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| – | Men dating younger women may be the only option left."Male loneliness epidemic" is a journalist and gender war meme. Both genders report similar levels of loneliness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Having casual sex with men makes them respect you less and treat you worseWell you're not wrong. Having self respect is the first step to being respected. But also, even if I'm looking for a serious relationship, I'm gonna move on if the sex is bad. The last 4 or 5 women I've dated I've broken things off after sex because I didn't want to be having sex with them long term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Is it true women will always have more value/suitors than men in the dating market?No I don't think so. Things may have changed in the past 15 years but I feel like men had the advantage in teenage years and early 20s, and again past 30s. Women have the advantage in dating from 22-30. Past 30 women rapidly get more desperate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 07:35 PM |
| – | Women have given up on dating menSeems like the opposite to me. We're entering a phase of mass hysteria as millennial girlbosses age out of their childbearing years "choosing" to be "happy" and single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 07:31 PM |
| 1 | The hate for single moms comes from jealousy.It's just punching down, it's not that deep | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 05:16 PM |
| – | CMV: GFs should not cook for their BFsBig red flag. I cook for myself daily and always enjoy cooking for dates. If a girl doesn't want to cook for me, it's definitely because she doesn't know how. I'm not going to marry a child | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 01:49 PM |
| – | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?There are a few studies showing that women are more likely to have an external locus of control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 01:40 PM |
| 1 | The hate for single moms comes from jealousy.I mean you could say a lot of things but I really don't think it's jealousy... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 01:37 PM |
| 2 | Even if a research proved tomorrow that women's standards are 110% delusional they are still entitled to itWomen's "standards" online and on dating apps are different than in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 12:11 PM |
| 3 | Men aren’t inherently more desperate for relationships than women are, just more disadvantaged.I didn't read this but I think you're right based on the title. I think men have a tendency towards more self deprecating humor where they're much more likely to be honest about their loneliness and even play into it and exaggerate it (tfw no gf). Whereas women seem a lot more sensitive to perception and are more likely to mask their loneliness behind "I'm happy single, men are garbage etc etc." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 12:10 PM |
| – | What are your thoughts on promoting arranged marriages in the west?No thanks, my parents would find the most prude and boring lady | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 11:41 AM |
| 2 | The patriarchal agenda: setting up men and women up to fail and be unhappy.Gender roles are because men are stronger and women bleed from their vaginas. This predates religion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 11:40 AM |
| 7 | Avoidant men will claim they were cheated on when they didn’t even define the relationship.Sounds like you wasted 16 years on and off with a loser. Not a good look. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/25 03:27 PM |
| 3 | It doesn't make sense to ask women to lower their standardsI think men and women both inflate their "standards" online as a performative flex. These black pill guys will talk about how they only want a virgin but will become obsessed with the first single mom that gives them attention. Same with women. The 37 year old girlboss that wants children someday would let a homeless man get her pregnant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/25 12:36 PM |
| – | Q4M: What things do you do for your female friends that you don't do for your guy friends?I keep a tight social circle, and have a pessimistic view of social dynamics in general. To be fair, most of my male friendships were built on business too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 05:52 PM |
| 5 | Alot of people arent attractive nor rich enough for the attitude they have.They must be ugly or autistic. Being a "good and interesting" person is boring, and doesn't mean anything on its own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Alot of people arent attractive nor rich enough for the attitude they have.You're right, I see this from both genders. Especially online, people love to roleplay their fantasies of being high value, high earning, having high standards, and rejecting people all the time. It's fake, you're lonely, nobody wants you and your narcissistic visage is obvious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 05:46 PM |
| – | Q4M: What things do you do for your female friends that you don't do for your guy friends?I only maintain friendships with females for business and sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 05:44 PM |
| 4 | If you're in an age gap relationship, it's better to charge him for your time.These bitter delusional takes are common for women who are struggling to cope with their age and declining sexual market value 🤷♂️ I'm also only 35 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 09:12 AM |
| 4 | If you're in an age gap relationship, it's better to charge him for your time.Nice roleplay, you've aged out already and you have a kid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 08:18 AM |
| 2 | Is promiscuity and casual sex just the norm with women nowadays?The generation of free love wasn't exactly prude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 08:05 AM |
