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CustodyNegative_Reveal811/r/Divorce_Men30/10/25 05:06 PM
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Similar story here with me mate. Except I left because she thought it was acceptable to assault me in front of our three young children. Silver lining you still can see your kids. Your ex is going to be in for a rude shock. I doubt her new guy will be doing half of what you were. You deserve better man. As hard as it is move forward, you’ll find someone who appreciates you and doesn’t drop you like a sack of shit.
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/25 02:14 AM
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Get into it bro
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/25 07:10 AM
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Update: Managed to negotiate seeing my children supervised by my mother and ex. Planning on a weekly thing to start off. The ex isn’t going to be involved next week thankfully. Took a bit for the kids to warm up but it was like old times by the end of the visit. Thanks for all the advice, I appreciate it. Haven’t felt this optimistic in a years.
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/25 07:40 PM
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How would you advise to navigate that after such a long period of absence?
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/25 03:11 PM
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Basically based on my ex. There’s no order in place. She is just playing the I’m “whatever monster” she wants me to be on the day. Yeah I’ve always paid my child support and I’m currently working on trying to negotiate with my ex for even just a visit with my kids. Fingers crossed. But until court rolls around there’s little I can’t do about it as far as I’m aware.
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/25 03:26 AM
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She managed to get an intervention order for 12 months 2 years back which put a total stop to visitation, phone calls etc for 12 months. When I saw them after that time was up, I noticed that there had been a fair degree of manipulation done. Any contact until court has to be facilitated through her.
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/25 03:14 AM
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Thanks bro
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/25 03:01 AM
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100% agree
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/25 02:53 AM
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I’ve unfortunately been out of the picture for a long time. Trying to reason with their mother currently as family court approaches
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/25 02:53 AM
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They’re 2.5 6 9 11
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/25 02:04 AM
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Thanks mate
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/25 12:19 AM
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Geez bro, That’s rough. Sorry that you’ve been through all that. I don’t know what to say, sometimes in some situations I guess you do have to just move on and forget. Maybe one day…. I don’t know
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/25 12:19 AM
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Yeah I’m on my 2nd lawyer with a lot more luck. To be honest with you, a lot of it was my fault being self employed and running a company, coupled with the breakdown of marriage and losing my kids and not much cooperation from my ex, I didn’t really handle it to well. My mental health really took a nose dive. Hence why it’s dragged out so much. Hoping to have some child orders sorted by the end of the month.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/25 05:47 PM
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Thanks again for your support. A Different perspective does help.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/25 05:33 PM
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Yeah that’s solid advice I recently kicked the alcohol. So gym sounds like the next step in the right direction.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/25 05:25 PM
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My mum sees them frequently so shares photos with me. It’s quite a toxic relationship between myself and the ex wife if I was to see them during that period then my mother and father would also be prevented from seeing them. I’m just hoping court doesn’t drag out.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/25 05:19 PM
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Thanks for the advice. It’s just hard I’m over $100,000 just to lawyers with nothing to show. I’m at the point where I’m going to have to walk away and hopefully one day the children might come seek me out.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/25 05:14 PM
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