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| 3 | If asked why you ghosted do you say the real reason or play aloof?No. Ive been seeing her for a month. Lots of positive things there. I just want more from her. Other girls are putting in more effort. Thats why I have been disappearing. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/17 04:01 PM |
| 3 | If asked why you ghosted do you say the real reason or play aloof?This makes me want less and less to do with them... how the hell am i supposed to ever take a woman seriously | /r/askTRP | 06/02/17 01:10 PM |
| 1 | If asked why you ghosted do you say the real reason or play aloof?I wouldnt say anything as a whiny bitch, just say what i want and expect. If she does those things great. if not no problem. That was the logic. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/17 01:04 PM |
| 1 | New chick seems to be expecting me to be a wallet with a penis, help me manage this and keep frame.So you wouldn't hang out with a chick "in between jobs?" Thanks for the reinforcement | /r/askTRP | 01/12/16 01:27 AM |
| 1 | New chick seems to be expecting me to be a wallet with a penis, help me manage this and keep frame.can you expand on that? What specifically? | /r/askTRP | 30/11/16 02:25 PM |
| 1 | How do you pursue a girl you just met with the 2/3s rule?Do you have an example? Lets say you chilled with a girl 2-3 times, shes shy, havent banged yet, but lots of kino and some kissing here and there.. asking for a friend.. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/16 11:58 PM |
| 19 | How are women able to go from "loving" you to acting like you never existed so fast?Thats such a RP truth that makes me so mad. The only thing they have to do is turn there phone on and show up. I have to put SO much work in. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/16 11:47 PM |
| 3 | Is asking a girl to hangout and study needy? Or is it me being indifferent because it isnt outcome dependent?I thought it was kind of a Netflix and Chill scenario, but i Can see your point. Do you have any recommendations? | /r/askTRP | 13/11/16 06:06 PM |
| 3 | After a few dates, do you ever tell the girl to plan a date for the both of you?Thanks for the reply. No she doesn't. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/16 02:28 AM |
| 1 | What should my next move here with this girl Ive been talking to?The problem with radio silence is that i see her 1-3 times a week at the gym. How do I handle that interaction? Just say hi and bye? Act like nothing is wrong and shoot the shit? | /r/askTRP | 01/11/16 12:02 AM |
| 1 | I see a lot of people asking for RP music. I found the Weeknd to be pretty RPSo far he's pretty RP to me and gets me motivated to do better, let me know what you guys think | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/15 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend taking a month long tripOP you are stuck in a situation that if you do anything other than amused master/maintain you will put yourself in the biggest hole ever. All of your mistakes will be multiplied by the amount of miles between you. I live in a popular vacation destination and see this all the time. Heres 2 examples from the the alpha fucks perspective (mine) of how by you complaining to your girl only helps me get laid by her (figuratively and no Im not in china) I meet her at a bar. I go in to talk to her. She m… | /r/askTRP | 17/12/14 05:07 AM |
| 5 | acting like boyfriend material before you have sex almost guarantees failureI always say "Dont treat women like your girlfriend unless they are your girlfriend" If not it's like going into a negotiation with all your cards layed out on the table. You volunteered all of this for nothing in return. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/14 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Need help with closing.You dont need to say anything, just go based off of actions and see if shes ok with it. Hand up shirt, shirt off, unbutton pants, feelin all around, sex time :) It depends on your attitude, frame and, game but sometimes you can say obvious things like "let's go have some fun" or come to my bed. I wont carry any intoxicated girl into a bed anymore. I hvae to much to lose from a false rape accusation. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/14 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Need help with closing.In the moment: Agree and Amplify Outside the moment: Lift, improve social status I wish I could go back to college. I used to get so much ass just because I knew bouncers at a bar, certain frat people, the head of the cafeteria, really stupid shit. What an interesting tiny ecosystem college is. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/14 02:55 AM |
| 2 | Would an alpha even bother with online dating?I think its great. Its like earning residual income for dating. You set it up and if hits come in great, if not who gives a fuck. If you are a true alpha it will only create more abundance for you. I also disagree that you CAN build attraction through text. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/14 02:40 AM |
