NeedsHolyWater Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Another epiphany on male jealousy 👁️👄👁️ Wtf, Elba is objectively gorgeous!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/01/21 03:18 PM
17	If all men are "visual" then why do so many of them put no effort in their looks? If they are all about visuals, why don't they try to look good. I'm sure there's a mirror at their home. How can so many men dissect women for every detail, yet they cannot see how much they themselves can improve? Ohmygosh, I'm adding this show to my trash tv list!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 11:45 PM
11	How do you ladies respond to questions about your body count/last time you had sex? Dumb fox strategy is again great here. "Oh! Sometimes I go shopping on my lunch break and while I'm not ACTUALLY playing hookey, it kinda feels like it!"	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 10:03 PM
19	I've seen this image posted around before with various captions, but this one upsets me the most. If this girl's FATHER is placing so much value on her sexuality, how does she stand a chance with the rest of the world? Yup, my congression would be frosty as hell to this perv.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 09:59 PM
1	If all men are "visual" then why do so many of them put no effort in their looks? If they are all about visuals, why don't they try to look good. I'm sure there's a mirror at their home. How can so many men dissect women for every detail, yet they cannot see how much they themselves can improve? They want all of a beautiful woman's labour (emotional, monetary, domestic) with as little effort or cost to them as possible.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 09:52 PM
2	This is the kind of guy that would say "wOmEn aRe ToO pIcKy" despite listing TWENTY-NINE extremely specific things he wants in a woman... What a profound post! Thanks for sharing your expertise - I have some experience with English riding and never considered the differences in styles. I find it very interesting how I find animals' quirks and instincts endearing rather than frustrating and your take makes so much sense to me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 08:04 PM
6	Hard pass "Greg, stop being such a prude and just try letting me knee you in the balls!" "Hey, Emily, I don't know.." "Don't ruin this for me!" Edit: I propose that Dan Savage be henceforth known as 'Bland Sewage'	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 07:24 PM
11	Hard pass Uh-huh, does that also include cock-and-ball torture?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 07:20 PM
8	How do you ladies respond to questions about your body count/last time you had sex? Yep, and if he presses you on it, you can look him in the eye and say 'Brother, are you telling me that you yourself have never stumbled? That you never acted out in anger, that you've never succumbed to pride, greed or lust?'	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 07:00 PM
7	How do you ladies respond to questions about your body count/last time you had sex? Honestly, religious guys should only care if you're living a life of propriety now. Whether you're Muslim, Christian or other, many religions believe we frail mortals are prone to sin, but we also believe in redemption and transcending our base nature.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 06:40 PM
46	How do you ladies respond to questions about your body count/last time you had sex? With a look of utter disdain, while reminding him that a lady doesn't discuss such things.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 06:17 PM
86	Thanks to FDS I can see all the red flags in this sloppy attempt to reel me back in. They know what they’re doing & they don’t care till their access is revoked. He’ll be waiting for that reply forever. He doesn't even take complete ownership. 'How we stopped talking' - wtf is that? I imagine you both were not stricken by a witch's curse that rendered you both mute - it sounds like he ghosted you and has come crawling back.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 06:16 PM
10	Moving in together....??? I need help on this one Oh, sweetheart, hell NO. In 8 months, you may be conversationally fluent, but you can't live off of making pleasant chitchat. Do NOT move there. This guy should be ashamed to even ask without being ready to support you in a concrete way (marriage). Life as an immigrant or expatriate can be extremely stressful.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 05:54 PM
6	Moving in together....??? I need help on this one Out of morbid curiousity, what exactly does he expect you to DO in the new country? Do you even speak the language there fluently, with the appropriate knowledge of business/medical terminology and could use your skills there? Or does he want you to be a live-in maid? Both scenarios seem less than palatable (again, moving there and having your own place would be fine as long as you would have a better standard of living) but if it's the second, dump and block this man.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 05:45 PM
