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You can 100% manipulate attachment and a desire to please
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:06 AM
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"Why did people start getting manipulated by me when I implemented manipulative behaviours"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:08 AM
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I looked him up, he is not attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:14 AM
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I find it bizarre that some people think women won't be the first in line for artificial wombs. You mean I don't have to sacrifice a year of my life, my health and potentially my career to have a baby now? Sign me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:28 PM
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When the guy was in college, a few times he gave and received oral sex with another man. He claims he was just experimenting and did it again because he enjoyed the sensation. Okay, but objectively, if a man admits that to me and then follows up with "it was alright, but I prefer women 100%" I would still see him as straight. You're allowed to question and experiment and still arrive at the "straight" conclusion, you know. The reason why everything you listed labels a man as gay is be ause of he…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:08 AM
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Well, we already know that eating clean, exercising regularly, not drinking and sleeping well makes you healthier and makes you live longer. Yes most people can't even cut out processed meat out of their diet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:45 AM
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B. If I need an orgasm I can do it myself
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:28 PM
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Yeah I've been eating cottage cheese straight out of the tub for breakfast for like 3 months now and I love it, I'm really not picky. I will not cook even for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 09:17 PM
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All the upsides of having a sexless partner in the house are also present in her absence I hear people say how they are lonely all the time. This is a platonic life partner. This is everything but the sex. Emotional support 24/7, in sickness or in health, helping you with your aging parents, etc etc. "A friend can do that" And yet I constantly see people say how a friend simply does not give your the same commitment a partner does. Friends have their own lives. Most friends would not prioritise …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 03:40 PM
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Men can cook for sure, but think about the economics and time saved if only one person cooks in the house. Yeah, I hate cooking, so my man should do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 03:15 PM
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As someone who hates cooking, I would weaponize it right back and serve him absolute crap until he has enough and starts cooking for himself or spends money on food delivery.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 03:12 PM
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Passing is the hardest part of transitioning, especially if you've spent most of your life presenting as a man. You wouldn't really take the plunge unless you have genuinely crippling dysphoria.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:51 AM
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You honestly think it's easier to be a trans woman that a cis man? Like genuinely?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:26 AM
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Yes, this is hard to believe and the reason, ironically, is... misogyny, I think. If you ask around, a lot of trans men, while feeling dysphoria, didn't even know transitioning applied to them. They didn’t know trans men were a thing. In online spaces, transwomen are the default, while transmen are "just there". The trans flag is baby pastel colors, quite feminine. All of this is anecdotal, but as someone who brushed elbows heavily with the trans community, I can say that trans men are frustrate…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:25 AM
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https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/33644314/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:19 AM
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The gap is shrinking rapidly. Not too long ago people didn't even realise you can be f2m trans
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 07:19 PM
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Can we stop with this conspiracy theory? No, most women aren't lesbians. Most women do not "goon to lesbian porn", most are attracted to me. Unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:53 PM
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It's extremely hard for me to fall in love. It's a problem, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:58 AM
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No, I think mean people say inappropriate things all the time because they're mean. Most men don't actually enjoy hurting others.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 05:56 AM
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I mean... aren't you objectively desperate if you're asking out every woman in said social circle? It sucks, I get it, but I wouldn't really be stoked to date someone who I know cycled through all my friends before getting to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:04 PM
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Amongst habitual consumers of adult content, women prefer written erotica, while men almost exclusively consume visual porn. Sure more women have seen porn videos than read smut, but it's not surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 04:12 PM
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Yes, I am. And I have been single for 8 years now. I am working on my career, my art, my body. I want to be perfect. Not for a potential partner, but for me. I want people to look at me and go "wow, how is she single" and my answer would be "because nobody is worthy". You should do that. Stop chasing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 07:14 AM
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Why what? Why forget dating women and work on becoming the best version of yourself? Idk, because it feels good. Self-improvement is the one motivation that is always a positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 05:21 AM
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They shouldn't. Decenter women. Work on improving yourself. Live your life. Stop trying to make everything about "finding a gf".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 04:43 AM
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I feel like the thought experiment describes basic sex work 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 01:59 PM
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I wonder which man is more likely to rape her if she refuses to have sex willingly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 09:32 AM
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Where is OP dismissing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 09:30 AM
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This is the crux of the OP. If a woman is seeing a man, and she knows he has had relations with other men and turned off by this revelation? Sounds like biphobia to me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 08:52 AM
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They already do work hard. And even if they don't work hard enough, I don't want them to be impoverished. To answer your question, yes. I want my tax money be used to increase the living conditions of less fortunate people. Even if they made poor decisions. Especially if there is an innocent child connected to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 12:29 PM
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Fairy accurate, but I would add that the food is unlabeled. So you gotta rely strictly on your experience/gut/friend advice to pick out healthy food.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 11:46 AM
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Maybe. But they didn’t. And now there's a brand new human in need of support. You don't want to punish the new human for mistakes their parents made.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 09:09 AM
