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PDF? Is that a typo? Edit: ironically had to fix a typo myself 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:29 AM
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Not just that, but men listen to this sort of rhetoric and just decide it is not worth fighting for, so don't. Men that fight for custody get it more often than not, so the real reason men don't get custody as often is either because they don't want it or because they just listen to the idiots telling them not to go for it. Posts like OPs are not because they care about fathers, it's just about proving "women bad"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:28 AM
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I am a woman, and I support this message. One of the biggest issues with some aspects of the me too movement is that it has created the idea that women are not expected to have agency and respond to things like an adult. It is not reasonable to expect young men to be breathalyzers, mind readers, and babysitters. If you can't handle saying no you have no business putting yourself in grown people situations. It's also insulting to expect men to gate keep women and exactly opposite of what I unders…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:28 AM
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Honestly, I never thought another human would make me so happy. Sounds cliché but whatever, idgaf I'm so happy I get to spend any part of my life with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 01:47 AM
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I get it. I wouldn't want my life to be anything else so I imagine others have different passions that consume them. My version of hell would be falling deeply in love with someone that is obsessed with being an "influencer" or worse, has no passion at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 01:44 AM
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STEM people do generally stay in the work bubble from my experience. It's hard to relate to someone that doesn't get super duper excited to hear that you've finally solved the contamination issues with your samples and now you have a mountain of data to analyze and then you have a long discussion/argument about the code you've been using to analyze your data and it leads to some hot and sweaty bedroom activities before resuming said discussion only to realize you were oversampling when you took …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:08 PM
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Hey hey, I was chemistry/physics and my husband was computer science. All the women in my physics cohort ended up marrying guys in either physics , engineering, or CS as well. Another reason why we need more women in STEM I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:01 PM
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I met my husband in multivariable calculus....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:55 PM
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There's a bunch of causes that should be obvious. But you also seem to ignore the other correlations, such as intelligence. https://ifstudies.org/blog/number-8-in-2018-promiscuous-america-smart-secular-and-somewhat-less-happy#:~:text=Both%20men%20and%20women%20in,their%20less%20sexually%20adventurous%20peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:23 AM
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Your interpretation of the data is wrong. You're looking at correlations and thinking they're causations
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 12:58 AM
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I was referring to OJ
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 02:40 PM
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The downside of being a boyfriend or husband is you have already given her your validation by committing to her so she doesn't need to do anything to keep you around. I feel so sorry for the women you've had sex with if they all consider it a chore and not a delight
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 01:08 PM
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Exactly. And he wasn't as white or rich as Weinstein, so clearly that case was air tight
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 01:07 PM
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Ah, you must be new here
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 01:02 PM
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Seriously. I paid for everything during the first 2-3 years I was dating my husband. I could afford it, he couldn't, and I enjoyed going out with him. I think the guys that complain are either going for the wrong women or just not attractive to the good ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:13 PM
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😂😂😂😂😂 gotem
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:05 PM
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I guess a lot of the people posting are from the 1800s?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:03 PM
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Walks in the park, feeding him, cleaning up his shit....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:56 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 12:46 AM
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No, I agree with you but think the person you're replying to is never going to listen to reason
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 03:26 AM
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Fair, I veered off topic. My point should've been that you're wrong because some guys come from money and have the right "bearing" and that is different from those that actually have to earn it, but the difference isn't obvious. What should matter is how they spend their money, on themselves or making the world a better place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 03:25 AM
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Same for my female friends and me. Dating is just easier as you get older because you are wiser.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 03:03 AM
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Same for women. That's why I married a guy 11 years younger. Men in their 30's are no prize
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 03:00 AM
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I don't see the point in trying to reason with someone that thinks they know everything. Sure, dude. Women are the problem, not your attitude or choices
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:47 AM
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That's completely untrue. I've dated plenty of men that have high incomes and no savings, guys that have low income and no savings, and guys that have high income and lots of savings. There's a point where you just do the math and realize that most are spending and living paycheck to paycheck. Personally I think it's a HUGE turn off when a guy has lavish tastes. Nobody needs a Ferrari, that's gross. Donating to charity is super sexy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:44 AM
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Are you familiar with the term "sample bias"?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:35 AM
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Same for some women. It's all relative
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:31 AM
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Basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 03:34 PM
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or she has to make the difficult decision to go through an abortion, It's not a difficult decision for many women. We just don't advertise that because it makes a bunch of people mad AF
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 04:10 AM
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I'm fine with that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:03 AM
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You should also look up the reproducibility crisis in psychology. That field has a ton of problems and I wouldn't trust any of these "studies"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:18 AM
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I'm a female and I'm claiming otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 12:01 PM
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this is insane tbh. you cant expect men to naturally give you orgasms every time You absolutely can and should! Never marry a man that can't give you orgasms
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 11:49 AM
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Clearly none of y'all have ever owned roosters
/r/MensRights14/04/22 03:33 AM
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Hanged. Most men want to be hung, few want to be hanged lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:24 AM
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No way, younger guys have the stamina older guys lack
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:28 PM
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And when are women supposed to chase excellence? Or men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:26 PM
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What's the purpose of that link? To show that there exists at least one crazy woman in a workplace somewhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:06 AM
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Please leave the poor rabbits alone!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:31 PM
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No. If you love someone you would never want your personal pleasure to be the cause of their pain and suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 02:38 PM
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Most men talk about jerking off all the time lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 12:04 PM
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If you're watching porn for more than 10 minutes you're not watching the right porn
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:26 AM
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That I think if you feel free to shit on women others should feel free to shit on your archaic beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:52 PM
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Yeah, for idiots. Hence why they tend to be religious
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:34 PM
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I just don't like people that can't think for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:29 PM
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Why would anyone want to be with a Christian? THAT'S a huge red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:20 PM
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Why don't you talk to some people that are happily married? Most of the women I know with high N counts eventually found a perfect partner and are now happily married to someone they actually love.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:19 PM
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The men complaining are never the ones women want anyways lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:12 PM
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Truth. I work 70 hours a week and even the thought of going on a proper vacation is exhausting. When I have time off I want to putt around the garden, cuddle with the husband, and eat junk food
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:01 PM
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That way of looking at cause/effect is so narrow and misguided I doubt it would make it into even a low-impact journal for the ridiculously slapdash field of evolutionary psychology
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 10:12 PM
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Plus ANY sort of society would imply that we're not adhering to "what nature intended". That phrase is nonsensical though because nature has no intent. The most prolific genes win, that is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 10:09 PM
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I think you're purposefully ignoring the fact that this is often (not always) just a way to project insecurity
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:02 PM
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Your response is a bit of a nonsequitor because they didn't say anybody wasn't ALLOWED to do anything, just that it's usually a manifestation of other issues
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:20 PM
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I have a lot of down time during work that's very well suited for wasting time on my phone. It's entertaining
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:17 PM
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I miss where she said it was illegal in that comment...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:15 AM
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Because the best looking is NOT always going to be the best. I adore my husband because he's literally the best person I've ever met
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:04 AM
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Men have a clit in their butthole. It's called the prostate
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:42 AM
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I think if a woman has a man like you in her life that's a red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:37 AM
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No, I think it's more that women don't go after the men they want the same way men go after women they want
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:58 PM
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No, I think it's more like sheltered people that haven't had to experience how horrible many people are
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:56 PM
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But do you know how to analyze data?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:55 PM
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I'm pretty weird by most standards so yeah, point taken lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:55 PM
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Once I asked out a guy and he seemed positively stoked and also crushed because he had a girlfriend. Literally explained that he TOTALLY would love to get a drink but he just COULDN'T because he had a girlfriend that he loved but if "I TOTALLY WOULD LOVE TO AND OMG THIS LITERALLY NEVER HAPPENS AND IT SUCKS BECAUSE I LOVE MY GIRLFRIEND." More women need to go after what they want for sure. Lots of great guys getting missed because they're also too shy to make a move. I also asked my dear husband …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:52 PM
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False. Women get bashed on for doing typical woman things all the time if they work mostly with men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:48 PM
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It's so funny that these arguments always come from people that don't analyze data for a living 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:45 PM
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SOME women, sure. But that's also changing. I want my husband to be able to stay at home because I enjoy my work and he doesn't. I feel lucky to be able to be well paid for something I would actually pay money to do, and if I can support us both why shouldn't he be allowed to pursue his (much less lucrative) passion?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:43 PM
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Not always. I dated a doctor that wanted to have his entire paycheck direct deposited into my account, for me to give him an "allowance" based on how "good" he was. He also wanted me to "force" him to lick my toilet clean, amongst other things, and I just am not into that at all. I ended up marrying the broke college student I met in a math class.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:38 PM
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SOME women would. Just like SOME men would if the situation were reversed. I just wonder who gets to their mid-20's and up without realizing that people need to prove that they should be trusted?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:35 PM
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Hell yeah!!! Confidence is sexy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:56 PM
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Nothing, really. Just makes me even happier with my husband
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:34 PM
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Tell the men I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:10 PM
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Men think any time a man speaks to you he's hitting on you. My husband thinks I get hit on all the time when usually it's just that people here in the south are friendly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:59 PM
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This really only happens to women that try to get attention. If you're just minding your business and not wearing tight or revealing clothing it's not an issue. I get approached all the time if I'm trying to look cute, but rarely when I'm wearing a comfy shirt and baggy jeans
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:57 PM
