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It’s also called that because of so many male oriented activities (climbing, skiing, etc,) are meant for men. It’s close to 50/50 ratio and a lot of the girls are fit and cute. Add in the great drinking and social scene and it’s a great spot for single guys, actually.
/r/seduction12/01/22 07:54 PM
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As many others have said, it’s not wrong as long as you’re upfront. EARLY. Unfortunately, that is the hard part because you need to seem interested and usually go on at least one or two nice dates before you can even enter casual sex mode. I did this lAst year during COVID, cleaned up a ton of solid 7’s on Hinge (amazing bodies or great in bed, but perhaps not classically pretty or someone cool enough to hang out with in normal life ) but my issue was taking too long to have to “casual FWB talk”…
/r/seduction20/12/21 09:08 PM
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I’ve been with tens of thousands. I’ve been with women in cars. I’ve been with women in line at the store. Once when I was born.
/r/seduction16/12/21 01:03 AM
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Yup. My ex started dating a mutual acquaintance of ours after a nasty, long break-up where I dragged her along for a year before finally cutting it off. She is way out of his league in every category, and he is as exciting and interesting as a Pap smear. Frankly, kind of a creep. BUT he was always obsessed with her. Anyway, he doted on her, validated her and did literally anything she wanted. And all not hating on that at all, I’d say she deserves it! But everyone we know is shocked she is with …
/r/seduction14/12/21 10:45 PM
16

Being able to afford VIP or table service
/r/seduction08/11/21 06:18 AM
4

See this is tough because if they ask you in the early phases of a relationship that is going very well… you don’t want to risk them freaking out (like OP) and having in sink your relationship. Admittedly, I fudged my number a ton when I thought I had found “the one” because her number was 1 and mine was closer to 30. I knew she’s freak so I dropped it below 10… she never asked again but I wonder if that’s something I would have had to take to the grave
/r/seduction05/11/21 06:16 PM
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Exactly. So a little more research is required before paying for one. There should be PUA reviews out there in some forums? But you should also do your research before choosing a PT. There are so many certifications, the common person won’t know what is useful and what is crock.
/r/seduction25/10/21 08:00 PM
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Devil’s Advocate (I have zero skin in the game) but I see Pick-up coaches in a similar light as personal fitness trainers (which I have used a few times). Yes- anybody can Google and YouTube lifting workouts and go to the gym. The same way anyone can read a pick-up book and go to the bar. However, you’re paying a personal trainer $100 bucks an hour to check your form, give you feedback, and most of all FORCE you to try your damn hardest for an hour. Example: I’ve been doing deadlifts wrong for t…
/r/seduction25/10/21 07:19 PM
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I think that’s the point? We do dismissive laughs all the time, at work or socially. But we really aren’t listening or paying attention to hat the other person is really saying, it’s just a reaction.
/r/seduction25/10/21 05:42 PM
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You don’t have to be a swinger, you just need to find a woman with super bisexual tendencies. Think kinky, alternative/hippie, or just highly sexual profession. If you’re on a dating app, some woman even put that info right out there (OK Cupid used to be amazing for this but it’s gone downhill)
/r/seduction14/10/21 07:02 PM
1

This is a great acronym for dating! Could you explain Environment more?
/r/seduction13/10/21 08:03 PM
2

“How was your summer, do anything fun?”
/r/seduction13/10/21 02:54 PM
20

FORD. Family, occupation, recreation, Dreams. Basically, all the things people do in their free time (or at work). Keep it positive though!
/r/seduction13/10/21 06:47 AM
82

Or you can do both? I can set up a few midweek dates (planned, cheap- hikes or beach or just a drink, high probably of some success) AND leave Friday and Saturday for normal social activities. Many girls just aren’t at the bars/clubs getting turnt every weekend
/r/seduction12/10/21 10:22 PM
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Likewise, a bookstore. I popped into one the other day and MY GOSH. They were there in droves, and people are typically friendly and open to conversation (about books… and then more from there)
/r/seduction10/09/21 06:21 PM
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As everyone here already said: couch, Netflix, and wine (or drink of choice). Then I’ll literally just throw a blanket over us and get close for chatting and half watching the show. I invested a decent amount into my bachelor couch (it’s deep, comfy and perfect for cuddling, naps, and sex) and 100% of my first time lays have started there.
/r/seduction22/08/21 08:12 PM
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Is their any research/anecdotes on the creatine?! I’ve been taking a lot lately and now I’m curious....
/r/seduction26/06/21 07:42 PM
1

Ok, I don’t at all disagree with that point. I don’t mind the content being posted on /seduction. The self posts lately have been stale.
/r/seduction16/12/20 05:12 PM
8

Success in other areas of life help out seduction just and much, if not more than “game”. It’s the habits and confidence you build.
/r/seduction16/12/20 04:43 PM
0

Magnets.... literally the #1 example of attraction ;)
/r/seduction30/11/20 03:56 PM
14