15	Moving in together....??? I need help on this one This guy sounds nuts - are you in the EU? If not, how in the heck are you supposed to handle immigration? Unless moving to this new country would give you excellent job opportunities with or without him (and I think you should be without this cake-eater), don't consider the matter further.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 05:13 PM
33	If all men are "visual" then why do so many of them put no effort in their looks? If they are all about visuals, why don't they try to look good. I'm sure there's a mirror at their home. How can so many men dissect women for every detail, yet they cannot see how much they themselves can improve? Haha, thanks! You have my full blessing!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 03:54 PM
30	If all men are "visual" then why do so many of them put no effort in their looks? If they are all about visuals, why don't they try to look good. I'm sure there's a mirror at their home. How can so many men dissect women for every detail, yet they cannot see how much they themselves can improve? I actually don't mind hairy guys as long as they have impeccable hygiene but that's probably generational in my case. I don't care how otherwise good a man looks, if he stinks, well then, he stinks figuratively as well!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 03:52 PM
124	If all men are "visual" then why do so many of them put no effort in their looks? If they are all about visuals, why don't they try to look good. I'm sure there's a mirror at their home. How can so many men dissect women for every detail, yet they cannot see how much they themselves can improve? Oh man, if it was a social situation, I'd chuckle and say 'Oh yeah, you're looking great today, Ted. Is that canvas bucket hat Dior, by any chance?'. Ball-busting is one of my favourite hobbies.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 03:47 PM
268	If all men are "visual" then why do so many of them put no effort in their looks? If they are all about visuals, why don't they try to look good. I'm sure there's a mirror at their home. How can so many men dissect women for every detail, yet they cannot see how much they themselves can improve? It's because they believe women should have no standards or agency and should sit around to be 'picked' by the first man who obsesses over them. Or they mistakenly believe that most women are 'attracted' to money alone (personally, I've never wanted to make sweet love to a pile of gold ingots). But yeah, North American men dress like toddlers for the most part.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 03:39 PM
13	Someone commented about OP making the ring himself because it's also cheaper and all the pick mes obviously started saying 'BUT IT'S THE THOUGHT THAT COUNTS 🥺'...but the replies on the plastic one were too much for me A plastic engagement ring - when you want to destroy the environment AND her self-worth!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 02:27 PM
44	My friends and I love this one: this LVM told me he didn’t believe in condoms on a first date and when I ended the date he unraveled. He went through at LEAST three stages of grief XD	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 01:09 AM
33	My friends and I love this one: this LVM told me he didn’t believe in condoms on a first date and when I ended the date he unraveled. Remember, ladies, it's a 'huge dick move' to have STANDARDS. Oh, this sad little pondscum.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/08/20 11:52 PM
37	This is the kind of guy that would say "wOmEn aRe ToO pIcKy" despite listing TWENTY-NINE extremely specific things he wants in a woman... Poor horse girls! I feel they get a bad rep because 9/10, horses are more agreeable than the average man on the street.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/08/20 11:43 PM
33	Matched today, literally his FOURTH message in and he’s suggesting I visit him 4+ hours away. .....What?! This frigging guy. Does he think he's having a conversation or conducting a police interrogation?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/08/20 06:33 PM
20	I wouldn’t even remember him if I walked past him tomorrow... Went on one date about 3 years ago and text me last week “How’s it going, it’s Chris from Memorial Square?” Oh, honey. Don't engage with this guy any further. Wish him well and then block him. You don't need male 'friends' who go through their little black book hitting up girls they dated 3 years ago!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/08/20 06:12 PM
7	You guys ever received something like this from some creepers?? It makes me feel weird. Great advice, but how on earth does reddit consider that doxxing? He pestered you and I'm positive you didn't know his real name or other personal info. I cannot understand why society considers male creepiness a human right.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/08/20 06:00 PM
18	You guys ever received something like this from some creepers?? It makes me feel weird. Yeah, I think he confused FDS with some sort of sugarbaby subreddit.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/08/20 05:09 PM
54	“Getting mad at wife for hiding away money”. This post makes me uncomfortable... He updated that they're talking divorce now. So, ironically, him freaking out about her stashing 10 percent of her income (when she comes from an abusive past) is now going to cost him a LOT more than the original 25k.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/08/20 03:41 PM
