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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 12 | How do I finally achieve a breakthrough? | Inner Game | Neither_Fun_5170 | /r/seduction | 11/06/25 10:33 AM |
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| 2 | How do I finally achieve a breakthrough?Thank you for your comment and post, they definitely resonated with me and I like your framework of different growth phases and cycles. My first intuition was also to just "focus on myself" indefinitely again because of this plateau. But I also really don't want to completely shut romance out of my life as I did last year. Because that is just me avoiding the discomfort. And I love going on dates. I will try to zoom out for a bit and then readjust. Right now I am focusing more on my fitness and … | /r/seduction | 11/06/25 09:59 PM |
| 2 | How do I finally achieve a breakthrough?They were all 22 - 26 years old and also students. It depends on the date but when the connection was there I really enjoyed the eye contact and conversation and I feel like they did too. However , I think that I am not polarizing enough sometimes. Maybe I will just give an example? So this girl and I first met up for a walking date which went on for a long time, showed her a nice scenic view on top of the city and talked a ton about shared interests, traveling and so on. The second date was at … | /r/seduction | 11/06/25 09:01 PM |
| 3 | How do I finally achieve a breakthrough?All good, fair enough. I wasn't trying to rate myself compared to others. I was just saying that I improved in these aspects compared to the version of myself from 2 or 3 years ago. I know that there is still a lot to do and I am probably about average in most things. What I actually wanna know is the method. Like how do you actually make transformative leaps in these things? Was it a mindset shift? If yes, how did you achieve that? Did it just click at some point? Or is it just putting yourself… | /r/seduction | 11/06/25 11:38 AM |
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