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I mean, I'm just a girl, what do I know. Young women (late high-school-21) like guys the same age range. When I was 14, I'd date a 15 year old, but might think a 21 year old was cute; he would feel too old. When I was 18, I liked 18+, but no older than college-aged. For example, there was this totally hot Italian professor at my school who was in his mid to late twenties, impeccably dressed, disarming smile, and all the girls liked him, but he was an outlier. He was also not employed there for v…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:25 AM
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They're doing better than they did in the aughts and tens. Millenial men used to refuse to work out at all. They just wore really tight tshirts and had a smug look on their face and were banking on their... I actually don't know. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:08 PM
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Why don't you go mix some drunk elephant on the shelves at Sephora and come back in a decade?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 09:41 AM
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Both RP and Sprinkle Sprinkle have their place.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 09:10 AM
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When I was in the oldhead RP scene, the concensus was 40% of men *could* get it and it took about 6 months to a year. Autistic men rarely get it. They're too black and white. Unfortunately, modern RP is like a telephone game of the original RP by Autistic internet guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 09:06 AM
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I grew up with an abusive mother, blame her and my dad enabler for attracting narcissistic men. Found the female version of the redpill and learned boundaries. Same difference. I never get women who defend women at all costs. What your same sex parent teaches you (or does not) about the opposite sex can ruin your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 09:01 AM
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Women are held responsible for getting TO marriage and their husband's fidelity and happiness. They're held responsible for any manner of conflicting roles in the marriage: employment, homemaking, the entire welfare of their children, their lovemaking skills, etc. If you can't trick a guy into liking you enough, you're considered a failure and your kids lose a support system. In the olden days, men were expected to be more responsible about their family, who they married, etc. It was a great sha…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 06:52 AM
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As a woman, I actually find anything above a 6 is extremely hard to get now. I think people just assume they're a 7 when they're a 5, because this was found in a survey. Men aren't as attractive as fives. They're what a 3.75 would be to you. People just have a lot of delusion these days, possibly more than they ever have in history. It's social media and influencer culture, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 06:43 AM
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Someone found the skull of "average European peasant man," from the Dark Ages, and he was an 8. There didn't used to be super fat or super skinny men, and everyone used to be relatively short. I think modernization killed men's looks. Survining used to be how men looksmaxed. Men have this sort of ugly, underaged guy look these days. They all have round heads and a button nose.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 06:37 AM
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You can polish a 6, but below that is a liability. Below that is a struggle constantly work on yourself so that you can stay mid. You're trying to avoid the uncanny valley effect 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 06:28 AM
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It's the beauty standard, but it's more the butterfly standard. Men get penalized 1.25 points in attractiveness by default. So, figure out what your basement is and add 1.25, and that's what the basement is for a woman. Women know mentally when a guy's a five, but he will feel like your 3.75. Men also don't have permission to wear makeup, so it's understandably unfair. If men work super hard in other areas, they can make up the 1.25. That's probably what had kept civilization together throughout…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 06:19 AM
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Men have to at least be a 6 as a total package to not be rejected outright and be allowed to make an impression. A 6 is to a woman what a 4.75 is to a man. This is the level where we stop being repulsed. If there was a society where arranged marriages were a thing, women wouldn't ask for a redraw, and accept that this is as good as it's going to get. If we had to, we'd sleep with a 6. The thing is, men feel like they HAVE to sleep with the 4.75, cuz sex drive, but they don't have to do it drunk …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 06:09 AM
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Women are attracted to money as much as men are attracted to morals. These things are desired and needed, but not in a sexual way. A guy's stocks doing well = a woman's going to church on the rizz meter. You're right: it's perceived behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 05:55 AM
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So, you're saying you've been out of the game for 30 years? Red pill isn't really discussion for Baby Boomers. Y​ou guys grew up in the Truman show, and don't understand reality. The entirety of human history has been thr same struggle, except the Baby Boomers. You were able to remain childlike, because you were surrounded with money. Again, you will never understand this, because karma isn't real. You'll waste all our generational wealth on trapped equity, and write dumb takes until the day you…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 05:41 AM
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I just figured out why people are confused about looks. A study showed that the average person rates themselves a 7, meaning most people add +2 points to their own looks. This was both the case in men and women, as they separated the groups. On top of that, I figured out lately that, all other things being equal, a 5 man hits a woman in the gut the same way a slightly chubby 4 woman would hit a man. So, even though a woman could say a guy was a 5, she would FEEL attraction to him like he was a 3…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:46 AM
