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1

Sounds like the double empathy problem. You're not just processing your own emotions, you're pulling double duty. Might be worth talking trying therapy for it instead of forcing yourself to do pick up.
/r/seduction28/07/26 03:56 AM
1

That's always allowed.
/r/seduction12/07/26 01:01 PM
0

"How about you let me focus on coaching her?"
/r/seduction11/07/26 09:17 PM
1

If she wanted to convert she would have. Encouraging that blurs your professional boundaries. If it matters a great deal to you, when her contract ends hire a Christian Australian nanny.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/26 02:48 PM
1

If religious faith was important to you, that should have been something you did when you were hiring. Asking someone to convert or offering them a bonus to is wildly unprofessional and socially uncomfortable in a way that's going to impact your rlship with her going forward, if she chooses to continue working for you.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/26 02:29 PM
16

The more you want someone that doesn't want you back, the less appealing you'll seem. Don't chase. He'll either pull away more, or take advantage of it and treat you badly.
/r/seduction05/07/26 06:13 AM
1

No, talk to them. Compliments are icing on the cake, present but used sparingly.
/r/seduction02/07/26 03:18 AM
1

Probably in hotels and tourist chalets that run you a few thousand minimum a night when they're at home or visiting other rich people. I lived in Victoria Canada for a few years, and movie stars and celebs would go there for holidays. So you could catch sight of them in fancy restaurants or tourist spots occasionally, but mostly they were at the super expensive places on the island.
/r/seduction22/06/26 11:14 AM
1

I don't think so. You can keep pulling her, but unless you can make sure she's having a good time, shes actually getting exasperated you're not buying. And if you can actually make a working professional enjoy the opening, your basics are strong enough you don't need training wheels. You should be closing.
/r/seduction16/06/26 02:23 PM
1

Fair point.
/r/seduction16/06/26 11:14 AM
2

Sure. But don't confuse selling for cash, and selling for a ONS or a date. One buys food on the table. The other gets a sense of achievement. If you equate them, you're going to wonder why the guy putting money in her pocket is the one that walks away with her.
/r/seduction16/06/26 07:42 AM
19

Okay, I can see that. I suppose for young men or traumatized men the desensitisation would be helpful. But trying to keep a conversation going with someone who is trying to sell you something is not going to teach you much game. Unless you're ridiculously charming, she's going to realise you're not buying and walk away. Functionally speaking you're practising how to appear somewhat interested and might purchase if given incentive, and string them along for as long as possible. Which isn't the im…
/r/seduction15/06/26 08:51 PM
2

All things being equal, you'll probably get a little less success compared to hypothetical white version of you, because racism does exist. But do it anyway. Unless you're in one of those places you'll get lunched by good ole boys if you bag a baddie.
/r/seduction09/05/26 08:16 AM
32

There's usually English speaking clubs where exchange students meet. Join up, and you'll get to meet them. I met my first Japanese girl there.
/r/seduction05/05/26 06:37 PM
1

No, that's what the /s is for online. Humour is deeply subjective 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/seduction05/05/26 07:14 AM
1

Fair. Going from lurker to poster is an improvement. Not so sure why it's on the seduction reddit, but I guess you need your upvotes from somewhere.
/r/seduction04/05/26 01:55 PM
9

That's good because you're not 😄
/r/seduction04/05/26 01:29 PM
10

Right, so tell us how it improved.
/r/seduction04/05/26 01:23 PM
3

So, how did your game improve after doing this?
/r/seduction04/05/26 12:50 PM
4

Alr?
/r/seduction02/05/26 04:31 PM
0

She probably does or did, which is why you tripped that hidden landmine. Not your fault just bad luck.
/r/seduction01/05/26 08:33 AM
5

Sometimes you just get aged out. 20 years ago going to the club was absolutely fine. Today? I would be the creepy middle aged guy if I went. Enjoy your 20s and 30s. It's not that permissive after.
/r/seduction13/04/26 10:49 PM
2

