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I've met my boyfriend when I was 30. For me, dating in my late twenties and early thirties was much easier than in my early twenties. Around this age people are more straightforward, they usually make it clear from the start what they want, and if it's not your thing, it's easier to quit a bad relationship before you get in too deep. I actually know more single men who have trouble finding dates than single women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 10:14 PM
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These women are getting all the attention because it's very uncommon for women to join ISIS and uncommon stories sell better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 09:49 PM
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It's not the honesty that scares a prospective partner off, it's what they say. For instance, if I tell a man on a first date that I like to kill animals, it won't be the honesty that will scsre him away, it will be the fact that I like to kill animals. If a man had told me that he is only interested in casual sex, it would probably our last date. If the man I was dating had told me that he wants to get married and have kids in the future, I'd be happy to hear it. There's nothing wrong and creep…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 09:30 PM
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You have an ethical obligation to make it extremely clear that this relationship is strictly casual and your intentions are not going to change. If she wants to keep sleeping with you, that's on her. She is not a child and can make her own decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 09:03 PM
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True, most men I know who expressed their pride in their girlfriends' achievements did not have university degrees. However, most men with degrees and lucrative jobs I have met usually go for women who are their equals. Even if they are dating down career-wise, they will still date middle class women with university degrees and middle class jobs, not cashiers or baristas.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 03:16 PM
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It sounds unsanitary, yes. I doubt they'd clean the bots well enough after each use to kill any possible STDs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 02:46 PM
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Have you read any Jane Austen novels? Half of them are about women who are attractive, nice, intelligent, educated, and generally have a good up upbringing, but have a hard time finding husbands because their families are poor. Money has always played a big part in deciding who a person is going to marry. If you are going to raise children with someone and share your finances, that person's finances will matter. And men care about women's finances too. I have heard men bragging that their girlfr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 02:28 PM
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You should delete your Activity History on Google. Just Google Activity History.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/18 06:45 PM
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Because there are no men in biology. My father and my brother in law don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 04:40 PM
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Where I live, accounting and marketing are as good as STEM jobs, often even better ( my friends who are in biology make less than my friends who are in accounting and marketing). And even if these are not the highest paying jobs out there, they still pay a lot. My friends who are accountants or marketing specialists make enough to provide for themselves and their families. Hell, I know a few people with STEM degrees who work in marketing or sales and make more than they would in STEM.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 05:26 PM
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Never said anything like that. Men and women can cheat, men and women can be assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 05:12 PM
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Honestly - I was done with this "discussion" as your overall sentiment and comments culminate in the idea that it's fine to date assholes during a woman's youthful and better years and it's not a problem as Mr. Nice Guy Beta-Provider will be available after the assholes no longer have interest. I never said that, stop putting words in my mouth. This is confirmed by the constant wailing and caterwauling (on social media, mainstream media, women’s media, etc.) of "Where Are All the Good Men/Nice G…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 01:42 PM
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My point was, you can be as picky as you want and choose partners based on any characteristics you want. You are the one who has to live with the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 01:28 PM
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Women often commit crimes, but are far less likely to be punished or prosecuted for it. Women still commit less crimes than men, especially when it comes to violent crimes. Where's your evidence that women are less likely to leave a partner in a case of a serious illness? http://time.com/83486/divorce-is-more-likely-if-the-wife-not-the-husband-gets-sick/ That's just one article. It's general knowledge that's backed by a lot of research.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 04:01 AM
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Actually, among the young generation, women are more likely than men to have university degrees. Women might be less likely to study in STEM fields, but they often study in other high paying fields (accounting, marketing, etc.).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 03:59 AM
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I have a friend who soon will be a 31-year-old virgin. She is cute, looks very young, has a great job and her own apartment, but she is very shy. Men, in general, don't find her very attractive, although sometimes she manages to go on a date or two. At the same time, I know plenty of women who have plenty of baggage and even kids from previous relationships and have no trouble finding men to date or marry. The fact is, women who are single in their thirties are usually single for the same reason…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 03:50 AM
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Because single women don't know yet that their marriage is likely to make them less happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 03:42 AM
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Many women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 03:37 AM
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Women are less likely to commit crimes than men and are less likely to leave a partner in case of serious illness. Does that prove anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 03:34 AM
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Well... To be fair, there are a lot of men who express a belief that men shouldn't or can't be faithful, so you can't blame women for distrusting men in such situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 03:28 AM
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I have literally never met a woman who would ask where all the good men are gone. Complaining about bad experiences or particular men is common, but being mad at men in general? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 03:22 AM
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I have literally never met a bitter cat lady. How can you be bitter if you have cats?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 03:17 AM
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Do people really judge other people for having preferences when it comes to dating? Where I come from, you can have any preferences you want, but you won't get any pity if the virgin super-model millionaires won't date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 01:08 AM
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At this point a woman's better years are gone and she will NEVER be as lovely, nice, innocent, virtuous, beautiful, and appreciative of a Good Man as she might have been from teen years to early 20s. Looool. Have you even met teenagers? Teenagers are assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 12:56 AM
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Men are less likely to even be married, at least 10%. I am sorry, what? How is that even possible unless we are talking about India and China where there are about 10% more men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 12:50 AM
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But my point is I will hesitate deeply before committing to anyone in the first place. Well, you should. Commitment is serious and scary, if you don't hesitate at first, you are a moron. For some men (and women) the most comforting way to minimize risk is to not commit at all. Well, it's a reasonable choice, as long as you are honest and upfront about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 05:10 PM
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Well, a man can hire a prostitute, also easy. The fact is, research shows that men and women are equally likely to cheat (with men being slightly more likely to cheat, but that could be the standard error margin).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 04:47 PM
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you allow men to men to mistreat you...whether you're dating them or not Yep, blame the victim. Please enlighten me, how am I supposed to not allow people to mistreat me? I can tell them to fuck off or to walk away, but the fact that they have mistreated me is not going away. you're confused on how to recognize assholes I am not. you are confused and incapable of selecting ONLY good, stable, and responsible men; by virtue of asking the question indicates cluelessness and is problematic for anyon…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 04:44 PM
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I honestly don't blame women either who are paranoid after being approached by married or taken men. Well, there's a difference between being paranoid and careful after seeing people of the opposite gender cheat and treating people of the opposite gender badly because of some people of the opposite gender who cheat. Every person should be treated accordingly to how they act. I am not going to treat my boyfriend badly because some other man hurt me, I shall be more careful around him because I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 04:30 PM
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Then that's not what interpreted from it, it seemed to me you were implying cheating isn't a female behaviour as in that women don't cheat naturally. Maybe I wasn't clear. What I meant to stay, cheating is not a female-only behaviour, men and women cheat. I don't disagree, but thinking of cheating and doing it are very different things. Thinking about something and trying to do it are different things. I have thought about murdering someone, but if I'd try to do it, I would go to jail. I don't s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 04:16 PM