This is me, having finally hooked up with a girl I had known and wanted for 7 years. The first time I blamed it on the alcohol, but the second time was obviously nerves and I felt like an idiot. Never once had an issue with it before, have hooked up with tons of hotter girls. But it got in my head. Third time I literally went and got some gas station dick pills and powered through, all better now lol
/r/seduction17/09/20 06:01 PM
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Hmm... I never thought of it that way. But I’d definitely give a girl with an amazing body but below average face an opportunity. I’m sure it’s somewhat similar for guys who are super fit
/r/seduction07/08/20 09:45 PM
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Yes, because you’re extremely outcome independent (you don’t expect anything in return) so you come off cool, relaxed, confident. Then she talks you up to her single friends
/r/seduction26/05/20 07:51 PM
7

How have you leveraged photography into more social interactions? I finally got a nice camera for traveling. Do you do meet-ups or just become the friend with the camera who people want to take photos at parties?
/r/seduction16/10/19 03:11 AM
10

I think it’s as easy as focusing on your breath. And counting up and down from ten during the inhale/exhale helps. If a random thought comes into your mind, focus back to the counting and the breathing rhythm.
/r/seduction28/09/19 07:15 PM
1

I mean... define “hung out”. Was it a casual date? Without knowing what you text or snapped her, it’s hard to tell how bad of a ghosting it was. I’ve gone a week without talking to a date and we pick it back up pretty quickly if we both understand we’re busy adults. Deleting someone from snap also seems a little petty after just a week, IMO.
/r/seduction09/09/19 04:33 AM
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It sounds like you’re just a little too safe and available. And the great qualities that make her say she’d marry you (fit, good job, etc) might not mean shit to an early 20’s women at that stage in her life. Sounds like she’s just trying to have fun. And finally, to another commenters point: Get better at sex. There’s a 90% chance she’ll catch feelings if you’re fucking her good.
/r/seduction20/08/19 04:40 AM
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Tip 1 is meant to open yourself up and not have a barrier (your drink) between yourself and the other person.
/r/seduction16/08/18 11:09 PM
2

Where did you find a girl willing to sit through even two episodes of The Wire? Every girl I've shown it to says it's too boring, too violent, etc
/r/seduction08/12/16 12:26 AM
5

Dude, talk how you normally would. Don't try to fake a vernacular. I mean.. don't bust out the British proper English, but don't try to sudden act hood
/r/seduction22/07/16 10:46 PM
1

Maybe desperate was the wrong word choice, but when a guy tries to buy a random girl a drink after 2 minutes at a bar he's pretty much asking to get used for a drink
/r/seduction25/05/15 07:09 PM
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I got used to it real quick with my current GF, so I flipped the script. Sometimes when we go out I TELL her to try to get a free drink from guys hitting on her. The benefit is two fold: I spend less on drinks, and when they do buy her a drink she sees them as desperate and moves on. (This sub preaches not buying girls a drink).
/r/seduction25/05/15 05:11 AM
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Not sure why you're getting downvoted, this is what I define it as. Kind of a douchey, cocky bro
/r/seduction01/05/15 01:27 AM
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I'm not sure if I trust you... Guess I'll have to watch the video
/r/seduction09/03/14 07:29 PM
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This has nothing to do with seductions, and probably belongs on /r/relationships or something. But i digress. She is obviously still with the guy. Now that you know, don't be the other guy. She probably lied about the break-up
/r/seduction09/03/14 07:16 PM
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I was expecting they ran a train on a girl while doing blow. Imagine my disappointment.
/r/seduction01/04/13 04:11 AM
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Sometimes nothing at all is the best response. If you pull away, give her the eye-fuck and a coy smile
/r/seduction28/03/13 08:41 PM
1

The smiley winks made a a bit uncomfortable after the second time
/r/seduction25/01/13 09:12 PM
2

Oh, well that wasn't very hard! Rule of thumb on OKC is suggest a meetup by the 3-4th message. I'm curious what her attractiveness was, if you will indulge me.
/r/seduction25/01/13 06:14 PM
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Agreed. Seems OP missed a few small shit tests, but oh well. I've had girls over who had 6 AM store openings. Just tell them "I'll wake you up" or "yeah but it will be worth it, I promise"
/r/seduction24/01/13 07:59 PM
2

You only need to go to the gym 4 times a week! But I get what you mean
/r/seduction21/01/13 05:27 PM
8

Black Friday, good DVDs for $3-5 dollars each. This is usually one of the only things I go out for nowadays on BF, and I've built up a pretty legit collection over the years
/r/seduction17/01/13 06:06 PM
2

Kinky
/r/seduction15/01/13 06:43 PM
1

So were you just cruising the dance floor, constantly talking to people, or actually dancing by yourself?
/r/seduction15/12/12 06:38 PM
3