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Agreeing to sex with someone for money doesn't change your sexuality. Porn stars have sex with people they have 0 attraction to all the time. Women will find other women safer. It's as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:59 PM
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I think most straight women would choose to have sex with another woman because they'd feel there's less of a power imbalance and more solidarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 04:43 PM
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Progressive queer women in my circles actually find that incredibly hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 08:40 AM
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Or as an alternative: We could do it humanely & make it a simple choice for both genders, either register for selective service or be married with kids. (Divorce voids the vote, they'd have to register too). Spin up Civilian Conservation Corps as an alternative to military service. Lmao, how about no mandatory service? You fantasise so hard about "punishing" women unwilling to date, that you're ready to punish men along with it. Nobody should be forced to join the military. You likely do not ext…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 10:07 AM
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What a load of nonsense. Why aren't you as bitter about paying taxes to impoverished men and single fathers? Why aren't you bitter about father's leaving their kids, forcing single mothers to rely on government support? Why are you assuming that women take medicine because they are single? I think you're just bitter women stopped lowering themselves to dating mediocre men and are actually doing no worse than men for it. Men, on the hand, put all their existential value into attracting women and …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 08:17 AM
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You're not being forced to date women you don't like. Find yourself a Margot Robbie or stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 07:50 AM
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asking for them to send pics when they mention they’re taking a shower This gotta be bait
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 12:03 PM
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romantic relationships are existentially validating for men I genuinely think this is entirely societal and is the reason for 99% of "male loneliness".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 04:46 PM
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Yess, 100% agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 04:00 PM
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Yes I do. I like to emasculate men a lil bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:12 PM
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That is true. If I we're you I would just stop dating women like that. Just not go out with a woman who's isn't feminist enough to pay for your date. Stay single if you have to, but uphold your principle. Alas, most men won't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 02:48 PM
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Unironically this, please decenter women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 02:32 PM
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Get the snip!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:42 AM
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She isn't taking any benefit. The child is. Child support is for the child. What I am proposing is that the system automatically syphon resources from the man onto his child. And the woman doesn't need to do any work when she is already exhausted and needs rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 02:18 PM
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In your OP you specifically ask that the woman "makes sure" to get proof that the man is the father.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:41 PM
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Yeah. I'd be down with blanket testing if it's a public database, so any woman can cross check if the man she's partnering with has other children.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:40 PM
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Okay, but instead of making the woman do all this extra work on top being pregnant and caring for a newborn, just take all of men's DNA and let the woman see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:12 PM
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Have a world-wide DNA database where all men submit their DNA, and where women can log in and see their offspring. The babies get tested for paternity when they are born and if the father isn't paying for his child, then jail. There would be no paternity fraud then.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:44 AM
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I mean, I wouldn't. But even if I did, there's a buffet of other men I can choose from. There isn't a shortage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 10:11 AM
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Yup. Or just get bored of him, because there's a new game/book/show that came out that takes all your interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 09:34 AM
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Sure. Women can think whatever they want and men are free to not give two shits what they think.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:02 PM
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You are mistaken if you think hooking up made her feel better. But that's a different point. In any case, you are free to date whoever you want, it's just that your frustration with why said woman isn't putting out on the first date anymore might be... misplaced. I have hooked up exactly twice. Never again. The guys I wasn’t even attracted to. Lesson learned.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 02:30 PM
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It is okay. Men absolutely are within their right to date whoever they want. No matter how silly their reasoning is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 02:25 PM
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You can speculate all day about the butterfly effect that could or could not have led to her liking you. Any number of things could've influenced your relationship. What if you were childhood friends and you were the only person she felt safe with? What if you both were into a very niche hobby? What if she was hooking up with boys because she felt that was the only way for her to feel attractive and she felt ugly otherwise (actual thing that happens)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 01:41 PM
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I mean, younger people are generally more stupid and make more unwise decisions that someone with 30+ years of life experience. Young people are also hornier and full of youthful maximalism. A woman can look back on her younger years and think "wow was I stupid for putting myself in those situations, I didn't even have fun" and believe it or not, plenty of women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 01:18 PM
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Why do you care if some women think you're a misogynist? Decenter women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 12:06 PM
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Nobody is sharing anyone, most people are in monogamous relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:15 PM
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You need to get into online fandoms
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:15 PM
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Right? I think a lot of people do not understand how you gotta talk about [special interest] even if the topic doesn't come up directly, everything still makes you think of [special interest], you see it everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 05:57 PM
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I'm mostly with you. I'm pretty acoustic with my interests and I cannot fathom being with someone who doesn't "get me" like that. My previous relationships failed because of that. I got bored. It felt performative. Was it my fault? Perhaps. But it was bad for both of us. I do think people misunderstand the difference between "being into video games :)" and "being neurodivergent about video games" like this whole thread shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:38 PM
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>They refuse to date shorter guys They don't, not really. Tall women actually don't mind short guys. Short guys mind dating women taller than them. They feel emasculated when the woman is taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:13 PM