Yeah? Size matters, and a wave is usually a big gesture. OP needs the small wave that defaults to a hand gesture, not the whole arm.
/r/seduction31/01/26 07:29 AM
3

I would skip the wave and just make it a hand gesture instead. Good luck OP.
/r/seduction30/01/26 06:53 AM
9

Do people shake hands at a party? That feels slightly off. Now I wouldn't expect that to be enough to classify as disgusting, but nothing else sticks out.
/r/seduction30/01/26 06:34 AM
2

There are people over 60 on Reddit 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/seduction29/09/25 04:40 PM
10

Usually, but since you're making plans that's weeks away, it's more a 'I don't know if I'll be interested then'. Try a date that's not so far off, and if she still says we'll see, then she's definitely not interested.
/r/seduction22/09/25 02:56 PM
5

Doubtful, what are the chances his dad would be exactly like yours?
/r/seduction05/09/25 08:08 PM
6

This is the answer. Make her feel something emotionally. And if you're not very attractive, and/or rich, then you need to be doing it though your interactions.
/r/seduction20/08/25 08:46 PM
1

If it peters put after you've solidified the rlships and only comes back when she's trying to leave you.
/r/seduction01/08/25 11:57 AM
1

It's less about Leftist men have better success, but more and more women are choosing not to date Conservative men. Does that count as Leftist being successful? Well they autopass one of the hurdles, so they have advantage sure. But most women have a lot of tests to pass 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/seduction28/07/25 09:50 PM
49

Pretending to be hard just looks lame bro 😄
/r/seduction06/07/25 09:19 PM
2

Always has been 😑
/r/seduction15/06/25 08:19 AM
3

I'm sorry, but did you mean you're moving to the US from India? Okay, off-topic, but have you been following the news about what's been happening to international students there? If you have and you still feel safe, no worries. On-topic, yes cultural differences on flirting do exist. And there's even regional.differences. And it's hard (at least it was for me) to break it down. Make some guy friends who'll show you how it's done. Way easier.
/r/seduction21/04/25 04:58 PM
1

Depends if you think it's going to ruin your chances with the first girl. Unless I'm not that interested in her, I'm prioritising the girl I got a date with versus a roll of the dice with big jugs.
/r/seduction23/02/25 02:30 AM
4

Have you been keeping updated with your age group as you grow older? In my 40s, most tricks and modes that worked in my 20s usually fall flat. Women my age require whole different method, one I'm admittedly not good at.
/r/seduction22/04/24 12:43 AM
6

Here's the funny thing. It's going to feel a little sleazy, because the guys who have that heteromasc energy? They think less about what's appropriate and more about their own desires. Obviously past a certain point it becomes reprehensible, and past that illegal. But thinking about what's appropriate makes you softer. And that's good, it means you're not going to take advantage of someone. But if a girl is asking you to admit your gay, you're allowed to tell her you can prove it when she's not …
/r/seduction14/04/24 04:29 PM
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Show interest in women. Like when she's asking you of you're gay, tell her you're happy to take her on a date romorrow to show her much you like women. It you have the voice, and flirt with men, and you have softer qualities, make your attraction to women clear. You don't need to be a sleazebag, but you need to have the energy that says, 'iif a sober attractive woman was into you, you'd have sex with her'. I don't have that probably anymore, but I used to come across as gay, because I didn't cle…
/r/seduction14/04/24 03:39 PM
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They do to some extent. All my white partners have said they're treated differently when people know they're part of an interracial couple. Mind you this was Alberta though. But end of the day, most people will Other your rlship, but if they're not racist they won't make it a bad thing. They just don't have the cues of how respond. Just like pickup, create the frame of the interaction. And learn to work it till you can walkway with positive reactions.
/r/seduction09/04/24 11:55 AM
1

When you're mean, yes you'll attract women, but it isn't going to be healthy women, that's for sure. It's fine if you're just doing ONS, but if you're looking for relationships, you don't want to be the mean asshole.
/r/seduction07/04/24 05:26 PM
10

Ah another person trying to sabotage his marriage from baby-panic.
/r/seduction07/04/24 07:10 AM
11