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That's the fantasy. However, I'm not here to convince you, so much as you are put on this earth to observe. In order to observe, who have to shut off your wishes about how reality is. Cheaters succeed, no one gets karma. You're living in your hurt feelings, not logic. I've accepted that the world has screwed me over and I'll never get something for it. The delusion that if you join a cause that you'll get subsidized for damages will ruin your life even more. Just let it go: your enemies won.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 03:24 AM
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Thank you for proving MY point that you aren't arguing in good faith, and will try contradictory angles for an adhominem attack because you can't accept that everyone has faults. If I don't have options, I'm hideous. If I do have options, I'm an alpha widow. There are all these honest men out there approaching me for marriage. Just all these honest, good men, just trying to give women what they want, and just the nasty feminism is getting in the way! Bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 03:15 AM
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Feminists this, feminists that. Blah blah blah. A bunch of guys agreed to have open season on sex, because they naively and foolishly each thought they'd get lucky and hedonistocally debauch in the valley of the gods. It's the same reason men invest in crypto: they all think they're the exception to the rule and they're going to get rich off of the other guys' wealth, because smort. Feminism was implemented to kinda sorta not really help unwedded women pay the bills. But women really are the pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 03:03 AM
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They have responsibilities to men: they're just replaced with different ones. Men aren't taught responsibility at all. Most of them wouldn't know how to be husbands if they wanted to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:52 AM
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That sounds like a beef to be resolved between those two groups of men, not a situation where they hector women into becoming their savior.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:49 AM
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The reason that's on TV is because it's a pretend fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:40 AM
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I think the types of women red pill guys say they'd never marry get off on assholes. Then the red pill guys complain that all women are sluts. They would just never date normal women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:39 AM
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About your cokehead friend, I have this story. There was this guy in an online group I was in who wanted information on areas to move to. I was one of many people who casually answered him. Initially, he came off as a normal guy in the medical field.I was being friendly, nothing more. However, not long after, people started noticing he was off. This guy not only had severe autism, but psychopathy, if you can imagine. He was just completely out if the blue, really fucking bizarre. Like the show T…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:35 AM
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Men in positions of power get women because they're in positions of power. Men don't get into positions of power without being a little bossy. A powerless guy who's an asshole will just drive home his insecurity and desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:24 AM
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"I'm doing the asshole thing right! Why isn't God honoring my dick for my faithful douchebaggery? Those women must be too picky. And shallow and sluts. And feminists. And ugly. They'll get their karma."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:19 AM
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He's saying that you're technically right, but most guys on the internet are raving horny and dumb and are using RP effectively as a bizarre cult worldview or Christian neo folk religion, faithfully hoping that it will endow its acolytes with the juju magick.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:16 AM
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It seems more like it used to work when it was novel. Women can spot this game and have become bored of it now. I think a better angle is to do what no one's doing and read Robert Greene's "Art of Seduction." Especially mastering the Charmer archetype would clean up. However, I don't think most men have the ability to do this with their brain. It's a very lost art.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:09 AM
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It's a desire for debauchery disguised as ideological purity. They want to try all the porn things with women they're attracted to. Maybe not the hottest women, but the hottest ones they can get. They never actually pursue virgins. Most women aren't dumb and can tell this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:05 AM
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Well they're starting to realize where their food comes from. These are the consequences of casual sex. Unfortunately, both genders will always blame the opposite sex for their own consequences. They'll never accept responsibility. The gender war is just like any other war, in that regard: "the other side is evil, we are good."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:02 AM
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Those were the two branches of the old manosphere: PUA and christomanosphere. So, that's been around for many years. The out-of-touch idealism of combining the two is more recent. There were always chronically online autists who believed the world worked this way, but it didn't used to be everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:58 AM
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What actually happened was that the guys who understood RP left their online presence, thinking they'd be replaced by a younger generation of likeminded men. What ended up happening was a bad game of telephone. Also, the manosphere curse is that the longer someone is in the manosphere, the lonlier they'll be.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:54 AM
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Rollo only dick rode the good authors, although he's fantastic by today's standards. Unless you meant Roissey.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:49 AM
