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Cool very well put, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:26 AM
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Genuinely have you ever considered that both genders experience this? Because that complex describes a lot of women I know lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:16 PM
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Having someone you fundamentally trust call you out on your delusion is generally productive…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:14 PM
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Or the fact that it’s a comforting thought-terminating cliche for you lmao you ain’t that slick
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:09 PM
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Or maybe she’s treated as an option because that’s exactly what she is for those men. That seems a lot more plausible than the man losing so much respect for her for making the first move that they no longer see her as a viable dating option. She didn’t violate some strict social convention, they just weren’t as attracted to her to the degree that she wanted/assumed
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:00 PM
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Men are consistently told here that “your attractiveness is measured by who you can attract,” so isn’t the inverse true here?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:21 AM
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Maybe I’m missing context here, but I was referring to the original commenter’s experience asking people out in college rather than the type of man who would have that sentiment in this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:17 AM
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Her male peers in a non-specified college?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:18 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 05:58 AM
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As someone with a fwb and can’t be framed as coping for not being chosen, you’re clearly lashing out right here and it’s ridiculous no one’s calling it out
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 05:52 AM
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Sorry not a gotcha but how does this prove she wasn’t shooting out of her league?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 05:45 AM
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This subreddit is predominately populated and run by people who are invested in the exact opposite notion being true. The sooner you realize it, the sooner you don’t have to take the absurd rhetoric seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:39 AM
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This sub is a perpetual tantrum from has-beens 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:34 AM
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Aren’t you a millennial woman? Is really no one gonna point out the inherent self-soothing aspect of this narrative?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:15 AM
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If you’re a top 10% man as you claim then in the current dating market it’s likely entirely from immutable traits or financial status which most people are born into these days anyways. What value does your spoiled ass actually have to add to the conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:54 AM
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I don’t care how you rationalize it but straight women are literally the boomers of the dating market 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:49 AM
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“Yeah but what about the loser male archetype of this?” - Boom conversation over for half the posts here apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:46 PM
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Bruh it ruined this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:57 PM
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Yeah but always ready this subreddit demographicly is Gen X women talking down to Gen Z men. They might deny it, but this is the coalition of women who missed out on the easiest validation in human history. They are has-beens looking to feel better. Please don’t entertain them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 02:54 AM
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Because your first and essentially only advice is to “learn media literacy,” thus implying young men who have an issue with the current dating dynamic or struggle socially must have consumed this toxic content. It’s genuinely so obvious it’s not in good faith and designed to make you feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 11:43 PM
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Do you ever wonder if you just generalize Gen Z men as manosphere content consumers so you don’t have to feel bad for the obvious imbalance in validation for average members of a gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 06:03 AM
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And of course gives up as soon as their disingenuous rhetoric gets called out
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 04:18 PM
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Yeah you know I’m fucking right coward
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 06:45 AM
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From the OP…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 06:16 AM
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No I suppose you’re using confirmation bias anecdotes to implicitly claim that any man perceived the way OP described has actually somehow told on himself so then you don’t even need to rely on inherently uncertain intuition. Still pretty transparent and original point still stands lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 06:15 AM
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I mean do those matches stop comparatively having multitudes more options and validation?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 08:32 PM
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You do realize people are also telling on themselves by claiming this “deep intuition”? It’s frankly been twisted into a cudgel to ostracize people you don’t like or disagree with
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 08:30 PM
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So why the fuck are you making such definitive comments about their behavior and motivations?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 08:27 PM
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The response was really not out there, but of course framing it like that lets you ignore their perspective with impunity. You’re not that slick lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 08:26 PM
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Phew glad to know reality is actually whatever is most soothing to you. Those gurus are fucking grifter dipshits, but I’m not going to pretend they’re not a symptom rather than the cause
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 08:23 PM
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Omg just say you’re spoiled for choice and have been repeatedly burned by shooting out of your league
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 08:20 PM
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It’s another way of saying those who are dissatisfied with the current dynamic inherently deserve it due to their character. This entire fucking sub is just mod-supported cope for millennial women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 08:17 PM
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Uh people don’t acknowledge it because it exposes how genuinely unfair the ratio of effort to validation is between genders in the new generations
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 07:05 AM
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The point was trying to get people to recognize their externally-derived self concept as someone inherently attractive came from an insanely lopsided level of demand. Or more just highlighting it for regular people who aren’t viscerally offended by this notion lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:58 AM
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And what do you think that means for early-mid 20s dynamics? Maybe there’s a comeuppance, but there’s a whole lifetime of getting way more validation than your peers in the meantime
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 01:25 AM
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“The immediate response is ‘maybe she liked it,’” what fucking circles are you spending your time with that constantly validates the least charitable perception you can have of men?? Edit: try actually responding to the statement itself instead of hiding in your millennial women hugbox lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 11:30 PM
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Dude, have some hope. Gen Z people do see you. As misguided as their political leanings are on average, the cultural zeitgeist will acknowledge your raw deal in social discourse as millennial influencers age out
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 11:26 PM
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It’s pickiness stemming from unprecedented choice & opportunity relative to your peers. It’s really not much more complicated than that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 11:19 PM
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How the fuck is this the top comment? This is so god damn sanctimonious and unproductive lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 11:11 PM
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You have a ridiculous view of companionship, and you’ll never learn any better because anyone who criticizes it will be branded as some form of misogynist you can pretend to feel justified in completely dismissing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 11:07 PM
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Yea yea it’s always a reflection on how I suck you transparent loser lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 12:26 PM
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Bad faith actors are more accepted from certain demographics, especially on the left. I say this as a left-leaning individual
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 01:27 AM
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Nice to see this as the top comment instead of a condescending diatribe from a millennial women 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 01:20 AM
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I find your motivations very admirable, so respect to you for that. But I still think OP has a point in which groups are publicly condemned by the mainstream and which are tacitly endorsed through omitted criticism. You might be particularly noble in your approach, but it would be disingenuous to say just because you operate that way, that’s how mainstream discourse works. Again, not saying you’re entirely wrong, but I’m not gonna ignore that one vocal minority genuinely has had an outsized infl…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 12:24 AM
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I mean duh, this is a place for bitter women to lord over struggling men because they’ll always have an underclass they’re more desirable than
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 12:16 AM
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Way hotter than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 08:21 PM
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You are right, but you literally just described a double standard
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 08:16 PM
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Maybe you belong here, being so unaware of social cues
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 12:52 AM
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I agree with the spirit of what you say but your rhetoric is pretty disgusting. “OMG you thought that person was flirting with you and they actually weren’t? You must be unfathomably autistic to have that happen to you.” I’m sure you have lots of long-lasting, healthy friendships lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 09:52 PM
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“Noooo I didn’t get an immediate positive response to my condescending attitude!”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 03:01 PM
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Totally doesn’t sound like a self-soothing caricature lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 09:02 AM
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Yup, so much of this “anyone who doesn’t entirely align with my perspective on gender dynamics is actually an ontologically evil caricature deserving of ridicule & contempt.” Whether that’s pickmes or incels, it’s using social archetypes to shame people into being quiet
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:23 AM
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The whole point is about which types of hypocrisy are socially accepted, not whether they exist. People don’t take issue with the action or perspective itself (I mean, they do, but most still acknowledge people can act however they want), it’s the lack of social consequences for being narcissistic and pretending romantic attention is somehow a barometer of internal character that men take issue with. Frankly, if you generally can’t miss a single social/personal milestone by being an asshole, tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:40 PM
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Nah just glad you know one more person finds you insufferable, even as an onlooker
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 12:28 PM
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I called you out for being a prick and quoting half a sentence so you could talk down to someone but keep pretending I’m losing my mind because I want OP to be right. I already said I wasn’t fundamentally agreeing with OPs point so maybe do better and actually read the whole comment before trying to think up a new caricature to shoehorn me into. I don’t have radical beliefs. I’m not profoundly insecure. I just think you’re being an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 12:04 PM
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Wow OP didn’t really have a well-defined point and you still came out the bigger asshole. Just call out his weird rhetoric and move on without relishing in how much you think he’s not getting. Also literally just reading the whole sentence you quoted shows he’s not expressing frustration at having to treat women like people, he’s talking about the interplay of keeping someone’s humanity and agency in mind while also pursuing them in a sexual context as it can lead to an objectifying perspective.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 11:03 AM
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She did downplay one side’s “negative effects” as predominantly influencing their self-perception rather than expectations of the opposite sex. Also rhetorically that does frame them as victims, as again, all the negative effects referenced are inwardly focused. Whether you agree or not, that is how the comment implicitly framed it. Regardless, maybe you just haven’t seen the trend about BookTok gooners but women having their perception of men warped by porn, rather than of themselves, absolutel…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 05:53 PM
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Bruh MGTOW is not a representative example of male fraternity within groups
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 07:47 PM
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Ah yes MGTOW, the perfect good faith example of fraternity within male communities
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 05:45 PM
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Sorry but if anyone’s a useful idiot, it’s your moronic voting bloc for continually shifting towards fringe conservatism and reactionary politics. You literally helped put those people in power. I absolutely understand that billionaires, business leaders, and oligarchs have been doing the real damage, but that notion is in no way mutually exclusive with recognizing you guys were the richest cohort in American history and you pretty much fell asleep at the wheel. And now we’re descending into fas…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:24 PM
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No doing what you did didn’t take this significant character and grit. I’m sure you worked hard, but you just turned out like most people in your cohort did, and you’ve deluded yourself with this bootstraps narrative to feel better. All that shit you call hard for you to overcome is literally just proving you had more options and safety nets than us. Just internalize you lived your life during the greatest era of social mobility in modern history, and now it’s gone, along with the value of your …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:09 AM
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It’s real simple, ultimately no one wants to hear your skewed perspective borne from an historically unparalleled sense of economic abundance that was unilaterally squandered from a political shift pushed by your ridiculously bloated and increasingly conservative voting bloc of a generation. You are within the richest middle class cohort in American history and now the trend stops with you, your kids will statistically do worse than you did at 30. Enjoy being the only one who could reasonably af…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:11 AM
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Ok nimby. Enjoy being the statistically predominant demographic in bars & restaurants since you made it unaffordable for everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:52 AM
