theories as to why that is?i'd say valid and reasonable, but behaviour is complex. given the way my last partner treated me, if we had kids together, i dont think i could have been the father i am to my family now. Now, in hindsight, i cant sit there and say yup valid and reasonable. It's entirely possible your guys relationship sucked, or life sucked, or just werent a good match. Another similar one: My stepdad was a drunk with my mom. Next relationship, oh wow dude is a model parent. Nice job. But seriously, its possibl… | /r/MensRights | 16/10/22 06:34 AM |
| 2 | Question for all you men.First, i dont know what "our position" is. When i was in the first couple years of college, i considered myself somewhat of a feminist. I didnt really care much about it though. I cared more about freedom, equality, education, and honestly, i was kind of obsessed with sciences in general. I grew up jehovah's witness, and strongly hated their use of the word "truth", but strongly cared about seeking truth myself. I had a really positive relationship with a korean chick when i was like 19, but i g… | /r/MensRights | 05/10/22 09:10 AM |
| 1 | What are you guys' thoughts on Jordan Peterson?I will also show empathy for and be a friend, but i mean, if i start punching you in the face, are you gonna respect my tyrannical masculinity? Why not? And how is it really any different for emotional attacks. Obviously, we all have to do this to survive and protect ourselves. | /r/MensRights | 01/10/22 08:52 AM |
| 3 | What are you guys' thoughts on Jordan Peterson?even jordan peterson would use preferred pronouns if he believes there isnt some political agenda happening. He has definitely stated this. I feel grossed out when i hear about preferred pronouns, but like, if someone has made the effort to dress and act like a woman, i'm not going to be treating them as a man. However, if they started using it to extort me or to manipulate things, id be super uncomfortable and it would stick out like a giant glaring red flag. Does it happen much? Not really... … | /r/MensRights | 01/10/22 05:24 AM |
| 1 | I'd like to gather evidence proving that feminists are not for equality. (Megathread?)i mean, it's obvious a lot of them aren't. But like, what's the point? I've met feminists who are actually rather kind and agreeable and don't like seeing men get treated like shit. Just talk to those ones and watch out for red flags. Nothing wrong with an intellectually honest feminist. I mean, a lot of people in men's rights are actually feminists (i.e. the traditional aims, not the coopted goals of today's feminism which are quite frankly, fucked). Truthfully, this kind of stuff isn't really … | /r/MensRights | 28/09/22 08:33 AM |
| 1 | It really saddens me the abysmal state of men’s rights in Russia today.Well, im not a psychopath or a machiavellianist. What i meant was, are you really going to have the time, energy, or desire to consider all angles of why I might disagree with you about some of these issues. And equally, will I? And even then, when we find ourselves in some dichotomy that has life has placed on us, what then? If I am rich and you are poor, will i inevitably come to the conlusion that i should give you all my money? I mean, that would be nice, wouldnt it? So, then, it is very har… | /r/MensRights | 24/09/22 06:11 AM |
| 1 | It really saddens me the abysmal state of men’s rights in Russia today.I dont even really care if countries open or close their borders to russian people. Im just saying theyre not really a huge priority in terms of who id want to help considering the # of ukrainians. I dont blame the kid. Im just saying, hes gotta live with the consequences and im not going to be emotionally moved by an ethics debate on that one. And yes, there is a finite limit to the amount of refugees a country can handle per some amount of time. I think we are close to that limit already anywa… | /r/MensRights | 24/09/22 01:42 AM |
| 1 | It really saddens me the abysmal state of men’s rights in Russia today.Citizens have a right to flee. True. Countries also have a right to individually close their borders and choose who they accept. Since these rights conflict, someone has to make choices. Unfortunately, collective punishment is inevitable becauese the whole world is going to want russia to collectively see what happens when their country does what they did. Is it right? No. Will it make other authoritarian regimes think twice? Absolutely. Do ukrainians have more of a right to being rescued? Defin… | /r/MensRights | 24/09/22 12:05 AM |
| 4 | It really saddens me the abysmal state of men’s rights in Russia today.Russian men are going to be the lowest priority b/c we already have millions of legitimate ukranian refugees pouring into countries all over the world. There simply isnt the capacity to handle this many refugees, especially after the huge number of refugees that already showed up. And quite frankly, it shouldnt' be any other way because the Ukrainians are 100% victims of this whereas the Russian people, who are also definitely victims, are collectivelly allowing their country to genocide a count… | /r/MensRights | 23/09/22 07:30 PM |
