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Fundamentals Neat-Membership-3855/r/seduction01/06/24 08:23 PM
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This
/r/seduction22/07/26 09:03 AM
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Personally the hottest girl I got came from cold approaches in museums, aperos, etc.; the apps are brutal (and I have a good profile)
/r/seduction20/07/26 01:44 PM
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Can I ask how many approaches have you done before getting some results and how many people are your city?
/r/seduction20/07/26 01:38 PM
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Heard the same from people that lived in Miami is one of the worst
/r/seduction16/07/26 12:33 AM
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In which country are you in? Spain? I read your reports you are doing amazing!
/r/seduction16/07/26 12:31 AM
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House parties aren’t really my thing. They can involve making out, but it’s hard to get laid because people jump around too much. My last successful encounter was with a girl who was a 5.5. I was with a friend at a place with different games like ping pong and pool. The story is a bit long, but basically, I approached this girl, and she said they were going to play cards. We joined them and stayed until late playing cards. During this time, I escalated the situation by touching her and asking to…
/r/seduction08/02/26 11:01 AM
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This is assuming that you are extremely attractive, but ok I will try!
/r/seduction08/02/26 06:39 AM
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I was thinking the same thing when I read it, I am also interested in the answer
/r/seduction07/02/26 06:23 AM
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It really depends… for example I am 5’6’’ I get laid by talking with girls in social settings being funny and then invite them home/for drinks. It really depends on how you are. Never been able to pull someone from a club.
/r/seduction05/02/26 08:50 AM
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I meant common, unattractive for active dating
/r/seduction29/01/26 07:03 PM
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Approach big numbers you never know what will happen but that’s key even if is mentally frustrating for the amount of rejections but every now and then it clicks, in the meantime work also on other parts of your life like job, hobbies and social circle (I have a good one but I don’t have a good status). For me biggest problem is mental health after hundreds of rejections and going out three times per week is tough cause you think my attractive friend approach three girls per month and it works 1…
/r/seduction29/01/26 06:30 PM
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Exactly, I don’t have alternatives, so I use what I have 💪!
/r/seduction28/01/26 08:25 PM
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Is just way harder but not impossible!
/r/seduction28/01/26 09:08 AM
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That’s the way to do it, we can’t change it we just need to work more ;)
/r/seduction28/01/26 09:08 AM
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I support your view, but especially for “normal” people like me 5’6’’ Arabic, I need to approach a lot of girls to be successful, if I am in another country this could work but in my city I can’t make speed running rejections.
/r/seduction28/01/26 06:46 AM
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Can share what kind of pillow are you talking about
/r/seduction27/01/26 08:35 PM
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By the way nothing is universal for example being approached in Zurich is normal (I am living here and often I have seen guys doing day game considering that is a 400k city is insane), being approached in Hamburg is rare and nobody will do that. Approach someone in Washington DC would lead often a good conversation (as they are native English speakers and people easy going), approach someone in Lyon can easily go wrong (probably they don’t not speak English).
/r/seduction24/01/26 07:26 AM
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This
/r/seduction23/01/26 06:15 PM
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I have a shirtless photo, and I have a good physique and really good photos but still not working to get a lot of likes 😂. Last date was in November there are so many variables.
/r/seduction20/01/26 06:50 PM
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I filter in the exact same way, I go super fast few messages and then I offer a date, if it doesn’t work is gone. A lot of people are turned off by my approach but improved by a lot of my dating life. Probably less date but way better outcomes and less anxiety.
/r/seduction08/01/26 05:19 PM
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I quote this German culture can be more conservative in the kissing phase but is still a thing is just harder (I lived in 5 countries in Europe). But when it comes to sex they equally liberal. And they have different beauty standards than US, Southern EU.
/r/seduction03/01/26 11:29 AM
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Then it depends also on the geography, in some places is more important in other less
/r/seduction03/01/26 08:22 AM
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I just think that are exceptional situations and people should not act insecure. But one time I get laid with one girl being insecure. (Right before I started to learn game). One day I tried to kiss a girl and she rejected me, we went for a drink the day after and she explained me that she had a boyfriend but she liked me and she asked about my dating life I told her that was basically none, I felt ugly and girls were not giving me attentions, the day after we went to a party we were quite drunk…
/r/seduction03/01/26 08:19 AM
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It helps like many things, if you are into active girls it helps more, for example on apps when I do matches are girls that don’t have always the most attractive face but they have really good bodies
/r/seduction03/01/26 08:11 AM
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This is part of life, is an experience, it happened to me as well. After she I decided to do more selection.
/r/seduction26/12/25 12:52 PM
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Yes I have just one, but I am the seaside without shirt and people can see the body
/r/seduction07/12/25 09:10 PM
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This
/r/seduction07/12/25 03:28 PM
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In the meantime invest in dating apps, meaning try to get good photos and show your self as a gym goer (without overdoing it). For me is working to at least find people from time to time, I am not really attractive and I am 5’5” but I live in a city really fitness oriented and I sometimes I find girl that are into gym with really good bodies
/r/seduction07/12/25 08:23 AM
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Exactly many successful seduction guys didn’t even have sex at that age so it depends he still has time to learn
/r/seduction04/12/25 08:18 AM
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Not OP but thank you for the reminder!
