Neat-Fish-4593 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	What are your thoughts on paternity leave?	Progress	Neat-Fish-4593	/r/MensRights	24/01/24 05:18 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	Men don’t do less housework, we are just more realistic about what needs to be done It’s like they have no awareness that other people exist and might want to use the sink. I’ve found myself using the kitchen sink to wash my hands or brush my teeth if I had to be somewhere and didn’t have time to clean out the bathroom sink.	/r/MensRights	12/05/24 01:08 PM
37	Men don’t do less housework, we are just more realistic about what needs to be done I do all of the cleaning in my house. Guess what most of that effort goes into…. Cleaning up after my wife. She leaves dishes out, clothes strewn about the floor, clutter everywhere, leaves cabinet doors open, a dirty towel will be thrown in some random spot, wrappers dropped onto the floor, hair dye stains in the bathroom, makeup and hair products in the sink. It goes on and on the amount of cleaning work she creates. This is why women claim to do so much more housework. It takes hours to clean…	/r/MensRights	12/05/24 12:03 PM
10	stop talking about man and bear question It was an interesting thought experiment at first. Would you rather encounter a bear or a woman in the woods might be a good one to ask yourself. I chose the bear because I have been abused by women, while every bear I encountered has run away as soon as it saw me. And it’s like they say, at least people will believe you if a bear attacks you. With the bear you won’t get raped and forced to pay child support for 18 years like my ex did to me. Maybe reframe the hypothetical as would you rather en…	/r/MensRights	03/05/24 12:51 PM
24	Louisiana man sentenced to 50 years in prison, physical castration for raping teen Eighth Amendment be damned I guess. Excessive bail shall not be required, nor excessive fines imposed, nor cruel and unusual punishments inflicted. With false accusations and the way these cases are treated as guilty until proven innocent, there is no doubt that innocent men will be facing this. You can’t exactly give a guy his balls back if new evidence comes out proving his innocence.	/r/MensRights	28/04/24 11:26 AM
120	Child support and extreme hatered towards men . The men who do pay child support are not responsible for those who don’t pay it. Percentages of men who fail to pay are irrelevant to the debate over how payments should be handled. Anyone against it is likely not using the full payment towards the child and will use anything to deflect from that point.	/r/MensRights	14/04/24 01:52 PM
8	How to teach your man to be a ‘good boyfriend’ \| Olivia Petter So apparently we need to be trained like dogs? How is this not sexist? How about using their big girl words and talking things out with their partners? And probably even more important, listening to eachother. Agreeing to compromises? I’ve never been in a relationship where the woman was perfect and needed to “train” me. All of the relationships where she thought she was perfect ended horribly. Happily married now for 10 years and neither of us are perfect, but we both try to understand eachothe…	/r/MensRights	14/04/24 01:04 PM
22	Why do tickets cost more for males? There are plenty of guys with that mindset, it’s why the pricing model works. I remember my days of hitting the bars to hang out with friends, I found a nice hole in the wall spot with cheap drinks and good music. Had friends complaining that there weren’t enough girls there, so I tried going where they wanted to go… drinks were triple the price, had a cover charge just to get in, shitty music so loud you couldn’t hear yourself talk. But that’s where the girls were so that’s where they wanted to…	/r/MensRights	11/04/24 08:34 PM
221	Why do tickets cost more for males? It’s for the same reason bars have ladies night where the drinks are cheaper for women, but no men’s night. More women will bring in more desperate dudes hoping to get laid. Men’s night sadly isn’t profitable. Skrillex has fallen out of mainstream popularity so he’s resorting to these cheap tactics in order to sell more tickets. Sex sells when his music doesn’t anymore. Edit: just wanted to add, the best way to fight this is to simply not buy the ticket. If all men were on board to stop supporti…	/r/MensRights	11/04/24 08:00 PM
3	How does child support and alimon y work exactly? From what I understood of the guidelines when I was calculating my own child support (I assume it varies from state by state) - they take the combined income of both parents and determine how much it would cost to raise that child to the same standard of living as if both parents were still together. Then the responsibility is split between how much each would contribute from their own salaries. Then deductions are made based on what you would be providing automatically through your own parentin…	/r/MensRights	11/04/24 12:04 AM