| 4 | Thoughts on fucking older women?psychological issues cuz thats statutory rape | /r/askTRP | 03/12/14 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Tried to practice red pill on a girl, got called a cuntyea, having tact is key as well. if she asked you out then all you had to do was not screw it up. Just learn from it. A simple " hey Im planning my friday night, lets do drinks at 8?" is fine. It hints at you having other options as well as being a leader and positive that she will want to go with you. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/14 02:36 AM |
| 2 | Should I next her?You sound young, so dont have any LTR's, focus on yourself. If you question yourself about nexting a girl, the answer is yes | /r/askTRP | 03/12/14 02:33 AM |
| 4 | Why exactly is confidence so sexy to women?Because it makes them feel that you do not need them which only makes them want you to want them. They love the feeling they get of you not needing them | /r/askTRP | 03/12/14 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Im struggling to accept and understand how females cheat with little remorse. Does Female Fidelity Exist?back in my BP days an ex cheated on me with a married man because it would be more discreet and got off knowing she was fucking another womans man in the bed that they shared. When confronted she said she did it to see if she was still in love with me.... | /r/askTRP | 03/12/14 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Tried to practice red pill on a girl, got called a cuntIf you have no rapport with the girl, leave texting to logistics. Why would you tell a girl that you are inviting out that you don't even care if she goes? | /r/askTRP | 03/12/14 02:26 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Girl threw a can of beer at meYou need to have a talk with your friends. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/14 03:28 PM |
| 3 | Women are not what you expect them to beDont finish during sex. Make sure they do. If you know how to play it right, watch what happens. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/14 03:00 PM |
| 1 | What's the best response to "I don't want you to think I'm a slut / easy"?I always laugh at this. If you didnt want me to think your/easy or a slut we wouldn't be in this situation right now. There is no best response, it just depends on you and the girl | /r/askTRP | 01/12/14 01:46 PM |
| 6 | Keep Your Frame (field report)ahh the happy medium of 2 letters instead of 1 or 3 | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/14 06:07 PM |
| 3 | Keep Your Frame (field report)i write "lol" and nothing else. same effect, yours uses less letter, so i may try it | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/14 03:24 PM |
| 8 | Keep Your Frame (field report)This was one of the toughest truths for me to swallow. It changed the way I completely dealt with women. The worse i was, the easier the relationship became. I would continually push boundaries by thinking "surely she will not stick around after I say ______" and they always ended up sticking around. My whole life everyone would say to explain yourself, communication is important. What BULLSHIT. The less I would say, or even not respond to, the easier it became. This then extinguished my idea of… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/14 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: Women's love is inferior to men's loveWomen love CONDITIONALLY not unconditionally thats all you need to know | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/14 12:17 AM |
| 7 | Here's a handy list of what not to do.you are acting as if she is more worth than you. and she will perceive it this way. this 100000% I learned this the hard way in a past relationship. It started out where she would make breakfast, tell me to stay in bed and ask what she could get for me. So then I thought i should do that too... So i went on early morning McDonalds runs while she stayed sleeping, cooked up breakfast for her while in bed, offer to get her something from the kitchen... fast forward 2 years... She did nothing anymor… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/14 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Wife asked is she could meet an old work friend for a drinki know :) | /r/askTRP | 13/11/14 08:51 PM |
| 2 | But I don't know you.Are you in a large city or small one? What are you doing to attract all these skittish women? Hows your profile wording? Do your conversations flow easy? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/14 01:31 AM |
| 1 | But I don't know you.Improve yourself physically and make yourself more interesting. Wardrobe update with some intresting pics can help for starters. and lift | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/14 01:25 AM |
| 1 | How to get back or is it over?These days, this bitch is being unreasonable and being too up -tight. She refuses to have sex, and she works late almost every night. Sometimes she doesn't come home until 10-11pm. I know she is at work, and I keep close tabs on her while she is at work. Why do you even want to continue a relationship like this. It sounds terrible. Listen to yourself | /r/askTRP | 13/11/14 01:19 AM |
| 3 | Wife asked is she could meet an old work friend for a drinkYou don't drink with people you used to fuck, it's that simple. Shit's a recipe for disaster ..... unless you're trying to fuck them again | /r/askTRP | 13/11/14 01:13 AM |
