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You are not alone brother. I feel the same way my friend, but after some counseling I realized I'm built for this s***. I will not beg for someone to love me. As my upbringing was pretty gnarly. My Father is hopefully burning in hell currently. My Mom I forgave but no longer speak to or see. See I learned for me that lack of love and trust in my young life and early 20s had me yearning for love and a safe place and once I had it and was married, I fumbled the bag. I didn't love myself. I used he…
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/26 12:14 AM
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Completely not . My childhood traumas prepared me to be unloved. 7 yrs alone by choice. I have calm, peace and safety. I'm not lonely. I find comfort in my solitude.
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/25 02:09 AM
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This. Everything related to the marriage keepsakes and such need to go to the kids or at least save for them. If kids are involved you both are still mom and dad and they have a right to keep or trash let them decide when of age.
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/25 01:30 PM
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It's great when the exes parents still love the shit of you though. Still trying to make sure I have everything I need. Been divorced 8+ years
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/25 10:38 PM
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This ! I've suffered from it since my early 20s (mid 40s now) and stopped drinking and now living with it. Coming up on 5 years alcohol free ( I 420). Get in tune with your body, breathing. Work on spiritual growth. For me it makes it easier and helps to stay in the present time and not dwell on the past. I take an anti depressant as a last option. I still battle it but in a completely healthy way like meditation and remembering that I am nothing more than a little electric pulse. My thoughts an…
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/25 12:29 PM
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Please go volunteer at places needing help like habitat for humanity, local food banks, volunteer time to help others and you'll find it.
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/25 01:37 AM
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Women, hate this one life hack. Logic 😂
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/25 11:43 PM
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Car crash.
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/25 02:08 AM
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💀
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/25 10:18 PM
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Always blows my mind when one parent wants to do whatever is convenient for themselves and assumes one-sided decision is final.👏 Bravo brother, keep being a great father.
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/25 04:42 PM
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I didn't say how to get there that one you gotta be responsible for how long you need a cell
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/25 05:49 AM
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Stop paying go to jail get free room,food and sex.
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/25 09:52 PM
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If you are triggered during certain situations, good on you for recognizing that. You should go talk to a therapist. Rope that shit in before you new marriage takes a shit. Good luck 👍
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/25 12:44 PM
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No reason to bring it up. Confirmation she is moving on and so should you. Focus should be being the best Father you can possibly be. Your kids love you and that's all that matters at the end of the day.
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/25 04:38 PM
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Counseling/ Therapist. Men losing themselves in a relationship is a real thing. Therapy helped me realize I was really searching for inner peace. Not happiness. Once I found peace and acceptance within. This may or may not be helpful but I just thought you should hear me. Good luck brother.
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/25 10:21 PM
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I'm in the ”i got 99 problems” phase
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/25 01:07 AM
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I told my ex to take it all, it meant nothing to me. Getting my life back was all I wanted. Pretty sure I the wind out of her sails when I said that, she knew I didn't give 2 shits. Good luck brother.
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/25 02:51 AM
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If you fear abuse by her, I would have an officer there while you serve her with the papers.
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/25 02:37 AM
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