| 5 | If you're in an age gap relationship, it's better to charge him for your time.Overestimating your sexual market value is a cope | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 07:53 AM |
| 3 | Dont scoff about how women function and then complain when they have better results than men.It must be exhausting posting gender war strawman arguments for 8 years | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 07:19 AM |
| – | Women do give great advice when men actually listen….and dont lie about their intentions.I didn't read your post because your title is just a lie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 07:15 AM |
| 15 | Women Don't Actually Put More Effort Into Dating.Girls who say this are always the most desperate. Don't be fake | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 07:42 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of dating or having relationships with muscular guys?Bodybuilding is lean muscle by definition. Steroids only cause ED or sex drive issues after very extreme abuse. Most users will have increased sex drives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 07:34 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of dating or having relationships with muscular guys?Most women who say they don't like muscular guys have just conditioned themselves because they know those men are out of their league. I can't imagine the average reddit girl has many options. And 9/10 guys on steroids you can't even tell they juice, the girls in this thread just never workout so they don't know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 07:28 AM |
| 0 | Men are never going to believe that virgin men are not respected as long as they are told not to mention itWhy is it wrong that being a virgin gives girls the ick? If a 25 year old girl told me she was a virgin I would also get the ick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 06:35 AM |
| 5 | We live in a world where women think their farts don't stinkWhat you're referencing is a form of insecure narcissism. A lot of girls hate themselves so much they mask it by pretending to be a confident bad bitch | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 05:51 AM |
| 1 | Simps vs PickmesI don't really think that's what a pickme is though. When i think of a pickme I think of the gamer gurls, metal chicks, the based & redpilled girls. Obviously not every girl into these things is gonna be a pickme but you can tell when the interest is just superficial enough to appeal to men. I think simps have the same vibe. The bearded soyboy who won't shut the fuck up about Mamdani or whatever the FOTM progressive political issue is. The guys who want to appeal to the "everything is political"… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 05:19 AM |
| -4 | Certain parts of female sexuality give men the ickYou forgot dogs. Many such cases! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 05:12 AM |
| 0 | Not wanting to date someone is not oppressionI feel like the women you're talking about don't exist anymore, they were a 2010s phenomenon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Men will absolutely do things that do not benefit them.🙄🙄 I'm just acknowledging opinions can change. Personality matters right? Attraction can still form even if I'm not "going after" someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Men will absolutely do things that do not benefit them.Yeah I can if the woman actually puts some effort in too. The dating pool tips in men's favor after 30. There are women who have pursued me that made good partners even though I might have initially been less interested. I'm pretty open that I'd prefer something short term right now, but open to long term if things go well. I'm not trying to trick anyone or waste anyone's time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Men will absolutely do things that do not benefit them.Is it inconceivable to you that someone could grow on me after I get to know them? I'm not looking to just boost my body count, but it makes sense to me that I'd move on if I had sex with a girl if the sex was bad or I think there's a lack of sexual compatibility. I'm not gonna buy every car I test drive okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Men will absolutely do things that do not benefit them.No, it really isn't. I know when I'm chasing someone and when I do, I put in effort. There are plenty of women I'm willing to give a chance to, but I wouldn't chase. I'm not sure how old you are, but I'm over 30 and I'm seeing a lot of women my age struggle to cope with declining desirability in the dating market. If you're finding guys aren't putting effort in, maybe they're just not into you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Men will absolutely do things that do not benefit them.I'm not understanding. Putting minimal effort in is not chasing, what I'm saying is not contradictory at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Men will absolutely do things that do not benefit them.Who said I think they're awful? I wouldn't approach or swipe on a girl who I think is awful. I will naturally put more effort into someone the more interested I am. But there are a lot of "okay" women I might express mild interest towards to see where things go. I'm not going to go chasing average women though. I'm the prize, not them. 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Men will absolutely do things that do not benefit them.I'm just trying to apply your perspective to my personal experiences. I wouldn't describe myself as unsuccessful in the dating scene. But if a girl is average, boring, or uninteresting I will indeed put minimal effort in. There are a lot of attractive and interesting girls out there, I can't chase everyone with maximum effort. I don't mean to be rude, but maybe your experience is because men don't think you're worth the effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 11:44 AM |
