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| 1 | Over the past few years I gathered quite some experience talking to women on the streets. I made a video about it :)See More Pecker? Lmao | /r/RedPillBooks | 21/07/23 04:36 PM |
| 3 | For men dating is basically a series of job interviews.Don’t sit across from her. Go for a walk. Sit at the bar. Don’t sit across from her. Don’t talk about work. Don’t be serious. Josh with her, vibe with her, hold hands, have fun. If you do somehow end up across from her, look her deep in the eyes or at her lips. Act like a lover. Not a candidate for a job interview. The fact that you GET dates is a good sign. You CONDUCT your dates poorly and then have the audacity to bitch about dating as if you’re not the one arranging the dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 04:41 PM |
| 13 | Telling men to stop associating their self-wroth with sexual success is like telling women to stop feeling like they have to be beautiful.She’s like 19 with big tits lol I don’t think her popularity is the blow to the male gaze they think it is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Dogs are messing everything up.They can fulfill nearly every aspect of companionship, with the exceptions of communication and fucking Who’s gonna tell him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 03:02 AM |
| 2 | [CMV] Men who seek to date conventionally attractive women are compensatingBro speaking facts imo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 05:35 PM |
| 3 | What did you do during The Great Reddit Outage of 2023? Weekly Discussion ThreadI did what any normal person would do, refreshed 4chan for several hours | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’ve been banned way too many times for dumb shit to not take “reported” seriously | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSan Francisco She’s being charged because she said it was a black dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 04:00 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou’re just openly trolling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 03:54 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFor meta? Jesus lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 03:52 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis sub is getting way too hostile. It looks like a front page sub at this point, just people bashing each other to earn points… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 03:38 PM |
| 0 | Women's selection criterion have changed, but men have remained largely the sameThey’re all the same question, and I took it as a rhetorical question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 07:38 PM |
| -2 | Women's selection criterion have changed, but men have remained largely the sameBro, if I was born in Nazi Germany and I found out gypsies weren’t actually an inferior race I would resent the society that raised me to believe they were. It’s not much more complicated than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 07:25 PM |
| 0 | Women's selection criterion have changed, but men have remained largely the sameMore women are married than not Are they happily married? it’s men who are more likely to remain alone Gonna guess the large prison population and large amount of men who are just unfuckable to women contribute a lot to this. And more women are choosing to be single That actually would back up my point. None of their settling down options are good enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 06:41 PM |
| 8 | Women's selection criterion have changed, but men have remained largely the sameWhat’s worse, that worked for our fathers, our fathers’ fathers, and so on. We as a generation are asked to adapt to a completely new paradigm. Also, fun part: actually talking about the paradigm shift is completely forbidden in the mainstream, even though to anyone on the ground it’s obvious. Add this on to the fact that huge amounts of men just aren’t tall and facially hot enough, and they’re doomed to remain sexless forever unless they go for a Third World bride (which is also completely demo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 06:34 PM |
| 0 | Women's selection criterion have changed, but men have remained largely the sameI can actually explain this seeming paradox to you. Women have a lot of options for casual sex. Women have far less options for settling down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 06:30 PM |
| 0 | Women's selection criterion have changed, but men have remained largely the sameLmao hell yes a League of Legends analogy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 06:28 PM |
| -4 | Women's selection criterion have changed, but men have remained largely the sameWe were told that making money was a good way to get women. Boomers and even many people our own age still repeat this obvious lie. If we had been told getting jacked and being tall is how to get women, there would be a lot less bitterness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 06:27 PM |
| 3 | I wonder if many of the guys that cannot date are actually enjoying the sufferingLeft wing media does the exact same thing. White men run everything! Republicans are destroying {state}! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Who should men be listening to? For advice, direction, understanding.Who was comparing them? It’s pretty apples to oranges | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 03:41 PM |
| 6 | Who should men be listening to? For advice, direction, understanding.Dude what is your problem haha I’m not “slamming” anyone… also I don’t know if you heard but The Rock actually is a piece of shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Who should men be listening to? For advice, direction, understanding.Uh, okay? I don’t recall ever saying that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 12:09 PM |
| 5 | Who should men be listening to? For advice, direction, understanding.He’s a playwright. Very narrow band of human experiences you’re citing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 11:20 AM |
