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I got no sympathy for women crying out for their inability to use the cesspit app known as tiktok to get a dose of their daily dopamine. More than likely not, these women will either be those who precipitated in or supported from the sidelines or saw absolutely nothing wrong with things like the K.A.M movement that took place on there and the platform only banned the word "kill" because it didn't want the word on a platform where kids could see it, and completely ignored the direct attack toward…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 02:31 PM
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Yes mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:26 AM
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And yes that's on this sub. You know where not being civil is a very easy line to cross.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:25 AM
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<image> Comments like this can fly when it comes from a woman. Funny, that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:24 AM
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Interesting. 3hrs later and this emotional tirade full of personal attack is still not taken down. Let's try not to pretend your friend is really concerned for your wellbeing on here as its obvious that women have the privilege to say much worse than he did and at best get a brief slap on the wrist. It's like this place doesn't even try to hide it any more. Out of interest how many times have you and your girlie's on here disregarded the mental health of men and put them down? Im willing to plac…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 07:25 AM
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The friendship is often left with a crack lingering and that will always be prominent. You can't switch off your feelings for someone you've fallen for, the same way women can't switch on any feelings to reciprocate. It is far more unreasonable to expect a man to stick around and watch his friend he has confessed his feelings for go off man chasing. Life is too short to be fucked around.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:35 PM
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Because you don't leave your friends after they reject you romantically, unless you were in it for the romance/sex from the start, On the other hand you'd be stupid to stick around because your feelings aren't reciprocated, which makes the friendship a mentally painful one. You become the friend that has to hear about how her other boyfriends treated her like shit. You become the friend who has to sit back and watch someone else with a treasure you can't possess. The wiser and less painful appro…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 11:17 AM
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A man is unlikely going to attack you. You pass hundreds of them a day, thousands of them a week and a very small amount of those men are men with lethal intentions. Women still chose the bear because they think all men are going to attack them in the given scnario. Justification? "You never know who is going to do it". Was it considered valid? Women all think so. Now men apply the same logic about never knowing who to trust when it comes to shooting off false accusations. Is never being able to…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:21 PM
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Lesbian relationships also have the higher rates domestic abuse in them. I wouldn't exactly define that as smooth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 02:51 PM
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Women who hate on virgins, short men, men with small penises, all have an inferior complex. To immediately address the "women are allowed preferences" replies, STFU. You know the backlash because the woman is a judgmental asshole, she went out her way ti be a bully and now she is crying when she gets the backlash of cries out she is being body shamed and judged back. Cry bully. But why are so many women just hellbent on being crybullies? It's blatant misandry. Because they can get away with it b…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:45 AM
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Where is the social pressure? Because their dating life is on easy mode as is already.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 05:01 PM
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It's common early 30s upwards, because the chances of complications with pregnancies start to increase.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 03:51 PM
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Just heard possible next opponent for Jake Paul is Muhammad Ali after he digs him up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 07:01 AM
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Man: "I think all women are size queens or only into tall men because they have treated me inferior every time". Common mod response: "no generalising, no incel, no misogynistic comments, abuse of mod power WHAM BAN, SEE YA, MAN." Women: "I think all men are violent and rapists because I've had one attack me before, so I will see all men differently and choose the bear over a man. Its all men if you disagree you're part of the problem you're a danger to women" Common mod response: literally noth…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:50 PM
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Wouldn't that be because misandry something so prevalent and embedded in society, and it's hardly ever looked down upon, which encourages more and more women to have shit attitudes towards men? Things like the "kill all men" and "men ain't shit" trend that took social media by storm and there was no accountability whatsoever, and the only form of action was by tiktok that banned the word "kill" and only because they didn't want kids to see it, nothing to do with combating the misandry against me…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:21 AM
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more sexual experience: they will have more sexual experience (obviously) so they will be more open and fun in the bed. Yeah and that's not the only thing they'll be more open with, your whole relationship will be open from her side, knowingly or more than likely, unknowingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:57 AM
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Difference is, if men do it, then they're getting taken down. Take things on tiktok for example, where if a man simply says "women" in one of his videos, he is flagged for being sexist and misogynistic, whereas movements like the K.A.M movement went around and nobody did anything about it. In fact the only reason TikTok ended up banning the word "kill" was because they didn't want it on a platform where kids could see it, but nothing to do with the misandry against men. If you want a closer exam…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:41 AM
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So were a shit ton of women who chose the bear then.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:30 AM
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Or just scrap the whole marriage thing entirely because its a waste of time, money and hassle in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:40 PM
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I made a post a few days back how women who wear makeup shouldn't have high standards, basically saying that if they can't present their real look when going outdoors, then they shouldn't expect a perfect looking man who does it without enhancing his looks. Within about an hour, the post was moved, because it was about looks and this place doesn't like it. Talking about looks is considered too "black pill" according to one of the mods I spoke with on a separate thread on here, even though looks …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 04:49 PM
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If I'm at a funeral, last thing I want to be doing is working on my dating profile with pictures. Surely you're not this far in the looney bin are you? Then they dont get to bitch when they find no one. You cant expect people to like them and give people no reason to like them. If that’s not common sense to them, then there’s no hope for them. So absolutely no understanding of people who didn't mingle when younger and that's taken a toll on their later life, which in fact, ruins their growth and…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 02:44 PM
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Talk about a bad judge of character. See, I knew this was coming and that's one reason why I said it. But also, yeah, I got a slight suspension I could be right. You call this a bad judge of character and yet this whole post is exactly that from you, a bad judge of character. All because a guy isn't sharply dressed, doesn't have tons of socialising pics, and doesn't write an essay on his profile automatically throws him in the skip. Some people are actually on these apps because they don't have …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 02:18 PM
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Getting a really bad feeling your dating profile pictures consist of bedroom mirror selfies with a background showing clothes on the floordrobe, dressing table completely unorganised and scattered, bed completely unmade, holding a✌️sign while doing the duck lips and the whole pic has Instagram or Snapchat filters on it. And I bet pound to the penny, you still get likes. One thing I find odd is, you want guys to wear suits? You do realise that most guys don't find any reason to wear a suit unless…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:58 PM
