Necessary-Read-4018 Archive

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1	Q4M: Do males actually hate sluts? If you aren't aware of the quality of the people you dated, how do you not have the emotional range to kinda get the person you're dating or at least not have the effective enough reflection to kinda size up how their behavior fit to their expectations at least? That's still good information to know even if it's biased. But how my potential partners can also help me assess their openness and even their emotional range, whether they're guarded, anxious, or are signaling they want something specif…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 05:40 AM
2	Q4M: Do males actually hate sluts? Why wouldn't you ask someone anything and everything you need and want to know? That's so shallow in depth of your knowledge of the other person and their perspective? Otherwise, describing relationships as sometimes not working out is normal. You find out stuff after a short time. And move on, even if you shared a sexual relationship with them while not getting to know them soon enough. But I think a more, let's say, productive, relationship happens when you both know where you're at within a f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 03:14 AM
–	q4a how much of sex is acting for you? Omg yes I LOVE this conversation! Now let me tell you ladies, and gentlemen too whatever, I need you to understand that sex is like conversations between dragons. It's like a mystery behind a curtain. It's like, your posture when you walk and the way you talk. It's how freely you feel you can dance, how good you are at dancing, And how much you care about how your dance shows you off and shows you how you can share the space with your partner! Or partners sometimes! 🤭 You know, we learn by mirro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 02:26 AM
1	The question shouldn't be "why do women want powerful men?" but instead it should be "why don't men want powerful women?" I'm not sure the root of the problem in dating comes from men not wanting to be in a relationship with awesome women. I think the men that don't like that aren't much to pay attention to and point at. I think most men at least would feel very comfortable with it and actively encourage her. This is all if we're assuming we're having a conversation about North American dating and culture, of course. It's all I'm interested in atm tbh. I think the more important, the more powerful conversation, tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 01:55 AM
2	Q4M: Do males actually hate sluts? Because it is their boundary. Their preference. Their need. If there are little to no rules around dating or ones behavior (past and present), it isn't wrong to say "Well, there is for me, sorry." The absence of expectations, rules, culture, ritual, or preferences from others does not mean I don't have any of those things and that you don't have to meet them if I do have them. You still have to meet my expectations of my partner as a prospective partner because that is my choice. Does that make …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 01:17 AM
2	Q4M: Do males actually hate sluts? Perfect! I appreciate your clarification! I get very uppity about people lying, clearly lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 12:52 AM
2	Women what is more important for you in a relationship - stability and comfort or passion and excitement ? While the balance you speak about is very important, it is important in any partnership and is not unique to romantic and sexual relationships. What you're talking about having is integrity, self-respect, emotional intelligence, and self-actualization to ensure your partnership, which can include your romantic relationship, remains balanced, fair, and mutually enjoyable. Trad/feminism/red pill/other colored pills are just ways to talk around the culture of dating. The culture of dating is what i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 12:18 AM
2	Most men are what Esther Vilar called 'The Manipulated Man'. High value men and women have never behaved this way or viewed their relationships in relation to resource give and take. That's just the business of partnerships and should be discussed early in the relationship and both partners should prove they're capable of working, communicating, and taking care of business on an ongoing basis. If you're actually worried about subjugation or being lesser than, or fret over putting yourself in a category above others, you already failed to be a generally an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/24 11:58 PM
3	Attractive men don't have better skills when talking to women, they often never had to develop them Yup, a lot of them would rather objectify them and are too preoccupied with getting men to fit the categories they have in their heads about men. Women are no better than men in that way. They'd rather make you an object and categorize your resources than find out who you really are. But most of humanity, men and women, are just average or "dusty" like that. Most people don't know how average of a human they are to protect their ego.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/24 11:54 PM
–	Q4M: Do males actually hate sluts? I know you don't, bud. Most don't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/24 11:42 PM
–	Q4M: Do males actually hate sluts? Traumatizing and hurting people aside; Discretion is not your safest path. Men like me, it is a need to feel safe. Lying or lying by omission, discretion isn't an effective path unless you're committing to that path. If you want to be a slut, idgaf about the gender, sex, or who you are at all. You just chose the life path you chose. If you fail to commit to it and want something else, those "sluts" need to understand their place. Yes, they need to understand they need to work way harder to prove…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/24 10:11 PM
8	Q4M: Do males actually hate sluts? I think that's because, despite what women believe, men have a lot to risk as well getting into relationships. If I show that I'm low quality and that I date a lot of low quality women, a high quality woman wouldn't want me because of my dating history. There's also a lot of risk attached to dating someone who has dated a lot of people. Where's the evidence that you aren't just going to be another short-term relationship for her and her indecisiveness and her "grass is greener" or "I want to kee…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/24 09:53 PM
2	Q4M: Do males actually hate sluts? Don't kid yourself. Women are just as good at objectifying men's "usefulness" to those women. Hate is a strong word to describe someone you don't care about because, objectively, they aren't physically or personality-wise, attractive in any way. Or that they have a deal breaker that makes them not at all attractive to those men. Women can correctly identify men who DO hate "sluts" as hating on them. Sometimes they'll even have a valid reason to hate on those women and some women would even agree…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/24 09:31 PM
3	Q4M: Do males actually hate sluts? Men like me don't love or like "sluts" at all. We don't want relationships with them nor sex with them at all. There are men just like you, just as frustrated and upset about "sluts" getting all the attention. Paying attention to men and women who are "sluts" and comparing your lack of attention and validation is pointless. Looking into a cesspool of "sluts" fucking each other may be depressing, but you just can't look into their pool and let yourself feel negative emotions because you were neve…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/24 09:18 PM