Natoghost-Bmore Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
16	Beginning stages		Natoghost-Bmore	/r/Divorce_Men	14/12/21 02:12 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Beginning stages Thanks	/r/Divorce_Men	14/12/21 07:32 PM
6	Beginning stages Ok, so no moving out until I lawyer up and arrange things.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/12/21 07:25 PM
1	Beginning stages Fuck no. I’m in Maryland and even though it’s a fault state, apparently any alimony will be temporary and child support is not affected by adultery. She would need to prove any money spend on the affair, which wouldn’t be much and hard to prove anyhow.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/12/21 05:54 PM
5	Beginning stages I think you missed the fact that it happened 2-3 years ago. We have tried therapy and just about everything under the Sun. I’m in a fault state. It however doesn’t do anything for alimony or child support. I admit my mistake. I’m not worried about the financials. I just can’t be in this toxic relationship anymore as it’s not good for the mental health for her and I and most importantly the kids. We both come from divorced parents and I would hope she will be amicable but we’ll see. By no means w…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/12/21 05:50 PM
1	Beginning stages Yah it was me in the affair. I regret it, but as much as I felt forced, I was in the wrong. I’m mixed and she’s Caucasian. Let’s just say the kids are all mini-mes. When she’s out with just them, people assume she adopted.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/12/21 05:12 PM
3	Beginning stages Thanks my man. Yah I’m currently monitoring the boards for advice and putting lines out there with some friends. Personally I don’t know of anyone who has gone through divorce but I’m definitely feeling it out. I work in a trade where unfortunately or fortunately we have a high divorce rate for some reason. Thanks mate.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/12/21 05:00 PM
3	Beginning stages Oh I know I’m fucked. Just wondering what my best options are based on the situation. I’m really lost here. Like I don’t even know how to begin.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/12/21 04:54 PM
1	Beginning stages Heh they are. Definitely no denying this.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/12/21 04:48 PM
1	Beginning stages By no means donI want to, but I guess I’m basing my assumptions from other divorced dads. If I have to leave and pay child support, how could I afford a 3 bedroom place. Wouldn’t the court require that to have overnights? I always felt the courts lean towards the side of the mom.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/12/21 03:06 PM
1	Beginning stages I didn’t mean by neglect but I’m assuming here, if I can only afford a 1 bedroom apartment, won’t they court not allow me to have them overnight?	/r/Divorce_Men	14/12/21 03:03 PM
4	Beginning stages Yes correct im 37. I do believe I can do better without her.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/12/21 03:03 PM
1	Beginning stages I get that, just seeing if anyone has a similar experience and kind of give me a heads up of what I’m walking into.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/12/21 02:29 PM