| 4 | Seems like there’s a “diverse” cabinet in Britain now (basically no white men in major power), thoughts?Lets try an example: Lets assume that there are 40 people to join a chess team requiring only 16 people. The pool consists of 20 men and 20 women. Lets also assume that both 50% of women and men are each white (in reality this would not be the #'s). Now, lets consider several cases. there are many more good chess playing women and nonwhites there are many more good playing white men. The skill levels are about equal Now.... Lets assume that at minimum 50% of the chess team must be women and 50% … | /r/MensRights | 07/09/22 10:28 AM |
| 1 | Hanging out with other men has been improving my mental health (gay, 22)Not even. It really depends on their motivations. I have men some mean ones, but the intellectually honest ones arent so bad. Theyre at least open to a conversation and will change their minds about certain things if they see enough that convinces them so. | /r/MensRights | 03/09/22 11:59 PM |
| 2 | Hanging out with other men has been improving my mental health (gay, 22)Youre generalizing a lot here which is fine, buy this is not all women. Otherwise nobody would ever get married. Not everyone is hateful, man or woman. | /r/MensRights | 03/09/22 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Do you think feminism is hurting women in the long run?I think feminism in its current state is bad for society in the long run in the same way that excesssive individualism (and i think today's feminism is really just a woman focused hyper individualistic mindset). In saying that, I'm not even against women working, pursuing careers, or anything like that. What i do have a problem with is that it feels to me like its the norm. Like youre the weirdo if you want to have a family at 20. It's been pushed so hard how great life is when you have no kids,… | /r/MensRights | 06/08/22 07:53 PM |
| 7 | GF who doesn't believe in men's rightsif you do break up with her, do it quietly if you can. she sounds like she could make it messy. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 09:09 PM |
| 3 | what do you do when your own mother is a feminazi?There are many kind and warm women out there. There are also many good men. Normal people, men and women, dont tolerate people insulting their gender to their faces. This isnt just about gender. Unconstructive criticism is well... unconstructive. Why even bother listening when its unhelpful anyways? If i told a woman that women suck, why would she ever want to talk to me? It just comes off shitty. So yeah, you will avoid many of these issues by avoiding women who having nothing positive to say a… | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Sexist math TeacherIf this is true administration has probably already heard rumours and would be very happy to have some actual witnesses. | /r/MensRights | 27/07/22 01:31 AM |
| 1 | I used to be a feminist and now I dont know why I wasHahaha no. Were great . Omg this is hilarious The other dude was projecting. I never talked about anything to do with how were doing. | /r/MensRights | 23/07/22 02:35 AM |
| 2 | I used to be a feminist and now I dont know why I wasdont bother, just a negative person who has been through some rough experiences obviously | /r/MensRights | 23/07/22 01:45 AM |
| 1 | I used to be a feminist and now I dont know why I wasthat wasnt directed at you. another person is basically telling me im going to get left and that there is nothing i can do about it. | /r/MensRights | 22/07/22 09:23 PM |
| 1 | I used to be a feminist and now I dont know why I wasDude get a life man. Stop trying to convince me to take such a depressing stance in my marriage. | /r/MensRights | 22/07/22 08:43 PM |
| 1 | I used to be a feminist and now I dont know why I wasListen man, i agree that is unfair how men get treated in divorces, but many ppl never get divorced. Ive been divorced before, i know the game, but you cant move forward like tyou want me to with a new partner. There is a certain amount of risk you have to take to be a good partner, man or woman. If you choose no to take that risk, that's your choice and really thats fine. But honestly, i care a lot more my relationship and my child than i do planning for the worst case scenario. And in reality,… | /r/MensRights | 22/07/22 08:29 PM |
| 1 | I used to be a feminist and now I dont know why I wasOkay. However, its hard to be a good partner when you live with this level of cynicism. Im not going to sit here and expect my partner to treat me that way when so far, shes done everything to indicate the opposite. | /r/MensRights | 22/07/22 07:32 PM |
| 1 | I used to be a feminist and now I dont know why I wasMaybe one day, but thats your business :D | /r/MensRights | 22/07/22 08:55 AM |
| 12 | I used to be a feminist and now I dont know why I wasYou know why my wife loves me? Because she knows that when push comes to shove, i will put our family first You know why i love my wife? Because when push comes to shove, she will put our family first. Im not a particularly great person, but at least i can do this one thing correctly. Its always nice to hear others doing the same thing. | /r/MensRights | 22/07/22 08:45 AM |