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>How often do you meet a guy you actually like. Extremely rarely. But don't worry. I'm bi and I can say the same about women. I just don't like most people. That's not to say there's anything wrong with them, I just don't vibe with most people like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 10:06 AM
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If I wanted An Man, then yes, all of this is spot on. I can get someone to come to my place in 40 mins if I wanted to. I wouldn’t be able to date him, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 10:37 AM
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Well those were not red pill men then
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:53 PM
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I think they just wanted to goon on a woman's photos a bit and a woman not having Instagram or social media in general might actually mean she's "boring" to them. For a lot of men a "fun" woman is someone who they can show off. But I'm incompatible with such men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 11:19 AM
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Same, except men. But I just decided that I'm trying to talk to the wrong men, so I quickly prioritize the men who act shocked I don't use social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 11:07 AM
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Insane, cause every guy I talked to asked for my Instagram and I don't have one. I suppose I should follow your example and make one just for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 10:58 AM
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But you seem to be quite into fashion and social media yourself, judging by your Instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 10:45 AM
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I've seen guys say how "liking the office isn't a personality" when critisizing someone Tinder bio, but then proceed to have "video games" and "gym" as their bio. Okay, neither are a personality, but what else do you expect people to put there if not base-level interests?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 10:33 AM
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corporations use this to “ get to know their employees” as some sort of corporate version of personality testing They do? That's kinda wild
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 08:59 AM
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Since it’s socially acceptable for women to say penis, it should be socially acceptable for men to say vagina, vulva, clitoris, labia, etc Huh???
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:01 PM
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Well yes, all women look for "an attractive guy". It's just that different women find different things attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:59 PM
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Being attractive or even very attractive doesn't mean I will "give him a chance". It just doesn't. I will never sleep with a man just because he is physically hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 01:50 PM
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The blonde/blue eyes thing is weird as hell, dude. I get lowkey preferring certain archetypes, but normally people don't have them on standby in a list of "requirements" like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:45 PM
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I don't disagree. Like I said, comp het is a thing people experience. I think you'll find the LGBTQ movement, where people are encouraged to have an open mind about their sexuality, to not put themselves into a "this is what's supposed to happen" boxes, quite appealing, whether you're straight or queer. I never assume someone is straight and I don't think straight should be the default.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 07:14 AM
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I don't disagree. Like I said, comp het is a thing people experience. I think you'll find the LGBTQ movement, where people are encouraged to have an open mind about their sexuality, to not put themselves into a "this is what's supposed to happen" boxes, quite appealing, whether you're straight or queer. I never assume someone is straight and I don't think straight should be the default.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 07:14 AM
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You know, OP, comp het is a thing widely talked about in the queer community. You don’t need to be straight if you do not want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 05:51 AM
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Out of my friends, 0. My sample size is like 10 people..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 09:08 AM
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Well what do you want to happen? For the cheater to go to jail?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 01:12 PM
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I'm saying tall men gave a reason why they wouldn't date a tall woman, especially if she is taller than them: "I woukd feel weird and small"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 09:27 AM
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No, it's because he would feel diminutive next to a tall woman. I was told that directly by tall men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:40 AM
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Unfortunately, that is not the reality. In actuality, it's don't be fat, don't be taller than him, be tidy, wear makeup, but don't actually look like you're wearing makeup, be ready to give sex at all times, be hairless, be ready to remove unwanted hair, hair anywhere but your head and eyebrows is unwanted, don't have belly fat, don't have cellulite, don't have hobbies that are deemed "masculine", don't have short hair, look like you're under 25 Most men will have a combo of these. I am a "not l…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:08 AM
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You pass on your genetics I am really curious, and no shade, but are you guys really that concerned with "passing on your genes"? Why do you care that much about genes? Like you're an aristocrat, or something. I just don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 04:49 PM
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The whole "putting women on a pedestal" that straight or straight-leaning women often perform is quite irritating. As a bi woman I got tired of telling my inexperienced friends that no, sex with another woman can easily be just as boring as with a man, it doesn't automatically become good because the other partner has one of those too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 11:58 AM
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Oh fuck yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 04:53 PM
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I did, which is why I know she doesn't pass as a cis man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 03:26 PM
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They were not surprised, they were doing a nervous laugh and going "oh, haha, okay, I'm sorry then :,D" Ned might be demure and mindful, but physically he does not appear as a """normal""" cis man. Trans men at the start of their journey look more masculine, so I suspect the women just felt off.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 01:55 PM
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I think a lot depends on where you are geographically, too. A masculine man from Amsterdam who does finance and likes good wine might easily seem "too feminine" to a woman from rural Texas, who wants her men ultra-conservative, hairy and driving a big truck. It's a sliding scale, not a binary. P.S. reminds me of a very poetic verse from this one song: Hey, bitch from New York City With them fake California titties I know you're waxed and vaxxed, but have you ever been smashed To some old school …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 01:30 PM
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Norah Vincent looks like a butch lesbian, even when she is "Ned". I honestly find it hard to believe she managed to convincingly pass enough to pull your average straight woman. I think a better reference point are trans men, who transition post-puberty. They are often soft both mentally and physically and were raised as girls, so they "know" women and their struggles quite well.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 01:08 PM
