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Dates a girl who did that. She was in love with me the day we met and talked about meeting her parents and doing all these things together. I was down with oneitis even after fucking other women and she caught wind of the clinginess and left me.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 03:33 AM
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This is why you don’t settle for a girlfriend unless you know she’s going to keep interest. If she ever feels a little distant or shows any signs that say she’s not as into you as partying, if she would rather go to the clubs with her friends than with you, if she’s not someone who you feel wants to hang out with you, cheat on her. Girls who use the “I’m busy excuse” are bullshitting if it’s used a lot. It’s not even about looks, sometimes they go for men who look worse than you but make her chi…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 12:53 AM
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I'm gonna second reply here and just ask another question. The other girl that gave me her number was a bartender who took her time and gave me her number. It was funny because she said "I have to give shots real quick, be here," she comes back later and looks for me so then we exchange numbers, she seemed to be a bit busy so we hurried it. I smiled at her again later that night when walking past and she returned the smile. I texted her asking her if she wanted to smoke sometime and she sent me …
/r/askTRP12/08/17 12:08 PM
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Read the conversation, she doesn't care, Im not getting another chance with her. I'm gonna hit the bars and work on game, just hope I don't see her there lol.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 08:41 AM
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Yeah, I'm not coming back from this.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 08:14 AM
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Yeah, the next time she asks to hang, I'm gonna be busy, regardless of what she wants. She was a waste of time. I kept thinking I was lucky for having her because she seems pretty high demand, I should probably just be proud that I got to fuck her on the first night.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 08:13 AM
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Damn. Does it really sound like she doesn't give a shit at all? Like, I don't wanna seem too beta but fuck.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 05:19 AM
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How downhill I went. She was all over me and when she got busy, I got clingy, and she got overwhelmed. Now she insists we're friends and doesn't care if I'm out with another girl, as indicated by the text conversation.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 05:06 AM
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Yeah, probably a good idea. However, if she reaches out, doesn't that mean she's starting to want me? Shouldn't I just reply by saying I'm busy? I'm gonna fuck other girls, but it'd be pretty nice to have her want me later down the line.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 04:52 AM
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We talked about a relationship the second night lol. I seriously doubt I'm fucking her again haha.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 04:51 AM
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I think I'm in the clear. I told her I needed time and wanted to keep distance. She doesn't really seem to care or is just mad judging form the conversation. I didn't contact her, she contacted me the first two times and now I'm planning on either not replying or saying something like "I'm busy". I was originally planning on fucking other girls and hoping she reaches out to me later but now it seems like we're both over for good.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 04:41 AM
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Fuck. That cringe worthy huh? I'm thinking of redeeming myself by just not replying to her texts. She sounds like she just wants attention.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 04:25 AM
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Yeah, she was really into me and we started casually seeing each other until recently when I got clingy. We fucked on the first night lmao. She told me this two days ago, the day after I decided to cut contact.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 03:39 AM
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I don't know, she knows she's pretty, but she's a cute 7. I can do better, and have fucked better looking girls while dating her for a month in fear of her cheating. It doesn't seem like she slept with anyone else, she was all lovey dovey with me for a while until the last 2 weeks when I got clingy and she was busy with catching up on work and practice tests
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 11:31 AM
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Apparently she's not looking for anyone and doesn't want anyone at this point in her life. I thought she was joking but she doesn't even look at other guys. She tells me about guys failed attempts at whooping her and shit. I don't even care. She needs attention and I'm not giving it to her. Then again, I doubt she really cares given that text conversation.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 11:21 AM
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She texts a lot differently from most girls. What I mean is that she instantly replies or will always get back to you within 30 minutes. I only ask because I will do the same instead of getting all butt hurt and leaving her on read.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 11:32 AM
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Holy fuck, you're actually right. I'm not sure if you knew this but she thinks girls are complicated and has a bunch of guy friends that she friendzoned. She prefers to hang with guy friends and I think it gives her attention. I think I might just tell her I'm busy the next time she asks to hang out. How does that sound? Or is her asking me to hang out a good thing because, to be fair, we did fuck. There should be some attraction there?
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 10:43 AM
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I fucked her twice. We haven't fucked in a month because of vacation. I came back and she was always "busy".
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 10:41 AM
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I agree, she usually came back to me when a dude hit on her but to be fair, only 2 groups of guys hit on her when she was out in the open. I told her it was her night because she's busy studying and working for her big test next month, but I didn't make a move like kissing her or anything. She doesn't even see me as a priority because her social media suggests she has time for other friends. She let me know that her friend and her aren't talking but were hanging out the day before. This means th…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 10:21 AM
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If she asks me to hang again, should I say I have plans that night? I don't want her thinking I'm clingy and will accept anything lol.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 10:18 AM
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I'm gonna be honest, I fucked 2 girls and dated a hotter chick when I saw things were going south lmao. I guess I didn't go FULL beta haha. I fucked the other two girls on vacation and went on a date with a girl where we started making out instantly. Didn't get to sleep with her because she was busy and told me that it's bad timing because she's going to school next month and doesn't think its gonna work out. My question to you is, if she asks me out again, should I just say "I can't I have plan…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 10:16 AM
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She made me feel pretty special with the cuddling, and the conversation. It never really died down, and we were constantly calling even when on vacation. I don't know, we were talking about dating when we come back but then she realized she had a bigger priority which was her graduate school exam she was studying for everyday. This test was in a month.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 01:27 AM
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I should have mentioned that I don't really bring it up or brag about it. Whenever a conversation comes up about sex or past relationships, I mention a past relationship. She talks about how she's had a few boyfriends and sleeps with them from being friends. I told her that I haven't had many long term relationships and just usually casually date around. The situation I was in was different because she thinks that I don't usually want a relationship with girls, but I did with her. She probably t…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 09:00 AM
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Well she started it lol. I would usually go with safe jokes and what not. But she straight up started talking about her being a witch that her father tried to burn and if I would eat who cream off her body. At that point, I realized she was quirky and I fucking loved it. It was so easy. All I had to do was reciprocate jokes in the same manner. I actually kind of liked that about her. Btw, it's not recommend to text as long as I did. We texted for a week with these jokes before I asked her out.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 12:13 AM
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Oh I knew she was interested. I knew I could get her number as well. It's just that I never started the conversation with sexual stuff, she kinda went there. I just joked around until she asked if I would eat whip cream off her body. We both realized that this short of cheesy conversation turned us on so we did it for a while until I said , fuck it, let's hook up.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 11:13 PM
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That seems a bit too much for a first date no? I would go the safe route and reference things we texted earlier but not straight up talk about jerking off and sex positions?
