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/r/seduction03/07/22 04:50 AM
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They’re two adults and if they’re consenting, why is it nasty?
/r/seduction03/07/22 03:25 AM
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Fuck… kinda uneasy situation you’re in I’d think the best way would be to text her every other day, 2-3 days in between and ask her how she’s been or just check up on her, maybe say you miss her a bit smth like that BUT it heavily depends on what your relation is like right now, if you already send each other texts checking up on each other, or just being “there” for the other person, then keep it up, at a moderate intensity However, and I will be very blunt with you, if she loses interest or fi…
/r/seduction02/07/22 04:00 PM
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💀😂
/r/seduction02/07/22 03:55 PM
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I think if I were to focus on wanting one thing it’d be harder “I want u as a girlfriend” “I just wanna fuck…” And there! I lost some potential, fun FWB “I’d like to fuck” “I thought u liked me” And there! I lost a potentially good girlfriend Whereas if you’re open to whatever, you can calibrate yourself accordingly to what she wants Be it just making out, FWB, etc etc I’d say I “want them all”, obviously not at the same time, but I don’t particularly favor one over the other
/r/seduction08/06/22 03:29 PM
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To be honest I kinda want whatever dates, one night stands, fuckbuddies, girlfriend I don’t “need” any of these, I’m not actively looking for a someone to fuck, or looking for a girlfriend but if it happens it happens, a fuckbody would be nice af as well and a one time thing also! I’d be willing to shoot my shot, be charming, courteous and see what’s their vibe/openness I’ve asked the “can I get u home?” to girls in nightclubs, sometimes it has worked, sometimes no I’ve asked for numbers and Ins…
/r/seduction08/06/22 03:08 PM
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I don’t literally walk up to them and say this the second I meet I have said all of these, 5, 20 or more minutes into conversation I’m literally asking about the wording of it, I’m not socially retarded to outright walk up to them and say this first thing
/r/seduction08/06/22 02:58 PM
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That’s sort of what I’m doing, little words but direct “Let’s go for some drinks” But idk if the wording is too aggressive
/r/seduction08/06/22 02:28 PM
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Applaud the guts dude! This shit really takes courage and you let yourself marinate in your fear throughout the whole show so it was probably 10x harder, so GOOD FUCKING JOB But I’m not a fan at all of separating her from the group, why would she, go with you, a total stranger, in private, to discuss something? You made yourself noticed by the whole group and not in a very positive way Next time try talking to them naturally, maybe her and her friend, chit chat for a few minutes, yes the group w…
/r/seduction08/06/22 02:19 PM
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I honestly wouldn’t care if she found other guy, I was busy these two months too, but no one was as “skilled” as her I’m 99% sure she’s DTF, but do I call her out? Or just take it and stay shut? I kinda feel she disrespected me, but I’m also DTF, do i shut up and take it with a smile? Or playfully call her out? Kek
/r/seduction03/06/22 09:48 PM
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Text Do a small catch-up and talk a bit about how u had fun meeting them, ask them how they liked the bar, etc, but keep it short Ask out ????? Profit
/r/seduction28/05/22 05:16 PM
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To be fair I have more followers than her and she followed me back, so it’s not like I’m part of her huge following And she’s also a “just in case” girl to me, I’ll be going out on a date with another one on Saturday so it’s not like I’m desperate , but want to try my luck with her and not call it quits just yet
/r/seduction20/05/22 08:22 PM
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Chad
/r/seduction20/05/22 08:16 PM
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How would u word it? I’m thinking about jokingly call her out, like “ saw u tinder and followed u here but ur not that talkative haha” Or something like that
/r/seduction20/05/22 08:16 PM
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I’ve done it by joking around about the topic and being casual about it For example if there’s an extremely grumpy old lady in the restaurant you’re both dining you can say something like “Hey! Guess being miserable and sexless does that to a person 👀” Very casual and relaxed/funny-ish remarks Don’t be too obvious or intense about it but loosen up and half bring it on in conversation in a casual way Also as other have said, physical escalation is better
/r/seduction16/05/22 03:54 AM
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1.- my main takeaway is that hot girls and people in general, are just there and can be just as accesible as a good friend, as long as you keep your vibe and intentions nice, they will often respond positively, and even it they don’t, it’s completely fine, not everyone is open to conversation, not everyone will vibe with you and it’s fine 2.- usually I did better with groups where I vibed with them all other than girls I directly approached and was TOO intense, not that individual approaches wer…
/r/seduction15/05/22 04:49 AM