| 0 | It is time for men to have their own version of "feminism".I disagree. Id you stop doing things that benefit society, i will also be affected. And if i stop, you will be affected. We should do these things in spite of free loading losers that exist in society. Good men plant trees that they themselves will never feel the shade of. Be a good man. Not a loser. | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 06:29 AM |
| 3 | I think it’s the end of line for meMan, the only thing you can do is be your best you. Your healthiest you. Be in your own corner. Dont give up on yourself because you have people who have demonized you. We all do. Lol | /r/MensRights | 16/06/22 08:30 PM |
| 2 | I think it’s the end of line for meShes a kid. Shes gonna say and do all sorts of things. :) you can only control what you can. Best of luck | /r/MensRights | 16/06/22 04:38 PM |
| -3 | I think it’s the end of line for meMy father didnt see me from the age of about 1 until 4. He met a woman who kept him in line when i was 4 and she encouraged him and pointed him toward being a better father until they separated when i was 12. Im 32 now. Its really strange how you piece things together as you get older... ive watched him as ive gotten older and come to a conclusion. Ive decided he is a very selfish ugly person. This isnt a contest with your wife. This is a contest with yourself. Just be a good parent in whatever … | /r/MensRights | 16/06/22 09:01 AM |
| 3 | please don't downvote me, just genuinely curious! i just like to learn hahaDefinition of Equality: How is equality defined? It appears to me that many of the ways feminism traditionally views equality very overwhelmingly favours women. Men who complain about problems impacting men are largely ignored, judged, and provided a feminist solution that doesnt really care about their issue. Abortion: I'm pro choice personally. I think not giving women the right to abortion is pretty dumb, but that being said, im a man. There is little to protect men from unwanted pregnancies,… | /r/MensRights | 07/06/22 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Men Pay Almost All Net TaxesMy girlfriend and i arent having regular sex. Im still happy. I just want to point out that sex is not the sole motivation for men. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/22 06:25 PM |
| 8 | this disgusting woman asking for advice on how to take advantage of dafe haven laws because she doesn't like the father (who wants to be in child's life) and doesn't want to pay child supportNo wonder their mods are so obtuse. Makes a lot of sense. Youre 100% sure this is true? | /r/MensRights | 08/05/22 06:51 AM |
| 16 | this disgusting woman asking for advice on how to take advantage of dafe haven laws because she doesn't like the father (who wants to be in child's life) and doesn't want to pay child supportHow do you know they are cops? | /r/MensRights | 08/05/22 06:06 AM |
| 9 | Gen-X womenActually millenials probably have a larger disparity between expectations and reality. It always seemed to me that gen x always were assuming the worst... Millenials on the other hand... yah. Born in 89.... highest education rates.... insane student loans... economy crashes when im like just gradding lol I was raised in free speech and hit about 25 and became consumed by leftist culture. Lol Housing prices went thru the roof so never bought a house for like ever... I mean come on. Lol. Were on t… | /r/MensRights | 27/04/22 08:33 AM |
| 2 | Yeah it's about Ukraine againOkay, you want my opinion on your strange point of view? Russia is a broken corrupt country that is warmongering and most eastern bloc countries are afraid of them. Eastern bloc countries have a right to make agreements with russia, usa, china or whoever else they want and it makes sense that they want to work with usa because of point 1 Russia is existentially threatened by usa and pretty much every country near or touching ita border . Therefore they declared war to expand their territory whic… | /r/MensRights | 22/03/22 06:04 AM |
| 0 | Yeah it's about Ukraine againboring, not interested. Russia is doomed. | /r/MensRights | 22/03/22 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Yeah it's about Ukraine againNATO expanded peacefully. it's hard to imagine how eastern bloc countries peacefully joining NATO justifies essentially a genocide of ukrainians by russians. Your logic is absolutely disgusting. This is a lot like if you had 5 friends who dont like you anymore, and they all play together and exclude you, so you take a rock and bash one of them over the head. Nobody is going to say that the poor guy that got murdered deserved it. You were probably a shitty playmate, and now were going to destroy … | /r/MensRights | 21/03/22 10:51 PM |
| 5 | Yeah it's about Ukraine againThe difference is you have 5 different media sources that say 5 different things in America. In Russia, youre not even allowed to protest the war (including the media companies hahahahahha, but our media is the problem? whatever. As educated citizens, our job is watch multiple sources and figure out what is true based on this. Media will always have a bias, but Russia's media just flat out lies to such an extent that it's hilarious. | /r/MensRights | 21/03/22 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Yeah it's about Ukraine againUhmm, i know many ukrainians, who have family in ukraine, none of them agree with you. Disgusting post. | /r/MensRights | 21/03/22 10:43 PM |
