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1

Where was Captain Save A hoe? No White Knights to the rescue. It's funny when women sexually assault an old man. Even security didn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:09 AM
20

Do what the other guys are doing. Are you Aspy? I mean it seriously and not rude. Yes it's normal to use hands, grab her waist or hips and guide her. Packed club dancing is just a zombie grindfest anyway. Some people like to slut it up and dry hump on the dancefloor. It'll be better if you learn to dance to the music and connect with a girl like that. Catch eyes with a girl face to face and get her to vibe with you. Practice eye contact. If you're thinking about does the girl like you, does she …
/r/seduction29/11/21 02:15 PM
2

This guy gets it
/r/seduction29/11/21 11:04 AM
3

You're too Alpha bro. She can't handle you.
/r/seduction29/11/21 08:07 AM
-6

was she latina? or eastern european?
/r/seduction29/11/21 06:54 AM
-5

So good man. Was the sex hot? That's usually what keeps guys hanging on.
/r/seduction29/11/21 06:53 AM
-1

does it matter that I snort cocaine every time I look at her texts?
/r/seduction29/11/21 06:49 AM
4

I read it in a simp accent. why does she love that asshole more than me!?!?!!?
/r/seduction29/11/21 06:47 AM
11

Me only luv is the deep blue sea!
/r/seduction29/11/21 06:46 AM
1

Simply the fact you're hung up on whether she read your message shows you're fucked. It's too bad you have that feature. First off, you shouldn't care if a women is afk for a few days. You're the one who should be busy. Instead, a month into knowing a woman, she should be asking, "hey why does it seem to take so long for you to respond to my messages?" Sorry, I just have a lot going on. I worked all day, I needed to get in 90 minutes at the gym, my mom needed help fixing some lights at the house…
/r/seduction29/11/21 06:40 AM
1

Yeah the fugly looking dude who lives in his mom's basement.
/r/seduction28/11/21 11:27 PM
1

Pete Davidson smashes all kinds of hotties. He's like a younger looking Steve buscemi.
/r/seduction28/11/21 10:45 PM
17

I rate from 4-27 just to fuck with people
/r/seduction28/11/21 12:13 AM
1

Interesting... -psychologist checks "skeptical"
/r/seduction27/11/21 11:02 AM
2

How would you fare with a guy in his late 30's who does all those things with you?
/r/seduction27/11/21 07:31 AM
2

you can do eeet all night long! Hey baby, are you up for trying something new? I found this trendy place where we can cover our naked bodies in honey and roll around an angry beehive. They say it really heightens your sexual awareness. Do you want check it out?
/r/seduction27/11/21 07:19 AM
2

Yo man, I changed from World of Warcraft to Call of Duty and I'm not meeting any more chicks. Your recommendations are shit. Only Chads get the girls.
/r/seduction27/11/21 06:55 AM
1

It's why my #1 recommendation is join a coed volleyball group. 90% of the guys poopoo the suggestion. Female dominated sport. They enjoy it. They are good at it. It's casual and social. You don't have to talk much. Easy to transition to "hey we're meeting at The Love Shack for happy hour". And seriously, 90% of the guys here say "nah I'm not into that". And their next post is "How do I meet women? Should I cold approach at the XYZ?"
/r/seduction27/11/21 06:49 AM
2

I had a girl get mad on a first date because I paid for my food and drinks but not hers. She showed up 30 minutes early and even wanted me to pay for the two drinks she had before I arrived. Fuck no but thanks for showing your cards on the first date.
/r/seduction25/11/21 10:20 PM
2

To hell with any woman that expects you to buy them things. Or ones that want constant validation. Surprise her with tickets to play, random flowers, jewelry. It's never ending. Some of them are brainwashed from pop culture that men are supposed to always try to win them over.
/r/seduction25/11/21 09:43 PM
4

True, she probably wants it in the back door
/r/seduction25/11/21 09:38 PM
7

Tell her she has a red aura, surrounded by evil spirits.
/r/seduction25/11/21 09:37 PM
1

I would tell her goodbye.
/r/seduction25/11/21 09:35 PM
1

Bare your teeth to assert dominance
/r/seduction25/11/21 08:05 PM
5

No glove = no love. What about mittens?
/r/seduction25/11/21 08:03 PM
1

Have a sign ready that says, do you like me? Hold it up when she looks your way.
/r/seduction25/11/21 08:02 PM
7

Blues Clues for the educated folks.
/r/seduction25/11/21 08:33 AM
4

Do they make fish donuts? It's definitely yeasty.
/r/seduction25/11/21 08:32 AM
1

Like, I once was with a girl who wanted to go to McD's to get a 1/4 pound cheeseburger without the meat, and pay $5 bucks for it. I'm like, Babe, I'll get you a cheap bun and throw a kraft's single on it for a dollar. Nah, she wanted it from fking McD's for $5. Well, fk then you better be making me 2 coffees in the morning.
/r/seduction25/11/21 08:25 AM
2

It's a shit test, like women do to you everyday. Ask your girl to make you 2 coffees everyday, but only drink one of them. See if she throws a fit. It takes almost zero extra effort to make 2 coffees instead of 1.
/r/seduction25/11/21 08:14 AM
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But what about this dark moist cave in front of my eyes? Shall I enter it, or should I flee?
/r/seduction25/11/21 07:15 AM
7

Yo little sis
/r/seduction25/11/21 07:14 AM
24

It's oneitis. You're going to catch feelings for most women who give you the time of day. You'll think differently when you finally learn that there are thousands of women out there who are attracted to you, that are far better than this one.
/r/seduction25/11/21 07:13 AM
1

Just send a text "Hey what have you been up to? I've been thinking about you." Oh yeah? "I keep thinking about your lips".
/r/seduction25/11/21 06:52 AM
1

just casually mention that your dick is disease free...100% no doubt
/r/seduction25/11/21 06:34 AM
-1

While an interesting question, who wants to bet if the OP has significant fame, wealth, or whatever to be concerned about?
/r/seduction25/11/21 05:57 AM
2

Not Patrice but, ask her to make you 2 coffees everyday, but only drink 1 of them. See how she reacts.
/r/seduction25/11/21 05:51 AM
2

LOL you got this from a comment I put up a week ago didn't you :P I put it up to laugh at it's silliness, not to be taken seriously.
/r/seduction25/11/21 03:26 AM
2

1-2 years after leaving a major relationship, you would realize it was not half as good as you thought. Staying in a relationship out of fear is like anti-fomo.
/r/seduction24/11/21 10:35 PM
1

You shouldn't be getting married or having kids before age 28. No reason to get locked down now. Go have fun, live life, mature, and then find the right girl.
/r/seduction24/11/21 10:32 PM
2

Strap
/r/seduction24/11/21 07:08 PM
-1

Yeah that's cuz I banged her so hard
/r/seduction24/11/21 07:08 PM
5

Cage match. 10 men enter, one man leaves... With the entire harem.
/r/seduction24/11/21 07:07 PM
0

And they have names like Alex, CJ, or Tony.
/r/seduction24/11/21 06:25 AM
2

I can imagine that being an interesting workplace. Yeah Catholics seem pretty good at bending over the rules. The Mormon woman was a funny story. Supposedly she ran away from her abusive husband and was living off his credit cards. She was staying with a friend I had already been with. The friend brought the Mormon over just so we could hookup. You know, get her mind off of things. The Mormon was riding on top while The friend was making out with me and rubbing her tits in my face. Quite a good …
/r/seduction21/11/21 09:09 PM
2

One was a Chinese woman who knew all of 10 words in English. Ran into her at a park, used Google translate on my phone.
/r/seduction21/11/21 08:49 PM
1

You got to break it https://youtu.be/5aNNucwW9o8
/r/seduction21/11/21 02:12 PM
18

Fun > seductive. Or Fun is seductive. Go to karaoke and do whatever stupid dance went with that song. Pretend like you're Adelle or Celine Dion and they'll crack up.
/r/seduction21/11/21 02:05 PM
4

I'm not talking about like a Tyson face tattoo, or a pin cushion full of piercings. I really don't like Gaged ears. But like a 16 inch tattoo on the back and an upper arm sleeve, with a few smaller tattoos. Or like a full chest tattoo from collarbone to upper breast. Professional women that had a wild side. I don't have a single tat and I would think that I'm not their type. In the end, they want the same things as every other woman. Successful, confident, attractive, fun. Go to live music bars,…
/r/seduction21/11/21 01:44 PM
1

You don't even have to be shredded. Go to the gym and lift a few times a week. Women usually won't say anything outright, but it will come out in conversation. Things like, "when we have sex I notice your shoulders, and butt". Or they will remark noticing a difference from before to after you started lifting. Shoulders, butts, and abs are things they focus on.
/r/seduction21/11/21 07:07 AM
9

