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REMINDER 👑NecessarySpeed4/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 01:37 PM
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#JustLVMThingsNecessarySpeed4/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 01:00 PM
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NecessarySpeed4/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/19 05:07 PM
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STRATEGYNecessarySpeed4/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 03:55 PM
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DISCUSSIONNecessarySpeed4/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 06:19 PM
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LVM LOGICNecessarySpeed4/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 03:03 PM
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DISCUSSIONNecessarySpeed4/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 02:31 PM
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LEVEL UPNecessarySpeed4/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/19 06:52 AM
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DISCUSSIONNecessarySpeed4/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 02:45 PM
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SEEKING ADVICENecessarySpeed4/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 03:17 PM
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#JustHVMThingsNecessarySpeed4/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 03:21 PM
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DISCUSSIONNecessarySpeed4/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/19 04:56 PM
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thanks either way, I got a little defensive after users randomly insulting me and calling me a Pick me , as a GNC/Masculine women, who doesn't dress fro male validation despite losing certain privileges women who likely conforms to these standards and take part in liberal capitalism. this iirked me greatly Its just the twitter inspired culture of this sub is confusing for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 07:15 PM
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what can I do, that girl has no friends what so ever and no life, the only person she cares about her is my husband, I don't wanna take that away from her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 06:47 PM
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I'm not really miserable, she's a nuance to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 06:43 PM
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I lost my brother and I don't want that due to me that she lose hers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 06:35 PM
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I guess all I can do really is try, that's all any of us can do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 06:19 PM
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cause I see a little of my self in her, I didn't play much videogames but I spent too much online growing up cause I had no friends and I want to help her get out of her shell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 06:14 PM
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I know, but I wanna talk to her about this, he'll pick after her and he'll pick after her cause that's the way he is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 06:02 PM
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I want to truly with friends with her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 05:59 PM
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I wanna do it my self, I'm just that type of person that doesn't like people doing stuff for me If I have a problem with someone I have to fix it myself otherwise it just doesn't feel right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 05:45 PM
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we are united front in almost everything, Its just I don't wanna make him feel like he has to choose, cause it should not be a choice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 05:37 PM
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I don't pick after her though, he does
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 05:36 PM
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Yeah I'm afraid he'll become one of those dads who does everything for their kids, and buys them what ever they want which has the potential to spoil them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 05:35 PM
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is I haven't asked him to confront his sister cause I'm afraid they might and I't will me fault and I'll feel awful about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 05:23 PM
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I see, so it's more like you're annoyed that she's taking advantage? And that he has less time for you? no he has time for me as well, we schedule it, its just his sister is like an annoying roommate that I'm stuck with for the next 2 years and I can't ever kick out he's not really her father, she has an actual father still too... she should be pulling her weight her real father PTSD driven and can barely walk, so she instead she clings into my husband as a father figure Have you told him how yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 04:51 PM
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This is like a stepmother problem even though she's not actually his child, so you would probably get something out of looking at advice for stepmothers? that's how I feel sometimes either he makes her do her share, or he does her share for her if he really wants to be like that (I wouldn't recommend it but whatever). That it's coming to you at all means he is not acting like a HVM. He is supposed to be adding to your life He already does her share of the housework, like he already does majority…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 04:39 PM
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I get along with 90% of his family, its just his sister I don't get along with and Like I said their relationship is very close he practically raised her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 04:28 PM
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Stay away from them. Be polite but distant when forced to engage. You are not required to interact with people who make you uncomfortable. Your comfort and peace of mind must always come first. that's basically my strategy already
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 04:11 PM
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the jabs she makes are really subtle, trying to explain makes me come across as crazy and paranoid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 04:10 PM
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Yeah some people(male and female, both on the right and left) seem to think they were proto-radfems who rejected men and wanted revolution, when that really wansn't the case they had direct roots from christian moralists
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 04:14 PM
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yeah he seems confusing, but for the time he was in, he was incredibly progressive, he also occasionally worked with a female doctor and writer, Mary Wood-Allen, who was similarly very progressive in certain ways but backwards in others, she was at forefront in the Social purity movement in the United states, which would eventually evolve to the temperance movement and the Suffragettes The social purity movement was a late 19th-century social movement that sought to abolish prostitution and othe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 03:43 PM
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I hate that too, my solution is for us to stop using the term "men" and instead go back to using the old English word for males, wereman see "man" is Old English meant "human." Old English's prefixes for male or female things were "wer" and "wif", respectively, so the words for men and women would be "werman" and "wifman". The Great English Vowel Shift turned "wifman" into "woman," and at the same time dropping "wer" from almost everything because male was assumed to be the default, so "man" jus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 01:52 PM
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It is unreal how relevant the information still is, I am serious in that I think this book should be required reading for literally all males If it was, I don't think their would even a need for FDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 02:53 AM
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thanks for the suggestion, I'm due in six months so I'll have to wait and see what happens
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 04:26 PM
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I think he was just using Pride and Prejudice as just a general example
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 06:53 AM
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I make up historical scenarios in my mind and that helps a lot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 06:51 AM