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Can't even fathom the stupidity of this. Damned if you do, damned if you don't. I guess, the guy in question wanted to sleep with me, so he wanted to make me feel bad for not putting out. They do however ask to tell your dating partner,your boyfriend,your husband your stance on promiscuity or if you engage in it so he can make his own choice. That's absolutely reasonable, but you can approach this subject differently. If I were asked on an early date how many partners I had, I would be offended.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 04:10 PM
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What you seem to not realize is that there are visible and invisible behaviours. Being unfaithful to someone is a visible behaviour, but being faithful to someone isn't. You can't see me being faithful to my boyfriend, you don't see me not flirting or sleeping with other men. I have been approached by taken men many times, but I don't judge all men by the actions of a few for the simple reason that I realize that for each married man approaching me there are probably 10 men who are not looking t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 03:56 PM
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Lol, why? You seriously need to get out more. Most women out there don't hate men or think that all men are cheaters (although, it's normal to be careful and wary at first).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 03:47 PM
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I said that men and women cheat or try to cheat equally often, so it's not a gender thing. Easiness has nothing to do with it, in my book, if a man tries to cheat and fails he is as good as a cheater.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 03:44 PM
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They know what women are capable of I've known some that are even known gf/wife beaters, but women can't resist the pseudo-rockstar frame and game he holds to seduce them. In both of these quotes you hold women accountable, but not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 03:41 PM
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How did I contradict myself? I did not say that all men cheat, I said that there are plenty of men that cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 03:31 PM
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You do realize that actions of one woman have nothing to do with another woman, right? If you don't trust one woman because of actions of another, you are the one with a problem and you are not ready to be in a relationship. And please, stop pretending that cheating is a female only behaviour. Men cheat or try to cheat at least as often as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 03:29 PM
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You paint these men as the victims, but they are not. They chose to sleep with someone else's GFs and wives, they are not good people (I am not defending the cheating women either). There are plenty of nice women out there, but they wouldn't touch a man who had sex with multiple taken women with a ten-foot pole.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 03:27 PM
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So, how are these men any different from the women in the OP? Somehow, women are bad if they cheat and if they get cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 03:21 PM
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Would you be okay if I would treat you as a cheater because I had many offers from married or taken men? There are good and bad people, it's not a gender thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 03:17 PM
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I'll tell you a secret, women are not a hivemind, just because one woman acts one way, it doesn't mean that all women are like that. When I was a teenager I was often approached by older married men, should I extrapolate my experiences and assume that all men are cheaters? Cheating is not a female behaviour, men cheat or try to cheat all the time. There are plenty of women who stay away from players like that, but you don't see it because staying away from someone is not a visible behaviour. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 03:13 PM
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Lol, if you look through your wife old laptop you are more likely to discover that she had a horrible taste in movies or music, or you can find her pictures from the time when she experimented with bangs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 02:50 PM
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Not really, by any standards, I am not a promiscuous woman. I have actually been made fun of for not being promiscuous enough. At the end of the day, I don't need an opinion from random people on my personal choices that don't affect them. I have told my boyfriend about all men I slept with, just like he told me about all the women he slept with, but if someone I barely know asks me, I'll tell them to go make love to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 01:46 PM
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Ugh. Have you read my posts even? I have said time and time again that a) most of the women I know have never dated assholes, and b) the men they ended up with weren't some beta losers, they were dating extensively in their youth and had their pick of girls. The only reason these women didn't date their future husbands in their youth is that they hadn't met them yet at the time. At some point, you and your asshole-dating friends will have to consider what men want. We do consider what men want, …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 03:01 AM
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A woman dating an asshole affects me IF she brings emotional baggage and damage from dating men who mistreat her. A woman doesn't need to be dating assholes to be mistreated. I was mistreated quite badly by men I never even considered dating and they have hurt me more than any men I dated. If I were such a dirt-bag, my wife would be with someone better. This doesn't make any sense. I thought, women like assholes and don't know what's good for them. How do you know that you are not an asshole who…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 02:44 AM
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The most warm person I have met had the n-count higher than the Everest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 12:18 AM
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Well, I think introverts are less likely to sleep around because meeting new people is not their preferred pastime. Otherwise, in my experience, the n-count has more to do with a person's attitude towards sex and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 12:16 AM
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Because it's personal and none of your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 11:00 PM
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People are either one or two categories - devil OR saint. It IS that simple. You can't be bad "sometimes" and call yourself a saint. It's dishonest, disingenuous, and essentially lying about one's core personality and behavior. I have literally never met a person who would be nice to everyone at all timers, by your logic all people on Earth are assholes. I also never met a person who would be bad to everyone at all times, even the biggest assholes I know have friends who think they are nice peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 10:47 PM
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You can't ask people to change their tastes in their preferred gender. I mean, you can ask anything, but I doubt that there's a single person on Earth who would actually listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 10:30 PM
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Truth that relates how women love Bad Boys. But these women didn't love them because they were bad boys, they loved them because they were fun, seemingly nice (for some reason you didn't address the fact that these guys did treat my friends really well at first), etc. I do believe that what my friends did was stupid, but that's not proof that women like bad boys (I have provided only 3 examples of women who dated bad boys, most women I know dated men who were nice to them), that's just proof tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 10:24 PM
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What RP truths did I confirm? That niceness is not the only thing that people are looking for in a relationships? That's not a secret. Also, the women in the story didn't really realize these guys were assholes. The first dated her boyfriend for some time until he started mistreating her (and he was logal and committed to her, as far as I can tell) and the the second ignored the guy's history because he was treating her so well. I have already told you that the guy was so nice to my friend that …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 04:05 PM
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Pro-choice is about being able to evict any organism from your body. Child support is about the right of the child to be provided by it's parents. Here's an example: a woman has a late-term abortion (they are allowed in some places) and the fetus survives (I've heard stories like that, not sure how true they are). The father takes the baby and asks for child support. In my view, it's perfectly reasonable. The woman had the right not to carry the fetus to term, but now the baby has the right to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 09:45 PM
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It's not that simple really. I have a friend who dated a major asshole and that made her really appreciate her nice boyfriend (and before you say anything, her new boyfriend is actually much better looking than her ex). As much as her relationship with her ex sucked, she did enjoy their lifestyle, she met a lot of interesting people through him, she actually met her boyfriend at a party her ex hosted. The thing is, assholes also bring something to our lives sometimes. My other friend dated a guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 08:52 PM
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Maybe it's because now you have something to talk about and they are not afraid to talk to you because they think you won't see it as flirting. Women know very well that men often interpret even the most neutral behaviours as flirting, so women often avoid talking to men they don't want to date u less they are sure that these men aren't interested in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 07:56 PM
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You can be ugly and still take good care of your appearance, but if you think that showering, grooming and wearing nice clothes is all it takes to be good looking then you have no right to complain about people not wanting to hang out with someone who don't take care of the way they look.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 04:59 PM
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Well, unless the woman is super ugly, she won't embarrass a man if she takes care of her appearance, showers, grooms and pays attention to her clothes. And there are a lot of ugly men out there too, if you are that ugly all you need is to find a self-aware ugly man. The fact of life is that people usually date in their leagues.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 04:04 PM