Brad Pitt in his prime, ala Fight Club and Snatch, have women sitting in a puddle while watching a movie.
/r/seduction21/11/21 06:59 AM
21

Tldr: don't limit your options. Everyone is on the table, hopefully naked. I'm a plain white bread guy from the midwest. I've done well with foreign women in the US. Though I'm educated and well read so I can usually relate to them in some way. I've enjoyed "cultural exchange" with many areas of the world except Western Europe. You might think that exception is because I'm not exotic to them. I'd say it's more likely because they simply don't immigrate to the US. Also interesting, is that I've d…
/r/seduction21/11/21 06:28 AM
1

Outside of large cities I find Hinge to be non-existent. Only Tinder has decent numbers, but Bumble has been better quality.
/r/seduction20/11/21 10:32 PM
6

Maybe with a kinky sex fiend. Most women aren't going for that. They don't want to think about their kids. In fact, sex is a chance to escape parental reality.
/r/seduction19/11/21 11:29 PM
2

Did you bang?
/r/seduction19/11/21 11:26 PM
4

You don't need a snappy retort. The main thing is she wants to know it's not a big deal. Of course it depends is it 5 or 20 years difference. It depends whether you're talking the hook up, or potential relationship. She wants to know if you'll behave like a jackass college dude. Can she tell her friends, or introduce you without being embarrassed? Show some maturity and responsibility. Have an interesting hobby. Show some knowledge beyond video games and tick tok.
/r/seduction19/11/21 11:23 PM
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When a guy checks out a woman at a gym, she'll make a Tik Tok of it and get 3 million views. Meanwhile she's working out with her triple D implants in a 6 inch tube top.
/r/seduction17/11/21 08:03 PM
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This is why its so laughable when women come here and shame men. Women: "Don't be a creep. If she wants you to approach she'll make it obvious". Also women: "I gave him a clear signal. I asked him how many sets he had left. Why doesn't he get the hint?"
/r/seduction17/11/21 07:59 PM
3

Chances are 1 or both will turn out to not be legit. Have you even met either of them yet? Proceed with both.
/r/seduction17/11/21 05:17 PM
2

It's 2 different things. Highly unlikely she's into incest. No reason to get jealous about a couple days with the cousin. However, women can do shady stuff. If she's pulling away for other reasons then it's probably over. Trying to salvage things will likely be a waste of time. If you're misreading things then that's your problem. How calibrated are you?
/r/seduction16/11/21 12:16 PM
5

Picking up girls made easy. https://youtu.be/FpKTHGHmGHU
/r/seduction15/11/21 05:26 AM
37

Pull the pro move. Ignore the ex but bang her best friend.
/r/seduction14/11/21 09:21 AM
6

Yeah make sure to talk to him. Find out the best way to make her cum. For science.
/r/seduction14/11/21 09:19 AM
3

Just dance
/r/seduction14/11/21 07:11 AM
5

If it's a country bar you just grab them by the pussy. If it's a progressive bar, ask for consent first, then grab them by the pussy.
/r/seduction14/11/21 07:08 AM
9

I'm a pussy, I'm fat, and I can't dance. 🥴 But hey do you want to fuck?
/r/seduction14/11/21 07:07 AM
1

You're on a keto diet and you're really focused on yer gainz 💪
/r/seduction14/11/21 07:05 AM
1

Coed rec sports. In my experience, coed volleyball is number one. Get into any coed social group you can. Board games, dinner\restaurant, karaoke, hiking, alcoholics anonymous.
/r/seduction14/11/21 07:03 AM
12

Along those lines though you can guess someone's name to break the ice. Hmm, you look like a Nikki. Troublemakers are always named Nikki. Hey, I'm really good at guessing names. Okay I'm getting a Michelle vibe... No no wait... Karen. Definitely Karen. It's a playful jab.
/r/seduction08/11/21 09:28 PM
94

Have I seen you before? Maybe at alcoholics anonymous, or the herpes support group? Get some every time. High five.
/r/seduction08/11/21 06:54 PM
-9

It's like these young inexperienced redditors have never heard of things like polyamory, swinging, or open relationships before. "The Ethical Slut" is always a recommended reading. Hell, all of the close-minded vanilla people here should give it a look. Anyways the first thing OP needs to figure out is if she cares that her open relationship status becomes gossip at work. It most certainly will, especially at her age. Personally, I wouldn't do it. Best to keep personal relationship drama separat…
/r/seduction07/11/21 08:53 AM
-12

It works for millions of people. Far more than you'd imagine. You have neighbors and coworkers who are into it (just like this couple) and you don't even know it.
/r/seduction07/11/21 08:41 AM
8

would it be better to have her check for herpes instead?
/r/seduction06/11/21 06:05 AM
-2

You have to smack her ass like it's a high school football game.
/r/seduction06/11/21 04:57 AM
10

Ask if she'll inspect you for genital warts. If she gets turned on just go with it. Otherwise act like its a medical thing.
/r/seduction06/11/21 04:28 AM
0

Seven is the number of guys she admits to. Add another seven for the guys who "don't count". Anyways, I care about a girl's past. I hope she's a freak with a strong sex drive. I'll pass on puritans, girls with hangups, and low drives.
/r/seduction05/11/21 07:46 PM
1

Poppers will help loosen your virginity.
/r/seduction05/11/21 09:07 AM
6

That's why I wear a hooded cape and hang out in shadows. Really attracts the chicks.
/r/seduction05/11/21 07:08 AM
2

Imagine how bitter you'll be in another 5 years and 30 pounds when guys stop noticing you. Tie one down while you can.
/r/seduction03/11/21 02:45 AM
3

Get a creative hobby. Music instrument. Painting. It will give you something of interest and value to share. Learn Spanish, then you can flirt with all the Latinas. Play rec volleyball, good way to meet people. What are your excuses to not do any of those?
/r/seduction02/11/21 09:02 PM
9

Lol, I'm from the midwest, and so was that Jewish wedding. It was a 30 hour drive to Oregon. I could also talk about doing stupid shit in a cornfield. It would still be more interesting than "what do you do at work"? Better start tackling that depression and start living.
/r/seduction02/11/21 08:45 PM
2

Calling guys creeps isn't respectful
/r/seduction02/11/21 08:28 PM
1

They don't need your help or narcissism.
/r/seduction02/11/21 08:28 PM
1

Because older men are more interesting, have life experience, have their shit together, and are better in bed. I've been pursued several times by grad students. Had an intern at work from another department find me on Facebook to ask me out. Had a 23yo FWB who loved hooking up for years. Despite the narcissistic view from a few young women here, many enjoy older men.
/r/seduction02/11/21 08:27 PM
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Well I didn't say to drop that paragraph as an opening line. With the right people, talking about drugs, partying, and obscure music could be fine topics. But if you don't have any interesting things in your life besides drugs and partying then that's a problem, and a red flag to a woman. But here, simple like this, people often will return the same question back to you: What's the best ice cream you ever had? She answers and asks back. Me? I had chocolate chip cookie dough, fresh, right at the …
/r/seduction02/11/21 07:37 PM
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Best food you've ever eaten? Best restaurant ever? Bucket list? Dream vacation? Talk about great music or movies. Interesting stories and experiences. Like, once I DJ'd a wedding and every single person got their own 6 inch red velvet cake with cream cheese frosting. I've never seen a wedding where everyone got their own cake. It was mind blowing and it was the best I've ever tasted. Not only that, they had so many extra cakes left over they sent me home with 5 of them! I threw them in my freeze…
/r/seduction02/11/21 06:48 PM
2

Talk about creepy. What are you doing spying on me? What a strange obsession to go through people's posts.
/r/seduction01/11/21 08:44 AM
3

Because they have tight pussies and perky tits
/r/seduction01/11/21 06:01 AM
0

Someone is jelly
/r/seduction01/11/21 06:00 AM
-4

Guys her age have no idea how to fuck, and she loves pleasing Daddy.
/r/seduction01/11/21 05:59 AM
0

Offer them some candy, or booze. Or tell them you're a major Tik Tok producer looking for hot models.
/r/seduction01/11/21 05:57 AM
2

In that moment, should have instantly pulled her closer and say something like "you're hot" and go for a kiss. Find out real quick one way or the other how much she meant her comment.
/r/seduction01/11/21 12:34 AM
1

That's absolutely happened to me in college, even from friends of a girl who clearly was into me. Breaking girl code, comes to my dorm alone and kept wanting me to "drink more" while hanging out. And yes we hooked up 🤣
/r/seduction01/11/21 12:30 AM
1

If you want to have wild sex then just have wild sex 🤷‍♂️🤟🏄🦸🙉🦝🦄🐬🍌🌮🚨🛸💺🥊🥁💰💉🪚☠️
/r/seduction28/10/21 09:39 AM
2

