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Read the initial post. I added a link with his additional comment where he clearly says she cheated on him. I know it's easier to portray the guy as a monster and not a victim, but the monster here is the girl's father and her mother. Could he take the child as his daughter despite everything? -Yes. Is he morally obligated to do it? -absolutely no.
/r/MensRights11/08/25 09:16 PM
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In this case, the mother cheated on OP and now is guilty shamming into being the father of her daughter. If keeping the guy around was so important why did she cheat on him? How is this guy the bad person of this story?
/r/MensRights11/08/25 01:50 PM
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And after becoming officially his daughter, she is going to make his life unbearable including telling the girl he is nothing and not really her father. The fact that people see him as the bad guy and not the cheating terrible mother tells a lot about the world we live in.
/r/MensRights11/08/25 01:39 PM
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It seems she already moved on and has a "new" guy (the one she cheated OP with) so they probably want more stuff from him. Another classic.
/r/MensRights11/08/25 01:31 PM
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I get your point, but he should assume a father figure but if she needs an expensive medical bill he should refuse it? How does this work exactly? Because being a father is not only about hugs.
/r/MensRights11/08/25 01:06 PM
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The usual reddit stuff.
/r/MensRights11/08/25 12:59 PM
3

Precisely.
/r/MensRights11/08/25 12:59 PM
2

The generational differences start with the normalization of single parenting. When I was in school it was rare to see a kid with divorced parents - today this can be the majority in some areas. The problem starts here. You should not have children with losers (this applies for both genders). The issues that the newer generations of men have been facing are the following: bad and trashy guys do whatever they want, and because they have very little to lose, there are few consequences. nice, decen…
/r/MensRights11/08/25 12:17 PM
10

Precisely. No one would even dare to say you need to pay anything for them - it doesn't mean you can't or wouldn't, no one would say this is your obligation.
/r/MensRights11/08/25 11:51 AM
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I don't think he is pulling the victim card, the mother is doing this.
/r/MensRights11/08/25 10:51 AM
7

He is not the father. The fact that he is the only father figure the child met is her father's and mother's responsibility, not OPs.
/r/MensRights11/08/25 10:49 AM
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You clearly got triggered about this. I wonder why. But apart from our feelings about the specific case, the reason why I shared this is because it's a perfect example of why dating single mothers is an utter mistake. This was a predicted result. Mothers have children with losers. The next guy needs to be "the man" and assume responsibilities they never demanded from the guy they chose to father their children. Is the child a victim? - absolutely. But primarily she is the victim of the loser's b…
/r/MensRights11/08/25 10:47 AM
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I don't disagree with this part. But how about this dude's suffering? What is going to happen in 4 or 5 years, after he paid for everything and treated her as a daughter, she says "you're not my father, you can't tell me what to do", or, if the mother finds someone more well off and decides she doesn't want him in the child's life? I feel that everyone is always considering everyone's problems except what men feel about it. Men commit suicide 3 times more than women and there are reasons for tha…
/r/MensRights11/08/25 09:58 AM
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The same people blaming OP for not wanting to be part of this child's future, would support the mother for deciding to not allow him to see the child anymore. They would assume the dude is "abusive", "cheated" or something worse. No one in the post is assuming they broke up for the mother initiative.
/r/MensRights11/08/25 09:54 AM
61

You dodged a huge bullet.
/r/MensRights11/08/25 09:51 AM
12

From personal experience I know that knowing the red flags is pretty easy, but a nice ass can make you ignore tons of things. Just. Don't.
/r/MensRights11/08/25 09:28 AM
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In Brazil this guy would be doomed to pay for everything until the child is an adult. Many women just collect multiple socio-affective payments and teach their kids to pretend to be attached to the new boyfriends. If I was living in Brazil I would cut my dick before dating a single mother.
/r/MensRights11/08/25 09:22 AM
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How can you separate the financial part from the emotional part of the issue? Being a father is not only about hugs. There is a strong financial part attached. What's happening if the child needs expensive healthcare or high education? When should the guy say "okay until now was fine but I'm not covering that because I'm not your father?" The decisions he takes now it's likely to be until she is an adult. At the same time, he can't say anything about her education, or make any decisions because …
/r/MensRights11/08/25 09:18 AM
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It's complicated, but it would help if we don't ignore red flags.