| 3 | Would Women Rather Ride The CC in their 20s or have an Alpha LTR in their 20s?They want both | /r/askTRP | 13/11/14 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Stop being a validation machineI disagree completely. I used to actually work in finance with many women who knew plenty. You say you are not generalizing then use words such as "these women" and "they". That is exactly what generalizing is. It's all good though. You can think whatever you want. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/14 12:30 PM |
| 10 | "Some guy just drove by and said sexy to me"Thats just like his opinion man | /r/askTRP | 12/11/14 12:53 AM |
| 1 | What advice does TRP have for guys who want to do well with American women?You are the captain of your own ship man. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/14 12:41 AM |
| 1 | What advice does TRP have for guys who want to do well with American women?Thats BS If your attarctive enough they will like you, you can even play up the whole part about of being ethnic. You can appeal to the their countries of the world tour. Use what you have as an advantage | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/14 12:07 AM |
| 1 | What advice does TRP have for guys who want to do well with American women?Are all women the same? Then use similar logic and you will be fine. If he feels they are putting up bitch shields then he is lacking in physical looks, social status, wealth. Improving one and definitely all will deactivate bitch shields. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/14 11:24 PM |
| 2 | I've read the post about asking girls out, like being specific on when you want to go out, but what about for a girl you see multiple times a week (class). I sit by her and talk to her every class, and think she's interested, but want to do this right.Idk man, without getting one-itis, she has many qualities I look for in a girl. Like the opposite of bratty, calm and doesn't waste words when she talks (like gossipy shit), and oddly enough I'm like 99% sure she's interested listen to yourself, thats a clear case on oneitis | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/14 11:06 PM |
| 2 | What advice does TRP have for guys who want to do well with American women?AWALT Focus on yourself and eveything else will come. Swallow the pill, abandon the Disney version of love, and become attractiveTM | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/14 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Plate is going out to LA to visit her sister for five days, do I ask about the trip afterwards?This. If she was a true plate you wouldnt care at all. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/14 08:04 PM |
| 8 | Can't tell if I went too far or not, need advice.This past Wednesday, she confirms by text that she can still hang, but can't "do it." I shrug it off at the time and pick her up to go back to my place. If you wanted sex and she said that, then WHY DID YOU DRIVE TO PICK HER UP AND BRING HER TO YOUR PLACE?!? | /r/askTRP | 11/11/14 08:03 PM |
| -4 | Stop being a validation machineThats a terrible attitude to think that by talking to a woman you feel like you are bred to orbit, supplicate, and serve. You act like there is a war going on. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/14 02:48 PM |
| -2 | Stop being a validation machineYour just generalizing and assuming that those topics are all they want to talk about. Then don't talk them about those and engage in another direction. How is this so hard? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/14 02:47 PM |
| 4 | Vulnerability after the acceptance stage in the 5 Stages of the Red Pill.A lot of people assosciate with TRP with women and sex. It has nothing to do with that, it's only a by-product of you being a MAN. Happiness comes from within, not an external source like a woman. Take chances with yourself into the unknown. Do stuff that'll scare you. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/14 01:54 AM |
| 10 | Found something from my girlfriend's pastYour brought up a twitter post from over a year ago???? Dude.... | /r/askTRP | 11/11/14 01:51 AM |
| 10 | Law 19: Know Who You’re Dealing with and do Not Offend the Wrong Person. (48 Laws of Power)if your fighting people because of a plate you're doing it wrong | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/14 01:38 AM |
| 2 | Stop being a validation machineNot only that it's also great practice for conversational skills with women. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/14 01:37 AM |
| 2 | Should you approach girls that have rejected you in the past?I think it depends on what you want out of it and how well you are able to separate yourself from your past beta ways (who knew you as a beta). We all know women are hypergameous so it makes perfect sense to me that a past reject will now be willing to accept you. But ask yourself what do you want out of this encounter? Sex? then go for it. A relationship? Not a chance. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/14 01:35 AM |
| 3 | Stop being a validation machineIt just depends on what YOU want. There is nothing wrong with having normal conversation with a woman you aren't fucking. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/14 01:29 AM |
