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My motivation used to be fun (engaged now). Mostly the chase, but trying to have fun along the way. Avoiding meta at all costs and just getting out there, enjoying myself, and getting comfortable with being rejected.
/r/seduction23/01/25 11:18 PM
-52

In Texas? I’m not so sure. I feel like they would’ve been on board so they can keep being predators
/r/PussyPassDenied11/09/22 03:40 AM
3

Don’t need it don’t sweat
/r/seduction23/07/22 05:09 AM
4

I would recommend letting them answer each question rather than machine gunning them off lol
/r/seduction16/07/22 02:41 AM
11

Post fun shit and don’t make it too frequent. Don’t post day to day stuff that’s mundane
/r/seduction13/07/22 05:12 AM
5

Honestly chances are they won’t know how to classically dance. Just pick something modern so you can learn rhythm and a few moves. I’d say hip hop is your best bet
/r/seduction06/07/22 04:04 AM
2

No shit? Lemme pack my bags. How’s the WiFi?
/r/seduction28/06/22 05:49 AM
1

Like Amsterdam
/r/seduction28/06/22 05:39 AM
3

He’s looking to you for a reason
/r/seduction27/06/22 11:27 PM
2

Oh shit you my accountant? Didn’t know he had Reddit
/r/seduction09/06/22 02:30 PM
22

I ain’t blind enough to realize it ain’t worth $4,500
/r/seduction04/06/22 01:15 AM
1

Just reach out. Worst he can do is not reply
/r/seduction20/05/22 05:13 AM
12

99% of this is just… bad
/r/seduction20/05/22 05:11 AM
2

No
/r/seduction20/05/22 05:10 AM
5

Then move on
/r/seduction20/05/22 05:09 AM
2

Wtf is rizz
/r/seduction20/05/22 05:09 AM
8

It reads like how he wished how it ended rather than how it actually did lol
/r/seduction19/05/22 04:35 AM
17

Lmao did you post this just to brag about yourself?
/r/seduction19/02/22 03:08 AM
1

It’s a lot of intuition. I’ll try to relay a situation I had while vacationing in New York during New Years with a couple of friends. Be warned alcohol was involved so some details get shaky. So the set-up: roof top bar next to our hotel. Like literally the next door over. We had an in so we’re getting ready. I literally had no expectations besides get really drunk and hang out with some of my best friends at the time. College times ya know? I had zero expectations for the night and I think that…
/r/seduction15/12/21 05:56 AM
1

Flirt with old gals. I mean like 60-80 years old you’ll learn how to do it because 99% of the time they’ll be super receptive to it because it hasnt happen in years
/r/seduction08/11/21 03:36 AM
1

Pick up lines are the way if you have the confidence to be rejected and you find it funny. More often than not it’s still a good opener if you know how to play it off
/r/seduction08/11/21 03:35 AM
42

Idk man I’ve always DESPISED clubs. I refuse to go to them. But really you can just do anything, go to a populated bar, find groups on Facebook for hobbies you like. Do a wine and paint. Doesn’t matter if you’re alone just go and enjoy some life and girls will be there
/r/seduction08/11/21 03:34 AM
1

No no, you should do both at the same time and go to therapy. I’m curious now
/r/seduction07/05/21 08:21 PM
1

Confidence and a strong sense of humor tbh. If you’re funny you gain an instant attractiveness to me because I just genuinely want to talk to you and try and make you laugh as well
/r/seduction24/04/21 08:19 PM
3

Finally, some good fucking advice for this sub
/r/seduction16/01/21 06:03 AM
1

It’s a combo of camera quality on a phone and the angle your taking it at. Naturally, the quality won’t be as strong as the front camera and the angle almost always inevitably make you look like your forehead is 5x larger than it is with the slightest tilt downward from the angle. I really can’t recommend you hiring someone off craiglist. Honestly, my tinder was primarily based off my cousins pictures of me at family events because she has a decent camera and knows how to take really strong pict…
/r/seduction25/12/20 07:35 AM
1

Honestly? Nah dude not at all. You just take really bad selfies.
/r/seduction25/12/20 07:26 AM
6

Take the mind set of a golden retriever, slightly confused but just happy to be along for the ride. You’re having too much fun to care about impressing everyone but your cute and everyone loves you as you are
/r/seduction25/12/20 06:02 AM
1

Yeah dog parks are very low key fantastic places to strike up conversations. Also a great venue for a first date
/r/seduction25/12/20 06:00 AM
1