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Been slowly building up, started doing this in December, baby steps are still steps I started approaching and asking for innocent stuff like if they know where x store is or if they went to y high school or so Start slow, small talks with clerks, employees, etc Then escalate, approach any girl you find attractive and literally ask her how her day is going, how is she, just vibe I’ve done a lot of approaching ever since December, must’ve been around 80 or something now With varying levels of succ…
/r/seduction15/05/22 03:10 AM
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Ngl and no offense, to be fair that’s on you Seduction and game is very hard and there will be FAR MORE rejections than success, SPECIALLY as a noobie There is a learning curve and it’s kind of steep, and that’s fine I’ve honestly been rejected more times than I can count but JESUS, when I’m not rejected, it’s one of the most rewarding things in life Be confident in yourself, literally the second you get rejected think “oh ok! You lose it! 😜” and not “awww man not this again oh fuck oh god 😭😭😭” …
/r/seduction15/05/22 12:39 AM
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CONGRATS! Good fucking job my dude, ur back
/r/seduction14/05/22 08:20 AM
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Absolutely not lying, went to some nightclub and dropped reps like there was no tomorrow, most people were receptive, some weren’t but it’s fine Sometimes I’d open with her friend and then talk to her, sometimes the guy friend, sometimes some other girl, sometimes her directly, but always redirected and talked to the one I liked Good luck in your approaches m8
/r/seduction14/05/22 08:19 AM
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Try to play as if it doesn’t affect you, not in a “I’m SO TOUGH” kind of way but in a “just laugh it off” kinda way One time a girl told me “I have a bf” and I said “DAMN!, you know I had to try come on haha” and she said “yeah, you actually did great, but the bf is real” Laugh it off, laugh at yourself, say out loud what you’re thinking Other time other girl said “I actually have to go catch my friends” and I said jokingly “Oh wish I could tell you the same “Im so busy with my friends” but not …
/r/seduction14/05/22 08:17 AM
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Fuck, you’re truly right Big L for me boss, but so glad I took that step, I would’ve NEVER done this in the past, specially with a girl that hot, that early I could only drunkly walk up to a girl in a bar, not completely sober and almost sleepy in a week morning Baby steps i guess
/r/seduction10/05/22 03:59 PM
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Doesn’t matter if I haven’t built enough meaningful interaction/got her investment yet? I can do this easily in a bar for example, after a 15 minute talk, I can ask for her number and she either trusts me or she doesn’t (or like me lol) This was so short I felt I’d be coming across as too intense too quick
/r/seduction10/05/22 03:48 PM
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If you’re in the point where you’re taking pictures of her in a session (I assume) there has to be a minimum of trust already established Next time u see her in a shoot or to give her the photos or whatever, talk, make some conversation, connect with her, say how you’re (I assume) passionate about photography, ask about her, get her talking and be a good listener After about 10 minutes or so of conversation when the investment is there (then again, if ur taking her pictures she’s at least a bit …
/r/seduction09/05/22 05:05 PM
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We men, can be insecure, stupid and unsure If you say there’s already tension between you too, be as literal as possible Because some hints will be like “nah she’s not hitting at me” “I’ll ruin it” “she’s just being friendly” “i think that’s flirting but not sure”, etc Be as literal and direct as you feel comfortable, don’t play games, don’t confuse him
/r/seduction09/05/22 02:06 PM
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Yeah bro tell her 🤡 it’ll definitely make her like you a lot bro 🤡🤡🤡
/r/seduction06/05/22 09:59 PM
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I literally have approached girls in clubs who didn’t give me any eye contact or smiles prior, and still had wins, just through conversation, flirting and I’d say my looks to a degree Literally approach her, talk Yes, there’s loud music, so? You can approach her, say “hey” and gesture you wanna say something, see her body language and approach her ear and talk Ask her to dance, say you think you know her (to break the ice), or say you’d like to meet her then 😏 Dance, drink, flirt, it’s a club, h…
/r/seduction05/05/22 04:42 PM
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No easy way out, get used to rejection I actually find approach anxiety harder than fear of rejection Once I get past the initial opener I can ask out no problem Been rejected so many times it doesn’t hurt, at all Get used to it
/r/seduction04/05/22 10:27 PM
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One thing I noticed is that in your places used, you don’t mention parties, bars or nightclubs You mentioned more day to day, usual errands kind of places, and that’s ok, but I’ve approached WAY LESS girls than 500 (gotta respect u for that, takes balls), but still gotten more action, doing my approaches in bars and nightclubs, those are social settings and people are there to meet people and be social Absolutely nothing wrong with daygame, I want to implement it in my routine, but I don’t think…