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Yeah, doesn’t have to be the entire male gender to be a ridiculous generalization, hope that helps. I literally said in the beginning it was about people agreeing with OP, but you’re already quick to extrapolate way beyond the original frame anyways lol. You seriously think it’s productive bringing up the handful of weirdos you found arguing against the 19th fucking amendment? OP was talking about how general discussions are shaped, you found some loser at the bottom of a thread and are now brin…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:10 PM
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Yeah no keep pretending that every guy who agrees with OP wholly endorses every ridiculous notion you listed. No one is a monolith except “you guys” on here apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:49 PM
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Yeah calm down neither do you, that’s my point. I’m arguing that it’s ridiculous to say a niche debate sub is a haven for extremist views on either side and is also somehow representative of gender dynamics at large. But good on you for getting weirdly butthurt and combative about it. Why don’t you go think up some extremist beliefs you can pretend I have so you can feel better?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:22 AM
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Can we stop disingenuously framing the subreddit as representative of some male-skewed cultural zeitgeist?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:45 PM
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Bruh it’s literally high school psychology concepts
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:38 PM
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And of course you have to sift through dozens of u/windmillflowers troll posts bashing men. This place doesn’t have the systemic slant you think it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:48 PM
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Wow you got really hostile right off the bat
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:35 PM
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Oh but not you though, you’re one of the good ones. Maybe stop assuming the majority of men here subscribe to this blackpilled binary with your confirmation bias fueled anecdote collection
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:28 PM
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Looks like someone’s situationship didn’t work out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 05:27 PM
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Why do we not just ban them? Literally every post they make is immediately clocked as rage bait in the comments. Are they buds with the single active, vindictive mod on here?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:01 PM
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Did you seriously just link a fucking listicle? Holy shit we’re so cooked as a species lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:35 PM
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And you really don’t get why people would think you don’t understand the premise if your only example is explicitly the type of space OP said not to use? We don’t know how fringe or algorithmically derived your social media diet is so it’s really not constructive to bring it up, especially when you only elaborate on one ill-fitting, inappropriate example. You ain’t exactly beating the reading comprehension allegations here lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:25 PM
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And you disagree with his perspective on the lack of applicability of these forums to mainstream culture because you see misogynistic comments more than misandrist ones on r/purplepilldebate? Do you think this is a mainstream subreddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:07 PM
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That’s…. literally what OP was talking about. He’s highlighting the inherent confirmation bias and disingenuousness of using behavior in online spaces and forums like these to argue that misogyny is more accepted in mainstream culture. What did you think he was saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:38 PM
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And people without motivated reasoning will see that your notion of a niche gender debate subreddit being somehow representative of how men are allowed to and choose to act in public is a stupid, solipsistic idea
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:59 PM
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Her most recent post is literally titled “the vast majority of men are terrible people”. I don’t know why people think this hateful TERF is capable of contributing to anything here in good faith
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:53 PM
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They really didn’t. They’re summing up viewing someone as replaceable as just “acting confident”. It’s objectively bad faith participation and no one should give these losers any attention
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 12:09 AM
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Found the one delusionally punching up and pretending statistics about LTRs have any bearing on her situationships
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 09:08 PM
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Yeah no lol he’s conflating people here with his own personal experience breaking his brain. He previously self-admitted to genuinely believing in a conspiracy of women against men’s confidence. Now he projects that onto everyone here to feel better about himself and have a convenient strawman whenever someone disagrees with him
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 08:53 PM
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Did you just come out of a time capsule from the 60s?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 06:33 PM
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You literally insulted him first. You really aren’t as clever as you think you are
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 03:20 PM
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Are you ok sweetie? Your insistence at getting the last word in on a niche sub and characterizing me, a stranger, as abnormally as possible is really not a sign of mental wellbeing on your part. My “mindset” is literally an isolated perspective about a very specific brand of people that you seem deeply offended at falling under. You’re literally doubling down and perfectly encapsulating what I originally described in my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:23 PM
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And right back to the original post, another catch-22 where anyone who disagrees with you is actually some ridiculous caricature you built with confirmation bias. Have you ever considered people without extreme opinions still find your perspective insufferable?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:05 PM
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There’s a subset of women and brainbroken men who are here just to contradict and condemn absolutely everything men here say. It’s a pathetic form of bullying that’s just looking for a morally acceptable target
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:08 PM
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So I’m supposed to care about your collection of anecdotes from the most fringe freaks on this sub? You’re like that dude assuming every guy here believes in some grand conspiracy of women against men because “that’s what he believed when he was redpilled”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:58 PM
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Do we really have to rehash how social media fundamentally changed and broadened access to relationships, both romantic and platonic, or are you just being contrarian about everything someone with a differing perspective says?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 09:08 PM
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So in other words before or during the very beginning of the proliferation of social media and online dating. People here are talking about women entering into adulthood and instantly having more options for attention and validation than you can fathom, and yes all the choice paralysis, “goods being odd”, and distrust of strangers from negative experiences with little accountability are valid. But so is the fundamental sense of desirability that comes with comparatively little effort. You have t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 09:01 PM
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Genuinely respectfully here, not like a loaded premise, did you have access to this OLD/social media dynamic growing up or are you speaking as someone who has already passed their formative years of young adulthood? Regardless, take out the sense of social comparison which I’d argue is still prevalent outside of your personal experience, it’s still just profoundly easy ways to passively feel at the very least somewhat attractive and desirable during some really vulnerable periods of your life. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:12 PM
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But she can get fleeting moments of attention from them and can remain in denial about her own level of attractiveness for most of her young adulthood. Maybe this guy will commit and prove she’s more desirable than her peers just like she always knew all along 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:48 PM
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Most of these comments from a “bluepilled perspective” boil down to “you’re a abnormal nerd, your perspective doesn’t matter, shut up and listen to these anecdotes I memorized”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:39 PM
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Nah I wasn’t saying specific to this sub, that discourse is all over tiktok
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:52 PM
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Gen Z girls be pretending they’re survivors of the heroin chic era from before they were born
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 01:58 PM
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Frankly, that’s what the original post is actually about. Defending the heuristic of sticking any man who disagrees into a “redpill” box and then assigning the most extreme caricature you can formulate, because “that’s how your experience with redpill was” as if everyone is exactly as brain-broken as OP clearly was. Bros literally writing dissertations that boil down to how when he was “in the redpill” he thought there was a conspiracy of women out to get him, so therefore everyone who disagrees…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 04:34 PM
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Shhh stereotypes are only allowed towards men, as is clearly upheld by the only active mods on here
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 11:00 PM
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Nah it’s a circlejerk, I meet normal women in real life all the time and they’re nothing like you lmao. They have a healthy awareness of gender issues and set proper boundaries, like the rest of us, rather than making their neurotic misinterpretations of the discussion everyone else’s problem
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 08:53 PM
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I think they’re saying the apps themselves don’t have some in built conspiracy to uplift women at the cost of men, that’s just how creating a massive interconnected facade of a third space plays out for men and women. The current dynamic is enabled by online dating but it didn’t necessarily create it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:52 PM
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It’s ok, let the r/TwoX overflow have their delusional circlejerk. Normal people know that’s not what they were saying
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:41 PM
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Delusional confirmation bias
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 05:31 PM
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The algorithmic slop content you’re clearly shoveling down to be this far down the rabbit hole with the “man v bear” thing that you’ll pull some ridiculous assertion out of your ass just to be dismissive because apparently your pervasive sense of victimhood feels threatened by a satirical post lmao. Like you don’t recognize how absurd the bear thing is and you’re here playing defense for it by denying any sense of mutual animosity in dating. Yeah you’re absolutely a brainbroken hugbox dweller, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:02 PM
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That’s….. the point of satire
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:17 PM
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You fixated on a tiny part of his post and simultaneously spoke for all women. Why are you expecting to be taken seriously? Maybe go back to your hugbox where identity rather than content determines the value of your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:15 PM
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And yet you could stay in your comfort zone and more or less order validation like Uber eats. I’m not saying that makes you a bad person, I’d probably do that too. But it highlights exactly where the sense of frustration is coming from when people are looking for anything to ease the tumultuous transition into adulthood
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 05:50 AM
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I think more people would give reasonable takes on this, but level-headed people who aren’t terminally online usually aren’t shown content like this and feel compelled to engage with it on a significant level (like making your own tiktok with your face and take on the subject. You probably won’t do that without strong feelings on the matter, which usually doesn’t accompany nuanced takes)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 11:29 PM
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I wouldn’t engage with her, she’s one of the genuinely unwell people here to shit on and talk down to those they think are below them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 11:20 PM
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No I think he’s saying men can consciously drop this narrative, but it’s one of those things that’s still biologically hardwired like a preference for height
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:14 PM
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Strawman assigned, debate over
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 12:17 AM
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You do realize only one person in this thread was smugly grading others’ posts? Op may have whatever lukewarm take, but if anyone’s being intellectually condescending it’s that loser
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 02:41 PM
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“My experience is like that for my friends and I so it must actually be like that for all guys” are you serious, did you hit your head or do you really not see the absurdity of it? Do you still not get that extrapolating out anecdotes from your guy friends still doesn’t give you a stronger position? Also where the fuck did I actually advocate for the position for guys to never be vulnerable. Not everyone who disagrees with you is a little red pill strawman bro. You sound ridiculous saying that s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:48 PM
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Strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:26 PM
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Dude you very clearly have a really healthy established relationship with honest communication and progressive views on gender roles. You ain’t a representation of a mainstream experience. I’m happy for you, but recognize when you got lucky meeting a really good match and don’t extrapolate that relationship out to overall men’s dating experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:21 PM
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People don’t realize how much the Victorian era reshaped the perception of both masculinity and female sexuality. That cultural period is where the notion that a man’s sexual and familial success is somehow an inherent barometer of their morality, it’s also when the fixation on female purity became a widespread working class concern rather than relegated to nobility
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:16 PM
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You got soft hands, brother
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:21 PM
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Realistically, a man writing a women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:46 PM
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I have no idea what you’re trying to say here. I think I get the sentiment but this is borderline incomprehensible
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:44 AM
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Shhh let him engage in his ego saving projection
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:53 PM
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Except a baseline sense of desirability?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:51 PM
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You have your collection of incel quotes, I have my collection of femcel quotes, where do we go from here?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 11:04 PM
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Just accept you’re out of touch and contributing to a conversation where no one wants you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 11:03 PM
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Cool, so maybe shut up with your irrelevant-ass personal commentary when commenting on modern dating
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 10:32 PM
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Coasting on outdated expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 10:16 PM
0