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My group of 10 female friends sometimes discusses men. Some of us are married to men. I assure you, when we say a man is "good", it has 0 to do with his looks or wealth. But then again, that's just my group of female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 09:53 PM
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Sure, but people want a weight filter to filter out fat people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 09:50 PM
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It's not a fitness filter, it's just weight We all know why people want a weight filter. It's to filter out fat people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 09:14 PM
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I am European, so it's not an issue with my friends. We all think it's fucking weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:51 PM
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I just think weight as an isolated number is borderline pointless. That's not considering that most people don't even know their weight. If you insist on a fitness filter, make them be waist-chest-hips measurements.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:50 PM
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With stuff like Ozempic, there’s even less of an excuse. Beside the point, but you can't just go and buy Ozempic, it's a prescription drug for diabetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:30 PM
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Yes, just not anywhere near as much as women do. But several people in this thread already admitted to preferring shorter women. I think women don't care about height as much as men think. But seemingly care about a number more than bodyshape..?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:31 PM
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I once went out with a guy who had pictures of himself as a skinny twink but when I saw him, he was actually fat. Not even chubby, just straight up fat. So it's not just a woman only thing. For the record, I didn't turn him down because of it, even though I did feel it was a bit disingenuos. He was a fun dude. My personal problem with a weight filter is that a lot of people don't understand weight. They see a woman above 50kg and think she is fat. But if she is above 160cm, her weight is normal.…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:57 PM
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Why hasn’t a single feminist ever admitted that MGM is wrong? I haven't looked into it, but I am certain many have. Many women certainly have. I know I am completely against it and would never do that to my newborn son.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:48 PM
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I mean, if anything, a BMI or Bodyfat% scale would make more sense as a comparison to a height scale on a dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:45 PM
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So men do care about height too!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:42 PM
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Weight filters are more complicated because not all women are the same height and not all have the same muscle mass. Taller women will be heavier ever with perfect weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:16 AM
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Oh that last one would work on me 100%. No awkward proposals, no weird questions, just start off a joke and open that door.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 06:53 AM
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Most people in the world use Android. This seems like a painfully US-centric issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:10 AM
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I read gay fanfiction
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 08:30 AM
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Probably not
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:44 PM
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I honestly think the whole "Pete Davidson is ugly" thing is a meme. He's good-looking unless you specifically look for unflattering paparazzi pics where he is high out of his mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:08 AM
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Girls are attracted to bad boys, but those bad boys aren't bad towards the girls. Girls don't fantasise about wife beaters, normally. They don't read romance novels where the love interest calls the woman a fat bitch. The bad boy from the fantasy is independent, disregards authority, is ruggedly handsome and likes to live dangerously. And equivalent for men is probably something like a pixie dream girl. Naturally pretty but humble, a dreamer with endless positivity and someone who sees all the g…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:49 AM
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Omg YES anything for a tall Chad 🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩😊
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 06:04 AM
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To be honest, I don't even know where this is even coming from. I had this exact conversation with my female friends a few days ago. We see so many genuinely beautiful women who are married/dating a man who frankly is very average-looking. There's even a stereotype of "pretty girl with an ugly boyfriend". In real life I have never seen the opposite. I see guys on here claim how below average women can score chads, but I have never seen a below average woman with a chad. Chads almost always date …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 09:42 AM
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But wouldn’t it be amazing if you "could" do all those things with your wife? If she was also into shooting, cars and mountain biking? If you could come home from a games night with the boys and tell her all about it and know she genuinely understands what you're saying? To me the answer is yes, I want, even need my partner to share the same interests. Otherwise what do I even talk to them about?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 11:11 AM
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All of this stops to matter is there is a living breathing child born out of your seed. If it's already out there, someone has to provide for it. It's only fair if the people responsible for its conception do it. It's not about the woman, not about what she deserves or does deserve, not about what she should have done or the mature of your relationship with her. This is about the child being provided for.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:27 PM
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I don't see how it would automatically make him "submissive" anymore than fucking your wife would make her "submissive".It's just a different sexual experience. More vulnerable for a man, sure, but that's the turn on. That's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 10:46 PM
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I would greatly prefer someone who is bisexual. It is a big, big plus to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 10:40 PM
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Never heard of this. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 08:21 AM
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Women chat with AI plenty, too. I personally never understood self-insert erotica. But people seem to find it fun. As long they aren't delulu about it, I say let them have their fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 12:25 PM
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Asexuals are normal, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:07 AM
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Not everyone can afford braces in their teenage years. It's okay if you get them later in life. It wouldn't be a problem for me. Your friend is going to have a beautiful smile in a year and that matters! All the best to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:54 PM
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They are normal, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:11 PM
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They are normal, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 12:46 PM
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It's not that deep. Nobody plays 4d chess in their head when picking a partner. In most cases fat women will end up dating fat men. Gym rats will end up dating fitness chicks, etc. I pretty much never see a couple where both partners didn't look like they were preoccupied with their looks. Also dad bods are in right now. If you aren't "skinny fat", a lot of women will be in to you having chub.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:25 AM
8

