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NeedHelpBeta/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/15 12:53 AM
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Lying and being deceitful is just wrong. You want to fool around go ahead but not while you are married. Divorce your wife and play the field, but while you are married to her, do not cheat.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/15 05:36 AM
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She is going to look for a real man.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/15 01:59 PM
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Faith which you do not have. So what are your reason for staying with your wife? What are you going to do about it? What is the plan? What are the consequences?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/15 01:38 PM
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Next time say you have to go and disconnect the call. You don't need to write a novel about it. If your wife says anything say "I was busy and had to go" Grow a pair son.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/15 01:24 PM
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I don't get you, you say you have lost faith but you still look at everything through your faith. Stop judging your wife according to a faith you don't believe in. You are coming across as very confused!
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/15 01:17 PM
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Your religion gave you a purpose, a direction. You being the captain of the ship were going in a specific direction. When you stopped believing your ship is adrift. It has no direction no purpose at this moment. Your wife sees this. Which is why you need to work on yourself first. Another thing you must keep in mind if you do not follow the rules of your religion don't expect your wife to. That smacks of double standard and she will lose respect for you fast.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/15 05:44 PM
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It's like at one point you had drive, purpose and goal. Now you don't you have lost that drive. Your wife sees it.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/15 12:22 PM
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I no longer identify myself as a Muslim I see issues right there in terms of your frame of mind. You need to sort your issues out before making this about your wife. Looks to me there might be an ideological divide between your wife and yourself
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/15 01:23 PM
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Dude WTF!
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/15 09:44 PM
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She listened to him. Sure like a child but the fact is she is doing the laundry and is not bitching about it or holding it over OP's head. This needs some positive reinforcement. If your behavior is the same when she listens and does not listen you aren't pointing her in the right direction. Reward good behavior is part of LTR and not Beta.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/15 12:09 AM
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Man I feel for you. But 10 years is a long time, you need to take it slow one step at a time. You are well on your way here are a few more suggestions: Start fixing things around the house Start going out of the house not just for gym but to hang with buddies. Make plans do stuff. Plan a guys trip tell her she needs to work it in her schedule Don't ask just do. You guys are a double income family use it. Get a babysitter and hangout till she comes back. You need to start reversing the roles slow…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/15 09:10 PM
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I would advice you to do a little bit more. Take her out to dinner. Pick the place and tell her to get ready and take her out, come back and caveman it. That will relive all the tension. She should learn that if she is doing the right thing the rewards are worth it.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/15 06:57 PM
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I see and hear you. I have a lot of these same feelings towards my SO but I came to a different conclusion. By acting like her and treating her the same way (i.e. Cheating, disrespectful etc) I would become just like her and there wouldn't be any difference between me and her. I look back and find her behavior unbecoming and down right pathetic. I am better then her and no way can anyone say we are the same. What you do is your choice. Focus on yourself and do things that make you happy. You wan…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/15 04:40 AM
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Showing anger and losing frame? Look I don't think every time your wife goes out she is having sex with a guy who hits on her. Some of the best advice I got here was that if your wife is going to cheat no amount of anger, scolding or keeping tabs on her is going to stop it. Deal with it by showing confidence. Make her feel like if she pursues this she is doing you a favor and she is the one who is going to lose out. Tell her that you expected better of her and are disappointed because she change…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/15 06:46 PM
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That's a difficult one. You don't want to come across as insecure. However I don't think anything happened other then flirting. Unless your wife has a history of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/15 05:43 PM
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...you weaken yourself in her eyes.< That is exactly how I feel weak. I am going to meet this guy on Saturday he is 24 fat and financially unstable. I am thinking I will invite him home, tell her my restrictions with him are off. If she thinks she can do better then me to please go ahead.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/15 07:35 PM
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I am a new at this and just started introducing red pill into the marriage. If there is a King of Beta I was that person. I know I need to work on myself first she is secondary. I am successful and good looking but not assertive at all which is what I need to change. So she came back and had a talk with me about how she is a different person and there have been so many opportunities but she hasn't done anything. So not to make her feel like a whore when I bring this other guy up. Being new I sti…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/15 04:21 PM
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