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NaturalBridge12/r/Divorce_Men20/04/24 02:25 AM
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That’s a waste. The longest period he could possibly have to pay alimony for a five year marriage is like three years. It’ll suck but it won’t be long.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/24 03:24 AM
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And many men do. In my district it’s 3-2, so three of the judges tend to award primary custody and two of them look to do joint. So there are plenty plenty of men who get joint physical custody. All men will get joint legal custody unless there is abuse involved.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/24 03:09 AM
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Okay, one obvious situation where I can give it to you, if you are being abused, the sooner you file an action asking for a restraining order, the sooner the court hearing for that will be set. So the sooner the better. Which necessarily means filing before the other. But if both people filed on the same day it would make zero difference who was the plaintiff or defendant.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/24 03:07 AM
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So if you get an award of joint custody it’s literally one week with you, one week with the other parent. Now if mom gets primary psychical custody, you’ll get a schedule of parenting time. The typical visitation schedule for a noncustodial parent in the US is every other weekend, Wednesday evenings, half of every school break and alternating holidays. And you can speak with them on the phone for 30 minutes a day.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/24 01:29 AM
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Texas. Every single state in the union has the same laws around custody. That’s is, whatever is in the best interest of the child, is what they are going to do. That’s the standard in Alaska or Maine or Florida. Which is why it can be so judge dependent, because there isn’t any law that states specifically what they are to do. And the judge is never going “to assume”. They are going to listen to the evidence presented in trial and make their ruling through that.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/24 12:40 AM
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Haha man it’s crazy but where I am I think half the practicing family law attorneys have gone through at least one divorce
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/24 11:40 PM
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I mean if one party violated the agreement and just took the dog away, the judge might award you attorneys fees for having to bring this to the court AND give you 100% custody of the dog. If she looks really bad in what she did. And everything in family law is drama inducing, so that’s just an accepted part of the practice.
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/24 11:38 PM
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Honestly it depends on the judge. Some judges just as a matter of course don’t give out joint custody because they think it’s bad for children to have two homes. But then there are some that are open to joint custody as long as you don’t give them a reason not to be. My advice? After you file, you can file a motion for sanctions. While the divorce is pending you are not allowed to discuss it with your kids. Make the judge aware of her behavior. To really fight for joint custody, you will need ev…
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/24 11:36 PM
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No the judge just said wife gets house and has to pay him out 35% of it. He also had to pay all her attorneys fees. I’ll be honest I have zero understanding of how community property states do their thing. So you’ll have to ask one who practices in one of those states.
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/24 07:24 PM
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So the wife cheated, and he moved out. It drove him crazy. Eventually he showed up at the wife’s office and drew on the walls “Jane doe is a slut”.
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/24 06:48 PM
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Throwing someone in jail for two days for talking to their children about the divorce and how daddy is “trying to steal y’all away from me”
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/24 04:35 PM
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Fort Worth
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/24 04:34 PM
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When a divorce is between a couple with no minor children, there’s zero gender bias. So assets I wouldn’t worry so much. Custody is where the bias comes in. And it depends on the judge. But most judges have a philosophy that it’s best for kids to live primarily in one place. These are primary custody judges. Those ones always favor the women. Now occasionally you might get a joint custody judge, who will give kids one week at dads and one week at moms. You can see how that might be difficult to …
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/24 04:33 PM
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Well I’ve seen the wife try and steal them from the husband because she’s “scared for her life”. Which is 99% of the time bs. Find some place secure to hide them from her.
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/24 04:31 PM
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It’s also a good thing on the other end. If you were wealthy and only married two years, the judge isn’t going to give half of your assets away. If their weren’t any kids they will probably just give the spouse 50% of only your earned income those two years
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/24 04:03 AM
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Lol why do you think I’m doing this
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/24 04:01 AM
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I’ve seen dog visitation out in numerous settlements.
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/24 04:00 AM
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I’m in an equitable distribution state as well, which is most of them. Which means the trial court is not looking to split things equally…. But equitably. It gives them a wide range of what to do with assets. And yes usually they’ll try to go 50/50… but then I’ve seen cases where one parties behavior leading up to the divorce was so reckless and their behavior so bad during the months it was pending…well that man got 35% of the equity in the marital residence….. which was their only asset. But i…
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/24 03:59 AM
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If you’re agreeing to sell a property and divide the proceeds, make sure it has a clause specifying when it has to be put on the market and at what price range an offer MUST be accepted. I’ve seen women use this ambiguity to stay in the house far longer than they should
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/24 02:45 AM
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DM me
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/24 02:20 AM
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Some people can get through it on 10k. Unless there’s a massive battle. I’m in one right now for a client. But if we lose on this issue in trial it’ll cost him $150,000. So he figures it’s worth it to spend 20k in legal fees to fight it and hopefully win (which we will)
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/24 02:19 AM
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Did you earn the money you deposited into it before or during the marriage? If during the percentage of that account you funded will be considered marital property.