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I got fat after I broke my foot several years ago. You never get approached and everyone is mean and disrespectful to you if you're a chunky female.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:53 PM
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Well, women tend to be shorter so they're not able to see the 3" difference as easily. I suck at guessing heights, and my husband finds it highly amusing. I thought he was about 6' when we met, but he's 5"10. I think that's close enough but he thinks he's short 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:15 AM
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I have dogs and chickens, no cats, and I just find some of the beliefs on here hilarious/sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:53 AM
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People don't really think before having kids. Even when they are happily married and trying to conceive, many people don't appreciate how much work raising kids is. That's why there are so many terrible people everywhere these days. There's also the men that mislead the women they're with and change once there's a baby on board. While I don't believe you should stay (or get) married because of kids, that in no way means men should not be involved in their child's life. The child should be import…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:44 AM
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Basically, once a woman turns 30 she is completely undesirable to men and destined to die alone surrounded by cats
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:39 AM
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Yeah I'm not chasing him because I married one! Even though I'm high N and post wall 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:11 AM
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... you know sex feels good for women, too, right? Do you think that is true when the sex is with most of the guys on this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:33 AM
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because they’re not risking their bodies, mental health, and social status. Yeah, if only men would hold other men accountable so it WOULD affect their social status. Is that really expecting too much?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:31 AM
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If this is true it sounds like the only solution is to legalize plural marriage so Chad can have 1000 wives and spare the bottom 80% of men the anguish of thinking they have a chance at happiness. Is this what you're proposing?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:47 AM
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Wonder if OP would ask men why they aren't more involved in their kids lives...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:18 AM
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Rich people want to ban abortions so they will always have a pool of people to exploit and therefore stay rich. What you describe is (in their minds) not a bug, but a feature
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:17 AM
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Awww, some people are jerks but glad death by 1000 cats gave you some hope for this sub lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:57 AM
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I think a lot of people now have a low sense of self-worth because of social media. My husband used to think he wasn't a super delicious man treat because he sucks at social media, but that's one of the many things I love about him. Social media is toxic imo
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:32 AM
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Many regret having kids, they just don't talk about it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:03 AM
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Well yeah, imagine being so selfish you don't have kids just so you can discover physics. That jerk
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:01 AM
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I believe black men have done the most to combat anorexia in the US and as a bottom thick bitch I salute you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 10:43 PM
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I've never looked back. You mean, you never had looked back and now you always will lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 10:42 PM
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You must be new to this sub...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 10:31 PM
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Years of experience does not necessarily mean you're better at something. But more importantly, if you're able to do the same job just as well why should you be paid more or less based off time working? I think you're confusing my point, which is not that we should give parents even more special treatment. My point is that your previous salary should have zero bearing on what your next salary would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 10:44 AM
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First and foremost you need to be happy with yourself TRUTH. Nobody should derive their sense of self-worth through other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 10:37 AM
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Ideally, yeah, but we don't live in an ideal world. I think the problem is that employers are still allowed to ask about your previous salary in some jurisdictions. Since women are more likely to take time off after having a kid it makes sense that is the cause
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 10:33 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 10:20 AM
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Facts. RP guys seem extremely bitter and unhappy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 09:17 AM
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There are men and women who are willing to be supportive. Exactly. If your SO doesn't hype you up and make you feel amazing (and vice versa) you should reconsider the relationship. My husband was insecure after gaining some weight during covid, so I help him make better food choices and now we work out together. I'd love him even if he gained 100 lbs but he wouldn't love himself, so it's important to me. Bonus: we're both looking pretty good now and our sex life is better than ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:52 AM
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It's not just crying though. Insecure also means constantly checking on you, going through your phone, asking for validation, etc. Do you want to be with a woman like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:43 AM
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Because masculinity and homosexuality are orthogonal
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:41 AM
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Ah, so your complaint is that women now don't feel obligated to get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:30 AM
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Your point seems to be that this is causing some sort of decline, but that's how it's always been buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:10 AM
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It doesn't have to be a daily routine. You could join a sports club, or go to parties, for example. The active part could be being proactive, like approaching a guy at the supermarket or asking a friend to introduce you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:09 AM
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Women generally go out with their friends, is what you're not getting. They don't go out looking for some strange
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:04 AM
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There are other ways to meet people. Meeting new people is the active part.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:52 AM
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Just because you're not going to bars or doing OLD doesn't mean you're not actively looking is my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:49 AM
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I didn't say ONLY creeps, they're just severely overrepresented. It's safer to just meet people organically. I've never met any of the men I dated in bars, and only 1 I met OLD. My experiences with men in both were unpleasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:47 AM
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How is that not looking? You think the only proactive solution is to go to places full of creeps?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:37 AM
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Because that's not a great way to meet men. Better to meet them through friends/activities
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:30 AM
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Cool, thanks! I'll check them out!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:30 AM
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Crime subs? Can you recommend any good ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:05 AM
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Men love difficult women. The more successful the man, the more he wants a challenge. HVM want smart, successful females long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:04 AM
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Sometimes it's easy to take the rage bait but if you realize they're just hurt and respond kindly you'd be surprised at how much more willing they are to listen. Poor dudes just don't know how to crawl out of their depression, and maybe some strangers being nice online could prevent another mass shooting
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 12:48 AM
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You sound like a super cool dude. Respect
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 12:40 AM
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You should always take any psychology study with a HUGE grain of salt. The field has massive problems
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 12:37 AM
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It will, but not the way you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 12:09 AM
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You don't need to create children to raise them. Plenty of kids languish in foster care and need a good home
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 12:06 AM
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Yeah but you can always foster/adopt
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 12:01 AM
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Lmao fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:36 PM
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in chaotic social situations would put myself in potential bodily harm to defend her honor or her physical person. Are you in the 1800's wild west? How do these kinds of situations come up regularly?!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 06:33 PM
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Thanks for walking that back. Also, in bed I'm super submissive so maybe that's the trick
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:49 AM
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why have it, when you can't keep it? Couldn't you say the same thing about life itself? Everything doesn't have to make sense, sometimes you just want something
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:21 AM
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A lot of feminists do lots of things I would say do not align with the definition. I could call myself a republican and disagree with everything that party is supposed to stand for, could I not? Just because some people in a group have fringe beliefs doesn't mean that all people in the group do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:14 AM
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Oh that’s because as a man there has been literally no one to reach out asking if I’m ok And why is that? Women are always sharing their feelings with each other, why can't men do the same? Isn't that what friends do?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:09 AM
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I don't blame you. I just think society has failed in that regard and will continue to do so for a while longer. (And when I write "society" I mean both men and women.)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:06 AM
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Well, the thing is there are also problems that are unique to men and they are (unfortunately) minimized, and that is NOT good. For example, my brother was abused by our father for years, and there's very few resources and support groups for male victims of sexual assault. That, coupled with the stigma and the idea that men can't be victims makes the whole thing much more complicated for men to deal with. However, that's rarely what the men on here are complaining about. From my observations mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:04 AM
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Yeah, that's a very good point. I would like to see more male support groups, where men could focus on building healthy, supportive relationships with each other. I think that a positive self-image is important for men too, and that it would be great to help those men that allow their sense of self worth be defined by the female gaze to build up real self confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:50 AM
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Anybody can call themselves a feminist, but that doesn't mean they speak for all feminists. It's like Christians; some believe crazy shit and get all the attention, and some just show up for the last 30 min of mass on Christmas and Easter. If they're teaching you women are better than men they're not by definition feminists. Women have a position of extreme privilege but won't even acknowledge that they do much less fight against other women. Extreme privilege? It sounds like you're just overcor…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:47 AM
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It's only been 10 years and we're both very happy. I'm not sure why you would say otherwise, unless you've had very poor relationships yourself. That's unfortunate, I'm sorry you have to go through life like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:36 AM
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That would then still be their own community, so wouldn't they be proving the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:27 PM
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Without men you do not have your society, infrastructure and education. That's not factually true. Women could do all that. Men created wars and subjugation, which have done more to hurt progress than anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:24 PM
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I've also met many idiots. Doesn't mean they speak for the group though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:20 PM
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She's a lesbian, so she expected straight women to be like lesbians that like dick
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:19 PM
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Kind of like how you just glossed over everything women as a group go through, without cherry-picking some choice words from prominent men's rights activists?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:16 PM
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I think that's true of many women. I'm pretty masculine (personality wise) and women always get crushes on me even though my body type is very feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:14 PM
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Why do you think there's so little support for men? I agree that it's a problem, but I think it's mostly due to the way men idealize masculinity. "Don't be a sissy, boys don't cry," blah blah blah. Men should be more comfortable with sharing their thoughts, feelings, and emotions especially with each other. Unfortunately, most rely on just their SO for that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:13 PM
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If anything I used to think women were more than human and had them on a pedestal because of what I was taught and growing up on girl power feminism This is actually benevolent sexism. You should view women as you would men: a collection of individuals, some of which are horrible. Some women are terrible, but some men are also. Even if say, 75% of women are horrible while only 25% of men are, is it really fair to judge everyone by the actions of their group, especially when you can't choose what…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:06 PM
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Yeah, that's how it works. She says no and too bad. You move onto the next one. It was as if women didn't believe there was a human being on the other side capable of feelings. It took one of them to actually be in a man's shoes to realise that, holy fuck this is hard. And yet, most guys doing cold approaches are not viewing women as if there was a human being on the other side capable of feelings. Same for people trying to sell you something, too. Most humans only personify people they get to k…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:01 PM
1