1	34m accused of molesting daughter by wife 35f I would have filed for divorce at the first accusation. Trust is the foundation to a good relationship and your marriage has no trust. She accuses you of horrible things and she cheats on you. This marriage is way past its expiration date. They say “let it go it’s not a big deal”, but they’re not the ones dealing with the accusations.	/r/MensRights	12/03/24 06:37 PM
1	Men are blamed for beauty standards but women refuse to associate with other women who dress a certain way or have too many ugly features. They blame men for beauty standards while at the same time claiming they do it all for themselves. Which is it? I think honestly the majority of men would prefer a woman without a pound of makeup and natural vs a ton of plastic surgeries. So how are we to blame exactly? By all means, do it for yourself if that’s what you want to do. But don’t blame the “male gaze” when it fits your argument, if you’re going to turn around and claim you do it for yourself when it doesn’t fit the argument. It’s on…	/r/MensRights	24/02/24 04:24 PM
3	What would your response to “not all men, but always men” be? It’s not even “always men”. Women rape, women assault, women abuse, women cheat. There are documented cases of female serial killers and mass shooters.	/r/MensRights	20/02/24 01:03 PM
28	When a woman physically assaults a man, the man is expected to prioritize the comfort of his attacker over his own safety. When my ex used to attack me, she would tell me “go ahead and call the cops, we both know who they will arrest if I’m crying when they show up.” They know the double standard exists and use it against us. I had to stand there and take it while she hit me, threw things at me. She even strangled me. But I couldn’t fight back or else I would be the bad guy. My best friend had an abusive girlfriend too and he told me the same shit would go down between them. Except one time she pushed him past the p…	/r/MensRights	11/02/24 02:06 PM
2	It's worse to be sexually abused by a woman than by a man. You become a living taboo. You can never speak your truth without being silenced or shamed. You are forever marked as a pariah by many women I’m so sorry you went through this abuse from your mother. No one deserves to be abused. I know where you are coming from, my ex raped me to force a pregnancy while we were having some major relationship issues. I guess she thought if she had my kid then she would keep me. It worked for the first 2 years, but her abuse just got worse and she didn’t even bother to hide the fact that she is a serial cheater anymore. It’s horrible to be sexually abused whether you’re a man or woman, but the public …	/r/MensRights	30/01/24 02:09 PM
3	Ancestry DNA tests showing toll of cheating by women Yeah I thought it would be interesting to try Ancestry but I don’t want to be the one to open up that can of worms if my mom was cheating on my dad. My brother looks like he’s adopted so my dad always joked that he’s the milkman’s baby. If that turns out to be true I’d rather find out after my dad passes so he doesn’t have to deal with it. He’s already in his 80s so it wouldn’t do any good for him to find out now.	/r/MensRights	30/01/24 01:58 PM
14	Women would rather blame the patriarchy than accept that people liked Ken more than Barbie Gerwig did get a nomination though. The film itself was nominated for “Writing (Adapted Screenplay)”, she is one of the writers for the movie so that’s technically her nomination right?	/r/MensRights	27/01/24 12:55 PM
3	Women would rather blame the patriarchy than accept that people liked Ken more than Barbie They are also missing that others from Barbie got nominated, not just Ryan Gosling who was nominated for “Best Actor in a Supporting Role”. America Ferrera was also nominated “Best Actress in a Supporting Role”, Jacqueline Durran for “Costume Design”, Sarah Greenwood for “Production Design”, and Katie Spencer for “Set Decoration”. 4 women getting nominated for their part in Barbie, but 1 man is thrown in the mix and it’s the end of the world. Margot Robbie’s nomination would have been under “Bes…	/r/MensRights	27/01/24 12:50 PM
4	What are some examples of female entitlement? The example you shared hits really close to home. I was so used to women having meltdowns after being denied sex that the first time a woman said “ok” to me I thought it was a trap. Men’s consent is not taken seriously at all by women, so to see someone who actually cared if I wanted it or not meant everything to me. I ended up marrying her. I still see this in relationship advice posts, men who turn down their girlfriend / wife are never given the benefit of the doubt that they are just tired o…	/r/MensRights	26/01/24 02:57 PM
