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Sounds to me that neither of you check your phones during work hours, which is acceptable and great tbh. Personally I'd tell him "it's no problem, I don't check my phone when I'm working either" that lets him know why you don't respond asap without just excusing him (not that i think he's playing games, honestly). For everyone saying this is a red flag, on this occasion i really think it's exactly what it says on the tin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 09:27 PM
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If you have to ask if you can still pleasure a woman with foreskin, you probably aren't rn anyways. Clean yourself and focus on your mental shit, and kearn where the clitoris is and do a bit of reading
/r/askFDS09/06/20 07:48 PM
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Holy crap, are you me sis?! This has literally been happening to me for the last 4 years of my life, even more so during quarantine. Your post really hit it home though that theure not nostalgic for MY compqny, theyre bored and want to play with the younger me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 05:23 PM
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Thank you very much for commenting. How does one do their toenails perfectly? I'm terrible at it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 09:04 AM
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Thank you so much. I wanted to wait to I could do it in person, but it was just too long and i was getting more and more resentful. I have been working out and writing, I've even started editing some old stories I wrote,I'd like to publish them some day. Ihave exams shortky as well so been studying a lot. No tears, just guilt. Thank you for commenting x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 08:59 AM
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Ah okay, i just thought if you ask outright they tend to lie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 07:38 PM
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How do you ask this discreetly?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 02:50 PM
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To be fair, right now he is not her priority. You can be a priority, without being the number one priority all the time. Nothing wrong with him taking 2nd place to a phD for a month or two, I'd say the same if it were a woman asking because its education.
/r/askFDS17/03/20 12:59 PM
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I was wondering when SocialRepose would make it to this sub. Used to bea huge fan, then all the crap about him and Jaclyn came out, motto mention other stuff. He proposed to her with a RING POP IN VEGAS. Yuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 10:06 AM
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Working up my courage to break up with my boyfriend of nearly 2 years. Need to get a plan in place, hes not abusive or a narcissistic, hes just a slob and a but too immature for me. Enjoy the freedom!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 03:50 PM
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What's the Gillette ad?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 08:23 AM
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Thanks for posting this, really helps us .^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 02:44 PM
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I agree about dating not being the first priority, education has always come first for me. I thought dating would simple too, but apparently a lot of guys take it really seriously around here, so far that I've seen. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 04:25 PM
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That's such a sweet story! So effort is more important, got it. Thank you very much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 04:22 PM
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Last sentence is a fair point, thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 04:22 PM
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Jaysus. He wants to leave you waiting nearly a whole year? That's not on, go home and pick yourself up sweetheart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 10:38 PM
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Ah thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 07:00 AM
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Can someone clarify for me? We say it's bad when he makes you plan the dates, but then we say this is good. Sure, we dont want him to just drag us along to what he wants to do, but is this guy not essentially making her plan it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 09:02 PM
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Love FDS, no woman should chase. However I have a question; if he's given you his number and you don't text, won't he just take it as you're not interested? wouldn't it be more worrying if he thought you weren't interested, yet still proceeded to hunt for you on campus? Not saying you need to jump all over him, but even a simple "Hi, its ___" is too much? Still learning .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 01:42 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear that. You don't have physical evidence, but you do have the texts messages and phone calls? Surely they should help?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 09:05 PM
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I've lost more than one phone and gone anywhere from 3 days to 2 weeks without it. However I'd contact people on my laptop or borrow a phone from a friend if needs be
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 01:35 PM
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This isn't something you need to bargain? I find it extremely difficult to break up with someone, so if you cant "just dump him" tell him exactly why aka hes clingy and difficult and you're done dealing with it. It's not a negotiation, you're not discussing it with him, you are informing him that you are finished. Thats not cruel or harsh, he knows exactly why,and that's it. You can negotiate someone to stay if they dont love you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 07:40 PM
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I'm not much for judging peoples kinks, they're into what they're into. However the underlying concept of ALL kinks is that you must have consent, before the act. Otherwise you're a massive dick. The term Kink shaming initially I believe was to stop making people feel bad for enjoying variation in sex, I.e not just missionary PIV. It's not shaming if they're doing things to you that you dont like, that you've never consulted on. They can enjoy it with someone else if they want. You dont have to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 07:37 PM
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I went to therapy for similar issues, with a female therapist. Normally I'd have no preference for gender of therapist, but in this situation especially if you're already questioning his advice when you're so vulnerable, a female is best. You know what hes doing is wrong or you wouldn't have posted. Report him, it may not do anything but at the very least you'll feel better. Best of luck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 11:07 AM
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Sadly I do not- I used to volunteer at a car shelter buy they require you to be free certain mornings every month, which I cant do with my schedule
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 11:08 AM
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I used to write a little bit, that's a fantastic idea. I'll give it a go, thank you .^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 10:09 PM
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Havent thought of some of those, will try to do them. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 07:44 PM
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Thank you, will definitely try going to those kind of things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 07:43 PM
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I have one, I will be working more hours once exams are over .^ it's just minimum wage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 07:41 PM
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Thank you, I do have free access to the gym. I'm awful at sticking to things, though I did stop because of college work. I just find myself getting bored of doing the same stuff, but changing it up means I dont make much progress
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 07:41 PM
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Showed this sub to my friend the other day because he acts like a LVM and has been dumped once again, by a LVW. So gave him a shock but hes starting to try to become a HVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 06:17 PM
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Fair enough
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 10:09 PM
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How does a large penis push flora into your urethra? That's an entirely different hole an inch or two away from your vagina?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 09:53 PM
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I think they're bad at it because they never bother to actually get feedback or research. I've only been with one guy and hes fantastic. Thats because he has experience and he did shit loads of research before I met him. Girls also need to be more loud about it, tell them where they went wrong. If they dont learn, boot them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 09:53 PM
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I find it absolutely fascinating that this actually works. Relatively new to FDS so hope I dont offend. Why do guys pay your Bill's knowing they are practically being used, and could get a girlfriend that has sex with them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 12:38 AM
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Sucky situation, been there and sone that. I have also been him. The only way that gets better is by going to therapy or a doctor, whichever works. That's not up to you, and he wont do it unless you make it abundantly clear you will leave, or if you go ahead and leave anyways. Good luck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 09:20 PM
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I'm a teenager and I've never done, nor do I have the intention to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 09:20 PM
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