| 2 | Yeah it's about Ukraine againI guarantee you people do care. I am in Canada and everybody I know is absolutely disgusted with what is happening to you. However, most of us feel relatively powerless to help. We can send money, food, etc., but NATO has resolutely made a decision to send weapons, but not get involved yet. Canada has some of the most Ukrainians in the world outside of europe. One of my best friend's is Ukrainian. Every single Ukrainian Canadian i know vehemently wants to murder putin. But how can they help YOU?… | /r/MensRights | 21/03/22 10:40 PM |
| 61 | Conservative candidate Yoon Seok-yeol heavily supported by young men, wins presidential election. Young women protest ‘election of misogyny’ in South KoreaYes, men dont suffer any oppression. For example, Ukrainian women are oppressed because they had to leave the Ukraine, but the men were fortunate enough to be able to stay. Oppression of women sucks, but oppression of men doesnt exist. | /r/MensRights | 10/03/22 08:42 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone else find this question (or a variation of it) annoying: "What would you do if an extremely strong man hits on your girlfriend and slaps her ass?"Its still survival of the fittest. Fit however has many meanings. Being a brute is only one strategy | /r/MensRights | 07/03/22 10:43 PM |
| -1 | I refuse to date a woman in my workspace; all women turn against meYes but i dont care | /r/MensRights | 01/03/22 05:15 PM |
| 1 | I refuse to date a woman in my workspace; all women turn against meAre you one of those really easily confused people who cannot go on with life until very minor issues are corrected? Lolol | /r/MensRights | 01/03/22 05:14 PM |
| 30 | I refuse to date a woman in my workspace; all women turn against meBeen there done tht. I used to be a nurse now im in software. Best decision of my life. I coukd care less about all the bullshit, but sometimes, it trickles up to management. Then its a real threat. Best to document it, report it, and explain with any evidence before they make shit up. Unless u have incontrovertible evidence, if u speak second, it just looks like youre covering your ass, at least that was my experience | /r/MensRights | 01/03/22 06:03 AM |
| -5 | What do you think of only 18-60-year-old men being forced to stay in Ukraine?Its the way it should be. I joke that after the guy who blew himself up that there should be an equal number of female suicide bridge bombers, but in actual fact... We are the disposable gender, and we always will be. Men and women arent the same, and we should be treated with respect,and during peace time the laws should reflect that, but during a genocidal invasion, men need to fight. It would be hard to respect a man who didnt. | /r/MensRights | 27/02/22 09:07 AM |
| 6 | School told me they would make a presentation about men's issues. Instead they talk almost entirely about women's issues while painting us in a bad light.That's called an obligation, not a privilege. | /r/MensRights | 18/11/21 09:25 AM |
| 2 | School told me they would make a presentation about men's issues. Instead they talk almost entirely about women's issues while painting us in a bad light.Well, since you're getting to hear a bunch of propagandistic messaging and you're critically thinking and figuring out your own point of view, i'd certainly argue that you are getting a very good education lolol, just not the one they intended. A lot of the foreigner types who see themselves as super liberal feminists and all that, theyre like modern day missionaries its so messed up lol. | /r/MensRights | 18/11/21 09:25 AM |
| 44 | School told me they would make a presentation about men's issues. Instead they talk almost entirely about women's issues while painting us in a bad light.no its just interesting to hear where this kind of stuff is happening. Sorry to hear that the virus has spread to singapore. I question however that the stats being pulled about gender differences would 100% match up in Singapore considering how different the society is from typical western societies. Based on my reasoning, it just sounds like people consuming western media buying into ideas from the west though. I am aware that it has heavy western influences and isnt english also one of the of… | /r/MensRights | 18/11/21 06:11 AM |