| 9 | Who should men be listening to? For advice, direction, understanding.You mean Pedro Pascal? Why are all these dudes actors? No philosophers, businessmen? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 10:59 AM |
| 7 | Who should men be listening to? For advice, direction, understanding.You aren’t any of those guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 10:55 AM |
| 5 | Who should men be listening to? For advice, direction, understanding.All that shit is the reason why men are less social than ever before and also why so many men are unappealing to women. Okay… so the reason for the nationwide male sexlessness crisis is a couple online influencers who are a lot more recent than the crisis itself? Hm, TIL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 10:53 AM |
| 6 | Where have all the good men gone?So I’m living in a room in a shared house like a 19th century immigrant? Yeah, fuck that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 03:26 AM |
| 2 | "Men are allowed to have preferences, just don't be rude about it" Is A LieBack in the day there were many female personalities on here like Atlas_Shrugged. They’d agree sometimes, disagree sometimes. They were mostly logical. The women posting here now are posting “No u!!” tier replies and “arguments” straight out of AskWomen. It’s nigh unusable for its actual purpose of debate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 01:41 AM |
| 17 | Women are attracted to qualities that allow her to do lessIt drives me crazy when people bring up these “expectations” as if they’re a real thing for the majority of men in 2023. Speaking for white, college-educated women, pretty much none of them are willing to cook and do your laundry. I’m guessing most women who DO do that stuff (who according to statistics, do actually exist) are deep within traditional, non-English speaking minority communities and thus not really in the mainstream dating conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHypothetically speaking, and purely for the sake of the argument, what if he had hair? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat is it with people with banana profile pics and the lookspill lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYo what about Chris Meloni | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’m pretty handsome and I don’t want a string of short term relationships. I want love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 08:03 PM |
| 5 | Why isn't the plight of unattractive women ever talked about?I seriously doubt than an UGLY woman (1-2/10) can get “attractive” men. She’s maybe getting pumped and dumped by a 5 as a Black Swan event. These are the types of women who go on 90 Day Fiancé to date ugly foreign men with no money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Who is generally viewed more positively by society, a single man or a man with an unattractive girlfriend/wife?I am not an activist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 04:39 AM |
| 2 | How can Facebook Groups like Are We Dating The Same Guy Balance Female Safety and Male Privacy?Where did you search her? I don’t believe this is an actual thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Who is generally viewed more positively by society, a single man or a man with an unattractive girlfriend/wife?I describe a social reality. What it incentivizes is not my concern. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 03:00 AM |
| 6 | How can Facebook Groups like Are We Dating The Same Guy Balance Female Safety and Male Privacy?Who cares if random internet guys are mad about it? That’s a rounding error compared to the media and academia (which inform government policy and absolutely inform what social media moderators censor) attacking you. Random people on Reddit have 0 institutional power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 02:30 AM |
| 8 | How can Facebook Groups like Are We Dating The Same Guy Balance Female Safety and Male Privacy?You’d call the Washington Post writing an article about its existence and describing the debate around it as “an attack”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 01:53 AM |
| 1 | How can Facebook Groups like Are We Dating The Same Guy Balance Female Safety and Male Privacy?Even if they were the nicest, most rule-abiding gossip groups you ever saw, they’d still be attacked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 01:06 AM |
| 9 | Who is generally viewed more positively by society, a single man or a man with an unattractive girlfriend/wife?People do feel bad for spinsters. But people fucking fear older single men. What happened in his life that he never had a wife and kids? You’re assumed to have something seriously wrong with you, where a spinster is just unlucky in love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 01:05 AM |
| 1 | How can Facebook Groups like Are We Dating The Same Guy Balance Female Safety and Male Privacy?Wow, Lebron is less good than I thought. He gets 27 points per game on average. I consider myself a liberal and a feminist, plus I’m older, so I’d date a woman with around that many bodies. Anything higher and I wonder what went wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 01:02 AM |
| 21 | How can Facebook Groups like Are We Dating The Same Guy Balance Female Safety and Male Privacy?If men created these groups they would be called “revenge porn” and instantly banned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 07:04 PM |
| 12 | Who is generally viewed more positively by society, a single man or a man with an unattractive girlfriend/wife?Came here to say exactly this. Being a married man is a huge status boost. It’s night and day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 06:55 PM |
| 38 | How can Facebook Groups like Are We Dating The Same Guy Balance Female Safety and Male Privacy?I’d say if a woman is on these pages, she’s an “experienced dater” aka her body count is putting up Lebron numbers. Pass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Slut shaming is bad, but what's the actual appeal of being a promiscuous woman?Sorry to say that wasn’t when I dipped. I chickened out at the last minute. We broke up later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 05:30 PM |