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Someone wake me up when a redpill guy actually pursues a virgin. The guys I see pursuing virgins are those handsome caveman PUAs that hang out at hookah lounges. Redpill guys hang out outside of rehab facilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:47 AM
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I have no dog in either fight, but it wasn't started by feminism. Men starting the sexual revolution created all of these problems. Most women are mad at men because of that, whether or not they realize it. I would argue thay men are mad at women for gaming the free love system that men created and trading commitment-free sex for the best possible partners. That men not settling down with a spouse and providing for them necessitates women working for a living, and men are mad that women have gam…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:42 AM
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Sounds like a man-to-man problem to me. Yelling at women isn't going to do anything. Getting all the men together to set rules so that the top men can't do that is how it was handled for thousands of years. That's why every man used to be assigned one naked woman for life. Even the ugly guys got laid. The problem is that the average and homely guys were in favor of hookup culture, because they thought they'd be let into it. A lot of 5s and 4s still entertain delusions of hooking up with 5 and 6 …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 08:29 AM
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If I were to have NSA sex with someone (which I don't do), I'd have it with that one celebrity who randomly had a crush on me, or even one who doesn't. Otherwise, I expect a commitment and interest and a courtship. I'm not going to screw my way out of the friend zone for a guythat'snot that into me. That's actually a great way to make a guy like you even less. But if, hypothetically, I was just having sex for enjoyment, it wouldn't be with a guy that works a regular 9-5. If I want to avoid being…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 08:13 AM
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I mean, it's up to you what choices you make. I don't think ONS are always about looks. A lot of times, they're about socio sexual hierarchy. I'm not someone who's ever done that, so I wouldn't know, but that's the kind of woman you look for, then I guess it would logically follow that you have to accept that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 07:55 AM
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I mean, I had a narcissistic mom who would do that. Instead of looking for "the best I can get" in a partner or only dating women who put out soon, look for women who have good character traits. There are a lot of great women who aren't like this. They're just not as flashy or fast. Take time and get to know people. Games can be arousing, but the tradeoff is often getting someone who's Satan. You don't want a relationship that's thrilling, because that's actually anxiety. (This is more for other…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 07:48 AM
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If you're a five or below, date fours.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 07:42 AM
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If you think this, then you're probably unaware of your own emotional drama. It's not a good sign for your emotional maturity. I don't like arguing with guys online. If you can't get a girlfriend or get off on your own, that's your problem. I'm not interested in being fuel for that. Maybe for Chad. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 07:36 AM
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Eights wife sixes, because they're used to getting away with a lot, and sixes let them do that. I mean, the odds are low that out 200 sixes he'll pick a particular one, but there are hundreds of sixes who will play that game. 7's, 8's, feel like they shouldn't have to, so they don't, and then it becomes crickets. I mean, and they shouldn't have to. In a sane society, people would be paired off with people in their league young, and they wouldn't be trying to maximize and miss out on life frettin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 07:32 AM
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Men show up to work, same as they do before they got married. They don't do emotional heavy lifting. I look like Simone Giertz. I often get told I give men boners, or it's implied that I'm boner worthy. I look for Jim Halpert or a little below. I date short guys and skinny guys. You can keep trying to spin this. You have a Spanish name. Maybe try to talk to women who aren't white and don't try to show off. I honestly don't care. If you're not getting your needs met, fine. If you're not getting y…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 07:23 AM
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What makes you confident you have information I don't?You're very young and not unique to being a woman who's heard redpill talking points. This subred has a lot of women just like you. Your job should be easy, then. Settle down with a 6 or a 7 while you're young. Make sure he isn't weird and has good earning prospects. The thing is, it's seldom that easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 07:17 AM
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The ones who get bad husband's are too nice and haven't slept around enough. They've been seduced. The ones who get good husbands and shivved them afterwards have slept around a lot. They've seduced the men they're married to. When men make long lists, they attract narcissists. This is more a millennial onward problem. GenXer men were more realistic. Younger guys are naive and are looking for an "epic" rush or a trophy wife. That attracts narcissists.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:59 AM
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It's a "concept" I just came up with, so feel free to address me directly. It's not like this big concept on the internet. If I want a guy to like me, I don't ever like him even a little. I would have to see evidence of a guy marrying a nice girl who loved him and him being happy about it. Women hear "men are hunters," but men are actually predators. Predators want their prey to run away and not want anything to do with them. Men want women to show signs if not wanting them, whether or not they'…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:31 AM