You shouldn't say "that's ok we can reschedule". You should say something like "that's rude" or "that's not cool". Erase or block her snapchat so she can't keep simping you with stupid shit.
/r/seduction28/10/21 05:53 AM
1

I mean yeah, if you're a college kid with nothing going on. But some people study, play sports, hang out with friends, work, just chill and watch a fucking movie. Bang the same girl more than twice. That's not even getting into adult life. More work, friends, vacation, landscaping your yard, repairs around the house. Sure as hell better not have a kid to look after. But why you being so lazy? 200 girls per year should be easy. Am I right?
/r/seduction27/10/21 08:52 AM
2

Say, that sucks you changed your mind. I was looking forward to licking your pussy.
/r/seduction23/10/21 06:26 AM
2

Ask her to hang out. Go on a date or watch a movie. At some point tell her that you're really into her. See if you can escalate and make out. You don't usually jump straight into sucking dick.
/r/seduction23/10/21 06:24 AM
1

If you've been wrongly accused then take it to court.
/r/seduction20/10/21 11:31 PM
14

He means she is replaceable and not special.
/r/seduction20/10/21 06:41 PM
1

I prefer the opposite. Having sex and avoiding sleepovers. I like having my own bed and personal space.
/r/seduction20/10/21 06:39 PM
1

Buried in my backyard
/r/seduction19/10/21 06:09 PM
1

12 hours later, you're still a bum! 🤣
/r/seduction19/10/21 08:00 AM
1

I tried to approach a girl at the Friday bowling league but she said I was only a Tuesday 😭
/r/seduction19/10/21 07:44 AM
1

The narration on the audiobook is cool
/r/seduction16/10/21 07:22 PM
1

💖💋
/r/seduction16/10/21 03:13 AM
0

When trying to sext you sent the number 96.
/r/seduction15/10/21 08:09 PM
0

You're so far in the cuck zone that you pick up her boyfriend from the airport.
/r/seduction15/10/21 08:04 PM
0

You're so pathetic even your dog ditched you.
/r/seduction15/10/21 07:59 PM
6

Ask if the friend zone happens to be inside her vagina.
/r/seduction15/10/21 07:57 PM
1

Does she work for a pharmaceutical company? She sounds like a Beta Blocker.
/r/seduction15/10/21 07:54 PM
1

You win the jerk off trophy for being "Master Beta".
/r/seduction15/10/21 07:50 PM
1

That's why it's good to be multi dating. Keep 3 women in the loop that you date and have romantic connection with. Be very slow and cautious about going exclusive. Having things not work or losing one of three is much less stressful than losing the only one you're involved with.
/r/seduction15/10/21 07:45 PM
1

Ask if he's down for a threesome
/r/seduction15/10/21 09:24 AM
4

A rear naked choke would seem a bit homo
/r/seduction15/10/21 09:22 AM
1

You're only 18. You'll be fine. Work on building a social circle with a mix of friends, guys and girls. Join a rec sports team. Be social and have fun. Let your female friends help match you up.
/r/seduction15/10/21 04:51 AM
1

I started a fling with a Chinese woman in the US. A week later she showed up to my house from Costco with a trunk full of groceries. All kinds of fruit, $100 of steaks. Way more than I could hope to eat as a single guy. The week after that she brought a $200 Colombia winter coat. Had to shut that down fast!
/r/seduction14/10/21 11:10 PM
6

I have my first string lineup and then a few on the practice squad. They need to be ready to step in at a moment's notice in case someone has an injury.
/r/seduction14/10/21 11:03 PM
12

You're an incredible friend, and an even better brother.
/r/seduction14/10/21 08:25 PM
2

High five man! I met a woman at a bar and when her friends showed up I decided to leave because the group wanted to go bar hopping. One of her friends stopped me and directly said the woman wanted me to take her home and bang her. 🥳
/r/seduction14/10/21 06:34 PM
6

It's also tends to be more just with younger women. Older women often help their friends get fucked.
/r/seduction14/10/21 06:35 AM
3

I've worked in fitness, and healthcare. I've learned a lot of people don't actually want help.
/r/seduction13/10/21 11:14 AM
1

Sounds like you'll end up in prison
/r/seduction13/10/21 11:05 AM
1

Unfortunately your toxic mindset will only make things worse.
/r/seduction13/10/21 10:57 AM
5

The best thing then would be to make friends in real life with both male and female normies who can keep you calibrated. Constantly be seeking their feedback on situations you encounter. Also, keep an ongoing relationship with a mental health professional. See them once a month. I'm sure there are therapists who specialize in autism.
/r/seduction13/10/21 10:52 AM
2

I have connections with lots of FWBs, which is why they stick around so long. If you can come back years later and she is still happy to hook up then you're doing something right.
/r/seduction12/10/21 05:12 AM
1

Well, because then you could address those concerns
/r/seduction11/10/21 05:41 PM
2

What is his hangup specifically? Why or what is he unsure about?
/r/seduction11/10/21 02:47 PM
3

$50 says they're not even sisters. Just two hookers who look mildly similar who split the cost of a motel room.
/r/seduction11/10/21 08:28 AM
1

Use the money for a vacation in Mexico. You can grab two sisters there for $50 bucks and enjoy some authentic pink tacos at the same time.
/r/seduction11/10/21 08:26 AM
1

Why you bashing threesomes? They can be awesome.
/r/seduction11/10/21 08:24 AM
1

Depends, Will the $800 include anal?
/r/seduction11/10/21 08:14 AM
7

Giddy up! or My GF walked in when my mom was riding me.
/r/seduction10/10/21 11:48 PM
6

I think she was too shocked to do anything. She just stared for like 3 seconds as her brain tried to process what was happening. I told her to leave and close the door. 🤣
/r/seduction10/10/21 09:03 PM
-10

Why would people come in and be a problem anyways? So they come in and out for 60 seconds. Carry on. Hell when I was a teen my mom walked in while my GF was riding me. We still finished. 💦
/r/seduction10/10/21 08:23 PM
12

So many people saying they always use a condom. I know you're a bunch of lying hypocrites. 🤣
/r/seduction10/10/21 02:30 PM
2

I find it easier to go the other way around. Moderately attractive, but with a good personality. Kinky, fun in bed, sexually skilled. A hot girl who's bad at sex isn't very enjoyable. Nor is a hot girl with a bad personality.
/r/seduction10/10/21 12:54 AM
2

I know it's a bit of a joke, but some women are already thinking, do I want to get with the mechanic or the doctor?
/r/seduction09/10/21 04:25 AM
2

Ok then I'm going rogue and saying a busy bar. I'm going with like a trendy pool hall with 10 tables. Each one has 5-10 people. It's not crazy loud. People are interacting. Only 1 person is shooting and everyone else is chatting and flirting.
/r/seduction09/10/21 01:37 AM
16

Maybe she's not into guys with poor sentence structure.
/r/seduction09/10/21 01:25 AM
1

Sorry that's only 478% flirting.
/r/seduction09/10/21 01:21 AM
3

Fields of poon. The unwritten story of Vietnam.
/r/seduction07/10/21 11:06 PM
3

Fields of poon. The unwritten story of Vietnam.
/r/seduction07/10/21 11:06 PM
0

Ask girls if they want to study anatomy and physiology. 😈 Just get involved and be social. Get a group of friends and do stuff. Join a club. Play some rec sports. Do a movie night. Go out for pizza. Go to an occasional party. One of the girls will warm up to you, then start dating and move it forward.
/r/seduction07/10/21 11:04 PM
1

My dad smoked two packs a day for 20 years then quit. Still died of lung cancer.
/r/seduction07/10/21 09:15 AM
1

Smokers are their own weird little clique. Always hanging out and taking smoke breaks together. Just sit on girls who smoke. What's the problem?
/r/seduction07/10/21 09:13 AM
1

Success with women will come 100x easier after you fix the other problems in your life. Women really shouldn't be your focus right now. In fact they will cause more problems that will slow down your progress in other areas. A weekly or 2x\month (minimum) therapy session should be your TOP goal. You need to be proactive here. Look for a therapist that does CBT or DBT. Check with your county public health. See if there are any free or subsidized mental health services. Hell maybe even through a ch…
/r/seduction06/10/21 12:55 AM
12

You do you. If you want a condom then keep it on. Don't make a big deal of it. Brush it off and keep going.
/r/seduction05/10/21 10:43 PM
0

I wasn't insecure. I was annoyed. And if you think Alpha women don't exist, then your viewpoint is irrelevant.
/r/seduction05/10/21 09:37 PM
7

No, it's not normal to take eight years to get a date. India has had so many babies that it has changed the axis of the Earth. Clearly many Indians are dating and fucking. No, London is not the problem either. It's time to admit that what you've been doing hasn't worked. Change your methods and do better. You say your average, then do better. Are you fit? Improve your skin, get a better haircut, get a few stylish outfits. Most importantly, you need to improve your social skills, and mental game.…
/r/seduction05/10/21 05:46 PM
4