| 2 | Men will absolutely do things that do not benefit them.It seems like you're frustrated that you don't see men putting enough effort into you. Why do you think that is? Maybe they don't see you as a prize? Maybe you don't hold as much value as you think you do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Manners and boundaries are often one of the biggest faults of men when pursuing womenIf guys are leading with kink talk, it's because they think you'll be receptive. They think you're a slut. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 08:49 AM |
| 3 | Men shouldn’t be labelled as white-knights, or told they only care because they’re trying to “get with” a woman, when pointing out sexism or discriminationIt’s possible that a man just genuinely cares about the plight of others including women. No it isn't. It's all 100% performative 100% of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 08:18 AM |
| 13 | If men take what they can get in dating, then why should women bother with relationships?You're correct that guys on reddit are desperate losers who cling to any female that gives them attention. But we're talking about guys on reddit... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 02:45 PM |
| 3 | Are there any positives to usual porn consumption?You might be right but I also think that in developed countries sexual assault is taken more seriously nowadays than it was in the 70s when porn wasn't nearly as accessible. The problem with all these studies is that they can only prove correlation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 01:23 PM |
| 6 | Are there any positives to usual porn consumption?All studies saying porn is bad, or porn is good, have very poor methodology. Most anti-porn rhetoric thrown around has strong religious or gendered bias. All nofap stuff is pure incel fake news. However, there have been many observations linking broader accessibility to porn with lower rates of sexual assault. This has occurred in the US, Czech Republic, Denmark, Japan, Hong Kong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 12:46 PM |
| 0 | There's nothing women bring to the table other than reproductionThis is what happens when a guy picks his politics based on what would appeal to transgender women and gets rejected | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 12:35 PM |
| 3 | Redditors are insane when it comes to age gapsYou're right it's mostly sour grape zoomer boys and lesbians/trans jealous that millennial chads are getting all the prime zoomer pussy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 12:24 PM |
| 1 | why don't women love-bomb men? how do women make effort towards liking a man?I should call her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 07:35 AM |
| 1 | Do you think not using recreational drugs and alcohol can be a barrier to pursuing recreational sex?I think it's accurate. I think drug use and casual sex are both risky behaviors with instant gratification. So people drawn to one are likely drawn to the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/25 11:12 AM |
| 2 | Women don't regret because you got better but you treat better.Your mistake was listening to women's words rather than their actions. Personal anecdotes are always going to be biased. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 12:04 PM |
| 2 | Modern feminism is female supremacy, feminists don't actually want equalityI feel like nobody really cares anymore. The world realized that white women in their white collar office jobs are just babies. Gender politics on either side shouldn't be taken seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Women's Attraction is not ComplicatedI mean, I feel it. I always fall for the crazy toxic psychos who will emotionally abuse me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 10:01 AM |
| – | Dudes complaining about looks constantly are way off the markWomen's standards is all talk, it's a flex for their friends and social media, the facade of self respect. It all goes out the window in group social settings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 08:02 AM |
| – | The standards of what is considered cheating today makes monogamous relationships and marriages not worth itHonestly I agree. I always had crazy gfs that would get drunk and act flirty with random dudes. My first gf was talking to tons of random guys online from forums. I didn't really care because I never felt threatened. I will always ogle fat girls in public anyways. It's not a big deal. The amount of posts I see about "porn is cheating" or "my boyfriend looks at other girls" is crazy and we shouldn't normalize this type of behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 08:00 AM |
| 0 | Threatening that you aren't going to marry isn't as scary as you think to womenIdk all the 35 year old women in my hinge inbox seem pretty desperate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 07:57 AM |
| 3 | Women's Attraction is not ComplicatedWhen he has no job, seven felonies and an ankle bracelet 🥵 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 07:56 AM |
| 2 | Most women dont desire assholes as boyfriends. Most people dont even want to be friends with assholes.It's pretty easy to understand. Women do like assholes, and men like bitches. Nice people are just boring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Do you agree with Iliza Schlesinger's take on hateful undesirable saying that it's "natural selection"?I think it's accurate and I think we should also apply the same critical lens to the so-called 4b movement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Finding the perfect match is overrated and a waste of time. Make it work with someone good natured and imperfect.Non negotiable 30 BMI minimum | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Finding the perfect match is overrated and a waste of time. Make it work with someone good natured and imperfect.I agree but she needs to be fat, have cute feet, be financially responsible and knows how to clean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 03:26 PM |