All your photos are selfies and/or kinda blurry, and you still look somehow caught off guard. You should replace them with clear good photos of yourself. It looks like your trying to show off some destinations(?), and while not a bad idea selfies aren’t the way to go for it in my opinion. Find some well taken pics of you from friends/Facebook whatever that hopefully shows you doing things you like. The first picture should be you and only you, preferably in well fitting clothes that compliment y…
/r/seduction25/12/20 05:59 AM
26

I feel like it’s really not that in depth. Just keep it short, Genuine, and not about her body or immediate features. Also use some hyperbolic adjectives to spice it up. “That’s a fantastic point of view!” “Those are some really strong insights, how can we extrapolate that data” “I love your style!” “Your shoes are fantastic” Say something with enthusiasm and keep it short, without the need for a response and you’ll come off as genuine and as a nice person. It’s going to draw them to you
/r/seduction24/12/20 08:13 PM
0

Yeah that’s the drawback is it’s exceptionally exhaustive. I had one for like 3 months and it was a lot of fun but tbh I got so tired of texting people back I accidentally started ignoring them and it wasn’t really fair to them so I had to end it
/r/seduction13/10/20 01:44 AM
1

I mean he has 6 girls on the hook? It’s not like he went out with the goal I don’t think. But if 6 girls want you and you’re in the position to choose and don’t know what you want then why not? I also don’t follow any PUA’s so I had no idea they say to do that
/r/seduction13/10/20 12:36 AM
2

Start a rotation
/r/seduction13/10/20 12:16 AM
1

Lol clearly you’re not that great at closing. Jk, but damn dude I really hope you’ve learned cuz that number should be pushing more like 40%
/r/seduction10/10/20 04:30 PM
3

That’s always been my no go zone for pick up when I was single. Gym time is me time and I don’t wanna talk to anyone, not even the hottest girl I’ve ever seen. As for appropriate I think most people are there for the same reason, to work out and not much else. But that dont make it inappropriate ya know?
/r/seduction12/08/20 06:11 AM
2

Just don’t
/r/seduction28/06/20 06:53 PM
28

...on what grounds though? They signed a contract and it’s binding
/r/PussyPassDenied07/05/20 11:12 PM
1

I’d ask you the same with the BS you just spewed about being scared to say something
/r/seduction14/03/20 04:50 AM
1

Oh boo frickity hoo. You get rejected you move on to someone who shares your feelings. I would literally always rather know she’s into me rather than asking “well, what if I just nutted up and said something”. This has nothing to do with power, or thinking women hold the power or that you’re being betrayed if she says no. If you look at life, love, and hooking up as exchanges of power just crawl back to the incel subs. It’s supposed to be fun, and if you wanna talk “power” the only power exchang…
/r/seduction14/03/20 04:39 AM
3

Then ask her out dumbass. You know you want to why else would you come to this sub? You already know what you wanna do don’t back out of it.
/r/seduction14/03/20 03:40 AM
2

Oh wow I’ve been to that spot so many times!
/r/PussyPassDenied10/09/19 04:40 AM
3

That’s Huntington Beach? I live like 20 minutes from there
/r/PussyPassDenied09/09/19 07:58 AM
1

Hmmm no I’m sorry I don’t :/ I don’t really do meet ups with the sole goal of pick ups and practicing day game. I don’t like to go out with an agenda
/r/seduction22/04/19 07:07 PM
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I’d probably recommend from my own experience to break away from structures. No conversation is the same and if you follow a consistent set of procedures or are trying to hit specific benchmarks for attraction then it comes off robotic, and it’s no fun at least for me. Kino and laughter are my only priorities, if I’m out with friends I just tell them to give me a phrase to say to a girl and I run with it. Creates more variety and makes it a lot more fun for me having to adapt. It works even bett…
/r/seduction22/04/19 06:59 PM
1

What I like to do is go in with the goal of finding a way to talk to her and make myself laugh. If I find a way to tell a joke I find funny, it was a successful conversation. And if she laughs too that’s just bonus points! If you take the pressure off yourself saying you have to impress her, by just trying to make yourself have a good time it gets easier
/r/seduction22/04/19 04:03 PM
2

Man I’ve been single for a long time and I love it. Most girls are willing to hook up and be casual, Ive not found one that didn’t sleep with me because she “wants something serious”. For the hits to the ego, you just kinda gotta get comfortable with it. I’ve probably approached 800 women and I’ve only slept with about 45. It really is a numbers game. You’ll never get a hit if you don’t step up to that plate. Seduction is a game, and can be an incredibly fun one if you let go of the ego and have…
/r/seduction22/04/19 03:41 AM
1