/r/MensRights11/08/25 09:09 AM
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I don't disagree, but how about OP? Today it's a zoo ticket, tomorrow full healthcare, and next day college education. When does it end? Should he become responsible for the child until she is an adult? And what happens when the mother says - I found another dude and you can't hangout with my (solo) daughter anymore? He has no legal rights over this child and can't demand anything. I feel sorry for the child because she has an absent father and a mother who couldn't make better choices, but I do…
/r/MensRights11/08/25 09:05 AM
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Often what happens is, the "new-father" tries to stay connected to the child but the ex will find another guy and doesn't want him there. This new father has no legal protection and can't demand any contact with the child of the mother doesn't want him there. In this case the mother needs his money, but I'm not sure she would want him there if the mother had an alternative, or if she will allow him to continue playing Daddy if she finds another dude. Maybe he would continue playing the father fi…
/r/MensRights11/08/25 09:02 AM
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Sometimes I visit your $#-+, but most of the time I don't go outside.
/r/MensRights10/08/25 03:39 PM
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There is a big difference - not all Nazis were utterly miserable and unhappy, and not all hated their father.
/r/MensRights10/08/25 11:25 AM
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Because they know no accountability. If you do the same you might (legitimately) end up in prison.
/r/MensRights09/08/25 10:49 PM
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Women's value is intrinsic, men's value is attached to what they can bring. The pressure is constant and neverending. There are no support groups and the society is very missandric.
/r/MensRights08/08/25 05:19 PM
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Women can do and achieve anything, except accountability for their actions.
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/25 08:26 AM
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That's the only reason why their husbands don't come to break his face. They all know about it.
/r/MensRights04/08/25 12:19 PM
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Is there any new situation besides him being all handsy on girls? Btw, I truly believe the dude is gay and all of this is just pretend.
/r/MensRights03/08/25 11:55 AM
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And funny enough, women are the biggest supporters of the stupid involvement in the Ukrainian war. There is absolutely no accountability for women in today's society.
/r/MensRights30/07/25 02:11 PM
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You get damaged goods for the price of gold.
/r/MensRights30/07/25 02:49 AM
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Life is about choices, what you get from them and what you lose making those choices. You picked your destiny, now stop crying about it.
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/25 08:19 PM
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Because it's popular. The same female feminists had no issues with Harvey Weinstein and Diddy until they fell in disgrace. They have no values. It's all just fashion.
/r/MensRights25/07/25 08:58 AM
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I doubt that the legal system would look to a transman in the same way they look to a man. If you are a big guy and the accuser is a petite girl, the odds against you are already massive.
/r/MensRights18/07/25 03:49 PM
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I see men making multiple mistakes of this kind. From "SAHM" that don't even have kids, to guys buying and paying for everything in all stages of the relationship. I know this is controversial, but if your relationship depends on how much money you spend on a woman, you don't have a partner, you have an escort.
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/25 04:05 PM
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"But then they happen to a trans man, the trans man points out how fucked up this is, and all of a sudden feminism can't ignore it and call the guy a misogynistic" But what issues? Losing the kids in the family court? Risking their lives working in the mines or construction? Having the society believe in any claim of sexual accusations without proof? Bring forced to fight in a war? None of those issues apply to transmen and it won't ever apply. No one will look at a 50kg transmen, a person with …
/r/MensRights14/07/25 08:01 PM
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Can you provide some examples of those similar issues? Because the issues that I see: harder jobs and working more hours, getting heavier sentences for the same crimes, being discredited in case of sexual accusations, familiar court being unbalanced, military conscription, etc are exclusive to men. Being talked out in a meeting or not taken seriously isn't great, but we can manage that. If you tell me that women, or transmen aren't used to being treated like we are, and it becomes an issue for t…
/r/MensRights14/07/25 06:18 PM
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When the war in Ukraine started all the "transmen" all of the sudden stopped being men. Transmen don't have the construction, mining, and wood work that put men in the top of working accidents and death at work. I don't know the statistics but I doubt transmen are being eaten alive in the courts with alimony and losing the kids, besides the false sex accusations. All this and the military draft I already mentioned. I know women need to be in all men's spaces and everything has to be about them, …
/r/MensRights14/07/25 06:30 AM
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My career was a big eye opener and then I started looking at data. I used to work in a big corporation where the CEO, many of the global heads of department and mid management were females. Despite that, the conversation about the gender pay gap was always present. We had days to talk about female empowerment, while in my office almost all managers were female. Then I started looking at data and understood all the bs about the patriarchy. The data around divorce was the last straw.