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they really are, anyone who complains about supposed about quality of IKEA didn't bother reading the instructions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 06:49 AM
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man has free will, If a man wants love he should correct his flaws and me may deserve it but he cannot expect the unearned Ayn Rand
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 06:47 AM
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yeah I have never been really been much into "fact" based books, or survivalist books
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 12:58 PM
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I mean, I'm not a vegan but I do sympathize with vegan feminists and understand their pov
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 04:19 AM
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I think I'm just gonna read some more high quality books
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 03:24 AM
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well you'd hate r/veganradfems then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 03:20 AM
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70% of IKEA's Products are either renewable or recyclable, and while their not perfect, they are better then a lot of other companies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 03:16 AM
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its better then buying from a company with more unethical practices and is 10x the price
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 05:18 PM
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yeah but some detailed porn sick scenario out of nowhere isn't what I expect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 05:15 PM
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I wish I was like you, cause once I start a book I have to finish it, no matter how bad it gets that's how I found myself finishing the entire Divergent series
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 05:14 PM
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well my SO isn't into any sort of roleplay at all, but he does look like a barbarian and he is very well read and self-educated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 05:12 PM
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call me naive, but I do wish they could put some effort into themselves to be suitable male partners
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 04:50 PM
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kinda rapey in some places come on, we both know that's an understatement, I mean there are so many instances where its just literal rape but the mc ends up loving it, so it cancels out somehow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 04:48 PM
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what about handsome barbarians, cause I'm in to that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 04:44 PM
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yeah they really have no Idea about the content of women's erotica,
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 04:43 PM
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I mean would any want to read about revolutionary socialism and Rosa Luxemburg on this female dating subreddit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 04:14 PM
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I mean their still bad, not as bad as porn but still bad(though I do have a soft spot for the first twilight film)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 04:11 PM
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EW, could you not post disgusting scrote porn fetishes edit: why am I getting downvoted, I hate all forms of kink and unnatural sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 04:09 PM
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I just feel that without the emphasis on arbitrary, patriarchal consumerism r/FDS would be perfect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 03:09 PM
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your comment brings back memories of the trashy online vampire erotica and digimon fan-fiction I used to read in my teen years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 02:48 PM
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basically our main doctrine is that women’s oppression is directly related to the emergence of private property, vapid consumerism targeted towards women is a tool of the patriarchal bourgeoisie If the "cheap shit" was the same quality as the more expensive goods then I really see no issue '
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 02:34 PM
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I sometimes forget that not everyone here is a socialist feminist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 01:36 PM
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I do acknowledge their are occasionally problematic elements in some of these books, lack of consent for female characters being #1 imo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 01:29 PM
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sadly their are even degenerate men who are into that, when I used to to do online dating these type of filth used to message me about once a week or so, maybe its cause I have dealt with them more but they honestly scare me more then normal porn sick males
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 01:26 PM
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I'm not scared of men I just don't like making a racket, I prefer not to have any friends at work(male or female) just work quietly, do my work and leave, that's just how I deal with society
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 05:49 AM
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Me and SO both have jobs, both do chores around the house and both consider each other equal submissive and dominant is just a dumb concept alright
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 05:39 AM
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not really a radical feminist, I identity more as a socialist feminist, while I ally with radfems I hate how they completely dismiss class at times and somewhat undervalue working class women's experiences
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 02:04 AM
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I don't know, I feel like this thinking can be very unhealthy at times, self confidence in necessary but so is self reflection and the ability to point our your own flaws and weaknesses
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 12:58 AM
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well my SO has already a dozen or so survivalist manuals, though I never have had much interest in them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 12:16 AM
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I love the relationship I'm in now but if it were to end and I couldn't find someone as good or better than my current partner that's 100% ok. Yeah that's pretty much me, If my SO died really don't know what I would do, luckily I'm due in 7 Months, so even If he were to die(god-forbid) I wouldn't be really alone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 03:42 PM
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just remember that masculine and feminine are bullshit made up terms
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 02:10 PM
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here's the thing I am confident and cool around men, Its other women who scare me, I was bullied by mean girls and it left physiological scars that still haven't healed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 02:07 PM
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I’m not gonna lie the pure butch look is a big disadvantage in the dating world. But if you feminize a bit, masculine style can be very elegant. Brie Larson and Blake Lively kill that style for example. In what universe are Brie Larson and Blake Lively masculine in anyway, I guess Brie Larson is assertive if that's what you mean When it comes to personality, I would advice GNC women to find more submissive, laid back partners. I personally love submissive men and aggressive, assertive women do w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 02:06 PM
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yeah I'm not into "YAASSS QUEEN SLAY" stuff either, way too cringe inducing for my liking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 04:47 AM
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you may be right, dating shouldn't be this complicated, I don't like the current state but I don't like the FDS approach either
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 03:23 AM
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It also sounds like you were introduced by someone well meaning with your interest in mind. I still feel shame admitting it though, cause while I love my SO, saying that I met him because my christian mom set me with one of her friends relatives is embarrassing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 02:52 AM
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on our second date I had a very loud argument with him, but we still continued dating he said he found me an intelligent and strong woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 01:31 AM