| 3 | Men should work harder for womenI would be inclined to agree if women actually had it hard, but they don't. They're just babies about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 12:54 PM |
| – | Women preferring to date tall men is not a bad thing. It's actually somewhat selfless.Manlets offer nothing to society. They are insecure, spiteful and weak. It's a net positive to humanity that they do not breed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 12:52 PM |
| 1 | People are attracted to attractive people, but women's idea of attractive is very narrow compared to men'sI only fuck fat girls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Men have their own version of beta bux for women but don’t like to acknowledge itI had this but the sex was too boring to commit long term 😞 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 09:46 AM |
| 2 | As a person with daddy issues, I feel kinda offended by the daddy issues stereotype in women.Daddy issues are normal. The real irredeemable feral psychos are the girls with mommy issues 😱 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 09:41 AM |
| 2 | Is a man who sleeps with a lot of women generally a player or womanizer?I just think it's cringey. I have a few friends in their 30s and 40s that are still trying to bag young girls and boost their body counts and party all the time. It seems like they're trying to catch up to "prove" to everyone else that they get pussy. These guys are usually really "in your face" about how much pussy they get and it exudes insecurity. Personally I feel like I had enough casual sex in my 20s and I have little desire to go around chasing tail, spitting game and building a roster. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 07:47 AM |
| 6 | The fixation on “purity” in women is often rooted in male insecurity, not morality.I don't think there's a gender divide here. Hop on over to r/loveafterporn and observe the women who install spyware apps on their boyfriends phones and have panic attacks when Stacy walks by at the gym. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/25 07:43 AM |
| 3 | Why do conservative men say that they despise liberal women, but are still open to dating them?Less conservative than moderate but if someone's personality revolves around politics (either the ACAB suburbanites or MAGA trailer park mommies) it's gonna be a no from me dawg | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/25 07:41 AM |
| 3 | Is a man who sleeps with a lot of women generally a player or womanizer?It's not "inherently bad" just kind of pathetic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/25 02:53 PM |
| 3 | Once and for all, explaining things for menIt's crazy when women try to explain things when they can't even explain what goes on in their own heads, lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/25 11:19 AM |
| 3 | Is a man who sleeps with a lot of women generally a player or womanizer?Depends on age. If they're over 30 and trying to be a player they're usually deeply insecure losers trying to "catch up" because they didn't get any pussy when they were younger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/25 10:43 AM |
| 65 | If you hate women nagging about cleanliness, just date slobs.I'm not sure where this idea that women are cleaner comes from. Maybe I'm just dating the wrong girls but the last 3 relationships I've had the girl has been an absolute slob. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that.I get what you're saying but I think your example is horrible. Your friends perspective is dumb as fuck and wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 02:48 AM |
| 1 | (CMV) As a man, pursuing bisexual women is the only serious choice if you're interested in dismantling patriarchy in your relationshipGender politics should never be taken seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Men should stop listening to women idea of a good partnerThis is true. Women always fall head over heels for the dangerous psycho that will cheat on them. I know, because he's me 😈 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 09:01 AM |
| 1 | Reddit women are a minority the basic "normie" girl is pretty darn patriarchalI'm sorry but who you just described as "reddit" women are normies. Reddit is a normies website, sorry to burst your bubble. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Men Need an Extreme Separatist Ideology , Total Detachment from WomenSounds stupid when you can just love bomb them then ghost them after sex like I do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 12:19 PM |
| 1 | The main people mentioning women’s intuition are men who victim blame women.Try searching "women's intuition" on reddit sweatie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/25 10:33 AM |
| 3 | The main people mentioning women’s intuition are men who victim blame women.This is absurd. Only women think "women's intuition" is a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/25 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Common Men are unfairly equated to CEOs, Sportsmen, and Actors when it comes to pay gaps and abuse allegations.Gender politics is so boring...... It's not 2015 anymore. White women aren't the center of attention anymore get over it. Think of the Palestinian children | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 12:57 PM |
| 5 | I believe women are more sensitive to negative feedback than men. This study supports that.Anyone who's ever tried to criticize a woman can tell you that. It's even worse in professional spaces where feedback actually matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 08:52 AM |
| 1 | Women are primarily the choosersNo, not really. Men are socially conditioned to be approachers. Women feel humiliated if they're ever forced to initiate. Record numbers of women are single and childless by 40 because they've deluded themselves into thinking they are the choosers, when the reality is they've never been. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 11:29 AM |
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