/r/MensRights12/07/25 06:45 AM
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I ask questions and force them to deep dive in their arguments. In the end also resolve in this theory of the gender pay gap, which is also relatively easy to destroy.
/r/MensRights11/07/25 06:46 PM
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This is extremely unfair and only possible in this terrible misandry of the system we live in. I hope you manage to keep fighting - they want to break you, don't give them that.
/r/MensRights09/07/25 04:24 PM
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Actually I think it does no good for men or women. Women never were so sad and miserable like now and a big chunk of it is due to feminism.
/r/MensRights08/07/25 10:50 AM
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Precisely. I go to the gym to work out, not to wait 20 minutes for a machine because a girl is watching ticktok. Women (and some men) made gyms unbearable.
/r/MensRights07/07/25 08:51 AM
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Or the "small dick energy" that became mainstream but try to say a woman acts in a certain way because she is fat, ugly or has small boobs and you'll see the social ostracism.
/r/MensRights06/07/25 10:17 AM
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I would vote for - if you don't pay taxes you shouldn't have a say in how taxes are spent - but no one cares about my idea.
/r/MensRights03/07/25 08:43 AM
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In Switzerland women voted massively to keep the discrimination where men retire years later - that's what they earned.
/r/MensRights29/06/25 07:04 AM
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This. Time to wake up and start protecting your assets.
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/25 10:51 PM
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I praise this dude. I probably would do the same.
/r/MensRights12/06/25 07:44 PM
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In Switzerland women can retire years earlier than men. Recently they made a referendum to change this discriminatory rule and make it the same age - guess what? Women voted in the "no" and the proposal got denied. So, when they talk about sexism in Switzerland I just want to tell them to f off!
/r/MensRights12/06/25 03:22 PM
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First Reddit is not reality and should not be used as reference for anything close to real life. Second, If we are talking about Sabrina Carpenter, who looks like a stripper in every single occasion, her opinion is also irrelevant for the debate. She is the perfect example of what women shouldn't be anyway.
/r/MensRights12/06/25 10:14 AM
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I'm not sure if I fully understand the meaning of your message, but my issue with the gender ideas is not men and women being judged under different standards - I do think men have different characteristics, including being capable of holding different pressure and enduring tougher environments. The issue starts when, despite this, society expects the same outcome for men and women. Society expects an easier ride for women and the same outcome in terms of results and this is what is wrong in my …
/r/MensRights12/06/25 06:21 AM
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Alright, no snitch but I still need to apply some sort of severe punishment - no sexist jokes for 4 weeks!
/r/MensRights08/06/25 10:54 PM
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This message was not approved by the patriarchy council, neither was submitted for review for the next weekly patriarchy meeting, therefore it should be considered invalid according to the regulations of the global men directory. You have 24 hours to remove the message otherwise you will lose some men privileges such as mansplain and 15% extra pay for the same job. Consider this an official notice.
/r/MensRights08/06/25 09:59 PM
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Because deep inside they know that those radicals represent real feminism.
/r/MensRights07/06/25 07:10 AM
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You're statistically correct, but I believe it is worth it to try. If it's only a 20% possibility I would still be open to it. Cautious, skeptical, but open to try again.
/r/MensRights28/05/25 08:13 AM
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This happens for 2 reasons: 1 - Reddit is the nest of the worst kind of people on the left. From the admins, to the moods, ending in the users this is a hardcore leftist platform. 2 - women can't accept the idea of space for men and about men, so even if the group is about men they will find an excuse to make it about themselves.