I'm none of those things and have never had a problem getting or keeping a HVM
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:55 PM
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Feminism wants to treat women and men as interchangeable - they aren't That's actually not what feminism is about. It's about giving each individual equal access. Every man isn't stronger than every woman, mant men are better homemakers than many women, etc. What does anyone gain by assigning roles to everyone based on gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:54 PM
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I am definitely more traditionally masculine than my husband, yet love and respect him deeply. This is just another revenge fantasy brought to you by TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:48 PM
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I've yet to see evidence of that on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:39 PM
1

You might want to reconsider the type of people you associate with
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:08 AM
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How many guys have you hooked up with? You have no idea what you're talking about. Most men try very hard to make sure they are satisfying lovers
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:21 AM
2

You display blatant misogyny and are confused that some women are offended? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:30 AM
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Why would anyone stay in a relationship like that? Every time I look at my husband I'm struck by how handsome he is; I could spend hours twirling his chest hair or scratching his back. Just thinking about him makes my heart flutter. Everyone deserves to have that kind of relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 11:14 AM
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Low intelligence, cruel to animals, a breeder
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 11:04 AM
1

Crush their head with your thighs duh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 11:01 AM
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there are no feelings or emotions at all involved in casual sex Not necessarily true. Just because you don't have deep feelings for someone doesn't mean you feel nothing for them. women complaining about being unsatisfied during sex, Some people aren't good at communicating what they want, or have underlying medical issues, or psychological issues, etc. Also, there's a massive sample bias in social media. Regardless, that doesn't mean that said men aren't trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:22 PM
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Most men irl have feelings and emotions and very much consider the woman while having sex so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:04 PM
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Not everybody wants to have kids. Some men actually want a partner they can engage with as an equal, some women age better than others, and there's also a financial advantage to dating older. Socially women are conditioned to date older men because historically women weren't able to work and so needed the financial security. That's no longer an issue. My husband hated his last job and was able to just quit and take a break for a few months while I supported us because I earn enough. Men in their…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:52 AM
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Women live longer than men, so it makes less sense for women to marry older men, unless you don't really love your husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:15 AM
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You love whom you love. We get along better than most couples, and isn't that what matters most?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:03 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:15 AM
3

Why is yours blue?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:15 AM
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The guys who women are having casual sex with probably aren’t guys complaining about getting a relationship. This is definitely pure conjecture. Men that get girls fall hard for the women that don't really want them. They may not admit it to their guy friends, but they simp for confident, successful women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 07:39 PM
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My husband is much younger than I am and the only people that seem to be bothered by that are men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 07:09 PM
0

There's a ton of men over 35 as well
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 07:07 PM
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They were. And women were also unable to get a line of credit in their own name. How do you think people bought houses and cars?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 06:56 PM
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If a guy presses for a relationship, he’ll get it 9/10. If that were true then why are they always so many guys crying on here that they can't get any women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 06:56 PM
0

You know that Freud was wrong about just about everything, right? The only reason he's still relevant is because he was the first to use psychoanalysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:19 AM
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It's a biological imperative the same way eating is, for the same purpose - multiplying. Are you a bacterium? Or a yeast? Most people aren't eating to reproduce. They typically have unprotected sex to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:13 AM
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My mother married a lovely man when she was in her 60's....not sure you understand that older men exist
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:07 AM
2

The rage in this dude is really something...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 07:58 AM
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The man thrusts only because he wants to reach orgasm, he doesn't even consider the women I feel so sad for any woman you've had sex with. Just about every guy I've been with has made sure I've had at least 1 orgasm before they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 07:50 AM
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If you can fuck her, you can get a relationship from her. 100% not true. I banged a bunch of dudes I would never have dated. There's a lot of beautiful idiots out there
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 07:45 AM
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Where are you that there's an epidemic of women over 40 crying all the time? I've yet to see this myself
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 07:01 AM
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Yes. I do all the handiwork around the house as is so....? There's also these people you can pay to do work for you, by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 06:58 AM
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You see what you want to see, but that doesn't mean it's real. The most miserable people are unhappily married.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 06:54 AM
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Women couldn't even open their own bank accounts in the 1970's dude
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 06:47 AM
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She said steel arms wrapped with squish. It's when you can feel the muscle but there's a layer of fat over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:29 PM
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Depends. At 30% you can have a belly and some squish around the arms. She didn't say anything about muscle showing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:00 AM
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The truth is different women want different things. You can't over generalize or you'll always end up excluding a significant chunk of the population. Like, you might think all men want slim women but there are quite a few chubby chasers that legit want the chonk. There are also some men that want to remain lifelong bachelors, but others that desperately want to get married. At best you could figure out the type of woman you want and try to define what that group is most likely to respond positi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:57 AM
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Oh shit, now you tell me?! Lmao some people actually marry for love
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:18 AM
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My dog always follows me into the bathroom. I think she's thinking "you always watch me poop so I'm going to watch you poop because we're friends like that"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:21 AM
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Lmaooooooo NO.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:07 AM
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Yeah, I paid for all the dates with my husband when we first met. He was poor AF and I could afford it and wanted to enjoy the pleasure of his company. 3 years later he was making a lot more than I was and started paying for all our dates so we're even now
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:36 AM
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Doomscrolling and the hope to one day make a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 02:46 AM
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That's only true for very beautiful women. Vast majority of women are not very beautiful and don't have that power. The same can be said of extremely handsome men. Some people are just going to get a lot of attention, most will have to develop charm, charisma and personality
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 12:24 PM
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Ok but I do the same and I'm a woman. I tutor a lot of kids for free because I know their parents can't afford to pay, I help friends move, etc. If men are doing such things for sex reasons then they're assholes and you shouldn't care about how they feel. Friends help each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 12:17 PM
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Women don't need food, water, shelter, etc? Shit I didn't know all that. I've been eating and drinking for no reason...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 12:12 PM
1