/r/seduction04/12/25 08:15 AM
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I don’t ask before kissing I just go, I that’s the norm
/r/seduction02/12/25 08:49 AM
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Yes do it, if she says yes perfect! If she says no she will understand better what you are looking for and you don’t lose anything
/r/seduction02/12/25 08:45 AM
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For me best number is 3, but if you ask how many you should drink the answer is 0
/r/seduction29/11/25 07:59 AM
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I had the opposite impression only after I failed so many times I started to get laid
/r/seduction28/11/25 02:33 PM
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Following the thread I have also some related problem and I am seeing a therapist but is not a easy problem to overcome (at least for me that I do mostly short term things), meds help a bit but for example my problem is mental and not the blood flow
/r/seduction27/11/25 08:29 AM
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I support your vision, in my experience only one time I got a tall girl (probably was one of the best hook ups in my life); in general with short girls is way easier
/r/seduction23/11/25 10:03 PM
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Yes probably you are right if he tells her before hand and she knows I think that can work at least to give him a start
/r/seduction23/11/25 06:47 PM
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I don’t get this advice but I also never been with a hooker. My assumption will be that the anxiety of a first sex encounter with a hooker will eat him alive and probably not be able to do penetration or maximum cow girl
/r/seduction23/11/25 08:28 AM
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Boyfriend Girlfriend connection can take time especially with people with higher body count or with rotations; this was just one date probably you will discover something about her that will turn you down. At this point, ask her for a second date and see how it goes, here we say that is harder to pass the restaurant test than the sex test. By the way you made it without condom with a person that you don’t know that is a risky especially with people with high bc.
/r/seduction22/11/25 08:05 AM
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Same here
/r/seduction22/11/25 07:42 AM
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Always add the why should come to yours!
/r/seduction18/11/25 04:59 PM
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I thought was Autism Syndrome 😅
/r/seduction18/11/25 08:20 AM
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I like them as well, sure sex when you love somebody is another level but that doesn’t mean that ONS are not enjoyable
/r/seduction17/11/25 04:31 PM
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How many hours it takes, to find 10/20 that are attractive? (Probably depends also on where you live)
/r/seduction05/11/25 05:28 PM
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Cold approaches, do you mean day game?
/r/seduction28/10/25 12:40 PM
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You were not able to create connection, a part is luck for sure but another big part is skills!
/r/seduction27/10/25 08:02 AM
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In Europe and America you have different countries/states and everywhere is different. And I truly believe that for an European being in US is an edge and for a person from the US being in Europe is an edge. For me major US cities were easier than EU to have conversations and flirt, like in Washington was really good for me. A US guy probably will have better chances than me in Germany or Italy.
/r/seduction25/10/25 09:08 AM
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Yes but exceptions are there I have a low BC and one girl the second that we met (in group) she talked me extensively about another guy. The day after we had sex. So this is just another high chance scenario but not a rule.
/r/seduction21/10/25 07:37 AM
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In my area until late 30s we have late parties with music etc but less and less people drink alcohol
/r/seduction13/10/25 11:32 AM
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That’s a good point everybody needs to find their space
/r/seduction30/09/25 07:53 PM
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In my europe that would be really bad perceived
/r/seduction17/09/25 08:54 AM
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I go to therapy now are 2 years and a half and I really think that is just a plus as the cost is quite high. If you have a specific one like a fear or you get panic attack because of something is useful but on the other hand if it is a general problem is really hard that you will be able to overcome. Just my humble opinion.
/r/seduction08/09/25 12:44 PM
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I really like this comment this is what work the best for me!
/r/seduction08/09/25 12:38 PM
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It really depends where do you live, not even in which country but also in which city, I have seen people approaching multiple times in Zurich, Switzerland
/r/seduction01/09/25 03:04 PM
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🤔 when you would ask them
/r/seduction28/08/25 05:44 PM
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When you started how it was? Personally all the good things are coming from online dating, I have good pictures despite I am average (or slightly below) and 5’7’’ - I am doing one date a month with a quite good conversion rate. Warm approaches in events where people are there to socialise I can do well but quality is lower than dating apps. When it comes to cold approaches in clubs or bars I got always rejected with probably 2/10 approaches that lead to good conversations but they always finish …
/r/seduction24/08/25 08:04 AM
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I lived in different countries in EU and here everywhere is different in Switzerland where I am living if you are attractive you will approached soo many times. If you are normal nobody will approach you. But in Italy even if you are normal you will approached on the other hand the really attractive ones will be approached less.
/r/seduction04/07/25 01:53 PM
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WTF
/r/seduction02/05/25 12:58 PM
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Same here I have tried everything I am not photogenic at all my photos are always really bad also if taken with a professional camera. For now I will continue with WhatsApp :S
/r/seduction22/08/24 02:30 PM
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And out of the 10% how many dates?
/r/seduction27/06/24 11:16 AM
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How have you started and how were the first time approaching girls?
/r/seduction03/06/24 10:38 AM
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How you started your journey!
/r/seduction01/06/24 08:45 PM
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I would say that nowadays 90% of girls have headphones in their ears, do you approach also them? And do you approach girls only if they are alone?
/r/seduction24/05/24 09:36 AM
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Can you ask you an advice? I focused already on money and health, I would say I am doing decently there. Now the problem is that I almost never for cold approaches, how have you started?
/r/seduction24/05/24 08:08 AM
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