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This is a certainty. No, it's not. For all you know, she might be dating a great guy as we speak. I know quite a few women who dated assholes and losers and still ended up in relationships with great men. Most people I know have had bad relationships in the past, having had dated an asshole is not a sentence. Most people do learn from experiences, otherwise, we'd stay at the developmental level of little kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 03:59 PM
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I agree with you, my point is that if a woman is dating assholes and losers, it doesn't always mean that she is broken, she might be too nice or naive. She would make a great wife to the right guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 03:49 PM
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I don't think that most men are toxic, I think that if the only men who are available to you are toxic (and that's the case for some women) it's not unreasonable to be upset about it. I would be as sympathetic to a man who can only attract mentally unstable, lazy or aggressive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 03:44 PM
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Once again, bad analogy, because having a crappy phone won't ruin your life like a bad partner. It's also easier to live your life without a partner than without a phone, without a cell phone you'll miss out on a lot of opportunities. Once again, having a bad partner is outright dangerous for both men and women. A better analogy would be women complaining that the only food that's available to them is rotten and possibly poisonous (but you don't know until you eat it).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 03:38 PM
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Commitment isn't about hotness, it's about compatibility and personality. If you are not enough to have sex with, you are hot enough for commitment, at least for a mature man. Attraction is important, but people with at least half a brain choose their partners based on personality, life goals, character, etc. I am a very attractive woman (yes, I know, so humble), and you know what? In the morning I look very average with my messy hair and morning breath. I don't look like a supermodel when I wal…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 03:34 PM
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Most people don't have a perfect track record when it comes to decision-making. I have made some bad decisions that had the power of ruining my life, but they didn't because I got lucky. You won't know I made these decisions unless I tell you. At the end of the day it doesn't matter, what matters is who you are and what you bring to the table. Often girls who date assholes are nice girls who see the best in everyone. I have a friend like that, she sees the best in worst people. She is super nice…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 03:22 PM
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Negative - that's what failure is...repeated and demonstrated lack of success/incapability. If a woman dated a couple of bad men doesn't mean that her third boyfriend won't be a good person. Most girls I know failed at relationships a few times until they met their husbands. I get it, if a woman dated 10s of bad men, surely the problem lies with her, but most women don't date that many men. You're supposed to learn from your mistakes, however, it doesn't take 10-15 years to learn the life-lesson…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 02:27 PM
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Just because a person failed at doing something, doesn't mean that they are incapable of doing it. Some people grow and learn from their mistakes, some don't. Otherwise true, some people just have nothing to offer and they have to settle for crappy partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 01:48 PM
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My point still applies. People can be polite, friendly and enjoy your company without wanting to marry you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 01:40 PM
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The problem with your analogy is that people need food yo survive and chips are better than nothing, but people can stay single and sexless for an indeterminate period of time and be okay. With dating it's often better to stay single than to date a low value (as you call it) person. An unstable and violent boyfriend or girlfriend is worse than no boyfriend or girlfriend at all. A bad partner can literally ruin your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 01:34 PM
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Or, maybe it's because there's a lot of dating advice for women floating around, and not enough dating advice for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 01:24 PM
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The point of FWB is that the person is good enough to hang out and have sex, but not good enough for a monogamous committed relationship. Or, your FWB were simply not looking for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 01:22 PM
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Wanting to do something and doing it is not the same thing. Women wanting to date good men doesn't mean that they'll be able to recognize and attract these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 12:48 PM
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Lol, as a teenager I tried this approach. As it turned out, if you ignore men, they'll think that you don't like them and will move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 12:43 PM
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For every location there are a very small number of attractive & marriage minded men. you didn't read the post properly . Most men I know are marriage-minded, and a lot of them are attractive or were attractive in their youth. I am 30 and most men I know are either in relationships or married or actively looking for someone who wants to get married eventually. My boyfriend started talking about marriage 2 months after we have met and I had to tell him many times that this is too fast. I actually…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 08:22 PM
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You know, if women talk to you, it doesn't necessarily mean they are interested in you. These women are talking to you now because you have a common interest, chances are, they don't care if you are a man or a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 08:12 PM
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You don't want to be married to Johnny Depp, I don't think he is really husband material.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 08:03 PM
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The feeling of being in love fades even with the most attractive partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 07:55 PM
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This doesn't make a lot of sense. First, people lose their good looks with age and the woman who married a hot player will end up married to an average looking player. Second, people do grow and change. Looking back at my teens, most attractive men and players I knew are married with kids now. If you'll ask an average young hot guy who sleeps around what he wants his future to look like, he'll tell you that he wants marriage and kids. A lot of people sleep around in their youth but expecting to …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 07:54 PM
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With marriage, she gets a person who: Chips in financially. Protects her in vulnerable times. Provides help with housing and childcare. Works while she takes care of the kids, or vice versa. Provides companionship and support, etc. Actually, it's not a guarantee that a man will do these things (same goes for women). What you are describing is a good marriage, and not all marriages are good. I know a couple where soon after the wedding the husband stopped working, and he didn't work ever since. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 05:03 PM
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$1000 is not that much for sex. There are a lot of prostitutes who make that much in a night. I chose to not be a prostitute, so I am not going to accept this offer. If I were offered a significantly higher sum, like $30k, then I might consider the offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 10:09 PM
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Loooool. I can picture them telling their girlfriends about this guy who kicked them out 2 minutes after they said no to sex, and then dared to call them back asking if they want to hang out again.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 02:47 AM
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I don't want to enjoy the company of these women, because that is what my friends are for and I don't want to friendzone myself. if I treated them like friends they would treat me like friends which is not my goal with them. Loool. You crearly won't won't friendzone yourself, because these women will never want to see you again. I'll tell you a secret, chances are, these women were interested in having sex with you eventually, but they weren't ready yet, and you disqualified yourself by kicking …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 02:18 AM
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Do you have any proof of that? How many love letters does a high profile financial criminal gets as comparef to a high profile violent criminal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 10:44 AM
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Men inside for financial crimes typically don't get proposals. Because men who commit financial crimes usually don't become famous, however, those who do actually do get a lot of fan mail.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 10:40 AM
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There are men who are obsessed with him too. Those sre dusturbed people that you don't want to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 10:37 AM
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He isn't? Do you have any proof of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 10:31 AM
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Serial killers get a lot of adoration from disturbed people, men and women. It sais nothing about the nature of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 02:24 AM
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Exercise, dress well, maintain eye contact, smile, speak clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 02:19 AM
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A creepy person is someone who doesn't follow social conventions and disrespects personal boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 01:57 AM
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I have approached men many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 01:42 AM
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Dread works, but only for a short period of time. It's true, if one's partner starts to pull away or if one realizes that his or her partner has options, he or she will usually get scared and start putting a little bit more effort in the relationship (for some time, at least). However, if you'll keep "dreading" your partner for a long time, they will get tired of this and leave.