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You're thinking like a man about appearances. Women know the kind of guy that would make a good husband, as well as a good lay, whereas men get stuck on sex. Women will try to looksmax too, if possible, but they'll all compete for the same guys to marry after sleeping with even hotter guys. They actually use the experience sleeping with men to their advantage to get a husband. Whereas guys will drag out marriage as long as possible and fully develop the skills of looking for a wife. They'll appl…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:11 AM
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Ok, angry dude in a happy relationship. Learning game to get your dick wet is NOT learning about another person's world. Men never learn about marriage on their own. They DO learn about how to use women as objects. They always marry narcissists, and then blame it on women, because they don't put any work into learning to be married. They wait for the universe to give then a wife. They wait to be seduced into a marriage. Learning game is 1% of putting in effort. The only thing straight forward ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 04:43 AM
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I can tell you as a woman with a low body count: never. They never care. They give it lip service and marry women with high body counts. There is no man who cares. Not, you, your friend, or your friend's friend. What they care about is immediate sexual availability.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 04:30 AM
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Perfect example: you're not curious enough about the opposite sex to pay attention to this. A lot of male dating coaches transition to coaching women because their male clients don't think they have to change. Only women are willing to learn all and the techniques and psychology to appear the way a man wants to see to be given a chance. Men think it's magic or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 04:27 AM
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It's not as if men are trying to understand women. It's not some great tragedy. Everyone's life is hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 04:19 AM
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That was my point. Men SAY it matters. It doesn't. They don't select low body count women for marriage. The women in the video with the highest body counts are the types of women that get chosen for marriage. It was a good example of what the "wife material " woman looks and acts like. Men think that at least other men are vetting for body count when they aren't. Maybe halo effect sometimes. Having a low body count only hurts women's chances of getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 04:17 AM
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Men are good at finding trouble
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 04:13 AM
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the sentiment is mutual
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 12:47 AM
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responded to your claim in the first sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 12:27 AM
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not if it's to help your education
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 12:25 AM
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That's not true at all. One of my best friends is from that era, and women would hookup with other men while he was on a date with them. That's actually the generation that created the manosphere. The sluttiest women got wifed-up and produced the abomination that is millenial men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 12:25 AM
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It is because they look for women with high body count characteristics, and those women are sleeping with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 12:22 AM
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I'm too slow-paced for dating. By the time I'm actually getting to know the guy, he's friend zoned me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 12:18 AM
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It is, but I found it a really good illustration of what a high body count woman looks and acts like. I don't care about male divorce for this reason. They should know better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 12:16 AM
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She's brunette and has "church hair". Men would marry her and call the other women slutty. Note that she has a higher BC than the blonde. Men would pick the brunette, because they think she's lower risk. The redhead only had 2 total bodies in her life. Men would think she was a slut, because she has red hair. You guys always say to watch a man's actions, not his words. Yet, you always let yourselves get tricked by visuals. (This is actually a bigger problem in white men, who are extremely confid…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 12:13 AM
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Who I look like: Simone Giertz, The types of guys I try to date: Harry Melling-John Krasinski hot, Guys I'd actually refer but don't bother with: James Franco, John Stamos hot, The types of guys that approach me: Danny Davito, but with weirder eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 12:07 AM
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not unemployed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 12:04 AM
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John's exactly a 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:59 PM
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It's run by gay men who, ironically, like 18 & 19 year olds
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:58 PM
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Young women will consider that peak. The vast majority will consider late 20s/ early thirties. A girl in her mid twenties or a woman in her 50s would be interested in a guy in that range.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:57 PM
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your peak is late 20s to early 30s. You're 27 in girl years.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:54 PM
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I think mid to late twenties, unless he's a late bloomer. No later than 32.​ However, a woman in her peak will want a man younger than that, closer to her age. So, these are things to consider if you're a guy wanting to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:50 PM