/r/MensRights28/05/25 07:23 AM
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You don't have to give up. After my divorce I found many women with their clocks ticking and an obvious desperation for a baby. I avoided them all. I found my wife who was not in this situation. We met and realized we share values, and only after that we decided to get married and later have a child. Find a woman who wants to have your child, not just a child.
/r/MensRights28/05/25 03:35 AM
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You need to be careful about unwanted pregnancies from your side. After a divorce the worst thing to happen would be a child with a person you just met.
/r/MensRights28/05/25 03:03 AM
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Expected. Most reddit is a snowflake paradise of people who have some allergy to facts and statistics.
/r/MensRights27/05/25 10:36 AM
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It usually starts with their father, or lack of one.
/r/MensRights24/05/25 01:55 PM
3

What's the gain of those fake accounts with made up stories? Really, why?
/r/MensRights23/05/25 08:27 AM
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I wonder how many thousands or million men had their lives completely destroyed for false accusations. And this is also a terrible damage to the real female victims because now I simply don't believe in anyone anymore.
/r/MensRights06/05/25 08:42 AM
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This is an extreme leftist echo chamber. It's not against men, it's against all reason itself.
/r/MensRights06/05/25 06:01 AM
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The same parliament that ignores real rapists and real sex crimes. UK is lost.
/r/MensRights04/05/25 04:39 PM
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Morally I think we should do everything we can to avoid giving the first strike to someone we perceive as more fragile - women, smaller and weaker men, etc, but when you get the first one you are allowed to go with everything ahead. When you physically decide to attack someone you should expect retribution. Legally, since most laws are misogynistic it's likely you will be in trouble. The simple fact you're stressing about it already cause you damage. Best wishes.
/r/MensRights02/05/25 02:49 PM
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If you want to punish her be your best self, don't punish yourself for things you can't control anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/25 05:53 PM
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Men's worth is in what they can bring. Women's worth is in what they are. This should answer your question.
/r/MensRights29/04/25 03:42 PM
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Women voted majority in pro-war parties (same in US and Europe) and men risk paying the price for that. Is it coming? Probably not. But it's not impossible either.
/r/MensRights25/04/25 05:36 AM
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I don't think someone could ignore so many red flags. This must be a joke.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/25 05:31 AM
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We worked together but only started dating when I moved to another company.
/r/MensRights24/04/25 02:26 PM
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The problem is that many women won't even agree to meet unless there is a formal date. Fortunately I met my wife in a completely different format. I miss nothing about dating.
/r/MensRights24/04/25 10:48 AM
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This wasn't a good one but I wouldn't classify it as terrible. But it was bizarre because she was the one insisting to meet (online dating app), she picked the place, spent the entire time with the girl boss talk and then awkwardly left when the bill arrived. I was actually planning to pay, but her attitude made it tasteless anyway. I didn't have any very bad dates, but the problem of "man pays"l Everytime" is that it can be quite expensive to meet new people. I had dates where I knew from the f…
/r/MensRights24/04/25 10:14 AM
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One of the "best" dates I had was with a woman who spent the entire time saying how successful she was and how much good money she earned. When the bill arrived she was faster than Bolt running.
/r/MensRights24/04/25 09:16 AM
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I would advise you to not over engineer it, she probably got tired of manually deleting the pics and stopped there. I know we try to find logic on all those steps, been there too, but by your description it seems she really moved away. I hope you do the same.
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/25 09:57 PM
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Narcissim, victim culture, losers justifying their personal failures and lack of achievements. There are many adjectives for modern feminism.
/r/MensRights19/04/25 01:35 PM
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Katy Perry is likely one of the most stupid out of touch celebrities out there.
/r/MensRights17/04/25 11:10 AM
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Dude, you cannot expect writing 20 words and getting a serious answer about such a delicate topic. Try to add more content - where are you from? Are the properties in your name only? Did you buy them before getting married? Which legal regime did you use to get married ? Etc, etc, etc
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/25 09:59 AM
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They identify as being discriminated against. Are there any new pronouns for that?
/r/MensRights14/04/25 03:15 PM
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This is obviously not about grammar.