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 10:58 PM
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I'm feeling it has more to do with personality, you're right. I played it way to safe, so safe that I didn't even flirt lol. I guess my looks are alright but if you ask me, I could be pulling hotter girls if I just got my body straight.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 10:23 PM
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This. This is the answer that I feel sums it all up. Seriously, I had no fucking game. She expected the guy from the text conversations to be at least quirky or funny. I wasn't alpha or hella masculine or anything, just funny and sexual at some points, and then vulnerable at others.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 10:20 PM
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Yeah, I wanted to make a quick write up and just get the story out of the way.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 10:02 PM
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I was alright on text. There were conversations where it was more heart felt and I was vulnerable, but when it came back to joking about sex, it was just who could be more clever. I was direct, and I could be in real life, but I often end up sounding like I'm half way between laughing and trying to be alpha.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 09:36 PM
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He was ugly af, and I just went with it. I even asked what his name was, smiled, and asked what he was drawing just to be nice. Not sure if that makes me a beta, but I didn't really let it get to me. Then again, I guess that makes me a bitch for being complacent lol.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 06:50 PM
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Yup, this is what I've learned through that experience. It just sucks that we didn't end on a good note and it had to be a lesson learned from her.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 05:05 PM
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21, give me examples? I could work around with them.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 05:03 PM
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Yeah dude, I fucking cringed hard, and so did she probably because I still didn't get a reply. There is no way she's interested even if we're the last people on Earth lol. I definitely learned from my mistakes though lol. This was one of my first actual dates lol.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 04:13 PM
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What sucks is if I want to fuck, it always has to be their place. Still in college and living with parents and 3 cousins. House is ALWAYS full lol. Maybe if I asked, "hey? I'd love to see your plant collection back at your place" in a sarcastic tone
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 04:12 PM
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Is it ok if I talk about sex stuff during the date? Like, if I asked "so, what do you look for in a guy?" And I make a joke about it so it turns into a sexual conversation? Like, all I can think of is complimenting her with "you look better in person." I also don't completely understand shit tests because I'm not sure if I get that often. I read about it, but still a bit confused.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 04:04 PM
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Yeah, I definitely feel like an idiot. I literally have the exact scenario in my head on how I would have flirted, it's literally so easy. Honestly, I blame it on the fact that I don't go on many dates, this was like one of my first lol. I have a million different ideas in my head in what I could have said. Hell, I could have even referenced our texts and I would have been a done deal in her head. Though, it's useless worrying about what could have happened now.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 04:00 PM
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Yeah, one thing I learned from this sub is Escalators Escalators Escalators Forgive me for the spongebob joke, I'm just a kid lol, but In all seriousness, I need to escalate. I could have at least flirted, though I'm clueless how I could have touched her. I feel like laughing and putting my hand on her shoulder would feel forced.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 03:49 PM
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Yeah, I'm surprised I didn't think of it before either lol.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 03:47 PM
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I suppose I'll have to give this a try. How good looking were you compared to those girls? I have a face, but my body isn't worth mentioning. I think if you look fit, girls on tinder are more willing to do anything with you, especially responding. Actually, now that I think of it. You're definitely on to something. If a girl goes on a swipe spree and matches me, she's still going to swipe to see who else she can match with. This means that when I message her, there will be other guys doing the s…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 03:46 PM
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I get what you're saying, but ice skating is much more superior in this case.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 03:39 PM
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While I agree double texting doesn't work, you should always message a girl at least a few minutes after you match. The reason for this is because most guys don't even message the girl, she is not supposed to say high. You have to show up on her list as a recent reply or else you're going to end up on the bottom of the list of guys that did message her. I recommend immediately messaging because every right swipe from a girl who is over a 6 is usually a match.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 03:33 PM
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Yeah, I actually said I didn't do nudes and sent her a picture of what I was eating instead just to make a joke. She said: "so, hooking up with random strangers yes, but nudes no? Interesting moral compass" lol. I gave in.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 02:53 PM
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Yeah, I don't except to hear from her again, but after that last pathetic message I sent her, I just said "Actually, just forget it."
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 02:49 PM
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Yeah, that's what I figured. Though, I wonder if she would have given me a second chance if I was bigger.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 02:34 PM
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Yeah lol, live and learn is what I'm thinking. How do I escalate? I was thinking back at it, and was wondering how things would go if I said: "You're honestly way cuter in person, you have such a kissable face." Or "I can't stop looking at your eyes, they're so blue and pretty"
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 02:34 PM
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Thanks for the reply, I appreciate it. I'm trying to put myself out there but I'm just a nerdy dude who likes video games, music, movies and stuff. I literally lost my virginity through tinder because it's easier for girls to go "he's good looking, I'll fuck". Still, this would have never happened had I been more attractive, as in, confident and good looking. All I have is a face. I'm working out now and I' committed, this'll help me with confidence and looking good enough for the average bitch …
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 02:09 PM
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