I’m really not sure what we’re supposed to do with a 90s-00s perspective on dating. Like nice job navigating a world that doesn’t exist anymore I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 10:55 PM
4

Go get more situationships to feed your delusion about your own attractiveness and leave the rest of us alone
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 10:52 PM
4

Most “passport bro” complaints just boils down to racist stereotypes about women from non-Anglican countries
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 10:51 PM
2

Cool, everyone in your gender just automatically is as mature as you, thanks for contributing your confirmation bias
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 10:47 PM
-1

There’s something to be said about the ease at which she can engage in what is essentially character assassination. There’s no situation where the genders could be reversed and it wouldn’t instantly be read as problematic
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 10:46 PM
3

Yeah I agree but that doesn’t make it any less problematic that these bullies have these tools to tear down their peers
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 10:45 PM
4

-Talks about being straw manned -Immediately starts describing some of the lowest functioning men on the spectrum
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:33 PM
23

Yep and you watch someone get ridiculous validation for primarily ingrained, immutable traits and simultaneously a woman who faces no consequences for her garish awkwardness
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:19 AM
2

Only men can get tainted by the communities they associate with 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:59 PM
5

I think he’s right in his description, just not in whether they’re happy. Happy people in that demographic don’t trawl around looking for morally approvable people to condescend to
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:34 PM
3

Sort of, but I think they’re so far up their own asses with “fighting the evil incels” that they genuinely believe their actions are morally respectable instead of just indulgent. They don’t have the emotional detachment or self-awareness I’d attribute to most trolls
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:08 PM
0

They want a guilt free target to get their emotional energy out
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 02:33 PM
6

Not necessarily trolls but you genuinely have a group of women set on perpetuating really toxic narratives making it more about bullying and condescending to the incels they imagine everyone here to be
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 02:31 PM
-2

He’s either trying to delude himself that “he’s still got it” or he’s trying to drag everyone else into his doomer mentality with him
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:20 PM
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It’s not “all about perceived value” like he says, but it’s also not just a binary like you imply. I’ve carried the conversation, and had the conversation carried by others depending on who was more interested overall
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:31 PM
1

Bruh what
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:18 PM
26

Sorry did they specifically use the term “passport bro”?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 06:40 AM
2

Do you hear yourself in your head when you type that out? Like Jesus how far down the rabbit hole are you that you that you first off don’t cringe at that statement, but also think it’s some binary that let’s you discount everyone else’s perspective. Are you like a destiny viewer or something lmao goddam
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:23 AM
3

Did you just respond by immediately doubling down on how important the aesthetics of a debate are? The subtext was as opposed to content. This weird adherence to appearing logical and rational is a literal Reddit stereotype you’re unironically leaning into?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:57 AM
1

Meh I’m sure you might feel that way, don’t really care if you think my emotion invalidates my perspective. Makes you sound like a goober more interested in the aesthetics of a debate anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:50 AM
3

Yeah that’s sort of the starting position of dudes who question the status quo of gender roles. The difference is I’m not telling anybody how to live their actual life. I’m just calling out what amounts to casual bullying looking for a morally approved victim
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:35 AM
1

Right and I’m sure the rapid fire posting exclusively on a niche, objectively toxic subreddit with a burner account is out of “mild sociological interest” 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:07 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 01:19 AM
13

No dude, you are reading the opinions of jaded older women, who are a protected class here, venting about bullshit nobody who isn’t terminally online would care enough about to comment on
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 01:13 AM
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Data doesn’t specify situations where both parents are full time. No shit the person working part time will take the lion’s share of housework and childcare. Also this is pretty important here, the data you referenced still shows almost 20% more leisure time for men among those recorded. A discrepancy you don’t address while emphasizing that breadwinning is more adult. I swear to god are these the only posts allowed by the mods so bluepillers can stroke their ego with an easy bunt
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 12:59 AM
1