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/25 02:58 PM
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No offense but your message sounds like you're stalking her. Let her go and move with your life. She clearly isn't interested.
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/25 12:42 PM
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If there is something you can do is take care of yourself and improve. Don't believe you can't live without her. I know it sounds and feels true but it's not. Good luck.
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/25 05:54 AM
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The thing I dislike the most is the idea we should be equal, but women should keep all the benefits they had before. This is not equality. Some examples We should be the same in terms of salary (even if men statistically work more hours), but the worst jobs (shifts, tasks) are almost 100% for men. We have the same right to vote, but in case of war only one group is going to be forced to die fighting to defend the country. Divorce laws are awfully in favor of women. Etc, etc, etc.
/r/MensRights13/04/25 04:21 PM
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I try to do better. For example, when I see a they/them I pray for them and hope they manage to go out of their gender delusions.
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/25 10:48 PM
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By the way They/Them, your spouse can be keeping his/her/it money in a crypto wallet and if he/she/they/it know what he/she/it/they are doing, you won't find any trace of anything. If I was looking to hide my money that's what I would do.
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/25 10:32 PM
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Sure They/Them, you/she/they/it are absolutely correct. Take you medal 🥇
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/25 10:28 PM
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"They" means you're married to multiple people or you just don't understand basic grammar rules?
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/25 10:12 PM
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After seeing the idiot prime-minister you guys elected a few years ago I'm not surprised tbh.
/r/MensRights09/04/25 03:49 PM
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Congrats dude. Wishing you the best.
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/25 01:26 PM
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Because it brings truth to a platform where everyone assumes by default that men are privileged. Here people debate with facts a reality that goes beyond the surface and everyone assumes it's true.
/r/MensRights08/04/25 12:49 PM
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Feminism ruined relationships in the western world. It ruined it for men and specially for women. I totally understand the passport bros que gonl east to find wives.
/r/MensRights04/04/25 11:36 AM
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Or at least don't show off your wealth. I don't understand guys who want to buy women's heart with monetary things and then get surprised when they become materialistic.
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/25 09:11 AM
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How do you deal with a man who claims he is separated but lives with his ex? that's an easy one. You don't deal. If he was not capable to live independently of the person he is separated he should not be dating.
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/25 09:41 PM
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No, and it won’t anytime soon. Wokeness is a source of income for many people. From mid-level managers to politicians, not to mention the completely useless consultants, plenty of individuals profit directly from identity politics and wokeness. Look at the US Congress—there are people who can barely speak English getting massive visibility just because of their skin tone. Don’t expect them to give it up without a fight. As for misandry, it’ll end the day men decide they’ve had enough. If men eve…
/r/MensRights29/03/25 09:37 AM
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What's the alternative? Continuing the fight until the last Ukrainian man is dead?
/r/MensRights24/03/25 07:56 AM
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This woman has more red flags than the communist party convention. Yes, it is normal, but you need to move on. She clearly moved on already.
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/25 07:09 AM
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Because the opinions you hear come from people who aren't there fighting. Almost 100% of the people supporting the continuation of the war are: 1) Ukrainian women who are living their best life in Europe, literally being paid to do nothing while the war continues - this is 100% true and only Germany is paying for 700 000 Ukrainians to be on holidays since the beginning of the war. If you don't believe it just do some research 2) people who know they won't be affected by the war so sure let's pla…
/r/MensRights23/03/25 07:57 PM
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God bless you and wishing you all the best.
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/25 09:58 AM
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I love when the say all men are violent and bad...but gender is a social construction. At least pick one of your stupid ideas, not two that obviously contradict each other.
/r/MensRights21/03/25 08:30 AM
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There is nothing worse than the soyboy feminist type man. The guy that says "all men are trash" so he can get sympathy from women.