/r/ExRedPill09/04/18 05:11 PM
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And what is the evidence in question?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 03:46 AM
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Her answer was congruent with her personality and other information that I knew about her, so I believe what she was saying was very close to the truth. No, her answer was not congruent with her personality, it was congruent with your perception of her personality. I am not saying that she was lying, but you can't know for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 01:12 AM
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A women in her early 30’s is single and has a high N count, causing her to have trouble finding an acceptable LTR. How can people even know your n-count? It's not written on your forehead, you know. I have seen people severely misjudge another person's partner number. For instance, my cousin was sure that my other cousin was sleeping around in her youth, while this second cousin stayed a virgin until marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 02:55 PM
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Attraction and looks isn't what makes sex good. You can have awesome sex with an unattractive person and bad sex with a super-model.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 02:26 PM
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So, one man in a 1000 gets wrong results. If all couples were to get paternity tests, millions and millions of families could break up over something that's not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 12:24 PM
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You know, paternity tests are not 100% accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 11:06 PM
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Divorce is good for you if you'd rather be alone than staying with your spouse. People don't divorce because they are happy, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 07:49 PM
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I have no problem sharing nude pictures, but I always leave my face out. I believe that one should never take a digital nude photograph featuring their face.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 07:38 PM
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I never did it as a favor, but I had periods of time when my sex drive was low, but I still had sex with my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 06:27 AM
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You seem to have no idea what toxic masculinity is. Toxic masculinity is the idea that the bahaviours that are seens as masculine in our society are often dangerous to the man himself and to the people around him. Examples of such behaviours include taking unnecessary risks (such as driving too fast), not seeking medical help when needed, drinking too much, smoking, engaging in aggressive and violent or illegal behaviours, practicing extreme sports, etc. These behaviours often harm the man more …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 11:30 PM
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Not all dicks are created equal. Some dicks are easier to suck and some are harder. Small dicks are easier to suck, for instance. Also, some men finish fast from a blow job, anf some men never finish from a blow job. There's also the question of hygiene, of course. No one wants to suck a smelly dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 10:58 PM
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Lol, you know that porn is fake, right? It's not a documentary, porn is made mostly for men (and by men) and shows what men like to see. And porn itself isn't homogeneous. There are different types of porn that show very different behaviours.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 05:48 PM
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This isn't the point. The point is that the options presented to the less attractive women are bad, and it's reasonable if these women consider that they don't have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 12:42 PM
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Study on who messages this particular woman who said "no unemployed guys, no drug users?"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 12:40 PM
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What people find SEXUALLY and PHYSICALLY attractive is universal. Lol, not at all. My sister thinks that Loki is super hot, and Thor is meh, I think that Thor is super hot and I don't get the appeal of Loki. My cousin thinks that all my crushes are ugly, I don't get her crushes either. I don't find my cousin's fiance attractive, but he has slept around quite a bit before he met her. My sister's boyfriend called my girlfriend lame and unattractive, but her attractive Brasilian husband thinks she'…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 05:12 AM
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It seems to me that you need reconsider your marriage and either get into couples counselling or get a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 05:03 AM
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Most women don't think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 05:00 AM
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Dude, if someone is being unreasonable and is pissed off when you did nothing wrong m, maybe you should avoid that person, instead of asking strangers on the internet why this person is acting this way. There are a lot of shitty, unreasonable, unstable people out there, men and women. Most adults deal with it by avoiding unpleasant people as much as possible. To answer your question, we don't know why your (ex?)girlfriend is upset when you enforce your boundaries, we can't know, we never even me…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 04:53 AM
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Why do they put up with it? Women can replace men as easily as they change their panties. Maybe it's because women can't change men as easily as they change panties. Most men out there have standards and options, and most of them have girlfriends or wives. Seriously, I wish I lived in the world that you describe where all men want me, but that's not the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 04:31 AM
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Just tell him: "no girl will ever like you because you're unattractive." Why do you think that one woman has a right to make such a statement? Even the most unattractive men I know managed to find girlfriends, and just because I don't find some man attractive, it doesn't mean that other girls won't find him attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 04:22 AM
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Most of the bullies I know have failed miserably in life, so yeah, they do fit in well with the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 04:06 AM
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But I still want my lama.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 03:59 AM
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Well, and I want a lama. Give me a lama.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 11:36 PM
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Well, to be fair, to be deferential and admiring to a woman is outright bizarre behaviour. Why would you be deferential to anyone who isn't your boss or an authority figure?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 11:28 PM
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And what does it mean when you say that we were a jerk? Can you give me an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 11:24 PM
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I am just wondering. This is a sub where we debate the red pill. The idea that women like bad boys and assholes is the basis of the red pill, so I am wondering if your personal experience proves it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 11:21 PM
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After talking to you I have one question. Does being an aggressive asshole help you get women? If AA/BB theory is true, you must be very popular with ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 11:18 PM
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The RESOURCES are: commitment. Predictability, stability and reliability. The amount of the Bux isn't the issue; the fact that it's there, it's going to be there tomorrow and 5 years from now, and that it is predictable and stable is the issue. But these ressources aren't real. A man can wake up one day and decide to leave his woman. I have seen enough of instances like these. In one of the cases, the couple had 5 or 6 children together, and the husband decided to leave his wife for his neighbou…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 11:10 PM
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"Resources" and marrying a beta bux does not mean "gold digger" or "marrying for money". There's a difference between beta bux and gold digger. And what are these ressources then? I'd actually prefer women let their bitchcunt flags fly proudly. So yes, go ahead and call ugly men ugly. Please reveal yourselves as the bitches you are. So, if I don't find a man attractive and I say it to his face, I am a bitchcunt, if I try to be nice to him, I am a liar. What am I supposed to do when I encounter a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 10:52 PM
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There's a difference between being kind and being a pushover. Kindness is sexy, being a pushover isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 09:59 PM
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Also, I don't know if it's a scam, but for some time, I had arab men who don't live in my country try to friend me on social networks and messengers. They often would send what looks like mass-messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 09:26 PM
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I have met enough men who were engaging in self-delusions and actually believed in what they say. Like the guy who thinks that he is a driven and dedicated person, but has never finished anything he started. Or the guy who goes around insulting people and then complain that people don't like him because he's nice (all real life examples).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 09:22 PM