This pretty much covers it. If you're interested, don't take weeks or months to ask for a date. The nice guy tries to insinuate himself into her life, by being a 'friend', he's trying to reduce the chances he gets rejected. The confident guy is willing to lose the girl, he asks her out when whatever attraction is fresh. And if its a date, if you kino and it makes her uncomfortable, apologise and throttle it down. But do keep escalating over other dates.
/r/seduction07/04/24 05:54 AM
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A nice guy tries to be her friend so be can have sex with her. He aims to be liked, instead of being desired. Be yourself. And if your dates not in to who you really are, finish the date, wish her well and move on. That's also a type of confidence.
/r/seduction06/04/24 08:20 PM
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Depends on the man. Some, likely many, would feel intimated from what I've observed. They're only comfortable when in the drivers seat. And I suspect there will a relatively equal mix of, go with flow guys that don't mind, and hell yes guys that are thrilled.
/r/seduction14/06/23 12:17 PM
1

Then brush up on your pseudo science and start going to hippie festivals where you start dissecting the weaknesses of pseudo science elements of spirituality in favour of something humanistic. Just by social peacocking alone you'll get some attention. Add in the fact you're Indian, you can probably parlay that into some attention.
/r/seduction26/10/22 10:28 PM
2

All depends on how desperate you are to get laid man 😄
/r/seduction25/10/22 03:01 PM
7

I'm saying the only time being Indian dude was slightly advantageous was when in the hippie community. Everywhere else I'd say it varies from a slight to major penalty. Like forget trying to game in China or Japan unless you're also hot or rich. So if OP wants to up his numbers he can try focusing on hippie girls.
/r/seduction25/10/22 06:29 AM
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Because hippie chicks are very into Asian philosophy and spirituality, especially the Hindu system. Which they assume you're into if you're an Indian.
/r/seduction25/10/22 06:11 AM
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Hippie chicks. It's the only time being an Indian dude is an advantage.
/r/seduction25/10/22 03:13 AM
5

Women close in age to you, or younger? If it's the latter, damne dude 👍🏾
/r/seduction25/10/22 03:13 AM
1

Yeah man, like women have no insight into men beyond what you choose to show 😄
/r/seduction23/10/22 10:49 AM
2

Well that's why low quality women want you and the others don't 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/seduction23/10/22 04:27 AM
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Because it's a trick to establish social value. It's also vetting you that you're not a serial killer. Oddly that matters for women.
/r/seduction23/10/22 04:23 AM
2

Enjoy it? Maybe you're appealing to their mommy dom instincts and if you tried approaching you'd shoot yourself in the foot. Just make sure to settle down before 35, things start getting a lot less juicy around then.
/r/seduction21/10/22 10:16 PM
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Willingness to get rejected.
/r/seduction09/10/22 07:01 AM
1

Same dude. I'd say go check out reddits anime boards for popular series with lots of cosplayers.
/r/seduction06/10/22 07:53 AM
3

Like the Spiderman cosplayers that will do the pointing thing at each other at the con, or doing Spidey crying over dead Gwen or Uncle Ben. All games have memes or scenes associated with it that cosplayers often recreate. Don't ask me about the new animes though, thats your research my friend. It's been years since I've cosplayed at a con, or had time to watch an anime 😌
/r/seduction06/10/22 07:48 AM
2

It'll help a lot man. And chose an anime that has lots of female characters. Most people who share an anime cosplay will want to do photos or skits.
/r/seduction06/10/22 07:38 AM
6

Super hard to game at cons with just being an anime watcher. Get into cosplay, and then your in an in-group, and you can talk about anime. Or try being a volunteer. Cosplayers at cons are pretty leery of people, because every single person there wants to gawk, game or touch them.
/r/seduction06/10/22 07:13 AM
2

Yeah, I think it is. One, it's working on my fear of rejection. Two, surprisingly, there's going to be that rare one or two times your game is so good you transcend their racial preferences. That's the S class difficulty level, and I've only almost got there once, but one lives in hope.
/r/seduction05/10/22 02:12 AM
5