103	Vivek Ramaswamy wants to "codify sexual responsibility for men into the law" and make them fully financially responsible for the child AND the mother More women will force themselves onto men if this passes, and there will be more instances of lying about birth control / poking holes in condoms. I thought it was bad enough I’m forced to pay 18 years of child support to my rapist, but to support the mother entirely…. I would just end it. Life is already enough of a struggle in this economy, to be forced to pay for your rapists lifestyle would be a huge slap in the face.	/r/MensRights	26/01/24 01:59 PM
8	Women are now video recording their male partner's cleaning up skills, as a test and critiquing it on Tik Tok. Imagine what would happen if men tested their wives and girlfriends cleaning skill and critiquing it online? I can’t stand these tiktok tests and the public shaming of their partners. If my wife did this to me, it would be grounds for divorce. I do all of the cleaning and cooking because I work from home and can get stuff done during downtime, and I really don’t mind it. I’ve always been one to be on top of things maintaining my living space. If she doesn’t like how I do things, she can come to me. Not this public shaming shit. You see the orange test? Hand your man an orange and ask him to peel it for…	/r/MensRights	25/01/24 02:22 PM
1	Why are only men called out for spending money on themselves and never women? I think it’s more nurture than nature. You see the common tropes on tv, if your partner is irrational people tell you “that’s how women are” so we tend to just accept it, girls are pampered when growing up while boys are held accountable. Society allows it to happen. They see the irrational woman as how they are supposed to be and don’t question it. Stop accepting it from your partner, raise your daughters differently from the norm and hold them accountable. If men could come together and refuse…	/r/MensRights	24/01/24 04:52 PM
1	Is it just me? Any woman who "stands up for a guy" seem fake? If the money is from a billion dollar social media company sending cash to a content creator for creating engaging content and having a following, I don’t blame her for taking advantage of the policies of the platform. We all got bills to pay. Once she starts asking the followers for money, that’s where I take issue with it. Advertising the onlyfans, asking for donations, sharing the Amazon wishlist… yeah that’s exploiting the very same people they claim to care about.	/r/MensRights	24/01/24 12:38 AM
1	Is it just me? Any woman who "stands up for a guy" seem fake? It depends. You can’t assume a woman is not genuine just because she has a social media following. It’s the best way in today’s world to get out your message quickly to a wide audience. What else would you have her do? If it sounds like they’re just parroting talking points without understanding them or if they have some side business where men are the target audience (OnlyFans, for example) then yeah I don’t trust their motives.	/r/MensRights	23/01/24 10:44 PM
5	Why are only men called out for spending money on themselves and never women? Yeah exactly. I don’t understand why people put up with it, but it’s way too common.	/r/MensRights	23/01/24 05:35 PM
23	Why are only men called out for spending money on themselves and never women? Yeah I noticed this too. In all the hobby groups I’m in there’s a common trope of “my wife won’t let me ____” or “how to explain to my wife about this purchase”. I experienced it too with some exes, didn’t matter that I was paying all the bills and doing most of the housework, spoiling her with dates and gifts whatever. Anything I did for myself was criticized. It was almost as if my entire existence was only there to serve her. I feel lucky to have my wife now though, she bought me a Stratocast…	/r/MensRights	23/01/24 02:36 PM
37	"Women's pain is always downplayed, misdiagnosed, and women receive less healthcare treatment than men." I always doubted this specifically due to the fact that even as a man I still have difficulty getting proper medical treatment. I’m almost 40 now and I have had chronic pain since I was a child. Doctors brush it off every single time I have mentioned it. It’s not just one or two doctors, I have switched doctors countless times over the decades and still get told to go home and take Tylenol. It’s not normal to be in pain every single day going as far back as I can remember to when I was a little …	/r/MensRights	22/01/24 12:50 AM
3	If women can't consent when they're drunk, and it's rape, then shouldn't it be illegal for women to drink alcohol? what if she’s just had a drink or two This is a good point too. There are varying levels of impairment. Most times when I drink or get high I can honestly say I’m clear headed enough to make rational decisions and fully accept responsibility for every single one of my actions. If someone is blacking out every time they drink, then maybe they shouldn’t be drinking at all because it is clearly problematic at that point. I can probably count on one hand the amount of times my impairment got to the …	/r/MensRights	20/01/24 06:47 AM