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It won't be. Mods are very selective as to what warrants as a rant or not, depending on whether it suits their narrative. This is technically a post about looks in some form. Funny how it's still up as its a shot against men. I would be very interested to know OP's dating profile effort, because I can almost guatentee it would be filled with Instagram and Snapchat filters with a duck lips pose, peace sign taken from a bedroom with the clothes thrown all over the floordrobe.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:39 PM
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Fair enough if you don't. Just don't be going on a tirade about how it's their personality that is the issue while you're in the middle of putting them down, as we all know that excuse is full of bull. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:23 PM
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That's an hourly rate but the grand was a round off number as to what you would be spending on them per session considering a lot of clients aren't going to just go for one hour and be done, they will aim to have a lasting length of experience. why wouldn’t they save up for sessions if their sex drive is so high? Because again they recognise its not worth it and it isn't fulfilling. They recognise that they are paying for their time rather than having someone desire them and love them. And besid…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:29 PM
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If incels were as horny as they claim they’d just visit sex workers and then they wouldn’t be celibate. Pretty sure that isn't an option seeing as escorts charge an arm and a leg just for an hour and you're not going to find the average person who is able to pull out a grand from his back pocket. Besides, those people want to be loved and desired like everyone else around them is. Seeing an escort isn't going to fulfil that and plenty of these people are fully aware of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:05 AM
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Not to mention that getting used for sex (vs. just getting rejected immediately) isn't really better for most women, even if they aren't explicitly rejected. At least they get the experience of having a few hookups and a bit of spicy fun which is what men are looking for too. You speak as if unattractive women have it tough which isn't the case, they just have it slightly harder than attractive ones. Fact of the matter is you would have to be really low down on the rating of looks in order to fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 10:43 AM
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We are now looking at some majority of the 63% of single men trying to get on a date with 5% of single women. These single women who want to date are easily dating out of their league with top guys. What makes them out their league just out of curiosity? Women even like to preach this bollocks "he's outta my league" but genuinely I'd love to know what makes them out of a man's league in all seriousness.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:09 PM
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just like there are men who call women red flags for being insecure about their partners going to strip clubs. You would actually have an argument if this was a common occurance but you will find that not many men who are in relationships will be going to those strip clubs nor would they have much interest in going. But there is a difference between watching porn online as opposed to physically being in the same room as someone flashing their stuff at you. So going to a strip club is justified t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 01:09 PM
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So you've watched A type of femdom content and now you think it's universal. Cool argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:11 AM
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Former porn addict here. I think you'll find that I do know what I am talking about. A good portion of femdom content is chastity more than others. You think femdom mostly consists of high heel boots and whips or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:45 AM
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It's actually one of the most common types of femdom content you find out there. Just type in femdom or submissive man on any porn site and most common type of video you will see is a man in a chastity type of thumbnail. This isn't mainstream focused stuff either is usually performed by amateur content creators.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:00 AM
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Tall women struggle a lot in dating. Ugly and/or flat women too Tall women mainly struggle in the dating world because they want men who are even taller than they are. So those women who are at the 5ft11 range will be looking for men who are way over 6ft and turning down men who are 5ft10 no matter how much of a decent lad he may be. And because of how picky they are they aren't going to commonly come across that standard because it's only a small percentage of men. And then you're even more lim…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:53 PM
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Not saying anyone is, but seeing the drama it all causes, I'm just glad I or my partner doesn't want them. Nobody will ever force me or my partner to change our minds. We are always asked "so when are you having your first then" and every answer will stay the same I.E never. They're more hassle than they're worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 11:24 AM
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So glad I don't want kids
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 11:16 AM
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Fucking hell man.. People always toss out the "what about the children in Africa?" to deflect from valid arguments. It's a poor deflection. When you look at the UK in particular, working class people have to resort to using food banks and a lot of those families are in the late 20s and 30s range. Now imagine a 50 year old who should be at the stage of wind down having a kid, working his ass off and potentially having to resort to food banks. That is both a mental and physical strain to an alread…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:06 AM
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I don't ever want kids and thankfully neither does my partner, but one thing is for sure, if I did want them, I certainly wouldn't want any of the following stress at that age of rasing a child, I would want to be on wind down. being limited or unable to do fun activities with the child when it gets older due to being at the ripe old age of 60+ take away the child's young adult life away by potentially making it become a carer if it gets to the worst case scnario. Like "what did you do when you …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 10:49 AM
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OP, I have a newsflash for you--you create your own misery thinking this way, and "never showing any weakness" and "having your armor always on." OP has said "This has been my experience anyway". Way to go completely blaming him as if he just decided to wake up one morning and decide this is his world view. Which I find extremely odd coming from someone with "bear pill" beside your name. Wasn't the logic supposed to be with that whole tirade "I choose the bear because I had bad experiences with …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:13 AM
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Respect to fellow engineer 👊
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 06:36 AM
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What region or culture you are from (United States, Europe, Asia, Western, Eastern, etc.) United Kingdom. How long you have been together (if married, please include years dating + married) We were long distance for a while but she moved into my place last November / early december. Does your wife/gf contribute to the household expenses? What does this split look like? She got a job in April, and since May we have balanced things out. She pays towards the rent, I take care of the gas and electri…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:03 AM
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It ain't rude. But it sounds like nobody can win either way. If she looks older, comments like that from men is an insult and it gets twisted into shaming. It she looks younger, comments like that from men is twisted into them acting predatory. So what's the endgame here? Telling someome they look their age, you can't really get any more straight forward than that. Being straight forward does not equate to being "rude".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:36 AM
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A lot of men do not want a girl who is high-earning (as she will be focused on her career and many men do not agree with these priorities), yet they simultaneously do not want a girl who has to rely on him and that he will be mostly financially responsible for. Quite the contrary, a man would mostly prefer it if a woman earned as much or more than he did so it would take a good chunk of the financial burden off him. Having to fork out the for the heavy bills while she takes care of the lighter p…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 11:32 PM
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Fun fact from a friend of mine working in a sex shop: most gigantic dido are bought by men. I see this a lot and quite frankly it isn't anything to go by. What kind of men are buying these toys? Are they being personally asked if they are gay or not? I can't imagine that even in such an environment that those type of customer services skills would fly where you get a person behind the checkout personally asking "are you gay" while they are bagging up the dildos, especially with how soft people o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 12:31 PM