This guy fucks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:50 AM
1

In the US it's not a problem. I wonder if it's possible to send a test overseas to circumvent the laws in Europe
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:21 AM
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I was being facetious. There is literally no reason to foist such a system on everybody just because some people make bad choices
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:18 AM
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Ah I was speaking of the US
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:16 AM
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Why not also make it mandatory for fathers to take a lie detector test while the mother can decide to get an abortion? Do you know how many women find out their partner is a cheater after they have a kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 01:02 AM
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You can literally get an at home paternity test with results delivered in days for under $100. Why should the cost of healthcare go up for everyone because some men are bad judges of character?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 12:55 AM
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Nobody is removing a choice. It's possible to discreetly get a test after the baby is born if you so choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 12:49 AM
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And yet, eating too much animal products kills you. It's hard to believe anyone can be so stupid. Meat comprised a small fraction of early human diets, much like chimpanzees. The only reason most people aren't literally retarded is because we spray refined carbs with folic acid, since most people don't eat enough leafy green vegetables.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 12:48 AM
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You seem to be very confused about early humans. Are you unfamiliar with our farming mother?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 12:19 AM
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Yeah but good luck with that in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 12:17 AM
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The first sentence in your first link literally says 85% of the world lives in poverty. Your second link is only looking at one type of pollution.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 12:17 AM
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This is generally only true for LVM
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:55 AM
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Oh, I didn't realize humans evolved in Russia, I thought they came from Africa
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:29 AM
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No there’s not enough to go around. Taxing the rich 100% wouldn’t even pay for the yearly budget. Do you realize that 1% owns half the world's wealth?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:02 AM
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World economy shouldn't be anyone's concern given the state of the environment, not to mention what will happen when we run out of oil and don't have the infrastructure to run on renewables.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:58 AM
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I agree that it's selfish to create a child right now. That's not the only way to raise a child though. There are plenty of children suffering in foster care that need a good home.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:52 AM
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Wealthier women don't qualify for welfare. If you're poor enough it doesn't cost you anything to have a kid and you get free healthcare, housing and food.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:47 AM
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LMAO ok boomer. None of that is true
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:39 AM
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would you tell her she's acting entitled? I wouldn't say it like that, but that would be what I'm saying lol. Love that Roosevelt quote. I've never heard it before, so thanks for that. if you're unsure then maybe it's better you exit that relationship and enter one you are sure about Exactly. If you're not happy then find someone that makes you happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:21 AM
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Valid? I wouldn't invalidate someone's feelings but I would say that I think it's a recipe to be miserable comparing yourself to others instead of focusing on what you need to be happy. To go back to your analogy, if said man had financial issues because he was spending lavishly on dates with superficial women I would be impressed that he's matured past that. Fiscal responsibility is important. If you feel that he's being too cheap that would be the issue to address. Compromise, don't compare.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:04 AM
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I don't concern myself with past partners. If I'm unhappy that would be the situation to address, not the past. I wouldn't date someone that didn't make me happy. My husband didn't clean shit around the house, but did when he lived alone. I told him this bothered me, and he agreed it wasn't fair and so started making more of an effort. Instead of harping on the past (you did this before and now expect me to be a free maid!!!!!) I focused on the actual problem and now it's resolved. If he said "I…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 10:53 AM
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I'd much rather hang out at home than go on expensive dates, so quite pleased.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 10:23 AM
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Lmao so true. The guys complaining aren't worth dating anyways so why does anyone care?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 09:54 AM
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Fat to fit. Muscle mass alone does not determine fitness. But men can gain twice as much muscle in a month than women can, which is also why it's easier for them to lose weight since muscle burns more calories.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:45 AM
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That's actually not true at all but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:43 AM
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I have perfect skin and eat a ton of carbs. Eating a ton of animal products is what messes up your skin
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:24 AM
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Guys in tech generally look like they might be homeless. (My husband works in tech)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:20 AM
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I put in very little effort for my appearance, but I was blessed with amazing hair and skin. Even so, the amount of time I spend on myself is easily 4X what my husband spends on himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:18 AM
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You should actually set up a profile and see what happens. Plenty of dudes ghost, or never respond after matching. Out of 100 matches maybe 1 would actually lead to a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:14 AM
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If you're low T, maybe. Normal guys can go from fat to fit in a few months just spending an hour in the gym 3 days a week. Also, not sure why you're complaining that women are more likely to run than lift.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:07 AM
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That is a great link, thank you! Lots to unpack there lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:46 AM
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Things would stay the same, just the definition of beauty would change.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 01:07 PM
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I foster. I am not selfish enough to create children when I know that there are plenty that need a good home.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 12:43 PM
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The definition of beautiful would change.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 11:34 AM
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Why do you think this is true?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 10:48 AM
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I saw that! It was pretty good in a cheesy way
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 10:47 AM
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Do you think women only date men age 25-35?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 10:15 AM
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Men built this world and it won't take much for them to destroy it. This seems to be an argument for keeping all men in the same conditions women are kept under the Taliban
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:59 AM
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It also implies that there is some disparity in numbers between “good men” and “good woman”. No, it does not. Let's say I mention that the coral reefs have lost a lot of fish. That in no way implies anything about the number of seagulls.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:57 AM
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Those "studies" are always suspect and should not be trusted. Psychology is a field that has a lot of problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:52 AM
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You're reading too much into their comment. Admitting those faults already makes them more mature than most parents. I really hope you're not a parent given your comments
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 02:40 AM
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planned children are generally speaking, the result of a healthy relationship between two people. Not sure how you came up with this nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 12:38 PM
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Anyone can be a parent. Being a GOOD parent is a whole other thing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 12:33 PM
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You're right, most parents regret having kids and don't want to admit to so they try to convince others to make the same mistake they did
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 12:31 PM
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A better idea would be to tell them to look at the state of the world today and consider most of the people they meet on a daily basis. If you love your potential children why would you want to grow up in this kind of world? How many people are actually happy anymore (excluding the psychopaths)?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 12:26 PM
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Some children grow up in homes where they are severely abused, and so moving to a home where they are loved but the house is always a mess is definitely an improvement. There's also the possibility of adopting a much older child, like 14+ years old, where they can have a lot more autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 12:22 PM
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Most people are crappy parents and just don't realize it/want to admit it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 12:18 PM
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Lots of women avoid carbs and eat insufficient amount of protein. So many women are actually at a caloric deficit, but because their macronutrients are so out of wack their body stores fat because it worries about not having access to food later. When you don't eat enough protein, your body pulls that nutrition from muscle. When your only source of protein is from plants or dairy, weak protein sources, your body depletes it's micronutrients to try and convert it to human protein, but can't after…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:29 AM
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Ok then carry on lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 12:29 PM
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Meaning I doubt the study itself, so I wouldn't bother trying to explain the findings
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 11:59 AM
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No. Not even a little. I think they're disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:49 AM
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It's probably because psychology is NOT real science and has massive issues with reproducibility. It's almost as if nobody remembers Sokal yeesh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:43 AM
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Best employees = people willing to be exploited? And no, most successful people are taking multiple interviews so they get the best deal
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:37 AM
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Looks are not the same as fitness. In fact, the most unhealthy type of fat is the type that doesn't show on the outside
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:28 AM
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Oh you meant literal shape, not health/fitness. Either way, the rest of your comment reveals your ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:26 AM
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It's not easier for women to stay in shape than men. It's much easier for men to build muscle, and they have narrower hips which is better for running.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 09:44 AM
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Feel free to hmu if you have any questions! I tutored stats for years, and I know it can be tricky. I call it "grammar math" because you really need to pay attention to how questions are worded lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 02:55 AM
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Honestly, I wouldn't trust any psych studies that haven't been repeatedly verified due to the reproducibility crisis. But if you want to better understand how stats are calculated and what they mean there are some great (free!) online courses offered through MIT. https://ocw.mit.edu/courses/mathematics/18-05-introduction-to-probability-and-statistics-spring-2014/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 02:36 AM
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Job hopping is the fastest way to move up and earn more money, though. The best employees are interviewing every year, not every few years, because they know their worth
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 01:56 AM
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Listen to vtridolla. You'd be surprised how few men actually approach women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 01:54 AM
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Join a group, like a coed team sport.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 01:53 AM
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Kenny G baby
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 01:51 AM
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I have a doctorate in physics, and I say you're 100% wrong. There were plenty of guys getting it in. I met my husband in multivariable calculus. You might want to try looking inside yourself instead of projecting your insecurity on your major.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 01:49 AM
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Hmmmm, I think handsome, successful men usually have plenty of options. I might be mistaken though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 01:22 AM
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Depends. Did you actually learn the material? Or were you one of the "C's get degrees" folks?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 01:20 AM
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Then it literally doesn't matter, since either way there are 10 ways to choose 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:39 PM
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So let's assume you have 10 partners (r) out of 100 (n) possible potential partners. Without repetitions that gives you 17,310,309,468,695 possible combinations. With repetitions that gives you 42,634,215,112,710. Neither applies to the analogy, which is why it's a ridiculous response to a ridiculous comment. Having repetitions doesn't change the analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:27 PM
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https://www.mathsisfun.com/combinatorics/combinations-permutations.html
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:13 PM
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However, these women will also not discuss their sexual past with their partner or broach this conversation with any men, so how would they know? They don't. False. My husband is well aware of my sexual history. From my experience most men really don't care, but I only dated very secure men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 12:59 PM
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The difference is n!/[r!(n - r)!] vs (r + n - 1)!/[r!(n - 1)!] The analogy still holds
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 12:54 PM
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I think it's stupid to trust statistics without understanding statistics. Most people think they understand WAY more than they actually understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 12:48 PM
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It's ok lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:16 AM
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Where did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:08 AM
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I married one so....yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 02:08 AM
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Definitely not with a belt sander lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:22 AM
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Weird. That's been the exact opposite of my experience. Men will mash it like they're playing mortal combat
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:21 AM
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https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/pdf/10.1177/216507991105900704
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:09 AM
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Have you ever been really, truly poor?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:06 AM
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That's not how chemistry works
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 12:58 AM
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This makes sense. Men are usually WAY more emotional than women are, they just don't recognize anger as an emotion
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 12:57 AM
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The only reason I wouldn't be up for sex at any given moment is the surface prep. Gotta make sure the bits are sparkly clean/waxed/buffed/not covered in period blood, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 12:56 AM
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That's so sad. What region are you from where this was common? Most men I've been with have studied that one part of female anatomy better than any subject they took in school, and if anything are way TOO focused on the clit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 12:53 AM
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I am definitely hornier than my husband. I'd love to get it twice a day and always come first. I'm also super competitive so always suspected I have higher than normal testosterone levels for a female, but I'm also naturally pretty hairless so idk. I was on antidepressants for a while, and they completely destroyed my sex drive. I would never want it and rarely came. Luckily I went right back to normal after I quit taking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 12:49 AM
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I can easily get off in under 10 minutes without foreplay. At most, 20 but after that stuff starts getting sore and there's probably something else bothering me so I wouldn't want to get railed for 30 minutes or more.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 12:48 AM
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Women usually have closer friendships than men do. I cuddle with my friends, I've never seen men do that with their friends. I guess you'll say they're substandard because we aren't getting in fights or going to jail, but if that's going on I'd say you probably need to reevaluate all your life choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:46 AM
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That's supposed to be the point at which more money does not equal more happiness, so yes. But either way, I wouldn't put too much faith in psychology studies given the problems with the field.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 08:59 AM
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I'd say that you're going through a rough time and not really in the right place to find a healthy, stable relationship. If I'm right, I hope things get better for you. I went through a very dark time myself, so I get why you'd be so negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:38 AM
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I'm sure I wouldn't possibly be able to guess
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:32 AM
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Sure. I can guess why you're single...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:28 AM
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No. When I started taking upper division physics classes none of the guys ever spoke to me. All the women did, and that was never an issue in my upper division chemistry classes (I was a double major). I constantly offered to help with homework and invited them to study groups, but it wasn't until my final year that any of them were friendly. I met my husband in calc 3, and he loved that I was always at the top of the class. If sitting up front and answering questions is being an asshole then I …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:02 AM
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The 4 horsemen of a relationship are criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling. If you see those traits it's only a matter of time before the relationship ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:36 AM
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What if he lives to be 200 years old and is happily ever after?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:32 AM
1