I’m not saying she specifically isn’t entitled, but you can also find individual men who spout entitled rhetoric online. She may feel entitled as a result of societal conditioning, and this may feel poignant as it matches with societal patterns you’ve seen, but for people who are not primed to see that perspective, this particular type of evidence is not going to resonate with them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 11:29 PM
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Ppd brain argument. Yeah maybe works for marriages and the dropping rate of relationships nowadays, but in this context, this is more goober-ass grandstanding, that’s not what he’s talking about and you still jump to your pre planned talking points like an inceltears monkey. Ask any random dude that’s not terminally online, and the majority of them will acknowledge a growing animosity towards men online. Now before you froth at the mouth, I’m not saying they think their lives are significantly a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 12:40 AM
2

I’m not trying to do some blue pill contrarianism, but I don’t think this properly shows entitlement among women. You can find delusional influencers of both genders (I mean fresh & fit?). Individual instances won’t say much. They may prove a rule by being an exception, but that’s not the case here. There’s certainly a conversation to be had about modern dating dynamics and the attitudes it fosters, that’s why this sub (originally) existed. However, I think bring ing up articles like this comes …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 12:27 AM
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And here we see a femcel in her natural habitat, who fails to see how she cherry picks anecdotes about men while simultaneously complaining of misogynistic stereotypes about women. Will she finally discover the concept of irony? Find out next week where we see more women try to feel better by talking down to predominantly younger men based on a perception they cobbled together from algorithmic content
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 12:20 AM
3

And do you personally feel or have many peers that you feel are qualified in any way to be a full-on professional dating coach? This is a pretty obscure site from my perspective so I’m not sure it represents the mainstream
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 12:05 AM
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Why are taking an article about a 23 year old dating coach seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 11:57 PM
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Ignore him, he’s one of those pathetic dudes looking to righteously punch down and feel like the good guy while talking down to people
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:09 PM
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Feminists are fine, be specific that it’s women on the internet, and more specifically probably women in this niche community. Please for the love of god do not get your perception of women and feminism from the women on ppd, there is no way interacting with them will help your mental health, they are just as broken as the men here and in no way represent the women you’ll meet in real life, I promise. There’s some good faith, but frankly a lot of them are mostly here to punch down while feeling …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 08:44 PM
2

They’re confused because it was a rhetorical panacea on tumblr back when buzzfeed was in its heyday
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:26 PM
1

Monkeys/chimps when given currency that could be exchanged for bananas almost immediately invented prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:54 PM
3

He’s on ppd to make righteous one-liners about men, what do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:57 PM
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Yes and if you were paying attention before you made it about “hooker guys will do it even if it’s illegal,” and crumbling as soon as you were challenged, you’d know that first, people here are saying the proportion of women with a preference regarding johns varies by culture, and it very likely has to do with the legality and stigma associated with sex work. Second and more importantly, those horny ass “hooker guys” who would use it if it’s legal, are instead clogging up dating apps and public …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 09:00 PM
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Here you go, ~7% to 17% as of 2023. Gee I wonder what that spike in 2012 is correlated with. Could’ve just looked it up instead of coming across so contemptuously contrarian
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:49 PM
2

And gen z statistics reflect that in dropping rates of alcohol consumption combined with more weed users. Though part of that is how unaffordable drinks are at bars now
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:42 PM
1

Ah so back to your original dismissive point when you realized how moronic you sound arguing if legality affects whether people do something
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:39 PM
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Ok so I referenced differences in usages based on legality and stigma and you said it just feels like it’s not different because weed wasn’t different. Except for the fact that weed users have more than doubled since states started legalizing it in 2012 lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:17 PM
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It’s definitely not that simple. While you’re probably right that it’s very unlikely to get busted, the stigma and the illegality still deters a lot of people that otherwise would use it. I mean I’m sure if you looked it up there would be a higher proportion of the male population in Germany or Japan visiting sex workers compared to a place like the US
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:37 PM
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It’s about aggregated male thirst overall bleeding into every gendered interaction
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:26 PM
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Sure goober
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:06 AM
4

Girl’s getting her perception of men from tiktok & sitcoms 😂 Imagine making a generalization like that the other way
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:27 PM
1

Outward expression of sexuality turned inwards with a heightened intensity. Fits what they were saying pretty well
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:24 PM
6

It’s anti-men rhetoric and this sub is turning into TwoX-lite, of course the mods are taking it seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:17 PM
4

It’s debait material
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:16 PM
3

Which is… what the character in your fanfic is thinking? Do you win a lot of arguments in the shower?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 07:36 PM
6

Cool fanfic about the caricature in your head
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 03:02 PM
2

We’re literally talking about insecurities, Jesus Christ you’re pathetic. Fucking loser trawling around for people to punch down on
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 05:14 PM
5

This entire post is flooded with her delusionally going “nuh uh” to everything, like some of the most inane stuff too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 08:04 AM
5

Yeah I’m glad at least someone is calling out this borderline gaslighting
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 07:59 AM
1

Because losers like you add lmao as a gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 07:49 AM
1

Cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 07:41 AM
2

Nah you’re pretty delusional. Got any more little caricatures in your roster? Get real loser
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 07:36 AM
3

So just, no real resiliency for their self esteem?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 07:25 AM
2

Yeah it absolutely does have weight and you’re just ignoring it for your own argument. I even said that of course there’s a biological component but all I get from you is this moronic splitting of hairs to say “no it’s all biology”. Your bizarre insistence that todays beauty standards are all biology seems more important to yourself than anything. Sure you might be intellectually married to this idea, but it’s crazy how closely your behavior maps onto an embittered has-been woman desperate for s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:10 AM
1

TwoX is as much reality as this sub is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 02:17 AM
1

Literally 8 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 02:14 AM
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Oooooooh it’s meeeee universal healthcaaaaare I’m gonna GETCHA and it’s totally not gonna work like the myriad of other developed countries that successfully built this system
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 02:14 AM
0

It’s a contributing factor in the lack of appeal for third places
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 02:10 AM
2

Wait till bro learns about one-way John laws
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 02:09 AM
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Hence the real wall: no more easy passive access to situationships out of your league, also you start really getting made fun of for that dynamic in your 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 02:08 AM
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-Stocky women in Mongolia -Iranian royalty with unibrows -Ancient Greeks with tiny dicks -Sumo wrestlers actually being sex symbols -Double eyelids in Asia very much not the norm -Skin bleaching as a phenomenon -K-pop men -Sikaa lip plates in Africa -Fat being a marker for prosperity for most of human existence, still prominent in Nigeria with literal fattening rooms -Also just straight up changing rates of eating disorders in both men and women I guess maybe male height and clear skin is univer…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 02:03 AM
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So pornsick men don’t exist then?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:53 AM
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I’m ok with the notion of being frumpy at retirement age. This really has nothing to do with the actual discussion of dating. Yeah maybe in my “golden years” this applies lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:09 AM
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Again, does not hold as much water as you think it does
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:07 AM
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I agree with the overall sentiment of your OP, I think we should just be careful about equivocating how much people compare themselves to others
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 12:53 AM
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People who occupied the same third spaces that hadn’t been monetized to death or overtaken by girl gangs with chronically online social skills but still 0 missed milestones at that point? Not sure this is the gotcha you think it is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 12:51 AM
4

You are making up a man in your head to feel better lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 12:44 AM
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Yeah, didn’t address anything about what I said or engage with the sentiment. Keep making up little caricatures in your head while you occupy the absolute most pathetic demographic of has-beens on this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 12:43 AM
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Passive voice for men, active voice for women. It’s a lot harder to push the notion that men’s self esteem issues come from actively comparing themselves to influencers, since by and large men predominantly use social media for anonymous avenues as opposed to lifestyle content. Hence why you couched it in passive language
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 12:41 AM
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It’s not tho and it literally reflects in your word choice lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 11:39 PM
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Yeah but that sizable subset that you refuse to call out fucks up what’s left of the environment for the rest of us. Maybe do something other than calling your fellow women “pick-mes”. There’s literally no other term used for your behavior these days. Men do a lot to otherize incels, nice guys etc. but y’all don’t do shit to deal with the misandrists poisoning the discourse
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 11:34 PM
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Go on tinder right now and be quiet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 11:30 PM
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Just world phenomenon
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 11:27 PM
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Or just, you know, maybe free passive validation at the tip of your fingers paired with self-destructive comparison to other women all during your formative years does change how you value and treat the opposite sex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 11:25 PM
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And in all those cases, who is doing the active comparison leading to dissatisfaction?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 11:20 PM
2