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Go on then, do you want to take the time to explain how it's cheating? You seem to grade a levels of intelligent allegedly. I'll get my packet of cheese and onion crisps ready and wait for this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:48 PM
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It happens but its just not as likely to happen. There would also be factors involved to make them choose porn over their gfs. Like its not uncommon for married men stuck in a dead bedroom scnario to flock to online sellers to fill the empty hole where their intimate needs used to he fulfilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:59 PM
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Yes and a lot of PIED is actually from guys who spent a long time being single, then ended up in a relationship and the lasting effects are still lingering from there. In a relationship its not as likely to find the time to consume so much porn where it gets to this point unless there is some serious dysfunctional issues present (no pun intended)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 11:41 AM
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And watching porn is not a relationship. Watching porn is watching porn. If you go and watch 365 days on netflix and you get off to Michele Morrone's sex scenes, you are not in a relationship with that guy, you're enjoying a fantasy. This is like saying killing tons of NPC's on a game like GTA automatically makes you a serial killer.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 11:39 AM
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Those two are two entirely different things. On one hand you got a man who is browsing the Internet and clicking on videos purely to rub one out and then it's game over. On the other hand you got a woman who has to engage with other people in order to sell her content online. Being against prostitution is more justified than being against someone who is simply watching something without engaging with that person. It would be comparable if the argument was, he isn't allowed to go and engage with …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 11:36 AM
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to have a secret sexual relationship with someone who is not your husband, wife, or usual sexual partner And on what planet must this be on where watching porn equates to having a sexual relationship? By that definition, everyone you have masturbated to, pictures or imagination, your body count would be higher than concorde.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 11:29 AM
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That's fine it's nice to impact someone on here positively for a change. Their music does the same for me, when one of their songs play on the radio at work, suddenly I'm a child all over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 11:07 AM
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Porn is absolutely a boundary someone can set, and if both parties agree to it then violation IS betrayal. Half the time if not a good portion of the time it's only agreed upon because of the whole idea of "if you watch it, you are a dirty cheater and we are over" and they are doing it purely to please their partner and don't really want to split up from that partner. If its mutually agreed upon, good for them, but a lot of the time you will find that it isn’t. If that person has watched porn fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:53 AM
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I shall quote it again. Around 44% of lesbian and 61% of bisexual women have experienced forms of rape and physical violence by an intimate partner as compared to 35% of straight women. Further up, the article does state it is specifically about relationships. Abusive relationships are characterized by consecutive acts of degradation, physical and verbal abuse, intimidation, and excessive control.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:01 AM
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And women losers are free of emotional baggage that could be used an excuse to trigger abusive behaviour? Which is also no piece of cake to deal with. For a gender that already gets away with hitting the opposite gender, you think a lot of them wouldn't let that get straight to their head because of the amount of emotional baggage and misery lingering due to lifetime rejection they also cling on to? I'd argue that women are more than likely going to be the abusive ones due to the fact that men c…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 08:18 AM
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So then by women's standards, you are physically attractive to them, especially if a gender who typically puts themselves on a high pedestal that they feel above approaching and expected to be approached, and yet they are doing the approaching to you, so that voids the whole shyness and being anxious obstacles if this is the case. It's like an under average man having the confidence of a 6ft tall chad, he would immediately be sent into the creep zone all because he physically doesn't fit the ide…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 08:10 AM
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Unfortunately, denying sex and dead bedroom falls under the same umbrella. Particularly when a woman starts denying sex on a regular basis, it eventually leads into a complete dead bedroom scnario. I did agree that it's not cheating but in a situation like that where the one being denied goes on to cheat, I can't say I'd really blame them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:09 PM
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Arguments are usually resolved within the same day. Every couple argues. Being a married man or woman in a marriage that is a full on dead bedroom because one is constantly turning the other one down is very rarely resolved. So not cheating as such, but locking away intimacy and sex to the one you're married to is definitely a form of betrayal and taking a dump on the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:46 PM
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Unless you're living under a rock or you're just plain ignorant, there have been plans to attempt to make misogyny a hate crime in the past, which didn’t go through, but that doesn't mean it ends there. Labour, the Lib Dems, the Greens and the SNP have all said they would make misogyny a hate crime during back in the election debates, whether it goes through or not is besides the point. The point is, there hasn't been anywhere, if any, of the same amount of energy been put into making misandry a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:18 AM
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It was actually on all corners of the Internet and and got widely accepted. TikTok in the end had to ban the word "kill" on their site because they didn't want the word to be used on a platform where kids could see it, and not because it was blatant hatred towards me. The death of Sarah Everard sparked it up further. But you're missing the point of the whole thing. Things like this are allowed and no consequences are faced. But the minute someone says "all women" about anything, OH NO NO NO, NAU…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 06:00 PM
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If you're using the 9/10 murders being committed by men, that goes for murders as a whole, not exclusive to women. Men are physically stronger, so more crimes are likely to be committed. The belief that men are randomly going around killing random women is ludicrous thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:54 PM
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Suure buddy, if you wanna believe that delusion. Its not like there were famous movements like the K.A.M movement that took off, im sure not a single one of them secretly never wanted to kill all men, it must have all been for the bants.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:28 PM
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Lord christ almighty you've jumped several guns with that one, I'd be surprised if your quadriceps haven't been torn completely off the bone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:51 PM
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If blatant misandry isn't hateful then neither is misogyny. But I'm willing to bet on which one will be classed as a hate crime first. And your answer is....?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:39 PM
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Well poor you, that statement is pretty tame as opposed to women constantly going on a complete tirade to men on here how their lack of love, sex, intimacy, is all down to the men being at fault and women are saints. Would you rather I have said all of that instead and invalidate your feelings and experiences down to the ground? I.E telling you to seek therapy, stuff a bunch of antidepressants down your throat, strain yourself at the gym, suddenly become the worlds best talker, and completely ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 10:07 AM
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I hate when guys here try to gaslight me about this when I went through 6 years of no relationships because of this. I could, in fact, I will, spin this one right back at you, and say I've seen a significant amount of guys not even from this sub or on Reddit say this has been a thing for them. In fact 6 years doesn't scratch the surface. Women have the ick because they discover a man is a virgin, and what triggers the alarm bells in their heads when they hear it? It's a bunch of red flags becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 09:50 AM