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makeup itself isn't the problem. The expectation and pressure to wear it is. A woman's natural face shouldn't be seen as less professional, beautiful, healthy, friendly, worthy, etc. than a made up one or a man's face. Makeup can also contribute to self esteem issues the same way snapchat filters do (they make you think your natural face looks worse in comparison until you're conditioned to see yourself as ugly). I do think most women wear makeup to blend in.....because our bare faces are consid…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 01:21 AM
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well I tried online dating, only got paired up with creepy weirdos, who would send me messages like "step on me mommy" e.t.c so I asked my mom to set me up with someone, the first 4 guys she Introduced me to were nice enough but not really my type, then she set me up with my-now husband and we've been together since then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 01:15 AM
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I come from a complicated family, my mother was a outspoken feminist in her youth who converted to Catholicism when she was dating my father, she kept some of her feminist beliefs growing up I was taught that women who wore make-up and shaved/waxed their bodyhair e.t.c were being tricked by the power of Satan by desecrating their god given bodies plus other women have bullied me, I mean I'm an obvious target to other people, so I have always associated make up with the people who made me want to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 01:10 AM
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Its embarrassing but my mom set me up with him, he was the nephew of one my mom's friends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 12:57 AM
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someone who has a hard time socializing and understanding human beings (I'm like that myself, so Is my husband)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 01:41 AM
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for a brief period of time I was stronger then my father who gotten out of shape, he didn't ever make this tantrum in fact he said he proud of me and it motivated him to get back in shape
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 02:23 AM
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My husband and teen son were the best of friends, getting along so well I sometimes felt like the third wheel in their close relationship. However, a recent incident fundamentally changed their dynamic and has put me in a difficult situation. Much of their bonding has revolved around being athletic, and my husband has always encouraged my son to become stronger. He took pride in his kid’s accomplishments in the gym until the day he found his son had surpassed him in strength. Both of them were w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 03:04 PM
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what's wrong with kafka, as someone whose worked in Civil service I can relate to a lot of his word, also you'd love my SO he loves Dostoevsky very much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 12:18 PM
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which parts were actuate in your opinion
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 10:12 AM
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haven't ever read it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 07:12 AM
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zombie apocalypse survival guides wait what
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 05:37 AM
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If its only WW2 then they might have some problem, but guys who are into solely WW2 tend to be either Tankies or Nazis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 04:53 AM
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As I said sci-fi and fantasy are generally okay, though it depends on the author and what work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 03:44 AM
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I enjoyed the article until it redirected me this blog I don't know what type of white men she interacts with but I have rarely met some who has read even two of these books, also I have enjoyed most of these books and last time I checked I'm not male so I'm not sure where she's getting at
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 02:21 AM
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Aristotle considered women subhuman and Nietzsche philosophies inspired Nazis and pseudo-intellectual males
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 02:17 AM
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People of both genders should read more, its good for us as human beings even if its one book a year it still helps improve your life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 08:12 PM
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Ugh, I wish I'd known. My dipshit ex was "into" Derrida & Foucault oh my god, I can't imagine the horror of being with someone into Foucault
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 08:10 PM
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I'm basing this on experiences and of me and my friends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 08:00 PM
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how so ? this is a very underrated way to filter out men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 07:55 PM
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then he's likely a LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 07:53 PM
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I'm sure their are some good guys who are into WW2 History but that's rarely the case, either way an Interest in history its self is fine My SO really loves Near-eastern history and the History of Indo-Euroepans people's
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 07:27 PM
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Rand called her ideas objectivism, and several of her writings have stressed the importance of individual freedom, to the point that she believes the only morally correct social order is unrestricted capitalism. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mQVrMzWtqgU
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 06:10 PM
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Why do people do this? like its literally can't be your favorite book cause you've never read it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 06:06 PM
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Oh sorry, I thought you actually liked Atlas Shrugged and agreed with Ayn Rand's philosophy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 06:05 PM
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In which category ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 05:51 PM
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this is mainly from mine and my friends own experiences
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 05:05 PM
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God I wish my SO would learn how to bake, like he knows how to cook (In fact me he taught me a lot of things) but he thinks learning to bake would be a useless skill, so he refuses to learn it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 10:29 AM
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everyone here if you haven’t already, sign the petition to ban pornhub for good, Share with your friends, let’s get to 1 million
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 12:16 PM
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from my experience most tall women are only looking for a guy whose either the same height as them or an inch taller then them,even then their are some tall women who can make exceptions for guys who are 3-4 Inches shorter then them I do see that extremely short women do have a weird complex about wanting to date men that are a foot taller then them,just find a women whose average height
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/19 01:23 AM
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alright
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/19 02:30 PM
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I hate Incels and think a lot of their problems can be solved if they try to emulate my Husband
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/19 10:55 AM
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I don't agree with this completely but from a my experiences a relatively "Simple" man who knows he's dumb and comes from a working class background and doesn't watch Porn has been the best option out all the men I have been with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/19 05:47 PM
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The Homemaker Housewife was actually a very brief phenomenon that lasted from the 50's to the Mid 60's before that period men,women and even the children all had jobs to contribute to the household
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/19 05:29 PM
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