| 10 | Slut shaming is bad, but what's the actual appeal of being a promiscuous woman?One time she yelled at me immediately after sex then went to go get food. I had my shit packed and ready to go while she was out. Chickened out. Things did end recently and only now I’m realizing she was pretty fucked up. I have trust issues now. I hope this isn’t that common among women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 03:50 PM |
| 0 | Slut shaming is bad, but what's the actual appeal of being a promiscuous woman?Fat girls can get plenty of action. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 03:43 PM |
| 20 | Slut shaming is bad, but what's the actual appeal of being a promiscuous woman?I dated a woman like this seriously. Always thought her attitude towards sex was extremely strange. She’d critique my technique or how long I lasted right after I finished. It was like it was just a board game or something. There wasn’t respect for intimacy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 03:41 PM |
| – | Both women and men don’t need each other and why this is a good thingOne of my main issues with the ideology is that they basically consider women to be the Devil, yet they also base their entire lives around women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Social circles is a "don't shit where you eat" scenario slightly better than hitting on coworkersYes, just be attractive. It’s a known rule of dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 11:27 PM |
| 1 | The average man is fine, it’s the below average men who are genuinely struggling.Are you handsome? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 07:10 PM |
| 3 | The average man is fine, it’s the below average men who are genuinely struggling.Is that 82% of single women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 07:09 PM |
| -1 | Social circles is a "don't shit where you eat" scenario slightly better than hitting on coworkersYou’re THAT GUY if you hit on a hot girl who isn’t interested. Just… don’t do that. Be attractive, read her body language and be sure she’s interested before making a move. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 05:02 PM |
| 0 | Most men would have no issues dating if they had a lifestyle that allowed them to organically meet women.Uh, so basically all relationships you had happened because the woman was interested? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 03:28 AM |
| 4 | Most men would have no issues dating if they had a lifestyle that allowed them to organically meet women.What are you even saying? Like what’s the point and the relevance to OP? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Female Sexual Bargaining Power Has Peaked And Is In DeclineWell yeah, but does porn actually fulfill men’s need for pussy now? Barely. I think you need a full apparatus with a pussy and everything. Sex is a full-body experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 12:58 AM |
| 0 | Honest question for men and women: How do people date?What? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 12:54 AM |
| 3 | Honest question for men and women: How do people date?Show interest homey. Ask her out. Then just talk, like stream of consciousness. Say whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 12:21 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The female expectation of looking physically attractive is way, WAY more easier than the male expectation of being a provider.How is that “trash”? Also, do you see a flair next to my username? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 12:18 AM |
| 2 | CMV: The female expectation of looking physically attractive is way, WAY more easier than the male expectation of being a provider.Thank you very much for your answer. I learned from it and now I feel I understand (some) women’s perspective better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 10:17 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The female expectation of looking physically attractive is way, WAY more easier than the male expectation of being a provider.I of course care about intelligence and humor and common interests. Very much — I’m a human being. What I said in the above part is the absolute baseline. Then in addition to those three I just said, that’s 6 standards I have. Can I really even afford to also demand a good career? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 09:50 PM |
| 15 | Women are much more stringent about their "types" than men are.I won’t even casually smash outside my type, my libido’s not high enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 09:37 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The female expectation of looking physically attractive is way, WAY more easier than the male expectation of being a provider.I’m aware of the study you said. I always assumed most women lied on there because men having a median PC of 9 (IIRC) seems like they lie too. I’d say it’s more like 1 or 2. Maybe it’s selection bias on my part because most women I’ve met as an adult are women I, a random guy from online dating, are sleeping with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 09:31 PM |
| 0 | CMV: The female expectation of looking physically attractive is way, WAY more easier than the male expectation of being a provider.I believe you. I ask with real curiosity. Why is that? I get that a vibrator is better than a guy. Why not just have a simple affair with a man who respects boundaries and is good in bed? A married man or a traveling businessman? Surely even “happy alone” feels urges every now and then. I masturbate too and it does not quench my desire for the real thing. Basically: how do you mean, once women are done they’re done? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 09:29 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The female expectation of looking physically attractive is way, WAY more easier than the male expectation of being a provider.They don’t have to be fine with either of those things because they are the selectors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 07:33 PM |