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Interesting. Difference is, you'll find more men than not will be totally okay with a woman being a virgin, unlike from the women's side of it, they are more than likely going to shame you. He wouldn't be considered man enough. And if the relationship does by some miracle take off, it will always be a thorn in the side of the relationship that "he was fucking useless I had to take the stabilisers off his bike". Considering how common it is that women like to go on a tirade about how men are cree…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 06:14 AM
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Constant rejection and having zero luck at all, and being penis size shamed by a couple of those I did strike with just made me think I am not cut out to be loved by another. But when I did meet my match, for me I never met my partner in person before dating, but this wasn't through dating apps of any sort. I will be first to admit I don't come close to the standard these women have. But, for the longest time, I was part of a fanbase on social media, and I spoke to the same group of people daily…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:55 PM
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Isn't much different from women nowadays crying out to men "leave women alone", so in response, a majority of men have done just that, but of course, those very women who preached it are the same who will go on to be all like "why don't I get approached anymore". In a situation like this, if you keep prying, you're accused of not respecting boundries. Men aren't lazy for not participating in stupid games, nor do a lot of men have the energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:40 PM
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You might not get arrested on the spot but your name being attached to such allegations of harassment, sexual or not, is enough to fuck up your reputation. Take gyms for example, where all you have to do is look across a womans way and they're going to accuse you of being a creep and stalking, as seen on many viral videos posted. Secondly, it all comes down to looks, too. It'll be okay to approach as long as you fit the criteria of what makes Mr. Right but if you fall outside of that range, the …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:37 PM
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I'd be telling her to fuck right off.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 11:14 PM
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I mean I shall play a dangerous game with this one, as much as I'm on mens side, I will say it took the England Lionesses to win the UEFA Cup while the men have failed in the final. Twice in a row. Cheers, ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:48 PM
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It can exist but only if the man has zero shame and willingly surrenders himself to live that lifestyle because he believes his worth is that low.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:29 PM
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100% purely for the fact they get away with it more than men would.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:03 PM
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There's also a disgusting double standard I've noticed going around a lot more lately, and it's the preferences of sex acts and who is allowed certain boundries and who isnt. So if a woman isnt into blow jobs, anal, even light femdom kind of acts, then that is seen as a boundary and men are demanded to respect it. And rightly so, before anyone tries to say I'm advocating for the opposite. But the issue is, if a man isn't into giving oral sex, using toys, fingering or anything like that, then it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 06:44 AM
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A lot of people seem to be under the impression that I am talking about a legal obligation to step in and fight for a random womans honour, and that's either pure ignorance because they have zero to bring to the table or they need everything explain in every miniscule detail. The gripe I have is there is a MORAL obligation in society's eyes that men have to protect women. The same society that would happily stand back and watch a man get beaten down and film for some brownie points on social med…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:43 AM
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What have I potentially started? But in all seriousness its refreshing seeing people agree that you shouldn't be obligated (no people, not by law, by society's expectations) to be knight and shining armour for some random woman who is being attacked. A lot of people are under the idea that you should whip out your phone there and then and dial for the authorities, without taking into account that you could be seen doing so by the attacker and then you could be the next victim. I'm not saying don…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:26 AM
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None of the responses are calling for him to grab the gun, just that he didn't even attempt to call the police. If he had got his phone out there is a good chance he would have been seen and shot too. Moments like this can cause witnesses to freeze in fear, because you'll be shocked to know, men have this as well as women do too. Or the guy could simply have not had a phone either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:12 PM
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Why would I want to step in to intervene against someone who is about to kill another person? Fact of the matter is we owe people nothing, they like to preach it, women in particular love to rub that in men's faces when the topic of male loneliness epidemic comes up, so they can have their cake and eat it. Bad enough men are the ones who get drafted and be expected to be the Knight and shining armour when sir muggings comes along to snatch away an iPhone and handbag. I care about me. I care abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:09 PM
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Back in April this year a Chicago student was ambushed by a man who had a gun. A guy sitting on the ground did nothing to get involved, knowing full well the guy had a gun and all sorts. But luckily the girl knew what she was doing and managed to disarm the attacker. Here, they showed a clip of it and despite there being a gun involved, people are not coming for the attacker, but instead, coming for the guy who sat there. The old saying is never bring a knife into a gun fight but then we will ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:50 PM
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welp
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:09 AM
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I don't know how you could just walk past in that situation. Quite easy. I don't know the person, I don't know the situation, I have my own life to worry about and the world is hard enough without having to deal with it head on with possible life changing injuries that would make things more significantly difficult. I'd call the authorities, sure, but would I physically get involved and possibly end up living the rest of my life in regret with permanent injures beating myself up asking myself "w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:20 AM
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Not really sure. The strongest tool to perform the sex with the woman is actually the brain and it would be very difficult to send signals to the brain from the penis to call for extra blood to fill it up when the brain has been severely damaged from having a size 12 show stomp on it and bashed into the ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:14 AM
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but don't come back complaining about not being seen as a potential candidate for the other sex. Gonna be pretty hard to be one when I'm either one of the following: permanently severely injured, turned into a vegetable or just flat out dead. I don't think there are many women out there who would be into any of those type of men and I'm talking less amounts than those who would consider a man who is 5ft worthy of being dated while she is 5'6 and over. most men who did heroic things were praised …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:01 AM
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And mugging happens world wide
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 09:30 AM
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I mean you can call the authorities all you want but depending where you are what use will that do anyway particularly in the UK where the police don't respond to anything and take their sweet little time getting to the crime scene only for them to do absolutely nothing. This is largely the case here. They don't even rush when there is a gang of a few guys with knives a machetes causing chaos it once took them nearly 40 minutes to arrive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 09:22 AM
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Tone down the caps lock, lady. I am not your baby daddy that you might yell at on the daily. Sex can be nothing more than a meaningless ONS So again, "no big deal". And you're not okay with porn? Please tell me you don't equate that to the same levels of cheating, because that is utterly ridiculous if so.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:51 PM
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No. Sex is no big deal apparently when there is no intimacy attached to it so what makes locking lips with another woman without any intimacy being attached any different in this scnario? What about other things less physical, like porn? If your man likes to watch that kind of content would that bother you despite the fact that this also has zero intimacy attached to it? Or even roles reversed and you did any of said things?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:14 AM