Thank you!
/r/seduction21/04/19 04:04 PM
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I’ve gone full scale man. Depending on the setting it’s gone from full blown rejection anywhere, a number and impromptu coffee at the beach that led to me seeing them again, and an F-close same night at a bar/club. Worst she can do is say no, and it doesn’t really hurt that bad either when you realize if she’s 1 in a million there’s 32 more of her in LA alone. The key is, and I absolutely abhor the term, but it’s true. “Abundance”. There are +- 3,500,000,000 women on earth. Say you’re attracted …
/r/seduction21/04/19 05:18 AM
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Took me way too long to learn this. Also took way too long to learn that saying hi really isn’t that fucking hard. It’s 2 letters
/r/seduction20/04/19 11:19 PM
1

Honestly both of those suck. I’m of the opinion it needs to be funny to catch someone’s attention. Those are about as generic as they get
/r/seduction29/09/18 08:17 AM
3

“Hello” with a smile :)
/r/seduction06/09/18 08:25 PM
2

Then go be yourself and conquer life
/r/seduction27/06/18 04:39 AM
-1

Has this subreddit become the pinnacle of obvious shit you’re supposed to do??
/r/seduction01/06/18 06:16 AM
3

You should probably learn some self awareness
/r/seduction21/03/18 07:12 AM
0

Virginity?
/r/seduction08/02/18 07:36 PM
34

No... it really doesn’t unless you’re talking to a prostitute and negotiating a price
/r/seduction26/12/17 03:57 AM
3

Make friends. Meet everyone, then go from there. Don't be the guy that tries to fuck every girl on the first day you will get a reputation you don't want
/r/seduction06/09/17 09:29 PM
3

You just answered all your own questions. You know what to do so stop being scared and go do it
/r/seduction07/08/17 01:59 PM
21

S A L T
/r/seduction07/08/17 04:15 AM
1

Speak for yourself
/r/seduction21/07/17 03:03 AM
7

Actually really entertaining
/r/seduction07/07/17 09:58 PM
15

What the hell??? What kind of opener is "you have a nice energy" after approaching her from behind on the street?? Then the second one is literally trying to trap her at a coffee table? Am I the only one that thinks these are bullshit and garbage?
/r/seduction25/04/17 09:08 PM
1

Listen, laugh, and tell jokes
/r/seduction25/04/17 04:27 PM
2

Okay thank God just had to make sure!
/r/seduction17/03/17 05:46 PM
1

I'm afraid to ask if you're joking...
/r/seduction17/03/17 04:54 PM
1

Balls... Didn't even see it at first
/r/seduction17/03/17 04:53 PM
11

My new thing is when I've been flirting and they say some dumb shit I'll put my hand around their waist and say something like, "we could've been in my room by now but you wanted to keep talking" (some bullshit like that, doesn't have to be relevant) look in their eyes for a minute then just leave and go do something else, usually a drinking game. They always come back. For reference I'm a college frat kid who drinks a lot and parties are easy and not really fair EDIT: Dumbass typo
/r/seduction17/03/17 12:10 AM
1

Don't give a shit
/r/seduction15/03/17 10:10 PM
1

Exactly just go do it
/r/seduction19/02/17 04:16 AM
1

So? Creep some girls out and get rejected, learn, and then don't have it happen again
/r/seduction18/02/17 02:46 PM
1

The club is great for transitions/escalations. If you go to the bar I like to use a wild ass opener that makes me laugh after that super subtle kino. It's loud as shit, so if you're standing lean in to hear her with a slight touch around the hip/small of her back. Tell a joke or two then take it to the dance floor where you build the full attraction
/r/seduction17/02/17 03:55 PM
1

Where do you do most of your approaches?
/r/seduction17/02/17 06:55 AM
1

I never have and my game just got better through practice and trying new things
/r/seduction15/02/17 03:37 PM
2

Yeah, but I can't take credit for it if they do it themselves
/r/seduction17/01/17 05:28 PM
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Yes I keep a body count of everyone I've kille.... err, slept with
/r/seduction17/01/17 03:23 AM
3

You mean masturbate with my floss?
/r/seduction20/09/16 04:31 PM
2

Dude stop defending yourself and making excuses. You're behavior was not okay. Just accept you fucked up and need to change your game so it doesn't happen again because coming on so strong you are being pushed away instead of just to go away is a big issue. That doesn't just happen because she was in a bad mood or whatever fucking excuse you're sticking to
/r/seduction04/09/16 03:20 PM
3

Still, you should never have to be physically pushed away
/r/seduction04/09/16 04:55 AM
2

Honestly? No clue... if I could it would've taken a lot longer than it did. I used booze to loosen myself to talk to more people (formerly really shy and awkward, couldn't talk to women). I figured out after a while that I didn't need booze for that because I was just being me. So I quit drinking for 6 weeks to work on sober gaming and actually being no one but me. It was a great experience and more over, I learned more in those 6 weeks than the entire past year. I drink now because it's fun and…
/r/seduction03/09/16 07:59 PM
1