| 109 | School told me they would make a presentation about men's issues. Instead they talk almost entirely about women's issues while painting us in a bad light.What kind of high school is this? lower middle or upper class? Rough neighbourhood? good neighbourhood? Are the kids rowdy or well behaved etc? where are you also? | /r/MensRights | 18/11/21 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Portugal: The consequences of deliberately giving men less efficient vaccines.Again, the cost of living in the US varies greatly from region to region. The wages also vary greatly. The differences are as radical they might be from country country. Your idea that Americans cant save enough money isnt altogether true. People have a choice between living where its economically viable and where its not. For example, to live in San Francisco is an insane choice with the cost of rent being 3000$/month or more. But for example, Buffalo only costs on average 860$/month. There is … | /r/MensRights | 13/11/21 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Portugal: The consequences of deliberately giving men less efficient vaccines.I dont blame you. Those are definitely issues that America should try to fix. It probably also depends on state, insurer, etc. I think you guys make up for it often by having higher wages. Is it perfect? No, but it helps. I make 40$/hr canadian as a nurse (i quit Lol) but due to exchange rate, that's actually only 32$/hr american dollar. That exchange rate really increases american buying power. There are places in US i could have made 50$/hr american as a nurse (especially doing work contracts)… | /r/MensRights | 12/11/21 06:45 PM |
| 2 | Portugal: The consequences of deliberately giving men less efficient vaccines.I think you might be misinformed about how bad economies can get lol. Right now, the entire world is going through a logistical crisis. Inflation everywhere is a problem at the moment. And to be frank, healthcare costs, educational loans, and general happiness aren't a measure of the entire economy. And also, i was comparing to brazil... There are DEFINITELY people getting screwed in the US, but dude, you need to realize that the US is a complex country with states with vastly different economic… | /r/MensRights | 12/11/21 11:27 AM |
| 1 | How to explain to a feminist that 'kill all men' is disgustingFirst, I just want to say, you are incredibly well written for a person who is 13-14. So congratulations on that. Second, old friendships are something that are hard to come by as you get older. I dont really know how to handle this situation and i am in my 30s and a man. This is a personal choice you have to make. But understand, in a couple of years, she might not believe this anymore. That being said, she might still believe it in 30 years. Sometimes people change, but in my experience, it is… | /r/MensRights | 12/11/21 09:31 AM |
| 1 | Portugal: The consequences of deliberately giving men less efficient vaccines.Compared to what? | /r/MensRights | 12/11/21 09:11 AM |
| 1 | Portugal: The consequences of deliberately giving men less efficient vaccines.Nao amigo, if you want free money in brasil, you need to be a politician or police. I am in canada and sometimes free money just shows up for being poor. Right now, our government is giving 375$ / month for having a baby. I also have type 1 diabetes and if i have no money, the government will pay for all my medical expenses. In addition, b/c the government has recognized diabetes to be a disability... they actually give us the opportunity to start an investment plan. they give about 20k $ over 2… | /r/MensRights | 06/11/21 03:59 AM |
| 7 | Portugal: The consequences of deliberately giving men less efficient vaccines.The alimony one at least in british columbia really depends on a lot of factors. I being married to a rich white woman and later divorced tried to claim alimony. I didnt get it :D. length of relationship is a huge factor here. | /r/MensRights | 06/11/21 03:40 AM |
| 2 | Can men ever do “enough?”Okay. Probably not a bad stance. I have always found it most valuable to hear positions from a variety of different types of people. :) | /r/MensRights | 30/09/21 06:38 AM |
| 2 | Can men ever do “enough?”First, There are very few sources anyone should trust explicitly. It is always up to the individual to use their own brain to filter what makes sense and what doesnt. Second, I have met many women who have many very intelligent useful pieces of advice go give on issues related to what men experience. Just because many of them are shitty (like many men) does not mean you should disregard their advice entirely on very broad domains based on only on gender. That simply isnt fair. That being said, i… | /r/MensRights | 30/09/21 06:35 AM |
| 12 | Can men ever do “enough?”Quality of advice is infinitely more important than the gender attached to it. | /r/MensRights | 29/09/21 06:55 PM |
| 17 | is it possible to have a romantic relationship with a woman where you could be emotional?You will know long before if you are with someone who cant handle that kind of stuff... or you're naive and didnt see it coming. But there are women out there who can handle it. I dont even think they're naturally rare. Maybe it's the baggage in our own society | /r/MensRights | 21/09/21 02:46 AM |
| 142 | Feminist GF seems unsympathetic to mens issues, sees most men as assholes. Is this a red flag to break it off?Shes a loser. I'd flat out tell her that you dont believe shed ever be there for you and dump her ass so hard. | /r/MensRights | 20/09/21 09:08 PM |
| 5 | My Difficulties Advocating For Men's Rights In A Feminist OrganizationI met one trans guy once and he was an asshole. He was my coworker and tried to get me in trouble for something stupid. I'd met him once. That was my only experience with trans people. If you can do better than that, you'll be fine. I've set the bar pretty low so I'm sure you'll do fine hahhaha | /r/MensRights | 19/09/21 03:55 AM |