/r/MensRights20/03/25 10:07 AM
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No one is saying women should suffer too. Most men would sacrifice themselves to avoid that. That's basically the history of humanity in a nutshell. But if you are enjoying the weather in a European capital while playing matches on Tinder (and yes, that's what happens), your opinion does not count to the topic of "should the war continue or not". I know that many women like to make everything about themselves, but the burden of this war is not even comparably the same, so if you think the war sh…
/r/MensRights20/03/25 09:17 AM
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I never understood the initial premise: there is not enough women in steam. In countries where women have more rights (eg. Sweden) there are less % of women in steam fields. In countries where women have less rights (eg. India), there are more % women in steam fields. Maybe the "problem" is that women actually don't really love steam jobs. Plus, who cares? Let people do whatever they want.
/r/MensRights19/03/25 04:55 PM
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Honestly, they shouldn't even have a say about it. If you are living a good life in Berlin or Amsterdam while men are being slaughtered to defend your country the least you can do is shut up.
/r/MensRights19/03/25 10:24 AM
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In the meantime Ukrainian women are on X writing posts about why the war must continue and why seeking for peace is bad for Ukraine. Poor Ukrainian men.
/r/MensRights18/03/25 03:47 PM
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First women don't really support each other, they pretend to support each other and they do virtue signalling a lot, but no one is nastier than women to other women. Second, because men are constantly told they should not seek for help. When a men asks for help they are already reaching the bottom and sometimes it's too late.
/r/MensRights13/03/25 09:51 PM
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I'm not a big fan of SAHM also for this reason. Having at least a part-time helps people to value money.
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/25 08:36 PM
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Feminism and misandry.
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/25 10:07 AM
2

The actions you are going to take now are extremely important so clean your face, put yourself together and be meticulous in your decisions. First thing, divorce lawyer. Second thing, if she is young she will get a guy. Do you want a guy living for free in the house you paid? - if the answer is no, do not allow her to stay. If she is concerned about the children she should have thought about it before asking for divorce. Divorces have consequences and you should not be the only one paying the bi…
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/25 09:49 AM
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Being bored is not a reason for a divorce. Maybe if she would get a job she wouldn't be bored.
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/25 09:44 AM
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Church community, jiujitsu or boxing, meditation. There is a way, you just need to find yours. Here many of us got devastated by divorces. I was one of them and after a while things started getting better.
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/25 09:58 PM
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When a women takes the decision to split, they already have a plan or they are working on one. My advice - take it or leave it: You can separate and keep things amicable. That's actually great, especially if you have a child together, but don't stay in the cuck position where you prepare her food so she can be flirting with the hot guy from the office. She wants a separation, give her a separation. Don't be in this situation where she gets the best of being in a relationship without being commit…
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/25 12:03 PM
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11 times NO.
/r/MensRights02/03/25 10:06 AM
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Talk to a lawyer. She can't toss you out and you might be entitled to alimony which you absolutely should get since you earn less. Fight for yourself and for your kid. Women are cold stone blood killers in this situation so don't be too soft. Good luck mate. I'll be praying for you.
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/25 09:01 AM
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I'm sorry to hear your story mate. I understand why you didn't see it, and still don't understand it completely now, but I took me 2 paragraphs to see the whole picture. I'm sorry to say it, but it's over. And yes, she has been cheating on you for some time already. If she ever says otherwise it's 100% bs. It's time for you to wake up. Document everything, save all the messages and proof of potential infidelity. Be very careful with your joined accounts and finances. If you feel it's bad to be c…
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/25 11:41 AM
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Sure sure 👍
/r/MensRights28/02/25 11:12 AM
5

Heterosexual men don't date other men.
/r/MensRights27/02/25 05:37 PM
1

Free meals - sure, from gay men.
/r/MensRights26/02/25 07:41 PM
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It depends what you mean by a bad deal. Financially? Absolutely, children are expensive and there is no way this is not impacting you in some form. But the biggest problem is that legally you won't be anything to those kids. If you actually develop a bond with them and the relationship ends, you get nothing from even if you assumed some sort of father figure, except eventually paying stuff or losing what you bought. Would I completely exclude a woman on those circumstances? Well, no but she woul…
/r/MensRights25/02/25 11:53 AM
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The majority of crime is also committed for specific groups of people and demographics. The same people who will use the argument that men commit more crimes will run away from the question "but which group of men commit the large majority of crimes?'