But she picked him, so some women clearly are interested enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:10 AM
11

You're implying it's the woman's fault the guy is out of shape? And that she caused it out of malice?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:07 AM
6

I made sure you have a dad bod otherwise how would I leverage sexual access against you. Huh???
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 10:02 AM
5

Isn't this already the case in most of the world? I know plenty of people raised by single mothers and the father was never in the picture, nor did they get any money from him. I don't think state mandated child support is as widespread.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:38 AM
1

So you are using alimony as a boogeyman, even though you probably don't even know anyone who pays it. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 07:49 AM
3

Well two things, I'd have definitely done that if I'd not have to give alimony So a quick google search showed that an estimate of 5-10% of divorces in India end in alimony. Are you really implying that your wife ensnared you in a sexless marriage just to divorce you and get money or are you using alimony as a boogeyman? also that's what I'm saying too, if women don't like it they should just leave the relationship too , why it's a "crime" , just make it a basis of divorce without alimony in no …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:38 PM
7

If she's doing it on purpose to hurt him, she's a bad person, I suppose, but you cannot expect another person to give up their body for you to use. You definitely cannot legally enforce it. Your status as her partner means nothing. Just leave her then.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:24 PM
8

One person isn't entitled to another's body, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:02 PM
–

It's almost like the definition of "alpha" changes based on what the individual woman likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:09 AM
2

I see our third eye is open today
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 11:03 PM
10

The risk for reward is high in both scenarios because you might hate the person from the beginning or realize you hate him in the end Well no, cause of I hate him from the beginning I know not to continue the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:59 PM
4

Anything is a dating app if you are brave
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:09 PM
25

Have you tried fascinating the Irish women with your tractor?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:43 PM
2

Single dads aren't the same as divorcees, I don't think. It is implied that single dads are either widowers or are just raising their kids full-time on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:14 PM
2

Zero. I didn't go home with anyone. There was only one guy that explicitly wanted me to go with him. Maybe some others wanted to as well, or were open to it at least, but they never insisted/gave clear hints. I wouldn’t have gone with them, anyway. I think where I'm from, Tinder isn't just a hookup app. I've seen quite a few people say they are looking for a proper partner on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:59 AM
1

I went through a very active Tinder search a few years ago. Went on many, many dates. Did you have a good time? I'd say most dates were a positive experience Where did you take them? I would mostly insist on bar dates because I need a bit of alcohol to drop my walls. One of the guys showed me a really cool bar and ever since then I took all of my Tinder dates there. They all seemed to like it. I even showed it to my friends - it's "our" bar now. One guy offered to go to the zoo - that was nice. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:41 AM
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Oh and the guy has to arrange everything, pick you up, pay for your dinner as well. No he doesn't. I have at least 8 female friends. We talked about this. Everyone prefers to split the bill. Is this an American thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:14 PM
2

I doubt it, I'm just too fucking autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:46 PM
2

I find them boring to talk to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:08 AM
10

This is always said around here but people don't seem to realise that attraction isn't static and is affected by your own perceptions due to your environment. So what are women supposed to do? Honest question. Like I wish I liked more people. Liking people is good. But I don't. I tried. I'd rather stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:27 PM
18

My question is what do you expect women to do. Date men they don't like?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:31 PM
3

That's not the quote 🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:03 PM
–

My god, go outside
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:17 PM
–

They'd start drawing porn on cave walls like what happened eons ago. That's good, makes their creative juices flow! Maybe we should get rid of porn...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:02 PM
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This is completely beside the point, but it's something I have wondered. Do men not like.. use their imagination when yanking it? Would they not be able to do it if porn suddenly seized to exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:18 PM
12

MMA boyfriend gets pounded Got excited for a second there...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:16 PM
7

I didn't even bother to convert those into metric, I don't know how tall that is, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 12:07 PM
10

No. The info provided in the post is bare minimum to asses a person in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:14 AM
11

The description is bare minimum, we barely know anything about him, but from that alone, no, not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:28 AM
8

If the fucking was removed, then Tyson. Tyson is overall a better choice, but the fucking thing makes us completely incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:16 AM
4

Gun to my head, Glenn.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:11 AM
7

Why wouldn't I?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:38 PM
21

most women are inundated by the idea that all men are circumcised but that's not true. Maybe in America. European women barely know circumcised men. I have never been with one. I think it should be banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:41 PM
7