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Lol. There's this quite popular online dating scam where a man messages a woman for a while (he usually is from another country), they start talking, at a certain point he starts having financial problems, and since she is the only one he can trust, he asks if he can send her a bag of money for safekeeping. Then, after he sends her this bag of money, the money gets held up at the customs, and he needs money to pay the duties, and she asks the woman to lend him this money.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 08:58 PM
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I only see it vicariously, but I've known a couple of chubby 4s who date online, and they still have to go through a lot of messages. Most of these messages are from bots or men who spam all women they matched with, you know. What's important is how many men agreed to meet up with these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 08:43 PM
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They see a woman who is overweight and has 2 kids and don't seem to conceptualize that she STILL feels obliged to say "No short guys, no drug users, be self-sufficient" because she is getting 200 messages a week anyway. No, she feels obliged to write these things because most of the men who message her are unemployed drug users. The members of the PPD seem to think that a woman is unreasonable if she wants more than a dick attached to a warm body. It's absolutely reasonable to not want a partner…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 08:41 PM
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Doesn't have to be. It can be and often is confrontational behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 08:03 PM
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Aggressive: ready or likely to attack or confront; characterized by or resulting from aggression.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 06:57 PM
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Also, you would be surprised how many women are in abusive relationships. Maybe your social circle doesn't revolve around these types of women, and maybe your friends aren't just going to say "o ya I let this dude abuse me for z months but its no biggie now" I actually know a few women who were in abusive relationships. I am not denying that these relationships exist, I am denying that they are the norm, like the red-pillers claim. Usually, the women who are in abusive relationships either have …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 06:51 PM
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But this isn't a fact. Actually, the famous OKCupid study that the incels and red-pillers like to quote showed the opposite, it showed that women messaged all men evenly, but 2/3 of men messaged 1/3 of women. Women might have rated 80% of men as below average, but they still messaged that 80% of men. It's the classic "look at what they do, not what they say" thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 06:44 PM
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The thing is, there are as many men as women in the West (there are a little more young men than young women, but let's ignore this fact for the sake of the argument). If we assume that all women and men want one long-term partner, then there is one person somewhere out there for everyone. Ergo, dating is as easy for women as it is for men, from the point of view of supply-and-demand. Obviously, dating can be harder for some people. For instance, a man who works in a call-centre with many women …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 05:44 PM
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Ugh, I wish I lived in the world that you describe.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 05:39 PM
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What, you never saw a man give an excuse for bad behaviour? Seriously? Men do that all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 05:34 PM
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The problem is that you accuse only women of this behaviour, yet completely ignore that men engage in this behaviour as often as women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 05:23 PM
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It takes a strong woman to admit she made a conscious choice to have sex with a bad man, to have that bad man's children, and to hitch her wagon to that bad man. Why do you assume it was a conscious choice? For all you know, maybe this guy was the nicest guy ever until he showed his real colours.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/18 05:06 PM
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Men do that to, you know. Rationalizing one's choices is a perfectly normal thing that all people do. Hitler didn't think he was a bad guy, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 04:50 PM
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The only STEM employees I know who are single are actually assholes. The difference between asshole STEM employees and thugs is that thugs date lower-class women, and STEM employees date middle and upper-middle class women. Middle and upper-middle class women are not going to tolerate the behaviours that lower-class women put up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 04:41 PM
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Or they actually believe what they are saying. Women are not a hive-mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 04:37 PM
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Also women do have more options but most of them are trash which to a woman is not a win. Men also have a lot of options that are trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 04:26 PM
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Can't argue with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 04:11 PM
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Well, criminals do have more time on their hands than a guy who studies full-time in a STEM field and works part-time to pay bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 04:11 PM
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Do we live in the same world? Most women I know date and marry nice men they find attractive. Most women don't fight over "players", they might use them for sex for some time, but then they move on to better men. Most men I know, even the short and fat ones manage to find girlfriends. One of the most beautiful women I know is in an LTR with an overweight man who is 10 years older. One of the biggest manwhores I know is seriously overweight, and his super-attractive younger brother has been actua…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 04:08 PM
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Dude, when a woman says to a man that looks aren't really that important, she is trying to be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 04:07 PM
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It's a vicious circle. There's actually research on this subject. Aggressive kids are shunned by their peers, which leads them to not developing social skills that other kids have, which leads them to become even more aggressive and dysfunctional. There's a course on Coursera called "Psychology of Popularity" (or something along the lines). It's quite interesting, although the lecturer mentioned many times that our ancestors got regularly attacked by dinosaurs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 03:24 PM
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Wait? You didn't know that women can be entitled assholes? Seriously? I am a woman, and as "blue-pilled" as it gets, and yet I understand perfectly well that women can be creeps, rapists, assholes, criminals, etc.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/18 03:20 PM
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Lol, she's an escort.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/18 03:10 PM
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I think average dudes who don't get pussy thrown at them regularly are more likely to be nicer than attractive men though. Why would a man who is getting laid regularly be less nice than a man who doesn't? A man who is an a good mood is more likely to be nice to people than a man who is in a bad mood due to lack of sex. As an extreme example, look at incels. They aren't getting laid and they are mean AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 02:57 PM
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Where are all these women who say these things? Most of my friends when they see a guy they like say something like "he is so cute".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 02:54 PM
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Maybe it's because the STEM guy is a responsible man who only wants to have kids within a marriage or an LTR with a girl he thoroughly vetted? Maybe the STEM guy actually wears condoms, because he makes good money and doesn't want to pay child support for a bunch of kids he didn't want?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 02:49 PM
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I remember reading somewhere an article that states that good looking people are usually nicer because they have been treated nicely throughout their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 02:42 PM
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Women are scolded for not owning up to the fact that they prefer tall and/or conventionally handsome men. Since when are women lying about preferring tall and attractive men? Every other Tinder girl bio states that she doesn't date below a certain height. Women are called on the carpet for dating short and/or conventionally unattractive men and lying to them that they are attractive for the sole purpose of extracting resources from them. I don't know what world you live in, but in my world, wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 02:40 PM
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I said that there doesn't exist one reason, there are many reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 12:37 PM
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There doesn't exist one reason why some people have hard time forming relationships. Some people are lonely due to mental or physical health issues, some are lonely due to intimacy issues, some people are just introverted and prefer their own company to going out, some people are lonely due to a low impulse control and their aggressiveness, and the list goes on. Lonely people existed at all times, it's not a new phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 05:24 AM
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Well, they have time for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 04:30 AM