Stop talking to her completely. Move on and find a woman who will actually meet.
/r/seduction05/10/21 08:03 AM
6

The dating aspect doesn't bother me so much. I'm more bitter how women can glide through life just by being pretty. Seeing tick tocks when a guy does triple backflips and gets only a few hundred likes. Then a woman just does some stupid little dance and gets thousands of votes. Or seeing someone be a YouTube Star who rakes in tens of thousands a month just because she can put on makeup. Men need real proficiency to succeed in a career. Women can just smile and have opportunities handed to them, …
/r/seduction05/10/21 07:37 AM
7

Alpha women are just so annoying and exhausting to deal with. They're always fighting for control. Make everything a competition. Always wanting to be right, and won't admit when they're wrong. And whereas men are willing to date down, women want to date up. When she's already at the top of her world, it leaves a very small pool of eligible men. I was in a relationship with a university math professor. A woman in a Very male industry. I loved how intelligent she was. She was also hot, fit, and t…
/r/seduction05/10/21 05:55 AM
1

Save up $100. Drive to a sketchy part of downtown. Look for a woman who's walking around in a swimsuit at midnight. Give her your $100 so she can afford to buy some clothes. She will be so overjoyed and thankful that she will want to proceed with coitus.
/r/seduction04/10/21 06:31 PM
1

Spread apart her labia. Then insert your penis into her vagina. Continue thrusting in and out for 30 seconds until your semen is released.
/r/seduction04/10/21 06:22 PM
5

Yeah women are awesome! So go put your dick in a few of them.
/r/seduction04/10/21 04:42 AM
1

Growing up there was a family with three Catholic girls near me. One my age, one 2 years older, and 2 years younger. Over the years I played with all three of them. The one my age ended up having a baby in high school.
/r/seduction02/10/21 10:16 PM
1

You got to grab them at Wednesday night Mass and head to the bars from there. That's what my Greek friends would do 🤣
/r/seduction02/10/21 10:13 PM
1

Oh sugoi!
/r/seduction02/10/21 10:11 PM
11

It kind of sucks when neither person knows what they're doing. 🤷‍♂️ It was that way with me. The first condom broke. Then the girl bled all over her sheets so she freaked that her dad would find out. Mad scramble to do some random laundry. All so a guy can blow it in 60 seconds. 🤣 Hell man, find a milf who can rock you for your first time.
/r/seduction02/10/21 10:08 PM
-7

Muslim countries. Also, examine to make sure the hymen is intact. Also, does anal sex count?
/r/seduction02/10/21 10:00 PM
1

How long does studying take? 30 minutes or an hour? Depends on the logistics but you could ask her to stay and watch a movie or TV show after you finish. Then see if she's willing to get close on the sofa or bed, cuddle up. Don't try to escalate while studying. Otherwise as things are winding down before she leaves, ask if she wants to do something on another night like watching movie, go to the park, or something. Whatever you kids do these days. How old are you?
/r/seduction01/10/21 05:34 PM
7

Saddle up!
/r/seduction01/10/21 03:52 AM
2

Take being mindful plus the guys joking about being intelligent: I met a Russian girl in Denver so I took her to a hole in the wall called Sputnik. Then she's impressed when I named the first cosmonaut (and person) to fly to space. Little things that I'm sure set me apart from other guys who chased her. She was a hot little size 4 with perky B cups.
/r/seduction30/09/21 03:39 AM
109

Let's reframe this. You don't have to chase women. You have to attract women. Yes, men often have to initiate, but if she's not attracted to you there is no amount of "chasing" that will succeed. Be the things that women are attracted to. Fit, style, successful, confident, fun, interesting, intelligent.
/r/seduction29/09/21 09:04 PM
1

Most women are attracted to the same general characteristics. Be fit and attractive, successful with a career, fun and have some personality. That's 80% of attraction. The other 20% come down to individual preferences: specific look, personality, religion, politics, whatever they're into.
/r/seduction28/09/21 08:51 PM
0

Yes I agree it's great to wield some power and not give a woman everything she wants. However, I'd rather do this in other areas of a relationship, not by denying myself sex.
/r/seduction26/09/21 11:15 PM
1

So you cock blocked yourself? Fuck a woman right and she'll be super responsive too.
/r/seduction26/09/21 11:13 PM
0

I ask for Myspace. Is that a good strategy?
/r/seduction26/09/21 07:36 AM
7

You're probably a sociopath. Be authentic and Just go with it.
/r/seduction24/09/21 07:59 AM
4

Ghost and move on.
/r/seduction23/09/21 02:08 AM
10

🍑🍆💦
/r/seduction22/09/21 05:46 PM
1

Ideally he would keep banging the hottie on the side while he chased other women. However, I know he wouldn't be able to keep his head straight, and would get pulled down by her drama.
/r/seduction22/09/21 11:43 AM
1

She must be a hottie and bro doesn't want to give her up, so can we see her nudes? Also for fun, randomly give her a call using that video app and see how she reacts.
/r/seduction22/09/21 11:40 AM
8

I have great respect for the Russian people, they have been through hell for the last hundred years. However it has made the women determined, cold. They fetishize Western decadence. They will cut down weaker men like they are nothing.
/r/seduction22/09/21 08:28 AM
0

Chalk it up to being incompatible. Beyond that, fuck her! Don't let a woman make you feel this way. Let's turn it around. Is there anything she does besides going to class, sucking dick, and wearing fake eyelashes? People value different things. That's fine move on. Other women will appreciate what you have to offer.
/r/seduction22/09/21 07:54 AM
1

Uh yeah pro stuff!
/r/seduction22/09/21 07:38 AM
42

Russian women want to fuck your wallet. Have fun while it lasts!
/r/seduction22/09/21 07:08 AM
16

Have you looked in the desert yet?
/r/seduction21/09/21 10:24 AM
51

Someone let this guy know that women make up 50% of the human population.
/r/seduction21/09/21 10:23 AM
3

Girls catholic boarding school. Or Time travel to 1970 and raid the girls Summer camp across the lake.
/r/seduction21/09/21 10:19 AM
4

Congrats man. Don't put a lot of pressure on it. Take a carefree attitude and just have fun.
/r/seduction21/09/21 03:37 AM
4

You're either a wizard or a vampire. Either way chicks thing you're pretty cool.
/r/seduction20/09/21 09:54 PM
37

And this goes for a lot of things, the acne on your face, the small stain on your shirt, your crooked nose. The fact is, most people are NOT paying attention to you.
/r/seduction20/09/21 09:53 PM
1

Thranduil has decreed that love between an Elf and a Dwarf is strictly forbidden.
/r/seduction20/09/21 05:42 PM
-4

I think you can go to prison for having sex with women that short.
/r/seduction20/09/21 05:14 AM
1

Yeah it was really young. Wasn't a regular thing until 16 though.
/r/seduction20/09/21 01:31 AM
1

I was decent looking, introverted, definitely not popular. Had a small consistent group of friends. Never was into partying or drinking until college. Lost my V at 14 👍. At 7 when I started college.
/r/seduction19/09/21 08:28 PM
3

It's fairly common for some women to brag that they can go out and not spend a penny all night. Fuck that don't be a sucker. A little social experiment. I dare you to flip the script one night. Go out with the intention of not buying yourself a single drink. See how many women you can hustle into buying you a drink. Tell them you accidentally left your money at home. If you managed to convince any women, I bet half of them will just get a guy friend to buy for you. 🥴
/r/seduction17/09/21 06:50 PM
1

A girl who doesn't kiss on the first date is too young and playing games. Next.
/r/seduction15/09/21 05:38 AM
1

In my experience women don't like being asked for permission for a kiss. Just go for it. With sex you can ask for indirect things like "can I take your pants off"? Honestly, a Kiss is pretty low stakes. If you're rejected for a kiss, just move on. I can handle waiting for sex, but waiting for a kiss...I'm way too old for middle school.
/r/seduction15/09/21 05:17 AM
-1

Send her a pic of you diking another girl.
/r/seduction15/09/21 05:07 AM
5

Date short women. Go for Asians and latinas. I've got a pretty short friend. He married a Japanese woman. Problem solved.
/r/seduction14/09/21 05:52 AM
9

If you lick 0.0037 pussies per minute then you'll transcend to seduction heaven.
/r/seduction13/09/21 06:48 AM
6

Yeah but...😖 Ok you got me! 🤣
/r/seduction13/09/21 06:44 AM
5

I don't even know whether to take the OP seriously?
/r/seduction11/09/21 10:24 PM
1

What are you going to do when you get closer to her, sniff her hair? Biden approves of this strategy!
/r/seduction10/09/21 04:14 AM
45

In trash families grandma might only be 35 years old. 🤣
/r/seduction09/09/21 10:14 PM
50