No because I've gotten passed the point of alcohol for confidence. I suggest you do too
/r/seduction03/09/16 06:48 PM
9

If you physically got pushed away there is something fundamentally wrong with your game. Either you're waaaaaay too close or you are saying the most offensive shit I can think of with no rapport
/r/seduction03/09/16 04:06 PM
1

I live in southern California and still rock jeans, boots, and a T-shirt and girls like me. It's not that big of a deal as long as you like who you are
/r/seduction02/09/16 03:40 AM
1

Are you high? What in the fuck are you blathering on about
/r/seduction12/08/16 01:01 PM
3

What..?
/r/seduction12/08/16 06:21 AM
2

Poke some fun at her, and change your question from one liners to open ended topics. "What are you studying?" Should become, "What are you passionate about?" To elicit a longer response and lead to more open ended questions
/r/seduction08/08/16 02:19 PM
2

Yeah mine aren't near that long! I went from 220 to 205 because of football but if it works for you man more power to you
/r/askTRP04/08/16 04:51 AM
1

Wasn't meant as disrespect. Just curious. My arms are only about 16 and leg length 30-32 and waist is about a 30. I cut down from about 190 and am feeling small so I was curious to know how you did it, not to make you feel insecure Edit: When I was at 205 I was fat af... and hated myself
/r/askTRP04/08/16 04:27 AM
1

More ripped than large at 6'2 and 205? How? I'm 6'2 and 180 and not as ripped as I'd like to be
/r/askTRP04/08/16 04:06 AM
1

Goldylocks syndrome and go between them
/r/askTRP04/08/16 04:04 AM
6

Get good at observing. Notice everything about her, every mark, tattoo, mannerism, etc. They all tell a story, you just gotta know how to read it
/r/askTRP04/08/16 03:23 AM
1

Flirting is sexual, and contact is key. Put the two together in the right way and you shouldn't have an issue. If you want to escalate then do it now because playing a long game won't do you any good as she'll probably lose interest and put you in the ever dreaded... friend zone dun dundunnnnn
/r/seduction02/08/16 01:53 PM
3

Lol... hung up...
/r/seduction29/07/16 11:51 PM
-3

Women don't forget if you've made an impression on them. Sounds more like the approach doesn't work for you because they don't text or call you
/r/seduction29/07/16 11:47 PM
0

I stick to giving them my number because she can take it and not call me and then there's no real weeding out of anyone. If she wants to she'll initiate, if not. Oh well, who cares? On to the next
/r/seduction29/07/16 04:18 PM
-1

I do too. That's why I give them my number instead and put the ball in their court. If they want to talk, they'll text or call me. If they dont, they won't and I never have to worry
/r/seduction29/07/16 04:17 PM
3

It really kind of is just calling her out though... It gets really awkward if it's a fake. She felt uncomfortable enough around you to give you a fake phone number so you'd leave her alone then you call it to find out it was fake and it makes her even more uncomfortable. No one really wins doing that
/r/seduction29/07/16 02:19 PM
1

Text game was really weak on the opener so I feel like the exchange at the park might not have gone as well as you thought it did
/r/seduction29/07/16 02:17 PM
1

I mean... if you wanna read a novel about building myself and constant rejection then I guess
/r/seduction28/07/16 01:30 PM
1

Trying to hard man, relax
/r/seduction25/07/16 03:37 AM
3

Thanks for proving the point lol
/r/seduction19/07/16 01:42 AM
6

Lol you say shit like "woo" and call women "the most majestic creatures on earth" and expect that shit to fly? Plus holy fuck the misogyny and obvious contempt you have for women because they won't sleep with you is astounding. Take your red-pill philosophy and get the fuck out of here bro lol no one needs that shit
/r/seduction18/07/16 02:14 PM
1

It'll really help you. I've had more confidence since I've been working out and girls like that. My confidence has pushed my farther than my physical appearance has but girls like to have something nice to look at.
/r/seduction18/07/16 01:41 PM
3

Change your game. You should not be going 0/50. Not even really 0/10. Field reports will help give us an idea on what you're doing wrong and what we can do to help
/r/seduction17/07/16 04:29 PM
0

I've seen those too, and while it works for some, my rule is to not do it but hey that's just my rule. If it works for you then go for it I won't tell you other wise lol For an example, I was at the beach once with a friend and we started talking to some girls playing volleyball and asked if we could join. Obviously I was on the team of the girl I wanted so there wasn't much conversation, just playful teasing. Not necessarily negging, but just some light teasing like, "hey the ball is supposed t…
/r/seduction17/07/16 03:18 PM
2