21	I'm so tired of men ignoring the most simple rules, invading spaces where they don't f*cking belong and expecting to be celebrated. Really, I REALLY wish I, a bisexual woman, was a full lesbian sometimes. Dammit, it's not 'Lebanese singles', learn to read!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/08/20 03:22 PM
22	I’m meeting my Ex today Girl, stand him up and move on.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/08/20 01:37 PM
85	“I can’t think of a specific neg so I’m just going to keep it general.” Lol. I'd flip it by "Yeah, I get how easily guys with insecurity issues can be intimidated" and then bloooooock.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/08/20 11:49 PM
2	90,000 Members Party!!! 😃😃😁🎉🎉🎉🙌🙌 This. I'm married to a wonderful man but I've always chafed at how badly women are treated in heterosexual relationships. This sub has also helped me feel comfortable with stating my needs	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/08/20 11:36 PM
7	Favorite ways to shut down unwanted male attention? I like to pull creepy blank look and be "....Can you see them, too? The Shadow People?"	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/08/20 08:44 PM
5	I found this on Facebook today lol Oh Lord, yeah she rushed up to me saying "Look! Your brother got me a little ring!" and I walked right into it 🤣. Really, how was I to know?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/08/20 03:23 PM
8	I found this on Facebook today lol Yeah, my older brother just gave one to his girlfriend ( they're both in their forties). She actually asked for a promise ring! I get wanting jewellery but...I also accidentally congratulated her on her engagement when she proudly showed it off to me. I bet I won't be the first one to make that mistake.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/08/20 02:21 PM
23	Most men know they don't deserve you. Keep leveling up and don't be a fan! Like....do they not realize that they don't have to be perfect to be loved? Like, presumably, their parents, siblings and friends love them?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/08/20 02:10 PM
8	Hm interesting 😐 That's shitty, hon. Interracial/intercultural dating can be rough for this reason :/	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/08/20 01:37 PM
44	Hm interesting 😐 Hey, more Asian guys for the rest of us. At least they usually dress well and have good hygiene, unlike a lot of American white guys.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/08/20 09:24 PM
7	He really thinks God gave me tinder for him. Oh, where his job title, he put “not looking for anything serious fr” so clear contradictions. Haha, thanks!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/08/20 07:12 PM
18	He really thinks God gave me tinder for him. Oh, where his job title, he put “not looking for anything serious fr” so clear contradictions. Satan created Tinder and you can't change my mind - I imagine even venturing in there is like viewing the mouth of Hell. A desolate Tartarus of fuckbois, cheaters and the bloated former husbands of walk-away wives.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/08/20 06:59 PM
4	Man: wants to hang out. Me: suspicious Girl, don't hang out with him. The Sleaze Alarm is a-ringing.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/08/20 03:52 PM
6	My friends are telling me I should’ve given him space and I made a mistake. What do you think Yeah, was he planning on moving to Mars for a few months? XD	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/08/20 03:48 PM
23	When a man on OLD asks what you’re looking for - don’t describe what you want so he can pretend to be that to get in your pants, SIS! Let him show you who HE is. Sigh He was never the same after taking that bayonet in the war of 1812...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/08/20 03:37 PM
26	Ladies, please for the love of GOD do not have children OR marry a cheater! Don’t ever take back an ex - EVER. This woman took back her cheating boyfriend after the first year together. Now 5 kids later it’s ramped up online again. He had the AUDACITY to blame her for finding out. I don't doubt there are men (a very small percentage) who are actually bisexual, but most of the time I feel 'bisexual' means "I want to raw dudes but have a woman to wash my socks and manage my social life"	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/08/20 03:34 PM
25	long, exaggerated, justifiable sigh What the absolute fuck?! Poor girl, hope she dumps his ass.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/08/20 03:25 PM
1	Do they really like women? Lol, not to my knowledge. I'm more poking fun at guys who hate the time and effort women put into their appearances with dieting/exercise/hair/makeup (wah girrls who eat saaaaalaaaads) but still expect her to look magically perfect.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/08/20 03:16 PM
29	Slightly creepy colleague. Is this real or in my head? How do I navigate in the midst of LVM colleagues? It's not in your head. Even if he's not trying to consciously get into your pants (barf), old guys just loooove attention from young women even if its forced. Don't even bother replying to him. If he approaches you in person regarding your lack of availability, explain you have a lot going on and you only have time for specific work requests. Ignore and shut down any further attempts to 'chat' briskly and professionally. He'll find some other sweet young thing to pester.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/08/20 07:52 PM