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Why do you assume that these women put off having a family consciously? It probably just didn't happen, and since they weren't busy raising kids, they had time to advance in their careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 04:29 AM
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Just because women over a certain age don't get married, doesn't mean they can't get married. There are a lot of people who don't want to marry or can't marry their partners (gay people, for instance). Obviously, there are also people who are less likely to marry due to personal issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 04:22 AM
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Men outnumber women by 66 million, so at least 66 million men have to go their own way for women to notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 04:08 AM
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Older women cut their hair because a) short hair makes them look younger and b) as we age, our hair starts to grow slower and it gets thinner, so cutting it short makes the woman look better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 03:05 AM
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What's a quality man to you? In my book, a quality man is a kind, reponsible, intelligent, repectful and mentally and emotionally stable man. A man like this will agree to wait to have sex with a girl that he likes (assuming that he wants a relationship at all).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 02:33 AM
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That depends on the place and the time period. "The past" isn't a uniform time period.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 07:38 AM
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That depends what time period and place you are talking about and what you mean by "no education". A modern education system is a fairly new thing, and it doesn't mean that in the past men could support a family without any actual skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 10:04 PM
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Suddenly, if you're poor, socially awkward, discriminated unfairly against, or unattractive (or all of the above) a woman doesn't need to settle for you early in life or ever. In the past a man could only get married if he could support a family. Outcasts of all sorts also had hard time getting married. Even if a girl liked a guy, her parents could veto her choice if the guy wasn't up to their standards. Today pretty much every type of outcast can find a peer group and willing partners within th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 08:57 PM
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You have been supporting your family for 7 years, you have been doing most of the chores and parenting tasks, you used your savings to bail out your family in tough times, you are doing everything to please him sexually. Most men would kill to have a wife or girlfriend like you, yet your SO doesn't seem to appreciate anything you did for him and your family. Honestly, if I were in a relationship with a man who doesn't value me and is flirting openly with other women, I would blow up too. The thi…
/r/RedPillWives29/12/17 01:33 PM
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Excuse me, why do you want to keep this man in your life? Besides being the father of your kids, what value does he provide to you? What I see is a man who leeches off his girlfriend, who expects his girlfriend to undergo dangerous surgery just because he doesn't want to use condoms, who wants to leave said girlfriend while she's pregnant, and has made it quite clear that he doesn't love or even like this girlfriend. Your boyfriend keeps making demands, yet I don't see him fulfilling any of your…
/r/RedPillWives29/12/17 12:36 AM
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I am 5'4, so there are not a lot of men shorter than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 12:00 AM
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“Buy beauty” Yeah, plastic surgery usually doesn’t work out that well. It, actually, does, but you won't know about the successful plastic surgeries, because people don't usually talk about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/17 02:39 PM
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I have a friend who was a vurgin until she met her future husband at 25. Nothing weird about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/17 01:31 PM
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Well, the fact is a fact. I never had a stranger help with with heavy luggage while on North American soil.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/17 01:12 PM
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Well, the fact is a fact. I never had a stranger help with with heavy luggage while on North American soil.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/17 01:12 PM
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Nah, I am a European woman living in North America.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/17 01:10 PM
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Yes, and? You can work on being a cool and interesting person, it's not a secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/17 02:37 AM
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Do you ever feel like its being done for courtship, or to establish general dominance? I don't see why I would help a person who was not visibly struggling with their bags, male or female. Courtship? Lol, these people often didn't even look at me. To establish dominance? Why would anybody care about establishing dominance over some random girl on the subway? These people helped me because I was carrying a bag weighing almost half my weight, that's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 11:53 PM
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Nah, I think North Americans feel less obligated to help anyone in general. Or maybe Moscow is just more crowded than my city.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 10:01 PM
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I don't think that anybody expects anything from you besides common courtesy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 09:17 PM
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Well, I live in Canada and pretty much everyone holds doors here, that's basic respect. People will also help people in need, especially if it's someone with a child or a disabled person. This help isn't gendered though. In Russia, on the contrary, men are much more likely to help women to carry a heavy luggage or a stroller up the stairs. Once I had to travel with a heavy luggage across Moscow and I didn't have to carry it up the stairs even once. Don't get me wrong, I am not complaining about …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 09:06 PM
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Lol, Europe is different, but I never had a man help me with my luggage or heavy bags in North America. It's not like North American men go out of their way to help women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 08:53 PM
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u would never feel one emotion that men feel. Lol, do you think I don't know what rage and self-loathing is? Women feel exactly the same emotions that men feel. It's not like some emotions are reserved for one gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 08:40 PM
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To answer your question, in my social circles, people usually have sex in relationships and aim to get married. I have quite a few friends who had 1 or 2 partners in their lifetimes and whonare now married.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 08:28 PM
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Please stop making assumptions about something you know nothing about. Being bullied did scar me for life and even after a lot of introspection, it still can be hard for me to trust people. To this day I still catch myself thinking that everybody I meet hates me by default. It sucks, but I am trying to move forward with it, and honestly, if my bullies would apologize to me, that would make a world of a difference. I know quite a few men who were bullied and they manage to build lives for themsel…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 08:27 PM
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You forget that not everyone is into casual sex or even pre-marital sex for that matter. There are whole communities where sex is only had within marriage. There are asexual people, actual nuns and monks, people who married their high school sweetheart. People often forget that their social circles are not representative of the entire country.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 08:21 PM
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You know, I have been bullied myself, and honestly, if the guy who bullied me had apologized to me, I would forgive him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 08:05 PM
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Name calling is not so bad, IMO. Once again, if the bully is apologetic and feels bad about it, I could date him, but I think I would still check with my bro if he's ok with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 08:00 PM
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I would need an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 07:53 PM
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It also depends what the bully did. If the bully was physically abusive or extra-cruel, I wouldn't tolerate him, but if he had just make fun of my sibling, I could have a relationships with him (assuming that he changed).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 07:52 PM
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It really depends on what the bully did. Was he just making fun of the brother or did he beat him up regularly? It really depends.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 07:50 PM
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I go to bars to meet with friends, usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 07:48 PM
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Well, I'd be upset too if my sister were to date someone who bullied me while I was bullied, but the thing is, people grow and a high school bully can grow to be a decent person who feels bad about having been a bully. I'm not going to hate someone for what he did when he was a kid in case if they regret it and have changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 07:46 PM