You've never had a fight with your best friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:30 AM
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The article CFinCanada linked actually only says that wealth and happiness are positively correlated. It does not say that more money = more happiness. CF is misinterpreting the conclusions
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:28 AM
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Psychology has a severe reproducibility crisis so I wouldn't trust any research that hasn't been repeatedly verified. https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://scholar.google.com/scholar_url%3Furl%3Dhttps://www.nature.com/articles/nature.2015.18248.pdf%253Forigin%253Dppub%26hl%3Den%26sa%3DX%26ei%3DlNjYYdmPNNuSy9YPjYCDoAc%26scisig%3DAAGBfm0ibrn4BawQTDx-wSffdmLmlWAmgQ%26oi%3Dscholarr&ved=2ahUKEwjE-4r28KD1AhXMQzABHVcPAFMQgAN6BAgDEAI&usg=AOvVaw2fac9dpUEu5v5vlHobdn8D
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:24 AM
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How so? Does anyone find insecurity sexy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 11:56 PM
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RP is about the data. RP is about cherry-picking data
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 10:38 AM
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People rarely consider intelligent people they don't agree with. People are rarely intelligent. Real recognizes real
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 10:34 AM
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Have you met any men before?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 10:26 AM
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Why should anyone care about attracting everyone? I prefer being intimidating to weak men since I wouldn't want them anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 10:10 AM
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Intelligent men usually want intelligent women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 10:05 AM
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Being broke does not equal being weak. Being unable to pay for dates does not imply she was financially dependent on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:08 AM
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Could you think of any reason why that "data" might be skewed?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:20 PM
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Strong women have zero issues supporting a man that's worth it. I paid for all dates with my husband for the first year we dated
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:17 PM
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That wasn't a study. You're just showing that you can't tell the difference between an article and a study
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:10 PM
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Watching porn isn't always a problem, depends on how they process it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:03 AM
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Womansplaining you mean lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:00 AM
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I believe that she's explaining that orgasming from PIV is important for her. There are ways to get around that if both are willing to think outside the box, though. There are desensitization creams, for example, but that can backfire if it affects her as well. There's also a way to practice timing if both are willing to work on it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:36 AM
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Watches porn AND doesn't take feedback or watches porn OR doesn't take feedback?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:27 AM
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Nothing other than a rigid mindset, which would've been an issue before I decided a guy was that great. I've been able to train any guy to satisfy me, even one I dated that had a micro penis. The only problem is when a man is too rigid in his thinking, which is unfortunately a huge problem for way too many people (including women).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:25 AM
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We need more men like you on here. Appreciate seeing a normal guy waste time trying to shine a light into the darkness
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:51 AM
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My husband is 10 years younger....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:42 AM
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When you're looking for problems you're going to find them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:02 PM
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Given the reproducibility crisis in psychology I don't see why anyone would believe any of these "studies"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:44 AM
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They don't match the definition. It's like if you wanted to call yourself a republican because you want to criminalize abortion, but also support criminalizing gun ownership, big government, open borders, and high taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 01:25 PM
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Social media is positively correlated with mental health issues. That's what I'm basing that assumption on
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 12:50 PM
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Seems more like your opinion is formed from interactions with people online not IRL. Anyone can call themselves a feminist, but by definition a feminist is anyone that thinks men and women should be treated equally
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 12:44 PM
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More money means less stress and more ability to invest in your professional development. There's also the passive income generated through investments
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 12:34 PM
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There are a variety of reasons why that would be so. For example, people that grew up with parents that had a great marriage are more likely to have a positive view of marriage and are also more likely to be successful. There is also the benefit of having 2 incomes and the support of a loving spouse. That's just off the top of my head, but I'm sure there's more. It doesn't mean that marriage is a means to an end though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 12:27 PM
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And if your using it so many times that your kids hide things. I don’t think that’s a good either. And that is the concern. There is a world of difference between a single incident and a pattern of behavior, and it's unlikely that spanking is the reason you were successful. At best you could say the novelty of that incident was what made it effective that one time, but I'm sure your parents disciplined you in other ways before you were 13. Parents can be strict without being harsh.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:54 AM
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If you weren't spanked you would've killed the next kid that tried to fight you? It seems like you're basing your support for spanking off a single incident rather than a pattern of behavior and credit that for the entire trajectory of your life afterwards, which just seems unlikely to me. Spanking just taught my siblings and me to get better at hiding shit from our parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:43 AM
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So you weren't spanked in your formative years? And then your father hit you for defending yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:31 AM
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That's a cute story, but why were you fighting in the first place? Could it be that you were taught to respond with aggression?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:29 AM
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That's just one of several factors. But if you're talking about parents raising responsible kids the spanking is still irrelevant. The problem with spanking is that it teaches kids to respond with aggression, doesn't teach them what to do only what not to do, and it leads to more serious abuse. Better outcomes are achieved when you use time outs and talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:19 AM
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You can't compare apples to oranges. There are plenty of reasons why other countries would have lower crime rates. Harsh prison sentences and zero tolerance for crime help, as does the social acceptance of crime (or lack thereof)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:15 AM
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Spanking can do more harm than good, which is why it's no longer recommended. To say it's better than "being disciplined by the police" is forcing a false dichotomy. Ideally parents would be present and take an active role in raising their kids, with discipline that is consistent and not physical. However, my original point is that some people make it and others just won't, regardless of how they were raised. That's why you have some people succeed despite horrifying origin stories and others fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:04 AM
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I'm not white, and I'm not sure why you would assume I was other than I mentioned physicist Edit: also want to add that there is never a reason to hit your kid. You can be strict without being harsh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:48 AM
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Men are supposed to fight and die. The survivors get the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:46 AM
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Are you familiar with the concept of a sample bias? I'd guess that the 22% on Twitter are generally going to be the bottom 22%
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:36 AM
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Do you know any feminists?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:35 AM
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So you think society should be a race to the bottom?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:34 AM
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I doubt anyone on this sub is familiar with the story of Barbara McClintock... She discovered transposons in 1945, and the men at the time mocked her and were basically like "this is why women can't do science this is ridiculous hardy har har." Then decades later we finally have the technology to look at DNA more closely and ha ha she was right and got a Nobel in 1983.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:32 AM
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The lack of harsh disciple, corporal punishment, no legit parenting is why people in the US fail. Um, no. You don't need to beat your kids. Some people are able to see what they need to do to be successful and do it. Others get trapped by a victimhood mindset, or never had to try, or decided to follow their passion and are not pragmatic. I came from a severely dysfunctional home, worked 3 jobs through high school, was on my own at 18, and am now a physicist. Almost all of my cohort came from sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:26 AM
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You only gave 1 example, dude. The rest is pure conjecture
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:30 PM
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Neither is your example
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:18 PM
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Jennifer lopez is in her 50s and still hot AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 12:41 PM
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Or perhaps finding a husband isn't really a priority for many women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 12:39 PM
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All physical risks can be managed by following basic safety precautions. Regardless, you weren't asking about a partner. There are infinitely many things a person could care about concerning a partner that shouldn't be a reason to judge others, such as physical appearance or credit score.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 12:33 PM
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I think it's ridiculous to care about how many people anyone has slept with
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 08:37 PM
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Like most things on this sub it's another RP fever dream revenge fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:06 AM
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The algorithms determined you respond to such things so they feed you more and more of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:43 PM
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Well yeah but desperate guys marry in haste, repent at leisure. Most of the men I know married their ideal partner, not the hottest woman they could bang. I work with a ton of scientists and they generally married other scientists, engineers, or programmers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:02 AM
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Yeah but my point was that they also probably dated women prettier than the woman they eventually married.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:48 AM
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So of all the men you met, the only criteria that mattered when choosing a wife was looks? You should find a better social circle
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:35 AM
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More importantly, most of these studies are probably trash. Psychology has some serious issues
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:33 AM
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Have you heard about the reproducibility crisis in psych?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:32 AM
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That was sarcasm. You must've been at the top of your classes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:28 AM
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Men also casually date women that are more attractive than the woman they end up marrying as well. Statistically that's most probable
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:28 AM
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I'll be sure to tell my husband that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:22 AM
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Yes, clearly. I guess you must come from some small town nobody wants to live in
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:07 AM
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Plenty of women sleep around and still marry attractive men what are you getting on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:04 AM
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Not really. You guys cherry pick studies from a problematic field that is NOT real science. It's comforting to know you'll spend your miserable life alone
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 03:57 AM
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Lmao suuuuuure buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 03:54 AM
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You don't wish it true, which is why you don't think it's true
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 03:52 AM
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Honestly this entire rant is incredibly sexy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 01:35 AM
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Fair enough. I'm actually feeling a bit cowed because you responded so nicely. I'm not used to that on this thread, and I was wrong to assume what you meant
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 01:26 AM
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I made an assumption of my own based off the way you posed the question. Why exclusively towards women? Why not ask men in that situation as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 01:15 AM
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Why do you assume that's only a problem for women? Plenty of men want relationships with women that are only interested in FWB
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 01:03 AM
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90% of the people on this sub just pick terrible partners and then think that's an accurate representation of all men/women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:49 PM
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That's a terrible reason to date anyone. The only thing that really matters is how well you get along.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:48 PM
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That's completely wrong. Most of the men I work with married other scientists. From my experience I would say successful men prefer successful women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:10 PM
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I'm a physicist so, yeah lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:09 PM
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Plenty of people publish scientific papers. Literally everybody I work with has several publications
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:06 PM
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So you are unaware of the reproducibility crisis in psychology?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 10:02 AM
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I read the post. But by referring to it as fact you reveal your ignorance at the reproducibility issues with psych studies. Over 20 years after Sokal and you still aren't willing to vet those sources carefully, yeesh....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:41 AM
