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He was offering you advice, stop being a fuck. This isn't an attempt to 'save you' nor is it an attempt for /u/redearththeory to show off his donations, it was fucking advice, take or disregard. You have issues.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/16 05:29 PM
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You asked your mom for permission, she declined. What's the issue?
/r/askMRP10/07/16 02:37 PM
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I deleted my posts and replies from other subs and will make this one my RP account. Thanks for the response and heads up on doxxing. You brought up solid points and brought to light one of my personal weaknesses which I need to focus on and that is thinking everyone deserves a better life. Sometimes I find myself wanting others to improve more than they want it themselves.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/16 12:51 PM
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Get divorced and then start working on who you are as a man.
/r/askMRP23/06/16 11:48 AM
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I didn't miss that part, but there is a mix of individuals here, you've seen the guys who create this wall of Red Pill said Do this and not that so they follow the letter to the T and fucking blow it all up because what they failed to realize was the praxeology aspect of all this -the application being catered to the scenario. It's why I prefer the This is what works for me and should work for you over This is what you should do and this is what you should not do. There is a time to show emotion…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/16 11:33 AM
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Not all of those who start are stupid fucks. But I agree, if you're blind - don't lead.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/16 11:21 AM
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Not all of those who start are stupid fucks. But I agree, if you're blind - don't lead.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/16 11:18 AM
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All the tools of manning the fuck up when it comes to your marriage are not always applicable. The exact point I was making for the guys reading/lurking. Just because OP says Do Not he is not speaking in absolutes, there are men here who need this reminder.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/16 09:50 PM
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You can only lead her, you cannot force it. Though, I did have some overt conversations on the subject telling my wife that I was going to be life's Dom and enjoy every moment of it and if she wanted to walk this path with me I'd love to have her, but if she wanted to mope or let the world pass her by, she'd be on the sideline alone. Society fucks with women just as much as men, it makes them feel as though they always need something instead of immersing in what they have. My wife now paints, wr…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/16 09:41 PM
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You did the right thing. I'd suggest you subtly get her to create her own sense of 'self'. She can't just be wife, she needs to be an individual as well as lover. Also, why doesn't she go watch you and grab a drink or something?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/16 09:06 PM
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Depends on the relationship/marriage. If I told my wife I wanted her to grab more fish for example, she'd just do it. If I told her I wanted to buy $300 of wood, she'd ask why and I would explain. Some marriages are on strict budgets so both people balance wants vs needs with one another. I think the example I gave was the guy asking his wife to buy more expensive meats vice processed shit and she kept buying the processed shit because it saved them money and was 'the same' in her eyes. He showe…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/16 05:45 PM
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Agreed
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/16 05:24 PM
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Your lady will not support you. She will argue that this is not the YOU she wants This is not true in all cases, how many wives want their husband to get his ass in gear? you should not be focused on whether she supports you. Did I imply that this should be the goal? I stated that you would lose the support you would otherwise have. Instead of being like the fucks who say, I'm cooking this for me you can have some if you want it could just as easily go down as Hey, lets cook this healthy shit to…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/16 04:41 PM
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I see the line you are trying to walk, so I will be that voice that says there are situations where this does not apply - hopefully guys understand that they are not to follow your post as a rigid guideline - yet most will. There was a post where his wife would not buy him a certain food when she went grocery shopping. I told him to explain to her why he wanted that specific item. He got back to me raving about how it worked and explaining that item A was needed because it was better than item B…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/16 03:46 PM
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You are a beautiful man Thank You?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/16 03:16 PM
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Now that you see it - fix it. Smile man, your wife developed into the woman you wanted and you guys are happy together, make sure you are the man she is measuring all other men from. Remain unpredictable, make her laugh, tease her, pull her hair a little then run away, fucking undo her bra in target then disappear, just have a fucking blast - this is your wife, the woman you chose to spend your days with enjoy her. She can only display her feminine nature through being around a masculine man who…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/16 02:49 PM
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Seems to me that while you developed your body you did not develop your mind. Masculinity is physical, mental, and spiritual, your tripod is falling because you did not develop the other legs needed to hold you up. While you led your wife to improve through your improvement of 'self' you were only 'the man' because you knew you had a wife who relied on you. Now that she doesn't rely on you as much and is capable of standing on her own physically, inter-personally, and sexually you feel threatene…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/16 02:36 PM