| 2 | A post I made on Facebook which read “When women say all men are trash, or all men should die, do they also mean trans people who have transitioned to men?” And received a 30 day post block for hate speech.As a member of the numbers peoples, how can I bring the alphabet people and the numbers people together? Numbers people are so busy quoting stats, maybe we should be quoting stats for every letter of Dave Chappelle's alphabet lolol. | /r/MensRights | 17/09/21 09:07 PM |
| 0 | Feminism is slowly destroying the black communityRelevant to what? I'm not referring to statistics. Sometimes marriages should end. As a man, it is a liability to yourself to be with a woman who no longer wants you. I mean, I'm all for trying to make things work, but you can only control things so far. I dont really care whose fault it is. You need to take care of yourself first if you start to realize your partner is starting to go rogue. More women leave marriages? Do we actually 100% know why? We know in terms of generalities and trends but… | /r/MensRights | 16/09/21 11:24 PM |
| -3 | Feminism is slowly destroying the black communityAlthough I agree with you partially, that doesnt mean that those divorces shouldn't have happened. Many of those men could very well have been dirtbags as well. How many? Not really sure. | /r/MensRights | 16/09/21 12:03 AM |
| 7 | "Normally when I talk about men it is because I'm angry about them, but right now I'm angry for them." Someone here shared in a comment this 36-seconds video by a girl talking about her boyfriend, I transcribed it here because every person in the West needs to see this.I dont think this is universally true for all men. But i would say for many men it is. It probably looks different for others though. I was always pretty good at connecting with people. Some of my behaviour wasnt healthy, but I was accustomed to fighting for validation. I.e., I made a lot of female friends and a lot of them had crushes or whatever on me, slept around a fair bit, did a lot of things that were very ME focused. The result was A LOT of positive and negative attention. Being told to … | /r/MensRights | 14/09/21 08:07 PM |
| 3 | I don't understand why the hell I am still singleYou answered your own question in the first paragraph. You dont have anyone to talk to. If you have all these people who admire you, why dont you have anyone you want to tell about your feelings? This isnt an insult. It's a question. Take it seriously. Fyi I'm male. The things you described dont make me think wow good mating material. They make me feel like you're competent, useful, but competent is also intimidating. Dont worry tho it's all learnable | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/09/21 05:48 AM |
| 2 | I’m beginning to follow some of Laura Doyle’s principles and my girl friends are too liberal to talk to about it…they think I’m crazy.That sounds like a rather different reaction than i am accustomed to :) but it is nice to hear your persepctive! | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/07/21 12:56 AM |
| 1 | I’m beginning to follow some of Laura Doyle’s principles and my girl friends are too liberal to talk to about it…they think I’m crazy.Just out of curiosity, what is it like to have those conversations with feminist women for you? Im not a woman lol. I read your guys posts because for some reason they are so much more pleasant than most of the internet these days haha. I wonder about the feminist somen because they seem ready to absolutely destrog me if i disagree with them openly. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/21 08:46 AM |
| 4 | Unsure if I’m being reasonable in LTRgood job with that yourself. it doesnt really sound like these issues have caused him any problems though in his career. I wouldnt sweat sleeping through meetings if his performance at work is solid. i hope you can see that! not everyone can handle being A type all the time. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/06/21 06:33 AM |
| 14 | Unsure if I’m being reasonable in LTRI'd like to know what he does for work. If he is in a field that requires a lot of deep problem solving (*cough* *cough* computer science, engineer, math, etc) i dont blame the guy at all for being that way. 1) These fields are HARD. Theyre also mentally intensive, forever. This means stressful. This also means that it can really be challenging to maintain good habits including sleep hygiene. 2) Bright people often have weird personalities. If you are bright, it costs more to pay for that cognit… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/06/21 04:26 AM |
| 4 | Expired SMVAbuse can definitely travel in both directions. If you let this dynamic fester, it will worsen over time. It sounds like you are both stressed. if u guys have some extra money it might help to hire some help if you can. It would take some pressure off you at least. just a thought | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/21 09:56 PM |
