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If he tries to suggest anything lame (like plastic wrap), end the date ... what?? is this a thing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 05:33 PM
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another reason to not go 50/50. i bet he could have been seduced with the fries even more if he bought them for her. "oh yeah baby, i bought you those fried potatoes. " ​ the bar is set too low.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 05:19 PM
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I literally had my crazy ex say during the breakup "Ok, I will remember to not do that to the next girl" Me:??!?!?!? I want her to see it so maybe she will be smart enough to run away from crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 05:17 PM
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if they are having a freakout right now about their peepee, thats the entitlement and they see women as objects. this is all "why does he do that" by lundy bancroft at work. throw the LVM out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 05:09 PM
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we need to stop the dick-lexia going on out there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 05:03 PM
76

Paying on dates, being 50/50, being barb the builder will lead to resentment when they reach midlife crisis and they leave their starter/"partner" wife for second/dream wife. If he is not spending on you, he is saving and preparing to spend on dream wife who is probably in middle/highschool right now. You want to show independence and power? Find a guy who would love to provide for and protect you and allows you to reach your dreams without added stress. Use your brain ladies. Work smart, not ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 04:53 PM
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- Do I tell the man I'm dating that I'm accepting dates from other people? (e.g. telling them on the first date that this doesn't mean that we're exclusive just yet) You don't say anything, you keep that to yourself until they ask to be exclusive. Then at that point, they may ask if you were seeing anyone else too. I admitted it. Gave him a nice spook ;) - Round about, how many dates later should I expect exclusivity? Keep the cookie in the jar for now, wait around 2-3 months. Too soon and it mi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 04:46 PM
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yeah... how about no. i am not fighting for anything. my mani is fresh and isn't worth a mantrum or struggle love 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 04:39 PM
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Aaaand this is how you learn who to block out of your life when you open up and warn/tell others about what happened with a crazy man. They don't believe you, they believe him. They don't respect you, so respect yourself and leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 10:17 PM
31

GET ME OUT OF THIS SEA AND INTO LAND SO HELP ME TRITON
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 09:55 PM
189

how did you find a picture of me and my ex back from my clown days i would literally have people come up to me and say "you are too beautiful for this guy!" me: "BuT i LiKe HoW sMaRt He Is" smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 05:07 AM
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if this is real, this girl needs some serious therapy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 05:05 AM
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if they are expecting this, i dont want flowers and chocolate and dinner on valentines day just throw the whole man away until you get one that is happy with just your smile and maybe a kiss on the cheek as a gift back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 05:03 AM
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He's planning on dumping you soon, or cheating. Theres good guys out there who would love you no matter what your conditions are. They will hold you and support you while you take your meds, and taking care of you will make them happy. They will respect and love you no matter what happens, because they genuinely want to be with you for you. Theres also guys out there who are looking for a checklist and don't like you fulfill it anymore, and feel entitled to a certain type of character on their s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 07:07 PM
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Honestly ladies, if we had the self confidence and the audacity of this one troll IRL (guided towards standards and self love), we would be set for life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 06:57 PM
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I am more impressed by your ability to shit on command. Aint that some shit...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 06:45 PM
18