I knew a group of women who got a hotel room for their friend on her 40th birthday, so she could spend the night with her boyfriend instead of her husband. There are lots of unhappily married women out there and they tend to hang out together.
/r/seduction09/09/21 10:11 PM
2

Hang out at the elementary school and hit on the moms as they pick up their kid from kindergarten.
/r/seduction09/09/21 10:09 PM
0

Hang out at the elementary school and hit on the moms as they pick up their kid from kindergarten.
/r/seduction09/09/21 10:09 PM
1

I knew a French Jew who moved to the US and spoke almost perfect English after just a couple years. It was very important to him and he would bash other immigrants who didn't make the same effort. He talked about how he refused to stick out. Like sheer force of will be would lose his accent. He lived with that mental strength because he was also a beast in the gym and had a ripped body to show for it. Really unique dude.
/r/seduction09/09/21 06:50 PM
1

Pretty faces but I rarely see any that exercise. Their bodies are like jelly and fall apart at a young age. Most seem to be obese by age 30.
/r/seduction09/09/21 06:37 PM
1

Tldr: Indian guys success with Western women will improve the more they assimilate into the culture. A common stereotype is that they don't groom well and have bad body odor. I've certainly witnessed it many times. Make sure you're taking care of the basics. Beyond that, they keep a heavy accent, watch cricket, have different mannerisms. Different religion, different concept of relationships. Many want their traditional wedding, often want an Indian woman, or even do arranged marriages. So many …
/r/seduction09/09/21 06:32 PM
1

Bring a rifle. Shoot a deer. Skin and butcher it together. 💗
/r/seduction08/09/21 06:41 PM
3

Wait, do you mean having an actual conversation and finding out what she's interested in? That would be like playing video games without a cheat code.
/r/seduction05/09/21 09:10 PM
4

It's all horseshit so you can make up and say anything you want. It will still sound real.
/r/seduction05/09/21 09:08 PM
44

That's ironic because if you would just chill and be fun then more women would gravitate to you. Be one of the guys. Do guy things. Women like guys. Instead you're probably a bit socially awkward, and give off a desperation vibe which pushes women away.
/r/seduction05/09/21 04:39 PM
23

Just bring your food over to a table of women and ask if you can join them. I bet more than you realize would say yes. Don't hit on anyone just chat the group up and see what unfolds.
/r/seduction05/09/21 12:50 AM
8

Do or do not. There is no try.
/r/seduction04/09/21 08:22 PM
1

My first kiss I was 11 years old, but the girl was older, 13 and already experienced with dating. She grabbed me and shoved her tongue in my mouth. My mouth flailed like a Punch-Drunk boxer. The girl thought I was laughing at her as we kissed, so she got pissed and stormed off 🤷‍♂️🤣
/r/seduction04/09/21 07:51 PM
6

Funny considering the recent post of the Asian guy who thinks he needs to move to the other side of the planet to have a chance with women. Lowkey is always better IMO. Women do talk and you can get a negative rep in some circles. However, understand that some will badmouth you to their friends and then sneak home with you to fk. So don't care too much about the rep. But always play it cool and let the girl know you'll never shame her, you'll always have her back.
/r/seduction04/09/21 04:22 AM
41

I've seen Asian-Americans do well when visiting the homeland. In China for example, the guy looked the part but was still westernized. The women loved it. He was also way more extroverted and confident than a typical Chinese guy. He didn't have any trouble with women in the US either. I'm sure there are places where the OP could do better from a racial standpoint, but his negative, self-defeating attitude are a much bigger hurdle.
/r/seduction03/09/21 10:48 PM
2

Erase, and block everything you have of her. Lose her phone number and email address so that you can never find it again even if tempted. Then move on with your life. In the future don't mistake a FWB for your soulmate.
/r/seduction03/09/21 07:11 AM
1

Are you capable of learning, achieving goals, and making self-improvement?
/r/seduction02/09/21 05:24 PM
0

If you want to prove how inclusive you are then you won't shame me for preferring 55 kg women.
/r/seduction02/09/21 05:22 PM
1

It's a niche activity. If you become regular at a climbing venue you'll start to get familiar with people. Similar with things like crossfit, and jiu-jitsu.
/r/seduction02/09/21 12:08 PM
1

The good thing about rock climbing is it automatically excludes the big girls. 👍
/r/seduction02/09/21 12:04 PM
1

Coed rec volleyball. Also can Go out for drinks after.
/r/seduction02/09/21 12:01 PM
5

Outside of dating what is your social life like? Get a few guy friends and start doing social things together. Join a coed recreational volleyball team. Let your Friends help calibrate you to the social clues and interacting with women. Get a couple of female casual friends with zero intention of dating them. They will help match you with other women.
/r/seduction01/09/21 08:18 PM
2

Is the truth. When I'm dating it tends to be around 4 or 5 women a year. Sometimes there is a relationship for a year or two that's monogamous. Some years it's extra busy 🏃. After you hit 20 or so, the number becomes irrelevant.
/r/seduction01/09/21 06:31 PM
14

Five per year for 10 years 🤓
/r/seduction01/09/21 09:02 AM
1

The girl walked by me in a hallway. Does this mean she likes me?
/r/seduction31/08/21 10:23 PM
3

You need to friend zone her. Start dating other women who won't play games. When she starts pushing to regain your attention, tell her you're busy. Never tell her directly, but let it slip to a few co-workers that you're dating another woman. She'll find out about it.
/r/seduction31/08/21 09:25 PM
1

Ask them out on a date.
/r/seduction31/08/21 05:17 AM
2

It's embarrassing, especially with too much sexting. But that is common on a first meet. Guys can get much better with repeated meets with the same woman. Since you sound interested, send him a message saying "don't worry about last time. I had a good time with you and I want to go a few more rounds."
/r/seduction31/08/21 04:53 AM
2

I'm concerned about you getting too invested and getting hurt. There's a chance she could decide you're the better option but the odds are against you. Also if you have other women in the mix, it should help you better maintain proper expectations.
/r/seduction29/08/21 07:03 PM
3

Being an asshole is rarely a good move. It's a misunderstanding of what makes a guy seem attractive. It actually shows weakness and lack of control. The strong move is being calm and collected. Show a woman that you enjoy being with her, but you're also 100% fine without her. You don't do that with words, but with actions.
/r/seduction29/08/21 02:27 PM
2

You need options. Put 80% effort into other women. Be happy if you can FWB and smash but don't seriously expect her to leave that guy for you. Even if she seems to come around there will be risk of her flaking in the future and running back to him. Then you'll feel like shit. Don't invest more into her, then she invests into you. Show her a little bit of what you have to offer but keep it scarce. Don't give her free validation, she has to earn it.
/r/seduction29/08/21 02:17 PM
9

You sound like a kid throwing a tantrum. Multiple red flags in your post and other comment.
/r/seduction29/08/21 01:53 PM
3

Either straight up ignore them. Or, ride it and have fun. Self-depreciating humor. Show that you can take it, joke with them, don't give a fuck, and it disarms all power in their negativity. PLUS, a major knock that women give to guys who are higher tier is that they are arrogant or too into themselves. By going the low-key humble route you will dispel a top concern from the women.
/r/seduction29/08/21 03:49 AM
8

Do what you girls always do. Wear your super revealing leggings and do all of your butt exercises in front of him, while pretending such things are normal and guys aren't supposed to look.
/r/seduction28/08/21 06:56 PM
2

Find a new girl
/r/seduction25/08/21 09:51 PM
7

make her drip
/r/seduction25/08/21 09:33 AM
33

You saw her Onlyfans and decided to look her up.
/r/seduction25/08/21 08:56 AM
5

Next time get her number! She gave you a big opening. She's latina and asked you about dancing. Whether you know how or not, you could have easily asked if she wanted to go salsa dancing. If she already knows then you can just ask her to teach you. If she doesn't then offer to take her to learn at a beginners night.
/r/seduction25/08/21 12:10 AM
9

"my whole life could be ruined" And you're contemplating going forward with it? Let that sink in. At least wait a year man! There's way too many women out there to be thinking like that. Scarcity mentality you're working with.
/r/seduction23/08/21 06:44 PM
5

You're close enough to share a hotel halfway for a weekend of sex.
/r/seduction23/08/21 09:22 AM
3

Get on valtrex if you want. You might decide to only take it if you're actively dating or in a relationship. You can also get a topical ointment of valtrex to put directly on the cold sore. Start using it the moment you feel any strange itchy or tingles. After a year or two the outbreaks will probably become pretty rare. Sticking to a proper diet, exercise, and weight, will help. And don't get hung up on everyone's home remedies. You'll be fine.
/r/seduction23/08/21 07:35 AM
1

Just ask why did you disappear? Maybe you will get some closure and peace of mind. Other than that, erase all of her contact info and never talk to her again.
/r/seduction23/08/21 07:16 AM
4