Why do attractive features vary by region and culture?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 11:19 PM
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Bruh Andrew Tate is a goober but you’re clearly here looking for guys to punch down on. Go spend time with your family lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 02:01 AM
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This is massive projection and generalization
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 01:53 AM
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Reduce guilt for leading people on, justify dehumanizing perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 06:08 PM
1

Keep calling it inappropriate doesn’t make it not a strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:56 PM
2

Calling things cope is ironically a cope from these people
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 01:44 AM
0

Cool strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 01:41 AM
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Yea dude you didn’t address any of what I just said, it’s about the tools available to convince yourself you’re desirable and the inevitable effects that has on one’s self perception. There’s a real conversation to be had and you’re coming in saying it can’t be true because for once it doesn’t completely blame the individual in a way people like you weaponize. And I’m not sure how you don’t understand calling something cope is using the sour grapes rhetorical strategy to shut the discussion down…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:38 PM
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Nah it’s not only applying to women, not sure where you got that from. It’s apparent pretty quickly if a guy overestimates his league, they will be shut down and humbled early on. Yea obviously the phenomenon itself hasn’t changed, but the environment absolutely has. With the level of options available and fundamental passivity of the role it’s objectively a lot easier to be in denial about your attractiveness as a women. Everyone knows at least one woman who thinks they deserve more because the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:03 PM
1

I mean it explains a lot of girls delusionally trying to punch way out of their league
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 03:38 PM
1

Nooooo it has to fit her doom fantasy!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:53 PM
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Not what this is about. It’s about people like you pretending his lack of success stems from and is proof he’s morally abhorrent.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:51 PM
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How are people here missing the point so consistently? He never advocated for the actual “nice guy” position like you’re pretending, he said women assigning moral failing to a lack sexual success is objectively bullying and he’s right. Instead you come in with your half-assed narrative high on your own farts here to “defeat” the nice guy. Jesus I bet even after all this you’re still not gonna get his point lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:49 PM
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She doesn’t actually know it’s just her ol’ reliable rhetorical cudgel
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:43 PM
2

Completely missed the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:40 PM
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How can you feel invisible when you can download a dating app? Not trying to be rude but isn’t what you’re describing really just lamenting over not getting as validating attention as your peers?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:27 PM
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Gross condescension aside, not gonna deny my own insecurity but pretty pathetic you think that invalidates what I say. The level of options available means most insecurity is going to stem from comparison rather than isolation and rejection, which is very arguably an inherent privilege. Didn’t address any of that, just went right to “insecure” as a cudgel. But go ahead and make your lame ass contribution as if labeling me insecure is some rhetorical panacea. Let me guess, you’re one of those los…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 06:57 AM
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Maybe if you’re a women lol. Absolutely zero awareness that you’re privileged as fuck to passively get a reasonable level of validation while not putting in significant effort or being in any way exceptional. It is comparatively next to no effort to hit most personal milestones, save being able to flex on your peers which is clearly what most of your insecurity is really about
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 01:54 AM
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*Co-opting the struggles of other women to justify your ridiculous perception an entire demographic
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:41 PM
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Don’t work in IT lol but nice to see you spiraling in your own delusional combativeness
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:11 PM
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Lmao hubris, entitlement, calm down ma’am. You’re completely missing my point that it’s losers like you labeling people that approach them in a neutral environment as sex pests that are ruining the vibe. It’s not your rejection at all, it’s your clear lack of grace or respect and solipsistic assumption that every other women must find a guy annoying and discomforting because they approached you in a way you didn’t like while your social battery was low. No one is expecting you to facilitate sex,…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:46 PM
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You’re really arguing that selling your underwear is harder than a job like IT? That’s the position you want to take?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:35 PM
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No one said available, stop bringing it to an extreme to feel better dismissing it. Just quit ruining the vibe with the notion that anyone approaching you in a public social event is only discomforting and annoying, and assuming every other women feels the same. As someone taking a position with no social vulnerability but still being judgmental, you make these spaces boring and unwelcoming
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:21 PM
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That’s a lot of projection that 100% of women’s reactions will be discomfort and annoyance. Also love the automatic assumption that being here means we automatically fit the unflattering caricature in your head. Convenient for your ego lol. Also maybe stop polluting 3rd spaces with a complete lack of reception from anyone other than your girl gangs
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:52 PM
3

Murder you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:47 PM
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I can’t wait for this vibe to change and for people to recognize these women pushing this narrative as the fundamental bullies they are
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:35 PM
5

Still not sure how easy-ass money available only to your demographic helps your point
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:30 PM
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“Lalalalala every man here has to be an incel! Lalalalala sour grapes! Sour grapes! Sour grapes!” Jesus Christ you’re transparently pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:26 PM
1

Nooooooo women have to be able to put you in an incel box to shut down the discussion without engaging!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:21 PM
-2

Damn that sucks that when you put no effort in you only got mid-tier validation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:03 PM
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Yes all famous and historical figures were exactly how they are portrayed in media, that’s totally how it works, you obliterated his point way to go
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:05 PM
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They needed to add the weird motivations otherwise they might feel empathy for the caricature in their head
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:01 PM
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She’s got her girl gangs to ruin the vibe every third space available so it’s not like she’d comprehend
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:35 PM
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I think you’re reading too much into a character that’s inevitably going to be shipped in one way or another due to the sheer popularity of the original series
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 07:59 AM
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Lmao the instant someone refutes a common shut down spouted here and you switch to “why do you care”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:47 PM
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Sure pal, that’s what you are, keep writing it and it’ll be true. Everyone’s still gonna see you as full of shit though. Stop pretending you have some hermetic seal while everyone else here gets tainted by the gender discourse. Your comments aren’t really contributing, it just emanates “needing to punch down” energy. Which says a lot that you clearly have this need. You think people with healthy perspectives and pristine brains spend their time reminding everyone on a niche subreddit how differe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:13 PM
0

Of course you’re different and only here because of a mild interest in social dynamics, right? Clearly none of this applies to you, I mean you can smear the association from your little cherry-picked list all over the rest of us, but you’re different. Lmao quit acting so holier-than-thou and maybe this sub won’t seem so adversarial
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:24 PM
1

Something something Walmart couples
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:38 PM
1

And neither ever missed a social milestone or ever worried about being creepy and ostracized
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:37 PM
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Cool caricature I guess, I bet you’re one of the good competent ones though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:21 PM
0

Bald Indian janitor
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:48 AM
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*Taller than their male peers
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:48 AM
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You’re asexual. I have no idea what the fuck you’re doing in this cesspit. You’re free! Go!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:47 AM
1