Do's: Be confident Don't's: Be this guy. Fucking weird
/r/seduction17/07/16 05:26 AM
1

Nah.
/r/seduction17/07/16 05:24 AM
3

Literally, never, EVER approach girls laying down and sunbathing. They don't want to be approached and it automatically puts them on the defensive and puts you down pretty hard, because most of them are asleep and don't like being woken up by a man hitting on them. Also, maybe a little too many questions to automatic negging. Negging is a delicate thing and really shouldn't be used until you have a rapport or are feeling particularly care free
/r/seduction17/07/16 05:20 AM
1

Kino is absolutely the best thing in the world. I had a girl at the beach making out with me after about 15 minutes in broad daylight because of it. It's not hard, just got to know how to do it. Simply put, it's all about contact and confidence
/r/seduction17/07/16 05:16 AM
1

Sounds like she rocked your confidence right out of you and you shelled up and didn't know what to do and forgive the pun, but, "buried yourself in the sand" (Lol I know I'm good). But in all serious based on what you typed you walked up shakey and got shook. You didn't have the confidence to grab her so you didn't. The absolute worst thing to do is ask questions and then after that hang around when she's not interested
/r/seduction17/07/16 05:14 AM
1

I thought this was common knowledge? It sounds like you want us to do this and tell you if it works because you're too afraid..?
/r/seduction17/07/16 05:10 AM
3

Anywhere in California, but from living here for so long I can tell you those types are pretty much a mistake. Don't set yourself to a single type Edit: You live in LA, go to Santa Monica
/r/seduction17/07/16 05:07 AM
1

While girls love the thrill they don't talk to men they don't want to or don't like. My main thing is if she's talking to me, she wants to. She won't make excuses to leave or try and get away. If she's talking to you, you're doing better than every guy that didn't approach her that she hoped would
/r/seduction14/07/16 04:42 AM
1

She's only out of your league cuz you thought she was. Girls love the thrill as much as the guys do. You blew it by not saying hello. You can talk to anyone you want
/r/seduction13/07/16 05:48 AM
1

It'd be rude but it's definitely what I'd do. Go talk to someone else and make new friends/interests or whatever. Let her come back to you and I'll bet she'll start getting interested
/r/seduction13/07/16 05:40 AM
3

Yeah pretty much. If there's a large area of space to sit and they choose a spot close enough to you that if you say "Hey" they'll know you're talking to them, it means they're checking you out. Especially if they sit so you can see them and make eye contact
/r/seduction13/07/16 05:39 AM
2

Pretty sure that was sarcasm bud
/r/seduction13/07/16 03:22 AM
1

Literally if they sit within a ten foot radius of you they're interested. Just talk to them
/r/seduction13/07/16 03:22 AM
2

Generally don't dip your pen in the company ink, but I love getting in trouble so go for it. I would say stop talking to her completely, just don't do it. Let her chase you and stop being a friend. I you wanna get out of the friend zone make it clear you're not friends
/r/seduction13/07/16 03:19 AM
1

Break contact for a while I'd say. If move on and focus on other things and generally don't think about her. The busier you are the less time you have to over think things and think about her all together
/r/seduction04/07/16 04:52 PM
1

We were in downtown just exploring at the Riverwalk or whatever it's called and we made eye contact and it was good so I approached her. I'm a pretty good looking guy, not the best by any means so it's easier to approach once I finally got over the anxiety a while ago. There were just a lot of people at the Riverwalk that night so everyone was hanging out cuz it's nice to look at as the sun sets so nothing really special there. You can really approach where ever you are no matter the circumstanc…
/r/seduction26/06/16 02:56 AM
1

I've got a pretty straight forward approach of just making eye contact, walking up and saying hello. With her, I just asked if she was from the area, made fun of her for it (playful teasing) and talked some about myself but my main game is to tell jokes and keep the atmosphere light. It's a bit hard to explain, but I guess I "feign" arrogance when I talk to girls by talking my self up and then making a joke about it before they can. With her specifically, I asked if she was from Chicago and she …
/r/seduction25/06/16 11:07 PM
1

Any setting is a good setting if the mood is right. I've had moments where I was alone with a girl and it was great when I made a move and kissed her. I've also kissed a girl while we were dancing in front of a party of about 100 people and just having fun. It really doesn't matter It's about building attraction. If you've gone on two dates that's plenty. You need to make a move or else she'll get bored and leave. So, just kiss her when you want to assuming the attraction is there.
/r/seduction05/06/16 03:28 AM
2

I talk about my biggest failures and laugh them off. Anything that has gone wrong can be funny if you tell it right. Talk about something that was going great to start, then shit hit the fan, and make it a joke. Be funny, women love that above all else from my experience in game. Women want a guy who can make them laugh above all else.
/r/seduction05/06/16 03:24 AM
0