I had sex the first month at college. I was sitting in the dorm lounge watching a public TV. There was only one sofa, and there was a girl there watching/studying too. It was later at night and we were the only two there. She started to get flirty while eating twizzlers. She would bite the whole 6 in off and was just dangling it from her mouth. Eventually I just leaned over and snatched one from her mouth, Lady and the Tramp style. It was on after that and we continued hooking up for a few month…
/r/seduction23/08/21 06:58 AM
2

Guys here: I'm 25 and a virgin. Why do women make it so difficult? Also: I'm upset when women make it easy.
/r/seduction22/08/21 01:32 PM
2

Patrice was so amazing and one of a kind. It's sad he went so young. Pretty much committed suicide by refusing even the most minimal amount of self care.
/r/seduction22/08/21 09:23 AM
3

I don't mind if a gf has male friends but there needs to be healthy boundaries. Your girl is violating that. Let's pretend she's being completely honest. Do you want to be with a woman who is so fragile that she feels sick just because she didn't see her friend? Whether she is honest, or lying, either is bad news.
/r/seduction22/08/21 09:02 AM
3

Damn man that's actually legit advice.
/r/seduction21/08/21 07:59 PM
2

That's fucking hilarious! I wish I was at the party to watch it unfold. Id take your girl home and let her get in some revenge sex while she tells me how you never made her cum. Then we'd post a few suggestive pics on IG for you to discover. You're making it easier for the rest of us. Thanks mate!
/r/seduction21/08/21 07:57 PM
10

Repulsion. Revulsion. Disgust.
/r/seduction21/08/21 07:40 PM
5

Great story old man! That's what happens when you're bold enough to take a shot.
/r/seduction21/08/21 05:00 AM
15

That bitch used me for sex!...AWESOME!
/r/seduction21/08/21 04:36 AM
1

Wow, OP bailed and deleted in 10 minutes!
/r/seduction21/08/21 12:45 AM
26

Then you can call your girlfriend over for seconds.
/r/seduction20/08/21 11:40 PM
78

I love when it's the woman who wants to bail early for some private time.
/r/seduction20/08/21 11:37 PM
30

Having a chick ghost after sex is pretty hot
/r/seduction20/08/21 11:29 PM
61

I've had similar. Met a girl at a downtown bar during happy hour. Had just 1 drink. Then we walked around the city for about an hour, held her hand as we went. Kissed her a bit. Got her number then went home. 30 minutes later she's calling and asking if I'm busy. She lived the opposite direction from me and I didn't feel like leaving home again. She ended up driving 40 minutes back across the city to come to my place. Think a lot of the guys here don't realize how much opportunity is out there i…
/r/seduction20/08/21 11:25 PM
-5

Isn't it supposed to be cheesy romantic movie to tell her lots of specific details to prove how much you care for her? I know you love red geraniums even though they make you sneeze. You use your left pinky finger to tuck your hair behind your ear when it's windy. Your favorite ice cream is mint chocolate chip, but you choose Rocky road if it's a cloudy day. 😳😍😙💖💕
/r/seduction19/08/21 04:05 PM
3

It's absolutely fine to be yourself if you're a normal, successful, socially competent man. However if your life is a mess, and things aren't working the way you want, then why would you continue on the same path?
/r/seduction19/08/21 08:41 AM
2

Go to kyil forum and tell them you want to do the approach anxiety program. https://killyourinnerloser.com/
/r/seduction19/08/21 08:05 AM
1

Yep. No way for us to know, especially with so little information. Also, women who are so much younger are really flaky. Even if he's very interested, he knows she could change her mind and end everything the next day. For him opening up is dangerous.
/r/seduction18/08/21 04:05 PM
8

Every pua says they feel fear and anxiety over approaching. It comes down to courage, and being able to manage feelings of discomfort, and learning how to push through it. People make it out to be bigger than it is though. It's easier than most think to have small conversations, or a little flirtation. Just yesterday I was taking my boat onto the river. 1 dock over was a woman standing alone waiting for a while. I yelled over to her, "are you waiting for a hot date?" She said her friends were lo…
/r/seduction18/08/21 03:45 PM
12

They would choose either of those guys over someone who's concerned with this kind of question.
/r/seduction18/08/21 02:55 PM
2

Be careful with women who don't let go of their ex. It's common to breakup and test the waters. A few weeks or months later she will go running back to him. She'll give a weak excuse for breaking it off with you like she's just not ready, or she's really busy with school.
/r/seduction15/08/21 09:46 PM
1

Join a biker gang and start selling meth
/r/seduction15/08/21 07:44 PM
5

Dear Reddit, I've been simping a girl for over a year but lately she's slow to respond. Should I break up with her?
/r/seduction15/08/21 11:23 AM
2

What happens when you ask her on a date?
/r/seduction15/08/21 11:05 AM
26

Just lay on your back and stick your D in the air. If she jumps on top, you're good to go.
/r/seduction14/08/21 11:51 PM
1

What if he does it while watching The Virgin Suicides? Mind blown. 🤯 https://youtu.be/8kDcCGlaBwY
/r/seduction14/08/21 07:07 PM
2

she's obviously not very interested for one reason or another. OLD is flaky and unreliable. That's why you should be working multiple options. I would take a first come, first serve mentality. If one is too slow and misses out that's her problem.
/r/seduction14/08/21 03:52 AM
1

To open try to reference something from her bio, or picture. It really doesn't matter specifically. Exchange a few messages and then get straight to the point, meeting in person. Try being direct. It's better to be specific. "Hey I'd like to meet and get to know you better. Are you free on Thursday or Friday?" Then pick whatever you want for an excuse to go somewhere specific. "I I heard about this place I want to check out because:" This place is supposed to have the best ice cream, Coffee, Bee…
/r/seduction14/08/21 03:22 AM
7

I see Tinder a lot like a sales job. You have to strike while it's hot. In sales it was important to be the very first person they talk to. If a lead came in, you didn't wait until the afternoon, or the next day, to contact the client. You contact them NOW. If you end up being the fourth person then the client was already burned out and doesn't want to deal with the sales process anymore. Guys do way too much texting. When you match with a girl you need to move the process forward ASAP. Get her …
/r/seduction14/08/21 02:31 AM
1

You say she's never orgasmed, and then that she orgasms once a month. Which is it? Buy her a vibrator and tell her to practice by herself. FYI, a woman doesn't need to orgasm to enjoy sex. Focusing on the orgasm is the wrong idea. Many women care about INTIMACY and the overall experience.
/r/seduction13/08/21 12:45 PM
1

Keep the reservation. Go hardcore and mass approach any and everywhere. Be straightforward and say "I have reservations to a great restaurant and I'm looking for a date to join me." You might be surprised how well it works. Find a fun New girl and have a good time. Don't even cancel on the current girl. Strongly consider erasing all contact information. Walk away and never look back.
/r/seduction13/08/21 08:26 AM
1

Does your City have those electric scooters that can be rented? Grab a pair of those and cruise around some parks, lakes, rivers.
/r/seduction12/08/21 10:03 PM
-2

Sure, but the headline asks what did "I" do 👌 fully 50% of my first dates are simply meeting for drinks. Also have you considered atheism? Does your religion allow a 15-year-old to date? Premarital sex?
/r/seduction12/08/21 10:01 PM
1

I met her at a bar and had some alcoholic beverages.
/r/seduction12/08/21 07:18 PM
3

I'm sure as hell not going to fully watch 100 videos to give you an in depth review. That's your job, not mine. I already addressed it. They are simplistic and extreme, but the basic concepts are on the mark.
/r/seduction11/08/21 06:01 AM
2

rec league volleyball
/r/seduction11/08/21 01:38 AM
96

Take some ownership for your issues instead of blaming the YouTubers. They have no control over your anxiety. That's all you. I just took a look at Tripp and the general message seems fine to me. Some of it's simplistic and taken to the extreme. That's fine, a lot of life is like that. It's your job to be savvy enough to find the nuances, find the wisdom, and discard the trash. For example, only text a woman to set up a date. That's too extreme, but the general concept is reasonable. Stop using …
/r/seduction10/08/21 09:25 PM
1

You don't have to drink, and there are a thousand other ways to meet women. That being said, there's benefit to learning how to socialize like most people. Go out, have a couple drinks, have some fun. There are more options than abstinence vs blackout drunk. Some of the biggest disasters I've seen were the guys who didn't drink at all. Then they loosen up around 3rd or 4th year and try to join in. They never learned their limits or how to drink responsibly, and end up in the hospital. Seen it mu…
/r/seduction10/08/21 06:43 PM
1

100% guaranteed. That's what the website says 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction08/08/21 10:31 PM
2

Poor lad thought she needed help with some plumbing. She asked if he could come over and help unclog her pipes. 👨‍🔧🪠💦
/r/seduction08/08/21 08:04 PM
2

