Nekokeki Archive

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1	How do you keep conversations going indefinitely with people that you have few-to-no things in common with? I think everyone else has covered the whole listen, ask questions, etc etc. All I want to point out is that you really just need to start taking to new people. I say hi to neighbors, talk in elevators, chat in line, say hi to co-workers a lot etc. That and over the past few months I've been on several dates. Think about things you were initially scared to do... then did a few times, only to realize you got over that fear and were comfortable. I've held conversations with so many girls on dates, …	/r/seduction	26/02/15 07:44 AM
1	Staying in tonight 'cause I don't feel good, gonna finally make a Tinder and OKC, what are the best online dating resources? OKC and Tinder are great to pick up dates. I've had to stop messaging people, because I'm booked a week out in advance now. Hinge looks good so far, but be careful using that purely as hookup with it being based around mutual Facebook friends. I think it's nice for dating though. Match.com I haven't tried, but I've heard it's decent for dates. PoF I haven't used, can't comment on.	/r/seduction	04/01/15 07:09 PM
1	Finally realized what my weakness was, monitored it, but still failed. What did I do wrong? I'm not as knowledgeable as most commenting, but outside of what has already been said, I wouldn't have gone clubbing for the second date. It sounds like you'd have given yourself a better shot if you isolated her with a different activity.	/r/seduction	04/01/15 07:04 PM
1	Good deodorant / cologne mix that you've had success and compliments from? I like old spice and dove for men deodorants. I personally tend to favor the softer scents over the ones trying to smell like cologne. DfM: Clean Comfort OS: Matterhorn Cologne I have gotten a ton of compliments on Polo Sport Explorer and their Double Black	/r/seduction	02/01/15 02:33 AM
3	How to become a better dancer in club-style environments. I've been salsa dancing for years. It's fun for girls, even in club situations. It's also a great date when you get past the first and second dates.	/r/seduction	02/01/15 02:29 AM
1	How to avoid bragging and instead demonstrate value in both conversation and on social media websites Sure I hope it helps! I have some goofy hobbies myself and girls like them. It's all about how you sound when you present them. I make them sound fun and exciting, because I express my passion for them. I also know that they are a part of who I am, I don't care if they accept them. Better to weed the non compatible ones out! Good luck :) Edit: Swype corrections...	/r/seduction	31/12/14 03:40 PM
1	How to avoid bragging and instead demonstrate value in both conversation and on social media websites You need to own you're hobbies more. Instead of talking about them and sounding like you need our approval, think about why you're passionate for them. Think about the great and funny memories you have and share that with the girl. It's not always that the girl needs to relate with x hobby, it's that they see why you value it, connect with that, and they like that you're passionate about something. Practice it proud if you're unsure how to present it. Think of it as an interview question and get…	/r/seduction	31/12/14 11:06 AM
1	Notes and tips from 5 months of heavy tindering I like the adventure of meeting random girls, but I also like the sound of Hinge. I just made my profile, it looks promising so far.	/r/seduction	31/12/14 10:56 AM
0	Infatuation game Yup.	/r/seduction	31/12/14 10:12 AM
3	Notes and tips from 5 months of heavy tindering Also great feedback. Thank you. Yeah, she is really receptive to bantering and conversational. I'm also booked this week for dates, so it's worth the time to invest more into it I think. It's too bad you aren't in Seattle, our dating/mindset etc seems to relate. Would be fun to follow up on this. I'll give Tinder a try this week.	/r/seduction	30/12/14 08:13 AM
1	Notes and tips from 5 months of heavy tindering Thanks! Makes sense.	/r/seduction	30/12/14 08:07 AM
1	Notes and tips from 5 months of heavy tindering Q: what is the time frame you need to message after matching? Is there a time frame? I have a bunch of matches, but I never sent messages to any. Could I follow up on those or are Tinder girls very perceptive about that and hold that against me?	/r/seduction	30/12/14 07:16 AM
3	Notes and tips from 5 months of heavy tindering You sound a lot like me, haha. Thank you for the write up OP. I've been doing all of this on OKC, but haven't tried Tinder yet. 100% agree on moving quickly to getting a date. I'm still trying to learn with resistance to get to the date though. One girl, some decent banter then got the number despite resistance. A little more banter only to not hear back when I asked about meeting up. Not sure how to pursue from there.	/r/seduction	30/12/14 07:03 AM