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What about a husband stuck in a dead bedroom marriage and the woman isn't willing to work things out and the man knows he loses a lot by going through a divorce? Should he stay in a dead bedroom situation and remain sexless or cheat and at least fulfill what his wife refuses fulfill? Because that's the reality of a lot of dead bedroom marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:33 AM
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Your man goes ahead and kisses another woman on the lips, do you get jealous and scream the house down and badger him for weeks to come about it and use it against him when he does something like forget to pick up a bottle of milk from the shop OR do you think to yourself that it's no big deal because it wasn't intimate?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:17 AM
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I haven't ignored the part as you can clearly see I've said "same energy". But if you want to go around nitpicking and laying down the law to suit your narrative, so be it. It doesn't make you any less wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:52 AM
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99% of the time the confidence needs to be justified, otherwise having the same energy as a 6ft chad and you're below average, it sends you to the category of being annoying, unbearable, a creep, sexual harassment. etc
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:18 AM
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So its 50/50 that women would go for a fat ugly man to date over someone who is the exact opposite of that? As well as its 50/50 that men would choose a morbidly obese woman over someone who is just curvy or has a fit body? The vast majority of both genders wouldn't flock to the second option presented, no? You might want to step out of fantasy land for a moment there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 09:24 PM
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Can't see the issue with this statement, tbh. If a man or woman doesn't feel comfortable being with a trans, does this automatically mean they're transphobic?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 09:17 PM
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Interesting. Well don't stop there, honey. You going to tell me I'm wrong you might as well at least do the good deed and point out why I'm wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 09:13 PM
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Not all women are like anything. But you will find that MOST share the same preferences in certain things and finding one that doesn't share that preference is like playing a game of Where's Wally.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 09:07 PM
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There isn't someone for everyone it's a bunch of cope shit that even a therapist would say. The whole idea of "your someome could be miles away" holds no weight. Why should your one be miles away and not close to where you live like it is for every normal person? Answer: you're not normal, there's a reason you're outcasted and need to go to extreme lengths and travels miles away instead of finding someone traditionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:33 AM
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It's insulting kind of advice if anything. Women have set the high standard to the point where the average man is now deemed unworthy but also they want to preach how confidence is the magic ingredient. The fact of the matter is, looks get your feet in the door, it's the deciding factor as to whether "am I giving this man the time of day to go further with or not" and then, his personality does the rest of the work. But looks always come first, but what can I really tell you? Women are absolutel…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:19 AM
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It's not working like that. We are not a place to pick up his shattered ego by hurting others. Doesn't take it long for people to start using it against him though, does it. I bet if the roles were reversed and a woman felt exactly the same way after a man rejected her, there would be more uplifting comments from not just men, but women, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 06:27 AM
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This is true and obvious, but one thing I'd like to add, is women aren't entitled to a seat on public transport. And I'm talking in the sense of when the bus is full, women expect men to sit up and offer their seat to them. In a world where feminists has killed all forms of chivalry, somehow they believe they are entitled to be offered a seat all because they are a woman. That's one thing that really irks me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 06:19 AM
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Not a hive mind, but like everything that exists in the world, there is a common preference. And women commonly prefer the taller men. But it can feel like a hive mind because if you're like 5ft 4, hardly any woman you come across will give you the time of day unless there is something else that draws her to you and funnily enough, that something wouldn't be anything to do with the person at all, but rather what he has.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 01:05 PM
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The main difference is, for women, smaller in height or even the same height, is almost guaranteed a deal breaker. For men, it wouldn't be.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 01:02 PM
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And for "turning down the nice guy", I'm not sure why this woman would've been better off marry someone she wasn't attracted to in the first place? One thing that stuck out to me the most was this. Because not just here but this is in general - men who aren't in the 10% are always encouraged to shoot for women who are way below his league and he needs to lower his standards in order to find his one. And this is seen as play advice. Why can't the same rule apply to women then? Why should women, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:24 AM
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You're obviously not from the same planet are you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:16 AM
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Yeah, trouble is from i've always seen is, if a man isn't up for sex as often, then he is either a bad and selfish lover who is not fulfilling her needs or he is cheating and both warrant the statement "girl he bad dump his ass". Let's spin it around and a man complains about the same thing, the response to him is "a woman's body isn't an object, respect her boundries, she owes you nothing, you thinks she's cheating you're projecting" then the outcome answer of all? "She should leave you she des…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 09:53 AM
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I'm glad I got out of the habit of flocking to O.F users. It's mentally crippling.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 09:36 AM
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They like to make the argument that they would rather encounter a bear in the woods over a man because they don't know what that man is capable of and that is seen as something valid, but if you dare say you are cautious over approaching a woman because she will likely call you a creep, it's sexist, misogynistic, generalising all women. etc. I wouldn't say it's just down to being called a creep, but that is a trick layer as to why men have no longer stopped approaching. It's how unhinged women h…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:22 PM
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Because she's probably under the illusion that men don't experience things like sexual assault and domestic abuse like a good chunk of women on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:41 AM
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Do you give this same energy to those in their school years who off themselves because they were bullied (which BTW threatening is included in that too) that its all their fault they chose to do it rather than being a man and having the emotions that's as rock hard as the statue of liberty? The scale of the threats this man had faced could have been more than just the old "I'm gonna stab u in the back ally when you clock off from work at 5pm". Fake threats could actually involve doing something …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 10:25 PM
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Not me personally but I've had a friend it has happened to. A colleague at work had it done to him, he decided to take her to a Costa coffee and she went through the roof at him. This was on a Friday and the following Tuesday word got around the workplace that his photo was on one of the spotted "inserts my local town area" pages on Facebook telling women to avoid him because he is a cheep skate who does coffee on first dates. Of course he got mocked for it by some people and others did back him…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:59 AM
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Found the simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:52 AM
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If a coffee date is not going to be very appealing, then things such as all of the above is just going to be even worse. I can hear it now, how a woman who believes she is an absolute 10 all because she got dressed nice and slapped on a thick batch of makeup when in reality she is a 5 at best without it all, starts complaining how the date should be better, how she is above such activities and even going on a tiktok tirade about how this is a low value man and he is broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:23 AM
