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Yeah I think it’s fair to have a type but your type can’t be “If he ain’t Henry Cavill I’ll not be chatting him” or “she better be a 10 who’s a nympho and a retired chef”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 04:52 PM
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A little like I wouldn’t have agreed to a date if they were 600 lbs or recently released from incarceration. But none of them were supermodels or perfectly adjusted angels with no personality flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 04:48 PM
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Personally I believe that relationships are forged not found. Yes of course you shouldn’t waste time on a wall to wall asshole. But I’ve had partners who’s flaws were honestly kinda endearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 04:34 PM
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This always was strange to me. Single person complains about not having enough sex? “No need it’s not important, work on yourself and try not to think about it” married person complains about not having enough sex: “your marriage is dying, you MUST have more sex, more kinky sex, sex is soooo important blah blah blah…”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 04:28 PM
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Yup I used to workout 4-5 times a week but that makes it really hard for me to put on size (I’ve got a crazy BMR) so now I just lift heavy three times a week and play beer league sports once a week. Otherwise I need to focus on sitting still and staying in a calorie/protein surplus. Arguably that’s much more difficult then getting the workouts in.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:56 PM
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I’ve been in good shape my whole life but never big. Adjusted my routine to do much less cardio and I work out a lot less often but I eat more and train harder on those dew days. I would say as a man to focus more on getting big than being ripped. Nobody will know you’re in good shape if you’ve got that shredded soccer player physique unless you take your shirt off. Struggled with that for years. So now I’m trying to just bulk up more than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:54 PM
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Me, friends, family. Yes I’ve noticed that in general women are “allowed” to be possessive and weird like this and men are lambasted for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:56 PM
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But that’s what I see out there. Woman throws fit about hubby engaging in his hobbies because it takes him away from her for too long then proceeds to do single girl shit because “you don’t own me” and “it’s 2022 I can wear whatever I want to the club” I see a lot of very possessive ladies out here who cant compromise on this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:40 PM
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No I think that’s true but to then turn around and be all butt hurt about your man doing the same thing that’s the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:36 PM
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Yup I get it you can’t make everyone equal and happy but that makes me sad even as a guy who is decently successful in the dating and relationship department.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:06 PM
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Agree but it’s not a good enough reason for one partner to have ALL the freedom when the other does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:03 PM
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Damnnnn that’s cold. I think everyone does. Just like I think everyone deserves food and water. Nothing fancy but something to sustain you. Just my optimism I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:55 PM
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Yeah I have experienced that too but it’s not on the same level at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:47 PM
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Okay I’m genuinely curious do you believe everyone deserves love at least? If they’re not toxic losers but well meaning losers?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:37 PM
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Okay but this whole thread is about three objectively shitty personality traits being attractive to women. You yourself have reinforced the importance of two of those shitty traits. And now you’re saying that you don’t agree with men using women for sex. Well if narcissism, psychopathy, and machiavellianism are attractive to women then what else do you expect. “Another relationship fell through” tuff stuff indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:01 PM
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All women are different I can’t argue with that. But we’re sitting here “arguing” when I think we agree in a lot. Overly complimentary sends a needy vibe, direct and honest is good. So stop saying “every one is different, there’s no advice to be had, it’s your fault you socially inept loser” that’s not constructive. Just answer in earnest and stop trying to shame dudes on here they’re just trying to find romance, damn. Like when you go to buy clothes there’s a general idea of what will attract a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:40 PM
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So you agree, most women are not able to handle that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:19 PM
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For me it has been a problem. I was dating a girl who wouldn’t let me get a gym membership because she though it would give me access to too many women. Meanwhile she saw no issue hanging out with guy friends, going clubbing, etc. I think a lot of guys experience this. It’s our own fault for the partners we choose but it’s not uncommon for women to be extremely possessive and controlling these days and then when you ask well what about X that makes me feel uncomfortable, ya know how I made that …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:10 PM
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It seems to me when women are talking to each other there’s a consensus of what they like. But when they’re arguing with an opponent, particularly a piller, they seem to contradict what they would say in another environment (read: girl talk)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:48 PM
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No I just think it’s disingenuous to say “just be direct and honest” and in the same breath say “probably wouldn’t work on me though” which is what this person did above. And what I said still stands, these guys are confused because somehow you have to communicate you’re desire without making anyone fee uncomfortable which is challenging because men are scary to women sometimes even if they’re absolute sweethearts who have good intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:44 PM
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Oh my 🙈
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:39 PM
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I’m not young and so again I’ll say you are being really generous about how seriously people take personal growth and maturity. That being said, I personally would not mind if my SO was cool with me flirting too. I’ve never met a woman who could make that compromise or even concede to understanding why it makes a lot of men nervous.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:16 PM
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We are in agreement. I think there’s major double standards though. But maybe I’ve just been with a lot of mistrusting jealous ladies over the years. However I still think it’s hard to believe that a women would be cool with her man behaving toward another ladies the way she gets treated at the club. Buying other girls drinks, flirting, touching etc. Again, maybe the world is more well adjusted and enlightened than I have experienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:03 PM