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I don't see why you think that comment is germane
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:23 AM
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Clearly you're not a scientist. Please stop posting data you can't interpret or understand correctly
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 04:05 AM
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Death grip is when you squeeze it too hard while jerking off, which can cause a loss of sensitivity over time. This leads to difficulty maintaining an erection during sex
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 01:36 PM
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Yes. Male prostitutes exist. Are you really that ignorant or are you being sarcastic?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:01 AM
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Guys on this sub are obsessed with Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 01:28 AM
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Dude FR
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:42 AM
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Sure. Just like they're free to assume you're an angry incel that's desperate to find reasons to hate women that don't want to fuck you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:42 AM
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It's clearly my opinion. This isn't a thesis defense
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:44 PM
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You immediately jump to an extreme to "prove" your case, then state a bunch of nonsense as fact. That's not a debate
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:35 PM
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Your assumptions are deeply flawed, but it's not my job to correct them. Are you asking me to change your mind? Or are you just bothered that I don't agree with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:24 PM
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I don't see a point in arguing with you. "Intellectually dishonest"? I'm speaking from my own experience. There's also different cultures that would change the dynamics, but I assumed OP was in the US. Either way, anyone that calls a woman a trash can because she's had multiple sex partners is not someone I'm going to waste time on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:15 PM
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Trash can? I thought we were discussing people. I don't date inanimate objects, so I can't comment on what standards one should have for trash cans they're romantically involved with
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:02 PM
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That's a great point. If you think there's enough redeeming qualities then invest in a relationship and see if you can both work together to make it work.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:01 PM
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I wouldn't be bothered by the number, but would probably not be interested in someone that wasted that much time. How would you get anything done?!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:57 AM
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That's different, because being in that industry severely impacts your future opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:52 AM
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Most people are into porn
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:48 AM
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That's from my experience. I've dated insecure guys when I was younger, and those were the only ones that ever cared. Every other man I've had a LTR with couldn't care less and never even asked, but I also never tried to hide anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:37 AM
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Cool theory. But I have seen a mile of dick and yet still, no STDs. If you're interested in learning more about diseases feel free to PM me. I study bacteria/phage interactions and would be glad to explain how infections occur and what you can do to prevent them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:34 AM
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Sure, you can say whatever you want, just like I'm allowed to speak from my own experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:31 AM
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I don't see a problem with judging those that judge others. Eye for an eye and all that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:07 AM
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How they pursue. They should be trying to impress you and want to talk to you all the time. If they're not crazy about you don't waste your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:52 AM
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First of all, only weak and insecure men actually care about how many guys you've slept with. Second, if this is continuously happening it sounds more like you're picking shit guys. Don't date shitty guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:43 AM
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You sound an awful lot like an AWALT guy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:37 AM
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I like the word "fancies" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:21 AM
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I became a physicist DESPITE the men in the field, not for them. I doubt this is actually a trend but rather another red pill fever dream
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:21 AM
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Perhaps I didn't make it clear: there are first dates with someone you already know through work or mutual friends, vs first dates with a someone you meet online (where they are essentially a stranger) and that does have a different element to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:16 AM
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Not all women want to get married, nor is there necessarily more risk for men that do. Plenty of men want to get married more than women do. Also, reread what I wrote. I didn't attack you, I just pointed out that you come across as a very unpleasant person in your comments. Most of the people that think "all men" or "all women" are horrible are usually just really bad at selecting mates. There's good and bad in every group
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:14 AM
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Women are "strong, independent, fully employed, and graduate college 4 women for every 3 men." So, why tf are men still paying for everything? They're not. I made more than my husband when we first met and paid for most of our dates. I enjoyed spending time with him and cared about him, so didn't want him to spend money he didn't really have. You're probably talking about first dates with someone you just met, and the reason men pay is because that's the social standard. Women typically pay a LO…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 10:17 AM
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You don't have to spend money if you're creative. Go fly kites or have a picnic. I think the bigger problem is some men allow themselves to become bitter and nobody likes that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 10:08 AM
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Women can be high earners but that doesn’t guarantee a good looking man. I don't know about that. Plenty of hot but poor dudes out there
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 09:45 AM
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Why do women want to get married so bad? Why is it such a big deal? I can tell you why men shouldn't do it. So, you tell me 1) why men should do it and 2) why women want them to. I think everyone would agree nobody wants to marry someone as bitter and delusional as you come across in your comments. Not all women want to get married, and you also assume that it's always a risk for the man and not the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 09:38 AM
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The internet was the worst thing to happen to humanity
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:54 AM
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This right here. Most people that think all men or all women are trash are usually just bad at choosing a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:17 AM
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You clearly have no idea what feminism is
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:00 AM
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Except most of what they spout is total bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:59 AM
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Exactly. Weak men want weaker women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:58 AM
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Why waste your time commenting back at what are clearly angry misogynists?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:56 AM
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You're legally an adult, but the brain doesn't finish developing until the age of 25 so mentally you're not an adult
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:52 AM
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Answer my question, would you tell a Woman who has saved herself, is an educated professional, and good with kids to marry a party guy who has slept around and isn't an educated professional? I would tell her that I don't think it's wise to automatically discount someone because they're not a professional or have a degree. Plenty of people don't go to college for reasons that have nothing to do with how intelligent they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 05:36 PM
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Do I think all women treat all men with respect? No. Do you think all men treat all women with respect?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 02:06 PM
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I mean, I think you sound bitter, hurt, and angry. Are those supposed to be attractive qualities? It sounds as if you think the only options are trashy women or virgins. I can assure you that's not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 02:02 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 01:52 PM
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Cool theory. You must be fun at parties
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 10:57 AM
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Yeah, your last meal should be somewhere entrees are like, $50
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 10:56 AM
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most people seem to just settle and divorce rates are 50%+. I've been in some older FB groups and its depressing to see people in their 50s and older talking about they never met the one Some people aren't willing to examine how they could be part of the problem, and I'm sure some people are unlucky. But from your responses I don't think you're one of those. I think you're probably meeting girls at bars or on tinder, and going for the hotter ones rather than screening for personality more. Nothi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 05:23 AM
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You shouldn't be in love with most women, that would mean you probably have some other problem. Maybe you're just not ready for a relationship? But I don't think that it's really the n count that's stopping you, I think you probably just haven't met the one yet. When you do you won't care about whatever happened before, you'll just suddenly realize you've been hanging out every day for several weeks and you're still not tired of her and you never want her to leave. Not falling for every woman yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 05:02 AM
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If that's how you see it that's your prerogative, but you're just limiting yourself. I don't see why you think you need to pay a woman to be with you, but I'm also not a normal person so there's that. I just think, imo, that you'll be more likely to find happiness if you let go of your self-imposed restrictions. Not every woman you date has to be a potential wife. Not every potential wife is going to check all the boxes on your list. You can also learn a lot about yourself in a relationship that…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:54 AM
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My husband was like that when we first met. You can't just shake that off, but focus on having positive experiences and not wasting time on people that display bad character. When we first started dating he said some really cringy, horrible things to me (my favorite was "you're 30 and not married? What's wrong with you?" Lol) but he was always willing to discuss things and was ALWAYS honest with me, brutally honest. Since that's the most important thing to me, it was easy to overlook the faux pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:43 AM
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Lmao I didn't realize it was a dude
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:32 AM
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Every other relationship I had always felt like work, but now 99% of the time it doesn't. I never thought it was possible to have a relationship like this tbh, so maybe you just haven't met your person yet. One of my friends recently got married to her second husband. I never understood why she married the first one, but now it's clear that this is the man she was meant for. Some people find it early and good for them, but it's also perfectly possible you'll meet your soul mate later on. My mom …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:32 AM
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Experience is the best teacher
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:22 AM
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Yeah, from your other comments I get the impression you're more disappointed than angry at women. I hope you find what you're looking for one day. It's nice to have a partner. For me, it's like a sleepover with my bestie every night. It's funny because he wasn't what I ever thought I would end up with, which is why I think it's good to keep meeting people until you find someone you don't ever want to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:22 AM
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The thing is, when you have a laundry list like that you're really restricting your options. I never thought I would seriously date, let alone marry, my husband. I just thought he was cute and fun and we would hang out until we got tired of each other and that was almost 10 years ago. Sometimes you have to just see what's out there and stop thinking that every person you date has to be "the one". You're more likely to find what you're looking for when you're not looking
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:14 AM
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Probably both. Try to look back, and also think about women you maybe would've dated but didn't really pursue for some reason you can't quite remember. One of my friends is tragically attracted to LOSERS (honestly, they're always super gross) and can't understand why she never has great relationships. But she has never considered any of the great guys she's met. She'd rather simp for some drug dealer with no future that treats her like shit. She just can't see it. Most aren't that bad, but I've …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:11 AM
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Whenever one of us starts getting too pudgy we both support each other, by making healthier meals and working out together. If you're a couple there shouldn't be "your" problems, only "our" problems imo. Often drastic changes in appearance mean there's other problems, like too much stress or depression. Making more time for each other helps that too, since we both really enjoy each others company
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:06 AM
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So true. My husband won't let me touch him if he feels bloated too lol. The holidays are not a sexy time for us
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:58 AM
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That's a big issue for a lot of people that have problems with relationships. They tend to be attracted to a certain type of person, and usually not ones that are great at relationships or at least not compatible with them. Have you ever looked back at what the women you dated had in common? Personality wise, I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:57 AM
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Do you generally refer to women you respect as sluts? That's what made me think you don't respect them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:55 AM
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If she's under 25 and dating over 30 it makes sense. Your income grows as you age, and if you're trading in the best years of your life you should try to maximize your investment. I would never feel comfortable depending on anyone and don't like old dudes so I make my own money lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:46 AM
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Yeah this is a problem I've noticed with a lot of guys. I think TV or movies or something has given them the idea that if you're not sleeping with a different beautiful woman every other night you're failing at life. It's sad because focusing on that makes it much more difficult to have a meaningful relationship. It's worse for men because their friendships don't usually have a lot of intimacy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:42 AM
2