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/24 02:18 AM
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She may refuse to give you parenting time. Then you’ll need to get a lawyer and ask a judge for it, which WILL be given to you absent extreme circumstances
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/24 02:16 AM
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NEVER come to an informal agreement that pays her child support outside of the approved channel.. I’ve seen guys who paid their ex $20,000 over Venmo over five years and then get in 20,000 k in arrears cause they thought they could
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/24 02:14 AM
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This is not true at all. I’m a divorce attorney.
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/24 02:11 AM
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Being the plaintiff or the defendant has ZERO importance. It literally only changes who goes up first at trial. There’s no benefit to being the one who files
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/24 02:10 AM
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Don’t pay the alimony. Pay the child support and health care. I’m an attorney irl…. If she brings you back into court for contempt just ask for her finances in discovery and show she’s with a new man…you’ll be just fine. They can garnish wages for child support but not alimony.
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/24 12:41 AM
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Took the red pill myself but when I met the right girl I kept my mouth shut about it lol. Still a red pill, still in love
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:17 AM
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So a woman who is 500 pounds and is into you? Yeah did t think so. Love is when A girl out of your league you find attractive somehow is into you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:49 AM
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Exactly this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:11 AM
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Wait till they turn 35
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:36 AM
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Lol everyone knows this is the biggest cope. Yeah women in relationships have their ups and downs, but so does having friends. But it’s better than the alternative…. Cold, dark, and alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:45 AM
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Make porn illegal. For our sons and daughters, the next generation. So they don’t have to experience this monstrosity taking over the young men and womens brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:40 AM
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100%. A significant other is what usually gets people together, that was its purpose in your 20s, that after partying and sleeping around you feel lost and even more alone, and then that perfect someone comes along and both become better for it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 03:46 AM
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Status and power makes women horny
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:12 AM
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This is so dumb….because women don’t reproduce with guys off looks. This is an old adage cause it’s true…. Men seek out fertility and women seek out status. Elon musk gets a lot better chances at reproducing because he started a successful company that made him rich than any amount of “gymmaxxing” could do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 01:45 AM
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Okay well, men will get horny for any attractive woman. Women will get horny for a man they desire. With those two things even, the woman will be far hornier. It’s true women don’t just wanna fuck everything that walks
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 01:25 AM
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Man you’re so so wrong on this. Women and men express it in different ways, but with women, when they find a guy they like, theirs is so much stronger than the mans
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 01:05 AM
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You can posses that clarity 24/7 on about day 15 of nofap
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 02:29 AM
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Honestly usually just about the only reason I reject a girl…..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:20 PM
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Just go to a strip club, for the right amount most strippers will be your hooker for a night
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:10 PM
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I just feel like many women say that until they hit 35 and realize they want a child. But I’m sure there are some who really don’t and never will want to have children, despite their overwhelming implicit biological drive, ingrained within thousands of years of only having ancestors who reproduced, to further the species. Anomalies I suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:16 AM
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Really? You’re one of those child free types huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:08 AM
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A scenario I’ve seen a handful of times, where the wife is a doctor and the husband is not, usually he’s an accountant, teacher, something like that. And after 15 years of marriage trouble comes up in it, and then the wife suddenly realizes in the past 15 years she’s made 8 million dollars and he’s made $800,000, and the wife knows if they divorce the man will get 50% of all her hard earned money. And she thinks well we both shared the heavy lifting on raising the kids, even while I worked so ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:55 AM
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Often this dynamic leads to resentment eventually tho. Have discovered this from taking hundreds of family law depositions. Will you do a prenup?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:18 PM
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It’s not porn it’s movies like twitchlight that make them all think some guy like that is gonna come sweep them off their feet. Guys aren’t actually like Robert Pattinson in real life mostly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:07 AM
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Today if I was able to marry a girl in her 20s who had slept with less than four people honestly that’s the modern equivalent to marrying a virgin in 1829
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/23 04:03 AM
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Aren’t Latinos white? Is being Spanish a whole different ethnicity than being from England or Germany?
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/23 06:41 AM
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Hilarious how threatened all the women here feel as evidenced by their strong reactions
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:33 AM
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You’re in a better situation than 99% of males in their early thirties
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/22 02:50 AM
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Male lurker here, if you’re gonna give them a phone keep it a flip with just texting and calling as long as possible. I didn’t have a smartphone until high school and I remember I couldn’t believe the stuff my friends were used to looking at that I wasn’t, vile stuff out there and at that age it’s impossible to know to turn away if it’s at your fingertips.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/22 12:04 PM
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That’s the goal
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 04:58 AM
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Men will never stop trying to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:04 AM
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