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Yup if she’s cool with me doing the same thing then It’s fine what’s fair is fair. Maybe I’ve just been with some celosas in my day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:57 PM
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I salute your relationship for the trust and love you guys have. Sadly most people out there are wayyyyyy more possessive than this. IF this is actually true then good on you guys you’re very mature.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:52 PM
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So you agree that’s orders of magnitude less sexually charged than a night club environment. Not to mention less likelihood of cheating because it’s daytime, and the lady is working.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:46 PM
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Okay so let’s say you caught your husband flirting with the cashier at the gas station. Maybe she’s squeezing his bicep saying how impressive it is. Your not gonna be upset at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:41 PM
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Knowing the truth does make me feel better. It’s why this kind of hot air rhetoric doesn’t bother me. But keep lying to everyone (including yourself)if it makes you feel better 😘.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:33 PM
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This is a disingenuous argument it’s not the same unless you’re cool with letting your partner do the same thing. And as convenient as it is to say that you would be cool with your mans out on the town doing everything short of actually kissing other women I find it hard to believe that you would stick to your proverbial guns IRL with your SO that you love and care about. But please go on and say “it’s fine I trust him, as long as there’s trust it’s okay” but be pragmatic VERY FEW WOMEM WOULD BE…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:23 PM
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As a man i have never experienced a woman’s attraction increase with flattery. If anything some light ball busting was always the ticket. Focus on BANTER not BEAUTY, bois.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:01 PM
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I have gone WITH women in the past but I don’t think they would be cool with me going alone so that’s gotta be a two way street.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:55 PM
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No. And if they did they would need to actively go initiate flirtatious behavior if they wanted that. Would that be cool with most girlfriends/wives out there?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:48 PM
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Lol i guess you’re right but this exception kinda proves the rule. Aim way down or pay for it. Your contrarianism is undefeated.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:36 PM
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PREACH
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:32 PM
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You’re obviously not interested in a good faith debate, because that’s positively nonsensical.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:30 PM
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These responses have of “well my man has bro time at the golf course” ahh yes the golf course where there’s multitudes of horny women orbiting me trying to buy me beers at the turn 🤣🤣🤣 you’re out of your mind if you think that’s the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:21 PM
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I don’t think that’s the same. He’s never going to be able to be with that pornstar or bang one of his guy friends these are not equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:20 PM
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I think the issue is how easy it would be for her to cheat. Every girlfriend I’ve ever had was extremely jealous of me spending a few extra minutes at work or pick up sports. Yet they always had total freedom to go get wasted in a slutty outfit at some nightclub. I think the double standard is as gentleman we’re supposed to be cool with that and trust her yet women these days are super jealous of any time you spend with your boys or just away from them even if it’s not a sexual environment ie: g…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:09 PM
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Social skills might be the most important thing in terms of winning people to your side. As humans we have a predisposition to support charismatic leaders. If you can use your superpower to hyper focus on public speaking and becoming a conversationalist then no it doesn’t have to be a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:03 PM
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Why waste time arguing about it? That’s my take. Women want bold caddish yet chivalric gentleman who treat them like a child. I can do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:53 PM
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It all starts with banter, so I would say wit and cleverness. That will set you apart from the broads out here getting a BBL and posting it all over instagram. I think a witty wise LADY is sexy even if she’s just average looking. A 10/10 club life girl who can’t do basic math or understand personal finance, never read an interesting book, that ain’t gonna get you a ring, ma.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:50 PM
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Just listen to the way people talk when they’re not locked in an argument with the opposition. Women will talk all day about how sexy it is when a man takes control and is aggressive and decisive. Then as soon as they get in an argument with a TRPer they completely flip and act like their most desirable man is the one who washes her feet and pays her bills and cooks for her while never standing up to her about buying 1000s of dollars of Amazon shit they don’t need.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:45 PM
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Men buy the wrench and never look back.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:18 PM
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“Benevolent” misogyny. Women like nice guys after all so long as you make sure that it’s coming from a place of condescension. I’ll take care of you you small weak thing, is sexy. But I’ll take care of you you beautiful queen, is somehow not sexy. I’ll never understand it but it’s clear what works in terms of building attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:12 PM
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I’m actually a very careful reader 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 01:44 AM
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I’ve turned her down a few times mate
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:15 AM
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It’s impossible to know what you want if what you really want is to shop. Man goes store for wrench of size x, buys it. Woman goes to store to buy wrench of size x, spends 3 hours weighing the pros and cons of this brand vs that brand, this one comes with a 1/2 off wrench of size y, but what about the warrantee plan? Should I splurge for that? Maybe I need the whole set, if I do that then it’s cheaper per wrench but I really only need the size x wrench, she leaves feeling she made the wrong deci…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 08:49 PM
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Ever ask a girl what she wants to eat?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 08:38 PM
1

And your stance is “get over it, it’s no big deal” I find that hard to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 08:36 PM
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It is good general advice but learn to talk to women is better in terms of success with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 08:31 PM
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I think this guy probably has social skills just not the extremely specific ones you need to succeed with women. LEARN GAME dude you’re gonna do great!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 08:29 PM
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Sounded like some of them were decent, we shall see if she ends up with any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 08:04 PM
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You wouldn’t fuck a guy that was that direct. That means he need to communicate his desire without saying it explicitly. This is what these dudes are complaining about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 07:09 PM
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OPs question lends itself to this kind of hyperbolic stuff. I think it is true that women get bored of guys who just do the right thing all the time. So somehow we gotta teach men to be that kind gentleman without turning them into boring agreeable losers who get cheated on. Somewhere between sitcom dad doofus and Conan the barbarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:54 PM
1

I don’t mean to be a troll I just think there’s got to be a way to teach people to be assertive without telling them they have to be Conan the barbarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:18 PM
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Yoooo this mans nailed it. Player vs Captain. I’m stealing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:32 PM
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I don’t think you can really survive as an “alpha” male in todays society. Even in “alpha” positions. I spent some time in management and it’s a lot more of listening to peoples problems and helping them than shouting orders and dominating all the meetings. Also if you look at chimpanzees the biggest strongest guy usually gets murdered by a cabal of smaller United males. So really being alpha is about being a likeable “glue guy” and leader than being more statistically likely win a fist fight or…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:29 PM
1

Not to mention dark triad psychos are gonna be having a hay day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:18 PM
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Based on these responses women in the future are gonna be “living their best lives” and good men will be miserable 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:17 PM
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Be default aggressive, kings.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:07 PM
2

I don’t subscribe to all the philosophical stuff, I think that goes beyond what TRP can reasonably analyze/change. But as far as teaching guys to be more cad like and bold and more attractive to women I think all that stuff is realistic and valuable. Making big ideological arguments about what women “should” do and what men “should” do is silly. We know what works, so use that and stop debating the wishy washy philosophy stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 01:17 PM
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And everyone knows the best way to learn social calibration is by reading something online.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 01:12 PM
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You should always strive for self improvement but you will get nowhere with romance if you don’t learn a little “game”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 01:10 PM
1

Doesn’t that lead to an endless cycle of being discontent?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:44 PM
1

It’s pretty entertaining for me to hear about her misadventures but I think about the single guys in our friend group who are handsome, successful, gentlemen. Must be torture to hear all that while they experience the exact opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:39 PM
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I guess this is the issue. I think relationships are forged not found. It’s silly to go on one date expecting everything to be perfect. I think if you need to test drive 100 cars you didn’t really know what you wanted in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:35 PM
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“Make a date with your therapist, girl”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:32 PM
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That’s the opposite of loneliness? Tons of attention and free food? I want to be “lonely” like that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:25 PM
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Even the most attractive guys I know have to invest tons of time and get stood up and flaked on all the time. I don’t know a single one that could pull off 5 dates in 5 nights on a workweek.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:24 PM
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In trying to become good people (suppressing the dark triad as we should) we actively make ourselves less attractive to women. We’re fucked mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:35 PM
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Happens all the time, very flattering. The answer to when is: The first time is the ok time. The second time my response may not be as polite as “thanks but no thanks”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:13 PM
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Hopefully we all ride the slippery slope down into the middle ground and find a balance. Otherwise the pendulum just keeps swinging.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:08 PM
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Yes because I think women don’t do a good job of explaining what they value in a guy. Even if you’re a good looking rich guy with good manners, if you don’t have that cad like brash confidence you may never be on a woman’s radar.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:00 PM
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