It’s a lot harder to accept when you can delude yourself with the talking stage over and over again
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:46 AM
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100% true, year by year this place comes closer to TwoX-lite
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:45 AM
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A sizable percentage of the women posting here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:43 AM
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No man we know, it’s a nebulous idea but there’s a subconscious need for these gender dynamics to become societally acknowledged, thus changing how we value sexual attention, and more importantly, how seriously we take the confidence of women built on skewed market dynamics. Because right now even with “the game” being played properly and all the rules, (from the perspective of younger people) validation is hilariously skewed towards women’s side of the equation. Even if the sexual dynamics don’…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:41 AM
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“I called him a non sex-haver because it means he hates women, it doesn’t have to do with sex as value at all!!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:18 AM
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Fun fact that picture was edited as part of a propaganda effort in Soviet Russia
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:17 AM
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There’s like a gajillion posts here from terminally online women who imply a lack of success is due to some kind of character or moral failing. Just browse the sub for 5 minutes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:15 AM
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That’s the whole point, the “nice guy” caricature is really just a rhetorical cudgel to beat men with and label them as creepy without having to reference anything specific
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:13 AM
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Yeah, problem is I didn’t say any of that that lmao. You’re fighting in imaginary man in your head, clearly reframing every potentially harmful notion for your ego into the most extreme, flimsy caricature you can come up with. Might’ve worked in your mid-2010s hugbox, but now this just comes across as transparently insecure virtue signaling
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:08 AM
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We need to have a conversation about women here co-opting the experiences of actually oppressed demographics of women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:06 AM
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It’s not that they can’t be sexually active with some joe lol, no one’s disputing that. It’s that you’ll never have the sexual leverage you once did in young adulthood, and each year there’s a new crop of peers that have objectively more “value” simply by virtue of being younger
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:42 PM
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He literally implied if you don’t want/already have children and are reasonably secure the wall straight up doesn’t exist. This is absolutely a mild take, why are you getting so mad and going after his personal life? Do you not recognize the self-report there lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:34 PM
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The perception of women and their sexuality as inherently moral stemmed from Western Victorian era views and policies around women. You’re being willingly obtuse if you don’t acknowledge an inherent bias towards the perception of women’s morality in general. Here’s a study on stereotyping of gender which touches on morality just to nip that in the bud: https://www.annualreviews.org/doi/10.1146/annurev-psych-122216-011719 But it’s during the 1800s in which the idealization (and fetishization, it …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:24 PM
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That’s true but you’re clearly picking the most extreme point to discount the sentiment of his post entirely
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 08:28 AM
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Bro it’s not that deep, it’s just a loss of leverage from women in your age group that you would consider your peers *Awwww did boo-boo get hurt?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 08:25 AM
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No woman here is going to ever acknowledge/internalize a loss of leverage. Hence why you have so many posts from women here claiming if you aren’t experienced by the end of your young adulthood, you’re abnormal and it’s basically over, a hurdle that is conveniently easy for women to achieve. The idea that it gets easier for men is apparently anathema to women’s empowerment. Not sure what you’re expecting but most women posting here are gonna go out of their way to deny and diminish your perspect…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 08:24 AM
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A societal acknowledgment that women’s confidence in their desirability is based primarily on skewed market dynamics
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 08:01 AM
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This has to be a joke lmao. No one in the US? Slavery was extremely profitable especially after the cotton gin. There’s intergenerational fortunes that persisted well into the 1900s. Do you think the economy just reset when they wrote the Declaration of Independence? Also the “minute” you described is close to a third of the time between the revolutionary war and the civil war. I triple-dog dare you to find a black person and tell them no one benefitted from slavery in the long run. Go ahead del…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 08:28 PM
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Ok that’s cool and all, but it’s ok to be bummed about the waves of old people that will likely be homeless in the coming decades
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:15 PM
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So many of our social safety nets in the US are almost reliant on a steadily growing population…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:13 PM
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I get the vibe from her profile she’s a perpetual bridesmaid and wants to punch down
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:09 PM
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You do realize the northern states didn’t officially vote to stop the institution of slavery until 1804? There’s a whole hundred years of infrastructure building in the colonial period where the north absolutely had slaves. And not to mention the they had also actively participated in the triangle trade, exporting goods such as lumber and salted fish to British slave colonies in the Caribbean, effectively bolstering their economy with demand built on slavery. Do you need more?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:02 PM
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Need more crayons for your caricature?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:51 PM
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You’re being hilariously obtuse if you think white women didn’t historically benefit from slavery, not sure where the “northern suffragettes” part came from, but I guess you Ike moving your little goalposts
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:37 PM
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Validation for me and rat race for thee
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 05:05 PM
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Nah be fair, you really gonna dispute 1920s feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 04:26 AM
2

Here is an article from UC Berkeley that explains the origin of the myth and includes links to the studies that refute the original claim: https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/is_marriage_really_bad_for_womens_happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:42 PM
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There it is, I’m actually in a relationship lol. Of course now I’m not allowed to talk about this, because why should I care then? You see the little rhetorical trap you try and use? I’m either lying and shouldn’t care or a freak who should be ignored
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:34 PM
2

Yes, not because you need religion, but because going to church and congregating in a non-work setting is very healthy for communities
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:18 PM
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So men as a whole approve of legal abortion in comparable numbers to women but are personally responsible for packing the supreme court to get a law overturned with support from only 29% of men (vs of course a much more respectable 26% of women)? I’m sorry I didn’t make it in time for the “man veto” section of the debate lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:12 PM
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This is why the history of feminism has been broken down into waves, it’s kind of pointless to make sweeping statements about a social movement that spans 100+ years
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:03 PM
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I think it has become kind of a thing at this point, but you are absolutely right that a lot of this is a kind of media feedback loop
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:01 PM
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But think about how scary that one anecdote that her friend’s sister’s coworker shared was! 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:00 PM
1

I’m pretty sure that stat about the happiness of single women has been debunked
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:56 PM
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Of course when women do poorly in a field, it’s a systemic issue, but when men do poorly, it’s clearly a series of personal failures 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:54 PM
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“Noooo you have to fit the right-wing incel chud caricature!”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:36 PM
10

What year did you enter the dating pool?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:33 PM
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Catch-22 followed by platitudes, nice
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:31 PM
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Sorry where specifically does your source refute theirs? Even without the 2020 data point in the graphic but not in the study, the researchers of the study itself still describe it as “sharp, substantial, and ubiquitous” Also the inflection point clearly happened at 2011 not 2008 according to your own source
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:36 PM
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Not really, sounds like you just want him to be grating to fit your personal narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 02:20 AM
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Companionship with your peers is fulfilling?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:49 PM
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Me when other people don’t think my personal anecdotes are universally applicable 😮
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 02:53 AM
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Your statistic has a very wide age range and even then still describes a quarter of the men referenced. Maybe you think 25% is a negligible portion to consider “not normal”, but it’s still worth significant consideration. Of course there’s no mention of the 18-29 range where the bulk of the discussion is. So now we have a half-assed reference to one of the widest age ranges you could pick, and it still barely supports your position. There’s been a lot of discussion about why the dynamic for 18-2…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 01:19 AM
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You used anecdotes about your “huge” friend group as they are now to imply anyone who struggles with dating is not normal, and that normal men have not/do not struggle with dating. Not even mentioning how loaded of a term “normal” is here, no one cares about the intersectionality of your group, it’s just disingenuous to universally apply your anecdotal experience without acknowledging the limitations of your perspective. People in certain stages of their lives are going to be more inclined hang …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 12:15 AM
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You are literally preparing to get married, you are clearly past the stage of life progression where this conversation would apply. Couple friends gravitate towards couple friends, it’s not that hard to see the bubble around you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 09:38 PM
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She’s just relying on the old trope of calling nerds misogynistic because they don’t have the social capital to prove her wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 04:22 PM
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Love all the assumptions about men on here, and the horrible views they absolutely must have to be here, when it says so much more about a woman when they spend their time here
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 05:20 PM
3