That's really sad. Is it that you just don't feel a connection with many women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:37 AM
1

You never considered that maybe you just don't seek out women you're compatible with?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:35 AM
6

The fact that you'll have sex with people you don't respect and then judge others for having sex is the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:33 AM
3

This is such a great response. Most of the guys on here have too much rage to treat ANY woman with respect
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:27 AM
6

I have a high sex drive, but if I haven't had it for a while it just kind of goes away. I've had several year + long dry spells. I once also gained a ton of weight after I broke my foot, and couldn't feel comfortable being naked in front of anyone until I lost it again (many many months after that when my foot had healed and I finished physical therapy). Even now I won't have sex if I feel out of shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:26 AM
22

Maybe she's just busy or lazy or doesn't want to get murdered.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:18 AM
11

People are usually just products of their environment. If they've been told since birth that sex is dirty and wrong they'll usually keep that mindset and judge everyone that doesn't conform to their standard as less than human.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:18 AM
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No, it's entirely possible that people are individuals and just have different libidos. My husband has no need for any Madonnas. Just whores like me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:14 AM
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After 8 years I definitely want my husband more than he wants me idk what you're talking about. I'd happily ride him twice a day if he'd let me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 11:09 PM
1

A healthy relationship makes both people better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:02 AM
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Your negativity is definitely not going to help anything. No relationship is ever perfectly 50/50, but BOTH people need to put in the work. However, on average women definitely put more work into relationships. They're usually the ones managing the home, kids (if applicable), and socializing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:00 AM
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Most relationships don't work out. When you find your person you'll enjoy most of the time you spend together. Sounds like these women weren't it. Doesn't mean anybody is doing anything wrong, other than staying together when it's clearly not working. Leaving is hard, but when you're unhappy more than you're happy it's time to split. That said, entering into a relationship thinking the other person is trying to scam you isn't conducive to a healthy relationship. Try not to become bitter and cyni…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 08:44 AM
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Yeah, I think it's awkward. I like the tension when you're both really close and you know he wants to but you're playing a little coy, and asking totally ruins that for me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 02:52 AM
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Yeah, I expect a man to pay for the first date. I'll do the whole "reach for my wallet" thing but if he agrees to split the check I take it as a sign he's not that into me. If I don't like him, I'll just pay for my shit and leave. If I like him then on the next date I'll give the server my card before we get the check and tell them to put it on my card when he asks for the check. I did do that once when a few of his friends ended up going to the same place, and he ordered a round of shots, then …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 02:49 AM
2

Lmao valid point
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 02:41 AM
2

Going in for a kiss and getting a "no" is not an assault. Stop throwing that word around.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 02:39 AM
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This is the way
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 02:36 AM
1

You don't speak for all of us. I hate it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 02:35 AM
1

He disappears then you get a ransom note
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 10:36 AM
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I'm the reason he stayed playing rugby, actually. He wasn't allowed to play sports growing up, so I brought him along to rugby practice and he ended up liking it. I also taught him how to change a tire and fold pants. Also, 5'10" is just barely above average. The guy I was dating before him was 5'7" (my height lol). I think guys overestimate how much women care about height the same way women overestimate how much men care about boobs
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 02:18 AM
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"Lofty standards" means average? Do you expect women to have no standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 11:23 AM
1

I met my husband in calc 3. Now he tells all his nephews that math class is the best place to pick up chicks
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 03:27 AM
1

Successful men usually don't want to date unsuccessful women, unless they have mommy issues (like most of the men on this sub)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 03:23 AM
1

Women don't want those guys anyways so who cares what they're into? They're still going to die angry and alone
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 03:21 AM
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I'm so sure you wish that were true
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 03:18 AM
1

Church is a great place to meet people....unless you're trying to meet intelligent people
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 03:11 AM
1

Well yeah, if they're complaining about not getting laid or being single that would be the most obvious solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 03:09 AM
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5' 10" and he's a programmer so.... He's actually starting to get into yardwork now, and he used to play rugby but it's been a while since he's been on a pitch
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 03:08 AM
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Doesn't matter how many studies it's based on, the whole field has major issues
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 11:22 AM
1

What benefits do men offer women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 11:13 AM
1

Well yeah, like dissolves like. I'm a physicist and my husband is a software engineer. My sister studied music, her husband studied art.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 11:10 AM
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https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/psychology-s-credibility-crisis-the-bad-the-good-and-the-ugly/ You shouldn't have too much faith in psych studies
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 10:38 AM
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I've lived in Georgia for a while and the men there are all uneducated, misogynist, rapey, bitter, hairy creeps that drink too much and beat their wives
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 10:19 AM
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What opportunities? Most people are looking for someone to love. You find someone you click with and that's your person. It's literally that simple. There's no lost opportunity just because you're older. You just date other older people, and probably don't have as much sex with random people. But my mom wasn't that type; she's religious
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:46 AM
4

What are you trying to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:36 AM
0

What else do you mean when you refer to SMV?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:33 AM
3

I was summarizing. That's how your whole diatribe sounds
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:32 AM
4