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:13 PM
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No
/r/seduction30/04/22 08:52 PM
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What is even this post 💀
/r/seduction29/04/22 02:10 AM
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Personally it’s not my style, I can see it working if you’ve got the dumb funny attitude and know how to pull it off, personally I don’t think I could As for what do I usually work with I do less layered more small talk focused openers “hey! Do I know you? Did you go to [X] college by any chance?” Yeah, it’s less funny and playful than yours but not everyone may be into playful-funny And this is a legit question you could ask a stranger, then depending on their reaction, vibe and body language I…
/r/seduction27/04/22 03:29 PM
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Yeah about what would “push her” to do so Girls are weird, so it could be anything To not seem easy “oh you talk to me for 2 minutes and you get to take me on an insta date? You’re gonna have to try harder” To play hard to get To seem interesting To shitest me To see how easy or quick I give up Girls I’m friends with have told me they sometimes would stop replying to a guy to see how much/if he pushes and how interested he is I can take a “no” with zero problem but my question was if one “no” fr…
/r/seduction26/04/22 01:31 AM
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Fair enough, I just didn’t abruptly end the chat nor seemed angry, kept it going for like a minute more then wished her a good one, hope I did fine
/r/seduction25/04/22 11:57 PM
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Absolutely nothing wrong with it, nor is it an excuse The idea is to get her used to you leading and to saying “yes” to you “Do you like food?” Yes, “do you like the view?” Yes “do you like me?” ….yes As for the sexual and emotional connection, if you shoot your shot too soon she’ll activate her slut defense mechanism and close off I was once charming this girl and talking with her and it was smooth, so within like 10 minutes of talking I dropped a “hey where do you live? Wanna go home?” And she…
/r/seduction25/04/22 04:24 AM
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“Is it wrong?” Absolutely not, you’re male in prime age for dating and having sex and if you’re so low inhib that you shoot your shot at every chance possible I can do nothing more than applaud you It’s not “wrong” by any means, the only negative I could see is if it does distract you from your work/makes you late and affects your productivity or if you literally approach EVERY girl no matter the circumstances (married, with a dude, an employee, someone with earphones, someone crying, etc), but …
/r/seduction25/04/22 04:05 AM
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Good emotional and sexual connection You seem to have the sexual element handled so I’ll skip it In emotional connection, make her share about herself, make her trust you, say she’s funny and pretty, make her feel seen (but don’t simp, it’s a fine line, I’m not an expert in it I’ll admit) And make her follow you, “hey let’s grab drinks” grabs her hand and take her there, “hey lemme introduce you to….” takes her there and so on and so on Make her used to following you around, make sure you connec…
/r/seduction25/04/22 04:00 AM
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:’v
/r/seduction24/04/22 03:13 PM
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Based
/r/seduction24/04/22 05:33 AM
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Damn, this hurts One of my first nights nightgaming I talked to this girl and had this incredible nice connection, I was surprised on how well it went with a girl that cute that fast, she insisted on buying drinks for both of us, we cuddled, I had her all over me, we were super close, talking extremely close to my face and being extremely sexual around me, we took some selfies, madeout, exchanged Instagram and even “made plans” for next weeks Little did I know all I’d get from her on DMs would b…
/r/seduction24/04/22 05:28 AM
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Good going, being on vacation I definitely have limited time and resources here so I’ll just try instadates instead Also about drinks I have a rule of “the first one on me”, call it what you will, I think of it as chivalry, my “man” sacrifice and it’s not a big deal, only the first one tho, more than that and you’re a walking ATM, specially if she isn’t responding, wether sexually or romantically
/r/seduction24/04/22 05:15 AM
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I would sometimes keep the talk going (sometimes to uncomfortable lengths) or ask for their instas and try to set up dates in the future (with some success surprisingly) Or straight up approach at the club, buy them drinks and makeout 💀
/r/seduction24/04/22 05:10 AM
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I literally can’t drink because of a medical condition for 2 months and I’ve been to countless clubs and parties and made out with girls If me, who literally CAN’T drink a single drop of alcohol can still make progress, I believe you can take it easy with a light beer and maybe a shot all night and go along with the party Literally control what enters your mouth and know how to say no, and it’s all about socializing, not getting drunk, as long as you’re fun to be around and cool, people won’t pr…
/r/seduction24/04/22 02:40 AM
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