As weird as it sounds, joining a fraternity taught me how to go solo. When you're surrounded by sorority girls, a lot of guys shy away to a corner because they're afraid to talk to anyone. Fuck all that. I learned that if I saw a girl and she was cute, go talk to her. I'm a good looking guy, not the best but it doesn't matter because I'm always the funniest guy in the room and that's gotten me farther than anything else has. In addition, I'm an asshole, albeit a confident so I couldn't give to f…
/r/seduction05/06/16 03:20 AM
1

If you push him into it he'll just most likely cheat on you because he never wanted to be tied down to begin
/r/seduction05/06/16 01:30 AM
1

If they get mad I stop talking to them and move on. It's not worth the drama
/r/seduction05/06/16 12:51 AM
1

Could be a slump but if you're in the U.S. that's 6 out of 150,000,000 possibilites. Pick yourself back up and go pick up some chicks. It's a numbers game. On the text game, they liked you enough to give you their number so use it for a date and then use the date to get to know them. Texting doesn't really do much
/r/seduction05/06/16 12:50 AM
1

I don't. It's a waste of everyone's time, but most importantly, mine.
/r/seduction03/06/16 08:52 PM
1

Totally agree, but I found the more I did it, the easier it got so just keep practicing until it's natural. I can talk to anyone now and I never want to go back
/r/seduction20/05/16 05:11 PM
1

How come??? It's fun and kills the boredom
/r/seduction19/05/16 02:59 PM
36

I can't speak for OP but that's what I do, and I don't do in the mindset of "let me see if I can pick her up". I do it mainly out of boredom waiting in line for food, sitting at a table and she's close, in class and I don't know them very well. For me, it helps me relax and not be nervous cuz it's only talking and finding a way for myself to kill boredom so if we hit it off, great! If we dont, oh well there's literally 2,000 girls at my school (small college). Have some fun and entertain yoursel…
/r/seduction19/05/16 02:55 AM
1

Have some fun and play some games with yourself!
/r/seduction19/03/16 12:04 AM
2

Psychologically, when you look down while flirting with a woman it means you're uncomfortable, unconfident, and submissive and women are so much better at picking up on the little things compared to men so they notice. Plus, you don't wanna get called out for looking at her boobs
/r/seduction12/03/16 04:10 PM
4

Keep eye contact but when she looks away so do you and generally you can look away but if you do ALWAYS look up or side to side NEVER down
/r/seduction11/03/16 10:13 PM
53

Just aren't practicing enough then
/r/seduction27/12/15 08:41 PM
-4

This dude sounds like Tucker Max and I love it. Either way, apologizing is the biggest thing I've been trying to get my friends to realize. I never apologize to women, and they don't seem to understand that you shouldn't
/r/seduction20/12/15 03:02 AM
1

I didn't even try I was just so taken aback about what was happening. I just had to count it as a loss and move on
/r/seduction29/11/15 04:19 PM
1

You're learning which is good. I'd say approach sooner and don't wait because before you know it the moment is gone
/r/seduction27/11/15 03:41 AM
2

It gets easier bro! Trust me on that, talking to women and pretty much anyone now is second nature and so much easier than when I started. I faced constant rejection but just kept pushing and now my successes are starting to outweigh my rejections and it's a great feeling.
/r/seduction24/11/15 07:23 PM
1

Kino really
/r/seduction16/11/15 10:11 PM
1

A lot of it for me comes from being absolutely hammered when I talk to girls most of the time. Beer goggles are a real thing apparently. But also its the fun of going out and building the attraction regardless of looks. After the night most times the attraction is gone because last nights feelings don't carry over when I wake up in the morning
/r/seduction16/11/15 10:03 PM
1

I've really grown to enjoy reading Illimitable Men. It's a website so Google that and it's a very red pill take on women and life in general
/r/seduction16/11/15 02:13 AM
2

Well put
/r/seduction16/11/15 02:11 AM
3

Not in the slightest. It may be a good point to gain some interest from her but me saying I'm a football player never has gotten me laid. It's all about how I was able to build and keep attraction/interest by being myself. Football has never gotten me laid
/r/seduction16/11/15 12:24 AM
7

Agreed. I used to exchange numbers and text them with similar response but now I get it was most likely a one night thing and don't pursue it further. Most of the time and only give them my number so if they want to talk they can text me instead
/r/seduction16/11/15 12:12 AM
1

Not a good idea unless you plan on going to jail. I'd leave it
/r/seduction09/11/15 06:06 PM
-1