/r/MensRights25/02/25 08:32 AM
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The unconfessed truth is that sex attraction is way more complex than people assume. After the divorce I spent sometime in the dating pool. There were some partners that made me feel exactly like you described. I just had no drive at all. Not their fault - they were pretty, sexy, nice. I just had no impulse. I also had a few where my reaction was completely the opposite and I wanted to have sex all the time. I was the same, similar period of time, completely different reactions. I think pheromon…
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/25 02:42 PM
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There are many good advices already written but u will just highlight a few points. 1 - your marriage is over. There is no nice way to put it. Don't be in denial and stick for yourself. 2 - lawyer now! This doesn't mean you cannot communicate and fix things amicable but you need a lawyer. 3 - if you leave you're not coming back. You lose the house and everything inside a house. In a similar situation I left and lost everything. It's not only the house but everything you work hard to purchase wit…
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/25 12:55 PM
5

Women: we want to be paid the same for sports participation Also women: this man is staring at me. I can't continue. Help!
/r/MensRights20/02/25 10:37 PM
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WNBA is awful and no one watches it, so it is not profitable. If it is not profitable, the participants get less pay - the fact that they get any pay while not generating profit is already something they should celebrate. For those reasons, sex work gets more pay than a pretend to play competition no one cares.
/r/MensRights19/02/25 01:07 PM
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Mate, that's probably the worst idea I read here in a while. Don't do that!
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/25 10:14 PM
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Before divorce and since you seem still interested, how about couples therapy as a last attempt?
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/25 07:10 PM
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If you are a man and you fail you're a loser. If you are a woman and you fail that's patriarchy.
/r/MensRights14/02/25 12:19 PM
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I'm not a big fan of the date anyway but if some women want to spend the time with their loser friends drinking wine and blaming the world for their misery, sure go for it.
/r/MensRights14/02/25 07:33 AM
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She apologized but also told you it's also your fault? I deeply respect your decision to stay for the kids. But what are you going to do in her next "moment of weakness"?
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/25 01:37 PM
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Dating apps are overall bad. Try to meet people with similar interests without dating expectations and maybe thing will go from there. The meet up website is good for that.
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/25 01:34 PM
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Brother, I am going to translate the message for you, so you can understand what it really means. "When she told you to f-off she believed in this lie society tells women that divorce is cool and neverending excitement. Basically she thought divorce would be fun and games but it wasn't. After being dumped by several dudes who used her like an object she realized you are not that bad. She wants you back - she will cheat on you on the first opportunity though."
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/25 09:08 AM
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This is part of the problem. People know nothing about history and still talk full of confidence the most stupid sht one can find online.
/r/MensRights12/02/25 07:39 PM
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In the country where I live (Germany) the statistics are clear - men commit suicide 3 times more than women. Of course this doesn't prevent them to talk about the patriarchy as a mantra.
/r/MensRights11/02/25 10:53 PM
5

Sorry brother. One common mistakes men do is neglecting their assets during times like this. Careful with your stuff and make sure things are split in a fair way.
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/25 02:12 PM
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One thing is sending her something on mother's Day or Christmas on behalf of your kids. This is just a desperate move to show yoy still like her. Sorry brother but if it's over, it's over.
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/25 10:52 AM
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You're in the good path. Reading your post gives me confidence you'll achieve great things in this second part of your life. Just keep going.
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/25 11:00 PM
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End identity politics. White men just want real equality.
/r/MensRights09/02/25 09:50 AM
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I joined the military during the "equality" times. Men get the worst jobs, worst locations, do the worst tasks. Only the pay is the same. During exercises men always end up carrying extra gear, extra weapons, and sometimes even carrying the women themselves. It's a mockery to pretend it's the same.
/r/MensRights08/02/25 08:21 AM
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I'm sorry man. If she is indeed behaving like this it's just a matter of time until your children grow and move away from her. No one can be around someone like this. Good luck 🤞
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/25 09:12 AM
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I agree. Once would be okay but multiple times or at least not planning one big event is shameful.
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/25 06:01 PM
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How old are the kids and where is she going? I'm asking because some destinations are not really children friendly.
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/25 04:39 PM
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This is much needed and I'm sure if properly organized it could be successful.