Instead of fuck boy they used to say "player". My friends think you're a player 🤷‍♂️ It matters if she's looking for a relationship, or if she's concerned about feeling cheap and used.
/r/seduction08/08/21 06:27 PM
24

Both of you can share the same clothes. Chicks love clothes.
/r/seduction06/08/21 09:25 AM
7

Hi. What's your name?
/r/seduction05/08/21 03:52 AM
2

I've seen a woman file a harassment report after someone tapped her shoulder to get her attention when she was blocking a walkway to chat with her friend. Saw a nurse file a report after a discussion regarding sexual side effects when giving Viagra to a cardiac patient. Viagra is a common treatment with such patients. 🤦‍♂️ Bang away brother.
/r/seduction05/08/21 02:54 AM
5

oh you got me good! If you work at Olive garden then go for it, it's like you're still in high school. The woke professional world is a different monster. That's the point. You don't have to do anything wrong to get fired for sexual harassment. Just upset the wrong psycho bitch. I'm not Dead set against dating "coworkers" loosely speaking. Pick someone from another floor or department entirely. I'm not going to mess with the hundred people I work with directly.
/r/seduction04/08/21 10:12 PM
21

Don't come complaining after you get fired for sexual harassment. Might as well fuck your best friend's girl while you're at it. It's a scarcity mentality. There's enough women out there that taking such risks are unnecessary.
/r/seduction04/08/21 09:45 PM
2

Congrats! It's a good example how often success happens just by showing up.
/r/seduction04/08/21 09:39 PM
6

Those are prostitutes 🤣 two hot women hung out with a friend of mine in Vegas for an evening. When he tried to leave the casino they demanded he pay them for their time. Made a big scene. Eventually grabbed his phone, smashed it, and ran away! He had a hard time explaining that one to his wife. 😆
/r/seduction04/08/21 07:17 PM
1

It definitely happens in party type settings. Women will get competitive to win a guy. At New years a woman straight up begged to be her midnight kiss. More commonly watch for things like, touching him, sitting on a guy's lap, being loud and drawing attention (putting on funny sunglasses or a hat). When these attempts fail watch for the last-ditch effort of throwing a temper tantrum, or the tears come out so the guy will come save her.
/r/seduction04/08/21 07:13 PM
7

Better to go hard on her than hard on yourself.
/r/seduction04/08/21 06:06 AM
1

you'll be fine As long as your boner is taller than her tits.
/r/seduction04/08/21 01:47 AM
1

Maybe she rejects the tall guy too because she doesn't like his eye color 🤷‍♂️ or he doesn't make enough money. Oh well, focus your effort on women who are interested in you.
/r/seduction04/08/21 01:43 AM
1

I would look at it as height affects the size of one's pool of potential mates. Generally a taller guy will have more women to choose from. However, Most guys have a potential dating pool that's far larger than they will ever have time to exhaust. it's just one of many factors that have similar effects: personality, body type, fitness, facial attractiveness, fashion, intelligence, career, money. Why focus on the one thing you have almost no control over?
/r/seduction04/08/21 01:41 AM
0

ah man I was gonna offer some legit advice too except the woke downvote. Can't help someone without a sense of humor.
/r/seduction02/08/21 06:02 AM
2

If you weren't so woke you could go full MAGA and grab her by the virginia.
/r/seduction02/08/21 05:41 AM
12

He didn't like my healthcare response either. 🤷‍♂️🤣
/r/seduction02/08/21 04:31 AM
1

Work several back to back 13 hour shifts in a hospital and then tell me you also have enough time for random bs texts to placate someone's insecurity. No thanks. I'll find someone who can manage being an adult alone for a day or two. Unless you also want to come do my laundry and have dinner ready when I get home.
/r/seduction02/08/21 02:52 AM
7

Yeah go up and get her number directly, then never text just to Mindfk her.
/r/seduction01/08/21 08:38 PM
6

Leave her. Then you'll be happy, and she can end up with someone less judgmental. Win win.
/r/seduction01/08/21 09:29 AM
3

Women make fun of the good looking fk boi all the time. And how often do guys come here saying I look pretty good, and I work out, but Im 25 and never had a gf?
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:29 AM
22

Fuck that. Leave her on the side of the road and delete her info from your phone.
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:25 AM
2

Elon is making babies with a hot psycho chick, and now you can too. Order today!
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:18 AM
5

Legit explanation. Even an ugly face dude with fashion and personality can do well.
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:16 AM
4

If you're 7+ you'll be fine. If you're borderline 5\6 you're gonna struggle. That's total package, not just appearance. It sounds like you're lacking in the General social department. The economics of dating. The entire west coast is against you to some degree, and SF is some of the worst in the US. The difference of 45\55 for men\women vs 55\45 is the difference between "put a ring on it" vs "it's ok if you have a side chick". It's the reason easy hot Russian brides became a thing. So either ra…
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:11 AM
3

She likes you and your attention. She loves the casual sex. You're probably the kind of guy she thinks she should settle down with. However, expect her to flake at some point and get into a relationship with a rich guy or some alpha brute. She still might be willing to hook up on random occasions after that happens. Enjoy it for what it is. Go for it if you want. maybe you can be the exception, but most likely she's going to bring you pain in the long run.
/r/seduction30/07/21 09:26 PM
1

One pair of nice shoes will last a long time, and your feet won't change. $60 at a shoe warehouse. One nice shirt, another $50 and you're ready for a date. I assume you already have a pair of jeans.
/r/seduction30/07/21 06:40 PM
11

Don't be sexist. He can wear whatever he wants.
/r/seduction30/07/21 05:39 AM
3

high heels and a push-up bra
/r/seduction30/07/21 03:38 AM
3

The generational differences are hilarious to me as a 40 y/o. Seeing younger people freak out when a text isn't returned within an hour is too funny. I'll happily ignore you for days at a time. Why waste all the banter over text? Save something to talk about for when you're actually meeting. Plus it gives incentive for women to meet up, that's the time when she can have your attention.
/r/seduction30/07/21 03:26 AM
3

Probably the best way to play it is to ghost for a while. After a month, ask her out on a specific date. Don't even acknowledge what she said before, act like it never happened. Don't do a bunch of texting back and forth. Get right to the point. Hey do you want to meet for dinner this week and catch up?
/r/seduction27/07/21 02:49 AM
2

Why do these DMs smell like fish?
/r/seduction26/07/21 01:25 AM
13

Say, hey let's go to XYZ Friday. What's your number and I'll text you? Zzz. You don't need some secret formula.
/r/seduction23/07/21 02:28 AM
1

Don't chase women who aren't interested in you. Ghost and move onto the next one.
/r/seduction22/07/21 05:23 AM
1

Probably because they barely remember you after a day. Or they were never really interested in the first place. Either way, you didn't make a good enough impression in person. I disagree with waiting longer. Best chance, is message the next day and push for a date quickly before they forget everything about your interaction.
/r/seduction20/07/21 09:19 PM
1

They focus on self improvement and offer direct, actionable advice. Most of the responses in this thread have just been sympathy with little advice to improve the situation. And it's likely not going to be solved with a single paragraph. Need a comprehensive solution.
/r/seduction20/07/21 06:11 PM
3

Join the forums here and actually follow through on the advice you receive. https://killyourinnerloser.com/
/r/seduction20/07/21 12:22 AM
1

Just do whatever is appropriate and natural. you don't need to lead with a compliment but you can. Everyone likes compliments. You could lead 100 different ways. Don't people know how to have a normal conversation?
/r/seduction18/07/21 07:25 AM
3

CrossFit. Get down to 200lbs. Those gyms are like a cult. You'll make friends if you become a regular. When you get down to a more reasonable size, I would get into rec volleyball, or Brazilian jiu-jitsu. For now, a hiking group or social dining group could be a good option. Since you might be a nerdy gamer type, see if there are any board game groups nearby.
/r/seduction17/07/21 11:57 PM
2

maybe the "creepy" women are hoping to meet men.
/r/seduction17/07/21 07:45 AM
1

They're all around you, but your probably focused on the 21 y/o. Just under 1/2 of people get divorced. You're only at the front end, women get married around your age. You'll see. Women rush into marriage in their 20s and divorce in their 30s. They'll stick around until the kids are old enough to cook a frozen pizza, then bail on the father. They are plotting this with their other unhappily married friends. A 35 y/o woman won't take you seriously but she might be (very) happy to use your hard 2…
/r/seduction17/07/21 05:45 AM
3

Don't know what to tell ya. I've found FWBs with regularity. Seems plenty common with the single mothers and divorced crowd. They're refreshing because they're just happy to have a good time and not trying to tie someone down. Other times its the college grad student who's boyfriend doesn't do it for her.
/r/seduction17/07/21 04:07 AM
54