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And that ladies and gentlemen is why a lot of guys who are below average don't believe in the "just have confidence, bro". Many guys are super aware of this. It's like someone who is telling a funny story or joke. An under average man could tell a funny story about something and put a slightly offensive spin or punchline on it, women wouldn't take a blind bit of notice. In fact, they'd probably slag you off behind your back. But if an attractive man were to tell the same joke even with an extrem…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:13 PM
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Yeah, men have a choice to choose between the good looking, the bad looking and the ugly type of women if they are simply average men. So it's not really much of a choice when they fall in the same pool. A woman who falls in that pool can have the choice of pretty much any man she wants because men have a helluva lot more leeway. So while a man is average is mostly stuck between the devil and the deep blue sea, women have a wide variety of men she could get if she wanted. So when it comes to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:25 PM
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Boyfriends to a certain extent. And I say to a certain extent because more commonly than not, if a man is depressed, the woman wants out. All the while the man is more than likely going to be the woman's comfort. The rest of what you mentioned, nowhere near as often, as they are often left to just deal with it and suffer in silence. Coworkers for example, I've seen a couple of male workers have a breakdown at work, and shit comments, mostly came from women about how he is a big baby and needs to…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:55 AM
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are women now supposed to maintain friendships for men too? They can't do anything for themselves? That seems like treating them like children. We aren't refusing to care, we are refusing to do the work for you. Big difference The contrast here is off the chart. I hope a lot of men read this and take it on board whenever they see a woman going through a deep crisis of loneliness and depression when they are sat crying on a bench, and tell just completely ignore them. But of course if men were li…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:14 AM
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Not a copy pasta but it sounds to me you are living with your head buried deep in the sand. It is what it is, if you refuse to see any of it, ain't my problem. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 11:33 PM
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A womans DM's don't equate being approached IRL, that is down to the fact that men are behind a screen and the likelihood of being accused of being a creep and possibly photographed and pasted all over social media is significantly slimmer. You mention what goes down with your oldest and sorority sister, and and on the flipside I have a mate who has been a bouncer in the same club for nearly 15 years, and even he says the amount of times he sees guys approaching girls is nowhere near as much as …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 11:19 PM
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A good portion most average men have already stopped approaching women anyway so sooner or later an even bigger chunk will be on board.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:32 PM
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My question is, what is an older woman usually doing it for when it's an older woman and a younger guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 05:20 PM
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What is it when its flipped around?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:59 PM
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best source of facts and the methods that is used to determine comparable penis size measurements is pressing the ruler to the pelvis bone. And you are aware that the study that determined the average was a terribly flawed meta analysis that mixed up measured sizes with multiple other types such as those who suffer with ED and mixed up the methods of NBP and BP, which artificially lowered the said average size. 6 inches was found to be the average and that was nothing to do with pressing in, so …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:59 PM
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Righto, so just ship them off to he fed a bunch of false positivity and gaslit into believing that they can be happy being alone is the right answer? All the while we penalise men who have certain preferences for women and call it body shaming. Ship them off to therapy, they stay out the way, everyone is happy? Because that's the outcome it sounds like you're describing. You're also telling me that someone was allegedly stupid enough to post such personal pics on this subreddit (or was this else…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 12:18 PM
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Let me guess, you're one of these folks who take the likes of calcsd as the whole truth. I say that because of things like bone pressed, which in reality, holds fuck all relevance, but the people who use that site take it as if God himself wrote it into the bible, because that's not what is seen in the bedroom. 6 inches without doing that ruler business, then yeah, I'd say he is delusional, but let's say if he is anywhere under 5 inches without doing that, what is the naked eye going to register…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 11:58 AM
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All the same as I'm confused as to why therapy is supposedly the antidote to all physical problems that are helpless, but it's normal and cool to tell someome to waste hundreds in therapy instead of looking for a place to get stuff off their chest. I wonder what the response will be if there is a woman version of woe is me floating about on here complaining that the sight of her labia bouncing between her thighs like a Sunday morning church bell has ruined all romance in her life because she has…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 11:40 AM
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Go ahead, what's his normal sized dick then that you seemingly know so much about. All of what I said still applies. He's depressed, low, and this is how he is treated, which is the average treatment to men who are in the same boat.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 11:24 AM
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Comments like this are the reason why people like OP are the way they are. He's no saint by the looks of things, in fact nobody is on this sub, but please, don't pretend your goodie two shoes act worrying about the level of toxicity is supposed to be doing any good, either. There is so much wrong with what you've just said that it's laughable as to why you would go through the effort to begin with. are giving young impressionable men the idea that penis size is relevant, while it's just a few gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 11:04 AM
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serious physical conditions are dealbreakers for a lot of people, I don't know what to tell ya. And on the flipside, men are often penalised for being insecure about the very thing that causes them to be rejected all the time. Not just blank statements like OP has mentioned are used as a way of insulting a man's intelligence, but also the worst one is "have some confidence bro fake it till u make it bro confidence is attractive" which shows to be a load of bollocks. They get lectured about being…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 10:29 AM
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Is or is the video not literally called "POV he's about to ruin your whole friendship". Same attitude applies in this situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 12:39 PM
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There's no fucked up in it. I enjoy flirting, I'll carry this same energy as a man, then see the results. Where would you like to start? Posted on social media? Labelled a creep both irl and social media? Restraining order? Accused of sexual harassment? Only acceptable when it's the women doing it though isn't it. Funny, that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 12:07 PM
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Oof. Now imagine this being made and the guy was a chad. Wait, nvm different rules apply. Imagine this being made about an average woman. The comments would be chalk and cheese levels of comparison to what you see in that videos comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 12:01 PM
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Cruel reality is nothing different than a rich person having no empathy for a homeless person. It's basically, "I'm well off, why should I care about a bum on the streets" Women don't live through that kind of struggle, they can get any guy they want because it's easier for them, so they don't give a shit about it. But then as I've seen on here, they use those "needs" against men and call them entitled. That's the game they wanna play, then fair enough, they aren't entitled to a man of high valu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 11:13 AM
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Women literally use things like that against men, though. Are you suggesting it never exists? There was a thread created on this very sub yesterday, giving them a choice of what kind of guy they would choose to date, one of the hypotheticals was a man with a micropenis, and a good portion of the comments kicked that hypothetical to the curb purely because, I'll give you a guess.... wait for it..... HIS MICROPENIS
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:06 PM
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Why on earth would anyone date a single mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:57 AM