Age matters also, being low-no count over 30 years old is usually sketch. And just wanting to talk about the partners outside of what you learned or what you are looking for is not a good sign. I'm ok with relatively high counts, just get it out of your system and don't treat it as baggage. Like, you had a life before me, great. Cool. No sarcasm here, really. Just don't bring me your low count baggage about how your mommy and daddy didn't love each other and that is why its hard for you to love …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 06:43 PM
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Of course! Check out the rescuer on the victims of seduction: "The Rescuer:Often, we are drawn to people who seem vulnerable, their sadness can be seductive. But some people are only attracted to those with problems. This may seem noble, but Rescuers have complicated motives. They are usually sensitive and truly want to help, but they also get a kick out of helping people – it makes them feel powerful. You can recognize this type by their empathy, they listen well and try to get you to open up. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 07:20 PM
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Sounds like you dodged a bullet!<3 I suggest you re-read the portions on picking the right victim and the anti-seductive traits. These people usually tell on themselves early on.. you just have to know what to look for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 07:15 PM
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This is why you have to have strict boundaries. You can admit it is funny and cute on the rare occasion, but you HAVE to nip it in the bud when you start seeing it. Men will walk all over you and will only act like men when you force them to. ​ ex script for this scenario: "Hey husband, I thought you were going through a phase with the cute names and admit it made me laugh at first, but I don't feel comfortable with you talking like that anymore. It makes me feel like I am with a child, and I am…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 07:06 PM
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Idk, I would prefer a man to just admit he was a hoe and a half before and own it and not be ashamed and call it the past. Or if he is respectful of his current state, he would know to not mess with you and walk away. But that would require some self awareness... Its the trying to manipulate your feelings that is a problem. He is saying "don't catch feelings". By saying that, even if you weren't yet, is subconsciously putting you in a state were you are. And you called him on it rather than chas…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 06:54 PM
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Its a manipulation technique to get you to do the pickme dance, or to make him feel better and bring you down to his level. What he wanted you to say: "Oh no bby, you arent a hoe... let me prove to you why" "Its ok bby... I like hoes, or I can handle your hoe-ness" ​ It is similar t the guys who say "you are too good for me", etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 06:45 PM
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Oh babygirl no...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 06:27 AM
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Yeah, I understand. I love wings but I’m generally a messy eater so I have to work double time to not be a mess. I can imagine it being super embarrassing if you don’t even try to eat it cleanly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 06:28 PM
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Every woman should read Regena Thomashauer’s “Pussy: A Reclamation”. It’s about becoming in tune with your pussy, falling in love with it and letting it guide you. There’s a whole chapter about just appreciating the beauty of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 05:57 AM
15

Are these the same people who say not to eat chicken wings on dates because it’s unclassy? Because chicken wings are bomb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 05:26 PM
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I think it’s actually a good time. I see COVID as a sort of chaperone. You do more screening calls, screening videos. Get to know them and get over the phone. Take a longer time to hold hands, kiss, get physical. You say scripts like “I know there’s a pandemic, but I trust you in finding/planning something amazing” and see what they do. Are they doing picnics at the beach or a garden for you? Looking up a nice restaurant with clear labels of outdoor seating, not takeout? For intimacy: “I like yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 05:22 PM
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My soul needed this. Thank you 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 01:25 AM
7

I've never heard of that show, but I looked it up. Oh my...😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 07:39 PM
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In this case I deserve a handsome red haired Scottish man with a thick accent who knows just enough understandable English to compliment me all day long 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 05:52 PM
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In the book “the body keeps the score” the author talks about how complex PTSD is manifested in different ways. Men who were abused as children tend to take it out on others and externalize their pain and abuse on others. Manifestations can be outwardly scary and terrifying for all. Women in the same situation tend to internalize their pain and abuse on themselves. Manifestations tend to be internal and hides. Anyways, some proponents suggest a possible cause of (some) chronic illnesses, or an i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 05:39 PM
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If they are from OLD, I don’t allow them to pick me up the first 2-3 months. I’m fine with paying for my own gas then, since I want to be able to bounce. If they are from real life, I’m ok with being picked up after a month. After that time I would prefer being driven everywhere, so that is where him paying for gas comes in. I learned that I got pissed just driving for an hour to see them, even if they drive to me all the time, after 6 months of dating because I really hate driving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 04:35 PM
11

TIL I’m a tranny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 04:30 PM
6

Do you have sample situations? At early stages?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 04:04 AM
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More strategy content! More vetting advice, prepare scripts for questions, things we should know ourselves beforehand, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 01:38 AM
2

Watch out for your safety. He sees you and your things as property to own and destroy. He got the tree, run before something happens to you too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 01:01 AM
2