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/25 04:38 PM
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The amount of women occupying full sits with their purses is way higher than any idiot man with open legs syndrome.
/r/MensRights03/02/25 03:30 PM
2

Sure, it was terrible when Republicans elected Bill Clinton and Joe Biden.
/r/MensRights03/02/25 12:28 PM
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I'm not American but seen from the outside, the Democratic party has played a major role in undermining men's rights. Every time I listen a Democratic politician they speak about men like they are all a bunch of racists, rapists and abusers. It's slightly getting better but they seem to have the burden of the responsibility on this one. I am happy to change my mind if I hear good arguments.
/r/MensRights02/02/25 01:12 PM
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Men don't compete to each other like women do. That's mostly the reason. I buy clothes when I need, not because I need to impress or compete with my homies.
/r/MensRights02/02/25 10:53 AM
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Patriarchy is a name female losers use to justify their lack of success in life. Besides this doesn't exist, or at least, I've been missing my patriarchy meetings.
/r/MensRights01/02/25 08:20 PM
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Reddit is an amazing idea managed by terrible people. Most of the subs are unbearable. I can't even criticize the green party of my country without being downvoted to oblivion. In the subs like IATAH men are treated like crap, and women are advised to leave their husbands for the most ridiculous things.
/r/MensRights01/02/25 01:42 PM
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A society of "equality" should be equal for everyone. I don't believe in this kind of society, but the ones who do can't reject the duty of mandatory conscription for women as well.
/r/MensRights01/02/25 01:36 PM
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It really depends on what you're looking for. If you're not ready or looking for real dating, don't do it. For me the important was to be honest about everything. If you're there just for sex, just don't over promise other things. As far you are honest about your plans and intentions, there is nothing morally wrong about it.
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/25 07:31 AM
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Fortunately no, but we were planning to have.
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/25 05:44 AM
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You sound like a decent guy and a dedicated father. That's a lot. Maybe checking in for some therapy? I tried for some months. Wasn't that bad. Good luck mate.
/r/Divorce_Men31/01/25 05:16 PM
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I'm sorry to hear. I'm wishing you the best. Better times will come!
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/25 02:01 PM
3

Do you keep any sort of contact? Even social media or Instagram following? If yes, that's a mistake. you need to cut it completely and resist all temptations to check her profile.
/r/MensRights30/01/25 12:46 PM
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It happens often. For me drinking too much alcohol beforehand was always a recipe for chaos. Alcohol and to the fact I had to get used to condoms was a post-divorce intimacy nightmare. This is mostly a mental blocker - remove the pressure from yourself, eat well and avoid as much as possible alcohol (if you have to drink socially keep a very slow pace). Also, try to avoid porn if that's the case. This shit get many people addicted.
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/25 11:48 AM
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The least you know the better. Tell her you don't want to know, stop following her in social media e don't ask about her to friends. Your feelings are legit, but protect yourself and move on.
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/25 11:06 AM
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Alright, I’ll probably drop some clichés here, but since you asked, here’s my take. Dating after divorce is weird as hell. You don’t really know what you’re doing, and suddenly, you have all these questions that feel kinda dumb but are actually legit. In my case, I never really “dated” in the first place—I met my ex when I was a teenager—so jumping back in after years was like stepping into a completely different world. Some of the things I had no clue about: Where do you even meet women? How do…
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/25 09:36 AM
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I'm not proud or ashamed to confess I cried a lot. There is also the fact I wasn't expecting so I couldn't prepare emotionally for that. But having so much pain was what drove to move on and never look back. It was good in the end.
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/25 08:58 AM
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I'm slightly older than you. It's not easy because most women from our age either have carry-over issues from previous relationships (which I always tried to avoid), or they have intrinsic issues hard to deal like severe traumas. My advice is to learn how to identify red flags. Over obsessed about money, especially your money? - red flag Looking for guys to fix her issues? -red flag Also go with your personality. For example, I'm more conservative leaning guy so very progressive women are a red …
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/25 08:10 PM
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I thought the same about myself. If sadness could kill I would have died. But things can change. You also need to allow them to change, but there is always possibilities.
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/25 07:58 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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