| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | When women turn the conversation sexual... what the hell does it mean (I'm dense.)fuck. | /r/seduction | 29/10/13 12:28 AM |
| 1 | "But this one girl", "she's amazing", "she's different", etc. One vid to fix a lot of people here's problems with girls. 10 mins to change your lifeI have been working on that as sort of my main project when it comes to women. I figure if I work to improve myself and my confidence then thats at least making SOME progress when it comes to potentially finding a relationship. | /r/seduction | 07/10/13 08:18 PM |
| 1 | "But this one girl", "she's amazing", "she's different", etc. One vid to fix a lot of people here's problems with girls. 10 mins to change your lifeI literally live with 2 couples who have been dating since high school (4-5 years) and are extremely emotionally dependent on each other. Or at least, in relationship A the girl is extremely dependent and in relationship B they both are extremely dependent. So I guess whats going on there is very untypical. And I would really like to keep emotion in it, as I am only looking for a relationship and not a one night stand. I am aware no one owes me shit, ive learned that lesson a while ago. Ive lear… | /r/seduction | 07/10/13 03:57 AM |
| 24 | "But this one girl", "she's amazing", "she's different", etc. One vid to fix a lot of people here's problems with girls. 10 mins to change your lifeholy fuck i didnt think i objectified girls but hot damn i guess i do. | /r/seduction | 06/10/13 10:57 PM |
| 2 | Why can I relax and be confident around woman I'm not interested in, but can't and get friend zoned with all the woman I am?This hits the nail pretty much on the head. Ive been practicing my kino more and more recently, and I am becoming more comfortable with it, but it still feels kinda awkward. Even grinding on girls feels awkward to me if I'm not intoxicated. Guess I just need more exposure, and its gonna suck until i expose myself enough to be comfortable. I'm ashamed that I'm ashed of my sexuality -.- Thanks for your advice man, youre one of the first people to really understand what I have been trying to say | /r/seduction | 27/09/13 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Why can I relax and be confident around woman I'm not interested in, but can't and get friend zoned with all the woman I am?Yeah i think this is my issue. My diet is not the greatest, not as bad as it once was, but still it could be improved. I gotta teach myself to cook I guess. I started lifting and I think thats been helping out for my health, that is one improvement I've noticed. As for hobbies, thats pretty much limited to drugs/drug saftey/LoL/other video games/internet. Don't have many interests in life | /r/seduction | 26/09/13 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Why can I relax and be confident around woman I'm not interested in, but can't and get friend zoned with all the woman I am?I tried not caring, and thats currently what I'm doing, but nothings really different. I act like myself, which is just acting friendly. Acting like myself pretty much guarantees I won't be laying a hand on them, and will simply sit there and talk. (as that is what I am comfortable with doing) | /r/seduction | 26/09/13 10:16 PM |
| 6 | Why can I relax and be confident around woman I'm not interested in, but can't and get friend zoned with all the woman I am?Ok so you said theres never any pressure to impress but what if like, I feel that there is ALWAYS pressure to impress??? How do I kill that feeling?? | /r/seduction | 26/09/13 05:11 PM |
| -1 | Why "Nice Guys" are often such LOSERS. You hear it all the time: "He was such a NICE Guy, and she's such a Heartless Bitch for dumping him."Haha fuck :D | /r/seduction | 02/09/13 08:33 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Two Weeks In, Kino Mistakeif i followed this advice i would never touch anyone ever cause im uncomfortable with it. Gotta force yourself outta that shell otherwise no progress is made | /r/seduction | 05/05/13 09:24 PM |
| 2 | To all those wondering "How on earth do I fake confidence?! I still don't know what to say..." Here's some thoughts.Fuck yes i love this. | /r/seduction | 26/04/13 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Getting over fear has never been this hardI haven't take mushrooms in over a year and a half, and was considering taking them again to work on my irrational thoughts and attempt to concur some false beliefs. I am definitely not using them as a crutch at this point. I like that that. I really do just need to go out and expect to crash and burn and just be super stoked when I don't, and think of everything as a success and not get attached to an outcome. I've been watching some RSD videos, such as the