Just world fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:33 PM
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“I don’t see the problem in my personal life so it must not exist”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:08 PM
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Wow I’m so sorry you had such a skewed perspective that you thought every guy would fall in love with you. I wonder what type of social conditions would facilitate that type of mindset 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:00 AM
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It absolutely does affect the gender ratio, similar amounts of men and women use dating apps throughout their life, but at any given time there’s more men actively looking than women. I’m not even sure what you’re saying since half the stuff there literally supports my point but with the tone like it’s somehow poignant. I know it’s hard to wrap your head around the amount of available options affecting someone’s self-image and behavior, since you’ve clearly never experienced anything other than …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:55 AM
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The whole point is that the exacerbate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:17 AM
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That’s an insanely reductionist way to look at how on demand porn and social media affects the behavior of men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:55 AM
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Stop being intentionally obtuse, it’s about the incredibly high volume, accessibility, and normalization compared to any other time in history
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:54 PM
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Who does the robot have to keep safe at high speeds?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:22 PM
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I genuinely can’t follow your logic here. Not sure how you landed on the perspective from men being “the only acceptable outcome from talking to someone at a bar is a hookup,” but it’s laughably closed-minded & simplistic, and has the fun bonus of being as charitable to your own motivations as possible. I said the type of people reducing others in public spaces to boosts for their self esteem contributes to an unwelcoming environment. You said I was mad because a woman didn’t want to hook up wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:58 PM
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No idea where you’re getting that from. It’s the attitude from girl gangs looking “for a boost,” yeah no, that kills the vibe and you’re seeing the results in action. And the assumption that I think I’m entitled to a hook-up? Stop trying to morally justify reducing your peers to sources of validation lmao, that’s honestly the really pathetic behavior here. Maybe go to FDS where “sour grapes” still works as a catch-all deflection
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:31 PM
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There’s exactly 0 mainstream rhetoric acknowledging the worsening social skills of women lmao. We have to deal with these anxious, neurotic girl gangs ruining the vibe in public venues, either not mingling, or completely unable to hold a conversation, but they’re SO used to believing they’re socially adept because they can bulldoze their way through social milestones of early adulthood by leveraging men’s attention. It comes out to this abhorrent combination that sublimates social anxiety into a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 11:31 AM
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Another nail in the coffin for third places.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 11:21 AM
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Frankly they are a very sizable portion of the people consistently populating the few remaining third spaces
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:16 PM
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Let’s be honest, the “alpha red pill bro” caricature has turned into a cudgel women use to shame normal men who would be embarrassed about being associated with Andrew Tate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:24 PM
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It absolutely does make sense, stop playing defense for the morons who subverted a movement meant to uplift you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:11 AM
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Everybody! Make way for the misanthrope! He’s about to rhetorically obliterate you with sweeping statements about everybody (so you know he’s fair)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 11:48 PM
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Anything to avoid accepting there will be an loss of leverage or that a significant portion of your external validation comes from insanely skewed market dynamics huh. Absolutely no one’s saying you become a hag, it just stops being literal recruit mode for you to find options. God forbid you get an honest reception of your desirability lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:15 PM
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Sure you all look like supermodels and intimidate men because of it. Have you ever thought you guys just ain’t all that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:09 PM
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I think it’s worth mentioning that [strawman strawman strawman strawman strawman strawman] and when I think of it this way, there isn’t a problem, so…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:03 PM
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Bait used to be believable
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:57 PM
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Once labor can be reasonably traded for sex in the way women can currently trade sex for validation and social leverage, then we’ll finally be getting somewhere less societally volatile.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 01:54 AM
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Prisoners dilemma, all his peers will be engaging with technology. The ideal situation is everyone touching grass, but loneliest one is ultimately the kid outside by himself without any easy way to connect to other
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:12 PM
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If you’re trying to appeal to natural behaviors, I think the female of most species predominantly being the sexual selector overwhelmingly implies men “naturally” chase
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:55 AM
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And “incel types” is really just anyone who disagrees with you on a gender issue debate sub huh? Maybe stop conflating moral value and romantic attention and you’ll start coming across as slightly less out of touch for once
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:11 AM
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Because of your misogy-meters? Lmao get real
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:39 PM
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r/latestagecapitalism is over there, this is a gender debate subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:35 PM
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According to the Gini coefficient, which measures levels of inequality, it literally is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:21 PM
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He’s not like other men obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:16 PM
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Convenient for your worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:15 PM
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Pot meet kettle
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:00 PM
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Homers is described by the show as comfortably middle class. They literally have an entire musical episode about how Homers lifestyle isn’t achievable for the new generation anymore lmao https://youtu.be/5MjTWtS5TAI?si=zGN0U9_-3PE0YX50
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:00 PM
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I mean if you’re getting married yeah you probably shouldn’t have kept it a secret up to that point, but the rest of this is weird. It feels like you came up with the equal opportunity line and then worked backwards until you had a post
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 07:51 PM
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His point can still be in line with what the study says, provided he’s talking about the “horndog”perception rather than being just generally hornier
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:04 AM
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Tacit endorsement of their behavior by refusing to call it out
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 08:55 AM
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He sounded a lot more cogent than whatever this rant is. You ever for once wonder if you’re the one out of touch spending your time on social media running defense for mean girls and arguing with a predominantly younger age group?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 08:54 AM
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Y’all as in “proponents of filming strangers in public and bullying them as punishment for making you uncomfortable”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 12:32 AM
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So never adjust your bra in a public place even if it hurts, otherwise you deserve whatever happens to you 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:57 AM
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Bruh it’s pretty simple, do you want to be filmed and bullied online because any one single stranger felt you looked at them for too long?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:46 AM
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The absolute irony in calling an entire demographic lacking in nuance
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:39 AM
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You’ve been stared at, expressed discomfort, and were assaulted and/or stalked as a response which happens to fit your exact position in this discussion? Crazy that you’re also the top comment on the post complaining about people not taking your anecdotes seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 12:30 AM
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Co-opting anecdotes from acquaintances doesn’t make your assumptions about strangers any less delulu sweetie
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:36 PM
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This is a massive exaggeration and an arguably solipsistic fantasy. Confronting someone about staring means they will for sure throw their life away to attack or stalk you? How much true crime do you watch?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:59 AM
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Crab meet bucket
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:43 AM
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I’m not sure why you’d assume I’d automatically play defense for literally every creepy man out there just because I don’t defer to your opinion. As much as you might want for your little personal narrative, gender discussion isn’t so black and white where everyone who isn’t exactly in line with you is a chud lmao. I want people to feel safe in public and like most real life adults, I won’t tolerate someone being made to feel threatened in a public space, but there’s been absolutely 0 acknowledg…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:53 AM
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Bruh does irony even register for you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:48 PM
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Victorian era culture unironically subverted female sexuality as a moral barometer of partners and we’re still feeling the after-effects today
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:47 PM
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How do you know for certain he was leering at her and not wondering why he’s being filmed by someone? Genuinely how do you know this isn’t just these women reinforcing their personal narratives by filming frumpy looking strangers? We’re not talking about someone being assaulted or accosted, this is feeling seen in public, a really common thing people with anxiety struggle with. Not to mention she literally says in the video there’s nowhere else to sit (explaining why she couldn’t move but not wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:35 PM
4

Holy shit it’s the sigma pickme guy again
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:51 PM
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But she knows it’s true because her friends told her, and why would anyone lie about the nature of their sexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:04 PM
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This is like a sigma-male version of a pickme girl, cool dude, you want people to know you have options unlike that guy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:26 PM
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She was literally a spoiled brat
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:01 PM
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Calm down Norma the 90s were 30 years ago, this hit a lot harder back then lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:00 PM
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How do you know for certain they aren’t just below average and entitled?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:15 AM
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This is really arbitrary and bizarre, heightism is a thing both professionally and romantically, but this shit isn’t helpful to anyone
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 02:31 PM
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/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 02:29 PM
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Is it a bad vibe bleeding through or has your narrative shifted to an even more egregious caricature where these men can’t go five minutes without blurting out an insult towards the women they’re talking to?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:38 PM
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Jesus Christ you have kids and you’re on here?? I’m sorry but I’m genuinely concerned for their well-being now. What the actual fuck lmao. So your first hobby after some half assed Etsy shit is arguing with 20-year-old men on the most niche subreddit you can find? Again do you not recognize how much a massive red flag that is for someone at your age? You also never answered what the other moms (your actual peers) would think of this behavior. Even I’m in a book club, you should try building prop…
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 02:30 AM
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Nah I’m good calling out weirdos looking for people to punch down on. Do you ever wonder what your peers are doing? You’re on here arguing with literal young men with decades less cognitive development. Aren’t you supposed to be in your golden years? You could be cultivating a community with your family and friends (assuming you have them), instead you’re doing this lol.
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 01:36 AM
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Ok I’ll be more blunt, go back to purplepilldebate where your outdated-ass perspective is assigned artificial value by spinster mods who couldn’t even hack it on instagram or tumblr
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 01:01 AM
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Definitely voted for Reagan lmao
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 08:49 PM
4