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Would you like to tell me why porn is the cause of this spike in men being insecure about their size and why the subject makes its way into these kinds of topics? I think it's a cheap shot at men for having valid feelings but please do tell where this ludicrous assumption comes from. Careful what you say now, because I am a former porn addict of the worst kind, so don't just throw out meaningless things here and there. Just a heads up. I look forward to hearing from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:09 PM
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Where did I ever say he was black? Are you assuming every man named Tyrone is black?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:22 PM
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So you want men to pay everything for you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 04:46 PM
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Jason doesn't have enough dick Neither does Andrew. Both are in the classified micropenis range
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 04:29 PM
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It all depends with the job aspect, its not necessarily down to them not holding down a job. I'm an engineer for a manufacturing company, and I'm only above what most earn on the work floor because of my title, maintenance engineer. There are lads here that have worked for this place pushing 25 to 33 years who manufacture the products, and are all on minimum wage. Years ago they were above it, but we got took over by Americans in 2018, the annual payrise for the whole factory stopped, and as the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:52 PM
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Please compare what men nitpick and what women nitpick. I'll wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:24 PM
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Now you've shown the scientific aspect, let's look at the common preference. https://badgirlsbible.com/does-size-matter
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:45 AM
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That's my point. Bodily harm yet its more normalised to become invested in and send straight to the box office because it fits so well into society. What part is not consensual?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 05:31 PM
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Hmmm, your dildo... you sure you wanna go with that? Okay fine, go ahead. Just so you know, dildos aren't average, they are sold bigger than average. So there we go, big cock requirement exposed. Ding a ling a ling a ling!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:12 PM
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What's wrong with watching it? Watching stuff like UFC and boxing seems perfectly fine, which does more bodily harm than watching a thrusting dick go in an out. When money is involved, I.E in my case, is when it's truly harmful. It takes a negative effect on the mental state as well as financial.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:09 PM
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Probably the only comment of yours ever I respectfully disagree. Respectfully. Watching porn isn't bad as long as you don't sink to what I did and get addicted to the interaction side of things via onlyfans and whatnot. That fucks a person up big time and getting out of the habit is no walk in the park.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:45 PM
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Normal gravitate towards bigger unless you have vaginismus. Hope your current fella isn't smaller than your ex - otherwise the poor lad must never know he doesn't match up to your ridiculous standards. It's okay, teacher, you can be open with them on here. Let it out, there there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:39 PM
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El oh el
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:35 PM
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Also massive cock. Don't purposely leave that off your list of demands.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:23 PM
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So I'm going to blame men because they are more accepting and women are the ones who raise the standards? The same gender that killed chivalry, that is. The same gender that nitpicks things that men cannot help, as you can see on dating profiles and the common view of any woman you would ask I.E height, dick size etc. Why would I blame the side who would be commonly accepting towards a woman who isn't on the skinner side even though they aspire to be a size zero (which btw we have moved past an …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 01:25 PM
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Ah so men blaming anyone other than themselves IS justified and not something that they pluck out of thin air just so they have someone to blame after all I.E women because they are picky. At least you finally admit it. That's all I needed to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 01:13 PM
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Why should men have to work harder when women put in not even 50% of the work? Why should men be top tier condition for a women who, in the vast majority, cannot leave the house without a ton of makeup caked on their face, yet for some reason, expect to be handed a man chiizzled from diamonds by the gods? Take away their makeup they just become an average woman at best. Fact of the matter is, men are less strict when it comes to the dating standards. The only common deal breaker is when a women …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 09:02 AM
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Being skinnier isn't going to make your appearance better if you don't know how to show it. That being said though they do make more baggy clothes, something you slip into easier. Worth looking into and it's safer than starving yourself to death, getting liposuction or diet pills. Being tighter isn't going to make sex any better if you don't know how to utilise it. That being said though, they do make flashlights, something like a dildo you can have your partner put his penis into. Worth looking…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 12:36 PM
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Stop the cap, lady
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 03:00 PM
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"But what if some woman calls the police on me?" Unless you do something very stupid like groping her unprovoked, it's not going to happen. She might call you a creep, but that's all. Who cares, aren't you a man? Stop letting these things affect you. It's not that straight forward. Have you not seen the type of the women who go to the gym that end up recording and trying to shame men just for looking their way for a couple of seconds? Public shame them and then try to get their memberships banne…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:13 PM
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I'm sure you got some koala bears nearby your area you can flock to if everything fails.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 08:35 AM
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As previously stated, you're firing blanks from here on out. I couldn't give an ounce of a toss on how you want to spin it, how much you claim to care about other things, you've already outed yourself as a size queen when your blatant mockery towards guys in this situation and ignorance all around. There is a grain of truth to everything, and you justifying men being dumped over something they cannot control is that grain. So please, quit desperate trying to back track yourself. You've already s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:11 PM
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I was always speaking about some women, not all women. Including yourself, and the opposite here. This just fuels my overall point why men shouldn't believe women so easily
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:50 PM
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Aren't you the very same person from the other day on here I exchanged with that went on a tirade how women need big dicks? How small men just don't hit the right spots? Normally I'd dive deeper into a response to this, but given your track record, you're firing blanks, lady. Roll along.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:42 PM
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If I wanted to ask you a question about how to up my oral sex game, how to use toys, best way to finger somebody, my questions would specifically revolve around those subjects, and I'm certain your answers would be giving full detailed answers on how to do said things in the bedroom, no bother, no hassle, just straight to the point. Men ask questions regarding dick size because the dick size plays a part in a specific act. Women don't seem to answer it, they say size doesn't matter and jump stra…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:33 AM
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Also, the only person who actually cares about your size is... yourself. Along with "size doesn't matter", this is up there with one of the biggest lies ever told. There are a plethora of things that point towards none of that being true, for starters, the existence of size queens being the most obvious. Want people to stop roasting you? Stop being so insecure and giving them the reaction that they want. Being confident or insecure makes no difference as to whether you're going to be ridiculed. …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:24 AM