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That depends how many years passed ever since and if the person has changed and if they are apologetic about having being a bully. If someone has been a bully in high school but grew up and feels bad about it, I might give them a chance. However, I am an adult, and it seems that the girl in the post you refer to is a teenager, and teenagers are stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 07:38 PM
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What does it mean "physically sexy"? You are either attracted to a person or not, there are no different types of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 07:34 PM
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You overestimate the importance of attention to women, especially the attractive women who have been showered with wanted and unwanted attention since their early teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 07:32 PM
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And what's your evidence for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 07:15 PM
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A few of my friends are in bands and I come to support them. And why would I need to go to a bar for attention, I get attention pretty much anywhere I go. It's quite tiring really.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 07:14 PM
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For me red flags include being rude to people (especially service workers), complaining excessively and being negative, being verbally agressive towards me or someone, talking about one's exes, attemps to insult me and to make me feel bad, being pushy and not respecting my boundaries, pushing for sex too soon, etc. Obviously, I will literally run if someone is physically agressive or engages in illegal activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 07:09 PM
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Most people are not attractive, so you'll see unattractive people in most pictures depicting large groups of people. If you look at people participating in an average conservative rally, you'll see that they are equally unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 06:59 PM
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I know quite a few couples who met in bars and clubs. There are obviously people who look for hookups in clubs, but I have never seen two strangers leave a bar together. Maybe I go to different bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 06:18 PM
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If by "game" you mean "being an awesome person", then you are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 05:36 PM
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My ex boyfriend is a typical Chad (tall, muscular, confident) and he had to grow on me. I knew him for 7 years before we started dating. Whether a girl is attracted to a guy right after meeting him depends more on the girl than on the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 05:35 PM
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Bars and clubs are for hookups? I don't knew about you, but I go to bars and clubs to have a drink with a friend, to dance and to listen to live music.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 05:29 PM
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Well, you can believe whatever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 10:10 PM
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There are 3.5 billion of women on Earth and they all have different qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 08:46 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 08:26 PM
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Oh, nah. I doubt that anyone really cares about providing any value for you personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 08:08 PM
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Provide value to whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 08:04 PM
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Why would someone want to convince you that you need a woman in your life? If you want to stay single, that's your choice and we respect it. I don't know about other women, but I prefer to date men who want to date me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 07:46 PM
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Everything is a coping mechanism. Do you think all the monks in the past wanted to be monks? No, many of them were running away from the world that didn't have a place for them. Life is hard and unfair, and it had always been this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 07:43 PM
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You do realize that in the past generations there were men who couldn't or wouldn't get married. Inceldom is not a new thing, it existed since the beginning of time and will exist till the end of times. As sad as this is, there always are going to be people who don't fit in.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 07:42 PM
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There are less women than men on Tinder, which is proof that women don't like Tinder as much as men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 03:48 PM
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Women want the best. Perceptions of best will vary. Everybody wants what's bedt for themselves, men, women, non-binary people, agenders, etc. I have never met a person who would settle fir less when they had a better option.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 03:29 PM
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There a more men who drink in Russia than women who drink, which means that some non-alcoholic women will have to settle for alcoholic men if they want a partner. It's basic math.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 06:54 PM
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In the places where the gender ratio is controlled via abortions, it's usually the husbands who push their wives to abort daughters.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 06:18 PM
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In which way do women control the gender ratio?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 04:19 PM
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Nobody owes anybody anything (except for obeying the laws).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 04:18 PM
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Lol, you are the one who makes assumptions about the people you never met and know nothing about. I have been to Russia, lived there, and I have family living there. And I know what alcoholism does to people. And I have never seen a woman who's been even remotely attracted to a man who drinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 03:57 PM
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But she knew when she had sex it was a risk, she shouldn't have sex if she can't deal with that. Sex is a joint venture and both partners should bear responsibility for it, but for some reason you believe that only the woman should do that. That's unrelated to the argument I made, which is that men have no say over if the child is born in the first place while women do. So it's their right and their choice and their responsibility. Men do have a say whether a child is born. If a man refuses to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 03:54 PM
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So does a woman. She's consented to sex too ya know. Yes, and she is bearing responsibility for her actions. Out of curiosity would you say the same to women regarding abortion rights? Abortion rights is a medical issue. A pregnancy affects a woman's health and can be fatal, so she has a right to terminate it if she thinks it's the right thing to do. That's what the current system already does to men. I'm trying to make it more equitable than it is now by giving both parties a closer to equal sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 12:22 AM
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Wow! You are stupid!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 12:06 AM
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If it was completely fair the man could simply deactivate his sperm or something. A man always has choice to not have sex, for some reason you seem to ignore this. If you don't want to be responsible for a child, don't have sex. Basically what you are saying is that you want to have sex and have the other person bear all the responsibility for it, whether she chooses to have the baby or not. Once again, abortion is an invasive procedure and can't be treated like a free get-out-of-jail card. You …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 11:57 PM
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Therein lies the problem. Women have more university degrees than men. I believe by age 40, the number of single women with a college education is double the number of single men. Well, in this case women have to adjust their expectations. The math doesn't work. Only a small % of men are tall. A small % are handsome, small % are fit, small % have high socioeconomic status, small % have a great personality. Lol, you don't seem to think very highly of men. For some reason, I know plenty of fairly …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 11:23 PM
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I don't see why a man should be absolved from responsibility if he uses a contraception method and it fails. He is supposed to know that condoms fail and that there's a risk of pregnancy. Just because you took precautions doesn't mean that you are absolved of any responsibility if these precautions fail. At the end of the day, what you are arguing is that the woman is the one who should deal with the consequences of an unexpected pregnancy and you should be absolved of any responsibility just be…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 10:53 PM
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I have provied one example citing two women of the same age, living in the same country, who come from a similar background.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 08:37 PM
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Well, it's a man's right to have sex outside of marriage, so his rights come with responsibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 06:57 PM
