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-1

It is a bad idea if that's your only perspective, but it doesn't mean it's wrong. We could use many perspectives to understand human behavior and they should complement each other.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/26 09:53 PM
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You're completely wrong, and a wall of text won't change that. There's nothing inherently redpill about using economics to understand patterns in dating. If you argue that you can't use averages to analyse subject with unique attributes, then you just killed all human sciences. I'm no redpill, I'm no incel, and I hate that shit as any other reasonable person, but I don't have to deny reality to make my point. Being attractive to a bigger pool of people increases your chances of finding someone w…
/r/ExRedPill02/04/26 03:18 AM
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You don't have to deny that there are multiple ways to be attractive, but when you're talking about a population, you can observe patterns and trends. Of course some people like older women, but ON AVERAGE, younger women will attract more men. Increasing your value in the dating market is all about trying to be the most attractive to the most people you're interest in. You can objectively measure that in many ways, too.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/26 02:40 AM
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How do you square this view with all the shy guys out there who have girlfriends? Whatever your issue is, it's not being a little shy.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/26 08:48 PM
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Nah, I've seen studies where they show that women have a higher "disgust" baseline. That means it's harder to attract them. Also, women rate men's looks lower than men rate women's looks.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/26 09:31 PM
-1

All the data I've seen points to the idea that women have a higher standard than men and think most men are unattractive, instead of a normal bell curve.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/26 08:57 PM
1

In case you’re wondering why women aren’t into you, it’s because they can smell this type of behavior a mile away. They do not, unfortunately, but OP is probably really bad at concealing it.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/26 05:22 AM
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Is it possible to still have good, meaningful experiences in your 20s after university, especially if you didn’t have much of a social life during it? Absolutely. I'm not from the US, and we don't really have the expectation of your years of college being crazy. Sure, people have fun, go to parties, but you can always do that. I would say you should focus on being less socially isolated, and things should sort themselves. Focus on your anxiety and self-esteem above all.
/r/ExRedPill24/07/25 03:08 PM
7

Women actually prefer less masculine facial features.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/25 11:44 PM
4