If you're going in with the expectation of success, that's a killer. I just go in with the intention of raising my game. Whether I strike out or not, my game is getting better. That's my headspace now. But as a coloured man, yeah I had that problem for ages dude. Try to change your goals, and the anxiety gets better.
/r/seduction05/10/22 02:07 AM
1

You usually get what your value is 🤷🏾‍♂️ Have fun bro.
/r/seduction03/10/22 11:56 AM
1

I guess this is news? 🤔 I guarantee you every ugly to somewhat-attractive person knows this already. Most of us wouldn't be learning game if we were attractive. But thanks man 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/seduction01/10/22 03:02 AM
1

Running, still here buddy. And something is wrong with you, but why not keep making you look as silly as you are. I'm aware of my point, and stick with it. Though considering how many harangues you have, and your self-victory declaration, are you one of those guys having trouble on Tinder? Cause this level of fixation starts making sense. That's rough buddy.
/r/seduction20/09/22 02:52 PM
1

Mostly just to head off your protestations. Since you specifically mentioned them. Though admittedly, someone who doesn't understand women in writing, is also going to faff up creating an impression visually. Might be why there's so many fishing photographs.
/r/seduction20/09/22 02:35 PM
1

Here's the thing. It's not advice, it's observation. And since there are men with those high value qualifiers who aren't succeeding on Tinder, the problem is how they are using that 2 sentences and pictures. This time I've used are to denote the conditional modifier btw.
/r/seduction20/09/22 01:55 PM
0

Some. It is explained by my use of the conditional modifier 'some'. Now reread what I wrote with that in mind.
/r/seduction20/09/22 01:45 PM
1

This is why some guys struggle on Tinder, even with all the high value goods.
/r/seduction20/09/22 01:29 PM
6

Don't shoot. Start with hi. Talk a few times so it's not intrusive when you ask her if she wants to get a smoothie after gym.
/r/seduction19/09/22 04:11 PM
2

Maybe look into social activities where you'll meet men you like. And even if they don't ask you for a date, you can always ask them.
/r/seduction17/09/22 10:33 PM
2

Good luck with your evolution.
/r/seduction16/09/22 10:38 PM
12

Being able to add adventure, excitement, sensuality or other qualities will be invisible to you, but apparent to the women in question. Sometime a 'low-life' can do that better than you, so they chose him, especially if they're financially successful enough that wealth doesn't matter as much to them. If you don't create the right impression for a woman, it doesn't matter how fit or rich you are.
/r/seduction16/09/22 10:35 PM
2

Short answer you can't. But people are always attracted to intelligence, wealth and power. But honestly just focus on women who either don't mind your ethnicity or appreciate it. Better payoff in general.
/r/seduction16/09/22 04:20 AM
6

I'm autistic raised in Asia, before a lot of cultural homogenization. So I missed out on young romance, one night stands, the weird and bad sex young people get up to. But I dated the way average looking people do in the late twenties in Canada. Then I had to go back to Asia and I'm basically too old to date unless it's with the specific reason of marriage and children. Which is ... Ehh. Marriage comes after a deep and profound connection, not because it's a milestone in life. I'm hoping things …
/r/seduction15/09/22 11:58 PM
3

You can, just not with that milestone you missed. Every age group has its common practices, so you'll see a lot less of certain things, and more of others.
/r/seduction15/09/22 11:42 PM
1

But it's not the same as what's shared and suggested on this subreddit. So unless you make it clear, you do a disservice to the OP that's asking for advise 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/seduction15/09/22 04:56 AM
4

I don't know if I agree with that. Most of seduction is highlighting our best qualities in such a way that it leads to positive rapport. Ethically not great, but everyone puts their best for forward in the beginning, and chooses to create positive outcomes. But you keep up the mindset of seduction in a rlship and it starts coming across as hollow. Maybe some people are as high energy, confidant and capable in day to day as they are in the scene. But most of us aren't. If she's not interested and…
/r/seduction14/09/22 03:33 PM
5