Wake up for Hard Case newbies and oth… | /r/seduction | 26/04/13 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Getting over fear has never been this hardI've pretty much always just focused on myself having fun at parties, and it has not yet worked to get me any closer to any hook ups what so ever. I don't really project that view in real life, I'll still talk about all that shit NGAF if other people think its nerdy or anything, its just there is literally no one I can talk to about them so it just ends up me mentioning them, and no one else knows anything about them. (Specifically LoL) About your anxiety – it's not real. I mean that, IT'S NOT R… | /r/seduction | 25/04/13 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Getting over fear has never been this hard"Shift your focus from NEEDING to talk to women, to simply having fun." I have a problem with this. I wouldn't ever talk to girls if I didn't force myself, cause talking to them is the opposite of fun. They are not about to talk about League of Legends, Cartoons, Pokemon, or any other things I actually am interested in. If I shift my focus then I'll just be stuck where I am... Or at least it feels that way. Oh and almost every other point you made seems damn near impossible while dealing with an… | /r/seduction | 25/04/13 05:47 AM |
| 2 | Listen to Her Actions, not Her WordsConfusing≠interesting imo And I think a little masculinity in a girl isn't a bad thing, especially if it contributes to her similar interests as mine. | /r/seduction | 21/04/13 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Listen to Her Actions, not Her WordsTrying to micromanage their expectations, their impression of you etc. is entirely futile. But it's also entirely unecessary Fuck. I'm like a book, jesus. You would be correct as I have never been in a relationship with a girl, partly due to me never even asking, and partly due to a whole bunch of other stuff as well I would assume. I wouldn't accept bad behavior, i would be like you gotta stop doing that or we gotta figure something else out. And I don't think all implicit communication is mani… | /r/seduction | 20/04/13 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Listen to Her Actions, not Her WordsThank god you say that. When it comes to women I've always thought I would do much better in a post-college world cause I'm looking for something real, and in something real communication is key. | /r/seduction | 20/04/13 04:01 PM |
| 0 | Listen to Her Actions, not Her WordsYeah this is exactly how I feel. Reading stuff in this sub makes me think I'm like tricking girls into fucking me, and I don't wanna manipulate someone into doing that, I want them to genuinely want to do it. But, I also want a GF more than just to learn how to fuck a bunch of girls too, so my end goal is quite a bit different than many others here. | /r/seduction | 20/04/13 03:59 PM |
| 42 | Listen to Her Actions, not Her WordsOh god this makes me never even want to try. I think implicit communication is fucking retarded, because as adults we should all be able to speak our minds and communicate using words to get our point across. I can't read minds, and I'm not going to try. You either tell me what the fucking problem is or I'm just going to be confused. Sigh. I'm so fucked when it comes to being a PUA | /r/seduction | 20/04/13 02:52 AM |
| 1 | I came here because I wanted a girlfriend..I already did all of that last July -.- | /r/seduction | 19/04/13 10:24 PM |
| 1 | I came here because I wanted a girlfriend..I recognize that even now... I think its completely insane, completely irrational, and not something I should still care about. Which is why it bothers me even more that I still fucking care. The only positive I can think of about it is that I can see myself slowly caring less and less, but its just taking too much time/happening too slowly. | /r/seduction | 19/04/13 10:10 PM |
| 1 | I came here because I wanted a girlfriend..Yep thats what I figured. Thats why I started to try harder in school, cut back on my drug intake, and start lifting, do more cardio, and started to meditate/practice mindfulness. I figure all these self invests will allow me to feel good about my self and where I'm headed. | /r/seduction | 19/04/13 10:03 PM |
| 1 | I came here because I wanted a girlfriend..Well, yeah, cause so far in my life thats been true. I've gotten attention from a girl in a way like that only once... But I do understand that I need to get out of that mind set if I want to progress out of my hard case newbieness. | /r/seduction | 19/04/13 09:07 PM |
| 1 | I came here because I wanted a girlfriend..Haha yeah... I made the mistake of "distracting" my self by increasing the amount of weed I smoked to an insane level and using that as a coping mechanism which eventually just led to me sitting in my own self pity. At least I know what not to do for next time lol | /r/seduction | 19/04/13 03:21 PM |
