NannieBobbs Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Being/acting insecure will only ever get you a manipulative low/no effort NVM: know your worth and show it, never settle This is also my life. More-so as I get older. We aren’t supposed to fear the solitude of raising standards, but I hate that too. It’s truly a lose-lose in my world.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/02/21 07:41 PM
7	A trend I've noticed among LVM. Yeah, I gained 65lbs in a year and went from hot to invisible... I’ll tell ya, you aren’t really ignored, you’re treated like you should be desperate. ...even when you’re not. Confidence is seen as false confidence. Happiness is seen as an improvement regardless of how you felt earlier. You’re complimented on your attitude despite, well, being unattractive and fat. It drove me insane.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/02/21 02:39 PM
2	If size doesn't matter, why don't they make 3-inch dildos? I relate to this HARD. I gained 65lbs in a year from a car accident and medical complications when I was 21. I went from hot and athletic to overweight and struggling. And it was like taking a step off a ledge into invisibility with men and it was MADDENING. No one helped me any longer unless they knew me already. I became completely ignored by so many men! ...car mechanics, contractors, strangers that hold doors, men my own age at bars and clubs. I literally remember a time out with my girlfrie…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/02/21 12:51 PM
52	Men casually admitting that they are willing to lie about their intentions just to get sex. Nothing surprising... I tell people all the time, when 95% of my very active sexual past is bland at best, traumatic at worst, giving it up completely feels like relief instead of deprivation. Sexless for over 5 years now and pretty ok with it!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/02/21 02:29 AM
97	. I’m still doing this at 37 and every time I wish it wasn’t so “empty” feeing, I remember the men I’ve dated and the boyfriends I’ve had compared to the volume of travel, professional accomplishments, network of friends, and loving family I have. While the world may feel (and be) unfair at times, I’m absolutely living my best life.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/02/21 01:23 AM
7	Life after finding FDS. (Art by @violetclair on Insta, makes FDS friendly art) I’m 37 and it didn’t hit me until now. I have no clue if I want kids, but I never thought I’d have to consider that alone. I always assumed at some point I would just have a partner. Also, my friends are all married. They live in houses their husbands pay for, and invite me on vacations and shit that I can’t afford because mortgage. I am a strong independent, home owning, employed woman, but I have had to cope with seeing my friends lives, and feeling my body aging, and becoming unattractive to …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/10/20 11:06 AM
1	Ladies, yet another manipulation tactic we should be aware of! This one is more subtle and absolutely terrifying. I’m reading all the comments and still don’t understand the difference.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/10/20 08:50 AM
1	John Gray in his ted talk explains that studies showed than women’s stress level is higher than those of men in a relationship (4x more at home to be exact). This is insane. If your relationship brings you stress, stay single ! No one In Nature is able to survive to long term stress . This gives me such good vibes!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/10/20 12:48 PM