Plenty of women aren't gorgeous. If you're a 5 you get a 5. Women aren't all idiots chasing the same 10 dudes either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:31 AM
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Lower your standards enough and you'll never have a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:29 AM
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Ok but this is true for all people, without needing romantic interests to motivate. It just makes life more enjoyable when you have something you enjoy doing and especially when you have someone to do it with that feels the same. If you're doing something ONLY to find romantic partners then it'll feel like work. Find stuff you like to do for it's own sake. I'm obsessed with plants, and recently built a coop and got some chickens. It's nice to have a partner that's also excited when a new plant s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:26 AM
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But you're over 25 so you're clearly lying and refuse to accept the reality that you're a dried up old hag with no chance of happiness because the men you spurned when you were human can't even see you anymore and just laugh at you as they drunk their scotch on a boat with their endless parade of 18 - 24 year olds. You should know that some stranger on the internet knows that you're really SAD AND MISERABLE because you enjoyed your youth instead of getting married and now must die alone, eaten b…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:12 AM
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Some men, sure. But people will ruin themselves with all sorts of things. I remember some lady that was addicted to eating deodorant on "my weird addiction"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:05 AM
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Yeah, but do you think it would be with someone so bitter? It's a positive feedback cycle for negative emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:00 AM
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More so for men, since women live longer than men do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 02:40 AM
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Hey, don't be so hard on yourself! I think the media has given people and unrealistic expectation for what dating is like. I've always had a thing for nerds. I met my husband in multivariable calculus lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 02:21 AM
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No way you're dating a woman with any self respect if this is how you view women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 02:11 AM
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It's really gross and disturbing that you think that the only thing a woman has to offer is her youth. And for me who don't want them anymore, but would have if she gave him a chance in her youth, it's just fun to call them out. This right here is the issue. You're still hurt from the constant rejection you faced in your own youth, and now you're bitter and angry. Assuming you're now more attractive and financially stable, I still can't imagine any quality woman wasting her time with you. That's…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 02:06 AM
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Prince charming is clearly a man that cooks and cleans and takes care of the kids so the woman can focus on her career and fulfill her role as the provider. He also takes care of himself, doing yoga and pilates to keep it nice and tight so he can plow out all the stress from your high-paying job when you get home.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 02:00 AM
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Depends. Most people have close friends with whom they are much more honest. I have a bunch of politically incorrect views I would never share with most people but don't hold back at all when I'm with my close friends. I believe most people are the same. This is especially true of female relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 01:53 AM
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Ah, another example of why people think you're bitter af. It's all because of women! They don't have sex with the men you find acceptable and it's ruining society!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 01:51 AM
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But the fact is you're wrong. It happens all the time. You just refuse to accept that and that's why people think you're bitter. It sounds super bitter
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 01:49 AM
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More importantly, the dating pool is infinite. My mom married a lovely gentleman she met in her late 50's. They've been married for almost a decade now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 01:47 AM
2

How are you collecting your data?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 10:33 AM
2

Have you seen him lately? He does not look good anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 10:31 AM
4

I'm a woman dating a man 11 years younger than I, who also makes 6 figures. I don't see your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 10:30 AM
1

Freud was wrong about most things
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 10:44 AM
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It's hard to believe that they don't hate women when most of their comments are full of hate for women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 10:43 AM
1

So you prefer to date children. Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 10:29 AM
4

No
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:08 AM
2

Why should that matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 10:25 AM
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There is a huge problem with these people not understanding how to interpret a study or understand the limitations. They also look for anything that validates their worldview but reject anything outside that. It's definitely NOT science
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 10:24 AM
1

That's a sampling bias. You're just attracted to immature women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 10:20 AM
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Yes but not with them which is why they're so salty
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 10:56 PM
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Anybody that says that all men/women are trash just doesn't know how to pick quality men/women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 09:25 AM
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The amount of bad science on this thread is astounding. It's as if people with no math or science background can't correctly interpret data or something. Shocking
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 08:41 PM
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https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/10538712.2014.870275 There's research that supports my claim but I'm mostly speaking from experience. I used to be a teacher and I've know 3 men that slept with students. Of those, only 1 saw jail time and it was less than a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 05:41 AM
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But only because this is one of the few cases to get any media. Male teachers abusing their students is so common it rarely makes the news; my point being that in THAT sense it's actually much less fair to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 05:28 AM
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Plenty of men get off too, like this gem. https://www.mic.com/articles/61299/meet-the-judge-who-just-gave-a-30-day-sentence-to-a-teacher-who-repeatedly-raped-his-14-year-old-student
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 05:05 AM
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Depends on age. If he's a child, absolutely. Grown ups shouldn't be fucking teenagers. If he is an adult but doesn't have other opportunities and is dependent on her, probably but that's at least an adult making a decision and he shouldn't be stigmatized for it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:44 AM
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It's the reason why nobody really cares that much if a 35 year old female public school teacher is caught boinking a 14 year old boy, whereas the reverse situation calls for crucifixion. And yet, I can recall several female teachers there plastered all over the news for doing exactly that (most of which went to jail) and yet not so for any men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:40 AM
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More importantly, I don't want to spend time with someone so negative and shallow. A marriage should be a partnership where you both support each other. Right now my man just quit his job because he was miserable and I'm supporting us. I love my job and want him to have the same satisfaction. If he never goes back to work I'd be fine with that too, since I hate taking care of the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 11:42 PM
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Probably because they're not the sort of a man a woman WOULD love lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 11:35 PM
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But do you both love your mechanic? If you do, they would probably love some 10 mm sockets
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 09:15 AM
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No. It's more common for a man to mistake love for obsession. I've had 3 stalkers and it's super creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 09:05 AM
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I believe qiturbitchn wasn't talking about what women want but about what kind of relationship a father will have with his kids
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 08:53 PM
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You really don't know how to interpret a study
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 10:01 AM
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The planet is way too overpopulated. All the people crying about the economy don't seem to know or care about anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 11:45 PM
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Oh, so you agree these "studies" are useless. Thank you. It's also very clear that you have no idea how to analyze data, since binning your data just means sorting it into groups, which is what literally all these do. If you're interested in learning something, I'd be happy to teach you some basic stats. You should also brush up on your reading comprehension since I said that people generally choose mates that have the same views regarding sex. I think that more secure men have faith in their ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 04:52 AM
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What I'm saying is that traits cluster together. You're trying to say the same thing but don't know how to bin your data. All things being equal, why would you care about someone's sexual past? You're correlating other factors as if one is always indicative of the other, but then the statistics you supply don't even back your claim. You don't mention where you got those numbers, but let's go ahead and assume they're accurate. Are you including women that have a lot of partners because of abuse o…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:16 AM
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Women talk. But from my experience there's a definite type of man that cares, and they're not anyone I'd ever want to be with. I'm a scientist, and I tend to only date educated guys that are very secure. The guys that I've met that care about that sort of stuff (not including sexual health, obviously) tend to be religious, inexperienced, insecure, and/or looking to start a family. I have zero interest in any of that. Most of my guy friends also have no issues dating women that have been epically…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 02:14 AM
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Plenty of women have many sexual partners then settle down. Others might opt for open relationships. Some never want to get married. A better question is why you are so triggered by that? You come across as very bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:46 AM
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if only the strongest males are allowed to pass genes then how does this eliminate subpar genes later down the line with men? Women are not all part of some hive mind. What some consider optimal others would find abhorrent. There's nothing that says women are selecting stronger men; they're just more selective meaning that out of 100 guys the average woman might choose 2 whereas the average man would choose 50 out of 100 women. (Those are random numbers. I'm not saying those are actual statistic…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:34 AM
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Yeah, but most women don't want to date the kind of guys that care, hence not a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:26 AM
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You're confusing phenotype and genotype for one. The same guy will have very different outcomes being raised by a nice, rich family vs "the streets" for example. Also, it would take more than just mate selection. For example, if all the "best" genes make the individual that carries them take greater risks and die at much higher rates then there will be selective pressure against those genes. And then there's epigenetics, where gene expression is modulated by the environment. That's a whole other…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:59 AM
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The species. "Men" are still same species as women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:45 AM
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Does it work? I would love to see more women in physics.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:43 AM
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Basically, we don't have that much selective pressure so we're mostly in genetic equilibrium. The effects you're seeing are the result of the fact that men can father 1000000 children in the time it takes a woman to have 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:33 AM
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Easier in the workplace is VERY dependent on the workplace. If you're saying that I'm going to guess you're not a physicist
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:07 AM
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So many things wrong here. Clearly you've never heard of hardy weinberg.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:06 AM
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It is that common, and the girls claiming they never do that are insecure and desperate for approval. I've never dated a guy I hadn't fucked on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 10:51 PM
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Nobody is blaming men, just pointing out that they shouldn't complain and judge women for the choices they make.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 10:47 PM
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Nope. I have a very significant sample size. Best age for men in bed is definitely early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:55 AM
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Lmao this is 10000% not true. Young guys can go all night but no over 40 year old is doing that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:17 AM
0

You're expelled? Seems the point is moot then
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