Are you all collectively from France? I keep seeing France brought up in these dNA threads, but something makes me doubt ts yall are from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 09:36 AM
3

some women also feel entitled to being treated with fancy restaurants. I'm not sure those are the women you want to date
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:46 PM
12

Of course, they would prefer it. But they also know that men aren't made of money. The biggest driver, though, like I said, is the feeling of being indebted to the man. It's the same reason women often are reluctant to accept gifts from guys whom they are not interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 10:51 AM
25

You also had to buy the interviewer an expensive dinner, or cover their drinks, or plan a creative and extravagant interview location for each meeting for them to not consider you a boring candidate for the job, Where do you live and what kind of women are you trying to date? All women I know prefer to split on the first date. Why? Mostly because a lot of guys feel like if they treat you, you "owe" them something.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 09:43 AM
1

But then, if a guy suggests a low-key coffee date to get to know them better, they reject it, saying that he should already be in love with them and willing to invest in an expensive dinner right away. "if he doesnt want to invest right away then hes not worth your time. " I literally have never heard a single woman say this, ever, so therefore, it never happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:12 PM
2

Same, he can have a small dick for all I care, but please let him a nice, slappable ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:09 PM
3

His 7 inch cock
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 10:11 AM
6

My boyfriend can watch porn if he wants to idc
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 11:37 PM
3

Ooh, this is interesting. James is winning me over with "shares many of your interests", which is very important for me, but his catch is very dangerous. I don't think I'd risk it. No to Michael, I don't think I'd enjoy a boring guy. That leaves Daniel. I don't care for romantic gestures as long as we know we love each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 07:28 PM
8

He's charismatic, funny, is pan, has a nice ass and is practically immortal... Oh you mean the other guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 11:18 AM
2

Luke, I suppose. He sounds devastatingly boring, but at least we have some things in common. Nathan is a no because I'm just not into sports, at all, we wouldn't get along. Michael is a no because... just look at him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 11:15 AM
7

I suck so bad at this, idk what to do. I'm bad at this to the point where I avoid 1 on 1 situations with people. It gives me so much anxiety. I want to desperately fix it but I don't know how.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 10:37 AM
1

gaming masculine, unless the gaming is the Sims and Animal crossing Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 12:24 PM
1

You think the other hobbies are masculine?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 12:13 PM
1

Oh yeah, I used to be really homophobic. I've grown a lot :D
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:13 AM
1

Hard nope on that. Curious as to why
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 09:09 PM
3

Would your read her Sherlock yaoi fanfiction?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:29 PM
2

ike skin care routine. That's a fucking hobby, dude. Have you seen what those people do?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:14 PM
4

https://y.yarn.co/971153f8-e0e1-41da-a644-5d83633c6aee_text.gif
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:12 PM
9

Man, imagine having that as a friend group
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:04 PM
16

Julian Julian Julian Julian he has a slightly dark past that he is embarassed about and wants to get away from. That's sus, ngl. Who did he murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:05 PM
4

I don't! I just thought these thoughts would be somewhat mirrored by redpill guys on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:47 PM
3

A surprise to be sure, but a welcome one. After seeing posts by manosphere crazies how "women with pixie cuts should be arrested" I was sure non-femininity would be a turn-off.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:41 PM
1

They all have traits from me, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:25 PM
2

It's funny when the prompts are written by women. We don't even get their age? That's major factor Fuck, idk, all of them are 29. There. I just don't know the age of the people replying. That's very young for someone's who is 40 and too old for someone who is 23.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:11 PM
2

Dude, same! Not a fan of butch women, but a soft butch or even a futch is such a nice middle-ground aesthetic! Same for feminine-leaning men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 12:44 PM
5

I actually agree! Which is why I find long-haired, non-muscular men quite attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 12:37 PM
2

I'm not sure what men mean by "curves" because when I think of curves, I imagine a heavier woman. A model body to me is closer to the "heroin chic" of 2000s, though maybe not as skinny.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 12:35 PM
4

When a girl says she's adventurous in bed, that means she's been fucking athletes and all of a sudden thinks she's a sex God. In my head it meant that she enjoys getting freaky, trying out new things and exploring kinks, not that she's been "fucking athletes".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 12:31 PM
3

I did. Pleasantly surprised!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 12:26 PM
2

I see your n-zoth, too
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 12:23 PM
4

I tried finding the closest pics, but suppose it's these: What does average body type mean? https://cdn.shopify.com/s/files/1/1101/2416/products/full-length-essential-tight-midnight-M-front.jpg?v=1646889623 What does model tier body mean? https://gate.bwcdn.net/media/2022/09/6/3/dzinsy-skinny-na-vysoku-postavu-6208429-89-6347392-size-large-v-2.jpg What does well proportioned mean? https://i.pinimg.com/originals/34/e4/55/34e4557cfd4dc6b9bf8607127791787a.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 12:23 PM
1

I do like videogames, but nah
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 12:13 PM
4