1	Did her cube in a social setting. What did I do wrong? Will do, cheers.	/r/seduction	28/12/14 02:48 AM
1	Online sources with dating and self improvement topics Apparently I need to read me some Mark Manson. It's referenced in here all the time and I haven't yet taken a peak!	/r/seduction	28/12/14 01:35 AM
1	Going out by my self. That's a good way to get yourself in a good mindset too, at least early on. I like it.	/r/seduction	28/12/14 01:33 AM
2	Did her cube in a social setting. What did I do wrong? I'm happy to Google Cubing and find info for myself unless you have any recommendations? Haven't heard of it.	/r/seduction	28/12/14 01:16 AM
1	Spontaneous "canned" openers. I always open with "Hi my name is Nekokeki." I don't do anything that isn't unnatural. Also, you can still all them about microbrews or whatever you want to talk about... after opening with something more genuine. :)	/r/seduction	28/12/14 01:09 AM
1	How to present as older (Being an adult). Some personal notes. I think one difference is expectations with texting. I think most older woman are less conversational, whereas a younger woman you're probably constantly sending gifs, pictures and chatting. They just need a bit more space from my experience so far.	/r/seduction	28/12/14 12:57 AM
1	Is constantly being called cute or sweet a way of saying I'm not hot or date-worthy? It's not awful. It means you're close to the friend zone though, so you either need to escalate or move on.	/r/seduction	28/12/14 12:54 AM
1	Went on a date, lots of touching and laughing, kissed her... but now she isn't responding to my text. Just send her another funny text that doesn't require a response if you'd like. Whether you do or don't I'd go straight to being forward and just invite her out for a night your free. Some people aren't that conversational over text or just forgot to get back to you and she felt it was too late. There are a million reasons. So, just ask her out and are what happens.	/r/seduction	28/12/14 12:52 AM
1	"I'm gonna go now" Good on ya! Not an easy decision to make in that moment. I've been in this situation before as well and I don't regret leaving one bit.	/r/seduction	28/12/14 12:45 AM
1	The good thing about Oneitis. I'm walking in a thin line of this happening to me in the near future. This is good motivation to keep being me and focus on that.	/r/seduction	25/12/14 10:46 PM
1	How do I initiate dancing? I actually love this, haha.	/r/seduction	23/12/14 08:38 AM
2	Is saying "hey, I thought you were cute and so on" really a bad opener? Exactly. That's not to say you should give up if she pulls away though. However, it's useful to know if she doesn't. It's easy to escalate into a hand caress or grab her elbow from there while you laugh too. It's something I've always naturally done without understanding what I was doing really. This post explains it better than I can. I'm sure there is other posts that go into great detail. Hope it helps :) Milking the intro	/r/seduction	06/12/14 07:43 PM
1	Is saying "hey, I thought you were cute and so on" really a bad opener? I'm by no means an expert, here is what I generally do though. "Hi, I'm David." Extend hand for introduction and I usually keep my hand holding theirs to gauge interest. If they keep holding it, it's a good indicator they want to talk. You, at that point, have established some light kino as well. I rarely use any type of line, unless it's something funny I've observed or just something I feel like talking about on the spot.	/r/seduction	06/12/14 06:06 PM
1	Who wants a free copy of my new e-book "The Best She's Ever Had: A Practical Guide to Great Sex for Straight Men?" Signed up, would also like to read through the book. Just sent you an email. Cheers.	/r/seduction	04/12/14 08:55 AM
2	Own Yourself This speaks volumes to me and my past 7 months. I was laid off, my car stopped working, my computer blew up, and my grandpa died. I had oneitis for a French girl I met in vacation too and that was around when she stopped talking to me. All I could think of was that I was single, unemployed and a few months later living with my parents. I occasionally hopped on online dating, but got tired of explaining my situation and trying to justify it and see them lose interest. That's when I started readin…	/r/seduction	18/11/14 08:00 AM
4	How I show interest in a guy Thanks OP, I welcome a female perspective on here. Nice post.	/r/seduction	14/11/14 05:13 AM
2	One day, you'll go from a zero to a hero Great post. Mindset is so important and this helps with my own perspective. Part of the issue for me in the past was trying to get in a mindset when I'm out. I would compare it to the same error of going on a diet, it being a temporary thing. In reality in needs to be a lifestyle change or in this case a permanent mindset change overall. Nice seeing another gamer out there and being polarizing about it. In the past I would downplay it. Tell them more if they ask and make it sound less apart of m…	/r/seduction	09/11/14 11:20 AM