| 9 | The fascinating journey of a woman trying to rationalize alphafux/betabux.i guess it just depends on your definitions i was voted class clown :) | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/14 12:13 AM |
| 5 | Need help breaking orbitShow her two pictures of women and ask her which one you should go for | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/14 08:01 PM |
| 20 | The fascinating journey of a woman trying to rationalize alphafux/betabux.Women want someone who commands attention agreed not the class clown I disagree with this. I have never gotten so much sex than when I started doing comedy. Even off the stage in a group of women I command attention by adding witty comments. Over time I notice that the group will look to me if I have anything to add to the conversation and when I start to talk they all quiet up because I'll probably say something funny. You can def be funny/class clown and pull women, but I guess that's in how y… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/14 07:37 PM |
| 8 | What do you do when women intentionally wait hours before writing something back?Live my life | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/13 03:03 PM |
| 28 | 30+ Alpha's give us (20-29 y/o) advice they wish they knewThe girls you land now will be the best looking of your entire life. Act accordingly. No way. They have been getting better and better as i have been getting older. I have more resources the older I get, more experience, more confidence, and I am in the best shape of my life. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/13 12:29 AM |
| 3 | Shit test: "Do you want to break up with me?" How to respond?I believe that when asked this they are projecting their thought of breaking up on you. They are just to scared to address it. When this starts, leave! Walk away it will only get worse. Happy people/couples don't ask these questions. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/13 02:35 PM |
| 21 | "If you put a person up on a pedestal they will have no choice but to look down upon you." - John Precor [x-post from r/quotes]Whoever is willing to walk away from someone is the one who holds the power. By putting someone on a pedestal you are giving them that power. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/13 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Unsure of how to progressTell her about the amazing time she missed out on on friday night. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/13 10:32 PM |
| 3 | Red pill on a budget?Honestly, some of my greatest nights were spent on the sidewalks of very busy blocks that have tons of bars. All of the people would go bar crawling and you get to see everyone. Not just the people inside of the clubs. It's great as well because there are always new people and you can practice you approaches and trying to seal the deal ASAP. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/13 04:35 AM |
| 1 | How to proceed?hang out with her and escalate the situation. What do you even want out of this? Just sex? Keep in mind there are plenty of other girls who won't make something this complicated. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/13 04:33 AM |
| 2 | Kino, shit tests, and being an object of sexual desire.Same here, It has never worked for me and only caused them to vanish. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/13 04:30 AM |
| 21 | Dude finds a condom hidden in a glasses case in his girlfriend's work trip bag. r/relationships falls all over itself explaining how they all have condoms squirreled away in the unlikeliest of places.Lol he's so beta he should just got the extra step and thank her for practicing safe sex with others | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/13 03:01 PM |
| 7 | Her inappropriate facebook messages with beta ex-boyfriend.Next her! Walk away from this now! I stole her from him, he seems sad You have this all wrong. Your the sad one. You are giving her your resources (time, love, money) and she is still FLIRTING with another guy. You are so beta, Do you know how sad he must think you are? he complained about bad sex and his penis. She tries to disarm you with this? Are you really that simple to walk over? I am sure there is no physical infidelity look at your beta hamster wheel spin. This is also only what you dis… | /r/askTRP | 04/09/13 04:18 PM |
| 13 | Empowered woman way past the wall tries to understand why she's single. Hamstering ensues.Pick 2: Time Family Money | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/13 01:20 PM |
| 9 | broke up with gf of 16 months. not sure how to deal with the jealousyA person never breaks up with someone to just do nothing and be by themselves. A monkey swinging from a tree doesn't let go of one branch without another one hand. Now substitute monkey for girl and branch for penis. To her she found something/someone that she perceives as better than you. She says (for what it's worth) that she's staying away from guys until after new years. Bullshit! You mean to tell me that at a school that is 96% guys she is going to be voluntarily celibate and ignore her in… | /r/askTRP | 03/09/13 05:02 PM |