Testosterone doesn't help you with female attraction. Girls actually find guys with very masculine faces less attractive than guys with more feminine faces. Testosterone can help you with your physique, but you can easily achieve an athletic body optimized for the female gaze without exogenous test, so it's a shortcut at best in that regard.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/25 11:43 PM
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No, but good men can sustain long, intimate relationships, which in turn often lead to boredom and lack of desire. Esther Perel explains it very well, check her out.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/25 03:34 PM
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Right. And it makes sense that good husbands will lead to longer and more intimate relationships, which lead to boredom and longing for something new. The novelty that women are now also leaving marriage is likely linked to economic freedom and less taboo in divorce.
/r/ExRedPill01/05/25 09:59 PM
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I'm married and I also envy people who have had a lot of sexual experiences. I mainly try to avoid hearing about it, since it triggers me. If I were single I would also be actively trying to increase my chances of having those experiences, but I assume you already do that.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/24 09:04 PM
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"Soulmate" is not a thing.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/24 07:16 PM
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Why do you think there's nothing special about sexual abundance? I'm married and I crave it.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/24 02:45 PM
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Men are horny as fuck.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/24 01:41 AM
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I don't think you need to tell him. He will eventually be forced to go for more "normal" looking girls or stay single forever. But yeah, "leagues" are definitely a thing. Some people are simply more conventionally attractive than others, although there's also a lot of room for subjectivity.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/24 02:40 PM
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He doesn't want a date, he wants to cash on his appearance and not have to work. That's indeed much easier as a women, but most women don't want that anyways.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/24 11:04 PM
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I wouldn't.
/r/ExRedPill23/06/24 04:34 PM
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I can say that I never met such a person.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/24 04:24 AM
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True.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/24 08:32 PM
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It's safe to assume that a guy who is complaining on the internet about not being able to find girls is not hot, and given that we see average or ugly guys in relationships all the time, there's probably some improvements to be made in the social skills/personality front as well.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/24 08:23 PM
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Spot on. It's not the 'being an asshole' part that is attracting the girls, it's the looks and social skills.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/24 06:54 PM
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If you're jacked and good-looking, you can be a douchbag and still get laid. Are you jacked and good-looking?
/r/ExRedPill31/03/24 06:51 PM
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"Height as a selector is a biproduct of shallow people with nothing to offer and dating apps that make more money by keeping people coming back to the app." "What's the point though? You're not trying to date all women." "just helps them weed out the ones not deep enough to buck prescribed notions of "manly"." These just came across as dismissive to me, especially when we know that heightism affects people in way more aspects of life than dating. You wouldn't respond to fatfobia or racism with "…
/r/ExRedPill30/03/24 12:32 AM
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What's the point? You're the one arguing. I just said that the graph looks plausible. Would you be dismissing this issue as unimportant if this was about how black features are seen as less attractive, fatfobia, or beauty standards that mostly affect women? Honestly, I don't think you would. Just like men should know how to listen and empathize with women's issues, I think it would be good for you to try to just listen and understand when it's men talking about how gender roles affect us for a c…
/r/ExRedPill29/03/24 11:17 PM
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Ok, lurid, it doesn't change the fact that most girls have preferences for taller guys and don't like guys shorter than them. Ask any short guy and they will tell you that they have been rejected for their height. I know that because I have experienced it. You don't have to be an incel to acknowledge that being shorter make you less attractive to girls What incels will do is say that being short will prevent you from ever finding a girl. That's the part that is not true.
/r/ExRedPill29/03/24 10:27 PM
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Doesn't look too farfetched to me, considering it's from the US where height for men is very important and the population is somewhat tall.
/r/ExRedPill29/03/24 10:09 PM
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Why? It sounds plausible to me that 91% of women would accept to date a 6'2" guy. The 9% who wouldn't are probably short girls who wouldn't like a massive height difference.
/r/ExRedPill29/03/24 10:04 PM
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Wouldn't this apply for everyone on earth but the most handsome guy alive?
/r/ExRedPill16/03/24 03:20 PM
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I don't think you can extrapolate the findings about 355 young American college students to all women on Earth. But I've heard this is not an uncommon fantasy.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/24 01:33 AM
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I don't think this has anything to do with redpill, but your perception is accurate. When there's a leak, if the penis is big, it causes stir, if it's average, nobody cares, if it's small, the guy is bullied. The truth is that in our culture women get turned on by bigger penises. Everyone knows that. Girls will pretty much always pick bigger than average if they can choose in vacuum, and there's research showing that penis size can improve how attractive girls rate a body model. But it's also tr…
/r/ExRedPill07/02/24 04:24 PM
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It only makes sense to bring someone into your life if they're going to improve it. He says he's average in looks, but from all he said he probably reeks of desperation and resentment. Maybe he has poor communication and social skills, or it could be many other things. Being average in looks has never stopped men from having relationships, just look around you. The truth is that he doesn't look like he's bringing anything to the table other than looking average, and he then blames girls for skip…
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 01:41 AM
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What do you call "genuinely attracted"?
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 11:33 PM
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My point is that average women will easily find men willing to use her body for their own pleasure. What you don't seem to understand is that they are not very interested in being used.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 11:09 PM
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Can you show me where you got this quote from?
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 11:01 PM
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pro tip: thinking that you know better than women about their own experience doesn't make you very attractive in their eyes.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 10:46 PM
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No, they can't. They can easily find men wanting to get easy sex. If you actually hear what women have to say, you would know.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 10:43 PM
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for an average woman is relatively easy to find a man that finds her attractive *enough to use her for sex whenever he feels like it FTFY
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 09:49 PM
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Your problem is that you think you are competing with other men, while in reality, you are competing with them being left alone in peace. They are not refusing your advances because they think they're hotter than they are, but because they think they're better off without you, and they're okay being alone. You are probably worse than nothing at the moment, so focus on improving yourself, not blaming the women for not wanting you.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 09:45 PM
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Nah, if a girl is beautiful she won't have any problem securing a man in a long-term relationship. It's really easy for them. The problem is that red-pillers extrapolate the experience of beautiful women to women in general. Average and below-average looking women are the ones who struggle to find serious relationships. Guys might want them as friends with benefits for hook-ups, but they're not willing to give up their chances of getting a better-looking girl by engaging in a relationship with t…
/r/ExRedPill09/01/24 03:04 AM
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It's usually well-off guys who date girls half their age. Why do girls do that? Because it's a big improvement in their lives, usually.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/24 01:06 AM
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Your marriage is not a data set but just an anecdote. It’s meaningless and not evidence of anything. I never claimed it was evidence of anything, but it's proof that someone can control access to something that requires two willing people. ​ I am a woman and have had guys turn me down. I will quote from my first paragraph again since you chose to ignore it: "Nobody is saying that men CANNOT decline sex, just that USUALLY it's women who get to say when it's happening or not."
/r/ExRedPill16/12/23 02:01 AM
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You have a good point, albeit we'd have to resort to rather extreme examples for the distinction to have significance. I think in the end the spontaneous urge for sex is what makes a difference in practice, it's what actively shapes people's behaviors and intentions. Also, the fact that responsive and spontaneous desire is gender-biased makes the evo psych framework even stronger. Women are generally more responsive as opposed to spontaneous because being a gatekeeper for sex is the best sexual …
/r/ExRedPill13/12/23 10:05 PM
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Just because it's technically true, doesn't mean it's relevant. Nobody is saying that men CANNOT decline sex, just that USUALLY it's women who get to say when it's happening or not. For example, I could decline sex to my wife, but I have never done so. Why? Because I want sex every day and she is perfectly happy with once per week. So, isn't it true that she is the one controlling access to sex?
/r/ExRedPill13/12/23 07:24 PM
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But why are you assuming that sex drive and spontaneous desire are different things? I don't think that's accurate at all. Basically, the common dea of sex drive (and the dictionary definition) is the urge to have sex, which is pretty much what spontaneous desire is. So when people say men have a higher sex drive than women, that's exactly what they mean, that men have a higher urge for sex. However, it's still totally valid to understand that women's and men's sexuality is often different in th…
/r/ExRedPill13/12/23 07:20 PM
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But the main idea is generally true simply because that's the gender roles in our society, that's how we are socialized to be. Girls are taught from early on to expect Prince Charming, to be the chosen, and boys soon learn that being cool means being desired and conquering woman.
/r/ExRedPill13/12/23 07:11 PM
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This is spot on. Redpillers always say that young women are preferable because older women are full of "trauma". What they actually mean is that they have been fooled by men already, and won't be fooled again as easily.
/r/ExRedPill08/11/23 10:49 PM
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There are plenty of men who date older women. You're not much older than he is, by the way. If you're contemplating sharing a future with him, I think you should really talk to him plain and simple about how this age gap is making you feel insecure and ask him what he thinks about it. Honestly, there's no better way to deal with this.
/r/ExRedPill08/11/23 10:46 PM
3