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There are men who think "not getting their sexual needs met" = she won't engage in a weird fetishist that popped into his head. The internet always validates these guys and tells him to dump her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:48 PM
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They want what doesn't want them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:45 PM
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No: you just have a selection bias because you're sleeping with women too fast. You only date women who sleep with you by date two. Literally all you have to do is look for a woman who waits until date 5+.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:44 PM
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Men would select the two highest body count women to marry, while saying they're looking for low body count. They don't vet their partners well. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=PiZwBwwqmU0&pp=ygURQmxhY2sgYm9keSBjb3VudCA%3D
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:41 PM
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Men are pickier than women when they want to settle down. If they can get a 7, why not an 8? A redhead, why not a brunette? They don't actually get to know you first and determine from there. You have to learn how to give them a dopamine rush. It's dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:39 PM
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Oh, you're team purple! Was confused as to why you were making so much sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:36 PM
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But then it sucks when you HAVE to sleep with the guy and have practice doing it in order to get married to a guy in your own league. That's what it's become. The chaste ones always stay single and the high body count ones have husbands. They just have a really good halo effect.​
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:27 PM
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Guys do this when they are looking for serious relationships. I've never looked out of my league.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:26 PM
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It's in hell because it's not the 80s, and men don't know how to live with another person
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:24 PM
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These guys have swamped inboxes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:22 PM
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that's how men think and they lie about it all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:22 PM
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Six is the most pursued woman. The ugly, mid, and hot guys will pursue a six. You'd have better luck with an 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:21 PM
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I'm a 7, and I find that 6-7 is impossible to get a date with. My ex husband was a 4-5, and was insecure about my looks, or I'd look at that range too. I have in the past. 6-7 men would rather hookup with 4-5s than settle down with me. I date a diverse amount of ages, as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:19 PM
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It's hard to get anything out of your relationship in your own league. There aren't enough normal-looking, not crazy beta guys. I could hook-up with a guy that's my number, if I wanted to, but they're not going to date me seriously. I'm a solid 7. I look for 6-7 men (and my 6 is another woman's 5, so I'm being generous). I'm not the standard brunette, but I even have ginger guys trying to get me to chase. Any guy who's above average has a harem. It's been like this my entire adult life. I also l…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:15 PM
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That's actually terrible advice if you're trying to get married. Men love bitches. Almost as much as the love complaining about the following divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:07 PM
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uh... no?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:05 PM
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You don't get it. They don't hate men, they just hate certain men. You just can't accept that you're in that category.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:04 PM
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Women don't want borderlines, but we're also not psychic. When we say "vulnerable, " we mean emotionally healthy and has dealt with the baggage in therapy. Nobody wants a crazy partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 08:10 PM
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When this happens to me, the guy is either a cheater or I get friend zoned. Especially if you're just getting to know ANYone, regardless of gender. It's not a good sign. That's something for a priest to handle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 08:07 PM
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I would say that ending a human life on a whim is more unstable than being really upset and thinking about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 08:04 PM
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Men used to have more mental disorders when things were less soft and they were expected to struggle. The average man used to fight in wars with rat kings following them around. Now, they eat cheetos and complain about women online. Women, on the other hand, used to be kept innocent and safe and shielded from certain things that they're now thrown in the middle of these days. So, women are doing men's work and men are being babied and psychologically protected.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:59 PM
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I've had a guy I was briefly seeing tell me some toxic ex of his was the girl he was supposed to marry, and he felt bad she had to get an abortion. I mean, excuse me, but I think you want a shrink. "Vulnerability " is not a license to just say whatever. If your best guy friend doesn't want to hear it, your woman definitely doesn't want to hear it. The problem is that men think women have certain features that we don't actually have, that no human has. We don't standard with trauma-dumping.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:54 PM
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A lot of guys like to embellish the story to seem like a victim. The context definitely matters, unless he married a bitch, which is the choice a lot of men make.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:47 PM