When I feel like messing with a girl one of my go to line is, "You know, you're really lucky you're cute cuz you say some stupid shit." it's nothing but pure entertainment for me, whether it goes in my favor or not.
/r/seduction05/11/15 08:10 PM
1

Never really thought of it that way but it makes a lot of sense
/r/seduction15/10/15 09:31 PM
1

There's a lot that goes into making moves. Social queues, setting, mood, etc. Learn those
/r/seduction15/10/15 08:45 PM
4

Find what fits you. We're all different as people and therefore use different means to talk to girls/people in general. I'm a good looking guy, but no where near model status. I tell jokes instead because I'm funny and enjoy making people (and most of all myself) laugh. Sure, there are things we could all do like be more confident and be comfortable with who you are as a person. I know who I am now and it's made everything better for me. I go around and tell jokes and generally be someone others…
/r/seduction15/10/15 08:38 PM
0

Brutal. Love it
/r/seduction15/10/15 08:28 PM
2

That's what I generally do. I hate when people complain about being in it. It's so pointless, nothing is ever gained from it
/r/seduction15/10/15 05:23 PM
1

Now, while I can speak Spanish sure as shit don't mean I'm gonna read it in my off time
/r/seduction15/10/15 05:15 PM
0

Yup, I'm using this shit right here
/r/seduction15/10/15 05:07 PM
7

I struggled with this until I started partying and got out of my shell. Honestly, from what I've found it's straight up science with girls. Absolute psychology when you get right down to it. I'm good, but I get rejected all the time and it doesn't even bother me anymore. However, some of my best successes have been at parties because it's a perfect setting. If you see a girl you like go talk, if she likes you, you're going to get queues from her. It seems like people always forget what I find to…
/r/seduction15/10/15 03:43 AM
2

A lot of house parties don't really have dancing. Like there's music but no one is really dancing, maybe only 1 or 2 people because they don't realize how drunk they are
/r/seduction15/09/15 05:12 PM
3

House parties for the most part are shit and get rolled quickly in my experience. Plus it's ALWAYS BYOB and everyone sticks to their respective group. Now full campus parties or frat parties thrown by frats notorious for partying can get wild, are generally safer, and all around more fun. There's actually music and dancing and games
/r/seduction15/09/15 04:08 AM
1

Go to coffee shops, bookstores, the mall and start talking to people
/r/seduction18/08/15 04:52 PM
6

You don't. That's just weird. She literally has no idea who you are. Just don't do it
/r/seduction12/08/15 08:01 PM
2

And trying to make it seem like they have to impress a group of dudes who don't care about his roster. Even though it's 0
/r/seduction21/07/15 07:36 PM
1

If you can get it off quickly and smoothly then who gives a shit how you do it. As long as you're not struggling to get it off I've never found a girl to care how I did it.
/r/seduction21/07/15 07:35 PM
2

That's pretty much what I've been doing the last year. I have 2 or 3 REAL friends and the rest are really just more of acquaintances. People you go out and can party with but I don't particularly care about them because they aren't doing anything to better themselves
/r/seduction02/07/15 07:11 PM
3

How do I tighten up my friends?
/r/seduction02/07/15 06:08 PM
1

Sounds like you need to get out of your head. You were already ahead when she started talking to you. At that point you need to ask questions back to keep the conversations rolling
/r/seduction01/07/15 10:41 PM
2

From what I've found these tips work for just about anyone. Doesn't really matter how long you've known them in the grand scheme. There are specific cases though
/r/seduction01/07/15 10:38 PM
1

Drive in around your area?
/r/seduction01/07/15 06:25 AM
1

Does it have to be at night?
/r/seduction01/07/15 06:07 AM
1

Maybe a park?
/r/seduction01/07/15 04:53 AM
1

So definitely go for that. Almost no charge, you can make it fun. Sit out and drink and talk all night. Go for it
/r/seduction01/07/15 04:47 AM
1

Fishing? You could go swimming in the lake and have an evening picnic or something
/r/seduction01/07/15 04:31 AM
1

I'm in college so technically nothing. However, I've been rebuilding and restoring old cars since I was a child with my dad and step dad. Now I work on my own for the most part and it's a solid pot of disposable income which I can use for whatever I please.
/r/seduction01/07/15 04:29 AM
2

Some of the best conversations I've had started from the boring old conversation starters. "What's your Major?" great start. Ask why she's into that. Get her to open up about something she's passionate then just keep talking. Make a joke, get her to smile and laugh and then get her number, ask to study sometime, grab some coffee, whatever! You really can't go wrong unless you don't talk to her.
/r/seduction01/07/15 04:27 AM
1

