NaturalSelectionNine Archive

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1	How to change your mindset around very attractive women? + FR What has worked for me with very attractive girls is not differentiating between them and less attractive girls at all. For me a 9 is the same as a 6, and honestly they really are, especially from a personality perspective, if you spend enough time with them. So till you don't break the habit of differentiating, judging and sorting girls as attractive or unattractive unconsciously in your mind, you may not see much success with "attractive" girls. And as for how I prevent myself from falling int…	/r/seduction	02/10/25 08:28 AM
1	How to get into the right mood before date or being social without alcohol? Don't make drinking your crutch. You have to do the approaches no matter how shitty, helpless and weak you feel, but fortunately eventually your physiology will adapt. So it's hard only in the beginning. As one of the guys here suggested, if you're feeling like shit, firstly don't be harsh on yourself, stay calm and do light approaches, including guys, with 0 expectations. And once you start getting in the groove, go all in, but do NOT drink. Do not make it your crutch brother. Build yourself to…	/r/seduction	02/10/25 07:43 AM
1	How to approach this girl at class There's no such thing as "gradual" attraction, brother; that's just comfort building while attraction is at maintenance. Currently you've got attraction for her; she doesn't for you, and until and unless you don't shoot your shot, you won't be able to create attraction fast that actually builds to comfort, which you've been talking about as "gradual" attraction. The comfort stage is where the win-win situation is created. So by wasting time and not taking action, you're not only doing yourself h…	/r/seduction	02/10/25 07:19 AM
1	Tinder openers I won't give you any lines because you can find tons online. Instead I'd give you the principles and systems to keep in mind that will help you be creative and curate your own texts that actually get you results. You must stand out with your opening text, so you must accuse her. How do you accuse her such that its playful but at the same time -ve enough to get a reaction out of her? Push-pull, i.e., you saying a statement that has both +ve & -ve elements to it. Now you can take this a step furth…	/r/seduction	02/10/25 07:11 AM
1	How Do You Flirt and Build Sexual Tension? Calibration. You learn to calibrate well when you’re present. You learn to be present with the girl when you’re consistently cold approaching girls enough that you’ve forced & now built your mind to be present. So once its present it knows exactly when to. Show intent, tease, pull back, neg, escalate verbally, logistically & physically to make things work.	/r/seduction	01/10/25 07:37 AM
2	How Do You Flirt and Build Sexual Tension? By staying consistent at cold approaching girls, building abundance, enough repetitions with girls that you truly understand & can predict their behaviour. From that point on they’re no longer a “mystery” & that’s when it starts to make emotionally no difference.	/r/seduction	01/10/25 07:34 AM
2	Coworker Just don’t. Go out, cold approach girls, build abundance & an attractive character. Build your life attractive & interesting. If you shoot your shot when you’re not the best version of yourself the odds of you getting rejected & your work environment getting spoiled for you increases. That’s why you go out on the streets, put work there & in every other domain of your life & let her make the first move i.e. something as small as simply asking something about you. That’s more than enough for you …	/r/seduction	01/10/25 07:23 AM
2	Can't control my m****bation Brother you need to channelise that energy into something sexually productive & nothing is better than actually going out, approaching girls, talking to them & making things happen. Not only will you feel more channelized. But the subset skills you’ll learn will just make sure that this skill adds to almost every domain of your life i.e. wealth (sales), health (discipline), mental health (strong self belief) etc.	/r/seduction	01/10/25 07:19 AM
1	Looking for a a little help in San Diego 🙏 Nothing will help you more than going out solo & doing cold approaches solo man. Sure you can still try to look for a coach or a wing on the side but the skill of going out solo is too potent. It’ll build you a strong self belief, self image, belief in the process etc.	/r/seduction	01/10/25 07:16 AM
6	How to deal with Extrovert Guys in mixed sets Simply start cold approaching girls more consistently & seriously, that’ll build the abundance you need to not be needy & WANT to be the extrovert guy in your warm social group nor will you want attention from girls there. That’ll build your sub communications & vibe that actually get the girls in your group attracted & even the extrovert guy himself & befriending you. So don’t be dependent on your social circle, go out, approach girls & build your abundance yourself.	/r/seduction	01/10/25 07:11 AM
3	Being physically attractive makes life easier but it’s not the only advantage Glad that things are getting better for you. But you need to take this more seriously than ever, dedicate at least next 3 months into actually going out & cold approaching girls. Sounds scary I know but its such a potent meta skill that am confident it’ll solve most of your issues especially the mental ones.	/r/seduction	30/09/25 08:33 PM