48	Do they really like women? "I only date girls with intestinal parasites".	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/08/20 05:35 PM
12	Are you kidding me? Yeaaaaaah... someone's got a human-skin suit in his basement.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/08/20 05:29 PM
9	On a post regarding "marriageable" women Men basically have two options when their girlfriends/wives grow and achieve: 1) grow and achieve alongside them or 2) stagnate and get left behind. It's astonishing how many guys choose the latter.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/08/20 01:36 PM
2	Do HVMs like to dance with us? Or are we expecting too much? Nope, you're not asking too much! I love social dancing, too - I even managed to get my very British husband to take lessons with me. I managed it by just going out and doing my thing. I kept dolling myself up and saying 'There's Salsa Night at x Club tonight, I'm going and would love if you'd come with. They have a free one hour lesson so you can learn.' Eventually, he took the bait and very quickly saw that people of all ages and levels were dancing and that people gave zero craps that he was …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/08/20 09:05 PM
1	Married pick me mom friend said the part above the original post...no wonder she’s settling for her LVM husband🤢 WTF. Like, lady, I enjoy baking but I'm not going to open a patisserie in Fukushima.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/08/20 05:54 PM
24	Thing is...as most of us can attest, this isn’t even an unpopular opinion. Dude straight up says in the post making women feel loved feels like work. Yikes. Yeah, they're in a completely different grocery store aisle than the mountain dew and Doritos! When will us women stop demanding such Herculean tasks of our men? XD	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/08/20 09:04 PM
12	Thing is...as most of us can attest, this isn’t even an unpopular opinion. Dude straight up says in the post making women feel loved feels like work. Yikes. Right? Everything meaningful in life involves work! Looking after a pet, writing a novel, supporting your friends, building a house, volunteering in a soup kitchen. What a sad-sack attitude to have.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/08/20 09:01 PM
3	It's so hard to let go and accept my marriage is over. No problem, sweetie! We all have to go through long, hard journeys to become the best versions of ourselves. Hang in there and treat yourself like you would a cherished friend.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/08/20 08:04 PM
8	It's so hard to let go and accept my marriage is over. Definitely file for divorce or at least go to couples counselling. Your gut is right, don't make yourself vulnerable to that orbiting creep just because your marriage is on life-support. Any man that pursues a married lady is automatically a LVM, imho. Focus on healing yourself first. Wishing the best for you, OP.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/08/20 03:40 PM
11	Once again proof that HVM behavior does not have to be expensive and also needs to be maintained over time Good men are out there! You just need to sort through a loooot of trash first.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/08/20 05:42 PM
2	is it possible to find high value men on dating apps? Probably, but I imagine it's either traditional, religious guys using eHarmony or other marriage-focused apps or ranchers/oil workers in the middle of nowhere where the dating pool is tiny.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/08/20 05:37 PM
16	This is the guy that assaulted me six months later. I was 18 he was 25. Maybe get yourself tested anyway. That guy's a creep and could have lied about the results.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/08/20 05:21 PM
1	FDS a hate group? Scumbag dudes are NOT a protected class.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/07/20 05:59 PM
1	Slapped a girl, BuT iS oK bEcAuSe I WaS DeFenDinG mYSelF - Here's what that says about YOU and the other men who get off from those kind of stories. Maybe alcoholism through osmosis XD? "Nooo, the Chianti is entering my poooores!"	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/07/20 02:25 PM
2	Scrote wants his girlfriend to fulfill his perverted fantasy but gets upset at the thought of her wanting him to change 🤦🏻‍♀️ LOL this guy thinks a muscular male body type is 'unrealistic', but modeling oneself after 2D loli-chans with pink hair and no nose is totes achievable.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/07/20 06:18 PM
2	Scrote wants his girlfriend to fulfill his perverted fantasy but gets upset at the thought of her wanting him to change 🤦🏻‍♀️ It's because some guys have this weird concept that they'll be looked at as the 'bad guy' socially if they do the dumping. Which is absurd, because treating your GF like crap in a cowardly attempt to get her to dump you actually IS being the bad guy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/07/20 06:15 PM