Don’t talk about it. But live FDS. Then see how they react.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 12:59 AM
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He makes you pay a single penny towards seeing him. For anything. At all. 🗑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 12:55 AM
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that’s why you say, “oh, you mean like a date?” with a smile. Then lean back and see the beautiful fear in their eyes 👀 Or:”I would love to, but I don’t have any money on me.” Play innocent with their words until you hear them say the words you want to hear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 01:11 AM
4

This is heartbreaking for my soul 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 12:31 AM
7

Look at you calling yourself out on not being able to grow up. Boo hoo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 12:28 AM
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I give them the same look when they talk like they are on the pedestal. Do you know who you are talking to??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 12:17 AM
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I just go along with it then say I have to go, they ask to see who and I say my bf and they get angry I wasted their time. Not my problem you had a scheme 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 12:13 AM
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I mean, swiffers are pretty cool. I would drop a cracker just to pick it up with the swifter as well 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 12:12 AM
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Sign of Madonna: Extreme pedestal on everything. Is uncomfortable of you being sexual Sign of Whore: Be normal with flaws then the pedestal breaks and you are nothing to him. Sees only sexual in you Ideally, a well balanced madonna/whore mindset can be a whirlwind of romance to a man, but he needs to get through his thick skull of the wonderful duality of the woman soul. If he can’t see it, he won’t see that we can be both motherly beings of goodness, and also seductive and charming and alluring…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 07:48 PM
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I heard this from someone I went on a first date with last week. I honestly hear that all the time though from close friends, acquaintances and strangers that I accept I’m genuinely unique, so it’s more of a statement of the obvious than a flattery for me. Anyways, I told him how strange, I have met many other women as amazing as me, I guess he needs to change the women he associates with and he will see them more often. That got him to stop. I wouldn’t take his comment seriously though. He migh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 07:01 PM
12

I’ve reclaimed the word gold digger for myself. I used to hate money and wished it would go away and people who were too focused on it were superficial. However, life events have caused me to change my mind and see the value and get out of my “it’s ok to be poor” mindset. I actually like to call it “goal digging”. Why? Well, I’m a space cadet constantly living in my dreamland who wants to have kids and teach them about the world, and I am not working while they are young. I’m too tired some days…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:25 PM
12

I’ve always wanted to be an actress but I am so self conscious that I got into STEM. Why don’t I practice my acting skills and dig for the gold? Might as well get something good out of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:07 PM
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And kick out any scrote who says “well, it’s your fault for putting yourself in a situation like this” or ”you must have known that would have happened”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 03:36 AM
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Probably due to all the”hanging out”. That’s enough 🚩right there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 03:33 AM
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Plot twist: agree, then go after the girl and become her bff, dump the bf and have wine nights with the girls and new bff into the sunset 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 05:35 PM
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This is such a beautiful little story! 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 05:34 PM
8

I’m imagining it looks like this: Woman: $100 for shopping trip?? Is work cutting your hours? 😤 Man: put me in my place, mamasita😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 04:41 PM
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They are becoming self aware! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 04:22 PM
4

It’s so fun though! Oh who is who, who does what, it’s like a fun puzzle! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 04:10 PM
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Don’t get any dating advice from men (unless they are vetted HVM with HVW wives, and even then, get advice from the wives first), or reddit (unless it is FDS!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 04:09 PM
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I... I think I met my spiritual twin in you. Securing the bag is my kink, it turns me on to be financially secured and in my femininity 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 04:07 PM
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I think the ones that are somewhat redeemable would step up. They need to have their inner transformation to change their ways, the same many of us had here to be HVW. Of course, there will be some that never were, and they would be more clear to see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:57 PM
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This is why you play dumb fox and innocent, it makes them think they can relax and say these things. It takes some time for them to relax, but the truth comes out eventually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:36 PM
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How interesting that your only sense of pride is a hormone that is associated with rage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 10:06 PM
10