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Not only that, but they will also gaslight you to try to make you think its only men who care about dick size so much. This is something I have seen a huge amount of on an ask women no censor subreddit (which BTW is full of censorship). They even made a whole thread about it and there are so many things wrong with what they put. Of course, men cannot respond to it because its flared "no man's land", but the amount of things on it I could refute, I could write a whole trilogy of books in response…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:11 AM
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This is the problem, and honestly, before anything else, major kudos to this man for speaking out. I feel more men should do this. But why does she get a suspended sentence? It's alright having men speak about over this situation, but speaking out will only go so far until real action is taken. People in time will overlook the all the things she did because women get the golden pass to a lot of shit behaviour. If a man did this he wouldn't have been given a suspended sentence and his life would …
/r/MensRights10/06/24 12:30 PM
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Women want way more than a dude who can get the job done if they're even half brained. Which, again, is nitpicking. I don't give a shit how you want to spin it, at the end of the day, it is nitpicking and being a fussy cow. The average size penis, which is what must guys fall under, is between 4.7 to 6 inches. Women's preference are above that at around 6.5 to 7.5. The average girth is 4.5 - 4.8. Women's preference are at a minimum of 5.5 girth. Having the mindset of having either someone who ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:32 AM
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Yep, and the only type of content that is commonly associated with a small penis, is cuckolding and all forms of degrading/humiliation. People like to preach on that porn is not real life, and yeah, to a degree that is true, but at the same time, it's not that much different when it comes to what's appreciated, what's commonly treated as the "worthy of being fucked" kind. As you pointed out, there are models of all kinds, whether it BBW, flat chested, they are all shown to have the equal amounts…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:13 PM
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this isn't about women's scientific ability to orgasm based on the length of a penis. This is about aesthetics, enjoying certain feelings unrelated to orgasm, etc. This isn't about capability in the sense you keep arguing from. He's not capable of meeting the aesthetic desired by those women. NOT ABOUT ORGASM, ITS ABOUT AESTHETICS DING DING DING. There we have it, folks. NIT PICKING. Thank you for clarifying. A man who is good in nearly every aspect is dismissed because of one flaw that is outwe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:02 PM
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Yes, in fact, science is relevant to it. A 4 inch penis IS capable, as the nerve endings are at the front, not deep within, but again, women are commonly too fussy and nitpicky and want something way beyond. It's not that man isn't capable, women set the bar to standards that not an average man can meet. A man can be the best partner for her in every aspect, even much better than a previous abusive ex, yet something like this would be the killer in most cases. But nah, I guess you're too pig ign…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 06:58 PM
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It actually is nitpicking. Just because a penis isn't medically a micropenis, it doesn't leave most off the hook. Let's say an ex was 7 inches and the current is packing a 5 inch. Scientifically, both are adequate to get the job done. Common preferences would lean towards the 7 inch ex, laying there missing the ex, while the current 5 incher has respect lost for him all because of the way he was born. Your statement of "I am more than just my boobs" could be said about a man with a small penis, …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:22 PM
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Except your comparison is futile. Men are more lenient and at the end of the day, more than likely to be happy that you're sharing your body with him. Women nitpick things like penis size and aren't so lenient. Big tits get praised, that is true, but when it comes to wanting to keep a partner around, men commonly won't even let that get in the way. Same cannot be said once a woman discovers a man is packing something of only 5 inches.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:52 PM
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n this case, this is a medical condition that is actually starting to be taken very seriously. No it isn't, far from it. Either medically or reducing shame, it's still brushed under the carpet and continually mocked. You are the one mixing having a smaller than average dick with having a micro phallus. Because both are treated with the same energy. Smaller than average? The expectation of it all is still "use toys, use fingers, demand the man to get good at oral even if the man isn't into someth…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 05:53 PM
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Nope - because its very much out there in all corners, quite unavoidable, its just pig ignorant folks like you who more than likely are very well aware of it, but choose to gaslight and bullshit your way through so you can keep up the "women are saints and pure" image.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:05 PM
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I mean, women with vaginismus are indeed sexually useless in a PiV point of view as they're not able to be penetrated. You are aware that vaginismus and a small penis are two entirely different issues that have two types of responses from people, right? One being that one has support and help over it, and can be treated, while the other is told to just deal with it, except being inferior, told its all imaginary and are kicked to the curb for feeling insecure and be severely limited in the dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:44 PM
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Ah, the typical drifting off and replacing it with the confirmation bias argument. With the amount of stigma towards penis size, it's far from a confirmation bias. Not very good at connecting the dots together, are you. Wonder off now.... "teacher".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:19 PM
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It actually is common. Places like tinder where it's a common way of finding a hookup, most end up being size queens. More often than not a women will always say how her ex was smaller but never the current one she has chosen to stay with. Now by statistical numbers, I am not considered micro, and I went through hell and back with women who treated me as if I am. It's not as rare as you think, nor is it something mostly fueled by men. When men do it to each other, it's done in a bantering manner…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:29 AM
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And it is also women who commonly compare sizes to previous ex partners. It is also commonly women who go on to brag about how their hookup was big and how good he felt and how she wants to see him again, but anyone on the smaller side is either rejected and in no way spoken about by the woman to their other girl friends about how she is craving to go back for seconds and how amazing he was. When his size would be brought up, it's in a negative way. Don't be a fool now, surely you're not that mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:18 AM
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OP, you are largely responsible for your insecurities in this instance. No, he isn't largely responsible for his own insecurities. How he handles them is a component, but it's not largly responsible. This is why: If you are a man with a small penis, there is little to nothing that is on your side. In the movement of body positivity, penis size isn't even welcomed, but rather in fact, encouraged to be constantly poked fun of an is used in ways to use the positives of a man (big dick energy) and n…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 09:37 AM
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Women like to say its men who are the cause of the small penis insecurities, but it's also them who brag to their friends when a man and or hookup has a big penis, it's also them who are very vocal about body positivity, yet turn a blind eye to small penis shaming, but they would rather defend people who pile on a shit load of weight and encourage them to keep going and risk further damage to themselves, and it's them who nitpick about when their ex was bigger and how it's a big flaw when the cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 09:04 AM
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They won't randomly get help from random people in real life, but their friends, woman friends or men friends, would be more inclined to help and listen out to a woman venting and even if a woman comes online to vent, they would be the same. But for men it's entirely different, as they are just met with the "shut up, knuckle down and get on with it" treatment from friends and its even worse online, as they're just get accused if being an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:20 PM
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It can be one or the other or all of the above. Problem is when a man is at that stage, he is left to deal with it alone and is penalised for being open about it and thus drives the loneliness even further down. At most, people here or irl throw therapy out to them all the time, without realising the difference being that women in a lonely and depressed state gets people they know or even online to support them and men are always tossed the therapy card and waste money on something that probably…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 11:46 AM
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