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Well, child support isn't a woman's right, it's a a baby's right. A baby didn't ask to be born and has a right to demand that It's parents support it. I could understand, though, a policy that allows a man to surrender any rights and responsibilities towards a prospective baby, but only before the baby-making sex is had, not after.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 06:32 PM
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Standards are relative to a person's social cirles. Let's say you have a moderately attractive middle class woman with a university degree who expects her partner to be her equal. From her point of view, her standards are reasonable, but from the point of view of some poor guy or girl who is stuck in a minimum wage job, her standards are unreasonable. My mom's second cousin, for instance, didn't go to college and was stuck working as a cashier, and because of that most men available to her were …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 05:05 PM
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Well, wanting something and getting something isn't the same thing. People have to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 04:50 PM
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Men live less than women, so there are significantly less men available for a 60 year old women to date, so they have to lower their standards if they want to have a partner. At the age of 22 there are more men than women, so women can date whoever they want (and they tend to choose men their age)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 01:48 AM
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I meant a 30 year old who looks 28. Lol, I don't know about you, but most 30 year olds don't look that different from 28 year olds. I didn't say anything about acting young. You said that a man who engages in activities through which he can meet young women is more likely to date young women. From where I am standing, this is the definition of acting young.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 12:08 AM
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Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 12:00 AM
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The thing is that, accordingly to you logic, for an older man to be attractive he has to look and act young, which pretty much disproves the idea that men peak in their 30s and 40s. A 35 year old woman who looks 25 and spends a lot of time with younger people will have just as much success with younger men as a 35 year old man in a similar scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 11:54 PM
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And that's why I also mentioned fat percentage. Please learn how to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 10:33 PM
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You know, there are plenty of men who are into fat girls. If you don't like fat girls don't date them. Dating someone you are not attracted to isn't charity. The only thing is, I don't know what's your definition if fat is. If you think that a girl with a healthy BMI and fat percentage is fat, then maybe you need to adjust your expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 10:15 PM
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I was bullied mainly between the ages of 11 and 14, where I come from it's not common to have sex at these ages. I wouldn't say that I have a strong sex drive, wanting to have sex 2-3 times a week seems to be an average. I have a sex drive because sex is a physiological need for a sexual person, like food, and if you don't understand that, it might mean that you are an asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 03:50 PM
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Being awkward and lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 03:27 PM
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I don't know, ask them, maybe? To feel about about themselves by hurting a kid 2-3 years younger, probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 03:22 PM
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I was very lonely and offen bullied in middle school and high school, so I think I know well enough what's a life without the so called validation is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 03:10 PM
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Lol, and what are these reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 03:04 PM
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You can want someone and not google them. I don't know about you, but I only google people for professional purposes. If I want to stalk someone I know I'll look them up in Facebook, or better, I'll jjst text them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 06:12 AM
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Lol. I am a woman and my need for sex is waaay stronger than my need for validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 06:04 AM
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The only statistics that are widely available are marriage statistics, but there's no reason to believe that other types of relationships are different as far as ages are concerned. People tend to associate with people of their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 05:58 AM
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Well, I like young, fit, attractive men and I date these men. The only time I dated an older guy was when I was 17 and he was 18. Statistically, most marriages happen between people who are close in age, if women like older men that wouldn't be the case. The celebrities that women like are usually (with the exception of George Clooney) young and attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 11:36 PM
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Just google male to female ratio in your country. The age when women start to outnumber men varies by country, but it's usually closer to the 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 11:29 PM
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Hm... I am a woman and I think I know better what women want. Trust me, there is a reason teenage girls swoon over Justin Bieber and One Direction. Also, statistics show that women prefer men their own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 11:24 PM
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All the unattached women in their 30s that I know share one quality, they are loners and introverts. I have a friend who is 30 and a virgin. There's nothing wrong with her, she is cute, nice, has a good job, likes baking, but she prefers reading a book over going out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 11:13 PM
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Lol, but for every 100 girls born in North America ther are 105 boys born that you'll have to compete with. Actually, young women (under the age of 40 or so) have a wider dating pool than men for the simple reason that there are less women than men under the age of 40. If you look at the worldwide statistics, you'll see that in 2015 there were 66 million of men more than women, so that's a 66 million of men who won't be able to find a partner. Also, FYI, women can and do date younger men, so if …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 11:03 PM
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Lol, I have turned 30 a month ago and I have more suitors than when I was a teenager. I wasn't ugly, just shy and awkward. Now I am confident and I have to fight off men. Most young men I know have no problem dating women in their 30s, and about 1/3 of the women I know have a younger partner. Men start having an advantage in the dating market as they get older, because men live less on average and after a certain age (35 or so), but I am not sure it can be classified as an actual advantage due t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 10:49 PM
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Actually, there are a lite bit more men until the age of 35 or so (depending on the location), and after the age of 35 there are less men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 10:39 PM
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It's a very common opinion that I have heard from men in my social circles. It's not rocket science, getting something that's hard to get provides validation. That's why nobody wants that participation trophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 10:08 PM
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Well, what most men say about "easy" women is the exact opposite. Most men say that a having sex with a girl who isn't sleepkng around provides more validation, and if a girl you barely know wants to have sex with you, chances are she's sleeping around.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 10:03 PM
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There are plenty of women out there who have more success with men in their 40s than they had in their 20s (think about Celine Dion).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 09:54 PM
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Most men in my social cirles have barely enough time for one relationship, I have no idea how they can manage to have 2 or more wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 09:41 PM
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Having sex with the man means risking getting pregnant, so I think I'll pass on that. I am not into women, so I'll stick to masturbation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 09:35 PM
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I thought it was the opposite. If the sex is easily obtained, that means that the girl is "easy" and her consenting to sex isn't that rare. If it took some effort to convince the girl to have sex, that means that you are actually special. Getting something that's hard to get provides validation, not the other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 09:32 PM
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All right, let's say I agree with you (although, anyone can end up alone in their 50s, regardless how they acted in their youth). Does it mean that if you get hurt by a woman, you'll blame yourself for your poor choices in mate selection or will you blame the woman?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/17 02:27 PM
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As a female lurking in this sub, I see that there's absolutely nothing in her profile that shows that she rode the cock carousel. She was married, she has children and grandchildren. If her profile teaches us something it's that you can get married, have kids and still end up alone in your fifties.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/17 01:42 PM
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