| 1 | I came here because I wanted a girlfriend..I mean, if a girl had feelings for me in that way, I would feel honored, but maybes thats just me I guess. It would feel good to know that someone had feelings for me in that way, even if I didn't reciprocate them. | /r/seduction | 19/04/13 03:19 PM |
| 2 | I came here because I wanted a girlfriend..No thank you | /r/seduction | 19/04/13 03:17 PM |
| 1 | I came here because I wanted a girlfriend..I know.... That in it selfs bothers me. Its like, dayum, how long am I gonna hold onto this shit? I should be over it, i should have been over it fucking months ago, but for some reason its just taking me fucking forever. I'm definitely more over it than I was 6 months ago but I'm still not 100% ready to go. Its fucking frustrating. | /r/seduction | 19/04/13 03:16 PM |
| 5 | I came here because I wanted a girlfriend..I dunno I just thought she was awesome from when I first saw/talked to her I instantly had a major crush on her. Fuck. Like she was actually special to me, but I fucked something up at some point in time to get into the friendzone. Im still not over it, and its been almost a year, but I try really really hard to pretend I'm over but it still bothers me. Well I got off topic fast, sorry for the venting haha | /r/seduction | 19/04/13 05:54 AM |
| 6 | I came here because I wanted a girlfriend..I mean, I guess my problem was is that I thought I was SO above her level, and I thought she should be thanking the lord that I was into her. So it confused me when she didn't respond to my interest. (Among other things she pulled which showed she definitely had interest then she would pull a 360 the next day, which leads me to think she was a crazy girl who didn't know what she wanted) Obviously in hindsight I was just too full of myself. Like, I have plenty of self value and self worth, just n… | /r/seduction | 19/04/13 05:18 AM |
| 35 | I came here because I wanted a girlfriend..Which is stupid if you ask me. Its like, bitch, i think your special, why the fuck does that turn you off? You should feel fucking honored. But yeah sadly its true | /r/seduction | 19/04/13 04:59 AM |
| 3 | "So, are you any good at first kisses?"Well, i shouldn't say any guy ever, maybe some who aren't tryna get it on, but any guy with any sexual interest in you at all would jump at the chance I would imagine. Just whisper in his ear/make it slightly discreet, as to not broadcast what you just said to the whole room. I personally, as a guy(and I believe many other guys as well), would love this kind of bluntness from a girl. it would take away the entire process and let me skip right to the good stuff. | /r/seduction | 18/04/13 12:36 AM |
| 7 | "So, are you any good at first kisses?"As a girl just say "I wanna fuck" and i doubt any guy ever would be like "no" unless you are unattractive/fat | /r/seduction | 17/04/13 04:39 PM |
| 1 | How do I approach a women during the day when we both make eye contact and smile at each other?thank you for the reply, | /r/seduction | 16/04/13 04:20 PM |
| 1 | How do I approach a women during the day when we both make eye contact and smile at each other?That makes sense. If they need to be comfortable around someone, why is trying to hook up with your friends/girls you already know not recommended? Cause they would be comfortable around you already, so you there is a better chance you can skip all the bullshit? | /r/seduction | 16/04/13 04:18 PM |
| 2 | How do I approach a women during the day when we both make eye contact and smile at each other?I'm not. I just wanted a genuine response regarding why they liked it, i wasn't going to change any of my game plan no matter what they said haha. I would agree, that a girl who doesn't like being complimented is probably a bit socially awkward, but then again those are probably the types I'd wanna eventually get in a long term relationship with, but definitely not for quick hook ups. | /r/seduction | 16/04/13 05:26 AM |
| 5 | How do I approach a women during the day when we both make eye contact and smile at each other?Im not even looking for something like that, i just want to understand the appeal of a long, drawn out, extremely emotionally confusing game that you play with subtleness. | /r/seduction | 16/04/13 02:05 AM |
| 13 | How do I approach a women during the day when we both make eye contact and smile at each other?Why do you like subtleness? That entire concept confuses the fuck out of me. Why is being blunt a bad thing? It saves time and energy for both sides, and prevents confusing situations from happening. | /r/seduction | 16/04/13 12:12 AM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter