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What video?
/r/seduction30/10/22 05:43 PM
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I don't feel bad/sorry about that loser and psychopath. What he did was not only terrible, but also cruel, coward and evil beyond words. Hate is a small word for what i feel about this loser. He is the incarnation of everything that is wrong in a guy. Please guys, don't be like Elliot Rodger. Read his manifesto as a guide of how to AVOID thinking the way he did. If you ever felt depressed seek professional help, not just reddit. And please guys, stay in the Light, there is nothing good in the Da…
/r/seduction29/10/22 05:58 PM
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In person
/r/seduction20/10/22 08:33 PM
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I also dont understand the BS behind OLD. Meeting people the old fashion way is the best.
/r/seduction20/10/22 05:58 PM
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I agree with you. I dont understand people who look for serious relationship on an app. It makes me think that they never go out and that they are lazy
/r/seduction20/10/22 05:11 PM
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Yep and with due reason.
/r/seduction15/10/22 04:09 AM
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How you even do that in the first place?. How can you have dex with someone you dont even like?
/r/seduction15/10/22 03:50 AM
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First: Getting a Girlfriend is NOT an Achievable Goal: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ioa6BjuSOt4 Second: You don't self improve yourself for sex/relationship. You do it for youself, for your self-esteem and live better. You don't improve for sex.
/r/seduction12/10/22 01:48 AM
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Hit the GYM, start investing in your self. Don't chase women, let them do part of the job too. Invest now, so when you are 30, you have your shit together. Study, work and learn to improve your social skills. Date ladies who show interest in you. Approach ladies who stare at you or give you a signal. But don't make the mistake of chasing women like a horny dog. Find a stable relationship, but most important. Work on yourself (Work, Study, Social skills, Fitness, Fashion, better hobbies, make a f…
/r/seduction11/10/22 03:50 AM
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Just don't make the stupid mistake that women works like that. That was a hooker, dude. In order to get sex from a regular women, you need to build relationship, and that takes time. A lot of time in some cases. The reason is a bad idea going to the hookers, is because it gives you the false idea that sex is like that....and oh boy, how wrong you are going to be. I have seen married couples that rarely have sex in a month. From couples who have sex all the time. But women needs is the first thin…
/r/seduction11/10/22 02:24 AM
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I think he lost the point of why /Seduction is for. He need a real relationship with a women and no paid sex. Once he builds a relationship he will understand.
/r/seduction11/10/22 02:20 AM
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One of the main reasons why i avoid OLD (call it Tinder/Bumble), is that it makes women behave like this. Just move to the next date. If they don' show interest, move on.
/r/seduction10/10/22 10:46 PM
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Being bold create attraction. That is why so few guys get most of the ladies
/r/seduction09/10/22 07:39 PM
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My sister was in said groups and they were expecting to be approached
/r/seduction09/10/22 07:30 PM
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Self-esteem is the next step. Masculinity (is the attitude toward reaching your goals and obsses to complete them) is also another step.
/r/seduction09/10/22 01:08 PM
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Money is also under our control. How? I studied and landed in a better paying job. And probably i will be moving to another job that pays even more once i land a new certification i'm working on
/r/seduction09/10/22 01:05 PM
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Then is something going on with society there. Because reach that level loneliness is way too much. I would understand that there are bad moments to approach, but to the point that not even in leisure places?. I mean, San Francisco turned into a Monastery of monks?. There has to be women lke you that are also in need of love.
/r/seduction09/10/22 05:16 AM
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I mean, I don't want to sound rude but....If that is true, why there are men married in San Francisco?. There has to be places to approach you know. Like, what about the night life? What about nightclubs, bars or those restaurants that are open at night?. What about the day light activities?. Church? Social clubs? Art, dance, cooking classes?. I bet that there are also ladies there, looking for a serious relationship. I mean, all big cities are like that. Including New York, Washington, Boston, …
/r/seduction09/10/22 03:02 AM
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"I believe both sexes contributed to the issue." - No problem with this, narcisistic behavior sucks. Arrogance is even worst. And being spoiled is lame. Headphones: Yea, she also likes to listen music like everyone else. Sun glasses: I don't even consider this a bad thing, it doesn't stop you from approaching. Non stop texting: Unless she makes that "that face" when you try to call her attention, I also don't think this is a reason enough to try to approach. Looking super rushed: Yea, women work…
/r/seduction09/10/22 02:34 AM
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And what do they do to make you think that?. Do they look aggressive? Rude? Or you don't do anything to even start a conversation with them?. Because so far, I have seen men in Texas approach random ladies in HEB, Malls, GYM, etc. They don't know them and they just flirt with them or build attraction. It is not the women to be blamed, is the men with low self-esteem that doesn't dare to approach them.
/r/seduction08/10/22 10:56 PM
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Yep, you got it right. The number one enemy of men is Porn. They lie to themselves and their bodies with porn. They don't pull their weight to make attraction with a real women. And also screw themselves mentaly. They don't work to get the attraction of a women (GYM, Goals, Money, Happiness, etc.).
/r/seduction08/10/22 10:53 PM
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The real reason (and probably, most guys are not going to agree with it), is self-esteem problems. Men doesn't dare to approach a women because: They don't feel good enough (to be as successful as her), they don't feel handsome (they feel ugly and probably they don't invest in themselves), they are afraid of rejection, they don't feel that they belong to their social level, they're not proud of themselves, they watch too much porn and feel unsecure or weird around women, they always find excuses…
/r/seduction08/10/22 10:40 PM
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I think im going to take a long vacation of giving advice to those guys, based on what i have read so far + studied from books + youtube, etc. Because what happened today left me out of inspiration to keep posting. Still, i will keep reading from you guys. Really good advices.
/r/seduction07/10/22 05:22 AM
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Dude...im on the same train, my problem ia going out...alone. To find a date. I became a social animal amd talk with everyone but...i dont go out. LOL. Today i had a bad episode of negativity and gloom. But the good thing is that i know what to do on those cases....Run forest Run!!!. And so i went out and ran until i got tired and took a hot shower. I fixed myself.
/r/seduction07/10/22 04:29 AM
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Tell that to me...my past post was burned to the ground, because i said that "Nice Guys" are toxic based on the book from Doc Glover...oh boy, they really hated me. Not only wasted time giving advice to the guy, but got ignored and attacked. Those guys holds tons of hate
/r/seduction07/10/22 04:24 AM
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So for my own edification, I've been circling this sort of topic, "doing the homework" so to say for awhile now. Like life, the answers are messy. How do you know when you find the right answer? This is self homework but also self graded. With experience. By going to several dates over the year and meet as many women that you can. Just like in school, you choose your group of friends, because you have things in common with them. With women is no different. The moment when you are having a health…
/r/seduction06/10/22 09:07 PM
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There are way too many reasons for that. I mean, it could be the looks, what you say to her, the way your flirt, personality doesn't match, hobbies or even different way of thinking. Also maybe you aim to women who are highly demanded and have way too much attention, that she already have other better reasons.
/r/seduction06/10/22 04:59 PM
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Can you please tell me how to do this? How does she became attracted to you over time? In the same way you trust another dude to be your friend and ask him for personal advices. Or the same way you trust another guy to lend him some money or your car. Trust is made with interaction, with words, with actions, etc. Why should a women trust you in the first place?. This is my biggest mistake and I can't figure out why it doesn't happen with me. Because you don't create trust and understanding. I on…
/r/seduction06/10/22 04:35 PM
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Best advice ever!. In my case, I have my sister, my cousins and female friends. Many of them have point out my flaws. And why they choose other guys instead of me. OP is blind right now. He doesn't know where to go, because he doesn't know where the problem is. And with such a simple description in his post, people are guessing the problem.
/r/seduction06/10/22 02:51 PM
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"This kind of guy have the "Nice Guy" mentality. They think that if they do X or Y things, they are going to get the approval of women. But in the end, they are toxic, manipulative and faking who they really are." This segment is part of the book "No more Mr. Nice guy". And it describe the many problems related to the nice guy behavior. Okay, given that most people tend to not read lengthier posts, I opted for conciseness I understand, but you didn't share enough information to come to a conclus…
/r/seduction06/10/22 02:49 PM
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I think is the 4th post I have read so far, were a guy come to /seduction posting: "I'm such a good guy, I do my home work and get good grades, but I never score and i don't know what i'm doing wrong!!!". This kind of guy have the "Nice Guy" mentality. They think that if they do X or Y things, they are going to get the approval of women. But in the end, they are toxic, manipulative and faking who they really are. One of the reason, i tell men to READ books, is because attraction and seduction ar…
/r/seduction06/10/22 02:05 PM
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2 years of trying. You approach women but nothing happens. Do you know what is going on?
/r/seduction06/10/22 01:37 PM
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If your life is going smoothly and everything is in order...Dont you think there is a reason behind women rejecting you?
/r/seduction06/10/22 01:25 PM
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No, I haven't. I still have work to do with myself. My job is doing better and my body/mind too. But I still have to keep working on social skills and attraction. Learn how to create seduction and flirt skills. I don't deny that sex is part of what i'm looking for, but relationship, love and family is important to me. I'm the kind of guy that want to be a dad some day.
/r/seduction06/10/22 01:18 AM
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I'm actually 1.80m. So no, i don't suffer from being short. (I think that is 5.9) My problem is that I was super shy and also pessimistic. I was depressed and having a really hard time in my life. One of the things I learn was to invest in myself along with changing my attitude toward my situation and my goals. The more I invested in myself, the more the fog in my head banished. Believe me guys, is horrible to live in the Black&Gray realm. Even waking up in the morning was hard. I also suggest y…
/r/seduction06/10/22 01:14 AM
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Dolly Parton married a construction worker. And she is still married with him. And she even composed a song for him called Jolene, because of her fear of other "good looking" woman flirting with him. What do you think happened there? She makes way more money than him. She is the one famous and rich. He?. I don't even know if he still works.
/r/seduction06/10/22 01:08 AM
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stoism + mindfulness. Read more in order to remove ignorant toughts. Workout (GYM) to change those chemicals in your brain, become more social and friendly with people all around you. From the guy that serves you your coffee in Starbucks or just with coworkers. The more you expose yourself out there, the better. At least for me, it serve me well.
/r/seduction06/10/22 01:02 AM
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I would even consider that a red flag. Like, why is even my dating numbers relevant.
/r/seduction05/10/22 11:28 PM
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Get a girlfriend.
/r/seduction05/10/22 11:25 PM
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None of those things can help a boring/lame/bad/creepy personality or shyness or an ugly face. Not saying you have those, I'm saying quite a bit of women aren't looking strictly for superficial things in a potential partner Edit: I do commend you for the things that you listed. They require a lot more effort than a lot of people put forth ---- I wouldn't say that it's useless Do self improvement for yourself. I'm guessing that you don't look like the elephant man, so there's women out there for …
/r/seduction05/10/22 11:24 PM
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Once again...What he is trying to tell you is: It doesn't matter if you do ALL of those things you mention. He didnt do any of those things, because they are not even remotely important if you LACK what is the most important of all: Self-esteem/Social skills. Your opinions in this post YELL the way you think. They say: "But i'm a really good boy that do my homework and have good scores....Why i cant get laid?". You think sex and relationship is a reward for your good behavior....that you are a g…
/r/seduction05/10/22 11:17 PM
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I think is pessimistic, not realistic. And this actually tells me a lot about you and why you fail to get a girlfriend. I think that the worst part, is how close minded you are, toward the opinion of the people here. Many of them gave you really good opinions and you just discart them because they don't fit your mentality. You are right now stuck in the Red/Black pill mentality. You need to stop that.
/r/seduction05/10/22 11:11 PM
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"I am ugly. Welp so all this self improvmeent has been uselss might as well eat mcdonadls and get fat now - what difference does it make? dam life is brutal." Do you read that?. That is pure negativity....toward you. You already have a poor image about yourself by calling yourself "ugly". And not only that, you are saying that your self improvement has been useless, just because you are not getting approval from women. Then you continue with the second sentence, that sounds even worst, because y…
/r/seduction05/10/22 10:57 PM
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Your post history + the way you think and dismiss the advice the guys give you + your endless need to be liked by women as the main reason for those changes in your life, demonstrate your poor self-esteem. And your lack of understanding of women, your social skills.
/r/seduction05/10/22 10:49 PM
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You past post YELL it. Read it again.
/r/seduction05/10/22 10:41 PM
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What he is trying to tell you, is that you are doing ALL of that you posted, to find attention from the ladies. You are showing neediness. You demonstrate low self-esteem, lack of social skills and I bet that there are even more problems in you, that you need to work for YOU.
/r/seduction05/10/22 10:33 PM
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I think those words have already spoken for you: Low self-esteem. Work on that....
/r/seduction05/10/22 10:30 PM
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Its whatever you want. Casual with a gold digger? Go for it. But if the guys are looking for relationship with a future in marriage. Then stay away from the gold diggers. I mean...its up to you.
/r/seduction05/10/22 09:18 PM
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Yes...and No. Yes, because is natural. Women are not going to marry a loser that doesnt make money. Women love men that invest in themselves in terms of education, skills, fitness, work, etc. That is why some men, who are married, have a hard time trying to play video games in their spare time (their wives get angry with them or simply don't like it when they are in resting). I have seen this many times, even with my parents. My mom always wanted to do home work in the weekends and my dad was li…
/r/seduction05/10/22 08:15 PM
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You are not wrong but....unless you want to marry a gold digger, this mindset is not going to bring you anything good.
/r/seduction05/10/22 07:52 PM
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I'm 37 (M) and let me explain to you my trip so far in life: - I started investing in myself in terms of fitness. I lost 26 pounds so far. Now i'm on my correct weight. I still have fat to burn and I try to do excersise regulary. My diet changed completely. I removed sugar, fast food, sodas and bread. I have never felt so great in my life. - Because I lost weight, i needed a new wardrobe. So i changed my style, based on how other guys (with girlfriends) dress like. So instead of dressing like a …
/r/seduction05/10/22 07:51 PM
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First of all. What do you want? 1. Serious Relationship 2. Casual Relationship. If option 1: Be yourself. Dont try to act or dress different to what you normaly do and try to be friendly, relaxed and try to look at them in the eyes for a moment. Play with your hair while looking at them and just be around female friends (no guys in your table or space) If option 2: Approach and touch the shoulder of the guy you like, try to start a concersation with him or dress to attract everyone attention. Do…
/r/seduction04/10/22 10:43 PM
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Take this with a grain of salt, but I remember that some men, used to hit the GYM + do weights at home, in order to distract themselves from women.
/r/seduction04/10/22 01:50 AM
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Yea, this is a good advice. Ghosting is for people with poor social skills and this is also a rude way of "dispose" a person in the most aweful way.
/r/seduction30/09/22 12:19 AM
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Don't ghost people. Just be a man and tell them you are not into them, but you would love to be their friend.
/r/seduction30/09/22 12:18 AM
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Can you do Home Office somewhere else? Why not living in another part of your country....or live in another country?. What about the ladies in random places?. Cold approach is invasive?. Yes it is. But we men have been doing that since we exist. And even today....we still have to do it. If you don't feel secure about yourself. Work on yourself. Fitness and Fashion. Social skills and Connections. Etc.
/r/seduction29/09/22 04:47 AM
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So the trick is far more simple. Stop looking in places where there are none singles to be found. Hit the University campus and join a class of something. Some women go to caffees with ther friends (mostly female friends) to await guys to approach them. Also GYMs are a bad idea to find women and the reason is that they are full defensive mode there. Why? They are sweet and dirty. Not presentable. So they avoid interaction. What about Malls? Don't tell me you don't cold approach the ladies there?…
/r/seduction29/09/22 04:43 AM
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It sucks, but it happens. Also this is a red flag too. Maybe you dont know, but she found another guy. And you were her back up
/r/seduction29/09/22 01:54 AM
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And what is wrong with the ladies in your own city?. Unless you live in a forsaken town in the middle of the mojave desert....i bet there are tons of ladies that are single there in your city. You could start there first. I think people hiddes way too much behind the screens of computers and cellphones. Its important to be more social.
/r/seduction28/09/22 11:48 PM
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Cold approach always. And social circles. Making new friends. And being social in general. I feel that OLD is lazy, full of people with real lack of socual skills, ghosting, flaking and cold behavior. Also the interaction is lacking. Long live self improvement and social skills!!!
/r/seduction28/09/22 10:45 PM
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The number of people outside apps > inside apps. I always bet on personal interaction over virtual one. Why?. Because you know way ahead if the relationship is going to work or not and also because it helps my self-esteem working on doing cold approach and being a social animal.
/r/seduction28/09/22 10:43 PM
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Yea, i'm still working on cold approach. I love how i manage to lost 25 pounds and i dress better. Also im more social now with almost everyone around me (i'm trying to be a social animal). And i approach the ladies everywhere to also be friendly (not always flirty) just for the sake of making new friends. I think i have improved a lot with my mindset, i'm no longer negative or depressed. I'm more like enjoying the ride.!!
/r/seduction28/09/22 10:25 PM
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I'm 37yo and i have no luck with dates. But from what i have learned, i need to invest more in fitness and fashion to attract the ladies. Also i need to be more social. I know i'm going to have a hard time trying to date, but giving up is not an option. I will keep on working.
/r/seduction28/09/22 10:10 PM
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"whilst I was asked out by 3 fucking women I just wasn’t attracted to" - That is a huge mistake right there friend. Never turn people away or be so negative (like using the world "fucking" to describe them) abou them. You never know if those ladies have friends or sisters that you can meet by connecting with them in a friendly way (you don't have to date them, just be friends). Now, if the kind of lady that you like are not into you....is for a reason. And to find that reason is your homework. F…
/r/seduction28/09/22 07:15 PM
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Really nice done OP!. Not only walking your dog, helps you to get you out of your house, but it is also helping you to be more social with people around you in those public places. Not always you have be with your dog in order to be lucky with ladies. You can also learn how to approach them just for a friendly chat or just being social. Being social in general, with everyone is a good way to improve your social skills. But also helps you turn yourself into a Social Animal. A person who is able t…
/r/seduction28/09/22 07:08 PM
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Apps are the worst way to meet people. And people who normally use them, use them out of desperation. Specially the guys, who spend money to relocate to another city inside an app. Women normally use them to find the 8/10 - 10/10 guys there, while they are also being social outside of the app (one of the biggest mistakes of the guys who use the apps). So that is why ghosting is so common for men who are using these apps.
/r/seduction28/09/22 07:02 PM
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" Let this be a lesson, to get out of your smallish cities and move someone bigger with more options." - I could fix this one for you: Let this be a lesson, to get out of your house and move to social environments in your town or bigger cities in order to get more options. OLD must be super optional for you. Not your main source of dates. Why?. Because of the universe of people inside those apps vs the one you find outside those apps. Few people use apps for dating. They don't have to, specially…
/r/seduction28/09/22 07:00 PM
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" I'm a white guy who is not into "street" fashion" - If you are not that, How do you know you are going to like being with somoene in that kind of life-style? Have you ever wondered how it is to date them? What are their hobbies?. I think that is far more important than "How do you like them" and put more attention to the "What do I like to do and Where I do it" and find the right person for said questions. "I get that I'm assuming these girls don't like lanky white guys and want a guy who dres…
/r/seduction28/09/22 06:54 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z24irRRvCQc
/r/seduction27/09/22 07:15 PM
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I'm 37yo and I have been doing tons of good improvements in my life. Many things i learned from books from Mark Manson and Dr. Robert Glover. Second, would be /seduction and /datingoverthirty. But my main teacher has been myself. You need to fix your mental health first. Fight the negative voice in your head and dominate your mind to do your will. For example: Discipline. After that, you have to start making your life more insterestig, for example: I started to lose weight and so far, i lost 25 …
/r/seduction27/09/22 07:09 PM
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Oh crap...that is going to be really hard to improve or fix
/r/seduction27/09/22 02:28 PM
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Guys, about "looks"....Does that means fitness and fashion? Or does that means being handsome (face)?
/r/seduction27/09/22 04:08 AM
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Cut them out of your life. They are garbage dudes that will drag you down. Bunch of losers, just like the friends i had. Toxic assholes with no hope for the furure. Listen, i know it sucks you have to leave people behind, but they are not going to be there for you. They are not going to help you if you have problems. Keep working on yourself. Read Models, by Mark Manson. That book can give you good tips on how to work on yourself. And make new friends, specially female friends. They are the best…
/r/seduction27/09/22 04:05 AM
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You need to stop that loser mentality dude. Is just bitter and pathetic. Women smell that crap miles away and avoid you. No one is forced to give you proof of anything. Its up to you to do your home work and learn. Seek professional help if you are really that depressed. Also read these two books, they are worth it: - Models, by Mark Manson - No more Mr Nice Guy, by Dr. Robert Glover
/r/seduction27/09/22 03:57 AM
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Thanks for those videos. They are really good!.
/r/seduction26/09/22 04:18 PM
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If you are crazy for just one girl....then the game is over for you since day one. You need to have several options in dating.
/r/seduction25/09/22 10:54 PM
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I think more than just social media, the problem is the "hook-up" culture. One night stands and things like that. People are not looking for serious relationships. That is why you have to be in touch with people more..."conservative". I suggest Mexico, because that place I told you, the ladies are more into getting married. I would suggest Texas too, but its up to you. Try to hit the ladies that are +28yo. Those are the ones that want to get married. But don't forget to put attention to yourself…
/r/seduction25/09/22 03:25 AM
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"they’d like him for his passport" = If you hit the poor ones. Yes. If you hit the middle/high class mexican ladies, nop. Look for the educated ones in good areas of Mexico. Downtown areas in Mexico....bad idea. Also, about the social circles, if he already told you he has a social circle with even female friends, it means that his social circle is depleated. The best thing he could do is ask his female friends that he is looking for a serious relationship and maybe his friends would help him co…
/r/seduction24/09/22 08:23 PM
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I'm going to be brutally honest with you. If you dont ask the ladies out or approach at least 10 ladies in a week...there is no chance of getting a relationship. My advice is, read: - Models, by Mark Manson - No more Mr. Nice guy by Dr. Robert Glover (married a mexican). There are tons of good advices there for your. Extra advice: If you have no luck and you are from the US. Go to Monterrey in Mexico. Ladies there are into guys from the US. Do Home Office there if you can or just visit the city …
/r/seduction24/09/22 07:27 PM
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For casual relationships the best place to go is nightclubs and bars to flirt with the ladies there. There are mostly +20yo, ladies there looking for sex. But yoy better look good in order to call their attention. So once again GYM and Fashion is the key. Being inside your home doing nothing else than watching women profiles is not going to do anything good for your mental health. OLD is still a terriboe idea even for that. Go outside and learn to have a night life if casual is what you are look…
/r/seduction23/09/22 08:28 PM
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Then, what you need is to make more connections. Some important points mention in those books are "Environment". The place where you meet people who may share what you like. The way you dress is also important and how you socialize. You need also the help of someone you trust (brothers or sisters?). So they can help you understand what are you missing. Also seek mental help. If you are having problems with that. Why i dont think OLD is a good idea?. Is because of the limited number of options yo…
/r/seduction23/09/22 08:18 PM
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Stop using OLD if you really have to invest that much. Instead of investing in OLD just focus on investing in yourself. Hit the GYM, make friends, go out and get more hobbies. Learn how to flirt and do cold approach. Become a social animal...and by that means, being social everywhere and with everyone. Read books like: - No more Mr. Nice Guy, from Dr. Robert Glover - Models, by Mark Manson
/r/seduction23/09/22 07:54 PM
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You need to stop judging yourself so harsh. I have seen super fat guys dating ladies that are hot. Its all about the attitude. I mean its ok if you invest in yourself, but the mind comes first. If you don't like yourself, if your self-esteem is bad and you are negative all the time, you are going to express that to other people around you (women are going to feel it and move away). So change the way you think about yourself. And please stop using Dating Apps, it looks like its affecting you in a…
/r/seduction08/09/22 03:59 PM
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You attract women with your energy. If your energy is negative, they can feel it and they will move away from you. If your energy is possitve, they will want to be with you because its fun being with you. Simple as that, another videos here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JPCU03Dp8Zw https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W-jvM3NSs6Y https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=twTrrGiRXtY https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lOae2s8JOUE
/r/seduction08/09/22 02:57 PM
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Stop thinking like this and watch this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UnhWiq3E7eI
/r/seduction08/09/22 02:07 PM
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"Non verbal rejections exist. You just need to look at their reactions." = You come to conclusions so fast dude. That self-esteem is super low. Part of the game is also charisma and charm. Please, if you don't want to go to a therapist, read the books i shared to you. "Plus looking at them/approaching them simply gives them validation." = That sounds terrible dude. You judge them so fast. You need to stop putting them in the pedestal and remove this mindset from your head. For real dude, seek he…
/r/seduction07/09/22 11:54 PM
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Also please, read these two books: No More Mr. Nice Guy (By Dr. Robert Glover) Models (By Mark Manson) That is another way for you to learn what you are doing wrong.
/r/seduction07/09/22 11:44 PM
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That screams "Low self-esteem". You need to work on that, go to a therapist. How do you know how they think? Do you read other people minds? How do you even come to these conclusions is a mistery to me. But all of that yells low self-esteem. And the worst part is that you generalise all women in the world: "Women only want certain men approaching them." - Again...Do you read their minds?. Or you just convince yourself of that?. You have super low self-esteem and I don't think is going to work fo…
/r/seduction07/09/22 11:35 PM
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No, that is not fine at all. Why?. Online Dating is just a really small % of women looking for relationship, the rest is out there, doing activities outside of their homes like: Bars, Clubs, Coffee shops, Sports, Hobbies, etc. If you are using OLD, at least use it as an "optional" way to find a date, not your main source of dates. Go out there and meet more people. Good! Good! Maybe?.. For real, stop feeling so bad because of one rejection. You are going to get rejected a lot and you also need t…
/r/seduction07/09/22 10:57 PM
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My best suggestion based on what you shared: - Stop using Tinder or other dating apps. - Work on yourself (Fitness and Fashion). - Work on Social Skills (No one wants to date a guy with no charisma). - Stop giving up just because one rejection. This is part of the game, so get used to it and move on. - Work on that Self-Esteem, because that is being reflected to other people you meet, poor self-esteem is crystal clear to women, they can smell it. Also being needy, they hate that. - Start doing "…
/r/seduction07/09/22 10:11 PM
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I have 37yo (M), and I have no idea what age range should i be dating. Anyone care to explain me an age range i should be dating and why?
/r/seduction07/09/22 07:39 PM
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powerlift Thanks!. I will try that. Good tip.
/r/seduction31/08/22 09:12 PM
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Who gave you all of these advices? GYM instructor? I want to reach this level of fitness. Not that I want to turn myself into a body builder.
/r/seduction31/08/22 06:46 PM
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Guys, I'm already doing diet (lost 22 pounds), but how can i build muscle? Is there an expert I can reach (doctor?) to get the supplements and diet to build mass? I'm trying to lose my extra weight and i'm getting close really fast and nicely. My clothes are already lose (YAY!!). Also i'm 37yo. I'm trying to improve my game, since i'm not being lucky recently. But I have a good job, savings and better fashion sense. I'm just missing being more fit. Any tip is appreciated.
/r/seduction31/08/22 06:25 PM
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Do you guys think that a 37yo guy like me with 6/10 looks is going to have a chance with cold approach? OLD has been pointless for me.
/r/seduction30/08/22 01:24 PM
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I put an example of a Japanese man that got married with a Mexican. But for example, there are Koreans in Monterrey because they have a car plant there (KIA Motors). One day while i was having lunch in Carls Jr in San Pedro (near Atirantado bridge), i saw an asian looking guy with his father (a man around his 70s or something), but funny thing is his son was so mixed and spoke spanish/korean (the guy had asian eyes but he was brown). Then i saw his wife and she was mexican (she looked like a mid…
/r/seduction19/08/22 11:40 AM
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Just stay away from dangerous parts of the cities i mention. I said San Pedro in Monterrey because is super safe and most travelers go to this part of the city. If you go to cartel controlled states like Sinaloa, Guanajuato or Tamaulipas your are going right into dangerous areas. You dont even have to speak Spanish to be lucky here.
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:26 AM
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I'm not from there, so i cant help you with these countries. I mention cities that i know. And about my country.