| 2 | How to move forward with my on-again off-again ex bf? Need advice/rant.yeah, i have an anxious attachment style too. I went through some things and it made it sooooo much worse. But having come to terms with some of that and cutting out some of the rot in m life, and then finding the right partner who is excellent for me, i am so much happier. It's completely possible. You may always have this as a bit of a struggle, but attachment styles can definitely normalize over time. Always nice to hear someone is figuring life out in a positive way. youre definitely doing s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/06/21 05:23 AM |
| 1 | How to move forward with my on-again off-again ex bf? Need advice/rant.youre asking an age old question that has been answered many times in fields such as attachment theory. its not the end all be all, but it might be useful to you. Here is a book on it: https://www.docdroid.net/Q310fW5/amir-levine-rachel-heller-attached-the-new-science-of-adult-attachment-and-how-it-can-help-you-find-and-keep-love-penguin-group-usa-2010-pdf#page=13 This applies to men and women. You're going after men who have what is called avoidant attachment. You probably have an anxious attac… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/06/21 09:55 PM |
| 2 | How to move forward with my on-again off-again ex bf? Need advice/rant.if he was really such a great catch, wouldnt one of his priorities be making sure you guys absolutely trusted each other? Sometimes peoeple need to take their learning lessons and move on. from what i can see, he is enjoying his power. He's not giving his whole self to you. If you wanna bang the guy thats your choice, but its obviously harming you to not have the whole package. A lot of women will get hung up because its confusing when a guy dumps resources on them, is nice to them blablabla, an… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/06/21 08:42 PM |
| 2 | How do I submit to my man even if it hurts?fyi, the fact that you care enough to even be affected by this and are looking for ways to be a partner speaks for itself. you are not a failure. i am a guy and actually, i used to help my gal pick outfits a lot. I never thought of her as a failure. I thought of it as her wanting to learn more about what types of things i liked to see her dressed up in. ps. youre definitely not a failure. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/21 09:16 AM |
| 1 | How to enjoy the finer things in life without the risk of turning materialistic?the alternative is that if you invest properly, you will often turn your money into more money. I know it sounds boring, but when you are saving for a house for example, it can really help you get there faster! | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/06/21 07:19 AM |
| 6 | Apparently we're not welcome in r/offmychestgo to trueoffmychest instead. i dont think i am banned there! | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/06/21 07:14 AM |
| 2 | Update: Letting my husband pursue me.at 35 it would have to be a lot of stress. People often try to suggest testosterone, but honestly, it could be thyroid, testosterone, low iron, diet, etc. stress is only one factor. it would benefit him greatly to go to the doctor and have some blood work run for a few things. at least then, you start narrowing things down. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/06/21 07:12 AM |
| 3 | Translation: men its time you really learn what a feminism meansBut i really like the photo lol | /r/MensRights | 08/05/21 04:48 AM |
| 2 | The number of male victims of domestic violence forced to seek legal protection against their abusers has increased by 50 per cent during the Covid pandemicAlthough I don't really think it needs to be brought up in polite society on more than rare occasions, I'm not doing it because its right not to do that. I'm doing it because most people dont care to hear it, and also because I dont want to alienate social connections. It's about survival and harmony, NOT whats right or wrong. I could give two shits if these people were offended by those facts, but i need them. On reddit, i dont really care if people are offended (but im not going to pointlessly… | /r/MensRights | 06/05/21 06:44 PM |
| 3 | Discrimination against men in the caring fieldHaha yup. Exactly. | /r/MensRights | 02/05/21 06:50 AM |
| 5 | Discrimination against men in the caring fieldIts funny i make 40$ /hr as a registered nurse and this is the exact reason im leaving my field. No matter what i do, its not as important as what i say, how i say it, or who im friends with. I find it to be kind of a bummer Its probably better in ER ICU but ive never really tried that and not interested in it anyways. In any case im doing a 2nd degree im computer science and i am just so much more drawn to the producitivity focusrd nature of that field haha | /r/MensRights | 02/05/21 06:31 AM |
| 1 | Ex fiance won't give me my money of $2,500 back and property.One thing ive learned having gone thru a divorce. The cost of lawyers is high. The cost of using court facilities is high. Shes being an absolute bitch. Your loss is actually very small compared to some. Just walk. You can recoup those losses with less emotional energy by just working. Next time. If you sense that kind of stuff happening, dont put money you intend to be for yourself in a shared pot your partner can quickly steal from. Shady divorces often end in a freeforall and whoever has the … | /r/MensRights | 30/04/21 04:49 PM |