And having the highest rate of domestic violence is also because they move to fast…
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 04:53 PM
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Oh shit it’s the lady from PPD who doesn’t get metaphors
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 02:08 PM
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Stop with the bad faith bs lmao, relationships and sex being closely related to power is a very common talking point outside of niche spaces like this. There’s plenty to critique in this post, instead you come across as incredibly dismissive and ignorant
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 05:38 AM
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Cool anecdote about your immediate social circle I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:44 PM
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Stopped reading after “when I was a kid in the 80s”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:28 PM
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Nice strawman, clearly everyone who doesn’t share the same perspective as you is a nihilistic caricature
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 02:03 PM
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I would be genuinely concerned for my wellbeing if my therapist was on PPD like this what the actual fuck lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:53 PM
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Masochistic epistemology, good luck in your worldview
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:36 PM
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Saying it never gets better for anyone is a cope in and of itself lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:49 PM
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Sorry but this is literally Cardi B’s brand, like it’s a character that she plays. Allegations about her aside, this was made as a joke to establish a persona
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 04:46 PM
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Reread the last paragraph you wrote, you’re literally describing yourself with your own strawman. Men aren’t a monolith sweaty
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 04:41 PM
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Google catastrophizing
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 04:34 PM
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Damn I didn’t think about going off of vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:09 AM
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Shhh he still thinks it’s 2004, poor little geriatric fella
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:32 AM
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Holy shit no one cares about that one post with 0 upvotes he got lampooned for in the comments lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 08:38 PM
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Most pathetic humble-brag I’ve seen in a while
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 03:24 PM
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No one cares about that one post with 0 upvotes you have seared into your memory. Seriously, trawling for anecdotes about why you shouldn’t feel sympathy for men in places like these is ridiculous and doesn’t change reality at all lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:17 PM
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Look it’s an anecdote collector
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/23 02:18 PM
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In what age group?
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 01:02 PM
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Sounds like you were that guy lol
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 09:49 PM
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Are you genuinely asking or just venting? Social media is a flex competition at the end of the day. It’s an addictive cycle where you are constantly trying to assert that your youth/young adulthood has been more exciting and fulfilling than your peers without explicitly bragging.
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 09:45 PM
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This frankly feels like a way do redirect burgeoning class consciousness into a gender issue. “Quiet quitting” was already a thing last year. I don’t think there’s some secret subclass of easy jobs that only women have access, maybe there are like a handful, but that’s not the issue here. EVERYONE overall is getting overworked for shit pay, that’s what should be actually focused on
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 09:40 PM
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Wow you really owned this personification of ppd in your head lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:25 AM
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You sound weirdly out of touch and are vehemently talking about how your personal experiences and confirmation bias invalidates everyone else’s perspective. All while having a frankly concerning amount of posts on this subreddit. The topics reek of cope or mediocre bait, but I can’t see what someone trolling would really get out of it. Like if you aren’t trying to do a character right now I’d genuinely want to know what happened to make you this much of a caricature.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:21 AM
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Oop aged-out bitter millennial pickme alert. No one takes your lashing out during your last gasp of youth seriously lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:38 PM
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Bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:33 PM
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No but there’s more anecdotes so please be quiet and and tacitly accept their neurotic behavior in any situation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:11 PM
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No one cares what gen x and old ass millennials did, go back to match.com lol
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/23 12:20 AM
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Bruh no one cares about your aged-out millennial take based on personal experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:29 PM
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No they do say that, it’s just not stimulating enough for you. You’re clearly just trawling around IT collecting anecdotes for why you should feel righteously superior to this caricature you’ve built up in your head. You know how much heinous shit I could find women saying about men on Twitter or FDS? Doesn’t say shit about you, but here you are trying to pull the reverse with whatever weird ass talking points you memorized from archived 4chan posts. You probably think people don’t take you seri…
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 06:51 PM
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Oh noooo it’s over guess he better kill himself lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 02:00 PM
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Cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 02:05 PM
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I don’t really feel that strongly about him, but think the negative response is stemming from this potentially reinforcing the idea that it isn’t even being objectively attractive anymore that leads to romantic success. It’s just the perception of being desired instead. I’d say a big part of who he is as a public figure is just the list of women he’s dated before, that’s his brand. Pete Davidson’s inexplicable appeal implies that the primary driver for attraction is turning into whether or not a…
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 04:56 PM
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Cool anecdote but literally the opposite for me. Not sure if you’re Gen Z too so you may have an outdated perspective, but these days, the biggest everyday casual bullies needling others for perceived insecurities are predominantly femme-presenting
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 03:55 PM
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I appreciate your response and it sounds like I’ll have to rewatch it to make sure I fully understand it. Im drawing a blank on the quote you mentioned. Regardless I hope you know I’m not trying to be antagonistic, I’m actually really happy to have more ftm perspectives here
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:36 PM
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Not trying to diminish your experience, but the unnamed LGBT YouTuber you mention literally follows up that “firing squad of dicks” analogy by saying they vastly prefer that to the “radio silence” of existing as a man. Obviously gender affirmation plays a part in how one perceives attention from the opposite sex, but frankly it’s a little weird that you’re trying to make such a definitive statement when the contributing voice you bring up is ultimately saying exactly the opposite of what you are
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:15 PM
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I like that joke on the show, and actually think it’s pretty poignant, but you do realize you implicitly lumped people lamenting women are picky in with men who literally want to take away women’s rights? I’m not saying you’re approaching it dishonestly, but I think you just showed a very common and problematic gut reaction in trying to group any men expressing dissatisfaction over gender roles with the most belittling caricature of a modern misogynist you can think of in that moment. I’m not sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 12:48 AM
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Oh haha you got him, you implied he’s sexually undesirable and should be embarrassed about it. Great point, A+ work
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:49 PM
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What type of work do you do as a lawyer? Just genuinely curious
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 12:13 PM
1

20 years ago yes. Now, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:33 PM
1

So in other words you looked for the first reason to discount everything I was saying cuz your fee fees got hurt. Awww 🥺 I’m sorry you have such thin skin and completely phase out from the actual substance of the conversation as soon as someone calls you out without being entirely deferential on an anonymous forum lmao. And please explain to me how what I said was inherently hyperbolic. Yes it is an extreme statement, but I’m highlighting exactly what you were saying from the beginning, just dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:40 PM
1

And? I’m not trying to pretend to be nice. I’m arguing with random people on r/purplepilldebate , I don’t owe you the respect I give to people in my actual life lol, especially when you barely contribute anything to the discussion outside of demanding near perfect social calibration from men right off the bat. Notice how it’s become about me and not what I’m saying? I want my views to be challenged, but instead it’s just… this. So I might as well make the most of it and speak without a filter si…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:10 PM
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I mean not really, it’s ultimately an indulgence like anything else. You can try and paint me however you want to make yourself feel better, but it won’t change how much of a cop out that is. I’m just being meaner than I have to be to someone for holding problematic social views that they normally wouldn’t get called out on
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:44 PM
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Not a ubiquitous sexuality, it’s different from the norm and should be properly communicated. And yeah, it’s not that big of a deal to misread signals and make the wrong move. No one got hurt, you aren’t being coerced, it’s an AWKWARD SITUATION that you have the ability to easily get out of if only you were willing to endure a modicum of confrontation in real life. Instead, you go online and act like it’s a calamity you had thrust upon you. You are the exact person making well intentioned men se…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:58 PM
1

Lol stfu there are so many things worse than someone awkwardly making a move when they definitely shouldn’t have. Your overly drastic language is exactly what makes guys too timid to trust their interpretation of women’s body language. It has to be ok for them to get the signals wrong sometimes, that’s how you actually allow these men to practice their social skills and build confidence. Instead you reference a niche hypothetical scenario where someone has a uncommon sexuality that they haven’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 08:03 AM
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“God I hate having to wade through ran through thots with worn out pussies that will only offer me starfish sex with cellulite and an embarrassing BMI. You think it’s a privilege that I believe the vast majority of my peers of the opposite gender fit into this ridiculous caricature I made up?” You realize how you come across right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:45 AM
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Uh huh, Have you ever actually talked to the subset of women who genuinely can’t find sexual attention either? It’s a much smaller proportion, but they do exist (not sure if any of the femcel subreddits are still around tho). They of course can’t find relationships, but the lack of that base, visceral validation that comes from being intimately desired fucks their self esteem so much more than normal women being used by guys that are out of their league. You as women are not unique in being roma…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:25 AM
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Maybe the real problem is that outside of fringe spaces, no one shames the people like you who consider their male peers freaks for their entertainment. Those are your equals. You’re not better than them just because their appearance makes it easy for you to build a caricature about them in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:11 AM
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Noooo their worldview doesn’t work if you’re not a morally bankrupt caricature
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:37 PM
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I’m getting a stem degree right now and I still think you’re beyond out of touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:11 PM
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