Your mom knows what is up! <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 04:25 PM
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This only works if he pays all my bills, lets me stay at home and spoils me. Then I’ll bring him a snack that he bought, and only as a thank you for him treating me to a spa day. Because I want him to be happy that I appreciate and acknowledge that he treats me well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 04:06 PM
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I don’t understand, he is not the type of person we are looking to be with. Anyone with a RP mentality is NOT someone who genuinely wants to be with us. We don’t want you! Go back to getting chased by pickmeishas, you know deep down you don’t want them either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 03:19 PM
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Why are these guys so obsessed with Chad?? Clearly, Chad broke their heart at the age of 17 and they can’t ever love someone else because of Chad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:51 PM
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On OLD, this is a good filter. When you exchange numbers, mention that you don’t like texting and prefer calls. Set up a time for him to call you and see if he calls. If he doesn’t call within the 30 minutes, block! And don’t respond to texts unless it’s planning a call or verifying where you are meeting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:10 PM
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RUN! This is way too early for this talk, if ever. He’s testing your boundaries and seeing what you tolerate. He should never be triangulating you, he’s trying to make you want to chase him and prove yourself. This is all PUA shit. RUN AND DONT LOOK BACK
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 01:24 AM
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This is why we do what we do here, ladies! The spawn of Satan has spoken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 12:13 AM
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It’s good if they ask when they want to know your passions and interests and how they can make you happy. It’s bad if they ask when they want to know how much easier you can make their life. Gauging their responses is the real test. But I’ve learned to just not talk about work or my education and be very vague. Not because I’m not proud, but bc it really shouldn’t matter since my passions and goals aren’t related to that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 05:44 PM
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I think there’s an internal go with the flow balance. Once you know your standards and expectations, you can truly be at peace with what happens. You can accept or reject with calm ease. It looks externally go with the flow, but you know exactly what you are looking for. Have your own reqs set to yourself. Say, he will wait at least 3-6 months for sex, will say he loves you by 6 months, will propose within the year, and you will only accept if he will provide for you and you move into a house. O…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 05:36 PM
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You are interviewing them, don’t let them interview you! You are the table, they are bringing the goods.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 05:24 PM
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A real honest relationship will require vulnerability and closeness. If you know you can’t handle that with others, please spend time alone to figure that out and work on yourself. Dating around can also be seen as a form of therapy. What triggers you? What makes you feel weird? What do you like and don’t like? Sometimes we don’t know we are avoidant until we see it in a relationship, and sometimes a particular person who is clingy can make us feel avoidant. You might cause more heartache with o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 06:27 PM
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It’s 2020 bb, you don’t have to be scared to come out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:30 PM
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Great! And sometimes they say that to get you to beg for them to stay. They want to see you be sad they are leaving. Leave them on read, Queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:28 PM
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They think of themselves of the prize. They think of themselves as the ladies, who are waiting for their strong, hardworking men to be there for them. That should give you the whole perspective of future relationship expectations. Stick to the ones that seem/are genuine, they will respect you more and treat you how you should be treated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:27 PM
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Sounds like the beginning of the devalue phase of a narcissist/controller/abuser. Drop that 🗑!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:23 PM
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I see you have met my ex....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 05:38 AM
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If he wanted to, he would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 06:21 PM
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🎶 She ain’t messin’ with no broke redditor. 🎶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 05:22 PM
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This is why you also vet your friends, tbh. They may blab about things and still see you as the older version of you, when you have grown and changed. Guy is still trash though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 01:34 AM
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I always asked myself this, then when I dated people... it was usually mentally ill men masked as slightly weird, nice, sweet nerdy guys. I kept falling for the sad broken boys but didn’t mean to, it just happened that they were. How did this happen to me? I got my butt into CBT therapy at 22 and have been doing that for 8 years, and discovered so much baggage and problems I was able to work through. This year, I found out I’ve had a severe case of complex PTSD my whole life. I found out how tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 10:27 PM
