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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 10 | I choose life! | Negative_Cry1974 | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/07/26 07:56 AM |
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| 1 | After the dust has settled, men (self)report happiness at a higher rate than womenI think it’s because I have known this was coming for the last year and half. The denial and what ifs have been played out during that time. I left twice last year and got clawed back in. Im also having a lot of ups and downs. One hour I can feel like crap the next hour ok. I think my daughters relationship with her mother (complete lack of one in a 15 year old girl) has a really helping ground me too. A lot of reading, a lot of thinking, a lot of reinforcement in the interactions I am having wi… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/08/26 04:18 PM |
| 4 | After the dust has settled, men (self)report happiness at a higher rate than womenIm a month in, and I look back now and can see that there are times when i am a lot happier. It’s not happening often. But they are there. But I am choosing to take the right steps. Spending time with my child, walking, weights, started therapy. Eat healthier and getting my finances in shape are all helping. Planning for the future. A better future where I am taking care of myself is really helping. I have taken accountability for my actions, still play them over and over in my head at times. Bu… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/08/26 08:47 AM |
| 1 | I choose life!Oh the lack of self reflection and demonization has already started. I will get through it though. Happened when we split up before. This time I am prepared for it. We never really had joint friends and her family are a bunch of arseholes so no loss there. Apart from her brother who has already told me he would have left her years ago. It’s the step children that hurt. Ive been there for them for 19 years and instantly they are cutting off all ties. However although it was expected. Still hurts … | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/26 05:27 PM |
| 2 | I choose life!Honestly exactly the same as you. I spoke to someone for about three weeks trying to get nudes too. Felt guilty stopped it. This is still cheating. I needed someone to make me feel wanted and liked. Ended up being a woman from work. In terms of time frame: We have been on and off for a year with multiple times actually away from each other for weeks. Which has helped me think over the last year. However finally called it two weeks ago. Those two weeks have been rough. To the point friends and fa… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/07/26 04:35 PM |
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