It does in your example, but I was answering the question of the title more broadly.
/r/ExRedPill07/11/23 09:44 PM
5

That's another issue, related to toxic relationships and how people get trapped in them.
/r/ExRedPill07/11/23 08:36 PM
28

No. Women like outgoing, interesting, funny, confident, smart, and handsome guys. It turns out that guys who are most of these can also be womanizers, manipulators, and sociopaths.
/r/ExRedPill07/11/23 03:08 PM
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Yeah, trans women are notorious for all the privileges they have in our society, right?
/r/ExRedPill05/11/23 04:30 PM
6

So OP is really asking why men would want the most beautiful women to like them? lol What a difficult question to answer...
/r/ExRedPill29/10/23 09:23 PM
10

Can you really call it a competition even if it doesn't directly involve competing, though?
/r/ExRedPill29/10/23 09:02 PM
1

If you've reached this age without success, you've almost certainly tried this and it hasn't worked. I wouldn't make this assumption.
/r/ExRedPill29/10/23 07:36 PM
16

I don't recall winning my partner in any competition. We were really good friends who fell in love. Where was the competition in that scenario?
/r/ExRedPill29/10/23 05:54 PM
4

Given that there are roughly as many men as women in our society and that most people engage in monogamous relationships, you can say that this "competition" you refer to is just trying to optimize your chance of having your interest in someone retributed. I don't think it's really wise to call it a "competition", though.
/r/ExRedPill29/10/23 05:52 PM
29

So you're basically saying that the root of your feeling is envy. Now that you know what you're feeling, it should be easier to understand and address it.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/23 08:32 PM
21

I think the best way to deal with this is to question the feeling. Why do you feel this way? Why do you feel more resentment towards women than men when it comes to sexual exploration?
/r/ExRedPill21/10/23 07:21 PM
11