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Great insight. This aligns quite well with why you need to have fun and tease your wife - always remaining UNpredictable. She'll never feel she has you if you're always evolving - always fluid. I will use this with my own kids - perfect example of sharing notes.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/16 02:23 PM
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Argument ensued This should not be happening every time you disagree on something. Every situation I failed at leadership brought up. Accused of being a controlling male. All very normal things for her to say. Normal things? Are they accurate? I gave her the Captain/First Officer speech and my vision and mission for the family. If you have to say (remind) that you're the Captain - you're not. she opened her own account and redirected her pay check there. Good, it wouldn't be fun if it were easy …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/16 01:55 PM
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Maybe 10 years of her and I being together and me being a lame ass beta piece of shit just dug myself a hole I can't get out of Maybe - or maybe not. Maybe you look at the shovel that was given to you by white knights and you throw it on the ground. Then you look at the mold that contains your 'self' and recognize it was created by those who fully support the feminine imperative. Then you make a decision, you stop fucking digging down. You look around you and recognize that there are tools in th…
/r/askMRP20/06/16 06:46 PM
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6 months into this and you still haven't been able to demonstrate that OI, IDGAF, Limitless Confidence to her? If she felt you truly had this, she'd follow. You missed a bill and maybe that was what caused her to lose all hope in you. She made it 8 years without missing one and you forgot in less than 1. I get it, you still made the cutoff date and there is always confusion during transition - but the fact remains, your woman doesn't trust you and that's your fault. Be confident, show that mascu…
/r/askMRP20/06/16 05:52 PM
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How long ago did you take over the bills?
/r/askMRP20/06/16 04:29 PM
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There is a time and place for humble-bragging as well as complaining, most men have nowhere in the 'real' life to do so. The key factor is that there is a point to the bragging or complaining. Something worked - tell us why. Something didn't work - tell us why and what you'll do differently next time. Crying with the expectation of internet hugs? Fuck off
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/16 03:54 PM
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Solid message and one that needs to be really ingested by individuals here. There is no need for a group of married Reddit Puppets. Own your shit, participate in this sub if you have the time and desire to share something you think may benefit others, put effort into your work the way you should with everything you do, and succeed by applying this internet note sharing in the real world.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/16 03:49 PM
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OP, /u/Archwinger provided the comment you should burn into your mind. Read it 3x's, memorize it, then look at the levels it brings to light. On the surface you get offended for him telling you the truth, then you think he's just some random internet stranger who may or may not have his own shit together...but I want you to kill your ego and remove any notion as to whether the source is credible. Look at what he said, specifically "your wife has to be the man of the house".. That is the sad trut…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/16 02:00 PM
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The biggest takeaway is the lack of approval. Masculine men live and do, free from the influence or desire to please others. His personality is unqie, his hobbies are unique, his life is solely his and this is why he is free, this is why he is masculine, there was no mold before him, he makes his own.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/16 11:20 PM
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This all sounds like I'm in her frame, but I don't believe I am. I do handle her as she needs to be handled, but I do it on my terms and no longer whine when she doesn't want to get busy. Why do you sound like you're trying to get us to affirm this notion? Why do you feel the need to defend it? hold her collar up in front of her, yes I collar her frequently What does this have to do with anything? Aside from sex, are you and your wife developing your 'self' as well as your relationship?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/16 01:02 PM
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I'd hope the picture painted would lead men to do a little introspection and come to their own recognition of ways they need to stop putting up a front.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/16 12:37 AM
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You need to move forward like a man. You like this chick? You interested in a family and making babies with her? Keep vetting and start having those discussions. The last thing you need is to let TRP or MRP push you towards or away from anything. We don't know this girl - we know the little blip you gave us, that's it. You need to be wary of becoming a pussy and no longer living your life but rather making her your mission. Keep owning your shit and if you want this chick to be your lady then fu…
/r/askMRP03/06/16 12:34 AM
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This place is a solid resource for married men and men in LTRs. I have not been a part of the community for very long but the 'notes' being shared are obviously helping to raise the standard of each of our lives and in turn raising the quality of our marriages. Every man has to own his shit as we are all walking this path on our own - but to have this sort of outlet and resource - I hope it spreads into the real world. I hope boys and men are able to find their masculine self and express it vice…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 06:18 PM
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There is no shortcut to any place worth going. With that said, if a man has a wife - he should only be fucking that wife. If that wife is not having sex with him due to her disgust at his poor performance as a man - then he should get divorced. Prostitutes can be easily justified. You get to fuck, there are no feelings attached, and you don't have to worry about the chick getting pregnant (assuming the prostitute wants to make money and not bag the guy for his cash or whatever). Here is the issu…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 02:06 PM
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