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Dumping about your ex girlfriend to your partner, expecting a woman to cure a bad habit or addiction, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:45 PM
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The misunderstanding is this. No human can be responsible for another humans emotions. People aren't wired this way. However, a lot of guys think that their female partners are their moms and try to dump on them, because they deeply lack self-confidence. They don't feel safe and secure without a mother figure to check in with. In reality, women need emotional reassurance more than men do. So, if you're in a relationship where it's the opposite, it's not going to work. Have you ever had a guy fri…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:41 PM
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Most people are full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:28 PM
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Nope. You're projecting what happens to men onto what happens to women. Men with long lists of disqualifiers end up with narcissists. Women with the same end up ​with better men. And they're usually not very good women themselves who get the best guys. Life isn't fair, karma is a myth, and you're never going to get your lick back. The sooner you accept this, better time you'll have at surviving and getting what you need in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:23 PM
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Other things to account for: ●tiny fertility window ●counter-intuitive job market (balance balancing biological imperative with the slow, grinding, and stressful nature of career-building) ●lower overall earnings ●being financially independent and having a success marriage are diametrically opposed if you're a woman ●men are, by and large, actively trying to not settle down. When they do, they try to maximize. As someone who does NOT live with her parents, they have to consider the reality of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:17 PM
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Why we're picky
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:50 AM
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It's really the lifestyle, due to joint custody. If only one partner is visiting their ex on the reg, the power balance is off. If both partners are, they have to keep each other honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:46 AM
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I think it's honestly this. Everyone's super picky these days. And I agree, dating sites have two different buying and selling markets that look the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:43 AM
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We have a guy in his late 30s trying to hit up women in their mid twenties. It's fertility time!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:38 AM
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No tradwives on tinder? Huh...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:36 AM
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Do you mean slow?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:34 AM
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You "should" conduct yourself with common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:33 AM
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By the way, very masculine post. Eloquent.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:33 AM
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But why do it? Women don't fix things. The only woman will fix something broken in your life is your mom. We're not going to fix society for you to make it all better just how you like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:31 AM
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Exactly. I find men to be as picky as a 12 yo girl with a MASH board when it comes to marriage. A more accurate representation would be if men were socially expected to hand out $400-$500 by the 2-4 date. The ugly guys would get tons of action on their dating pages (justas much as women), no sex, and lose a bunch of money. But some men might feel very liberated spending that money and getting nothing out of it. Maybe it's a kink. Maybe a handful of guys have this kink. Imagine the women saying, …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:28 AM
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Women are as picky about having sex as you are about who you want to marry. There's no double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:19 AM
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It doesn't matter if a woman hates men. It does really matter if she hates you. Men romanticize being hated, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:17 AM
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Absolutely anything at all... Whatever comes to mind, ladies...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:14 AM
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That's why it's difficult to meet religious men. They're avoiding sex and pounced on by a long line of thirsty women. I can never understand why men are surprised that virgins leave the church and date bad boys instead. Do they expect them to watch or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:12 AM
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Women see sex as a means to marriage and kids. Men are 10x more picky when they're looking for marriage and kids than women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:00 AM
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Men are programmed to hunt women who loathe their being, for the sake that they loathe their being. To be honest, any 6/10+ with an OK job who isn't insane is married, including short kings.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:58 AM
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Yeah, in the olden days, their dads would have chosen them a man who could provide who didn't act like you. Men also wouldn't have been able to sample variety and sleep with a bunch of women who weren't their wife. You have to pick one or the other. Men picked variety and laziness, hence modern dating. Women prefer to have casual sex with hot guys: always have. Monogamy was a way to make sure societal losers were guaranteed a lay. Nobody really wanted to sleep with that frail shoe polisher with …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:55 AM
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