This. Seduction is for one night stands. You start mixing feelings and seduction, you take the chance if ruining it.
/r/seduction14/09/22 01:46 PM
0

Ah the hateboner. Fair enough. Good luck.
/r/seduction30/08/22 09:20 AM
-1

Yeah, definitely take some space dude. You're more invested in his emotional reactions than your own satisfaction at this point.
/r/seduction30/08/22 09:14 AM
3

I'm sorry man, but it is a game, but one like the old Prince of Persia where 80 percent of us got stuck at level one. Gotta grind your skills with a lot of failures, which is shitty, but the other option is going incel and guaranteeing you'll never be loved. Take some time away where you don't have to be reminded that your bro is a lot more skilled than you, and focus on raising your own skills. It'll take time, but that's what it is.
/r/seduction30/08/22 09:08 AM
8

So your going to ghost him because you're jealous? Yeah, let's see how well that goes in 10 years. Dude, you're starting a lot later than he is in the game. And I get that he's your frame of reference, but man, don't compete with chads who have been doing this for a decade, that's a route to failure. Hang out with other guys just starting out learning confidence. Hell, the fact you're buff and fit will make you stand out among them and improve your confidence. Good luck at life man.
/r/seduction30/08/22 08:39 AM
1

Well, that's the funny thing. 100% of every bedroom submissive chick I've been with was a rabid feminist. Being strongly aligned one way can create an attraction of opposites, but you have to be able to pull it off.
/r/seduction28/08/22 11:29 AM
9

If you need to lie, that just says a lot about how you're valuing yourself.
/r/seduction28/08/22 09:32 AM
19

Unless your Japanese is fluent, or you're a big spender at the clubs, you're going to find it hard to score. Also, isn't Japan still closed other than for family related travel?
/r/seduction27/08/22 10:45 AM
3

Then the guy who's built like Micheal Phelps one lane over gives you 'tips'. Just take a breath and let it out. Don't get in your own way 😅
/r/seduction15/08/22 02:55 PM
212

Ah when the natural doesn't know he's a natural and decides to share his 'secrets'. Thanks bud, I never knew.
/r/seduction14/08/22 09:01 PM
17

Anxiety at its root is a physical stressor. Each person's symptoms differ, but weak limbs, bowels uncomfortable or clenching, nausea, panic - it's all your bodies way of telling you to run from the threat. Which is great if it's a tiger. When what you're afraid of is the fear of rejection, it takes literal courage and willpower to push past those signals and take your shot.
/r/seduction14/08/22 04:42 AM
82

Good job. The difference between mentally knowing it's tough and your body screaming at you. That's how you overcome.
/r/seduction14/08/22 12:23 AM
1

Yup. Not doing dates is basically doesn't want to date. If there's a lot of sexual attraction there might be hookup possibility.
/r/seduction11/08/22 09:30 PM
15

Gotta speak the language of the people man.
/r/seduction04/08/22 06:27 AM
77

Famous, probably rich, funny, has BDE and if the rumours are true an actual big dick. Man lucked out during the random generator for character creation. Remember, all PUA and seduction skills are built to mimic the Naturals. This guy is a Natural and famous besides.
/r/seduction04/08/22 05:06 AM
4

If you can't make it happen start talking to other girls. The more you obsess, the more miserable you'll get.
/r/seduction20/07/22 09:46 PM
1

Yeah, it sounds like she's into you. Or at least willing to give you a shot.
/r/seduction20/07/22 07:06 AM
1

Yeah? Some people only do that to their friends and siblings. And some are the complete opposite. But the being more engaged with others indicate it's a friend thing, because social engagement = interest. Not always sexual interest, but enough that it's marker. You can only know when you observe her interaction with someone she's confessed to being attracted to.
/r/seduction20/07/22 07:00 AM
3

You're friends? Like, she cares about your well-being? These are not romantic qualities.
/r/seduction20/07/22 06:34 AM
1

If the women in your life can't figure it out, start observing your guy friends in action. A lot of behaviour is via observation and modelling.
/r/seduction16/07/22 08:54 PM
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