Tbh I expected a lot more men on here to be put off by the masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 12:11 PM
15

Andrew. We'd game together. Dan is an immediate no because he's a dick, Jason is a football fan which is uhhhhhh not my thing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:25 PM
0

Bi women are much more open with their preferences, I think you'll find. Short kings are less likely to be deal breakers, men with soft features are less likely to be deal breakers and they're much more likely to be into less traditionally-masculine men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:31 PM
1

A positive. The less relationships she has with anyone outside of myself the better. (2 positive remainings) Not even her own family?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 12:15 PM
1

I think men start caring about height when the woman becomes taller than them. As long as she is shorter, most men don't have especially strong preferences. It just so happens that most women are shorter than most men, so they're safe in that regard :D I also think most women don't have especially strong preferences as long as the man is taller. Very rarely have I seen a shorty demand her man to be 6 feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:03 AM
4

Eeeh anecdotal evidence claims they kinda do. Small and petite = feminine. Big and tall = masculine. Most men would prefer their female partners to be slightly shorter than them. Most women would prefer their male partners to be slightly taller than them. Like a head, half a head difference is the preference for most people, I think. Short women have it easier than short men. Short women have it easier than tall women. Tall men have it easier than tall women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:51 AM
1

I never really understood the point of these hypotheticals. Yes, women in general prefer their male partners to be taller than them. But it's not a linear progression. A man who is 195cm isn't automatically more attractive than his identical twin, who is 180cm tall. Both of them will be taller than the average woman. The average woman is likely to pick the shorter one in this case, because he's closer to the median. Taller than her, but not by too much. If the woman herself is on the taller side…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:46 AM
1

can't make a woman physically attracted to you. Yes, they can, tho. They literally have.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:33 AM
0

If one of them is shorter than her, she would likely pick the taller one. If both are taller, she would likely pick the one closer to average male height. That is assuming everything else is identical. I don't think it's "hypergamy" to pick the more conventional option. Just like you guys are less likely to pick the woman who is taller than you, or the woman who is overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:32 AM
7

Would you prefer a girl that's taller than you or shorter?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 12:58 AM
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Because it is an accusation. If you don't trust the woman this much, why are you with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:44 PM
0

No, it doesn't need to be mandatory, because that's just an attempt for men to wash their hands off of offending their partners. Like sorry, honey, it's not me accusing you of cheating, it's the government. Truly, if there's grounds for concern, get the damn test. If it's a shit relationship then who cares who offends who. But if you mistrust your committed partner in secret to this degree, then I think it's her right to be offended at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:28 PM
1

Idk man. I would probably be offended at a go-bag. Like, who do you take me for? We've been together for this long and seriously think I'd do this? Granted, I don't know how long you were together. But if we are to assume the equivalent is a relationship established enough to have a baby together, then I think it's long enough. And if it wasn't long and the baby was an accident after a ONS, fwb, situationship or whatever, then asking for a paternity test is inoffensive, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:19 PM
3

Most women in committed relationships would be. Wouldn't you feel offended if your long-term partner outright told you they suspect you betrayed them for no reason? "There was reason to suspect!" Then why are worried she will be offended? Sounds like the relationship is already very rocky.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:02 PM
22

One has sex with you because it's her job. The other does it for free because she wants you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:59 PM
18

I think most women will agree that too much makeup is undesirable. We all want to look "naturally pretty". It's just that some (most?) women feel they can't reliably pull it off. They know a bit of mascara and concealer improves their look by quite a bit. Also, when women say they don't doll up for men - that's partially true. They doll up "for everyone". They want to "look their best" and they want people to see it. It's both "for men" and "for themselves".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 12:51 PM
8

And I am arguing that having the same interest in music & hobbies are unimportant for a relationship, and people actually need alone time to do their hobbies separately for a relationship to function. That will end up in me wanting to be alone 90% of the time. I'm sorry, if we cannot share hobbies, we cannot be together. What are we supposed to talk about? What are we supposed to do together?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:04 PM
5

I want two sons or one daughter. Don't ask me why it's that specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:51 PM
8

Bruh i just want him to be into the same hobbies and understand my jokes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:49 PM
3

I feel like this is like on of those dumb challenges video game streamers set for themselves when they get bored of a game. Except they are also asking the devs to implement it as a mechanic. "We beat minecraft but we cannot chop wood" "We play city skylines but can only build one road" " We get married but we cannot divorce"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:17 AM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:57 AM
1

I am literally like Paul except I'm taller than average. Also an artist. We could make art ad starve together. We'd do a Fiona and Farquaad. Probably end up living in squalor because I'm messy too, but we're honestly a match.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 11:04 PM
2

Jake or Paul, probably. Feel like I'd get along with Paul well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:10 PM
10

Every Con I've been to, if you actually engage with the women there, are usually very mild mannered average types that just enjoy a certain fandom or the community as an accepting group Women are very good at not acting autistic in public. Trust me, their little private discord servers are wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 01:01 AM
8