10	If women can't consent when they're drunk, and it's rape, then shouldn't it be illegal for women to drink alcohol? Also what if the genders are swapped is it grape for a sober woman to have sex with a drunk man? This is the reason I’m a father. I was blackout drunk and was taken advantage of by the sober designated driver. I didn’t get to cry rape, instead I’m on the hook for 18 years of child support. What about the wife who come home from brunch drunk? Looking for sex is that grape too? This right here is one of the major flaws with a blanket statement like “drunk women can’t consent.” Taking advantage of …	/r/MensRights	20/01/24 05:14 AM
2	I posted to r/mensrights in the past, therefore I’m unreliable When they jump to personal insults you know they lost the argument. They have nothing to back up their claims.	/r/MensRights	17/01/24 02:14 PM
12	I posted to r/mensrights in the past, therefore I’m unreliable If those idiots could put two and two together, maybe they would see that the abuse your wife is putting you through is making you interested in men’s rights. That’s exactly why I’m here, your marriage post sounds familiar to some of my own experiences with abusive women. For them to call people like us incels proves that the word “incel” has lost all of its meaning and is just an insult hurled at men they disagree with. Apparently it’s misogyny to advocate for men who are being abused by their …	/r/MensRights	16/01/24 01:34 PM
2	A right we need... So sorry for what you went through too. They get away with it because no one believes us. Feminists fought to promote the idea that women enjoy sex too, but the idea that it also means they are capable of rape is lost on people.	/r/MensRights	09/01/24 07:29 PM
23	I'm a really great, caring, generous, loving guy.....and at 39, I've already had 2 women try to falsely claim physical abuse or sexual harassment. Is this normal? Unfortunately the only way to prevent a false accusation is to choose the single life. Even then, all it takes is one woman to have it out for you so to be even safer might be best to avoid women altogether. But that sounds like a lonely life and not entirely practical, so we take the risk as men. A more realistic approach might be to try to avoid the women who are more likely to make false accusations. Narcissists and sociopaths. Every man should do himself a favor right now and research the fe…	/r/MensRights	09/01/24 03:06 PM
3	A right we need... I agree that a man should have the choice to walk away in the face of an unwanted pregnancy, but as for the abortion goes it is her body. No one should be forced to carry a baby and go through the pain of childbirth, along with all of the potential risks and complications that comes with that. For true equality though, we should have the same right to choice on our own status of parenthood (I’m in a blue state, I’m not going to touch the pro-life states in this comment). They can walk away from …	/r/MensRights	09/01/24 02:37 PM
13	Woman can use being drunk as an excuse while men cannot The thing with drunken sex is that another person is actively involved in that decision. It is well known that your judgement is impaired when you’re intoxicated, so someone else can see an opportunity to guide you towards a bad decision. Especially if you’re blackout drunk and that person is sober or maybe even just a little tipsy but still aware of their own actions. Taking advantage of someone is never a good thing. But if you’re both drunk and made a bad decision together, no one really took…	/r/MensRights	08/01/24 03:03 AM
327	Woman can use being drunk as an excuse while men cannot If you’re drunk and commit a crime, you still go to jail. They should absolutely be held accountable.	/r/MensRights	08/01/24 01:51 AM
1	If we were able to somehow get all men on board, what are the things, that if we all started doing them, would combat male loneliness? Agreed that it won’t solve everything. But OP asked what we can do as individuals to combat male loneliness. There’s only so much we can do to improve our living situation and wealth, I have a masters degree for example and I’m still struggling. Where do you go from there? That was supposed to be how we built our future, but the economy has gone to shit. You can’t force women to be there for us. But we as men can choose to be there for eachother. As of right now there’s no one to call when shit …	/r/MensRights	07/01/24 12:45 PM
1	If we were able to somehow get all men on board, what are the things, that if we all started doing them, would combat male loneliness? Men supporting men. If we can acknowledge that it’s not gay to hug your best friend or to cry in front of them, maybe we can build the same support systems that women have for eachother. We repress our emotions to our own detriment. Have empathy for male victims of abuse and sexual assault. He’s not weak for getting abused by his girlfriend / wife. He’s not lucky for getting raped or groped by a woman. This one is important, I have always felt lonelier in an abusive relationship than when I was …	/r/MensRights	06/01/24 09:51 PM