Neither-Ad-9896 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Tonight is the first night I felt like filing for divorce It get easier every week.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/05/24 07:42 PM
5	Why is it so hard to watch recent ex wife date? I felt that it was hard to watch her date but from her new beau’s perspective. By that I mean I felt bad for him, for he knows not what he’s done. Soon, he will begin seeing that his phone and email have been gone through regularly. Any woman he works with will be regularly vetted. He will be accused of wanting to cheat, even if it’s with someone onTV or in a movie. It will be as if he’s done something wrong when in reality he has not. Eventually? He will. I feel bad knowing that he is part of t…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/02/24 09:35 AM
15	In case you are missing your ex-wife today... Sometimes I miss having my character, Job, morals and manhood manipulated to someone else’s benefit. I miss someone hacking into my email, going through my phone, working underemployed jobs and spending the money I earned. I miss someone creating fake Facebook profiles to see what my reaction would be to messages. I miss the fights and drama. I miss feeling guilty that I have a family and someone else doesn’t. I miss being told what to think. I miss having religion shoved down my throat. Yeah. T…	/r/Divorce_Men	16/01/24 12:32 PM
6	Am I overthinking the consequences of getting married? Marriage is an antiquated notion. People do not need the institution of marriage anymore. Women are no longer viewed as subservient to men, and the risks and consequences of these “equal” partners taking you to the cleaners when the divorce eventually takes place far outweigh the benefits. While society no longer views women as needing men, the justice system never got that memo. Alimony will put you on the brink of suicide. You will be paying her bills, subsidizing her efforts to attract anothe…	/r/Divorce_Men	18/11/23 02:32 PM
22	Divorce initiators, do you regret it? No. In fact, I wish I had filed three years earlier. She got six years of alimony. I got my life back. Had I not filed, she’d have just made life hell for a longer period of time. Alimony is now paid off. Because I initiated, I can now enjoy my life for a little while longer.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/07/23 11:30 AM
1	Theory: Putting your self in debt prior to divorce? Heads up…you put yourself in debt the day you got married.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/07/23 11:19 AM
8	How much did divorce cost you? What is past is past. I hold no grudges. We’ve not spoken since, seven plus years now. After 19 years of marriage. I agreed to the terms, paid them all, and in return, got a new lease on life. I’ve been told she squandered every penny, saved nothing, and is back to square one. As for me, I’m happy. And she has no power over me anymore. That’s why 180K was a steal.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/07/23 07:10 PM
3	How much did divorce cost you? GA	/r/Divorce_Men	04/07/23 04:26 PM
7	How much did divorce cost you? 144K in alimony (no kids), 20 K to pay off balance on her car, 14 K in back taxes and 2K toward her lawyer. So 180K. For 180K, I got my life back. For me? That’s a steal.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/07/23 03:33 PM
2	Is marriage that bad? 49% of the time, maybe. 51% of the time, you are now the insurance policy payout source for your ex.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/06/23 11:05 AM
2	I'm not going to date for a year. Wish me luck. You’ll be much happier. Seriously. Marriage is indeed an antiquated concept, an outdated institution designed to fail most of the time. When it fails, the man ends up on the hook. So what is the point of dating? To test the waters for a possible marriage? To see if two people are compatible for something more? Or is it just for companionship? Sex is not worth the risk that comes with dating. It simply is not. So by holding off on dating, perhaps you will rediscover yourself. Tinder is always the…	/r/Divorce_Men	29/04/23 08:59 AM
1	Divorce trial completed. Georgia is perhaps the most divorce friendly state. Still, alimony - life support for suddenly dependent women - is a bitch. I just finished six years of ridiculous payments. She didn’t save it - she just lived off of it. Six years later, she’s moved in with a dude she met a couple of months ago. A real shit hole. I’m remarried and much happier. Better home, better life. My point? Alimony only enables the spouse receiving it. It prolongs the inevitable. Judges should recognize this. In the end, …	/r/Divorce_Men	18/03/23 02:50 PM
1	Whose paying the most alimony in this sub ! Let’s start naming figures boys 2000 per month, for 72 months. 4 months to go. Need a creative way to send the last one.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/02/22 11:22 PM