| 2 | I hate that men are expected to work in the most dirtiest and dangerous jobs.maybe we can make an exception to smelling like ass. that can be highly irritating. | /r/MensRights | 19/04/21 08:54 PM |
| 5 | The next time someone asks "why don't men cry" just send them thisWhen i was young i had loads of people checking in on me but i was also always attractive and in good shape. As ive aged and the girls ive known who once "cared" about me have moved on and gotten partners, ive really had to change. Theyre who i used to talk to. Learning to be alone and accept that nobody really gives a shit about my struggles and that i have to guard myself against more predators the more i have ( including my own family) Not an easy lesson but at least i can trust myself. Lol | /r/MensRights | 10/04/21 01:19 AM |
| 4 | When a woman can't have a child, people flock to them with great sympathy. It's a tragedy. When a man can't have a child, nobody gives a fuck.But we dont live in a culture where its sociallly acceptable or normalized. Countries where much of the poor are absolutely destitute, this is probably more true. When the question is, do you want to be with someone where the risk of going hungry is quite high or be in a polygamous marriage with guaranteed wealth and safety the answer is a bit more...grey. | /r/MensRights | 21/03/21 12:49 AM |
| 5 | My sister is a toxic feminist who keeps belittling me for being a man. Can I get some advice on getting her to stop without ruining that relationship? All my life she was the only one who ever stood up for me.whats the point. Shes choosing to argue with and belittle you when she could easily look these things up herself. She doesn't want to know these things or it would have already registered for her. She gets something emotional out of this escapade, and unfortunately, its at your expense. One day, she might grow out of it. Nobody in this forum knows if shes a psychopath or not. Damaged maybe... maybe she is just dealing wiht her own shit. Hard to say, but if this gets to the point that it is intol… | /r/MensRights | 20/10/20 09:27 PM |
| 0 | My teacher believes in the wage gap.There are lots of reasons. Casual sexism, if a reason, is a very small one. | /r/MensRights | 28/09/20 10:32 PM |
| 4 | My teacher believes in the wage gap.Its up to you if it is worth it to you to take such a risk. Its true, but you can have your marks challenged by getting the principal or other teachers to look at paper and have it graded by them. Honestly, i wish more kids did what you are doing. | /r/MensRights | 28/09/20 10:32 PM |
| 13 | Boys are being told their lives are less important than girlsreally? So you're saying that the unconcious biases of the teachers aren't influencing their decisions to behave as if women are more important than men? If the shoe was on the other foot, I would have no confidence that men would not be blamed for reasons that lead to feminists screaming "this is because men need feminism." I.e. toxic masculinity, wage gap, etc. Or are those feminists just misinformed too? | /r/MensRights | 19/09/19 04:29 PM |
| 1 | What's killing your game? Dopamine abuse.Nothing I say will fix your issue. You care too much. Other people's feelings don't matter. It is not a sin to cause other people to feel badly if you are not doing bad. You don't need to own other people's negativity. You can still be kind, good, caring, etc., You don't need to be a jerk, but you need to care about YOUR feelings. Do things because you enjoy them. This is important to practice. Do not respond to cues to reign your enjoyment in if there is no reason to (i.e. your job). If that me… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/16 05:34 AM |
| 1 | HumiliationI like what you have said. I was poor growing up. Now I married rich. These contrasts (and others) have taught me so much. It has been so painful to see everybody's different perspectives and truly accept them in such a way that I actually understand the person who has them. That is also where I have gone as I have learned more. I used to walk around confused when I realized most people have very valid grievances, those people coming from VERY diverse backgrounds. Letting go of the need for fair… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/16 03:45 AM |
| 1 | A big question from a former feminist...I will try to respond to your questions and thoughts paragraph by paragraph: First, I applaud you for recognizing the injustices against men as even existing. That is far more than many do. Second, I am not going to talk about why men are in positions of power more often than women (I think there is enough info about that and it is all pretty logical). We have to ask ourselves what types of men end up in these positions. What are their life experiences? I would say that to become a doctor, lawye… | /r/MensRights | 15/07/16 07:34 AM |
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