| 8 | Bluepill example: wife cheats on husband, decides to stay with herA woman cheating on you is the greatest shit test of all! If you take her back she KNOWS she can push you as far as she wants and you will ALWAYS be there. The saying around here of "Be able to walk away from any relationship" is so true. You have the power if you can walk away. Taking back a cheater, YOU WILL NEVER HAVE THAT POWER. You are now entitled to a life time pass of being a doormat. enjoy being a beta while your "oneitis" chick is out there fucking alpha males AND they dont have to dea… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/13 04:45 PM |
| 8 | Video that illustrates quite a few red pill conceptsHe probably can't get a woman pregnant I bet he gets lots of practice. That bodybuilder is a good sport for sitting there and not losing his cool with the crazy lady and blue pillers attacking him. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/13 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Am I doing something wrong? Can't convert one night stands to spinners.Are you keeping things alpha and "fun" afterwards? You're not getting beta in your pillow talk and putting them off or anything? You have to make yourself appear as the fun, dominant, sexy guy she goes to for no judgement sex times. She won't want someone to talk about their feelings or their relationships, etc. This can happen if you get a bit too "affectionate" afterwards. Yes Im keeping it fun and alpha for sure. Their was no feelings talks or anything like that. Did they have a good time dur… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/13 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill Media? What is worth watching for doses of TRP ideology?Heres two examples The nerd beta doesn't get any girl. The criminal dude gets the prissy classy girl without money by having game, being aloof and alpha. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/13 04:51 PM |
| 2 | This dude's gonna end up having a heart attack after getting laid so muchHe was spot on with some stuff. Nice to see all the blue pillers coming out to comment, really helps us men out. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/13 03:06 AM |
| 6 | Red Pill Media? What is worth watching for doses of TRP ideology?The breakfast club - Alpha fucks, beta bucks Standup / social commentary by bill burr, and for misogynistic laughs: Andrew Dice Clay Fast and Furious movies - look how chicks swoon over vin diesel | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/13 03:02 AM |
| 2 | Unusual question for this subreddit: Do I shave off my back hair?Laser, wax, or shave. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/13 07:34 PM |
| 18 | Field Report (With screenshots of shit tests!)I don't know man, you gave her way too much attention. You should have just said Ill be at X at Y time wear Z. when she comes up with these excuses don't keep the convo going, It's just taking you out of the moment your living in. She was probably on a date with some guy the whole time and if you were doing something "better" she would have come out. In my past, you know how many times women would make definitely maybe plans with me and probably every other orbiter she had to wear her options. T… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/13 07:20 PM |
| 7 | So after a recent breakup and some serious red-pilling, I took my knowledge out last night. These are my stories:Trying to shit-test me by telling me she fell asleep and seeing my reaction. I don't want to spend my time with someone who "slept through" the arranged meetup. By accepting it I would only be reinforcing her habits and I'd rather spend my time with people who didn't sleep through it. TL;DR Thanks to red-pill advice her vagina has no power over me | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/13 07:12 PM |
| 2 | So after a recent breakup and some serious red-pilling, I took my knowledge out last night. These are my stories:Because I was talking to some other women and just enjoying myself. I didn't want to reinforce any negative behaviors. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/13 05:45 PM |
| 7 | So after a recent breakup and some serious red-pilling, I took my knowledge out last night. These are my stories:I didn't care about her coming anymore and it was a weekend night. I was already out talking to other women and just enjoying myself. I know the power flipped into my favor and im sure if she was DTF on saturday night she will probably be DTF on any other day ending with a Y. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/13 05:45 PM |
| 10 | So after a recent breakup and some serious red-pilling, I took my knowledge out last night. These are my stories:Noted. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/13 05:43 PM |
| 2 | In a relationship with an attractive female and I have become bluepill. How can I turn back to red?and then RedPill actions will follow? Taking the ball back into my court! | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/13 04:13 AM |
| 1 | In a relationship with an attractive female and I have become bluepill. How can I turn back to red?So the consensus around here is not to date one woman and that the traditional way of thinking is wrong. I WANT to maintain the relationship with her. I am more confused now than I was before. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/13 04:13 AM |
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