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This pandemic has been critical for me in setting this up. You are exclusive access. Not everyone is worthy of your zoom call checkin or socially distance backyard chat. You set your worth from the start and allow people to step up or step out. You will only go out for those that will treat you well and safely and know how to take care of you, and want to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 10:17 PM
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I think that it is useful, as it is trying to use FDS in action. We are trying to build up and correct each other, and sometimes we think we did post something that is good , which needs to be reassessed. Many of us want to be witty, but we just take a screen capture, block, and send the screen cap to our BFF with the appropriate emojis and clap backs with what we would have said. Over time, you just become one with the FDS-dao, and the LVM will mean nothing.... they will just roll off of you, a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 10:10 PM
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You put them in their proper place, you were a challenge and they couldn’t handle you not fawning over them. These are the same ones that years down the line tell their future gf/wives that you were the one that got away, or the one that broke their soul, that’s why they can’t trust no woman. It’s all crap, because as soon as you were to open up, they would get bored and rewrite history of your relationship or say “the spark” left. They are going after the high of the chase only. If you want to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 07:24 PM
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If you were his dream girl, he wouldn’t give you this whole woke speech. He would be more than glad to pay for everything, and even offer more. He was hoping to get a pickme to waste time while he builds up his money to get who he really wants, the “gold diggers” that get them in their feels. He doesn’t want to spend on you, because it’s not you he is after. He knows he can’t offer what you want to, so he says crap about men spoiling women. You go girl! 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 07:04 PM
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It’s your internal sparkle that was always there, FDS just made it come out and made you glow. Wear it pride and joy, no one can take it away from you 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 06:30 PM
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I have a standard that if their eyeballs aren’t about to pop out of their heads when they see me, they don’t look like they are going to faint when I toss my hair, or they look like they just saw a Goddess by the first 3 months, trash them. You deserve to be looked at like that, at the minimum 💁‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 04:56 PM
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Stop responding. Say you prefer calls, which you keep to 15 minutes. Ignore texts if he is not asking you a question. Keep it at a sentence or two.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 04:53 PM
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This is only acceptable of your toddler while they are growing up. You accept it and love it because they are your life and are growing, but will learn in time to clean up after themselves. Having to do this to keep a man? Congrats, you played yourself, Mommy McBangmaid 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 04:51 PM
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“Objectifying men and treating dating as a game to be won” Sounds like projection to me 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 06:43 AM
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That’s a good one. Usually they ask what you are looking for, and will play whatever role they think you want them to have for a good 3-6 months. Try to say: “Let’s just see where this goes” “I have to know someone first before I know what I want from them” “I need to know a person before I know what I want” “I don’t know, but I think I might have found it” (if you want to be spicy, or suggest that you want to be with them) Their dream girl is chased. You can be upfront about wanting to get marr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:47 AM
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After the last guy, I decided to no longer have a boyfriend. I take it too seriously while they don’t, and I don’t want to waste time. Solution? Build up your scrotation! Have a steady supply of 3 guys you see, and keep meeting more when one of them starts to seem sus. Once they ask for your exclusivity, just say you need more time. Hold out on not answering their exclusivity questions for as long as you can, try for 3-6 months. If they ask if you are seeing anyone, be honest and say yes. After …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 03:29 AM
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This is not just for men, but for everyone else, and yourself. You don’t have to prove your worth or seek validation from anyone. You are complete and fine on your own, and no one can take that sparkle or power away from you, once you realize it’s been there all along ✨.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 10:08 PM
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“I jUsT wAnT tO bE a BaBy AnD hElD aNd LoVeD fOr Me WhILE I eMoTiOnAlLy ToRtUrE So My PP gEtS hArD” 💩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 12:14 AM
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I was in a zoom call a few weeks ago with some church members of my religious community, and I’ve been hearing lots of things against women lately. In the last call, several of the members started saying to repeal the 19th amendment, calling black people the n word, women should be married at the age of 16-18 because they are easier to mold, and women who aren’t married by age 30 are “thots” or broken whores. And the married women on the call promote RPW and Phyllis Shafly and Suzanne Venker....…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 12:04 AM
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