| 8 | CMV: The female expectation of looking physically attractive is way, WAY more easier than the male expectation of being a provider.Why not at least mention the random Tinder hookups that play a part in keeping this “happy alone” type woman sane? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 07:32 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The female expectation of looking physically attractive is way, WAY more easier than the male expectation of being a provider.Never met a man who cared about a woman’s career. I don’t care at all and would happily date a GameStop cashier. Is she physically attractive? Do we connect emotionally? Is she not a psycho? If women really believe men care about their careers for dating, they are mistaken. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 07:29 PM |
| 5 | Is it creepy if a guy from a league below in attractiveness approaches you?Not to play women’s advocate, but when they’re honest about basing everything on appearance they get attacked anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 05:43 PM |
| 3 | Female Sexual Bargaining Power Has Peaked And Is In DeclineThis is like Taliban tier. Do you just disagree with the whole idea of a mixed-gender society? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Female Sexual Bargaining Power Has Peaked And Is In DeclineHow long until AI video porn is so advanced it’s indistinguishable from the real thing? There’s your actual tipping point. I’m guessing that is many decades away. Sorry, but we’re the generation of men with the worst bargaining position and will be until we age out of the dating pool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 04:59 PM |
| -1 | Do you really want a stay at home wife?Ah yes, /r/childfree. A hotbed of mentally stable, happy individuals who definitely don’t spend all their time reeeeing about “breeders” and “crotch goblins” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Why aren't men's bodies lusted and desired as much as women's bodies are lusted and desired?No. If it’s some old gross lady following me I’ll just scream at her and get her to go away. I’d still be flattered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 06:12 AM |
| 3 | The current dating situation is the result of women's free sexualityIt’s frustrating that people think the “victim” crown is something to be sought. Sometimes someone is just an impartial observer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 11:40 PM |
| 8 | The current dating situation is the result of women's free sexualitySince when was microbiology girl dating some random guy? I’d think it would be more likely in any era that she’d be dating a grad student or even a professor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Why do you think male loneliness and decline in dating is finally getting mainstream coverage?They already are roping at 4x the rate of women and nobody gives a shit. I think it will take propaganda to make people care. Like instead of #StopAsianHate it will be #MensMentalHealth. And actually now that I’m thinking about it, that will just lead to performative activism and not actually alter anyone’s behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Male Delusion Calculator!I got 30% saying I didn’t care if they had kids or were obese. I did care if they were married. For age I put 24-38. Didn’t put income. For race I put white. What is important is that she’s actually hot and has an IQ over 100, which this thing doesn’t cover. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 03:58 PM |
| 2 | Why aren't men's bodies lusted and desired as much as women's bodies are lusted and desired?I wish women did that stuff. I’m not physically threatened by any woman so they honestly can go ahead and catcall me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Do you think that this whole men vs women , alpha - Sigma terminology, push for trad culture has got increasingly mainstream since last year?Wasn't the 1950's famous for domestic abuse and forced mental hospitalization of so many women.. No one can deny it happened, but are there exact statistics on how often it happened? What were the chances an average wife got beat by her husband? I feel it’s probably less than Hollywood wants you to think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 12:20 AM |
| 4 | Why do you think male loneliness and decline in dating is finally getting mainstream coverage?I wonder if a lot of these guys will snap once they’re in middle age and realize they wasted their entire life on AI waifus or whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 10:32 PM |
| 3 | Why do you think male loneliness and decline in dating is finally getting mainstream coverage?I dunno dude. My entire friend group got pussy. I don’t think there was a single guy who got nothing... ugly guys just went for uglier and fatter chicks. I went to school in the 2000s though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 10:10 PM |
| 21 | Why do you think male loneliness and decline in dating is finally getting mainstream coverage?The propaganda the powers that be have put out in the past few years has been extremely effective to the point where it creates radicals who won’t work within the system. They are pulling back. In this specific example: TPTB want some distance between men and women because this means women and men live separately for longer (more rent $ for the overlords) and neither men nor women get their emotional needs met (more consumer spending). This explains the girlboss feminism that was so popular from… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 05:10 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men want relationships (romantic) with women more than vice versaEven though you’re older, you find it easy to get FWBs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 02:38 AM |
| 2 | Could it be that women just do not like men that much?Refreshing and interesting take on the matter. Basically, you mean men in relationships have to be “good boys” more than ever? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 08:13 PM |
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