Sometimes single moms in their 30s go for FWB. They are too busy for a full relationship but still want to have a good time once a week when they have free time. Divorced women in general, but especially around age 40. They have their career going, own a house. They don't want you moving in and fucking everything up. They have their divorced friends, yoga, and coffee. There's limited time left for a man. Happy to bang one out once or twice a week. Any young woman still in her party phase. Any wo…
/r/seduction16/07/21 05:21 PM
1

Move to South Dakota.
/r/seduction01/07/21 07:19 AM
1

Ask how cavernous her pussy is, and whether you need to bring a headlamp to avoid getting lost inside.
/r/seduction30/06/21 09:52 PM
26

Volleyball is a great hobby for meeting women.
/r/seduction30/06/21 07:00 PM
0

Hmm I had the opposite encounter. Met a girl at a bar, vibing 20 minutes. Then her friends showed up. They all wanted to salsa (I didn't), and I didn't want to be the one stranger in the group so I tried to bail. Several of the friends begged me to take her home and rail her. Being a gentleman, I respected their wishes.
/r/seduction29/06/21 08:37 PM
1

Remember, if a girl slaps you, that is still not a "no". Keep trying.
/r/seduction27/06/21 06:00 PM
1

My go to move is to recite the Gettysburg Address. Guaranteed panty soaker. Though sometimes with a black chick I go full MLK with "I have a dream". It's not offensive. They love when you show interest in their culture. Usually results in an instabang back at my place.
/r/seduction27/06/21 05:56 PM
1

Stick to women near your age.
/r/seduction22/06/21 08:18 AM
1

Don't get drunk. People are going to meet and hangout. So go meet and hang out. Some people will probably know each other already so it can feel awkward when you don't know anyone. Keep going to events and it will get better.
/r/seduction22/06/21 08:14 AM
1

Consider this. You give your partner permission to be with other guys but she still chooses to be with you. That's a powerful revelation IMO. One could argue the protective guy does so out of insecurity. If he's the better guy then he shouldn't need to keep her locked away. And there are endless types of arrangements. There's a difference between her being with another guy while you're busy working or out with your friends, versus ditching you when you're available. In the first situation she is…
/r/seduction19/06/21 07:07 PM
1

Get into recreational volleyball. Decide your going to be dedicated and become a decent player. You'll work on general athleticism and skill. Take time to practice, get coaching, whatever it takes. It will lead to you naturally developing a social circle and making friends. Other viable alternatives, join a MMA gym, or Brazilian jiu-jitsu. BJJ would change your life. Same concept as volleyball. Every person like the OP that I make this suggestion to, have always given an excuse to not do it.
/r/seduction18/06/21 12:50 AM
2

Flip the script in your head. Have some self-worth. When someone rejects you think, fuck them. It's their loss.
/r/seduction18/06/21 12:33 AM
3

Yes it's a red flag if a 30 year old woman has never had a serious relationship. Same goes for men. That's not normal and it doesn't just happen by accident. You can still give it a chance. People can grow and change. However, there's an underlying issue and it will show itself. I'm friends with a woman who didn't lose her virginity until she was 30. She's now approaching 40 and still hasn't managed much beyond some casual fuck buddy relationships. Some psychological issues holding her back, for…
/r/seduction18/06/21 12:29 AM
65

"Everyone has a plan 'till they get punched in the mouth"
/r/seduction13/05/21 05:13 AM
4

"You would look great mounted on the wall next to my trophy buck."
/r/seduction09/05/21 09:36 PM
7

I'll leave the rest, but: Western women have a reputation of being shallow, superficial, entitled. There seems to be an excess of selfies, tik tok videos, and single moms. Throw in "Toxic Masculinity and Me Too". Other parts of the world appreciate men instead of painting them as pedophile rapists. Manspreading = evil Showing cleavage = body positivity
/r/seduction08/05/21 07:20 AM
0

You need to get into the trench coat game. Most gals are into it if you flash them in public.
/r/seduction08/05/21 07:00 AM
1

Quaternary Trumps all
/r/seduction08/05/21 06:28 AM
2

Make women secondary to your life.
/r/seduction08/05/21 06:24 AM
3

No way for us to know. Push the subject more. Better to be rejected sooner than later.
/r/seduction08/05/21 04:07 AM
6

Humor is comforting. It can help diffuse uncomfortable situations like meeting someone for the first time. Women typically rate humor as an attractive quality. At it's root, humor is a sign of intelligence. It shows understanding of norms and social cues (relatability, empathy), and creative thinking when twisting those things.
/r/seduction08/05/21 01:40 AM
1

LA is better, but it's the same trend. I'd say the reason people think LA is good has more to do with a decent social scene, so there's opportunity to meet people. Men out number women up to about age 35. Raleigh appeals to me in general. Good sized Metro but not a monster like LA or NY. Good climate. Moderate politics. Oceans and mountains 2 hours away. Fair cost of living. For comparison ages 22 to 39: there are 95 men per 100 women. Purely on demographics, the northeast as a whole has an exce…
/r/seduction07/05/21 11:15 PM
1

That's because men die younger than women. If you're looking to date 80 year old women be my guest. Seattle college age there are 92 women for every 100 men. Age 22 to 39: there are 96 women per 100 men. Those demographics reverse on the East Coast.
/r/seduction07/05/21 10:53 PM
0

Male to female ratio definitely matters. The West Coast in general has more men, and the bay is the worst. As you move east across the US there are more and more women. NYC had a great reputation for single women before the pandemic. I have no desire for that madhouse though. Fuck DC. Other cities with better ratios that are worth considering: Chicago, Dallas, Minneapolis, Nashville. Atlanta and Miami too, if you're otherwise okay with high crime and shitty politics. But my top vote would be for…
/r/seduction07/05/21 06:14 AM
1

Women are also attracted to signs of youth. Muscle tone. Good posture. Steady movement, athleticism. Low belly fat. Healthy looking skin. White teeth. Lack of wrinkles. Hair on head, not gray. It's obvious if you stop and think about it. Think of the top cosmetic interventions for men. Surgically men more commonly get eyelid lifts, and reducing wrinkles around the eyes. Hair restoration. Teeth whitening. Face cream or moisturizers. Would people do these things if they didn't work? Shoe lifts to …
/r/seduction05/05/21 07:57 PM
1

Friendzone her without any expectation she will become more. Treat her like a friend and talk to her about the other women you are interested in. Maybe she will help play matchmaker. It's very powerful to have a woman on your side. Maybe jealousy or the threat of losing you will force her to step up (again have no expectation of this, but it's a possibility). Or maybe it will reveal she doesn't give a fuck about you. Regardless, chasing other women is the answer.
/r/seduction01/05/21 02:18 PM
2

TLDR: doing things in life will give you things to talk about. Be involved in some hobbies and activities. Do you play a musical instrument? Are you on a sports team? Talk about the drunk guy playing volleyball on the other team. Oh my God he was so drunk the ball smashed him in the face. Did you guys meet up for chips and salsa at the Mexican restaurant later? Some of the best salsa you've ever had. Hey you could offer to take her sometime... Are you learning photography? Really what style? May…
/r/seduction20/04/21 06:25 PM
5

I agree, use the observation method. Did you notice the cool ceiling lights in the other room? I've never seen those before. I think they would look great in my kitchen. Here, come take a look and tell me what you think... Try observing people together. Play a game where the two of you guess people's relationship. Are they brother and sister? Mother and daughter? Are they two co-workers who hate each other?
/r/seduction20/04/21 06:10 PM
2

Fun as cancer
/r/seduction18/04/21 04:34 PM
3

It also wouldn't work if you lived inside of a volcano, or lived on the international space station. 🙄 It also probably will not work if you're an annoying person who points out obvious things.
/r/seduction18/04/21 09:29 AM
3

What about in places like Colombia where flaking is the cultural norm? In Costa Rica, your own doctor might flake on your medical appointment. :/
/r/seduction16/01/21 03:05 AM
22

being fit and ugly is better than fat and ugly.
/r/seduction26/10/20 05:42 AM
2

Hell no. Don't even give her the time of day. Turn her into a nobody in your life. Be polite, professional, and that's it. Keep your interactions plain, boring, and short. Don't do it with the hope of turning her around. Do it because you are over her and shut her out of your brain. You're no longer interested. Many women will then push harder for your attention. It doesn't mean they are more interested in you. They just want your attention, validation, back up plan, whatever. Stick to your guns…
/r/seduction08/09/20 12:54 AM
1

Who knows where we can find them? Maybe they migrate and are only around certain times of the year. I heard they have some in Canada.
/r/seduction08/09/20 12:26 AM
1

I guess it's like naming your kid Uneek.
/r/MensRights04/09/20 01:52 AM
-14

*Yawn* Zzzz.
/r/MensRights30/08/20 07:08 AM
1

It would be good for men when women only post six head shots and none of their body.
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