/r/seduction18/08/22 08:43 PM
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Well....just avoid dangerous areas and slums. (Dont visit troubled areas, go to big globalized cities like Monterrey, Guadalajara, Mexico City or Queretaro) You want to give it a try?. Go to Monterrey. If you are good looking, just visiting the Fashion Drive mall, you will be able to get tons of attention of the ladies there. Too many cute ladies there looking for guys like you. (Most time they think you are going there for work or mistake you for rich mexicans). Pay a visit to San Pedro area in…
/r/seduction18/08/22 07:18 PM
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And you can also find a green eyed, blonde, pale Mexican women as well. Mexican are so diverse. You could start by doing a trip to Monterrey, Guadalajara or Mexico City (I dislike the last one, but its up to you). You just need to go to the malls and pay attention to the ladies that you may find in rich areas (In Monterrey, go to Fashion Drive mall) and you will see how they stare at you. And if you even start a random conversation with them in English, they are going to try to speak English jus…
/r/seduction18/08/22 07:13 PM
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Make a trip to Mexico. Women there are really into guys from US, Canada or Europe (because of your looks). Its a myth that they are looking for the greencard, they dont give a crap about that. They care more about the guy.
/r/seduction18/08/22 06:49 PM
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Mexican here. Let me explain you something, women here in Mexico are really into guys of US, Canada and Europe (specially blonde guys). The reason behind that is both movies and singers they admire and also because blondes are rare in Mexico (but not so much lately). Is clear she is into you. Talk to her, and check if you match with her. Admiration is a powerfull feeling in love, she admire your looks, so dont waste this oportunity. Mexican women are old fashion, they love being moms and housewi…
/r/seduction18/08/22 06:46 PM
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I'm going to sound super toxic by saying this but....In OLD i normally find "needy" women who match with me, just for the sake of having a date during the weekend. One of them made a catfish and I reduced the date to 40min. (What they expect by altering their photos that bad?). Also, in my country, i think most women just use OLD as a way to get validation from men. I never see anyone having a possitive feedback from OLD. Cold approach....I'm not sure that is a good idea in random places, but is…
/r/seduction07/08/22 09:15 PM
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Sadly, just like Mark Manson said on his book "Models", you require the double "F" in your life....Fitness and Fashion. Work on yourself, invest on you. Dont chase the ladies. Remember that is also supposed to be interested in you. Make friends (both men and women) and improve your social skills. Learn to take care of yourself. And pay attention to female friends that maybe interested in you. Dont miss oportunities. Learn how to read women. (Read it in a book if you have to, i just shared you on…
/r/seduction06/08/22 08:17 PM
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So after reading this...I dont think as a guy, that Tinder is worth the time (or money), since other hot guys are going to be put on the front and the rest...to the last. I'm just an average John, with a simple life, there is no way i can win this game. Instead of wasting money in an APP i prefer using that money on myself (clothes, gym, hobbies, etc), than spend hours watching other people photos. I think direct approach is way better than this. Also women are just choosing you based on photos …
/r/seduction05/08/22 03:22 PM
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Is there any proof of Step 6 to be true?
/r/seduction05/08/22 01:48 PM
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Is there proof of this?
/r/seduction05/08/22 01:44 PM
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Really? Why do you think that?. I'm curious...
/r/seduction23/07/22 08:59 PM
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She prob is in a relationship or just shy. If you dont get an expresion from her, move along. Dont expect all of them to pay attention to you. There are way too many reasons for her to react the way she does.
/r/seduction23/07/22 04:20 PM
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Look in Youtube for James Marshall and there is the answer you are looking for.
/r/seduction22/07/22 11:17 PM
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You can start by reading this book: Models by Mark Manson. Some of your questions are answered there. You need to check your Demographics, your Lifestyle and the flirt process. That book can help you a lot.
/r/seduction22/07/22 06:04 PM
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I dont know if this happens to you guys, but sometimes i fear the guys i meet at the gym. There are these guys that are so narcissistic, that they are scary. They behave aggresive with guys, play the nice guy with the ladies and when they get rejected, they get angry at them. I always keep myself out of their way.
/r/seduction21/07/22 05:02 PM
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