NamelesInternetDude Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	How do you go from a 28 year old hardcore gaming introvert to a man who's outgoing, confident, charismatic, whitty and actually receives interest from women? Learn how to socialize in general Flirting is just socializing with an extra spice Just learn how to make people feel comfortable and safe to express themselves around you. Learn to listen to people and figure out what interests them, be the guy who lightens up the mood and makes everyone feel incluided in the conversation. It takes plenty of reps, doesn't happen overnight but you have to start somewhere	/r/seduction	04/08/26 06:14 AM
1	If you ask for her number and she offers Instagram instead, don't fall for it I completely disagree. I met my current SO through asking for her IG on a cold approach. Ig, most of the times, gives you way more data about her and creates organic opportunities for you to interact with her through stories. And trust me, if she doesn't want you you will find out either way. The number doesn't make it any easier for you and just creates a tension to text.	/r/seduction	02/07/26 12:38 AM
2	Why women don't chase men? The biology behind it is a bit complex but if i had to put it briefly: they have more at stake when engaging romantically and this makes them picky-er with their partners. This is not only true for human women, all female animals present a similar dynamic. I highly recomend The Selfish Gene by Richard Dawkins to explore further.	/r/seduction	22/04/26 03:38 AM
0	How much does being muscular actually help with attraction? For women, a nice body is more of a cherry-on-top than a cake. Focus on you presence, agency and emotional intelligence more than on your physique. Don't get obsessed with the gym unless you have a particularly bad physique like being excessively skinny or fat. A good little rule of thumb that i came up with: If you can carry a pregnant woman upstairs you have an attractive body	/r/seduction	20/03/26 04:13 AM
1	How do I get dates as a 26 year old who doesn't go to bars or drink? It's true. Too many likes hurts your metrics but i think we must focus on making guys realize that the whole dating app system is riged and almost a scam for men imo	/r/seduction	04/02/26 04:53 AM
14	How do I get dates as a 26 year old who doesn't go to bars or drink? Cold approach women that you find attractive in malls or parks. It takes practice but if you can develop the skill it can become a much more reliable source of dates than the apps. The apps can work too but do not think of them as your primary source of prospects. You can maximize their potential by: 1) Optimizing your profile picture (good resolution and brightness, no filters, body complexion visible) 2) Lowering your standards (more likes --> more matches) 3) Opening with an audio saying some…	/r/seduction	03/02/26 07:20 AM
8	How Do Guys Actually End Up With “10/10” Influencer Level Women? The 'don't put them in a pedestal' advice is unescapable because sooner or later you will realize that people do not have fundamentally different psychologies depending on their level of attractiveness. That is, she is not that mentaly different from a girl you would consider 'normal', she just has more options. And if you were really paying attention you would realize that many of these influencer girls and even Hollywood-actress-caliber women (and men) often settle for 'regular' people. Frankl…	/r/seduction	01/02/26 03:42 AM
83	What is the best book that will improve your game? Game / flirting is just a specific form of socializing. Which is why i recommend How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie. Super basic book recommended everywhere and i know it sounds low effort, but the truth is many of us must grasp the fundamentals of socializing before even attempting game. Just learn how to be likeable alltogether and the rizz will follow	/r/seduction	29/01/26 03:36 AM
1	Constantly finding myself in situations where it's difficult to approach Nope, just stick to being as opportune as possible. The more you go out of your way to talk to her you'll add preassure to the interaction and make it awkward. My advice is try to frequen places that you know attractive women will be at.	/r/seduction	09/01/26 07:04 AM
1	Using girl A at a party to seduce girl B? My advice is don't think about this at all. No planning, no expectations. Just take girl A to the event. Introduce them if you happen to run into girl B. Maybe get away with girl C. Don't treat them as targets because that will make you loose them both. Go with the flow, play dumb, stay chill	/r/seduction	09/01/26 07:00 AM
1	Game changers Having platonic female friends and family helps you humanize and understand women much better and leads to better game. They can be gross, horny, funny, goofy, mean, unsure of what they want, frustrated, ambitious... they are just people like you and me. I feel like many men get caught up on the trap of treating women like a prize or something to attain and seek their aproval at all cost. The real change comes when you switch the frame from seeking them to just meeting them for fun. Socializing …	/r/seduction	04/01/26 04:04 AM
8	I need help urgently Hard to tell without meeting you directly but here's a quick checklist of things that could be going on, troubleshooting style: -You are not asserting romantic intent -You are pushing it too much without giving them space -You don't have much going on in your life and they loose interest -Some personality issue which makes you unpleasant to be around of for some reason (think of your other social relationships for reference) A woman being interested in you and then loosing interest as they get t…	/r/seduction	03/01/26 08:39 PM
1	I don't understand why men like "night clubs" for finding women Men go because it's almost guaranteed to find hot girls. The youtube channel ModernMBA made a whole video about how getting girls into the club is straight up a part of the business model. I personally agree that it's not ideal since the atmosphere is hostile towards men, constantly nudging you to spend as much as possible and most of the girls are not in a disposition to meet men there anyways. Most of them are there to have fun with friends. It IS possible to hook up with a girl if the moment …	/r/seduction	27/12/25 07:46 PM