DM;HS?
/r/seduction27/11/12 03:55 AM
0

I respectfully disagree. OP is going to college, not sitting at home like an unemployed loser. A GF wouldn't be that much of a distraction any more than dating a girl while living in the dorms. Hell, probably less!
/r/seduction27/11/12 02:17 AM
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that sucks. My mom literally cooked one girl breakfast during my summer break.
/r/seduction27/11/12 02:13 AM
2

Well conventions say that weight training should yield more desirable qualities. However, I myself mix it up. If I have more than an hour to spare, I'll drive to the gym and get a good 50 minute workout in. Less than an hour, I'll throw on my shoes and do a few miles around my neighborhood. Yes, mixing cardio and strength is kind of counterproductive, but I think as long as you are exercising, shedding any weight, and releasing endorphins, it's a plus. Besides, I don't have the time to get on so…
/r/seduction26/11/12 06:45 PM
4

This just goes with all the other advice in this subreddit- you can say whatever the hell you want, as long as you say it with confidence.
/r/seduction24/11/12 01:07 AM
5

Yeah but I'm not sure they'll work for you
/r/seduction23/11/12 06:20 AM
0

Like Meetup.com meet ups? How is that? Just moved to a new city, interested in this
/r/seduction22/11/12 06:16 PM
1

Then you're that much hornier and hungrier the next time you go out
/r/seduction22/11/12 06:14 PM
2

This is an awesome analogy. Rock on dude
/r/seduction22/11/12 06:13 PM
1

True. I actually get called Persian/middle eastern frequently because I'm more olive skinned than most.
/r/seduction19/11/12 06:08 AM
2

Also, you weren't gaming her right off the bat like OP is suggesting. It seemed to happen naturally, thus avoiding a lot of problems if OP fails and makes life miserable
/r/seduction16/11/12 09:16 PM
2

I'm white. I definitely need to visit as well
/r/seduction15/11/12 08:34 PM
8

200%!!
/r/seduction31/10/12 04:23 PM
2

Better lays than who? The other 95% of the girls in my class wearing yoga pants?
/r/seduction31/10/12 06:15 AM
2

Agreed, I try to use "random" because girls apparently love that word. I wouldn't want to associate my first impression with words like strange or weird
/r/seduction29/10/12 08:37 PM
2

I use "but a pirate loves the C/sea"
/r/seduction24/10/12 03:44 AM
7

yeah what the hell!? I don't understand how this works though... he said anonymous... but then they chat? i dunno. Is this like the new Craigslist for college kids? Insanely jealous
/r/seduction23/10/12 06:14 AM
5

This is my go-to at concerts if I'm trying to escalate or gauge her reaction. Mind you, these are standing room festivals, so I'll be like "let's get a better view!". Grab hand, keep her close. Bonus points if you can get her to interlock fingers, then squeeze tightly
/r/seduction23/10/12 06:00 AM
1

I was thinking of doing this, with the irony being that I already have a lot of this stuff laying around. (p.s. legit whips are expensive as fuck, make one)
/r/seduction09/10/12 07:25 PM
13

better yet, wear a whistle around your neck. Convo starter.
/r/seduction19/09/12 02:58 PM
3

Second this. My sister had a toy pomeranian, and I volunteer to take that little fucker everywhere. Bonus points for not actually owning the "girly" dog
/r/seduction17/09/12 03:56 AM
3

Be funny Be in great physical shape Be rich
/r/seduction17/09/12 03:53 AM
3

I read "fake condom"
/r/seduction16/09/12 05:17 PM
3

Warning: not a lot I 19 ear old girls have career aspirations. Unless he is in college... You might be better dating people your own age if you're looking for wifey material
/r/seduction21/08/12 12:25 AM
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read the title of the post, expected this comment to be towards the top. Good man.
/r/seduction18/08/12 05:38 PM
2

with great pick-up, comes great responsibility.
/r/seduction01/08/12 10:27 PM
1

Is there a college nearby? Tons of young 20-somethings needing to fill a room, usually cool guys down to drink and go out. When I changed cities, I moved to an apartment an extra 10 minutes away from work just because it was near campus where people my age lived (23)
/r/seduction19/07/12 12:00 AM
1

Not that it would hurt with the ladies, but living with women in my experience has sucked. Messy, bitchy, the list goes on. Only if A) coolest girl ever, which is hard to tell off craigslist, or B) one woman balanced by multiple guy roomies. Maybe check out her facebook?
/r/seduction18/07/12 11:58 PM
1

TIL...
/r/seduction07/07/12 03:35 AM
6

Agreed. Even when I was an awkward chump it was still easy to start grinding on a girl when you're in a huge sea of people dancing on ecstasy. Not to say that it doesn't take confidence to escalate. Although sometimes just dancing was fun
/r/seduction13/06/12 03:35 AM
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upvote. and IF they were in a relationship, /r/relationships is where this belongs. She clearly left with another guy, right in front of you. You aren't exclusive
/r/seduction02/06/12 07:53 PM
1

I was thinking more like 40 years old. But yeah, people with decent jobs have no problems buying pitchers of beer for the table.
/r/seduction25/05/12 05:33 AM
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