There are like 20x more geeky/nerdy men than women. I think you're way overestimating this. Nerdy geeky women don't tend to show themselves. The people you're talking to about your favorite video game mods online could very possibly be all women and you would never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 05:10 PM
13

Because those women are geeky too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:21 PM
6

I mean, sure, plenty of people live fulfilling lives without sex, but since so many folks here insist it's a need, I feel like we need to define things clearly. What exactly is the need? To orgasm? To have your bits stimulated? By another human? By another human who is enthusiastic? What if it's a nurse in a sterile clinical environment? Is the need fulfilled? What if it's a loving relationship, but there's no sex for one reason or another? I genuinely wonder.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 10:33 PM
9

why should it be free if it’s not essential? The idea is that "people will have sex regardless", the government might as well give them a free rubber, make it safe. Better than to deal will the unwanted pregnancies and STDs later on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 10:30 PM
10

Okay, but does anyone actually know if sex with another person*** is a need that cannot be fulfilled with other things that offer companionship? Yeah, we know that lonely people are miserable. But if someone has loving friends and family and rubs one out once in a while, are their needs fulfilled? Does it have to be a person who is emotionally attached to you? Does it even have to be a person? Like can it be chatGPT?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 10:26 PM
0

Asexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 02:58 PM
2

Do you not think it's a red flag? Do you wonder why she is still a virgin? What if she never had a serious relationship in her 30+ years?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 12:26 PM
5

180cm tall 70kg
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 12:22 PM
1

Of course. He's a model.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 09:07 AM
7

Is the gentle nerd the guy who says he wants a big titti goth gf, but looks like this? https://s3.envato.com/files/300469418/DSC06773.jpg (no shade, btw, live your best life, king)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 01:36 PM
6

That's still a guy. I mean, sure, most people are normies, but at the same time I don't believe women from the second picture are trying to pull normie guys, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 01:18 PM
16

Yeah, I don't really get it. If a guy looks like this: https://i.pinimg.com/1200x/0b/8a/f9/0b8af916b5f124847d2220e24e0a976b.jpg He will most likely prefer a woman, who looks like this: https://i.pinimg.com/originals/3b/69/f8/3b69f8ba72ff4bc8abf92c737f960ba2.jpg Over a woman, who looks like this: https://janielanie.com/cdn/shop/products/2E2FE9CE-1A64-41FA-BCAC-2E7A6D1C7AE5_300x.jpg?v=1659385668
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 01:03 PM
16

I'm into women too and I hate the low waist look :,D Maybe it's because I went through that as a teen too myself and had to deal with the paranoia of thinking your underwear is constantly showing. It just looks so uncomfortable!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 12:51 PM
18

I’ve always thought that the high pants look looks terrible on women. A lot of women are trying to hide their belly, which shows itself even when you're at a healthy weight, yeah. :D P.S. also it's genuinely more comfortable when you sit down/bend over.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 12:36 PM
4

I'm curious about the dyed hair situation. Is it because it's a look typically associated with "toxic feminists"? What do you think of men who dye their hair neon colors?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 12:34 PM
11

As a woman with a motorcycle - there's plenty. They think motorcycles are dangerous, loud, they don't want to go on a ride with you, they think the riding pants are uncomfortable, they think you'll end up dead soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 10:01 AM
5

This is just factually incorrect. A simple demonstrable example is the "ick"- women frequently get an "ick" and leave the relationship over the tiniest things, while this never happens to men Please caress grass. The "ick" is only present on a first date. If ever. Nobody gets "icks" after being married for several years.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:59 AM
40

Deadpool??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:02 PM
9

No, that's where I keep my mpreg fanfiction!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:09 PM
2

Why would women get all dolled up? Is it just for the attraction of men? I only picked up make-up when I turned 30. I might be tripping, but I think it's the societal expectation for me to look younger? I almost feel ashamed of having slightly droopier skin around my eyes now than I did when I was 18. Mind you, I am not ashamed men will notice it, I am ashamed other women who used make-up all the time will notice it. I guess I feel like I can't pull off "presentable" with just my natural look an…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:35 PM
6

Does she know you think like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:18 PM
3

Don't like brojobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:29 AM
1

On my normal day all I'm doing is "literally not being fat". I don't dress or act particularly feminine, I don't even have long hair. And while I don't consider myself ugly or nothing, I do notice that I get significantly more male affection, if that's the right word to use, when I doll up. Actually wearing make-up and performing femininity (something I don't normally do) gets you the typical "men will fck anything" behaviour often described here. I can be arsed to perform, though. So I'm guessi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:19 PM
1

I did not mean asexuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 11:03 AM
2

I genuinely do not understand how. I'm prett sure there's tons of men who don't consider sex an intrinsic part of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 02:48 PM
0

Is sexual desire NOT intrinsically linked to love for you? Not at all. If not, doesn't that prove OP's point? How?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 06:55 AM
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