I did that and it was the best thing I could've done. Everyone in my dorm (Small school albeit) knew and liked me. There were a couple who didn't but everyone else didn't understand why because I decided to be extroverted and funny.
/r/seduction30/06/15 08:24 PM
1

Go after it. She'll let you know how faithful she is in that relationship later on. It might get complicated but it's her problem not yours
/r/seduction30/06/15 08:20 PM
1

Just take a risk. If she likes you she'll laugh and if she takes offense, well then she probably isn't a girl you want to talk to for long because she has no sense of humor
/r/seduction30/06/15 01:46 AM
7

You're making excuses not to meet them. That's what's going wrong
/r/seduction30/06/15 01:45 AM
2

1.) She was totally into you. You fucked up by not capitalizing but hey, it's okay. Everyone has done it once or twice. Now you know for the future though. 2.) Just keep talking, ask about her, her life etc. Keep it light though, don't try and dig out her life story on the first meet. Women love to talk about themselves though. You said you're funny which is perfect. Just keep rolling out the jokes, tease her a bit once you get her laughing and she'll latch on to you like no other. Some of the b…
/r/seduction29/06/15 08:41 PM
1

1.) With the approach anxiety the best advice I've ever gotten was to just do it and do it often. If you see a girl you like just go talk to her. It sucks at first, I'm not gonna lie. But they only way to get over it is just practice and repetition. It will get easier that's for sure but just start talking. 2.) and pretty much 3.) When you're actually talking don't seek her approval. Just be you, be the coolest fucking guy she's ever talked to. Don't think about it, just talk and have fun. Make …
/r/seduction29/06/15 04:21 AM
1

I'd say she likes you. Definitely get her number. Maybe say your not always around the computer but you always have your phone on you. Just take it from there, keep the conversation light and maybe if you want to show interest in her, but let her also realize you're laid back about it and don't really care if you go for her or not. Try and set up a date and just keep things casual and let it fall where it may. you've got nothing to lose
/r/seduction29/06/15 04:09 AM
2

Exactly. I have a somewhat large, deep scar on my forearm from a playground accident when I was a child and I always enjoy telling a story about how I was attacked by a bear and that's how I got it
/r/seduction29/06/15 03:56 AM
1

Best thing you can do is just talk. Asking something like what is your major is great conversation point because most of the time they're passionate about what they do. Getting them to talk is the key and if you don't like the conversation just leave and find someone else. Once you find a girl you like tell some jokes and get her to laugh, just keep the conversation going
/r/seduction28/06/15 09:52 PM
1

If something is awkward just brush it off. Shit happens, move on and let it go. Cuz if you dwell it'll get to you and ruin your time
/r/seduction28/06/15 09:49 PM
1

If it's the first date I wouldn't. Might feel like you're trying to buy her affection/attention to her and that's a turn off. Take her shopping and make sure she wants to follow you. Lead the conversations, be funny etc. As long as you can keep the conversations flowing and keep her interested in what you have to say you'll be golden and it won't matter where you are. Plus you'll save some cash in the process
/r/seduction28/06/15 08:47 PM
1

Probably shopping. You'll actually get to talk and engage/find out her interests for a while rather than sitting in a dark room
/r/seduction28/06/15 07:37 PM
1

I don't think it sounds like a bad idea. If you would rather to that it's totally fine just make sure you convey your intentions so you don't become her designated gay best friend
/r/seduction28/06/15 07:27 PM
0

Then take her on a date. Go to the movies and make it a date
/r/seduction28/06/15 07:11 PM
2

To add to that, if you're comfortable with who you are make a joke about it. Tell an insane story about how you ended up in it. Just have some fun
/r/seduction28/06/15 05:11 PM
2

Not totally. I would recommend shaving the facial hair though. You've got a good jawline, show it off
/r/seduction28/06/15 06:32 AM
2

Don't worry man, happens to the best of us. However, sometimes them saying that is a great confidence boost for you if she's obviously in to you. Just depends how she says it.
/r/seduction28/06/15 03:58 AM
1

Hopefully it helped, best of luck to you!
/r/seduction28/06/15 03:09 AM
6

It's alright man, we've all been there. I just got back from a trip to Mexico, and when I first got there I was petrified. I couldn't walk up to a girl or group of them and talk, even with alcohol. After a couple days I finally just kind of said "fuck it", walked up to a girl and started talking. It was completely random, she was reading so I asked what she was reading and we talked for like an hour. I started telling jokes and generally just screwing around with out being to serious and you kno…
/r/seduction28/06/15 02:59 AM
1

Solid advice. OP, it ain't easy and anyone who says it is are probably lying to you. Get some liquid courage in your system and be like Nike and just do it. It takes a ton of guts to just do that, and believe me, women notice it
/r/seduction28/06/15 02:49 AM
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