Are they? That's what red pillers claim, but I don't see feminists really talking about that.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/23 06:18 PM
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They demand men to earn a good salary, to be tall, provide money, It's definitely not the feminists doing that.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/23 06:13 PM
9

I think you can have a healthy discussion about self-improvement as a man in r/MensLib
/r/ExRedPill20/08/23 03:45 PM
1

I think it does. Your comment was so accurate and thorough.
/r/ExRedPill18/08/23 12:58 AM
1

Honest question, are you a professional writer of any sort?
/r/ExRedPill17/08/23 08:09 PM
2

I think this should be pinned.
/r/ExRedPill16/08/23 09:32 PM
2

I'm not saying it contains no truth, I'm saying that your argument is flawed. We would have to discuss specific claims, as "red pill" in general is too broad.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/23 02:49 PM
6

Do you realize there are currently millions of people who think the earth is flat?
/r/ExRedPill13/08/23 10:58 PM
7

It looks like you have to invite him to leave your life.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/23 01:41 AM
2

I'm not saying that most bisexual women prefer men, I'm saying that many straight women can have a bisexual experience.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/23 02:42 AM
0

That's definitely one reason, but I don't think it's likely that they have exactly one lesbian relationship and that's it. I think many try it and realize they like men better. One of them told me exactly that, that although she liked it, she felt that something was missing when she was with a girl.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/23 02:28 AM
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I'm not saying there's anything wrong with lesbian relationships, but sometimes it's just not for them. I personally know many girls who have had relationships with women in the past, usually when they were young, and they didn't last long, and they went back to dating men. Sometimes it's just an experience, there's nothing wrong with that.
/r/ExRedPill08/08/23 01:51 PM
-1

Is this my red pill mind getting in the way of commiting to a great girl? Or is this a red flag? Yes. No. Seriously, there are SO MANY girls in this generation that have had experiences with other girls. It's usually short-lived and they go back to men. This means nothing, seriously. Be happy.
/r/ExRedPill08/08/23 03:38 AM
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It depends on the details of this hypothetical scenario. This would have to be studied by sociologists and anthropologists, and they could come up with possible explanations for this behavior change, and then this knowledge could be taken into account when designing public policies.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/23 08:57 PM
-1

If people suddenly start having 50% less sex than the previous generation, is that because everyone was born with a particular mutation that made them behave in that way, or is that because of societal changes that can be understood and addressed from the societal level?
/r/ExRedPill04/08/23 05:53 PM
1

It is for me, I'm not going to lie. I don't think I could be mentally healthy if I was able to score zero.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/23 05:50 PM
0

Women don't like assholes, they like good-looking confident interesting men, and those are just more likely to be assholes because they know they have options and had it easy their entire lives. Women will pick a good-looking confident interesting nice man over an asshole one every single time, so instead just focus on getting more handsome, more interesting and more confident.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/23 10:32 PM
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I don't think the idea is that men age better than women, but that the things that are generally considered proxies of the value of a person in our society are less dependent on youth for men than it is for women. Women are often valued romantically for their looks and youth, while men are often valued for their status and success. Youth is given, while status and financial success may take a while to acquire for most men, so it's reasonable to argue that men and women reach their "peak" value a…
/r/ExRedPill01/08/23 10:24 PM
1

Fixing inequality by reversing the inequality on the other side still results in inequality. What is more important, formal abstract equality or equality in the real-world outcomes? What's punitive about separating one metro car for women to feel safe? If you ask me, the real punitive action is to let women keep being harassed and sexually abused in the metro because of an abstract notion of equality that serves only the abusers.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/02/22 05:29 PM
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Yes, given that our society is already unequal, formal abstract equality leads to the maintenance of unequal outcomes. This is not hard at all to understand.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/02/22 08:02 PM
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Equality is everyone being able to not feel violated and threatened. If this requires a safe space for a particular group, so be it. In Brazil, they created a special metro car only for women, because women were commonly being groped and harassed, which end up greatly reducing the cases and improving safety for them. If you didn't take into account the reality of the world and the inequality that already exists, you would end up supporting sex offenders and perverts in the name of abstract equal…
/r/PussyPassDenied18/02/22 02:53 PM
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Are men sexually assaulted and violated as often as women? If not, this comparison is just stupid.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/02/22 12:37 AM
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